My poem, "Dear Exes". By: Brandee Darden. 

Intro to my blog! 

Hello, my Shinning Star Butterflies! Happy Friday or in other countries, Happy Saturday! I hope everyone is doing absolutely amazing and well. On Wednesday, I talked about who I was thankful to have in my life? Honestly, the people who I am thankful to have in my life is my dad, my bonus mom aka my step mom, my mom, my siblings, my aunts, my uncles, my nieces, my nephews, my friends, and so many more people who are apart of my life. I am so blessed and thankful to have those people in my life! I love those people who are apart of my life so much! They mean so much to me and I am thankful to have those people in my life! Before I get started for today's blog, I am not hear to bash my ex boyfriends at all whatsoever! My ex boyfriends were amazing to me while we were in a relationship and they are really nice! With that being said; for today's blog, it is about my poem "Dear exes". I will be talking about what does this poem mean to me? Why did I write this poem? What is the meaning behind this poem? What is the meaning behind this poem? What is the significance behind this poem? Why this poem so significant? What have I learned from my previous relationships? I don't want to bash or talk bad about my exes because they all treated me well while we were in relationship. So; with that being said, let's get started with this blog! Shall we? I think we shall! 

My poem and what is it about? 

I wrote a poem called "Dear Exes". It goes like this: "Dear exes, 

You hurt

Me badly!

You broke 

me so bad! Y'all 

broke my 

heart so 

bad! But

each of y'all 

taught me a 

lesson! Y'all 

remind me that 

y'all weren't 

the right ones 

for me! 

-Brandee Darden. This poem is about my ex 4 boyfriends! I am not going to mention their names because of personal reasons. This poem is about how they broke heart really bad. Two of them cheated on me and two of them fell out of love with me but that's okay! Was I happy in those relationships? Yes, I was happy in those relationships. I was with them and we had good memories together, but those memories are my past now and I have moved on from my ex boyfriends. I hope they are doing good and being safe and happy! That's all that I want for my ex boyfriends. All I want for my ex boyfriends to be happy and safe which I am praying they are!

What does this poem mean to me? Why did I write this poem?

What does this poem mean to me? Well, this poem a lot to me! I wrote this poem because I was remembering how my ex boyfriends hurt me and they hurt me so bad! Even though they are hurt me, I will always remember the good memories that I had with each ex boyfriend! This poem mean a lot to me because I wrote it to release the anger that had and now, I can move on from exes because they aren't worth my tears anymore and they will never be a waste of my tears ever! The reason why I write this poem is because I was having a hard time moving on from a ex boyfriend of mine and I wanted to write a poem about my ex boyfriend's and how bad they hurt me! They hurt me so bad that I thought I should forget love but I will never give up love because I love myself for who I am and for who I was. I am never changing for anyone because they are not worth my time and if people don't like you for who you are, then kick them to the curb! They aren't worth your time!

What is the meaning behind this poem? 

The meaning behind this poem is when all my ex boyfriend's broke up with me and two cheated on me and two fell out love and I broke up with the third ex boyfriend, I was hurt when all of my relationships ended especially the fourth relationship. Me and my fourth ex boyfriend were together for a year and then, on May 2nd, he broke with me! I was hurt for a while but I realized myself worth and that I am worthy of love. I moved on from all of my ex boyfriends and I am happy because I moved on! I am who I am because I realized that they aren't worth my tears! No guy should never be a waste of your tears because they aren't worth it! For girls, never waste your tears for a guy! It's a waste of time! For a guy, never waste your tears on a girl because they aren't worth your time! Go find someone who is worth your tears because there is who is worth your tears and they are waiting for you!! 

What is the significance behind this poem? Why this poem so significant? 

What is the significance behind this poem? Well, the significance behind this poem is when someone hurts you especially an ex boyfriend or an ex girlfriend, it hurts you for a while! You learn that when you are hurting, you have to learn how to cope with it even if it does hurt your heart! I will never forget when my first ex boyfriend broke up with me. I was in 8th grade when we broke up and honestly, I was heartbroken but moved on. I learned to move on from all my ex boyfriend's because I realized that they are not worth my tears and they will never be worth my tears because guys can be jerks at times but they are not worth your tears! Sorry guys not sorry! Why this poem so significant? The reason why this poem is so significant is because guys are jerks and guys will always be jerks no matter what but I realized no guy is worth my tears unless if you are BTS or any of the members of BTS, that's it! No other guy isn't worth being sad over because they are jerks and losers! I'm sorry, guys but that's the truth! No guy will never be worth my tears ever again unless it is BTS but other than that, I will never cry over a guy again because they aren't worth my tears! #notwastingmytearsfornoguy

What have I learned from my previous relationships? 

What have I learned from my previous relationships? Well, I have learned that never cry over a guy who isn't worth your time because they aren't worth your time! Another thing that I learned from my previous relationships is when you want to break up with someone, don't text them! Do it face to face because if you do it over text, it hurts worse and it is kind of stupid to do it over text. The third and final thing that I learned from my previous relationships is once a cheater, always a cheater. Once you cheat once, it is most likely you would cheat again! I don't like cheaters because once you cheat on me, I will never forgive you! Ever!!! I will never forget what you did to me because you hurt me and not only that, my family and my friends will get you and that is no lie! Once you hurt me, my family and friends are after you! Just saying!

In conclusion/ Tip of the day!

In conclusion, never settle with any guy or girl if they will hurt you at the end. Don't get into a relationship if you don't see yourself happy with that girl or that guy! Be with someone who will love you for you, who will like the same things as you, and who will support you no matter what. Be with someone who doesn't judge you because y'all like different things. Be with someone who will understand your feelings and who will be there for you even if you are having a hard time with life! Find someone who will listen to you no matter what and find someone who won't talk about their ex because if you are in a relationship with someone who talks about their ex constantly or even the future, then y'all are not meant to be! Never waste your tears on someone who hurt you because if you are crying over them, then you are wasting you're wasting your tears for someone who doesn't care and you need to move on! My tip of the day is never waste your tears on someone who doesn't care. Don't get into a relationship that you think you won't be happy! When the time is right, you will find that special person who is meant to be in your life forever! Don't rush things because rushing things isn't good and you are moving to fast to get into a relationship! Don't do that!

Alright, my Shinning Star Butterflies! Y'all have reached the end of my blog post for today! I hope everyone liked this blog post for today! I hope everyone had an amazing week and has an amazing weekend ahead! Happy Friday or in other countries, Happy Saturdays! I love y'all so much and stay safe! Stay Gold! Shine Like A Bright Star that you are and Fly Like a Butterfly to Chase your Dreams! Be Safe and I will see y'all on Monday! Love y'all! Peace! ✌💙

BTS, the only men who I would waste my tears on because they are worth my tears all day and everyday! 
 

I love these boys so much! They mean everything to me and their music is the best medicine for me! I love them so much! 

"After a breakup, the 
loyal one stays single 
and deals with the 
damages until healed.
The other one is 
already in another
relationship."
-Unknown. I love this quote because while the loyal person is very heartbroken and wants to move on but they can't because they are hurting. The other person is already moving on and finding another person that they might like or was talking behind your back. 

This song is called "Broken Heart" by: Monsta X. This song reminds of when you got out of a relationship and your heart is broken because when you thought that person loved you but they really didn't so it broke your heart. This song is such an amazing song. I love it!