😭💔 Blog: What are ways that I handle grief? blog by: Brandee Marie Darden! Date of blog: Monday, 2-2-26!! This blog episode goes out to anyone who is dealing with grief! I'm here for anyone who needs someone to talk to! 😭💔 
Intro to my blog episode/ recap of last week's blog episodes/ Talking about this week's blog episodes!!
Well, hello my Blogger Dreamers! It's your girl aka the Blogger Queen herself, Brandee here and welcome back to an all new blog episode for the day! How are y'all doing today? I hope and pray that y'all are doing okay! I'm here for y'all if y'all need anything!! Happy Monday or in other countries, Happy Tuesday! Oh my goodness!! We are in February and I can't believe it! That went by fast!! Who is ready for new blogs for this upcoming month? I know that I am!! Who is ready for an all new blog episode for today? I know that I am but 1st, blog recap from last week! On last week's blog episode, on Monday- I talked about what healed me in 2025? One of the things that healed me in 2025 is reassurance! Knowing that who were my real friends gave me that reassurance and that healed me a lot! On Wednesday, I talked about my poem "Don't trust people". When I think about the title of my poem, I think about trusting the wrong people in my life! I think about how I trusted the wrong people in my life and it opened my eyes a lot!! On Friday, I talked about what 3 things broke me in 2025? One of the things that broke me in 2025 is fake friends! I had people tell me "I'm here for you, no matter what" but when I need them, they are never there for me and it is hard on me!! Do y'all want to know more about these blogs? Well, you can check them out right here: → 2nd blog page!! ← Link right here!! For this week's blogs, I will be talking about what are ways that I handle grief and my two poems "Too broken" and "Stand firm". Stay tuned for those blog episodes and with that being said, let's get this blog episode started! Shall we? We shall!
Talking about today's blog episode for the day! Why did I choose to talk about today's blog episode? What is this week's song of the week? Why did I choose this song for the week?
For today's blog episode, I will be talking about what are ways that I handle grief? This blog episode goes out to anyone who is dealing with grief! I'm here for anyone who needs someone to talk to!! In this blog episode, I will be talking about if I could pick 3 ways that I handle grief, what are those ways? Why are those ways for me to handle grief? If I could give any advice to my Blogger Dreamers about grief, what is my advice? Why would I give that advice to my Blogger Dreamers? Why did I choose to talk about today's blog episode? The reason why I choose to talk about today's blog episode for today is because grief comes and it goes and when it comes, it comes in hard and it hurts so much! Grief is something that is hard to handle!! What is this week's song of the week? The song of the week is "Jesus, Heal me" by: Prayer song. When I listen to this song, I think about how Jesus can heal you! Let Jesus heal you! Why did I choose this song of the week? The reason why I choose this song of the week is because no matter what you are going through or no matter what kind of storm you are going through, Jesus is there for you and he is there to heal you! Trust that Jesus will heal you!!
What is grief to me? Why is that grief to me?
What is grief to me? Grief to me is when you see a picture of the person that you miss or a song that reminded you of them or even a color! When you see a picture or listen to a song or even see a color that reminded you of them, it is hard! You would do anything to have them back and I feel like that with a lot of people who I lost! I want them back so much!! Why is that grief to me? The reason why that is grief to me is because a picture can remind you of that person and the memory that you had with them or when you listen to a song, it could be their favorite song or when you see a color that reminded of that person, it could of been their favorite color!! Grief is hard and I miss the people who passed away!!
3 ways that I handle grief!
If I could pick 3 ways that I handle grief, what are those ways? The 1st way that I handle grief is by listening to music!! When I am sad, all I want to do is listen to music! When I listen to music, I feel much better!! The 2nd way that I handle grief is by crying!! It is better for me to let all my crying out! I would rather cry than not cry at all! The 3rd and final way that I handle grief is talking to God and reading the word!!! When I talk to God and reading his word, my heart feels so much better and I feel at peace!! I know that God is there for me, every step of the way!!
Why?
Why are those ways for me to handle grief? The 1st way that I handle grief is by listening to music and the reason why that I handle grief like that is because when I listening to music, I feel much better! When I listen to music, I feel happy! When I listen to music, I feel okay!! The 2nd way that I handle grief is by crying and the reason why that I handle grief like that is because when I hold it in, I feel like I am pretending to be okay but when I am by myself, I will cry and let everything go because it is better for me to cry than to hold it together!! The 3rd and final way that I handle grief is by talking to God and reading his word and the reason why that I handle grief like that is because when I am talking to God and reading his word, I feel at peace! I feel at peace knowing that God is with me and that he will never fail me! He is with me every step of the way!!
My advice!!
If I could give any advice to my Blogger Dreamers about grief, what is my advice? If I could give any advice to my Blogger Dreamers, it is grief is the hardest thing to ever go through in life, but you have to remember that your loved one is no longer suffering anymore! Yes, you will miss them, but you always remember the memories that you have with them! You will always remember the way that they laugh! Always remember what they were like and how happy they made you!!
Why?
Why would I give that advice to my Blogger Dreamers? The reason why I would give that advice to my Blogger Dreamers is because when you go through grief, you can through your day being all fine and well, but then something reminds you of that person whether it is a color or even a song or you might see a red cardinal or even a butterfly and it makes you sad but you have to remember that person that you love is no longer hurting! They want you to be happy!! They want you to remember the way they laugh and how happy they made you!! Grief can hit you like there is no tomorrow!! Grief is hard!!
In closing/ Tip of the day!!
In closing, grief is the hardest thing to go through in life! One day, you're fine and the next minute, you are not fine! Yes, grief is hard to handle but your loved doesn't want you to cry because they are not here anymore, but they want to remind you that no matter where you go, they are always with you, no matter what! When I listen to music, I feel so much better! I love when I listen to music whether it is Christian music or even Kpop music!! When I listen to music, I feel better! When I am by myself and I have the urge to cry, I just let it out because when I cry, I feel much better!! When I am also by myself, I love talking to my God and reading the scriptures!! I feel at peace knowing that God is there to comfort me and he will be there for me, no matter what! Here is my tip of the day: my tip of the day is find ways to handle grief because when grief hits, it hits! People handle grief in so many ways! Find ways for you that you can handle grief!! I love y'all!
Well, hello my Blogger Dreamers! It's your girl aka the Blogger Queen herself, Brandee here and y'all just reached the end of today's blog episode for the day! The moral of this blog episode is grief can hit you like a ton of bricks, but find things that could help you with your grief to keep your mind busy!! When I listen to music, I feel happy! When I listen to music when I am sad, I'm better! I love when I listen to music!! When I cry, I cry!! When I read the word of God and pray to him, he is going to take care of things! I know he would! For today's quote of the day, it is by Jungkook of BTS and it says "I guess I would meet someone who likes me the way I am". -Jungkook. You are going to meet people who will like you just the way you are or you won't have people the way you are and that's okay because you are one of a kind and be proud of who you are! I love y'all from the bottom of my heart and always remember to "Dream Big! Don't give up on your dreams" and stay tuned for an all new blog episode where I will be analyzing my poem "Too broken". Stay tuned for that and with that being said, share how amazing God's love is and how cool Jesus is today and not only we need to love like Jesus today but we need to love like Jesus everyday!! I love y'all and this Blogger Queen is out! 💕🫶💕🫶💕🫶💕🫶💕
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Today's quote of the day by BTS Jungkook! There are people who will love you just the way you are or you might not have people who won't like you and that's okay but the people who won't like you, it is going to hurt those people who won't like you!!  love is like losing a piece of yourself; the pain never truly goes away, but with time, you learn to carry it with grace". -Unknown. As time goes on, you start to learn how to live day by day without that person and that's hard! You miss them and that's hard!!  when a light goes out than it would have been if it had never shone". -John Steinbeck. When you love a person so much and that person meant a lot to you, they have impacted your life so much but when they passed on, your life has become dark, it's hard!! It feels like that light has never shone and that's hard for you to handle!!  told me that grief felt so like fear". -C.S. Lewis. Losing a love one can feel like fear because you never know how each will bring or how you will live day by day and that's so scary!! To end today's blog episode, here is this week's song of the week!! For this week's song of the week, I chose "Jesus, Heal me" by: Prayer Song. When I think about this song, I think about how Jesus will heal me through every sickness or through the storms that I'm facing! Let Jesus heal you! I love y'all and so does Jesus and have a good day today!! |
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