What was I like when I was a teenager? By: Brandee Darden.
What was I like when I was a teenager? By: Brandee Darden. Blog episode date: Friday, November 11th, 2022!! 
Intro to my blog!!
Hello, my Blogger Dreamers! It's your girl aka the queen of blogging herself, it's Brandee here and welcome to an all new blog episode the week! Happy Friday or in other countries, Happy Saturday! I am so happy to have y'all on a new blog episode! How's my fandom doing today? I hope everyone is doing well and amazing! If not, that's okay! Everything will be okay! Take a deep breath and breathe!! Before I talk about today's blog episode and Wednesday's blog episode, I just want to say thank you to my fans around the world like Singapore, Ireland, the places in the United States like Louisiana, Mississippi, or anywhere else in the United States, thank you from the bottom of my heart for supporting me on my blogging journey! Without y'all, I don't know where I would be without y'all! I love y'all! On Wednesday, I talked about where did I get my whole name from? Before I was born, everyone in my family thought I was a boy but my big sister, Brandy wasn't on board about me being a boy! Instead, she thought I was a girl the whole time! She made a bet with my mom and she said "It's not a boy and you are naming her after me". Well, here I am 24 years later and I am the second Brandee in my family! Now, my middle name came from my sister, Tyna because her middle name is "Marie" and I think Brandee Marie fits perfect and I love it! I ended up getting my dad's last name and I love my last name a lot!! Now, for today's blog episode, I will be talking about what was I like when I was a teenager? In this blog episode, I will be talking about when I was a teenager, what was I like? Why was I like that when I was a teenager? If I could describe my attitude when I was a teenager, how would I describe my attitude? Why would I describe my attitude like that? If I could go back in time and talk to my teenage self, what would I say? Why would I say those things to my teenage self? If I have any advice to teenagers about anything, what would my advice be? Why would I give out that type of advice? Now, without further ado, let's get started! Shall we? We shall!!
The word "teenager". What does the word "teenager" mean to me? Why does the word "teenager" mean to me like that?
When I think about the word "teenager", I think of hormones are everywhere and teenage girls are close to getting their time of the month! Boys are falling in love with girls! Attitudes are everywhere! I remember when my attitude was bad when I was a teenager which I will talk about my attitude later in the blog but I just remember my attitude was bad. Teenage attitudes are bad! Teenagers also wanted to go out with their friends on the weekends and hangout with them! Not me! I wanted to stay home and focus on school! Why does the word "teenager" mean to me like that? The reason why the word "teenager" means to me like that because when you enter into middle school and high school as a teenager, teenage boys and girls hormones are high and girls are getting their time of the month which isn't a bad thing if you are a guy but for a girl, it is bad because you have bad cramps and your mood swings are everywhere and sometimes, you don't want to do anything because you feel like crap! For guys, y'all's voices are dropping and some of y'all are finding a girl that you might have a crush on and stuff like that! Teenagers are crazy at times! I remember my teenage years!!
Me as a teenager! Why was I like that when I was a teenager?
When I was a teenager, what was I like? When I was a teenager, I was quite but once I got to know you, I didn't shut up! In school, I was nice to my teachers and my friends, but once I got home, if someone got me mad or upset, my attitude is bad and I would say mean things but I would apologize after I would said mean things! With my clothing style, I wore leggings and jeans! I never walked out the house with short shorts on because if I did, my dad would beat my behind and he would make me go back in the house and change!! I was good at times but my attitude would get me in trouble at times, whichever came first! Why was I like that when I was a teenager? The reason why I was like that when I was a teenager is because my attitude would get me in trouble or my mouth would get me in trouble or both would get me in trouble! Most of the time, I would be in my room and minding my own business but when someone starts bugging me, I will go off and my attitude would go off but again, I still have an attitude but I don't think it is bad to this day! I feel my clothing is still the same but I don't wear jeans as much as I used to! I still wear leggings to this day and I don't wear short shorts either!!
My attitude! Why would I describe my attitude like that?
If I could describe my attitude when I was a teenager, how would I describe my attitude? If I could describe my attitude when I was a teenager, I would describe my attitude as a light switch! You don't know if you were going to get a nice Brandee or a mean Brandee! My attitude was bad at home but at school, I was so nice to all of my teachers and my friends! I was also quite in school sometimes because if I didn't have any of my friends in class, then I wouldn't talk to anyone but for me, it wouldn't take long to make friends at all! When I was in a bad mood, don't ever mess with me because you never know what would come out of my mouth! My attitude was bad when I was a teenager but I think my attitude has changed since I became an adult! I try not to say mean things to anyone at all! Why would I describe my attitude like that? The reason why I would describe my attitude as a light switch because when I was a teenager, I would either wake up in a good mood or in a bad mood, depending what day it is or if someone said something rude to me, I would stay quite and when I am quite, you know what's up with me and I won't talk to anyone and I am still like that to this day!!
Talk to my teenage self! Why would I say those things to my teenage self?
If I could go back in time and talk to my teenage self, what would I say? If I could go back in time and talk to my teenage self, I would say "Go and hangout with friends. Don't be shy! Learn how to stand up for yourself! Don't be afraid to stand up for yourself". The first thing I would say is "Go and hangout with friends". When I was a teenager, I really didn't go and hangout with friends because I would stay home a lot and I am a home body and I was shy at times! The second thing that I would say "Don't be shy"! I was shy when I was teenager and I can still be shy to this day! At first, I am very shy but once I open up to people, I am good and I am not shy anymore!! The third thing I would say to my teenage self is "Learn how to stand up for yourself". When I was in middle and high school, I would get bullied and I wish I would learn how to stand up for myself but now, I know how to stand up for myself and stand my ground! The fourth and final thing that I would tell my teenage self is "Don't be afraid to stand up for my yourself". Sometimes, I would be afraid to stand up for myself and now, I am not afraid to stand my ground and I am not afraid to tell anyone off because I will tell people off now because I am not afraid to anymore! Why would I say those things to my teenage self? The reason why I would say those things to my teenage self is because I wish I could stand up for myself and be afraid but back then, I was afraid but not anymore! I wish I could of hangout with friends back then, but now, I don't think I would be able to hangout with friends because of my anxiety! Always learn how to stand up for yourself, no matter what!!!
My advice! Why would I give out that type of advice??
If I have any advice to teenagers about anything, what would my advice be? If have any advice to teenagers about anything, my advice is to enjoy your teenage years because in a blink of an eye, you are an adult and you have a job and a car! You wouldn't be able to hangout with your friends as much but enjoy your teenage years and make plenty of memories! Your teenage years is going to have plenty of ups and downs, but you are going to go through it! Keep chasing your dreams and never give up! You have your whole life in front of you! Don't make the wrong decisions in life! Make the right decisions or suffer the consequences! Don't suffer the consequences! Why would I give out that type of advice? The reason why I would give out that type of advice is because I want all the teenagers to make the right choices in life! Yes, teenagers will be teenagers but in life, you are going to go through things and in your mindset, you want to give up but don't give up because it's not worth it! I wish someone would gave me this type of an advice when I was a teenager but I am happy that I grew up well and I am happy to help any teenager who is willing to listen to my advice!
In conclusion/ Tip of the day/ Question of the day?
In conclusion, your teenage years can be a little challenging at times but it doesn't mean you have to give up! You are entering your middle school and high school years! Yes, middle school and high school is great but at the same time, it is going to be challenging! Don't fall behind in school because it will be hard to catch up in school! It's okay to be a teenager, but don't fall behind in school! Yes, you can hangout with your friends but always do your school work! Don't do drugs because drugs are bad for you! Peer pressure is big in teenage years but don't let anyone including your friends to peer pressure you because if you do, you are following them into what they are doing and you don't do that! Enjoy your teenage years! Did I enjoy my teenage years? Yeah, I did but I wish I could of did something different and learned how to stand up for myself when I was getting bullied in my middle school and high school years! Here is my tip and question of the day?! My tip of the day is enjoy your teen years! Please, don't make the wrong mistakes in life but if you do, you are going to have to suffer the consequences and you are going to have to live with those mistakes but at the end of the day, you are a human being and that's fine! Adults ad teenagers make mistakes! We aren't perfect! Don't be perfect because we aren't prefect!! My question of the day is what were you like when you were a teenager? Why were you like that as a teenager? Sound off in the comments down below and let me know! Please! Thank you so much! I love y'all! Make the right decisions in life! I love y'all!
Hello, my Blogger Dreamers! It's your girl aka the Blogger Queen herself, Brandee here reminding everyone that y'all have reached the end of today's blog episode! I hope everyone enjoyed today's blog episode! Talking about my teenage years reminded the times where I would get up early for school and go about my day and come home, tired and telling my dad "I'm hungry! Can you make me a peanut butter and jelly sandwich? Please". Ah! Good times! I wish I could of stand up to my bullies but now as an adult, I can stand up for myself and I am very proud of myself for that! For today's quote of the day, it goes like this: "You are the best leader of your own life". -Jung Hoseok aka J-Hope, from BTS! I love this quote so much because this is your life! Don't let anyone control your life! You are the only one who can control your life! Don't make the wrong decisions in your life! You are the leader of your life and if you don't like anything that is going on in your life, change it! Be happy in your life! Cut the toxicity out of your life! I hope everyone will have an amazing weekend ahead! Make the right decisions and be happy! Don't forget our slogan: "Dream big! Don't give up on your dreams"!! I love y'all and Happy Friday or in other countries, Happy Saturday! See y'all on my makeup and fashion blog page! This blogger queen is out! Peace! ✌💜
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Quote of the day!! Love this quote so much! Such an amazing quote and you are the best and only leader for your life! This is your life and you make your own rules! You are the only person who will break your rules!!   married, so go with the flow, laugh tons, use manners, and try something new. Will you just kiss him already? Trust your feelings, spend your cash, introduce yourself, take a chance, study hard, seek happiness, and regret nothing. He isn't 'your whole world', because you haven't even lived in this world long enough to say that, think about it, ten years is more than half your age. You're still a tiny tot. Don't laugh at other peoples dreams wish on 11:11, challenge yourself, take pictures and appreciate the memories. Have the time your life". I love this because there are some teenagers out there who wishes they were adults! Enjoy the time that you have in your teen years! Don't ever laugh at anyone's peoples dreams wish on 11:11 because if you make a wish at 11:11, your wish might come true! You never know! Appreciate the memories you have with your friends! Take pictures because pictures will last forever!!!  To end today's blog episode, here is the song of the week which is "Too Good At Goodbyes" by Sam Smith! I love this song so much because I am to the point where I am telling people goodbye because I am tired of the toxicity in my life and people coming in and out of my life! I don't need someone who will be there for me one minute and then, the next minute not there for me! I AM DONE! To the people who left me, you're canceled! Peace! |
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