Analyzing my poem "Dear future boyfriend". By: Brandee Darden. 

Intro to my blog! 

Hello, my Shinning Star Butterflies! It's your girl, Brandee here with another blog! Happy Friday or in other countries, Happy Saturday! I hope everyone is doing well and amazing. If you are not doing well or amazing, everything will be okay! Just take it a day at a time! On Wednesday, I talked about the quotes that I can relate to on a day to day life. I love those quotes a lot because I can relate to them a lot. I know that I am fighter and I know that people will look down on me but I don't care and I am going to show people that I can do it. I am also tired of people who aren't there for me but I am going to be there for people who are there for me no matter what. Before I get started on today's blog, I just want to say this will be my last one until my break! Yes, I am taking a break for a little bit but I will be back before y'all know it. For today's blog, I will be talking about my poem "Dear future boyfriend." I will be talking about what is this poem about? Why did write this about? When I think of a good boyfriend, what comes to my mind? Why does it come to my mind? What is my advice for anyone who wants a good bf/ gf? Why would I give that advice? What is the meaning behind the advice? What is so significant about the advice? Now, who is ready for the blog? I know that I am ready for this blog! Let's get started! Shall we? We shall!! 

Talking about my poem and why I love it and why did I write it? 

I wrote a poem called "Dear future boyfriend" and it goes like this: "Dear future boyfriend" By: Brandee Darden aka me! 

"Dear future 

boyfriend, please

don't hurt 

my heart! Please

Give me the 

Attention that

I deserve! Please 

Cheer me up

when I am 

sad! Please 

Listen to me

when I am 

having troubles! 

Please, be good 

to me! 

Love, Brandee D. I love this poem because everything I wrote is true! I love this poem is because I want my future boyfriend to cheer me up when I am sad. I want my future boyfriend give me attention and give me sometime with him. I want my future boyfriend to watch a Korean drama or Thai drama with me. I want my boyfriend to listen to me when I am having trouble and I want my future boyfriend to cheer me up when I sad. I wrote this poem because I want guys to know what I am looking for in a guy! I want someone who will listen to me and be there for me when I am sad or just give me some attention and spend time with me!! 

What is this poem about? Why did I write this poem about? 

This poem is about me wanting a boyfriend who would listen to me when I am going through a hard time or just give me love and attention! I just want a good boyfriend who would be there for me and treat me right. I just want someone who would watch a Korean drama or a Thai drama with me. I just want someone who would listen to me when I am going through a hard time or when I am sad. I just want someone who won't break my heart. That's all I want. The reason why I wrote this poem about is because I just want a good guy who won't break my heart or I just want a guy who would be there for me no matter what. I just want someone good in my life! That's all I want! I want someone who will treat me with respect and be there for me to support me! I want someone who is good to me and who is like me in a certain way! I just want someone who won't doubt me and who will be there for me through my ups and downs. I just want someone who would make me happy! That's all I want!! 

When I think of a good boyfriend, what comes to my mind? Why does it come to my mind? 

When I think of a good boyfriend, I think of someone who is there for you through your hardest times and someone who is always supporting you no matter what. When I think of a good boyfriend, I think of someone who would listen to you when you are sad or upset. I think of a good boyfriend who is your best friend who will be there for you and help you when you are going through something rough! The reason why it comes to my mind because I think a good boyfriend should always support you and your dreams no matter what. I think a good boyfriend should always give you his love and attention no matter what. A guy should love his girl and a girl should love her guy no matter what. I think the guy and the girl should always be there for each other and supporting each other no matter what. I think the guy and the girl should love each other no matter what! I think the guy and the girl should always make each other no matter what and they should never stay mad at each other and never go to bed angry at each other. That is not good for you! Always treat each other with respect! Find a good boyfriend or girlfriend who will always be there for you no matter what! Always listen to the other person when they are going through troubles!! Always listen to them and be there for them as much as you can because if they are there for you, then you need to be there for them!! 

What is my advice for anyone who wants a good bf/ GF? Why would I give that advice? 

My advice for anyone who wants a good bf or gf, all I have to say is wait for the right person! The right person will come for you! The right person will come your way! You just have to be patient and don't rush things. Never rush things. That's not good just to rush into a relationship like that. Be patient because the right person will come to you and be there for you no matter what! Why would I give that advice? Well, the reason why I would give this advice is because you should always wait for the right person to come your way. Always wait and be patient! You need to love yourself first before you need to love your partner. You can't love yourself and then, love your girlfriend or your boyfriend! You can't do that! Love yourself first and then, love your boyfriend or your girlfriend! Find someone who has the same interest as you or like the same thing as you! Always support one another and always listen to each other as well. 

What is the meaning behind the advice? What is so significant about the advice? 

The meaning behind the advice is always wait for the right person because if you wait for the right person, the right person will come into your life. The right person will be there for you and support you no matter what. That person will love you for who you are. That person doesn't care if you have acne or stretch marks. If that person doesn't love you for who you are, then they are not the right person for you. It shouldn't be about looks! It should be about what they love about you and personality! Relationships  shouldn't be based on looks but it should be based on personality and what you love about the other person! Always love the other person with all of your heart and soul! Never think that relationships is all about looks because it's not! It's not all about looks or the way they are dressed! As long as your happy with each other, then that's all that matters! What us so significant about the advice? The significance about the advice is I may not be no love guru or a person who gives out love advice, but all I can say is always wait on the right person because when that person comes into your life and makes you happy, then you are set for life! Once that one person comes into your life and you find out that they like the same things as you, that's good! You found a good person for you! Just be patient and someone will come into your life and make you happy! 

In conclusion/ Tip of the day/ Question of the day?

In conclusion, find someone who will make you happy! Find someone who will always be there for you and support you in your dreams and who doesn't doubt you! Find someone who cares about you so much and will find a way to protect to from harms way! Find a good guy or girl to be by your side forever! Find someone who will love you no matter what because once you find that person that will make you happy and who is supportive, then you are good! Always be happy with that person and never loose that person! Here is my tip and question of the day!? My tip of the day is: Always be there for that person no matter what. If you find someone who you like, keep that person because you never know what that friendship can lead into! Always be there for that person and support that person no matter what! I love that person for who they are and always accept them for who they are!!! My question of the day is: When you think of a good boyfriend or girlfriend, what comes to your mind? Why does it come to your mind? Let me know in the comments down below! I want to know what y'all think of a good boyfriend or girlfriend is! Please! Let me know in the comments down below!!! 

Alright, my Shinning Star Butterflies! Y'all have reached the end of my blog post for today! I hope everyone has an amazing day or night, wherever y'all maybe be at in this world. I hope everyone has an amazing Friday or Saturday wherever y'all maybe be at! I will see y'all when I get back from my break!! I love y'all and I will see y'all soon! Stay Gold! Shine like a bright star that you are! Fly like a butterfly and chase your dreams! I love y'all and I will see y'all soon! Bye, my Shinning Star Butterflies!! Stay Safe!! Peace!! ✌💜

"Go for someone 
who is not only
proud to have
you, but will
also take every 
risk just to be
with you."
-Unknown! I love this quote because I would love to have someone and say "I am proud to have you in my life". I would love someone to say "That's my girlfriend and I am proud to have her mine". I would love have a guy who would go on adventures with me and take risks!! 

"The best thing 
in life is finding 
someone who
knows all your 
mistakes and
weaknesses and 
still thinks 
you're completely 
amazing."
-Unknown!! I love this quote because it doesn't matter what kind of mistakes that I made or what my weaknesses are, that guy is still going to love me no matter what and still thins that I am amazing. That guy is still going to love me no matter what! 

"Find a heart that
will love you at
your worst and 
arms that will
hold you at your 
weakest". 
-Unknown. I love this quote because find a person who will love you with all of their heart and hold you when you are feeling weak! Let them love you at your worst and let them hold you when you feel weak and you want to give up, but you can't.

This song is called "Any man of mine" by Shania Twain. I absolutely love this song so much and any guy would be proud to have me as their girlfriend. 

 

                                    Quotes that I can relate to in my day to day life! By: Brandee Darden. 

Intro to my blog!! 

Hello, my Shinning Star Butterflies! It's your girl, Brandee here with another blog! Happy Wednesday or in other countries, Happy Thursday!! How is everyone doing? I hope everyone is doing well and amazing! If you are not doing amazing well, it will get better! On Monday, I did a birthday tribute to my dad for his birthday! I love that blog so much! It meant a lot to me because my dad is my best friend and I love him so much. I am so happy that my dad liked my blog on Monday! That made me really happy! On today's blog, I will be talking about quotes that I can relate to in my day to day life. I will be talking about which quote or quotes that I can relate to in my day to day life? Why can I relate to those quotes? What is the meaning behind each quote that I can relate to? Why does that quote or those quotes have special meaning? Now, let's get started with this blog! Shall we? We shall!! 

Talking about the quotes that I picked out and the reason why I love these quotes?

The quotes that I picked out are by two Kpop singers and another quote by an actor in a Korean drama called "It's Okay to Not Be Okay". The first quote goes like this: "Yes, look down on me like 

that. It's my hobby to prove 

you wrong." -Min Yoongi. I love this quote because I have proven people wrong since I could remember. I have been proven people wrong since I could remember and showing people that I can do it. The second quote that I can relate to in my day to day life is by Jin. It goes like this: "Can't Hold Me Down 

'Cuz you know 

I'm a Fighter."

-Kim Seokjin. I love this quote because when I go for something, I go for something and I never give up. I fight for what believe in and I don't give up. I fight for what I love and I will keep fighting for what I love until I can't fight it any more!! The third and final quote is by Moon Gang-tae who played by Kim Soo-hyun and the quote goes like this: "I'm done with being someone who is needed by others". I like this quote because sometimes, I feel so done with people who is never there for me and I am done for people who isn't there for me. If you are not going to be there for me, I don't need you to hurt me and my feelings!! 

Which quote or quotes that I can relate to in my day to day life? Why can I relate to those quotes?

The quote or quotes that I can relate to in my day to day life are by two Kpop singers and a quote in a Korean drama. The way that I can relate to the first one is I have been put down and everyone always looked down upon me. Everyone has told me that I can't do this or do that and I had to prove those people wrong. I had to show those people that no matter what, I can do it. The reason why I can relate to this quote a lot because the way I can describe Min Yoongi from BTS is he is always proven people wrong and I love that about him. I feel like me and him are the same in different ways because I had to prove people wrong my entire life and I had to show people whatever I was going through in life or whatever my disability was, I just had to show those people that I can do it and I had to show those people that I can do it!! The second quote is by Jin, a band member from BTS. The quote reminds that no one and I mean no one can't hold me down because I am a fighter. I will fight for what I believe in and I will continue to fight for what I believe in until I can't fight anymore. The reason why I can relate to that quote in my day to day life because everyday, I work hard and fight for what I believe in. I fight my insecurities off and I fight what my mind is telling me. I fight for what I believe in and I fight to get through the day!! The third and final quote that I can relate to is from a K drama called "It's Okay Not to be Okay". The way I can relate to the third to that quote is I am done being there for people who are not there for me. I am done with people who isn't going to be at my side and support me. I am not going to put myself through that hurt all over again. I'm not going through that! I'm not. It's a waste of time and I am not wasting my time. The reason why I can relate to this quote a lot is because I had people who hurt me and I had to handle that hurt and it hurt me a lot. I would be there for people but some people aren't there for me and that hurt me so much. I'm done being there for people who aren't there for me. If you are not going to be there for me, then I am not going to be there for you. Plain and simple!! 

What is the meaning behind each quote that I can relate to? 

The meaning behind the first quote is when I was growing up, I had people telling me "you can't do this. You can't do that. You will never read or tie your own shoes." Here I am at 23 years old, reading and tying my own shoes. I have showed people that I can do it. I have proven to people from time to time that I can do it. I am not going to listen to what people say because you think that I can't do it but in reality, I can do it and now, you are feeling bad that you put me down. The meaning behind the second quote is growing up, I had to fight for what I believe in. I had to fight my insecurities because I felt like that I wasn't pretty enough or good enough but I had to show those people and mainly myself that I am pretty and that I am good enough. I had to show that I am fighter and whatever I am going through, I will always be a fighter. The meaning behind the third and final quote is I would always be there for people who needed me the most but what the sad part is no one would never be there for me except maybe a few people and that's okay because I will be there for those people who are there for me and that's it. I will be there for the people who supports me and who is always there for me no matter what. I will continue to prove people wrong! I will continue to fight for what I believe in. I will continue to be there for people who is there for me. I will never give up!! 

Why does that quote or those quotes have a special meaning?

The reason why that quote or those quotes have a special meaning is because each quote is apart of my life story. Each quote is apart of my day to day life and everyday, I feel like I am proven people wrong and fighting for my life. I feel like I am just tired of being there for people who aren't there for me and it that's sad. I have been there for people since I could remember and now, it is my turn to be there for myself. I need to be there for people who are there for me and who do support me instead of being there for people who don't care about you or support you. Cut those people out of your life. You will feel so much better after that!! 

In conclusion/ Tip of the day/ Question of the day?

In conclusion, always fight for your life and always find people who will care about you and support you no matter what. Always show people that you can do it instead of can't do it. Show people that you are strong and that you are fighter. Show people that you are amazing in your own way and that it's okay not to be okay. Never give up because you are absolutely amazing and you will always be a fighter no matter what. Here is my tip of the day: Fight for what you believe in because if you fight for what you believe in, you are a fighter and you got through it. If you cut out those people who don't care about you, you will feel so much better. If you show people that you can do it and you prove to them that you can do it, you are showing them that you are capable of doing it. My question of the day is: What are some quotes that you can relate to in your day to day life? Let me know in the comments down below, I want to know! Please! 

Alright, my Shinning Star Butterflies! Y'all have reached the end of my blog for today! I hope everyone enjoyed today's blog post. I hope everyone has an amazing Wednesday or amazing Thursday! I love y'all and please, stay safe! Stay Gold! Shine like a bright star like y'all are! Fly like a butterfly and chase your dreams! I love y'all and I will see y'all on Friday! Stay safe! I love y'all! Peace! 💜✌

                          A birthday tribute to my dad! By:Brandee Darden. 

Intro to my blog!! 

Hello, my Shinning Star Butterflies! Happy Monday or in other countries, Happy Tuesday! I hope everyone had an amazing weekend and I hope everyone stay safe. If you didn't have an amazing weekend, that's okay because it will get better and everything will be okay! Last week, I talked about my favorite fashion and makeup concepts that I put together and the battle between my light pink leather jacket vs my black puffy jacket with my blogger outfit. Honestly, I love the light pink leather jacket and the black puffy jacket both so much but to be honest, I love the light pink leather jacket with the jacket because I think it breaks up the black and I love to have a little color in my outfits. This week, I will be talking about what my dad has taught me throughout the years, what quotes that I can relate to my day life, and analyzing my poem called "Dear future boyfriend". Before I get started on today's blog post, I want to give out two birthday shout outs. The first birthday shout out goes out my dad. Happy birthday to my amazing dad! Thank you so much for what you have done for me! You have supported through everything and I appreciate that a lot! Happy birthday! The second birthday shout out to my good friend, Ana! Thank you so much for being there for me and supporting me! I hope you have an amazing day like you deserve! Happy birthday!! For today's blog, I will be talking about what has my dad taught me over the years? Why did my dad taught me those things? What are some life lessons did my dad taught me? Why did my dad taught me those life lessons? What do those life lessons mean to me? What is the meaning behind these life lessons from my dad? Let's get started with this blog!! Shall we? I think we shall! 

Explaining my relationship with my dad and how much he means to me? Why does he mean a lot to me? 

My relationship with my dad means everything to me! I love my dad so much! My dad has been there for me since I could remember and I am so blessed to have him as my dad! When I think about my dad, I think about him as a big teddy bear. He might look tough but he is actually a softy and he is very protective when it comes to me! Our relationship means a lot to me! He is my best friend and the person that I can go to when I am having trouble with something! Why does he mean a lot to me, y'all might ask? Well, the reason why he means a lot to me is because he has helped me through a lot and he was always there for me whenever I needed him the most. He is a great dad and I love having a dad like him! 

What has my dad taught me over the years? Why did my dad taught me those things? 

What has my dad taught me over the years? Well, my dad has taught me a lot of things over the years! My dad has taught me how to play softball! He has taught me how to cook. My dad taught me a lot of the things. The reason he taught me those things is because I remember being a little girl and after my daddy's softball games, I would run around the fields and being goofy! I would wear my own shirt with the team's name on it with shorts and cleats. Yes, I even have my own cleats by when my dad coached softball back then. Recently, I started to cook something's. I really didn't take interest in cooking but ever since then, I know how to cook things because of my dad. I know how to cook ramen noodles, French Fries, chicken nuggets,  mashed potatoes, and Mac and Cheese. My dad is an amazing dad! I can't say a lot of people have an amazing dad but I can say my dad is pretty amazing! He taught those things and I can't wait to learn how to cook more things in the future!

What are some life lessons did my dad taught me? Why did my dad taught me those life lessons? 

What are some life lessons did my taught me? My dad has always taught me to never give up and to always work hard! My dad also taught me not to give up! My dad has always told me if I was crying, he would say "I will give you something to cry about" and ever since then, I would never cry unless I am in pain but other than that, I listened to what my dad said and it stuck with me since then! My dad has always been there for me and he knows how to calm me down when I am upset! The reason why my dad taught me those life lessons because I don't have that quitters blood in me and it is because my dad. My dad has always believed me and my dad always taught me to never give up and I still believe it to this day to never give up and I never give up because of my dad! My dad is my biggest supporter and I love him so much! I am blessed to have an amazing dad like him!

What do those life lessons mean to me? What is the meaning behind these life lessons from my dad?

These life lessons mean a lot to me! These life lessons are the reason why I am the person that I am today! I don't give up easily because of my dad. If my dad saw me crying for no reason, he would say "I would give you something to cry" and I still believe in that to this day. Some people can look at my dad and he say "he looks scary" but in reality, he is a softie and he is very caring. Those life lessons has helped me growing up and I will continue to use those life lessons and I will continue to never to give up! The meaning behind these life lessons from my dad is that I will never give up because I don't quit. I don't have the quitters blood in me. I don't give up easily because of my dad! I will never give up easily and I will continue to fight for my dreams as long as I can! As long as I am alive, I will never give up because of my dad! My dad will always support me and he will continue to support me no matter what! I love and care about my dad so much and I know that I will always have a caring dad no matter what. 

In conclusion/ Tip of the day and question of the day? 

In conclusion, I remember growing up and my dad always being there for me and always supporting me! I remember what my dad always told me and he always told me "You will always be my little girl" and ever since then, that has always been stuck with me. No matter how old I get, I will always be daddy's little girl. I love my daddy so much! Thank you, Daddy for always being there for me and loving me as who I am. Here is my tip and question of day!! My tip of the day is always love the person who raised you or who was always there for you. Always tell them that you love them whether it is your dad or your mom or even your grandma. Tell those people that you love them and tell them that you are thankful for raising you. You will never know when you can tell them thank you until it's too late. Love the people who helped raised you! The question of the day is: What are some things that someone who you love taught you while you were growing up? Let me know in the comments down below. I want to hear your comments.

Alright, my Shinning Star Butterflies! Y'all have reached the end of my blog post for today! I hope y'all enjoy my blog post! Happy birthday to my daddy and my good friend, Ana! I hope y'all enjoy y'all's day and I love y'all so much! I hope everyone has an amazing day or night, wherever y'all maybe be at in this world. I love y'all. Stay safe! Stay Gold! Shine bright like a star that y'all are! Fly like a butterfly and chase y'all dreams! I love y'all and I will see y'all on my next blog! I love y'all! Peace! 💜✌❤ 

Me and my daddy at my 9th grade homecoming dance!

Me and my dad at my graduation on May 18th, 2017! I love my dad so much! 

Me and my daddy at my all stars football game!!

No matter how old I get or how grown I act, I will always be my daddy's little girl no matter what. I love this song so much because my dad means a lot to me and I will always be his little girl. I love my dad so much! Happy birthday, Daddy! I love you! 

                                       My poem, "Dear Exes". By: Brandee Darden. 

Intro to my blog! 

Hello, my Shinning Star Butterflies! Happy Friday or in other countries, Happy Saturday! I hope everyone is doing absolutely amazing and well. On Wednesday, I talked about who I was thankful to have in my life? Honestly, the people who I am thankful to have in my life is my dad, my bonus mom aka my step mom, my mom, my siblings, my aunts, my uncles, my nieces, my nephews, my friends, and so many more people who are apart of my life. I am so blessed and thankful to have those people in my life! I love those people who are apart of my life so much! They mean so much to me and I am thankful to have those people in my life! Before I get started for today's blog, I am not hear to bash my ex boyfriends at all whatsoever! My ex boyfriends were amazing to me while we were in a relationship and they are really nice! With that being said; for today's blog, it is about my poem "Dear exes". I will be talking about what does this poem mean to me? Why did I write this poem? What is the meaning behind this poem? What is the meaning behind this poem? What is the significance behind this poem? Why this poem so significant? What have I learned from my previous relationships? I don't want to bash or talk bad about my exes because they all treated me well while we were in relationship. So; with that being said, let's get started with this blog! Shall we? I think we shall! 

My poem and what is it about? 

I wrote a poem called "Dear Exes". It goes like this: "Dear exes, 

You hurt

Me badly!

You broke 

me so bad! Y'all 

broke my 

heart so 

bad! But

each of y'all 

taught me a 

lesson! Y'all 

remind me that 

y'all weren't 

the right ones 

for me! 

-Brandee Darden. This poem is about my ex 4 boyfriends! I am not going to mention their names because of personal reasons. This poem is about how they broke heart really bad. Two of them cheated on me and two of them fell out of love with me but that's okay! Was I happy in those relationships? Yes, I was happy in those relationships. I was with them and we had good memories together, but those memories are my past now and I have moved on from my ex boyfriends. I hope they are doing good and being safe and happy! That's all that I want for my ex boyfriends. All I want for my ex boyfriends to be happy and safe which I am praying they are!

What does this poem mean to me? Why did I write this poem?

What does this poem mean to me? Well, this poem a lot to me! I wrote this poem because I was remembering how my ex boyfriends hurt me and they hurt me so bad! Even though they are hurt me, I will always remember the good memories that I had with each ex boyfriend! This poem mean a lot to me because I wrote it to release the anger that had and now, I can move on from exes because they aren't worth my tears anymore and they will never be a waste of my tears ever! The reason why I write this poem is because I was having a hard time moving on from a ex boyfriend of mine and I wanted to write a poem about my ex boyfriend's and how bad they hurt me! They hurt me so bad that I thought I should forget love but I will never give up love because I love myself for who I am and for who I was. I am never changing for anyone because they are not worth my time and if people don't like you for who you are, then kick them to the curb! They aren't worth your time!

What is the meaning behind this poem? 

The meaning behind this poem is when all my ex boyfriend's broke up with me and two cheated on me and two fell out love and I broke up with the third ex boyfriend, I was hurt when all of my relationships ended especially the fourth relationship. Me and my fourth ex boyfriend were together for a year and then, on May 2nd, he broke with me! I was hurt for a while but I realized myself worth and that I am worthy of love. I moved on from all of my ex boyfriends and I am happy because I moved on! I am who I am because I realized that they aren't worth my tears! No guy should never be a waste of your tears because they aren't worth it! For girls, never waste your tears for a guy! It's a waste of time! For a guy, never waste your tears on a girl because they aren't worth your time! Go find someone who is worth your tears because there is who is worth your tears and they are waiting for you!! 

What is the significance behind this poem? Why this poem so significant? 

What is the significance behind this poem? Well, the significance behind this poem is when someone hurts you especially an ex boyfriend or an ex girlfriend, it hurts you for a while! You learn that when you are hurting, you have to learn how to cope with it even if it does hurt your heart! I will never forget when my first ex boyfriend broke up with me. I was in 8th grade when we broke up and honestly, I was heartbroken but moved on. I learned to move on from all my ex boyfriend's because I realized that they are not worth my tears and they will never be worth my tears because guys can be jerks at times but they are not worth your tears! Sorry guys not sorry! Why this poem so significant? The reason why this poem is so significant is because guys are jerks and guys will always be jerks no matter what but I realized no guy is worth my tears unless if you are BTS or any of the members of BTS, that's it! No other guy isn't worth being sad over because they are jerks and losers! I'm sorry, guys but that's the truth! No guy will never be worth my tears ever again unless it is BTS but other than that, I will never cry over a guy again because they aren't worth my tears! #notwastingmytearsfornoguy

What have I learned from my previous relationships? 

What have I learned from my previous relationships? Well, I have learned that never cry over a guy who isn't worth your time because they aren't worth your time! Another thing that I learned from my previous relationships is when you want to break up with someone, don't text them! Do it face to face because if you do it over text, it hurts worse and it is kind of stupid to do it over text. The third and final thing that I learned from my previous relationships is once a cheater, always a cheater. Once you cheat once, it is most likely you would cheat again! I don't like cheaters because once you cheat on me, I will never forgive you! Ever!!! I will never forget what you did to me because you hurt me and not only that, my family and my friends will get you and that is no lie! Once you hurt me, my family and friends are after you! Just saying!

In conclusion/ Tip of the day!

In conclusion, never settle with any guy or girl if they will hurt you at the end. Don't get into a relationship if you don't see yourself happy with that girl or that guy! Be with someone who will love you for you, who will like the same things as you, and who will support you no matter what. Be with someone who doesn't judge you because y'all like different things. Be with someone who will understand your feelings and who will be there for you even if you are having a hard time with life! Find someone who will listen to you no matter what and find someone who won't talk about their ex because if you are in a relationship with someone who talks about their ex constantly or even the future, then y'all are not meant to be! Never waste your tears on someone who hurt you because if you are crying over them, then you are wasting you're wasting your tears for someone who doesn't care and you need to move on! My tip of the day is never waste your tears on someone who doesn't care. Don't get into a relationship that you think you won't be happy! When the time is right, you will find that special person who is meant to be in your life forever! Don't rush things because rushing things isn't good and you are moving to fast to get into a relationship! Don't do that!

Alright, my Shinning Star Butterflies! Y'all have reached the end of my blog post for today! I hope everyone liked this blog post for today! I hope everyone had an amazing week and has an amazing weekend ahead! Happy Friday or in other countries, Happy Saturdays! I love y'all so much and stay safe! Stay Gold! Shine Like A Bright Star that you are and Fly Like a Butterfly to Chase your Dreams! Be Safe and I will see y'all on Monday! Love y'all! Peace! ✌💙

BTS, the only men who I would waste my tears on because they are worth my tears all day and everyday! 
 

I love these boys so much! They mean everything to me and their music is the best medicine for me! I love them so much! 

"After a breakup, the 
loyal one stays single 
and deals with the 
damages until healed.
The other one is 
already in another
relationship."
-Unknown. I love this quote because while the loyal person is very heartbroken and wants to move on but they can't because they are hurting. The other person is already moving on and finding another person that they might like or was talking behind your back. 

This song is called "Broken Heart" by: Monsta X. This song reminds of when you got out of a relationship and your heart is broken because when you thought that person loved you but they really didn't so it broke your heart. This song is such an amazing song. I love it! 

The people in my life who I am thankful for! By: Brandee Darden.

                                The people in my life who I am thankful for! By: Brandee Darden. 💜 

Intro to my blog! 

Hello, my Shinning Star Butterflies! It's your girl, Brandee back with a another blog! I hope everyone is doing well and amazing! Happy Wednesday or in other countries, Happy Thursday! I hope everyone is having an amazing day or night wherever y'all maybe be at in the world! On Monday, I talked about what things that I am thankful for this year and that is blogging, writing poems, and life! The reason why I am thankful for those things because blogging gave me a platform to share my stories and share what I have went through! It has given me if I can help people with my stories or how I am feeling, then I am happy to share my stories and give people updates on how am I feeling and stuff like that! Writing poems has given me an escape to free my imagination and show people what I am capable of and showing off my work! I love showing off my poems and telling the world what they mean to me! Lastly, living my life and how I want to makes me happy! Doing something that I love and living the best life that I can makes me happy! I am happy to live my best life and I will do anything to make myself happy! On today's blog, I will be talking about the people in my life who I am thankful for! I will be talking about who am I thankful to have in my life? Why am I thankful to have those people in my life? What significance to those people play in my life? Why is it so significant for those people to play in my life? Let's get started with the blog! Shall we? We shall!! 

The people who you care about and if they care about you, they will stay in your life forever!

The people who you care about and if they care about you, they will stay in your life forever! Y'all maybe wondering "Brandee, what do you mean by that sentence"? Well, what I mean by that sentence is, if people care about you and they always check on you just to make sure that you are doing okay and they always care about you, then they were meant to be in your life forever. God put you there for a reason! Keep those in your life because you don't know when you would see those people again until it's too late! Don't make it too late or you might regret it later in life. Don't regret it! Tell your family and your friends that you love them because once they are gone, they are gone but they will never be gone forever. They will always remain in your hearts forever and always! 

Who am I thankful to have in my life? Why am I thankful to have those people in my life?

The people who I am thankful for is my dad, my step mom, my mom, my sisters, my brothers, my friends, my family, and my fan base, my Shinning Star Butterflies! I am so thankful to have amazing people who are meant to be in my life! I love these people so much! Some of my friends are like family to me! They understand me and they are there for me whenever I needed them the most! I love my family and friends so much! My fan base, my Shinning Star Butterflies mean everything to me! They are so supportive and they are absolutely amazing! I am so thankful to have an amazing support system in life! I am blessed! The reason why I am thankful to have those people in my life is because they are very supportive and when I need someone to talk to, I can go to my friends or my family if I need to! I am thankful that God put people in my life who are meant to be in my life for ever! I am blessed to have friends who are like family to me! I am so blessed to have a fan base aka my Shinning Star Butterflies supporting me and being there for me! I am so blessed to have an amazing support team! I am so thankful and blessed!

What significance do those people play in my life? 

The significance that these people play in my life is a major roll in my life! They are my support system, they are people that I can count on the most! My Shinning Star Butterflies is my fan base who I love so much! My family. friends, siblings, aunts, uncles, nieces, nephews, my dad, my step mom, mom, and so many  people who are apart of my life is very important to me! The significance they play in my life is very important to me! They are very significant to me and they mean so much. I love everyone who is in my support system and I am very blessed to have these people in my life! I am blessed to be loved by the most amazing people in the world! I am lucky to enough to say that I have people who love for me because they accept me for loving Kpop music and they don't tease me about it! I have some friends who love Kpop music like me as well and that to me is amazing! I am blessed to have amazing siblings who love me for who I am and I am blessed enough to have an amazing sister name, Brandy who shares my blogs. I am so blessed to have an amazing fan base who is very supportive and very understanding when I need to take a break! I love them so much! I'm a bless girl! 

Why is it so significant for those people to play in my life? 

When people come into your life, they meant to be there forever! You are going to have people who are going to leave your life, but the ones who care about you and who love you so much, will stay in your life forever! There is a saying that I like and it goes like this: "Friends come and go, but family is forever". I love this because certain friends will leave you but friends who treat you like family will stay in your life forever! The reason why it is so significant for those people to people in my life is because those people mean everything to me! They are very important to me and I would do anything to help them if they need help! I would protect them from danger and I would make sure to give them love when they need it! I will make sure to comfort them when they need to have comfort! When they are sad, I will make sure to cheer them up and comfort them the best way that I can because that is how I am. I will make sure that my family and friends are comforted the best way that I can because they are very important to me and I want them to feel comforted and safe! I will always protect the people that I love and I will make they are safe as well. 

In conclusion/ Tip of the day! 

In conclusion, keep people who you love close because once they are gone, they are gone! You never know when their last day could be until it is too late and you want to hug those people forever until you can't anymore. Tell people that you love them because you will never know when you can tell you love them until it's too late. Keep people who you love in your life because they are important to you and they will always be there for you and love you no matter. Those people who you thought that they were there for you, those are just fake people! They will be there for you one minute and then, the next minute they are not there for you! They get up and leave your side forever! You don't need those people in your life! You need people who are there for you and I am lucky enough to say that I have amazing friends and family who are very supportive and there for me! I am very blessed! Here is my tip of the day! The tip of the day is: Be thankful for the people who you have in your life because their people out there who don't have people there for them and that is really sad. For the people who doesn't have anyone to support them or you feel alone, just know that I am here for you if you need anyone! I love you and I care about y'all so much! I will care and love y'all unconditionally. I will protect y'all from harm's way! I am here for anyone! 

Hello, my Shinning Star Butterflies! Yes, y'all have reached the end of my blog for today! Just know that I am always here for y'all if anyone needs anything. I will always protect y'all and listen to y'all if anyone needs comfort! I will always care about everyone because that is who I am. I will listen to y'all, not judge! If anyone needs someone to talk to, I am here for anyone! I love y'all and I hope everyone enjoyed today's blog and I hope everyone has an amazing Wednesday or in other countries, an amazing Thursday! Stay Safe! Stay Gold! Shine Bright like a star that you are and Fly like a butterfly and Chase your dreams! I love y'all and I will see y'all on Friday with the next blog! Bye, Everyone! Stay Safe! 

My Shinning Star Butterflies! They are so supportive and I love them so much! They are very understanding and supportive! I am blessed! 

"Tomorrow is 
never promised,
so love and 
appreciate the 
people who are
in your life."
-Unknown. I love this quote because you never know what tomorrow can so you have to love and appreciate the people who are in life because you never know when their last day can be and you don't know when you can see them again, so love them as much as you can! 

This song is called "I'll be there" by Yoon Jisung. This song goes out to people who feels they are alone and I am always here for them no matter what! I love y'all so much!

Things that I am most thankful for this year! By: Brandee M. Darden!

                                                   Things that I am most thankful for this year! By: Brandee M. Darden. 

Intro to my blog! 

Hello, my Shinning Star Butterflies! Happy Monday or in other countries, happy Tuesday! Happy November 1st! I can't believe it is November already! This year is going by fast! It is Blog Monday and you know what that means? That right! It is a new blog! Last week, I talked about my three poems which where "Believe in Yourself", "Life Goes On", and "Always Keep Trying". I absolutely love those poems a lot! All of those poems meant a lot to me! I put a lot of thought and meaning to them and they mean a lot to me! This week, I will be talking about the things that I am most thankful for this year, who I am thankful to have in my life, and my poem about "Dear Ex's". I think Friday's blog post is going to be really good and interesting! I can't wait to work on Friday's blog post! Stay tuned for that blog on Friday! For today's blog, I will be talking about things that I am most thankful for this year! I will be talking what am I thankful for this year? Why am I most thankful for that thing or things this year? What is the significance of me being thankful for that thing or things? Why is that thing or things so significant to me? Now, let's get started with my new blog! Shall we? I think we shall! 

What does the word "thankful" mean? Why does it mean to me?

In my opinion, the word "thankful" means something that you are proud to have in your life or the family or friends that you have in your life. The word "thankful" means to me is something or someone who you should give thanks to because once that thing or someone is gone, they are gone and they never coming back! I am thankful to be blogging and sharing my experiences with everyone around the world and telling people what I have been through! I am so thankful that I can spread positivity around the around the world! I am thankful for that! Why does it mean to me? Well, it means to me because I am thankful that God gave me a purpose in life and spread positive vibes around the world instead of negative vibes around the world! I am thankful to help people around the world and be happy doing it! I am so thankful! 

What am I thankful for this year? Why am I most thankful for that thing or things this year?

What am I thankful for this year? Well, the thing or things that I am thankful for this year are blogging, writing poems, and life! The first thing that I am thankful for this year is blogging. The reason why I am thankful for blogging is because I learned about myself more and me opening up to people around the world and sharing my experiences that I went through meant a lot to me and I am so thankful that I can do it and tell people my personal experiences or share my personal stories! I am thankful that I can do that for people who are struggling! The second thing that I am thankful for this year is writing poems! I started writing poems on August 28th and honestly, I love every minute of it! Writing poems has opened up a lot for me and honestly, I learned about myself more through blogging and writing poems then anything in this world! I didn't know my words could be so powerful but they are! The reason why I am so thankful for writing poems is because writing poems has become my escape from reality! When I feel low or down on myself, I write poems! I love writing down poems because I feel happy when I do it and sharing my work with people who I love and sharing it with people who support me means a lot to me! I love writing poems and I am so thankful that I could do it! The third and final thing that I am thankful for this year and every year is my life! My life has been through obstacle after obstacle that I can think of! I have been bullied! I also have tried to commit suicide but I couldn't do it because I have my great nieces and nephews that are looking up to me and I couldn't give up on my life! The reason why I am thankful for my life this year and every year is because throughout my life, I had people who doubted me and telling my parents and my family that "I couldn't read on my own. I couldn't tie my own shoes." But, guess what?? I prove those people wrong and here I am, 23 years later, tying my own shoes and reading on my own! I have prove people wrong time to time and I have never giving up and I am planning not to give up anytime soon! 

What is the significance of being thankful for that thing or things? 

The significance of me being thankful for blogging, writing, and life is that when I started blogging, I didn't know it would take me this far in life! I didn't know that it would mean a lot to me that I would call myself "The Queen of Blogging" or "Blogger". Blogging has been so significant to me that when people call me "inspirational" that it means a lot to me! I felt like I was meant to do is in life! I feel like I was meant to help people in life and help them with my words! Writing poems is thing that I have taken new in my life! Writing poems has been away where I want to write about what I have been through and stuff like that. Writing poems about "Self doubt" or "Family" or even about my favorite Kpop band "BTS" has meant a lot to me! Writing poems is a thing that has become my new favorite in life! I have went through a lot in my life and there has been times where I wanted to give up on my life but I couldn't give up because my life is worth living and I love my life now! I love the people who are in my life! I have amazing support system who supports me through my blogging journey! I also have my fan base aka my Shinning Star Butterflies! Life is so worth living! I am proud to live my life! I am proud of the person that I have come today! I am so proud of myself and I am going to continue to make myself proud! These three things have become so significant in my life that I am going to continue make myself happy without or without a man by my side. I have my family and friends that support me through everything and I am so thankful for that! I am so thankful that I could hug my family and friends around the world! I am a very blessed girl!

Why is that thing or things so significant?

The reason why blogging, writing poems, and my everyday life is so significant to me is because when I wake up every morning wanting to either write blog ideas or poems, I feel happy to live this life! I am happy to find something that I can enjoy life because life is worth enjoying when you have a positive attitude! I am happy to wake up everyday happy and realizing that life is worth living and being happy! I look at my BTS posters and realize to myself "I need to get up and love myself because no one else isn't going to love me but myself" attitude. I think when you find something you love and enjoy, it means a lot to you and you never want to give it up in life! I am thankful to enjoy my life, blogging, and writing poems! I am so happy to share my personal experiences with my family, friends, and my Shinning Star Butterflies! I am so thankful that I can share what I went through and tell people it's okay not to be okay but just never give up because life is worth living and you need to be happy! You are going to have hard times in life but that is all apart of life! You live, you learn, and you grow from your mistakes! That is the only way that you can grow! It's okay to make mistakes in life, but when you make a mistake in life, you grow from it and you learn from it as well! Be thankful for everyday life because you never know when you are on this earth until it's your last day! Just be happy and thank God everyday for your life because life is so precious! Never give up!

In conclusion/ Tip of the day/ Question of the day?

In conclusion, when you find something that makes you happy continue to make yourself happy with it because once you loose it, you loose it! Life is worth living! You have people who are supporting 110% and I will continue to support people who needs support! Be thankful for things that you have because you never know when it is gone until it is gone! Be happy to do something that you love because doing something that you love is so important and if you love it, continue to do it! Be happy doing it! I love living my life, blogging, and writing poems! I am happy to do those three things and I am happy to be who I am just by doing those three! I will forever be happy doing those three because life is so precious and blogging and writing poems have become a routine that I don't want to mess it up for me! Here is my tip and question of the day! My tip of the day is: Do something that makes you happy! Do something that you enjoy doing because once it is gone, it is gone! Make yourself happy just by doing it! My question of the day is: What are you thankful for this year? Why are you thankful for it? Let me know in the comments down below! I want to know y"all's things that y'all are thankful for this year! 

Alright, my Shinning Star Butterflies! Y'all have reached the end of my blog post for today! I hope everyone has a blessed day or night, wherever y'all are in this world! Be thankful for what you have in this world because you don't know when it is gone until it is gone! Happy November 1st or in other countries, Happy November 2nd! I hope everyone stays safe and I hope enjoys the rest of the day or night! Stay gold! Shine like a bright star like you are! Fly Like a Butterfly and Chase Your dreams because everyone is worth the love that deserve! I love y'all and I hope everyone enjoy this blog for today! I love y'all and see y'all on Wednesday! Bye, my Shinning Star Butterflies! 💖💜💙

My poem about blogging! I love this poem because when I wrote this poem, I didn't know how much blogging meant to me until I started blogging! Now, blogging is my life and I never want to give it up! I love blogging so much! 

"Life is a 
journey to be
experienced, 
not a problem 
to be solved."
-Winnie The Pooh. I love this quote because life is about enjoying new experiences and enjoying new things in life not about solving a problem in your life! Enjoy your life and worried about your life later !

This blogging journey has been so phenomenal that I can't describe it in words! The love that I have been receiving for my blogs! It is so amazing and awesome!