Blog: Being loved wrong by the wrong partner! by: Brandee Marie Darden! Date of blog: Friday, July 18th, 2025!!

                                       💔  Blog: Being loved by the wrong partner! by: Brandee Marie Darden! Date of blog: Friday, July 18th, 2025!! This blog episode is dedicated to anyone who is in the wrong relationship and their partner isn't treating them right! This blog is for y'all!! 💔 

Intro to my blog! 

Well, hello my wonderful Blogger Dreamers! It's your girl aka the Blogger Queen herself, Brandee here and welcome back to an all new weekly blog episode for the day! How are y'all doing today? I hope and pray that everyone is doing okay and well! Whatever y'all might be going through or whatever y'all got you in the dumps, just know that y'all are loved and I'm always here for y'all, no matter what! Happy Friday or in other countries, Happy Saturday! Before I forget, I will be taking a break next week but I will be coming back on July 28th, so stay tuned on my Makeup and Fashion blog page! Stay tuned!! On Wednesday, I talked about my poem "Friends to strangers". This poem is all about how friends became strangers! When you have done so much for a person but they don't do anything for you in return, so instead they ended up leaving you high and dry! Want to know more about this blog? You can check it out right here: →Friends to strangers!← Please, give this blog episode a read! You won't regret it!! Now, for today's blog episode, I will be talking about being loved by the wrong partner! This blog episode is dedicated to anyone who is in the wrong relationship and their partner isn't treating them right! This blog is for y'all! In this blog episode, I will be talking about when I think about being loved wrong by the wrong partner, what comes to mind? Why does it come to mind like that? In my opinion, why is it wrong to love someone the wrong way? Why is it wrong to love that person wrong? Now, let's get our thinking caps on and get this blog episode started! Shall we? We shall! 

How should someone be loved? Why they should be loved that way?  

How should someone be loved? The way someone should be loved is by showing that person how much they are cared for and how much they mean to someone!! I believe in showing my love by either making something for someone or writing down letters for a person! I believe in showing love by making that person feel good by letters to remind that person how much they are loved and how much they are cared for!! When a person hears words, it will remind them how much they are loved and how much they are cared for!! Why they should be loved that way? The reason why they should be loved that way is because words have a strong impact on a person and if your words don't leave any impact on a person, then why are you telling that person? Leave your impact on a person! They might need a positive person in their life!!! 

Comes to mind? 

When I think about being loved wrong by the wrong partner, what comes to mind? When I think about being loved wrong by the wrong partner, I think about how your partner can love you wrong!! Being loved wrong by the wrong partner can be tough at times!! When you are loved by the wrong partner, it shows you that you don't need that person and that you need to step away from that relationship!! You don't deserve to be loved wrong!! 

Why? 

Why does it come to mind like that? The reason why it came to mind like that is because when you are being loved by your partner, your partner is showing you that being loved wrong is okay which is not okay! Your partner is showing you that being loved wrong by not giving you the affection that you need or the love that you need is not needed and that is also wrong! Everyone deserves to be loved and have affection and if you don't have that, then your partner is not giving you the love and affection that you deserve and that's wrong! You need a partner to love you unconditionally and be there for you, no matter what!! Find a person who is going to treat you right, not wrong!! 

my opinion!! 

In my opinion, why is it wrong to love someone the wrong way? In my opinion, the reason why it is wrong to love someone the wrong way is because if you show your partner that not giving them that attention or the love that they absolutely deserve, then you are showing them that it is acceptable and that's wrong on so many levels! No one doesn't deserve to be loved wrong! Everyone deserves to be loved the right way and if you are not being loved the right way, kick that person to the side!! Be loved right!! 

Why?

Why is it wrong to love that person wrong? The reason why it is wrong to love that person wrong is because if you are not giving that person the time of need or the affection that they need, then you are not loving that person and that's wrong! If you are not giving your partner what they need in a relationship or even in a friendship, then you don't need that! You shouldn't have to deal with someone who isn't going to be a good boyfriend or girlfriend or husband or wife or even a best friend at that!! Being loved wrong shouldn't be tolerated and don't be loved wrong!! 

In closing/ Tip of the day! 

In closing, you should never tolerate anyone love you wrong! If you are not getting the affection that you need or the time or effort that your partner is putting to spend time with you or even come and see you, then you don't need to be with that person! You don't need to be with someone who doesn't make you happy at all and if that person doesn't make you happy, move on from that person! If that person isn't making time or effort into the relationship, move on!! Here is my tip of the day: My tip of the day is if your partner isn't giving you the time of day or the effort to come see you or even giving you the love that you absolutely deserve, forget them and move on with your life because you deserve the absolute best and if you are not getting the absolute best, then you don't deserve that at all! I love y'all!! 

Well, hello my Blogger Dreamers! It's your girl aka the Blogger Queen herself, Brandee here and y'all just reached the end of today's blog episode of the day!! The moral of this blog episode is no one deserves to be loved wrong! If you are being loved wrong, then move on because you deserve to be loved better!! Don't ever settle for less because if you settle for less, you are putting yourself down and that's wrong! If you are feeling unloved by your partner or your so called friends or even your family, walk away and don't look back because you don't need that person in your life! You deserve so much better and you deserve to be happy!! For today's Bible Verse of the day, it is taken from Revelation 19:1 and it says "And after the things I heard a great voice of much people in heaven, saying, Alleluia; Salvation, and glory, and honour, and power, unto the Lord our God": When you praise God's name, that can be heard from heaven! When you praise God's name, you are worshipping him and giving him all the praise that he deserves! Give God all the praise! I love y'all and let's not forget to always "Dream Big! Don't give up on your dreams" and let's show the whole world how amazing God's love is and how cool Jesus is today! I am also reminding everyone that I will be taking a break next week but I will be back on Monday, July 28th on my Makeup and fashion blog page, so stay tuned! I love y'all and have a good day or had a good day! See ya when I get back! Blogger Queen out! ✌❤✌❤✌❤✌❤✌❤✌❤

Today's Bible Verse of the day! When you are praising God, you are giving your voice and when he hears you praising his name and worshipping him, it shows him that you are his child!! Always worship and praise God's name!! 

"If your partner 
isn't bringing 
out the best
in you, you're 
in the wrong
relationship". 
-Unknown. If your partner isn't bringing the best or even the worst out of you, don't be with that person! You want a person who will bring the best and the worst out of you! Don't settle for less! 

"The wrong person 
makes you beg for
attention, affection, 
love and commitment.
The right person gives 
you these things 
because they love you". 
-Kristan Higgins. If the person has to make you beg for the love or attention or even a commitment to love you, then you are in a wrong relationship because you shouldn't have to beg for anything but if you are in the right relationship, the guy or the girl is showing you this is what you need and that's that!! 

"Love doesn't hurt.
Loving the wrong 
person does". 
-Unknown. Love doesn't hurt but when you end up loving the wrong person and getting hurt at the end, that will cost a lot!! Getting hurt at the end by the wrong person will hurt! Be careful with your heart!! 

To end today's blog episode, here is this week's song of the week! For this week's song of the week, I chose "Beautiful Things" by: Benson Boone. When I listen to this song, I think about the things that I have and how God can take away those things in a blink of an eye!! Be thankful for what you have! I love y'all and have a good day or had a good day!! 

Blog: Analyzing my poem "Friends to strangers" by: Brandee Marie Darden! Date: Wednesday, 7/16/25!!

                                       😢💔 Blog: Analyzing my poem "Friends to strangers" by: Brandee Marie Darden! Date: Wednesday, 7/16/25!! This blog episode is dedicated to anyone who was friends with people and all of the sudden, they became strangers!! This blog episode is for y'all! 💔😢 

Intro to my blog! 

Well, hello my Blogger Dreamers!! It's your girl aka the Blogger Queen herself, Brandee here and welcome back to an all new weekly blog episode for the day! How are y'all doing today? I hope and pray that everyone is doing okay and well!! Whatever the circumstances might be or whatever got you down in the dumps, just know that y'all are loved by so many people and you are doing such an amazing job! I love y'all! Happy Wednesday or in other countries, Happy Thursday! Who is ready for an all new blog episode for the day? I know that I am but 1st, a blog recap from Monday! On Monday, I talked about my poem "No longer". The poem is all no longer having people who cared or feeling loved by those people! Having people who no longer cared about you or feeling loved by those people, it hurts because you can do so much for those people but they are not appreciative and that is hard!! Want to know more about this blog episode? You can check it out right here: →"No longer" by: Brandee Marie Darden!← Please, go check it out whenever y'all can! Please! Thank you all so much!! For today's blog episode, I will be analyzing my poem "Friends to strangers". This blog episode is dedicated to anyone who was friends with people and all of the sudden, they became strangers! This blog episode for y'all! In this blog episode, I will talking about what is my poem all about? Why is this poem all about? When I think about the friends who are strangers to me, how does it make me feel? Why does it make me feel a certain way? What is is my advice to my Blogger Dreamers who has friends who are now strangers? Why would I give that advice to my Blogger Dreamers? Now, without any disruptions or distractions, let's get this blog episode started! Shall we? We shall!! 

Talking about my poem!! How does this poem relate to my life? Why does this poem relate to my life? 

On Thursday, June 19th of this year, I typed up a new poem called "Friends to strangers" by: Brandee Marie Darden! This is how the poem goes: "Friends to strangers" by: Brandee Marie Darden! 

"We used to be friends, but we

are now strangers! I don't know 

who you are because you don't 

talk to me anymore! You went 

from being there for me to now,

a stranger that doesn't know

anything about me! We are no 

longer friends, but strangers"! 

Love, Brandee Marie Darden! 

Date of my poem: Thursday, 6/19/25!! How does this poem relate to my life? The way this poem relates to my life is I used to be friends with people I thought cared about me and supported me through thick and thin but I guess I was wrong and to me, it hurts!! Those people left me at crucial times at my life and that's wrong!! Why does this poem relate to my life? The reason why it relates to my life is because I had my so called "friends" leave me because they either stopped caring about me and that's okay because I never needed those people anyway but don't worry because karma has its way!! 

All about? 

What is my poem all about? This poem is all about how my so called "friends" became strangers to me!! When I thought these so called "friends" became strangers to me, it kind of hurts! When you do so much for a person by being there for them by supporting them and loving them and you get nothing in return, it is selfish and hurtful!! It shows who really is there for you and love you for who you are!! 

Why?

Why is this poem all about? This poem is all about how my so called "friends" became strangers to me and the reason why it is about that is because when you have been there for people who you loved so much but they stop being there for you, tears you apart because you have done so much for a person and when that person stops contact with you and stops checking up on you, it is hard on a person and it hurts! Here lately, I have been wondering who my real friends are and that hurts me because I wonder who is there for me or who isn't or who my real family is! It's hard!!

My feelings! 

When I think about the friends who are strangers to me, how does it make me feel? When I think about the friends who are strangers to me, it makes feel really sad! I have been there for people time after time after time and they have left me and it makes me feel worthless! It hurts me!! I have been there for people who I really thought my friends but they showed me time after time that they never needed me and I am okay with not needed those people! If people aren't going to be there for me, then I don't need those people! It's only fair and I don't need fakes in my life!! If you are going to be a fake in my life, leave! I don't need that in my life!! 

Why? 

Why does it make me feel a certain way? The reason why it makes me feel a certain way is because it makes me realize I was never needed by those people! I was never needed by those people because I had made changes in my life and those people can't stand the new me which is totally fine, I honestly don't care because if you can't love me at worst, you can't love me at my best and that's fine! I honestly don't care because I don't need people who aren't going to be there for me!! I am okay with a few people in my life!! 

My advice! 

What is my advice to my Blogger Dreamers who has friends who are now strangers? To my Blogger Dreamers who has friends who are now strangers, my only advice to y'all is don't worry about those people anymore! If those people weren't there for you, then you don't need them in your life! Focus on those people who do need you!! There are people who do need you and who will support you through everything! Find those people who will be there for you!! Those people are important!! 

Why?

Why would I give that advice to my Blogger Dreamers? The reason why I would give that advice to my Blogger Dreamers is because if those people don't care about you, then you shouldn't care about them! When you do everything for that person and they stopped checking up on you, it is obvious that they never need you in  the beginning and they don't care about you anymore!! Don't worry about those people anymore!! Focus on people who care about you!! 

In closing/ Tip of the day! 

In closing, having people who you thought were friends but turns out they are just strangers, it is like a kick in the gut because you thought they were going to be there for you, but they went behind your back and stab you in the back and showed you their true colors and that's sad!! People will show you their true colors and once they show you true colors, it reminds you that you were never needed by those people and you needed to move on with your life!! My only tip of the day is if people decided to leave you, leave them too because if they never needed you in the beginning, then why hang around? Don't hang around people who don't need you!! Be there for someone who needs you and who will never leave you! I love y'all! 

Hello, my Blogger Dreamers! It's your girl aka the Blogger Queen herself, Brandee here to remind everyone that y'all just reached the end of today's blog episode for the day! I hope and pray that y'all enjoyed today's blog episode for the day!! The moral of this blog is when you thought who were your real friends but it turns out that turned strangers to you and that hurts a lot because you thought you could trust them but you can't!! Don't trust anyone who will stab you in the back because once you get stabbed in the back by that person, you can no longer trust that person anymore! For today's Bible Verse of the day, it is taken by Revelation 21:4 and it says "And God shall wipe away all tears from their eyes; and there shall be no more death, neither sorrow, nor crying, neither shall there be any more pain: for the former things are passed away". When you pass away and go to heaven, all those things will be gone! When you go to heaven, you won't be in pain or crying!! You will be rejoicing and praising the Lord!! I hope and pray that everyone will have a good day or had a good! Happy Wednesday or in other countries, Happy Thursday!! Stay tuned for Friday's blog episode where I will be talking about being loved by the wrong partner! Stay tuned and with that being said, never forget to always "Dream Big! Don't give up on your dreams" and let's share God's love everywhere we go and let's not forget to share how cool Jesus is as well! I love y'all and so does Jesus and this Blogger Queen is out! Peace! ✌️🌸✌️🌸✌️🌸✌️🌸✌️🌸✌️🌸

Today's Bible Verse of the day!! When we pass away and go to heaven, all of those things are gone and we won't have to suffer through pain or even cry because we will be rejoicing!!! 

My poem "Friends to strangers". To the people who I thought were my friends, it turned out to be strangers and that hurts a lot!! I don't need people who are going to be there for me one minute and then, next minute, leave me because I have that with people in my life! 

"It is really weird how you go from 
being strangers, to being friends, to 
being more than friends, to being 
practically strangers all over again". 
-Unknown. When you are in a romantic relationship, you thought you were going to be more than friends with that person but they fell out of love with you and that's hard for you!! 

"And now you're just a stranger with 
all my secrets". 
-Unknown. When you tell a person who you thought were your friends, but now y'all are not friends, they have your secretes with them and that's hard!! 

I love y'all from the bottom of my heart and until next time, always remember to "Dream Big! Don't give up on your dreams" and always share God's love and share how cool Jesus is today!! I love y'all so much and see y'all on the next blog episode! Stay safe!! 

Blog: Analyzing my poem "No longer" by : Brandee Marie Darden! Date of blog: Monday, 7/14/25!!

                                          Blog: Analyzing my poem "No longer" by: Brandee Marie Darden! Date of blog: Monday, 7/14/25!! This blog episode goes out to anyone who doesn't feel they are no longer needed or they never cared for them! This blog episode for y'all! 

Intro to my blog!! 

Well, hello my Blogger Dreamers! How are y'all are doing today? I hope and pray that everyone is doing okay and well! Whatever y'all are going through or whatever got you down or whatever it is holding you back, just know that you are doing an amazing job and I am so proud of you! Keep doing what you love because you are doing an amazing job!! Happy Monday or in other countries, Happy Tuesday! Oh! Before I forget, I will be giving myself a break next week but don't freak out because I will be coming back on Monday July 28th! Stay tuned!! Moving along because who is ready for an all new blog episode for the day? I know I am but 1st, a blog recap of last week!! On last week's blog episodes, on my 2nd blog page, on Monday, I talked about what does right place, wrong time mean? Right place, wrong time means it was mean to happen in that place but the timing was off and the timing wasn't right!! Sometimes, we will want to do something for our life but it will be at the right place, the time was off and it wasn't fitting!! On Wednesday, I analyzed my poem called "Being loved wrong". One of the ways that you can get loved wrong is not getting the right attention that you absolutely deserved! When you are in a relationship or you are married, you want to feel loved by your partner but you are not getting that attention from them and it hurts you so much!! Everyone deserves love!! On Friday, I talked about what is my goal as a wife? One of my goals as a wife and it is my number #1 goal is to be a caring wife! I want my husband to know that after a long day from whatever he is doing, I want him to know that I am willing to take care of him after a long day and I will be there to help him through everything!! Want to know about last week's blog episodes? Well, I will leave the link right here: →2nd blog page!! ← Please, go give them a read! You won't regret it! For this week's blog episodes, I will be talking about two of my poems which are "No longer" and "Friends to strangers" and being loved wrong by the wrong partner! You do not want to miss this week's blog episodes and now, without any further disruptions or distractions, let's get this blog episode started! Shall we? We shall! 

Talking about today's blog episode! Why did I choose this blog topic to talk about? What is this week's song of the week? Why did I choose this song for the week? 

For today's blog episode, I will be analyzing my poem "No longer" by: Brandee Marie Darden! This blog episode is dedicated to anyone who doesn't feel they are no longer needed or they never cared for them! This blog episode is for y'all! In this blog episode, I will be talking about what is this poem all about? Why did I type up this poem all about?  When people forget about you, how does it make me feel? Why does it make me feel a certain way? What is my advice to my Blogger Dreamers who doesn't feel wanted? Why would I give that advice to my Blogger Dreamers? Why did I choose this blog topic to talk about? The reason why I choose this blog episode to talk about is because sometimes, people will stop caring about us or we are no longer needed by them and that is hard for us to accept because we do everything for those people and yet, they drop us and that's kind of rude of them!! What is this week's song of the week? For this week's song of the week, I picked out "Beautiful Things" by: Benson Boone! When I listen to this song, I think about how God can take away the beautiful things in our life and that is hard!! Why did I choose this song for the week? The reason why I choose this song of the week is because God will take away things that is precious and that is hard for us!! Enjoy those things!! 

Talking about my poem! How can I relate to this poem? Why can I relate to this poem? 

On Thursday, June 19th of this year, I typed up a poem called "No longer" and this is how it goes: "No longer" by: Brandee Marie Darden! 

"No longer needed by people 

who are not there for me! No 

longer needed because people 

forgot about who I am! No 

longer needed by people who 

never cared about me! That's 

okay because I know who cares 

about me"! 

Love, Brandee Marie Darden! 

Date of my poem: Thursday, June 19th, 2025! How can I relate to this poem? The way I can relate to this poem in my life is I am no longer needed by people who don't need me anymore! I am no longer needed by people who never cared about me! I am no longer needed by people who never loved me and that's sad!! People never needed me unless they need someone to talk to but other than that, I am no longer needed by anyone and it is destroying me a lot! Why can I relate to this poem? The reason why I can relate to this poem is because no matter how many times I was there for people, no one was never there for me!! I cared about people day in and day out, but no one cared about me and it is awful!! I could be there for people when I am depressed or my anxiety was going haywire but people don't care!! I am so sick of being there for people who said they "care" about me when they lied to me!

This poem all about? 

What is this poem all about? This poem is all about no longer needed by people who cared or loved you in anyway! This poem is all about being no longer needed by people who thought cared about you or loved you, but they showed their true colors!! I have had people leave me left and right!! You know why people leave me left and right? They didn't need me anymore and to be honest, that honestly hurt me!! I have been there for people when they were hurting or when they were sad, but what about me? What about my feelings? No one cared about my feelings!! I mainly focus on people who cares about me!! 

Why? 

Why did I type up this poem all about? The reason why I type this poem all about no longer needed by people who cared or loved you in anyway because people are selfish and they never cared about my feelings! No matter how many times I have been there for me, people left me in the dirt and just left me there because they didn't care about me!! I could be there for others when I was having my mental health issues but no one is there for me and that's fine! It hurts when I would need someone but who is there for me when I need them? I will focus on the right people who is actually there for me!! 

People forget about you?

When people forget about you, how does it make feel? When people forget about me, to be honest, it makes me hurt!! When people forget about me, it makes me realized that I never needed those people and I need to focus on people who don't forget about me!! I need to focus on people who do love me and who is willing to listen to me times are tough! It just hurts to think about the people who I thought I would be close with forever but they decided to me distant from me and that's hard for me!! I never thought I would go through something like dealing with fake people in my life but here I am and that's hard for me! I have this heart of gold and when you hurt my heart, you hurt it and I would never forget what you have done to me but I can forgive you!! 

Why?  

Why does it make me feel a certain way? The reason why it make me feel a certain way is because when people tend to forget about me, it hurts! I will be there for people time after time after time but who is there for me when I need people the most? No one because I am that person who can figure things out on her own because if people want to leave me and no longer be there for me, then I will do the same and I am okay with that because I need to live my life and focus on the right people who is willing to listen to me and be there for me and I am okay with that!! 

My advice! 

What is my advice to my Blogger Dreamers who doesn't feel wanted? To my Blogger Dreamers who doesn't feel wanted, my advice to y'all is there are people who want you in their life! Focus on those people who do care about you!! There are people who love you and would do anything for you! Focus on those people who do!! Don't worry about those people who don't care about you or love you!! Focus on those people who will listen to you! Those people are the most important people in your life!! Focus on them!

Why?

Why would I give that advice to my Blogger Dreamers? The reason why I wanted to give that advice to my Blogger Dreamers is because I know what it is like to be forgotten by people who didn't care about me or who stopped loving me or people stopped checking up on me when time after time after time I would check up on people but they never do it for me and to be honest with y'all, it hurts me so much!! No matter how many times I will check on people, no one won't be there for me and to be honest, I am done with people who don't care about me and I am willing to focus on people who will be there for me, no matter what! 

In closing/ Tip of the day! 

In closing, being no longer loved or care by others is something that is hard to accept because when you do something for that person, they are never thankful or they don't tell you how thankful they are! They are mean and selfish! People think you should drop everything just to be there for them and that's not right at all!! For me, it hurts to know that I had people who I thought they loved me and cared about me, but they showed me true colors and that is hard for me!! For me, I will do anything for anyone but if I am no longer needed in your life, then leave me because I don't need fake people hanging around me! Here is my tip of the day! My tip of the day is Focus on those who do care about you because those are the most important people in your life and they will never leave you or stop supporting you! Focus on those people!  I love y'all! 

Well, hello my wonderful my Blogger Dreamers! It's your girl aka the Blogger Queen herself, Brandee here to remind everyone that y'all just reached the end of today's blog episode for the day!! I hope and pray that everyone enjoyed today's blog episode for the day! The moral of this blog episode sometimes, you are no longer needed by that person or those people and that's okay because you don't need those people in your life anymore! Focus on people who will drop anything without making a big fuss and focus on people who do love you because there are people who do love you!! For today's Bible Verse of the day, it is taken by Isaiah 53:5 and it says "But he was wounded for our transgressions, he was bruised for our iniquities: the chastiment of our peace was upon him; and with his stripes we are healed". Back in Isaiah's day, God was giving a curtain time about the future Messiah who will die for us for our sins and that future Messiah is Jesus! He will die for our sins and he will be bruised and beaten and mocked!! I love y'all and I pray that  everyone will have a good day or had a good day!! Always remember to "Dream Big! Don't give up on your dreams" and let's share how amazing God's love is and how cool Jesus is today! Also, stay tuned for an all new blog episode for Wednesday where I will be analyzing my poem "Friends to Strangers". Stay tuned and this Blogger Queen is out! I love y'all and Jesus also loves you! This Blogger Queen is out! ❤❤❤

Today's Bible Verse of the day!! Back in Isaiah's day, God was giving curtain time and talking about the future Messiah who  is Jesus Christ the one who will go to the cross and die for our sins! He will be beaten and bruised!! 

My poem "No longer" by: Brandee Marie Darden!! When I think about the meaning about this poem, it hurts because I have been there for a lot of people in my life and they no longer needed me anymore and honestly, it hurts so much but karma will bite those people in their butt!! 

"I no longer force things. 
What flows, flows.
What crashes, crashes.
I only have space and energy
for the things that are
meant for me". 
-Unknown. I am not going to force people to come in my life! I am not going to force people to be by my side or stay with me! If people don't want to stay in my life, then leave! I am no longer caring!! 

"I'm no
longer one 
of your 
options". 
-Unknown. Don't be someone's option because you don't need that in your life!! Focus on the people who don't make you feel like you are an option!!

To end today's blog episode, here is this week's song of the week! When I listen to this song, I think about how God gave us beautiful things in our life and he could take those things away from us in a heartbeat! Be thankful for what you have! I love y'all and I pray that everyone will have a good day or had a good day!! Don't forget that Jesus loves you and I love you too!