A letter to my future self!
A letter to my future self! Blog episode by: Brandee Darden. Wednesday, August 10th, 2022! .png)
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Intro to my blog!
Hey, my Blogger Dreamers! Welcome back to a new blog episode! It's your girl aka the Blogger Queen, Brandee is in the house! Happy Wednesday or in other countries, Happy Thursday! How's my fandom doing today? I hope my fandom is doing well and amazing! If not, that's okay! Everything will be okay! If you are going through something hard, just remember to you are never alone and that you got this! I believe in my Blogger Dreamers! Yesterday for me was a rough day but today, I am okay because today is a new blog episode! Yay but before I get into today's blog episode, let's talk about Monday's blog episode! On Monday, I talked about my poem called "Dreaming". Does any of my Blogger Dreamers have good dreams about something but all of sudden, your alarm or someone decides to wake you up? Yes! That stinks! Dreaming about anything from your future or even a dream vacation can be fun but in order to achieve that dream, you have to go for it!! Never give up on your dreams!! Now, moving onto today's blog episode! On today's blog episode, I will be talking about A letter to my future self! In today's blog episode, I will be talking about in my letter to my future self, I mentioned "you are trying your best! You're still figuring yourself and that's okay," what do I mean by that? Why in the future am I still figuring myself out? When I said "It's okay that you are figuring out because in your past life, your weren't happy", what caused my happiness that I don't want to bring in my future? Why do I want to bring that thing or things in the future? If I have any advice about figuring out the future, what is my advice? Why would I give that advice to my Blogger Dreamers? Now, without no further a do, let's started! Shall we? We shall!!
Talking about my letter! When I think about my future self, what do I think about? Why do I think about my future self like that?
On Sunday, July 17th of this year, I wrote a letter to my future self and it goes a little like this:
To my future
self, you are trying your
best! You're still figuring yourself
out and that's okay! Your still
figuring out what happiness means
to you and that's okay! It's
okay that you are figuring out
what is happiness means to you
because in your past life, you weren't
happy! In the future, I hope you
get all the happiness in the world!
You deserve everything great and
I pray you do!
-Love the present self,
Brandee Darden!
Sunday, July 17th, 2022! I love this letter so much! I pray that one day in the future that I can go back and read on it! I do pray that one day, I can be happy and show the world what I am capable of! I pray that one day I can show my "haters" that they are messing with the wrong chick and that I'm not going down without a fight! I hope and pray that I can show my ex boyfriends what they are missing in a woman like me! I pray that one day that I can show my future boyfriend that I will be by his side and I pray that he will always be by my side as well! When I think about my future self, what do I think about? When I think about my future self, I think about myself as this woman who is traveling around the world and making YouTube videos or I think about interviewing celebrities and getting the tea about anything! I also think about just a woman who is being her happy self and not giving up! Why do I think about my future self like that? The reason why I think about myself like that is because I want to prove to my "haters" that I can do this! I want my best friends, my family, and my mom, my dad, and my step mom and I want them to say "That's my best friend or sister or aunt or daughter". I want to show the world that I can do it and that I'm not afraid to state my truth! There is a movie called "Grease" and in the beginning of the movie, the song "Grease is the word" is playing and I think to myself, "The word for me that I can use instead of Grease, I can use not giving up is the word". Not giving up is my word and I will never give up on my future!!
What do I mean by that? Why in the future am I still figuring myself out?
In my letter to my future self, I mentioned "you are trying your best! You're still figuring yourself and that's okay", what do I mean by that? What I meant by that is I'm trying my best by making myself proud! I'm trying hard to work towards my future goals and I shouldn't be too hard on myself! I'm still figuring who I am as a person and what I meant to do in life! Life is a difficult thing to get by sometimes! You loose friends, you gain friends, but at the end day of the day, the only person who is going to have your back is yourself! You are trying to figure out who you are and who you want to become a better person for yourself in the future! Figuring yourself out can be hard at times but at the end of the day, you will figure yourself out and I know that one day, I will figure myself out! I know that I am good person and I will never give up the person that I am from the present, past, and future! Why in the future am I still figuring myself out? The reason why I am still figuring myself out in the future is because sometimes, people really haven't figure themselves out yet but one day in the future, I pray that I already figure out who I am and who I will become! Sometimes, figuring yourself out can be difficult but one day, you will get there! It takes time what your dislikes or your likes are and that's okay! Everything will be okay!!
What caused my happiness? Why do I not want to bring that thing or things in the future?
When I said "It's okay that you are figuring out because in your past life, you weren't happy", what caused my happiness that I don't want to bring in the future? What caused me to be happy was letting go past things and relationships! Another thing that caused my happiness was letting people into my life who are going to stay with me one minute and the next minute, leave me! In the future, I'm not going to have people who are by my side one minute and then the next minute, leave me! I'm not going to let people come into life and hurt me! I am not going to watch my future self get hurt like my past self did! I'm going to start letting go old relationships and letting things go that I don't need to keep holding on anymore because it's not worth my time! Why do I not want to bring in my future? The only reason that I do not want to bring that stuff in the future because I am not going to let my future self get hurt again! When I want someone in my life, I am going to ask them "are you here for the long term or the short term because if you are here for the short term, you can leave! Thank you". I am not going to keep on holding onto past things and past relationships haunt me forever! I'm not going to do that! I'm not going to let myself go through the hold onto the past and not forget about it! No! The future me is going to let go of that stuff and move on and grow up!!
My advice! Why would I give that advice to my Blogger Dreamers?
If I have any advice about figuring out the future, what is my advice? If I have any advice about figuring out the future, my only advice is don't worry about the future right now and just focus on the present! Let go what you have in the past because the past can haunt you! Worry about what is going on in the present because you can worry about the future when it gets here but don't worry about it right now and focus what is in front of you right now!! Your present is something that you should focus on instead of your future! Yes, it is okay to worry about your future but don't focus too much on it! Why would I give that advice to my Blogger Dreamers? The reason why I would give that advice to my Blogger Dreamers is because I feel like everyone is more worried about the future which I completely understand but at the same time, you should focus what is in front of you and worry about the future later on! Focus on what makes you happy and let go what is bothering you and always love yourself no matter what!
In conclusion/ Tip of the day/ Challenge of the day!!
In conclusion, even though I talked about my future self, I should worry about myself now and not focus about the future! In my opinion, I think you should get a little head start about your future but not worry about it! It's okay to think about your future but not to worry about it! Your future self will be okay and your future self will be happy one day! Don't stress yourself about it! There is nothing to stress about and y'all got this! Focus on what is in front of you aka your present because your future will be coming soon! Here is my tip and challenge of the day!! My tip of the day is focus on the present and worry about your future a little later! Your future is waiting and one day, you will have your future job and maybe one day, you will be happy! For right now, focus on the present and don't worry about the future! The challenge of the day is write down what you are looking forward in the future and then, write down what you want to let go in future! Then, keep it for yourself and your future self can go back and read it! Good luck on the challenge! Y'all got this! Fighting! I love y'all!
Alright, my Blogger Dreamers! It's your Blogger Queen, Brandee here to remind everyone that y'all have reached the end of today's blog episode! I hope everyone enjoyed today's blog episode! It's okay to worry about the future but not to worry about it way too much that it might stress you out! Never get stressed about your future because there is nothing to be stress about it! Your future will be fine! For today's quote of the day, it goes like this "Your best source of protection isn't a gun or a sword. It's your brain. Don't forget that". -Vincenzo. I love this quote because your brain can help you make the right decisions but it can help you make the wrong and stupid decisions as well! Your brain can help you in so many ways! Yes, a sword or a gun can help you kill someone but your brain can help you get out of situations that aren't good for you so use your brain because your brain is useful! Just saying! I hope my Blogger Dreamers will have good day or I hope my international Blogger Dreamers had a good day! I hope everyone will stay safe and stay hydrated! Staying hydrated is so important! Never forget our slogan: "Dream Big! Don't give up on your dreams"!! I love y'all and see y'all on Friday! This Blogger Queen is out! Peace! ✌💛
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The quote of the day! I love this quote so much! Such a good quote and always use your brain!! It can help you get out of situations! Just saying!   Afraid Of What Could Go Wrong, And Start Getting Excited About What Could Go Right." -Tony Robbins. I love this quote a lot because instead of worrying about what could go wrong, focus on what will go right and start getting excited because your future is coming!!  That Some Of The Best Moments Of Our Lives Haven't Even Happened Yet." -Unknown! I love this quote a lot because it is exciting to think there are something's that are going to happen one day in the future and it is exciting that it hasn't happened yet but eventually, it will!! Just wait your turn!! |
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