Wednesday, September 3, 2025

Blog: Analyzing my poem "Starting new" by: Brandee Marie Darden! Date of blog: Wednesday, 9/3/25!!

                                       ✈️🌍 Blog: Analyzing my poem "Starting new" by: Brandee Marie Darden! Date of blog: Wednesday, 9/3/25! This blog episode is dedicated to anyone who might be starting new and are nervous! Don't be nervous! Y'all got this!! ✈️🌍 

Intro to my blog!! 

Well, hello my wonderful Blogger Dreamers! It's your girl aka the Blogger Queen herself, Brandee here and welcome back to an all new weekly blog episode where I talk about anything whether it be about my poems or even what God laid on my heart! How are y'all doing today? Are y'all doing okay today? Whatever y'all might be facing or whatever got you in a funk, just know that God can get you out of that funk! Just trust in God and lead on him! Happy Wednesday or in other countries, Happy Thursday!! Who is ready for an all new weekly blog episode for today? I know that I am but 1st, a blog recap from Monday's blog! On Monday, I talked about What are 3 goals for September? If I could pick one goal for the month of September, it would have to be focusing on my mental health!! Here lately, I feel like my mental health has been on the back burner and it is time for me to focus on it more and be a little selfish because I deserve to be a little selfish every once in a while! Want to know more about Monday's blog episode? I will leave the link right here: →3 goals for September!← Link right here!! Please, go check it out whenever y'all can! Please! Thank you all so much!! For today's blog episode, I will be analyzing my poem "Starting new" by: Brandee Marie Darden! This blog episode is dedicated to anyone who might be starting new and are nervous! Don't be nervous! Y'all got this! In this blog episode, I will be talking about if I could describe starting new, how would I describe it? Why would I describe it like that? What makes me nervous about starting new? Why does that thing make me nervous about starting new? What is my advice to anyone who is starting new? Why would I give that advice to my Blogger Dreamers who is starting new? Now, let's get our thinking caps on and get this blog episode started! Shall we? We shall! 

Analyzing my poem "Starting new" by: Brandee Marie Darden! What is this poem all about? Why did I type up my poem all about? 

On Tuesday, July 8th of this year, I typed up a new poem called "Starting new" by: Brandee Marie Darden! This is how it goes: "Starting new" by: Brandee Marie Darden! 
"Starting new means a brand new start with a new 
job! Starting new means being married to the love of 
your life! Starting new means getting your dream 
house! Starting new isn't always a bad thing! It's okay 
to start new because God will want you to start new! 
Starting new will make you happy! Start new and 
never look back"! 
Love, Brandee Marie Darden! 
Typed on Tuesday, July 8th, 2025!! What is this poem all about? This poem is all about starting a new job or a new life with your partner! When you get married and you start a new life with your partner, it can be a little overwhelming at times but once you get into a routine, you will be fine! It is okay to start new and if God wants you to move, you should listen to him!! Why did I type up my poem all about? The reason why I typed up my poem all about starting a new job or a new life with your partner is because when you do start a new job or a new marriage with your partner, it can be terrifying at 1st but once you both have a routine down pat, y'all will be set for life!! Don't be scared to start fresh because that is what life is all about!! 


Starting new! 

If I could describe starting new, how would I describe it? The way I can describe starting new is a fresh start whether it is a new job or in a new marriage! When you a find a new job, you are starting new and making new work friends and it can be hard sometimes!! When you are in a new marriage, you are not thinking about yourself anymore but you are thinking about the other person as well! Being in a marriage might face some difficulties but just know that you and your partner can get through those difficulties!! Y'all don't have to face them alone!! 


Why? 

Why would I describe it like that? The reason why I would describe starting new like that is because when you get into a new job or even a new marriage, it can be a little challenging at times! When you start a new job, all you think about is "am I going to do a good job" and you will do a good job! Have faith in yourself!! When you start a marriage, it might be hard at first but you have to think about the other person as well! It's not all about you anymore! It's about you and the other person as well!! You also have to have God in the center as well!! 


Me nervous about starting new? 

What makes me nervous about starting new? I think what makes me nervous about starting new is sometimes I wonder if I will be a good wife to my soon to be husband! Sometimes, I wonder if me and some of his other family members will get a long pretty well! I wonder if I will be a good cook for him! Starting new for me is a little difficult to think about but I know that I can adapt to change very well and I know that I can do it!! 

Why?

Why does that thing make me nervous about starting new? The reason why that thing makes me nervous about starting new is because I wonder if I would be a good enough to my soon to be husband or if me and the rest of his family will get a long pretty well! When I am around new people, I tend to get nervous and I will stiff up because of how nervous I get!! For me, I love meeting new people but at the same time, I do get nervous!! I know that I can adapt to change very well like I said before but it will take sometime to do that and I know that I can do it, but it will be hard for me!! 

My advice! 

What is my advice to anyone who is starting new? To any of my Blogger Dreamers who will be starting new whether it is a new job or a marriage or even moving to a new place, my advice to y'all is don't be so nervous! You are going to do really great and I have total faith in you!! Don't be nervous! When you meet new people, be yourself and don't let your shyness get the best of you! Be the person that you were meant to be!! 

Why?

Why would I give that advice to my Blogger Dreamers who is starting new? The reason why I would give that advice to my Blogger Dreamers who is starting new is because when you meet new people like your in laws for example, you should be yourself, no matter what! Don't be nervous to be yourself because being yourself is amazing! People are going to love you for who you are because you have a personality that people will love! If you got a new job, people are going to love you there as well! Don't let your nerves get the best of you! You are going to do well and people are going to love you because you are yourself and that's important!! 

In closing/ Tip of the day!! 

In closing, yes- starting new is a little nerve wracking at times but you are going to have moments where you need to step out of your comfort zone and meet new people and yes, that's a challenge within itself but you should be who you were meant to be! If God wants you to step out of your comfort zone, do it!! When you meet new people, they will love you for who you are!!! Here is my tip of the day! My tip of the day is don't be nervous when you meet new people because you have this smile that can be contagious!! Don't let the nerves get the best of you and don't stiff up! You got this! Have faith in yourself!! Yes, change is difficult at times but it's okay because you got this! I love y'all and have a good day!! 

Well, hello my Blogger Dreamers! Guess what? Y'all just reached the end of today's blog episode for the day! Did y'all enjoy it? I am praying that y'all did because I know that I did! The moral of this blog episode is don't let your nerves get the best of you because people are going to love you and when people love you, they will love you forever!! I have my fiancé's family who I haven't met yet and they love me already!! Don't be nervous! You are going to do amazing at your job!! Yes, starting new can be nerve wracking at times but you are going to do great!! You have people who will support you!! I will support you through it!! I love y'all! For today's quote of the day, it is by Lauren Fortenberry and it says "And she learned to let go of the almost and what ifs. God was not leading her backward with burdens. But forward in faith. And she praised Him for the grace to face today". -Lauren Fortenberry. We need to learn how to let go of the what ifs and the almost because those things can burden us and if we have faith in God, he will lead us to faith and we need to praise him today! Let's have faith in God today!! I love y'all and so does Jesus!! Always remember to always "Dream Big! Don't give up on your dreams" and let's share how amazing God's love is and how cool Jesus is today! Let's love like Jesus today!! Stay tuned for Friday's blog episode where I will be talking about how does it make me feel that me and my fiancé's friendship anniversary  being on Saturday? Stay tuned for that! Let's have a good day or had a good day!! I love y'all and this Blogger Queen is out! Peace! ☺☺☺☺

Today's quote of the day by Lauren Fortenberry!! We need to learn how to let go and have faith in God because if we let go and just have faith in God, our burdens will go away! Trust in God!! 


My poem called "Starting new" that I typed up on Tuesday, July 8th, 2025! Starting new is difficult but you will get through it!! You are going to do great! Just have faith!! 


"Every new 
beginning comes 
with a learning 
curve. Be patient
with yourself, and 
trust that growth is 
happening". 
-Unknown. We go through life and we start new, there will be a learning curve! We need to learn how to be patient with ourselves and trust what is happening in our life because in life, it is a learning experience!! 


"A fresh start 
isn't a new 
place, its a new mindset". 
-Unknown. When you start fresh, you have a new mindset and you think differently!! 

I love y'all and I pray that everyone will have a good day or had a good day today! Let's love like Jesus today!! I will see y'all on Friday!! I love y'all! ☺❤☺❤☺❤☺❤



Monday, September 1, 2025

Blog: What are 3 goals for September? Blog by: Brandee Marie Darden!! Date of blog: Monday, 9-1-25!!

                                     ❤ Blog: What are 3 goals for September? Blog by: Brandee Marie Darden! Date of blog: Monday, 9-1-25!! This blog episode is dedicated to anyone who wants to focus on themselves or focus on their happiness! This blog is for y'all! ❤ 

Intro to my blog!! 

Well, hello my Blogger Dreamers! It's your girl aka the Blogger Queen herself Brandee here and welcome back to an all new weekly blog episode for the day! How are y'all doing today? Are y'all doing okay today? Whatever got y'all down in the dumps or whatever got you down, just know that God will pick you back up and be there for you through your tough times in your life along with your good days as well! Happy Monday or in other countries, Happy Tuesday! Happy September everyone! Holy smokes! We are in September already?? Wow! That was fast! I blinked and boom! It is September already but I am looking forward to this month because this month is new blogs and new tiktoks coming your way and I am so excited!! Plus, this month is fall month which is so exciting! Any of my Blogger Dreamers love fall? Comment down below if y'all are fall people? Who is ready for an all new blog episode for today? I know that I am but 1st, let's do a blog recap from last week! On Monday, I talked about what are 3 goals for me and my fiancé as a married couple? As me and my fiancé will enter into a new era of life as a married couple, I think one of the goals that I want to accomplish would have to be always communicating! I believe in communicating with your spouse or even your parents but when you are in a relationship, I believe in communicating because y'all don't communicate, things will bubble up and things will not turn out good! On Wednesday, I analyzed my poem "A loving husband". If I could describe what a husband should do for their wife, I would describe it as helping their wife out around the house or even listen to them when things are tough! We need our husbands to listen to us when we are struggling! Men, if you don't listen to your wife, you might be missing something!! Don't miss something!! On Friday, I analyzed my poem "A loving wife". If I could describe myself as a wife, the way I could describe myself as a wife is a loving and caring wife who wants to take care of her husband!! I believe that husbands should be taking care of as well!! If you are not taking care of your husband, the next woman will and you don't want that!! Want to know more about these blogs? Well, you are in luck because you can check them out right here: →2nd blog page!!←Link right here!! Now, with this week's blog episodes, I will be talking about what are 3 goals for September, my poem "Starting new", and how does it feel that me and my fiancé's friendship anniversary being on Saturday?? Now, without any further disruptions or distractions, let's get this blog episode started!!  Shall we? We shall!! 

Talking about today's blog episode! Why did I choose this blog episode to talk about? What is this week's song of week? Why did I choose this song for the week? 

For today's blog episode, I will be talking about What are 3 goals for September? This blog episode is dedicated to anyone who wants to focus on themselves or focus on their happiness!! This blog episode is for y'all! In this blog episode, I will be talking about if I could pick 3 goals for September, what would those goals for September be? Why would I pick those goals for September? Out of those goals, which one would I want to accomplish the most? Why would I pick that goal to accomplish the most? Why did I choose this blog episode to talk about? The reason why I would pick this blog episode to talk about is because it is important to set you some goals and setting goals are hard to set but you are not going to accomplish them over night!! What is this week's song of the week? The song that I choose for the week is "Change your name" by: Brett Young! When I listen to this song, I think about how my last name will be different as my dad's last name! When I get married, I will have the same last name as my fiancé and I am looking forward to having his last name! Why did I choose this song for the week? The reason why I choose this song for the week is because I am looking forward to being my fiancé's wife and I can't wait to see what the future holds for us!!  

What is the importance of setting goals for yourself? Why is that the importance of setting goals for yourself? 

What is the importance of setting goals for yourself? I think the importance of setting yourself goals to remind yourself that you have a goal or certain goals that you want to accomplish and it might not be easy but you can do it!! You have to have faith in yourself that you will accomplish your goals and you will! Just have faith! Why is that the importance of setting goals for yourself? The reason why that is the importance of setting goals for yourself is because it might be hard at first but when you set yourself goals for yourself, you need to remind yourself "I can't do this overnight but I can do it" and y'all can do it! Just believe in yourself and keep going!! 

3 goals for September!! 

If I could pick 3 goals for September, what would those goals for September be? As September is starting, with my 1st goal that I would pick, it would have to be focusing on my mental health!! Here lately, I feel like I have been neglecting my mental and I think it is time to put my focus on my mental health again!! I feel like I have been putting my mental health on the back burner and I want to put my mental health 1st again!! The 2nd goal for September would be focusing on God!! Instead of focusing on the people who don't care about me, I want to focus on God!! I want to give God my main attention to dive in the word of God and focus on what God wants me to do with my life! I want God to lead me on the right path of life and I want God to be the center of my life!! The 3rd and final goal that I would pick for September, it would be focusing on my happiness! Here lately, it is what everyone wants from Brandee and how to make others happy! Instead of making others happy, I want to make myself happy for once! I want to make me happy!! I am tired of making others happy!! I need to learn how to make myself happy!! 

Why? 

Why would I pick those goals for September? The 1st reason why I would pick the 1st goal as focusing on my mental health is because here lately, I have been losing focus on my mental health and focusing on everyone around me! I have been putting myself last and this month, I want to put myself 1st and make sure that I am mentally okay because I am not okay, then I need to give myself time to myself!! The 2nd reason why I would pick the 2nd goal as focusing on God is because I want God to be the center of my life! Instead of me focusing on what everyone thinks about me or what I am doing, I want to focus on what God is doing for my life and what he thinks about me! People can think about me all they want to about me! I really don't care what others think about me!! I want to focus on God and that's it!! The 3rd and final reason why I would pick the 3rd goal as focusing on my happiness is because here lately, I also have been neglecting my happiness and I need to stop making others happy when I need to make myself happy! Instead of doing what others think I should do, I should focus on what makes me happy! I shouldn't care what others think about me and I need to step away from that and make me happy!! 


Accomplish the most?

Out of those goals, which one would I want to accomplish the most? Out of the 3 goals that I mentioned, I think the main goal that I want to accomplish the most is focusing on my mental health! I want to focus on my mental health the most! I feel like I have abandoned my mental health a lot and I am attending to people who don't care about me or they are using me for something and then, they are leaving me! Instead of being there for those people, I need to channel that and put my mental health 1st! I know the focusing on God and focusing on my happiness are both good but I feel like the mental health is important for me to do and I need to learn not to put myself on the back burner! I need to help myself and make sure that I am okay!! 

Why?

Why would I pick that goal to accomplish the most? The reason why I would pick focusing on my mental health to accomplish the most is because I feel like my mental health is getting abandoned and I am not focusing on it as much as I needed to and to me, that's hard because I am constantly focusing on others needs and I am not focusing what I need and how I need it! People are always using me and never checking up on me when I need people the most! It is time to put mental health 1st and focus on me!! I need to learn how to be selfish for once and learn how to put my phone away and focus on me because I am constantly losing myself!! 


In closing/ Questions of the day? 

In closing, since it is a new month, I want to set back and learn how to put myself 1st instead of thinking about what everyone wants from me! I need to think about what does Brandee want? What does Brandee need? Not about what everyone wants or needs! I think it is okay to be selfish every once in a while and I am okay with being selfish!! I want my mental health to be okay instead of me not being okay! I always want my attention on God because God is the most important person in my life!! I want my happiness to be okay as well because I want to enjoy the things that bring me happiness, not what others think should bring me happiness! I am always putting myself last! I need to learn to focus on making me happy and focus on what I need!! I am tired of being used by people who want to us me as a clutch! I am not a clutch anymore! I am a human being who struggles with mental health and it is time to focus on my mental health! Here is today's questions of the day: My 1st question of the day is What are y'all's 3 goals for September? My 2nd question is Why would y'all pick those 3 goals for the month of September? I would love to read and respond to everyone's responses! Please, sound off in the comments down below! Please! Thank you all so much!! 

Well, hello my Blogger Dreamers! It's your girl aka the Blogger Queen herself, Brandee here to remind everyone that y'all reached the end of today's blog episode for the day!! I feel like here lately, I have been focusing on everyone else and not if I am okay with life? There are days where I feel like I am struggling and drowning because I am always here for others, but who is there for me when I need someone? I feel like I don't have anyone and I need to learn how to say "no" or tell people that I need to focus on me for an hour because that's what I need!! I need to learn how to focus on me for an hour and talk myself off the ledge because I feel like I can calm myself better and I need to get myself out of things better!! For today's quote of the day, it is by Lauren Fortenberry and it goes something like this: "And she held onto God through it all. His love was unchanging. His grace was unending. And His peace was the promise her heart needed to endure". - Lauren Fortenberry. When I went through tough times, I held unto God through it all!! His love didn't change for me! His grace was unending and he gave me the peace that I needed the most!! God kept his promises and I know that he will be there for me, no matter what! I hope and pray that today could be a good day or y'all had a good day! Please, stay safe and stay tuned for an all new blog episode for Wednesday where I will be talking about my poem "Starting new". Always remember to "Dream Big! Don't give up on your dreams" and let's share how amazing God's love is and how cool Jesus is today! Let's also love like Jesus today! I love y'all! ❤❤❤☺☺☺

Today's quote of the day!! God held me through my tough times in life! When I had no one, God was there through it all! His love about me didn't change or his grace was unending!! His peace gave me a promise that I can endure forever!! God is an amazing God and I love our God!! 


"Your mental 
health is a 
priority. 
Take care of 
yourself first". 
-Unknown. You need to take care of your mental health 1st because it is a priority and if you don't take care of your mental health, you will ended up declining and that's not good for you at all! 


"Keep Your Focus 
On God". 
-Unknown. Always keep your focus on God because he is bigger and better plans for your future and you need to trust what he is doing for your life!! Trust in God! 


"Focus on your 
own 
happiness, 
focus on your 
own life, 
focus on your
own vision". 
-Unknown. Focus on your own happiness because you need to learn how to make yourself happy! You are in control of your own life and your own visions!! Focus on what counts the most! 


To end today's blog episode, here is this week's song of the week! For this week's song of the week, I chose "Change your name" by: Brett Young! When I listen to this song, I think about how me and my fiancé will be getting married and I will have the same last name as him and I am looking forward to having the same last name as him!! I love y'all and have a wonderful day or had a wonderful day and I will see y'all on Wednesday!! ☺☺☺


 


Friday, August 15, 2025

Analyzing my poem "Walking imperfectly" by: Brandee Marie Darden! Date: Friday. August 15th, 2025!!

                                      Analyzing my poem "Walking imperfectly" by: Brandee Marie Darden! Date: Friday, August 15th, 2025!! This blog is for anyone who is being judged! Y'all don't deserve that! This blog is for y'all! 


Intro to my blog!! 

Well, hello my Blogger Dreamers! It's your girl aka the Blogger Queen herself, Brandee here and welcome back to an all new blog episode for the day! How are y'all doing today? I hope and pray that everyone is doing okay and well! Whatever y'all are going through, I am always here for y'all, no matter what! Happy Friday or in other countries, Happy Saturday! It is finally the weekend and I love the weekend!! Who is ready for a new blog for the day? I know that I am but 1st, a blog recap on Wednesday's blog!! On Wednesday, I analyzed my poem called "Marriage". If I could describe marriage, I would describe it as there would be a lot of good moments but you are going to have moments that are hard and that's all apart of marriage!! Want to know more about this blog episode? Link right here: →marriage← Link right here!! Now, moving on to today's blog episode! For today's blog episode, I will be talking about my poem "Walking imperfectly" by: Brandee Marie Darden! This blog is for anyone who is being judged! Y'all don't deserve that! This blog is for y'all!! In this blog episode, I will be talking about when I think about "walking imperfectly", what comes to mind? Why does it come to mind like that? What does judging others do to people? Why does that thing do that to people? Without any further of disruptions or distractions. let's get this blog episode started!! Shall we? We shall! 

Talking about my poem! What is the meaning behind my poem? Why is there meaning behind my poem? 

On July 3rd of this year, I typed up a new poem called "Walking imperfectly" and this is how it goes: "Walking imperfectly" by: Brandee Marie Darden! 
"Walking imperfectly means not walking 
perfectly and judging others! Walking 
imperfectly means judging yourself! 
Walking imperfectly means not being 
perfect! We all walk imperfectly and that's 
okay because none of us are perfect!! Don't 
judge others". 
Love, Brandee Marie Darden! 
Typed on Thursday, July 3rd, 2025!! What is meaning behind my poem? The meaning behind this poem is we are imperfect people who have flaws and we don't need to judge others because when we judge others, we are bringing them down and that's not good at all!! We need to stop judging others!! Why is there meaning behind my poem? The reason why there is meaning behind this poem is because we need to be careful who we judge because when we judge others, we are bringing others down and to me, that's not right at all! Just because we don't look a certain way or we don't wear certain clothing, it doesn't make the right to judge others!! Don't judge others!! 

"Walking imperfectly". 

When I think about "walking imperfectly", what comes to mind? I think what comes to mind when I think about "walking imperfectly" is embracing who I am and what are my flaws in this life! I know that I am not perfect and I never claim to be perfect but I know that God made me the way I am and I am proud to be who I am! There isn't anyone else that I don't want to be than the person that God made me!! I am going to embrace my flaws and accept them just the way they are!! 

Why?

Why does it come to mind like that? The reason why it came to mind like that is because we should accept what our flaws are and we need to accept how God made us!! God made us the way he suppose to make us! We are imperfect people who has these flaws and who have made mistakes in our life and I know that I am not perfect and I will never claim to be "perfect" because the only person who is perfect is Jesus! Jesus is perfect in every way possible!! Jesus is the one who can judge us as well!! Embrace your flaws and be who you are!! 


Judging others do to people? 

What does judging others do to people? When we judge others, it tears their self esteem down and it makes them feel less than us! When tell that person what they are wearing is awful or we judge them on their looks, we are tearing their self esteem down and it is not right at all! We don't need to judge others and leave judging to Jesus! Jesus has the right to judge us but we don't have the right to judge others!! 

Why?

Why does that thing do that to people? The reason why judging others bring their self esteem down is because when you are judging others, we make them not feel good about themselves and it hurts them! When we bring others down, we are making ourselves feel better and to be honest, that doesn't make us feel good at all! When we bring others down, we are hurting those people and not making them feel good! We need to make those people feel good and cheer them up!! 


In closing/Tip of the day! 

In closing, we need to embrace our imperfections of ourselves because God made us to be imperfect people and we need to embrace our imperfections and be who we are! We don't need to judge others on their imperfections because we don't need to judge others and bring others down! We don't have any right to do that and when we do that, we are hurting the person who we are judging! The only person who we need to leave the judging is Jesus because Jesus is the only person who can judge us!! Here is today's tip of the day: Today's tip of the day is Let's embrace our imperfections and flaws and be who we are because if we be who we are, we are showing others that it is okay to be ourselves as well! Let's show others to be ourselves and love our imperfections!! I love y'all and guess who else loves you? Jesus loves you as well! 

Well, hello my Blogger Dreamers! Guess what? Y'all just reached the end of today's blog episode for the day! The moral of this blog episode is we are imperfect people who don't need to judge other imperfect people because if we judge them, they have a right to judge us well! We make mistakes in this life and that's okay because we need to embrace those mistakes and learn those mistakes! We need to leave the judging to Jesus because Jesus has every right to judge others!! We need to be kind to one another and be nice to others! For today's Bible Verse of the day, it is from Matthew 6:34 and it is "Take therefor no thought for the morrow: for the morrow shall take thought for the things of itself. Sufficient unto the day is the evil thereof". We need to stop worrying what tomorrow might bring us because we don't know what tomorrow might bring us! Let God handle tomorrow and focus on your relationship with God! I love y'all and so does Jesus and let's have a good day today or I hope y'all had a good day today!! Let's not forget to share how amazing God's love is and how cool Jesus is today and let's also not to forget to dream big! Don't give up on our dreams and stay tuned for next week's blogs on my makeup and fashion blog page where I will be talking about my favorite Sunday church outfits, my favorite Wednesday church outfits, and the meaning behind my engagement ring! Y'all don't want to miss these blogs and I love y'all and so does Jesus and this Blogger Queen is out! Peace! ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤ 

Today's Bible Verse of the day from Matthew 6:34!! We need to stop worrying about what tomorrow might bring us because if we focus on what tomorrow might bring us, we will hurt our relationship with God! We need to give it to God and trust him!! 


My poem "Walking imperfectly" that I typed on Thursday, July 3rd of this year!! We need to embrace our imperfections and stop judging others to make ourselves feel better! God made us how we are and we need to accept that!! 


"Who am I to judge another, 
when I myself walk imperfectly". 
-Via (Quotes 'nd Notes). We don't have the right to judge others when we walk imperfectly! I can't say anything about another person because I know that I am not perfect!! 


"To judge others is humans.
To keep your opinion about 
others to yourself is 
having class". 
-Unknown. We need to be quiet about others because we don't have the right to say anything bad about the other person!! We need to be careful what we say!! 


To end today's blog episode, I chose "Heart on the window" by: Jin of BTS and Wendy of Red Velvet!! The way they sing together in this song is perfect harmony and I love this song so much! Such an amazing song!! 



Wednesday, August 13, 2025

Blog: Analyzing my poem "Marriage" by: Brandee Marie Darden! Date of blog: Wednesday, 8/13/25!!

                                                 Blog: Analyzing my poem "Marriage" by: Brandee Marie Darden!!! Date of blog: Wednesday, 8/13/25!! This blog is dedicated to anyone who is married or about to get married! This one is for y'all! 

Intro to my blog!! 

Well, hello my wonderful Blogger Dreamers! It's your girl aka the Blogger Queen herself, Brandee here and welcome back to an all new blog episode for the day! How are y'all doing today? Are y'all okay? Whatever y'all are facing today, just know we serve a mighty God will take care of you and be there for you, no matter what!! Happy Wednesday or in other countries, Happy Thursday!! Who is ready for an all new blog episode? I know that I am but 1st, a blog recap! On Monday, I analyzed my poem "A sense of emptiness"!! If I could describe a sense of emptiness, I could describe it as being empty or feeling numb!! When someone is empty or numb, they can't feel anything because they feel like they are used to this pain they are going through which is hard for a person! Want to know about this blog episode? Please, go check it out right here: →A sense of emptiness.← Please, go check it out whenever y'all can! You will not regret it! For today's blog episode, I will be analyzing my poem "Marriage". This blog episode is dedicated to anyone who is married or about to get married! This one is for y'all! In this blog episode, I will be talking about if I could describe marriage, how would I describe it? Why would I describe marriage like that? What does marriage mean to me? Why does marriage mean to me like that? Without any further disruptions or distractions, let's get this blog episode started! Shall we? We shall! 

Talking about my poem! Who should a marriage be between? Why should a marriage be between those people? 

On Saturday, June 21st of this year, I typed up a new poem called "Marriage" and this is how it goes: "Marriage" by: Brandee Marie Darden! 
"Marriage is a beautiful thing! 
Marriage is not about a piece
of paper or a ring! It is about a 
love that God put together by 
love! Marriage has its ups and 
downs, but marriage will have 
happy moments as well"! 
Love, Brandee Marie Darden! Typed on Saturday, June 21st, 2025!! Who should a marriage be between? In my opinion, a marriage should be between a man, a woman, and God! When a man and woman get married, they should have God in the middle of the marriage!! Why should a marriage be between those people? The reason why a marriage should be between a man, a woman, and God because if you and your husband have issues, y'all can always pray about it and give God the problems because God takes care of everything!! God will guide you in a marriage!! 

Describe a marriage! 

If I could describe marriage, how would I describe it? If I could describe marriage in my own way, I would describe it as happy moments but also moments where they can be hard!! You will have good moments where y'all will be happy together but you will also have moments where they are a little hard where y'all might get upset at each other and that's okay! When y'all get upset at each other, fix the issue and move on from it!! 

Why?

Why would I describe marriage like that? The reason why I would describe marriage like that is because marriage is full of good and bad moments! One minute, things are good or the next moments, things are bad but as a married couple, y'all are suppose to work things out and figure out how to get through it, not jumping down each others throats and fight about it! That's not what a marriage is all about!! Marriage is all about compromise and figuring out what is good for each other!! 

Marriage mean to me! 

What does marriage mean to me? Marriage means to me is marrying the person that you absolutely love and y'all are together forever! I believe in marrying the person that you are happy with and that's it!! I don't believe in divorce at all! Once you are with the right person, you never want to be away from that person ever again! Marriage is a commitment that will last for ever and if you are not ready for that commitment, then you still have some moments to figure out!! 

Why? 

Why does marriage mean to me like that? The reason why it means a lot to me is because marriage is a big commitment and once you make those vows to the person that you are married to, you can never go back on those vows!! If you are not ready to be with that person forever, you might want to figure things out better for y'all because marriage is a big commitment and it is commitment that you don't want to waste on it!! Marriage is huge and you want to be happy in the marriage!! 

In closing/ Tip of the day!! 

In closing, Marriage is a huge commitment!! Once you bought the ring and got on one knee, you are entering a new chapter of your life!! You are going to figure out more about each other as time goes by and once you made those vows in marriage, you are suppose to be there for that person through sickness, when money is hard, and so much other things! You should never leave a person when things are tough! I don't believe in that at all! Marriage is huge and you want to make each other happy!! Here is my tip of the day! My tip of the day is Don't make a big commitment if you are not ready for that commitment in marrying that person because once you make that commitment, you are stuck with that commitment forever! Make that commitment to marrying someone that you love! I love y'all! 

Well, hello my Blogger Dreamers! It's your girl aka the Blogger Queen herself, Brandee here and y'all just reached the end of today's blog episode for the day! I feel like people don't realize how big marriage is until they have entered it themselves and that's hard for a person! When two people enter into marriage, it is suppose to be you, your husband or wife and God! When you have God in the middle of the marriage, it will last for a long time!! You want to be happy in a marriage forever!! For today's Bible Verse of the day, it is from 2 Samuel 22:31-32 and it says "As for God, his way is perfect; the word of the LORD is tried: he is a buckler to all them that trust in him. For he is God, save the Lord? and who is a rock, save our God"? God is our shield and would protect us from all danger!! We need to trust in his word because his word doesn't lie!! I love y'all from the bottom of my heart and so does Jesus!! Stay tuned for Friday's blog episode where I will be talking about my poem "Walking imperfectly". Stay tuned for that and until next time, "Dream big! Don't give up on your dreams" and let's show the whole world how amazing God's love is and how cool Jesus is today! I love y'all and this Blogger Queen is out!! 🤍🤍🤍





Today's Bible Verse of the day!! God's way is perfect!!! God is a God who is perfect and he is our shield! He will protect us from any type of danger because God is a caring God! We serve a mighty God!! 

My poem that I did about "Marriage". Marriage to me is not about a piece of paper or a ring but it is about how much y'all love each other! When you are in with a person who you can't picture your life, you never want to lose that person!! 


"A happy marriage is
based on Respect,
Communication and
plenty of Laughter". 
-Unknown. In a marriage, y'all need to learn how to respect what y'all love or what you don't love!! There needs to be communicating if there is a problem because that can't boil into anger!! Y'all need to laugh at times because life shouldn't be serious all the time!! 


"Marry someone who thanks 
God for you, not someone 
who takes God away from
you". 
-Unknown. You want to be with someone who wants you and God to be close! You want to be with someone who will praise God with you!! God should be in the middle!! 

I love y'all! I pray that everyone will have a good day or had a good day!! Don't forget to "Dream Big! Don't give up on your dreams". God loves you and so does Jesus and see y'all on the next blog episode! ❤️❤️❤️




 


Monday, August 11, 2025

Blog: Analyzing my poem "A sense of emptiness" by: Brandee Marie Darden! Date of blog: Monday, 8/11/25!!

                                        💔 Blog: Analyzing my poem "A sense of emptiness" by: Brandee Marie Darden! Date of blog: Monday, 8/11/25! This blog episode is for anyone who feels empty! This blog is for y'all!! 💔

Intro to my blog!! 

Well, hello my wonderful Blogger Dreamers! It's your girl aka the Blogger Queen, Brandee here and welcome back to an all new weekly blog episode for the day! How are y'all doing today? Are y'all okay? I hope and pray that everyone is okay and well! Whatever y'all are going through or whatever got you down, I am here for y'all and I support y'all, no matter what! Y'all are loved and I love y'all so much!! Happy Monday or in other countries, Happy Tuesday! Who is ready for an all new blog episode for the day? I know that I am but 1st, a blog recap from last week! On my 2nd blog page- on Monday, I talked about my poem "Judging others". When I think about the title of my poem, I think about people in this world are very judgmental and how we should never judge others before we get to know their situation!! Don't judge others!! On Wednesday, I ended talking about my poem "Trouble". When I think about the word "trouble", I think about someone who is walking down the wrong path of life and getting into trouble!! Please, don't go on the wrong path!! On Friday, I talked about "Your kindness is tested". When I think about my kindness being tested, I think about people taking advantage of my kindness and using my kindness!! Never take an advantage of someone's kindness! Want to know more about these blogs? Please, go check out right here:→ 2nd blog page!! ← Now, for this week's blog episodes, I will be talking about my poem "A sense of emptiness", my poem "Marriage", and my poem "Walking imperfectly". Are y'all ready? I know that y'all are and for no distractions or disruptions, let's get this blog episode started! Shall we? We shall!! 

Talking about today's blog episode! Why did I choose this blog topic to talk about? What is this week's song of the week? Why did I choose this song for the week? 

For today's blog episode, I will be analyzing my poem "A sense of emptiness" by: Brandee Marie Darden! This blog is for anyone who feels empty! This blog episode is for y'all! In this blog episode, I will be talking about if I could describe a sense of emptiness, how would I describe it? Why would I describe it like that? What are some people who I don't see my life without? Why can't I see those in it? Why did I choose this blog topic to talk about? The reason why I choose this blog episode to talk about because everyone doesn't have that person that they can lean on and they feel empty because of not having a certain person in their life and that's sad!! What is this week's song of the week? For this week's song of the week, I choose "Heart on the window" by: Jin of BTS, Wendy of Red Velvet! This song is very upbeat and it has two powerful vocals and I love that!! Why did I choose this song for the week? The reason why I choose this song of the week is because I love the vocals in this song and it is such a good song to listen to!! 

Talking about my poem! What is the meaning behind this poem? Why is there is meaning behind this poem? 

On July 1st of this year, I typed up a poem called "A sense of emptiness" and this is how it goes: "A sense of emptiness" by: Brandee Marie Darden! 
"A sense of emptiness means having the people in 
your life that you once had! A sense of emptiness means 
not having the joy that you once had! A sense of 
emptiness means feeling empty! Don't feel empty! Find 
something that brings you joy"!! 
Love, Brandee Marie Darden! What is the meaning behind this poem? The meaning behind this poem is when a person feels empty inside, they feel like they have nothing!! When you have emptiness, you feel like you have nothing!! You always want to find joy in your life! When you find that joy in your life, you never want to give that up!! Never give up on joy! Why is there meaning behind this poem? The reason why there is meaning behind this poem is because when you feel emptiness, you feel like you  have nothing and you also feel numb but once you find joy in something you love doing, you never want to stop doing it!! 


Describe a sense of emptiness? 

If I could describe a sense of emptiness, how would I describe it? If I could describe a sense of emptiness, I would describe it as numb and feeling empty! Sometimes, you are going through stuff and when you are going through stuff, you want the feeling to go away and you want to stop feeling what you are feeling!! It is okay to feel what you feel! We are all human and it is okay to feel numb and empty!! There are things that will make us feel empty and numb and that's okay!!

Why? 

Why would I describe it like that? The reason why I would describe a sense of emptiness as numb and feeling empty is because when you feel numb and feeling empty, you can't feel anything and you don't have that joy in you anymore but once you found that joy in something that brings smile to your face, your numbness and emptiness goes away because God blessed you with something that would bring so much joy to your life whether it is a person who makes you the happiest or you enjoy doing something! Don't let the numbness or you feeling empty bring you unhappiness because you deserve to have joy in your life! 

People? 

What are some people who I don't see my life without? There are a lot of people who bring me so much joy just by being in my life and one of those people who I can't see my life without is my fiancé! My fiancé has brought so much joy in my life that if I picture my life without him, my world would be so dark!! The 2nd person or people that I can't see my life without is my dad and my bonus mom! I know there are times where we will have moments, but I don't know where I will be without my dad and my bonus mom! They make life joyful at times just by being there for me and making me laugh!! The 3rd and final person or people that I can't see my life without is the people who I came in contact from Hopewell and Sunflower and my fiancé's older sister! When I met some of the people from Hopewell including my fiancé's pastor, I couldn't picture my life without them!!! When I met my church family, I felt happy and joy and I never felt that before!! I feel happy with these people in my life!! When I met my fiancé's older sister, I felt like we have a close bond together and I never had that with anyone before and I am so blessed to have that with her! 

Why?  

Why can't I see those people in it? The 1st person or people who I can't see my life without is my fiancé, Aaron and the reason why I can't see my life without him  is because we laugh together, he has seen me cry more than anything, and we act silly and never makes me more joy is when we can laugh together! He has brought me so much joy in my life and if I lost him, everything will be so dark and I will give up on my life if he isn't apart of it!! The 2nd person or people who I can't see my life without is my dad and my bonus mom and the reason why I can't see my life without them is because my dad has been in my corner since the day I was born and I wouldn't know what I would do without him and when he met my bonus mom, my life was complete because she showed me what a mother and daughter relationship feels like and we have mother and daughter days together, I feel happy because she actually spends time with me and I have never felt so happy!! Both of them have gave me joy in my life and I am happy about that!! The 3rd and final person or people who I can't see my life without is the people who I cam in contact from Hopewell and Sunflower and the reason why I can't see my life without these people is because when I met people at Hopewell including Aaron's pastor, he made me feel welcome and happy along with his church family!! When I got to meet one of his cousin's this year, I felt like we already had connection and I never felt a connection with anyone before! When I met Aaron's older sister in person for the 1st time, it also feels like we had a good connection already and I am so blessed to have her in my life! When I met the people at Sunflower, I have never felt so happy and joyful before that I never felt happy before! I am so blessed to meet so incredibly wonderful people and I am going to miss them so much when I leave but I will never forget them!! I am so blessed to have amazing people in my life!! 

In closing/ Tip of the day! 

In closing, when you feel numb and empty, you feel like you have no one and you feel like you are empty with no feeling but when you meet so many people who fill your life with joy and comfort, you never want to lose that feeling of feeling safe and joy from those people and over the course of months and years, that is how I felt when people like my fiancé, Aaron, his church family, and my church family, and my parents, I never felt so much joy in life until I have these people in my life! Without these people, I wouldn't be so happy and never felt so much loved by those people who cared about me so much!! I also met some of Aaron's family and I have close bond with his older sister and one of his cousins and nothing makes me feel happier than having that close bond with those people because we will become family soon!! Here is my tip of the day! My tip of the day is find people who will bring you so much joy in your life because those people will make you happy and make you feel so much loved! When you have people who are care about you, never lose those people! I love y'all! 

Well, hello my Blogger Dreamers! It's your girl aka the Blogger Queen herself,  Brandee here and y'all just reached the end of today's blog episode for the day! I hope and pray that everyone enjoyed today's blog episode  for the day! The moral of this blog episode is when you feel empty and numb but when you meet people in your life that just makes sense, they make everything better and when you meet people who make life better for you, you feel nothing but happiness and that's how I feel about those people who I mentioned!! I am so happy to have those right people in my life and I never want to lose those people who make me so happy because they mean so much to me including Aaron, my wonderful fiancé! I can't picture my life without him!! For today's Bible Verse of the day, it is taken from Ephesians 2:10 and it says "For we are His workmanship, created in Christ Jesus for good works, which God prepared beforehand that we should walk in them". When we gave our life to Christ, we need to work for Jesus and we are also made in his image because God never made mistakes and God knew he never a made mistake creating you!! I love y'all and so does Jesus and I pray that everyone will have a good day or had a good day! Have a good Monday or had a good Monday and stay tuned for Wednesday's blog episode where I analyze my poem "Marriage"! Stay tuned and let's share how amazing God's love is and how cool Jesus is today! I love y'all!! This Blogger Queen is out! Peace! ❤❤❤❤

Today's Bible Verse! We are made to walk with Jesus and we are made in eyes of God!!! God prepared us and he never made mistakes!! 


My poem that I did about "A sense of emptiness" on Tuesday, July 1st, 2025!!  When you have that sense of emptiness in your life, you don't feel happy but when you meet people in your life that comforts your heart, you never want to lose those people ever!


"I keep hoping the 
emptiness will 
eventually get tired 
of me". 
-Unknown. When emptiness gets tired of you, it will eventually leave you when you find happiness your life and you will find that happiness in your life!! 


"Not happy. Not sad. 
Just empty". 
(Quotes 'nd Notes) You are not happy but you are not sad but you feel empty because you don't have something that makes you happy! Fill your life with happiness because everyone deserves to have that happiness in their life!!! 


To end today's song of the week, I chose "Heart On The Window" by: Jin of BTS, Wendy of Red Velvet! This song is so good and so amazing! Such an upbeat song which I love so much!! 




Friday, July 18, 2025

Blog: Being loved wrong by the wrong partner! by: Brandee Marie Darden! Date of blog: Friday, July 18th, 2025!!

                                       💔  Blog: Being loved by the wrong partner! by: Brandee Marie Darden! Date of blog: Friday, July 18th, 2025!! This blog episode is dedicated to anyone who is in the wrong relationship and their partner isn't treating them right! This blog is for y'all!! 💔 

Intro to my blog! 

Well, hello my wonderful Blogger Dreamers! It's your girl aka the Blogger Queen herself, Brandee here and welcome back to an all new weekly blog episode for the day! How are y'all doing today? I hope and pray that everyone is doing okay and well! Whatever y'all might be going through or whatever y'all got you in the dumps, just know that y'all are loved and I'm always here for y'all, no matter what! Happy Friday or in other countries, Happy Saturday! Before I forget, I will be taking a break next week but I will be coming back on July 28th, so stay tuned on my Makeup and Fashion blog page! Stay tuned!! On Wednesday, I talked about my poem "Friends to strangers". This poem is all about how friends became strangers! When you have done so much for a person but they don't do anything for you in return, so instead they ended up leaving you high and dry! Want to know more about this blog? You can check it out right here: →Friends to strangers!← Please, give this blog episode a read! You won't regret it!! Now, for today's blog episode, I will be talking about being loved by the wrong partner! This blog episode is dedicated to anyone who is in the wrong relationship and their partner isn't treating them right! This blog is for y'all! In this blog episode, I will be talking about when I think about being loved wrong by the wrong partner, what comes to mind? Why does it come to mind like that? In my opinion, why is it wrong to love someone the wrong way? Why is it wrong to love that person wrong? Now, let's get our thinking caps on and get this blog episode started! Shall we? We shall! 

How should someone be loved? Why they should be loved that way?  

How should someone be loved? The way someone should be loved is by showing that person how much they are cared for and how much they mean to someone!! I believe in showing my love by either making something for someone or writing down letters for a person! I believe in showing love by making that person feel good by letters to remind that person how much they are loved and how much they are cared for!! When a person hears words, it will remind them how much they are loved and how much they are cared for!! Why they should be loved that way? The reason why they should be loved that way is because words have a strong impact on a person and if your words don't leave any impact on a person, then why are you telling that person? Leave your impact on a person! They might need a positive person in their life!!! 

Comes to mind? 

When I think about being loved wrong by the wrong partner, what comes to mind? When I think about being loved wrong by the wrong partner, I think about how your partner can love you wrong!! Being loved wrong by the wrong partner can be tough at times!! When you are loved by the wrong partner, it shows you that you don't need that person and that you need to step away from that relationship!! You don't deserve to be loved wrong!! 

Why? 

Why does it come to mind like that? The reason why it came to mind like that is because when you are being loved by your partner, your partner is showing you that being loved wrong is okay which is not okay! Your partner is showing you that being loved wrong by not giving you the affection that you need or the love that you need is not needed and that is also wrong! Everyone deserves to be loved and have affection and if you don't have that, then your partner is not giving you the love and affection that you deserve and that's wrong! You need a partner to love you unconditionally and be there for you, no matter what!! Find a person who is going to treat you right, not wrong!! 

my opinion!! 

In my opinion, why is it wrong to love someone the wrong way? In my opinion, the reason why it is wrong to love someone the wrong way is because if you show your partner that not giving them that attention or the love that they absolutely deserve, then you are showing them that it is acceptable and that's wrong on so many levels! No one doesn't deserve to be loved wrong! Everyone deserves to be loved the right way and if you are not being loved the right way, kick that person to the side!! Be loved right!! 

Why?

Why is it wrong to love that person wrong? The reason why it is wrong to love that person wrong is because if you are not giving that person the time of need or the affection that they need, then you are not loving that person and that's wrong! If you are not giving your partner what they need in a relationship or even in a friendship, then you don't need that! You shouldn't have to deal with someone who isn't going to be a good boyfriend or girlfriend or husband or wife or even a best friend at that!! Being loved wrong shouldn't be tolerated and don't be loved wrong!! 

In closing/ Tip of the day! 

In closing, you should never tolerate anyone love you wrong! If you are not getting the affection that you need or the time or effort that your partner is putting to spend time with you or even come and see you, then you don't need to be with that person! You don't need to be with someone who doesn't make you happy at all and if that person doesn't make you happy, move on from that person! If that person isn't making time or effort into the relationship, move on!! Here is my tip of the day: My tip of the day is if your partner isn't giving you the time of day or the effort to come see you or even giving you the love that you absolutely deserve, forget them and move on with your life because you deserve the absolute best and if you are not getting the absolute best, then you don't deserve that at all! I love y'all!! 

Well, hello my Blogger Dreamers! It's your girl aka the Blogger Queen herself, Brandee here and y'all just reached the end of today's blog episode of the day!! The moral of this blog episode is no one deserves to be loved wrong! If you are being loved wrong, then move on because you deserve to be loved better!! Don't ever settle for less because if you settle for less, you are putting yourself down and that's wrong! If you are feeling unloved by your partner or your so called friends or even your family, walk away and don't look back because you don't need that person in your life! You deserve so much better and you deserve to be happy!! For today's Bible Verse of the day, it is taken from Revelation 19:1 and it says "And after the things I heard a great voice of much people in heaven, saying, Alleluia; Salvation, and glory, and honour, and power, unto the Lord our God": When you praise God's name, that can be heard from heaven! When you praise God's name, you are worshipping him and giving him all the praise that he deserves! Give God all the praise! I love y'all and let's not forget to always "Dream Big! Don't give up on your dreams" and let's show the whole world how amazing God's love is and how cool Jesus is today! I am also reminding everyone that I will be taking a break next week but I will be back on Monday, July 28th on my Makeup and fashion blog page, so stay tuned! I love y'all and have a good day or had a good day! See ya when I get back! Blogger Queen out! ✌❤✌❤✌❤✌❤✌❤✌❤

Today's Bible Verse of the day! When you are praising God, you are giving your voice and when he hears you praising his name and worshipping him, it shows him that you are his child!! Always worship and praise God's name!! 


"If your partner 
isn't bringing 
out the best
in you, you're 
in the wrong
relationship". 
-Unknown. If your partner isn't bringing the best or even the worst out of you, don't be with that person! You want a person who will bring the best and the worst out of you! Don't settle for less! 


"The wrong person 
makes you beg for
attention, affection, 
love and commitment.
The right person gives 
you these things 
because they love you". 
-Kristan Higgins. If the person has to make you beg for the love or attention or even a commitment to love you, then you are in a wrong relationship because you shouldn't have to beg for anything but if you are in the right relationship, the guy or the girl is showing you this is what you need and that's that!! 


"Love doesn't hurt.
Loving the wrong 
person does". 
-Unknown. Love doesn't hurt but when you end up loving the wrong person and getting hurt at the end, that will cost a lot!! Getting hurt at the end by the wrong person will hurt! Be careful with your heart!! 


To end today's blog episode, here is this week's song of the week! For this week's song of the week, I chose "Beautiful Things" by: Benson Boone. When I listen to this song, I think about the things that I have and how God can take away those things in a blink of an eye!! Be thankful for what you have! I love y'all and have a good day or had a good day!! 


Blog: Analyzing my poem "Starting new" by: Brandee Marie Darden! Date of blog: Wednesday, 9/3/25!!

                                       ✈️🌍  Blog: Analyzing my poem "Starting new" by: Brandee Marie Darden! Date of blog: Wednes...