Friday, December 10, 2021

My poem "Every smile has a secret". By: Brandee Darden!!

                       My poem "Every Smile Has A Secret". By: Brandee Darden. 


Intro to my blog!! 


Hello, my Shinning Star Butterflies!! It's your girl, Brandee here with another blog! Happy Friday or in other countries, Happy Saturday! OMG! It's Friday already! This week is flying by! I hope everyone is doing well and amazing!! If you are not doing well and amazing, that's okay! Everything will be okay! Just take it a day at a time! Everything will be okay! On Wednesday, I talked about my blogging experience and how it has been so far and honestly; when I started my blogging experience, I didn't know how much it would mean to me or even become my daily routine! I wake up at 9 am and work on my blog and I honestly love it! I am so happy that I am doing it and I enjoy doing it so much! For today's blog, I am going to talk about my poem called "Every Smile Has A Secret". I am going to talk about when I was writing this poem, what was I thinking? Why was I thinking about that thing? What is the meaning behind that poem? Why is the meaning behind the poem so significant? If someone is hiding behind a smile and they are acting like they are okay but really, they aren't! What is my advice to help them get through it? Why would I give someone that advice to help them out? Are y'all ready for today's blog? I know that I am! Let's get started! Shall we? We shall!! 

My poem and why did I write it? 

I wrote a poem called "Every Smile Has A Secret" and it goes like this: 
"Every smile 
has a secret.
Every smile 
has something 
that people are 
hiding whether 
it's pain, or 
that person is 
suffering! Every 
smile is hiding 
the truth behind 
a smile because 
that person 
doesn't 
want to worry 
other people 
because they 
Are suffering, 
which who shouldn't
have to suffer alone! Never 
suffer alone"! This poem means so much to me! Some people put on an act that way they didn't have to worry other people! They put on an act to act tough around other people and act strong! When you see people like that, ask them if they are doing okay and ask them if they need a hug! The reason why I wrote this poem is because sometimes when I smile, I act like everything is okay! I act like I am okay but deep down inside, I am hurting and I am suffering! I am crying and it hurts to know that you are hurting and it's hurts to feel like you are alone and you are not alone! You got this! 

When I was writing this poem, what was I thinking? Why was I thinking about that thing?

When I was writing this poem, what was I thinking? Well, when I was writing this poem, I was thinking about how when someone smiles, it is either real or fake! When someone fakes smile, they are acting like everything is okay and that they are strong but in reality, they are hurting or they are going through something really heartbroken or they also can smile for a good reason as well. Some people can smile for a good reason like they could gotten tickets to see their favorite band or someone might have gotten some good news or maybe a promotion at work! A smile can hide either good vibes or bad vibes, depending how the person is feeling! Sometimes, if the person is fake smiling, they are hurting and they don't want to be mess with! Why was I thinking about that thing? The reason why I was thinking about how a person is smiling is because a person's smile can tell a lot! When a person is happy, they smile! When they are hurting or not okay, they put on a fake smile because they don't want to worry the person or the people they trust around them. Never fake a smile around your family or friends because some people can probably read you like a book! Some of my friends and family are like that! Some people that I can do trust can read me like a book and it is crazy how some of my family and my friends can read me like a book but either way, that's a good thing! Just saying!! 

What is the meaning behind that poem? Why is the meaning behind the poem so significant? 

The meaning behind that poem is every smile holds a secrete! Every smile holds something than just a smile! Sometimes when we smile, we are happy but when we are sad, we cry but when there is people around, we want to act like we are strong people and that we can put on an act because we are strong people! If you are putting on a fake smile and acting like everything is okay, don't because if you have friends and family who can read you like a book, then chances are that they are going to read you and they are going to ask you "if you are doing okay"? Why is the meaning behind the poem so significant? The reason why the meaning behind the poem is so significant is because when someone puts on an act in front of you and acting like everything is okay, then they are hiding behind a fake smile! A smile is not just a smile! A smile is apart of who you are as a person and if you are going through a hard and difficult time, you need to tell someone because you need to be happy not hide behind a fake smile! Show your real smile because everyone has an amazing smile!! Don't y'all ever forget that!!! 

If someone is hiding behind a smile and they are acting like they are okay, but they aren't! What is my advice to help them get through it? Why would I give someone this advice to help them out? 

If someone is hiding behind a smile and they are acting like they are okay, but they aren't! What is my advice to help them get through it? My advice is tell people that you're not doing okay! Don't hide behind a smile and act like you're not doing okay because you deserve to be okay! You deserve to be happy! The thing that you don't deserve is to be sad! Don't hide behind a fake smile and act like everything is okay because deep down inside, it's not okay and it's okay to cry! Don't hide your emotions! Just let all your emotions out! Why would I give someone this advice to help them out? The reason why I gave this advice is because if someone is struggling, you need to help them! You don't want them to struggle because I don't like when people struggle! I hate when people struggle because it breaks my heart that they are struggling and you want to help them out so bad. With my advice, I try to give out the best advice that I can and trying to help people out means a lot to me! I want people to know that if you are hiding behind a smile and you acting like you are okay, chances are that you're not okay! Chances are that you are going through something really bad and you need someone to be there for you and you need a hug! It's okay to tell people that you are not doing okay! You need to tell people that you aren't doing well. Don't hide how you are feeling! Tell people who are close to you and who love you that you're not doing well! Everything will be okay! 

In conclusion/ Tip of the day!

In conclusion, if you are saying that "you're okay" and you are hiding behind a smile, chances are that you're not doing okay! If you are not doing okay, tell people that you're not doing okay! Instead of hiding behind a fake smile, tell people that you're not okay and you need someone to talk to. It's okay to feel sad. You can tell people "hey! I am not okay. Can someone please help me?" Don't hide behind a smile and act like everything is okay because if you are not doing okay, then tell someone! Don't hide behind a fake smile! Everything will be okay! Here is my tip of the day! My tip of the day is if you know someone who is struggling or even yourself, just know that you don't have to hide behind a smile. Let your emotions come out and tell people that you are not okay! Don't hide behind a fake smile! There is people who love you and care about you so much! Don't hide behind a fake smile! It's not worth it! Show off your real smile because your real smile is absolutely beautiful! Always love yourself for who you are and never change yourself because it's not worth it!

Alright, my Shinning Star Butterflies! Y'all have reached the end my blog post for today! I hope everyone has an amazing Friday or Saturday, wherever y'all maybe be at in this world! Just know that I am here for anyone if they need someone to talk to! Don't hide behind a fake smile! Show your pretty smile off! Have a good weekend and stay safe! I love y'all and I will see y'all on Monday! Happy Friday or in other countries, Happy Saturday! Stay safe and stay warm! I love y'all and see y'all soon! Peace! 💙💜😊


"Even If I'M A 
Little Hurt It's 
Okay".
-Jimin. I love this quote because yes, even if I am putting on a fake smile for the day because I am seem fine, but I am hurting but that's okay. I will be alright! I am a tough person who can get through anything! 




"Smile 
It May Be A Bad Day, 
Not A Bad Life."
-BlackPink. I love this quote because yes! You might be having a bad day but your not having a bad life! Just keep smiling because it is a bad day, not a bad life. 

I love this song by BTS!!! This song is called Blue and Grey by BTS! Every time I listen to this song, the first thing that comes to my mind is a gloomy day where you feel like you're doing okay, but you're not doing okay. This song is so beautiful and when you want to put on a real smile but you can't because everything seems blue and grey but you keep pushing through.  



Wednesday, December 8, 2021

Talking about my blogging experience this year! By: Brandee Darden.

                Talking about my blogging experience this year! By: Brandee Darden. 💜💜 


Intro to my blog! 


Hello, my Shinning Star Butterflies! Happy Wednesday or in other countries, Happy Thursday! I hope everyone had an amazing Tuesday and if not, that's okay! Everything will be okay! It just takes time! Never give up! On Monday, I talked about my end of the year! I talked about since it is December and it is almost the end of the year, what are some good things that happened this year? What are some things that weren't so good? What am I looking forward for next year? Why am I looking forward for next year? What are some of my favorite memories from this year? This year has taught me a lot! It has thrown me some curve balls and I am not going to lie. This year, I went through some hard stuff and one of those hard stuff was going through some days where I felt miserable and sad and felt like I wasn't worthy of love! I also had those negative thoughts in my head basically telling me that "I wasn't good enough or no man was ever going to love you because of my teeth". Well, I am not going to listen to those negative thoughts because I know that I am beautiful and I don't need a man to make me happy! I prefer to be on my own for right now and then, maybe in the future to be with someone! We will have to see on that!! For today's blog, I will be talking about my blogging experience this year! I will be talking about since starting blogging this year, how has my experience been so far? What has been the most memorable part of blogging this year? What can everyone expect from me next year? Why can y"all aka my Shinning Star Butterflies expect that from me next year? Y'all ready for today's blog? I know that I am! Shall we get started with this blog post? I think we shall!! 

Talking about my blogging this year and what has been the hardest blog to talk about out of all the blogs that I did this year? 

This year, I started my blogging experience on May 15th, 2021 and ever since then, I have been sticking with it and I am loving every minute of it! I posted my very blog on my room blog page and my blog post was titled "The meaning behind my room and my room so far". In that blog, I talked about what is the meaning behind my room and what it mean to me. The meaning behind my room is my room is a safe place where I can listen to Kpop music without being judged! I can enjoy watching Korean dramas and Thai dramas without being interrupted! My room is my safe place and it is my Kpop paradise and I love it so much! I am proud of myself sticking to my blogs and telling people my stories and what I have went through so far! If I had to pick the hardest blog to talk about out of all the blogs that I did this year, it would be my suicide attempt story! To me, that was the hardest blog to ever talk about because I went through some hard stuff back in 2018! It wasn't easy but in that part of my life, I lost the most important people in my life and on top of that, we also moved and I was very suicidal as well! When I was talking about it, it was the hardest thing ever! I never thought I would have the courage to talk about something that happened to me but I did and I am so happy that I can talk about it with my Shinning Star Butterflies! If you know someone or even yourself who is going through any negative thoughts or is struggling to get through life, help them through it and tell them that they are not alone! Suicide is NOT the answer! There are people who love you so much and who will never give up on you! Never quit!! 

Since starting blogging this year, how has my experience been so far?

Since starting blogging this year, how has my experience been so far? The way I can describe my experience so far is very amazing! Blogging has given me a platform where I can share my share my stories, my experiences, or any advice that I can give to anyone who is going through a hard time. I love that blogging can give me that platform and I can share what I have went through! Sharing what I have went through makes me a stronger person and I am willing to share my story with anyone who can relate to it! I want people to know that they are never alone and they will never be alone because I will always be there for my Shinning Star Butterflies. I want my blogs to tell a story and I want to convey that story the best way that I can! I want people to know that they will never be alone and that I will always be there for them no matter what happens! I want people to know that they are loved and that over here on my blogging journey, you are loved and that no one will never judge you because I will never let that happen! My blogging experience has been so amazing and I have enjoyed planning blogs and typing up these blogs for my Shinning Star Butterflies! I am happy at what I am doing and I will continue to do what makes me happy and what makes others happy as well! I hope and pray that my stories and my advice helps people out there in the world! 

What has been the most memorable part of blogging this year?

I think the most memorable part of blogging this year is coming up with a name for my fan base! I remember for months and months that I didn't have a name for my fan base and I felt so horrible for not having a name for my fan base but after coming up with a name, I was happy! I honestly love the name for my fan base because when I think of "Shinning Star Butterflies", I think of glitter, bright stars, and of course butterflies. I remember growing up, I have always loved glitter or anything shiny and that still carries on into my adulthood. I don't how old I am, I will always love glitter. Glitter is always my favorite thing and I will always love glitter! When I was growing up as well, I always love butterflies as well! Butterflies are my favorite and when I think butterflies, I think of them as a person who is growing up and maturing as they get older and that is what I felt like! Coming up with "Shinning Star Butterflies" is absolutely perfect and I love it so much! I will always keep that name for my fan base and that name will never be changed because I love it so much!! I am proud of that name and I am so happy that name will always be apart of my blogging experience and I am so happy that I can have that name for my fan base aka the people who love me for who I am and the person who I was meant to be! 

What can everyone expect from me next year? Why can y'all aka my Shinning Star Butterflies expect that from me next year?

What can everyone expect from me next year? Well, I think everyone can expect from me next year is amazing more blogs and more poems! I think my Shinning Star Butterflies can expect from me is more poems especially because I love writing poems and writing about what I have been through or talking about what is real! I also wrote a poem about my past self so that should be interesting! There will be a blog post about that very soon which I am very excited about!! Why can y"all aka my Shinning Star Butterflies expect that from me next year? Well, the reason why y'all can expect that from me next year is because I love writing poetry! Writing poetry has been apart of my routine and I am happy that it is apart of my routine! I think writing poetry and writing blog ideas have become apart of my routine is the best thing that has happened to me and I love writing a lot! It helps me get my feelings out and not only that, but also it helps what I am going through as well. I can't wait to share my stories with everyone around the world from India to Netherlands to United States! I am so excited to see what the future holds for me and my blogging!

In conclusion/ Tip of the day/ Question of the day??

In conclusion, blogging has become apart of my life and I am so happy that it did! When I think about blogging, the first thing that comes to my mind is how I am feeling at that very moment! When I am blogging, I am pouring out my feelings and showing everyone how I am feeling! I want people to know why I love blogging so much or what I am trying to convey through my blogs. I don't just do blogs for fun but I do them because I enjoy it! It brings so much joy to my life and it also brings people joy in other people's lives as well. When people tell me that I am an "inspiration" to them, that brings tears to my eyes because when people tell you something like that, it makes you feel good inside and it makes you realize this is what you meant to do and I think I was meant to write blogs and potentially write my own books. Here is my tip and question of the day! The tip of the day is enjoy what you love doing! Enjoy what makes you happy because if you love it, keep on doing it! Blogging has brought so much joy to my life that I want to keep doing it! Enjoy what you love! My question of the day is if y'all had to pick a favorite blog by me, which one would it me? Why did you pick that blog by me? How can you relate to it? Let me know in the comments down below! I would love to hear y'all's thoughts. I love y'all! 

Alright, my Shinning Star Butterflies! Y'all have reached the end of my blog post for today! I hope everyone has an amazing night or day, wherever y'all maybe at in this world! Just know that you are loved by so many people in this world including me. I will never give up on none of y'all! I had people gave up on me but I will never give up on anyone because everyone means a lot to me! I hope everyone stays safe and has a wonderful day or night, wherever y'all maybe be at! Also, if it is cold where y'all are at, please please stay bundled up! I don't want my Shinning Star Butterflies to get a cold! Stay warm and I will see y'all on Friday! I love y'all and stay safe! Bye everyone! Peace! 💕💜


My very blog post ever that I posted on Saturday, May 15th, 2021 on my Room Blog Page!! I am so proud of myself for how I far I made it so far! 


I called this outfit my "Blogger Girl" outfit and I absolutely love this outfit so much!! 

My first logo that I made for my blogging journey! I remember making this and honestly, it turned out so good! I love it so much!!!







This song holds a special place in my heart! This song reminded me that I should love myself no matter what! Always love yourself no matter what because you are who are for a reason! Always love yourself no matter what! Have a good Wednesday or in other countries, a good Thursday! Love y'all! 

Monday, December 6, 2021

The end of the year! By: Brandee Darden!

                 

The end of the year! By: Brandee Darden! 💟💙




Intro to my blog! 


Hello, my Shinning Star Butterflies! Happy Monday or in other countries, happy Tuesday! It's a new blog week and I am absolutely excited for this week's blogs! I hope everyone had an amazing weekend and I hope everyone has a good week ahead!!! Last week, I talked about the aesthetic that I picked out for my room, the room signs: "Dream" and "Good Vibes Only", and fake plant vs real plant; which one would I put in my future home. If I had to pick which one is my favorite blog from last week, it would had to be the aesthetic for my room because the aesthetic for my room is absolutely amazing and I think the hot pink and the black looks absolutely amazing with the grey walls! This week, I will be talking about the end of the year, talking about my blogging experience this year, and analyzing my poem "Every smile has a secrete". For today's blog post, I will be talking about the end of the year! I will be talking about since it is December and it is almost the end of the year, what are some good things that happened this year? What are  some things that weren't so good? What am I looking forward for next year? Why am I looking forward for next year? What are some of my favorite memories from this year? Now, I should get started with my blog! Shall I? I think I shall get started with my blog post! 


Talking about this year!! 

This year, a lot has happened!! A lot of good things and some bumps in the road that I could get through! I went through a period where I didn't think that I wasn't good enough, but I know that I am good enough. It's just my brain was messing with me and telling me that I wasn't good enough. I watched some amazing people in my life get married and I thought it was beautiful. Watching people who you absolutely love get married is amazing! Another great thing that had happen this year was I started my blogging journey! To be honest, I honestly didn't know that I would started this blogging journey! I started this blogging journey on May 15th, 2021! My first blog post was on my room blog page and it is called "The meaning behind my room and my room so far". That blog is about what is the meaning behind my room and the meaning behind my room is I am just a girl who love Kpop and BTS! BTS has been a big part of my life and having some of their merchandise in my room and seeing some of their posters means a lot to me! My room is my safe heaven! My room is where I can escape from everything and just listen to BTS and listen to Kpop music in general! I can also watch Korean Dramas because I love Korean dramas. Creating a blog and talking about the progress of my room has meant a lot to me! Also, talking about what I went through such as bullying and suicide attempt has opened me up a lot and and I am not afraid to talk about those things anymore because I can talk about those things and say "that is apart of who I am as a person and I know I am not afraid to talk about it anymore". I am not afraid to talk about my suicide attempt anymore because I overcame it and I am happy that I can talk about it and say "I did overcame it and I am not afraid to talk about my past"!! 

Since it is December and it is almost the end of the year, what are some good things that happened this year? What are some things that weren't so good?

Since it is December and it is almost the end of the year, what are some good things that happened this year? What are some good things that weren't so good? The good things that happened this year was my dad and my bonus mom's wedding! You always want your mom or your dad to be happy, right? Well, I am happy for my dad because my dad deserves happiness and I am happy for them because they were meant for each other and I love spending time with them! The second good thing that happened this year was my older sister, Brandy getting married as well! You want your siblings to be happy as well, right? Well, being apart of her wedding was absolutely amazing! Seeing her happy makes me and I rather see her happy than not happy! The third and final good thing that happened to me this year was me starting up own blog! I can't believe that I would start my very own blog post! I started my own blog post on May 15th, 2021! It was on my room blog page! I didn't know what I was doing and I was just starting out! Don't get me wrong but, I was nervous at first because I didn't know what I was doing but not only that, I felt like people weren't going to like it. To my surprise, they actually like it and it made me so happy! My first blog post on my room page hit 124 readings and my first blog post on here reached 201 readings! I am only 23 years old and I can't believe that I am doing this! I am proud of myself! The first not so good thing that happened this year was my uncle passing away! That feeling that something is not right or that feeling when you love someone in your family so much that you don't want them gone; well, that is what happened to me. My uncle went to be with Jesus and it was so heart breaking. The most heart breaking thing is, I had to watch my dad cry! That is what killed me the most! The second thing that wasn't so good was when I went through a period when I was feeling depressed and I felt like giving up. There was a voice in my head and it was telling me "You aren't good enough. You will never be good enough". Hearing those things in my head killed me! I know that I am good enough. I don't want to listen to those voices in my head! Never loose hope! The third and final thing that wasn't so good was finding that I had a broken tooth that caused me so much pain. Yes! I was going through a really bad tooth pain in my mouth and everyone thought, "Oh! It's your wisdom teeth coming in", but sure enough, it was a broken tooth that was causing me so much pain! I am happy that they found the reason why I was in pain but the down fall was, I had surgery and that wasn't fun at all but I am happy that the pain is gone! 

What am I looking forward for next year? Why am I looking forward for next year? 

The things that I am looking forward for next year is working on more blogs and writing more poems! I think showing off my craft and what I am capable of doing is remarkable and amazing! Showing people what I love to do and seeing people who are inspired by me makes me realize that I was meant to be a writer and I would love to write my own book and travel around the world to meet my fans who read my book! That would be a dream come true! The second thing that I am looking forward for next year is a possible comeback for BTS! That would be awesome! If they come out with a new CD or a new album, I would freak out! The third and final thing that I am looking forward to next year is possibly finishing my room! That would be nice! My room being all finished and seeing it all looking absolutely amazing and fabulous! I am praying that I can finish my room sometime next year! The reason why I am looking forward for next year is because I feel like next year would be a good year! I feel like next year would be a good year and better year than this year! I pray for the better and hope for the worst! I am praying for good vibes only because I want to be happy and not sad! Being sad is not fun! It is miserable! I want to be happy and I am going to continue to be happy! Besides, being happy is much better than being sad! The second reason why I am looking forward for a possible comeback for BTS is because they have amazing music! Their music is so good that I enjoy listening to it! I am so proud of them! I am actually happy that they are having a break and spending the holidays with their family! They deserve it! The third and final thing why I am looking forward to possibly finishing my room sometime next year is because I want to see how my room will look when it is all done and completed! I am looking forward to seeing how it looks when it all completed and I am looking forward to showing off my room soon! So exciting!! 

What are some of my favorite memories from this year? 

Some of my favorite memories from this year was watching a live stream concert by BTS when they were in LA! When I was watching that concert, I felt like that I was there! It felt so amazing and watching them performing for us Armies was such an amazing feeling! I couldn't be happier just to watch them perform! My second favorite memory was starting a blog up! When I started blogging, I didn't know it was going to be a big part of my life until I started waking up at 9 am and getting to work on my blog and post it for my supporters! Working on my blog the night before and then, getting up at 9am and finishing it up and sending it to people has been a big part of who I am! When I think about blogging, I feel like this is my job and I absolutely love it! The third and final memory that is my favorite is watching my favorite people getting married! Watching my dad & my bonus mom, my older sister, Brandy and my brother in law, William getting married, it was such an amazing day to witness people who you love and who support you get married! You want them to be happy and I rather them be happy than not happy at all. I love them so much and I am happy to watch them all get married! 

In conclusion/ Tip of the day/ Question of the day?

In conclusion, this year was overall good and a little bit bad but that's okay because it will get better and I will never give up! I will continue to fight for being happy and I will continue to make myself happy! I will never loose and I want to continue being a person who is an inspiration to everyone around the world and I want to inspire myself as well! Here is my tip and question of the day! My tip of the day is never give up on yourself or dreams because if you giving up on yourself or your dreams, then you are throwing the towel and you are giving up on not just yourself but also your dreams. Never give up on yourself and your dreams! Always keep fighting for your dreams! I can't wait to see what 2022 has in store for me, my family, my friends, and my Shinning Star Butterflies!! My question of the day is: What is your favorite memory or memories from this year? What are some good things that happened this year? What are some not so good things that happened this year? Let me know in the comments down below! I would love to hear y'all 2021! 

Alright, my Shinning Star Butterflies! Y'all have reached the end of my blog post for today! I hope everyone enjoy today's blog post and I hope everyone has an amazing day or night, wherever y'all maybe be at in this world! If it is cold where you are at, please stay bundled up! Happy Monday or in other countries, Happy Tuesday! Please stay safe and just know that I love y'all so much! See y'all on Wednesday with another blog! Peace!! 💕💟


Me and my two older sisters, Brandy and Tyna at my older sister, Brandy's wedding!! 

BTS after their concert on the last day at LA! They did so good and I am so proud of them! I get to watch the concert again this weekend! I am so excited!! 

Since it the holiday season, BTS came out with a holiday mix of Butter! It is so good and I love it so much! Happy Holiday Seasons, my Shinning Star Butterflies! I love y'all!! 

 
Me at my dad's and my bonus mom's wedding!! I love how I did my makeup that day! It is so pretty!!! 






 

Friday, November 19, 2021

Analyzing my poem "Dear future boyfriend". By: Brandee Darden

                                 Analyzing my poem "Dear future boyfriend". By: Brandee Darden. 


Intro to my blog! 

Hello, my Shinning Star Butterflies! It's your girl, Brandee here with another blog! Happy Friday or in other countries, Happy Saturday! I hope everyone is doing well and amazing. If you are not doing well or amazing, everything will be okay! Just take it a day at a time! On Wednesday, I talked about the quotes that I can relate to on a day to day life. I love those quotes a lot because I can relate to them a lot. I know that I am fighter and I know that people will look down on me but I don't care and I am going to show people that I can do it. I am also tired of people who aren't there for me but I am going to be there for people who are there for me no matter what. Before I get started on today's blog, I just want to say this will be my last one until my break! Yes, I am taking a break for a little bit but I will be back before y'all know it. For today's blog, I will be talking about my poem "Dear future boyfriend." I will be talking about what is this poem about? Why did write this about? When I think of a good boyfriend, what comes to my mind? Why does it come to my mind? What is my advice for anyone who wants a good bf/ gf? Why would I give that advice? What is the meaning behind the advice? What is so significant about the advice? Now, who is ready for the blog? I know that I am ready for this blog! Let's get started! Shall we? We shall!! 

Talking about my poem and why I love it and why did I write it? 

I wrote a poem called "Dear future boyfriend" and it goes like this: "Dear future boyfriend" By: Brandee Darden aka me! 
"Dear future 
boyfriend, please
don't hurt 
my heart! Please
Give me the 
Attention that
I deserve! Please 
Cheer me up
when I am 
sad! Please 
Listen to me
when I am 
having troubles! 
Please, be good 
to me! 
Love, Brandee D. I love this poem because everything I wrote is true! I love this poem is because I want my future boyfriend to cheer me up when I am sad. I want my future boyfriend give me attention and give me sometime with him. I want my future boyfriend to watch a Korean drama or Thai drama with me. I want my boyfriend to listen to me when I am having trouble and I want my future boyfriend to cheer me up when I sad. I wrote this poem because I want guys to know what I am looking for in a guy! I want someone who will listen to me and be there for me when I am sad or just give me some attention and spend time with me!! 

What is this poem about? Why did I write this poem about? 

This poem is about me wanting a boyfriend who would listen to me when I am going through a hard time or just give me love and attention! I just want a good boyfriend who would be there for me and treat me right. I just want someone who would watch a Korean drama or a Thai drama with me. I just want someone who would listen to me when I am going through a hard time or when I am sad. I just want someone who won't break my heart. That's all I want. The reason why I wrote this poem about is because I just want a good guy who won't break my heart or I just want a guy who would be there for me no matter what. I just want someone good in my life! That's all I want! I want someone who will treat me with respect and be there for me to support me! I want someone who is good to me and who is like me in a certain way! I just want someone who won't doubt me and who will be there for me through my ups and downs. I just want someone who would make me happy! That's all I want!! 

When I think of a good boyfriend, what comes to my mind? Why does it come to my mind? 

When I think of a good boyfriend, I think of someone who is there for you through your hardest times and someone who is always supporting you no matter what. When I think of a good boyfriend, I think of someone who would listen to you when you are sad or upset. I think of a good boyfriend who is your best friend who will be there for you and help you when you are going through something rough! The reason why it comes to my mind because I think a good boyfriend should always support you and your dreams no matter what. I think a good boyfriend should always give you his love and attention no matter what. A guy should love his girl and a girl should love her guy no matter what. I think the guy and the girl should always be there for each other and supporting each other no matter what. I think the guy and the girl should love each other no matter what! I think the guy and the girl should always make each other no matter what and they should never stay mad at each other and never go to bed angry at each other. That is not good for you! Always treat each other with respect! Find a good boyfriend or girlfriend who will always be there for you no matter what! Always listen to the other person when they are going through troubles!! Always listen to them and be there for them as much as you can because if they are there for you, then you need to be there for them!! 

What is my advice for anyone who wants a good bf/ GF? Why would I give that advice? 

My advice for anyone who wants a good bf or gf, all I have to say is wait for the right person! The right person will come for you! The right person will come your way! You just have to be patient and don't rush things. Never rush things. That's not good just to rush into a relationship like that. Be patient because the right person will come to you and be there for you no matter what! Why would I give that advice? Well, the reason why I would give this advice is because you should always wait for the right person to come your way. Always wait and be patient! You need to love yourself first before you need to love your partner. You can't love yourself and then, love your girlfriend or your boyfriend! You can't do that! Love yourself first and then, love your boyfriend or your girlfriend! Find someone who has the same interest as you or like the same thing as you! Always support one another and always listen to each other as well. 

What is the meaning behind the advice? What is so significant about the advice? 

The meaning behind the advice is always wait for the right person because if you wait for the right person, the right person will come into your life. The right person will be there for you and support you no matter what. That person will love you for who you are. That person doesn't care if you have acne or stretch marks. If that person doesn't love you for who you are, then they are not the right person for you. It shouldn't be about looks! It should be about what they love about you and personality! Relationships  shouldn't be based on looks but it should be based on personality and what you love about the other person! Always love the other person with all of your heart and soul! Never think that relationships is all about looks because it's not! It's not all about looks or the way they are dressed! As long as your happy with each other, then that's all that matters! What us so significant about the advice? The significance about the advice is I may not be no love guru or a person who gives out love advice, but all I can say is always wait on the right person because when that person comes into your life and makes you happy, then you are set for life! Once that one person comes into your life and you find out that they like the same things as you, that's good! You found a good person for you! Just be patient and someone will come into your life and make you happy! 

In conclusion/ Tip of the day/ Question of the day?

In conclusion, find someone who will make you happy! Find someone who will always be there for you and support you in your dreams and who doesn't doubt you! Find someone who cares about you so much and will find a way to protect to from harms way! Find a good guy or girl to be by your side forever! Find someone who will love you no matter what because once you find that person that will make you happy and who is supportive, then you are good! Always be happy with that person and never loose that person! Here is my tip and question of the day!? My tip of the day is: Always be there for that person no matter what. If you find someone who you like, keep that person because you never know what that friendship can lead into! Always be there for that person and support that person no matter what! I love that person for who they are and always accept them for who they are!!! My question of the day is: When you think of a good boyfriend or girlfriend, what comes to your mind? Why does it come to your mind? Let me know in the comments down below! I want to know what y'all think of a good boyfriend or girlfriend is! Please! Let me know in the comments down below!!! 

Alright, my Shinning Star Butterflies! Y'all have reached the end of my blog post for today! I hope everyone has an amazing day or night, wherever y'all maybe be at in this world. I hope everyone has an amazing Friday or Saturday wherever y'all maybe be at! I will see y'all when I get back from my break!! I love y'all and I will see y'all soon! Stay Gold! Shine like a bright star that you are! Fly like a butterfly and chase your dreams! I love y'all and I will see y'all soon! Bye, my Shinning Star Butterflies!! Stay Safe!! Peace!! ✌💜

"Go for someone 
who is not only
proud to have
you, but will
also take every 
risk just to be
with you."
-Unknown! I love this quote because I would love to have someone and say "I am proud to have you in my life". I would love someone to say "That's my girlfriend and I am proud to have her mine". I would love have a guy who would go on adventures with me and take risks!! 


"The best thing 
in life is finding 
someone who
knows all your 
mistakes and
weaknesses and 
still thinks 
you're completely 
amazing."
-Unknown!! I love this quote because it doesn't matter what kind of mistakes that I made or what my weaknesses are, that guy is still going to love me no matter what and still thins that I am amazing. That guy is still going to love me no matter what! 


"Find a heart that
will love you at
your worst and 
arms that will
hold you at your 
weakest". 
-Unknown. I love this quote because find a person who will love you with all of their heart and hold you when you are feeling weak! Let them love you at your worst and let them hold you when you feel weak and you want to give up, but you can't.




This song is called "Any man of mine" by Shania Twain. I absolutely love this song so much and any guy would be proud to have me as their girlfriend. 



 

Wednesday, November 17, 2021

Quotes that I can relate to in my day to day life! By: Brandee Darden!

                                    Quotes that I can relate to in my day to day life! By: Brandee Darden. 


Intro to my blog!! 

Hello, my Shinning Star Butterflies! It's your girl, Brandee here with another blog! Happy Wednesday or in other countries, Happy Thursday!! How is everyone doing? I hope everyone is doing well and amazing! If you are not doing amazing well, it will get better! On Monday, I did a birthday tribute to my dad for his birthday! I love that blog so much! It meant a lot to me because my dad is my best friend and I love him so much. I am so happy that my dad liked my blog on Monday! That made me really happy! On today's blog, I will be talking about quotes that I can relate to in my day to day life. I will be talking about which quote or quotes that I can relate to in my day to day life? Why can I relate to those quotes? What is the meaning behind each quote that I can relate to? Why does that quote or those quotes have special meaning? Now, let's get started with this blog! Shall we? We shall!! 

Talking about the quotes that I picked out and the reason why I love these quotes?

The quotes that I picked out are by two Kpop singers and another quote by an actor in a Korean drama called "It's Okay to Not Be Okay". The first quote goes like this: "Yes, look down on me like 
that. It's my hobby to prove 
you wrong." -Min Yoongi. I love this quote because I have proven people wrong since I could remember. I have been proven people wrong since I could remember and showing people that I can do it. The second quote that I can relate to in my day to day life is by Jin. It goes like this: "Can't Hold Me Down 
'Cuz you know 
I'm a Fighter."
-Kim Seokjin. I love this quote because when I go for something, I go for something and I never give up. I fight for what believe in and I don't give up. I fight for what I love and I will keep fighting for what I love until I can't fight it any more!! The third and final quote is by Moon Gang-tae who played by Kim Soo-hyun and the quote goes like this: "I'm done with being someone who is needed by others". I like this quote because sometimes, I feel so done with people who is never there for me and I am done for people who isn't there for me. If you are not going to be there for me, I don't need you to hurt me and my feelings!! 

Which quote or quotes that I can relate to in my day to day life? Why can I relate to those quotes?

The quote or quotes that I can relate to in my day to day life are by two Kpop singers and a quote in a Korean drama. The way that I can relate to the first one is I have been put down and everyone always looked down upon me. Everyone has told me that I can't do this or do that and I had to prove those people wrong. I had to show those people that no matter what, I can do it. The reason why I can relate to this quote a lot because the way I can describe Min Yoongi from BTS is he is always proven people wrong and I love that about him. I feel like me and him are the same in different ways because I had to prove people wrong my entire life and I had to show people whatever I was going through in life or whatever my disability was, I just had to show those people that I can do it and I had to show those people that I can do it!! The second quote is by Jin, a band member from BTS. The quote reminds that no one and I mean no one can't hold me down because I am a fighter. I will fight for what I believe in and I will continue to fight for what I believe in until I can't fight anymore. The reason why I can relate to that quote in my day to day life because everyday, I work hard and fight for what I believe in. I fight my insecurities off and I fight what my mind is telling me. I fight for what I believe in and I fight to get through the day!! The third and final quote that I can relate to is from a K drama called "It's Okay Not to be Okay". The way I can relate to the third to that quote is I am done being there for people who are not there for me. I am done with people who isn't going to be at my side and support me. I am not going to put myself through that hurt all over again. I'm not going through that! I'm not. It's a waste of time and I am not wasting my time. The reason why I can relate to this quote a lot is because I had people who hurt me and I had to handle that hurt and it hurt me a lot. I would be there for people but some people aren't there for me and that hurt me so much. I'm done being there for people who aren't there for me. If you are not going to be there for me, then I am not going to be there for you. Plain and simple!! 

What is the meaning behind each quote that I can relate to? 

The meaning behind the first quote is when I was growing up, I had people telling me "you can't do this. You can't do that. You will never read or tie your own shoes." Here I am at 23 years old, reading and tying my own shoes. I have showed people that I can do it. I have proven to people from time to time that I can do it. I am not going to listen to what people say because you think that I can't do it but in reality, I can do it and now, you are feeling bad that you put me down. The meaning behind the second quote is growing up, I had to fight for what I believe in. I had to fight my insecurities because I felt like that I wasn't pretty enough or good enough but I had to show those people and mainly myself that I am pretty and that I am good enough. I had to show that I am fighter and whatever I am going through, I will always be a fighter. The meaning behind the third and final quote is I would always be there for people who needed me the most but what the sad part is no one would never be there for me except maybe a few people and that's okay because I will be there for those people who are there for me and that's it. I will be there for the people who supports me and who is always there for me no matter what. I will continue to prove people wrong! I will continue to fight for what I believe in. I will continue to be there for people who is there for me. I will never give up!! 

Why does that quote or those quotes have a special meaning?

The reason why that quote or those quotes have a special meaning is because each quote is apart of my life story. Each quote is apart of my day to day life and everyday, I feel like I am proven people wrong and fighting for my life. I feel like I am just tired of being there for people who aren't there for me and it that's sad. I have been there for people since I could remember and now, it is my turn to be there for myself. I need to be there for people who are there for me and who do support me instead of being there for people who don't care about you or support you. Cut those people out of your life. You will feel so much better after that!! 

In conclusion/ Tip of the day/ Question of the day?

In conclusion, always fight for your life and always find people who will care about you and support you no matter what. Always show people that you can do it instead of can't do it. Show people that you are strong and that you are fighter. Show people that you are amazing in your own way and that it's okay not to be okay. Never give up because you are absolutely amazing and you will always be a fighter no matter what. Here is my tip of the day: Fight for what you believe in because if you fight for what you believe in, you are a fighter and you got through it. If you cut out those people who don't care about you, you will feel so much better. If you show people that you can do it and you prove to them that you can do it, you are showing them that you are capable of doing it. My question of the day is: What are some quotes that you can relate to in your day to day life? Let me know in the comments down below, I want to know! Please! 

Alright, my Shinning Star Butterflies! Y'all have reached the end of my blog for today! I hope everyone enjoyed today's blog post. I hope everyone has an amazing Wednesday or amazing Thursday! I love y'all and please, stay safe! Stay Gold! Shine like a bright star like y'all are! Fly like a butterfly and chase your dreams! I love y'all and I will see y'all on Friday! Stay safe! I love y'all! Peace! 💜✌











Monday, November 15, 2021

A birthday tribute to my dad! By: Brandee Darden

                          A birthday tribute to my dad! By:Brandee Darden. 



Intro to my blog!! 

Hello, my Shinning Star Butterflies! Happy Monday or in other countries, Happy Tuesday! I hope everyone had an amazing weekend and I hope everyone stay safe. If you didn't have an amazing weekend, that's okay because it will get better and everything will be okay! Last week, I talked about my favorite fashion and makeup concepts that I put together and the battle between my light pink leather jacket vs my black puffy jacket with my blogger outfit. Honestly, I love the light pink leather jacket and the black puffy jacket both so much but to be honest, I love the light pink leather jacket with the jacket because I think it breaks up the black and I love to have a little color in my outfits. This week, I will be talking about what my dad has taught me throughout the years, what quotes that I can relate to my day life, and analyzing my poem called "Dear future boyfriend". Before I get started on today's blog post, I want to give out two birthday shout outs. The first birthday shout out goes out my dad. Happy birthday to my amazing dad! Thank you so much for what you have done for me! You have supported through everything and I appreciate that a lot! Happy birthday! The second birthday shout out to my good friend, Ana! Thank you so much for being there for me and supporting me! I hope you have an amazing day like you deserve! Happy birthday!! For today's blog, I will be talking about what has my dad taught me over the years? Why did my dad taught me those things? What are some life lessons did my dad taught me? Why did my dad taught me those life lessons? What do those life lessons mean to me? What is the meaning behind these life lessons from my dad? Let's get started with this blog!! Shall we? I think we shall! 

Explaining my relationship with my dad and how much he means to me? Why does he mean a lot to me? 

My relationship with my dad means everything to me! I love my dad so much! My dad has been there for me since I could remember and I am so blessed to have him as my dad! When I think about my dad, I think about him as a big teddy bear. He might look tough but he is actually a softy and he is very protective when it comes to me! Our relationship means a lot to me! He is my best friend and the person that I can go to when I am having trouble with something! Why does he mean a lot to me, y'all might ask? Well, the reason why he means a lot to me is because he has helped me through a lot and he was always there for me whenever I needed him the most. He is a great dad and I love having a dad like him! 

What has my dad taught me over the years? Why did my dad taught me those things? 

What has my dad taught me over the years? Well, my dad has taught me a lot of things over the years! My dad has taught me how to play softball! He has taught me how to cook. My dad taught me a lot of the things. The reason he taught me those things is because I remember being a little girl and after my daddy's softball games, I would run around the fields and being goofy! I would wear my own shirt with the team's name on it with shorts and cleats. Yes, I even have my own cleats by when my dad coached softball back then. Recently, I started to cook something's. I really didn't take interest in cooking but ever since then, I know how to cook things because of my dad. I know how to cook ramen noodles, French Fries, chicken nuggets,  mashed potatoes, and Mac and Cheese. My dad is an amazing dad! I can't say a lot of people have an amazing dad but I can say my dad is pretty amazing! He taught those things and I can't wait to learn how to cook more things in the future!

What are some life lessons did my dad taught me? Why did my dad taught me those life lessons? 

What are some life lessons did my taught me? My dad has always taught me to never give up and to always work hard! My dad also taught me not to give up! My dad has always told me if I was crying, he would say "I will give you something to cry about" and ever since then, I would never cry unless I am in pain but other than that, I listened to what my dad said and it stuck with me since then! My dad has always been there for me and he knows how to calm me down when I am upset! The reason why my dad taught me those life lessons because I don't have that quitters blood in me and it is because my dad. My dad has always believed me and my dad always taught me to never give up and I still believe it to this day to never give up and I never give up because of my dad! My dad is my biggest supporter and I love him so much! I am blessed to have an amazing dad like him!

What do those life lessons mean to me? What is the meaning behind these life lessons from my dad?

These life lessons mean a lot to me! These life lessons are the reason why I am the person that I am today! I don't give up easily because of my dad. If my dad saw me crying for no reason, he would say "I would give you something to cry" and I still believe in that to this day. Some people can look at my dad and he say "he looks scary" but in reality, he is a softie and he is very caring. Those life lessons has helped me growing up and I will continue to use those life lessons and I will continue to never to give up! The meaning behind these life lessons from my dad is that I will never give up because I don't quit. I don't have the quitters blood in me. I don't give up easily because of my dad! I will never give up easily and I will continue to fight for my dreams as long as I can! As long as I am alive, I will never give up because of my dad! My dad will always support me and he will continue to support me no matter what! I love and care about my dad so much and I know that I will always have a caring dad no matter what. 

In conclusion/ Tip of the day and question of the day? 

In conclusion, I remember growing up and my dad always being there for me and always supporting me! I remember what my dad always told me and he always told me "You will always be my little girl" and ever since then, that has always been stuck with me. No matter how old I get, I will always be daddy's little girl. I love my daddy so much! Thank you, Daddy for always being there for me and loving me as who I am. Here is my tip and question of day!! My tip of the day is always love the person who raised you or who was always there for you. Always tell them that you love them whether it is your dad or your mom or even your grandma. Tell those people that you love them and tell them that you are thankful for raising you. You will never know when you can tell them thank you until it's too late. Love the people who helped raised you! The question of the day is: What are some things that someone who you love taught you while you were growing up? Let me know in the comments down below. I want to hear your comments.

Alright, my Shinning Star Butterflies! Y'all have reached the end of my blog post for today! I hope y'all enjoy my blog post! Happy birthday to my daddy and my good friend, Ana! I hope y'all enjoy y'all's day and I love y'all so much! I hope everyone has an amazing day or night, wherever y'all maybe be at in this world. I love y'all. Stay safe! Stay Gold! Shine bright like a star that y'all are! Fly like a butterfly and chase y'all dreams! I love y'all and I will see y'all on my next blog! I love y'all! Peace! 💜✌❤ 


Me and my daddy at my 9th grade homecoming dance!

Me and my dad at my graduation on May 18th, 2017! I love my dad so much! 


Me and my daddy at my all stars football game!!


No matter how old I get or how grown I act, I will always be my daddy's little girl no matter what. I love this song so much because my dad means a lot to me and I will always be his little girl. I love my dad so much! Happy birthday, Daddy! I love you! 






Friday, November 5, 2021

My poem, "Dear Exes". By: Brandee Darden

                                       My poem, "Dear Exes". By: Brandee Darden. 


Intro to my blog! 

Hello, my Shinning Star Butterflies! Happy Friday or in other countries, Happy Saturday! I hope everyone is doing absolutely amazing and well. On Wednesday, I talked about who I was thankful to have in my life? Honestly, the people who I am thankful to have in my life is my dad, my bonus mom aka my step mom, my mom, my siblings, my aunts, my uncles, my nieces, my nephews, my friends, and so many more people who are apart of my life. I am so blessed and thankful to have those people in my life! I love those people who are apart of my life so much! They mean so much to me and I am thankful to have those people in my life! Before I get started for today's blog, I am not hear to bash my ex boyfriends at all whatsoever! My ex boyfriends were amazing to me while we were in a relationship and they are really nice! With that being said; for today's blog, it is about my poem "Dear exes". I will be talking about what does this poem mean to me? Why did I write this poem? What is the meaning behind this poem? What is the meaning behind this poem? What is the significance behind this poem? Why this poem so significant? What have I learned from my previous relationships? I don't want to bash or talk bad about my exes because they all treated me well while we were in relationship. So; with that being said, let's get started with this blog! Shall we? I think we shall! 

My poem and what is it about? 

I wrote a poem called "Dear Exes". It goes like this: "Dear exes, 
You hurt
Me badly!
You broke 
me so bad! Y'all 
broke my 
heart so 
bad! But
each of y'all 
taught me a 
lesson! Y'all 
remind me that 
y'all weren't 
the right ones 
for me! 
-Brandee Darden. This poem is about my ex 4 boyfriends! I am not going to mention their names because of personal reasons. This poem is about how they broke heart really bad. Two of them cheated on me and two of them fell out of love with me but that's okay! Was I happy in those relationships? Yes, I was happy in those relationships. I was with them and we had good memories together, but those memories are my past now and I have moved on from my ex boyfriends. I hope they are doing good and being safe and happy! That's all that I want for my ex boyfriends. All I want for my ex boyfriends to be happy and safe which I am praying they are!

What does this poem mean to me? Why did I write this poem?

What does this poem mean to me? Well, this poem a lot to me! I wrote this poem because I was remembering how my ex boyfriends hurt me and they hurt me so bad! Even though they are hurt me, I will always remember the good memories that I had with each ex boyfriend! This poem mean a lot to me because I wrote it to release the anger that had and now, I can move on from exes because they aren't worth my tears anymore and they will never be a waste of my tears ever! The reason why I write this poem is because I was having a hard time moving on from a ex boyfriend of mine and I wanted to write a poem about my ex boyfriend's and how bad they hurt me! They hurt me so bad that I thought I should forget love but I will never give up love because I love myself for who I am and for who I was. I am never changing for anyone because they are not worth my time and if people don't like you for who you are, then kick them to the curb! They aren't worth your time!

What is the meaning behind this poem? 

The meaning behind this poem is when all my ex boyfriend's broke up with me and two cheated on me and two fell out love and I broke up with the third ex boyfriend, I was hurt when all of my relationships ended especially the fourth relationship. Me and my fourth ex boyfriend were together for a year and then, on May 2nd, he broke with me! I was hurt for a while but I realized myself worth and that I am worthy of love. I moved on from all of my ex boyfriends and I am happy because I moved on! I am who I am because I realized that they aren't worth my tears! No guy should never be a waste of your tears because they aren't worth it! For girls, never waste your tears for a guy! It's a waste of time! For a guy, never waste your tears on a girl because they aren't worth your time! Go find someone who is worth your tears because there is who is worth your tears and they are waiting for you!! 

What is the significance behind this poem? Why this poem so significant? 

What is the significance behind this poem? Well, the significance behind this poem is when someone hurts you especially an ex boyfriend or an ex girlfriend, it hurts you for a while! You learn that when you are hurting, you have to learn how to cope with it even if it does hurt your heart! I will never forget when my first ex boyfriend broke up with me. I was in 8th grade when we broke up and honestly, I was heartbroken but moved on. I learned to move on from all my ex boyfriend's because I realized that they are not worth my tears and they will never be worth my tears because guys can be jerks at times but they are not worth your tears! Sorry guys not sorry! Why this poem so significant? The reason why this poem is so significant is because guys are jerks and guys will always be jerks no matter what but I realized no guy is worth my tears unless if you are BTS or any of the members of BTS, that's it! No other guy isn't worth being sad over because they are jerks and losers! I'm sorry, guys but that's the truth! No guy will never be worth my tears ever again unless it is BTS but other than that, I will never cry over a guy again because they aren't worth my tears! #notwastingmytearsfornoguy

What have I learned from my previous relationships? 

What have I learned from my previous relationships? Well, I have learned that never cry over a guy who isn't worth your time because they aren't worth your time! Another thing that I learned from my previous relationships is when you want to break up with someone, don't text them! Do it face to face because if you do it over text, it hurts worse and it is kind of stupid to do it over text. The third and final thing that I learned from my previous relationships is once a cheater, always a cheater. Once you cheat once, it is most likely you would cheat again! I don't like cheaters because once you cheat on me, I will never forgive you! Ever!!! I will never forget what you did to me because you hurt me and not only that, my family and my friends will get you and that is no lie! Once you hurt me, my family and friends are after you! Just saying!

In conclusion/ Tip of the day!

In conclusion, never settle with any guy or girl if they will hurt you at the end. Don't get into a relationship if you don't see yourself happy with that girl or that guy! Be with someone who will love you for you, who will like the same things as you, and who will support you no matter what. Be with someone who doesn't judge you because y'all like different things. Be with someone who will understand your feelings and who will be there for you even if you are having a hard time with life! Find someone who will listen to you no matter what and find someone who won't talk about their ex because if you are in a relationship with someone who talks about their ex constantly or even the future, then y'all are not meant to be! Never waste your tears on someone who hurt you because if you are crying over them, then you are wasting you're wasting your tears for someone who doesn't care and you need to move on! My tip of the day is never waste your tears on someone who doesn't care. Don't get into a relationship that you think you won't be happy! When the time is right, you will find that special person who is meant to be in your life forever! Don't rush things because rushing things isn't good and you are moving to fast to get into a relationship! Don't do that!

Alright, my Shinning Star Butterflies! Y'all have reached the end of my blog post for today! I hope everyone liked this blog post for today! I hope everyone had an amazing week and has an amazing weekend ahead! Happy Friday or in other countries, Happy Saturdays! I love y'all so much and stay safe! Stay Gold! Shine Like A Bright Star that you are and Fly Like a Butterfly to Chase your Dreams! Be Safe and I will see y'all on Monday! Love y'all! Peace! ✌💙


BTS, the only men who I would waste my tears on because they are worth my tears all day and everyday! 
 
I love these boys so much! They mean everything to me and their music is the best medicine for me! I love them so much! 

"After a breakup, the 
loyal one stays single 
and deals with the 
damages until healed.
The other one is 
already in another
relationship."
-Unknown. I love this quote because while the loyal person is very heartbroken and wants to move on but they can't because they are hurting. The other person is already moving on and finding another person that they might like or was talking behind your back. 




This song is called "Broken Heart" by: Monsta X. This song reminds of when you got out of a relationship and your heart is broken because when you thought that person loved you but they really didn't so it broke your heart. This song is such an amazing song. I love it! 



Blog: Analyzing my poem "Standing firm" by: Brandee Marie Darden! Date: Friday, 2-6-26!!

                                              Blog: Analyzing my poem "Stand firm" by: Brandee Marie Darden! Date of blog: Friday,...