Believing in true love? Family edition. By: Brandee Darden!
Believing in true love? Family edition! By: Brandee Darden! Date of blog: Wednesday, January 18th, 2023!! 
Intro to my blog!!
Hello, my Blogger Dreamers! It's your girl aka the Blogger Queen herself, Brandee here and welcome back to an all new weekly blog episode! First and foremost, Happy Wednesday or in other countries, Happy Thursday! How's my Blogger Dreamers doing today? I hope everyone is doing okay and well! If not, that's okay! I'm here to listen to you whatever you are going through! If you are going through a hard time, just don't give up! Y'all got this! I believe in my Blogger Dreamers! To the Blogger Dreamer who is reading this, just know that you're loved and I care about you so much! Smile, don't cry! If you had a bad day yesterday, that's okay because it's a brand new day and on top of that, it is a new blog episode kind of a day! Before I talk about today's blog episode, I am going to do a recap of Monday's blog episode! On Monday, I talked about my poem called "Haters". Haters and bullies very similar and let me tell y'all why? The reason why haters and bullies are the same is because they love to bring other people down and hate on you for no reason at all! Sometimes, they will go to the extreme and bring down your self esteem down which is wrong in so many ways! If someone hates on you, my advice is to ignore those haters because they aren't worth your time or energy! My Blogger Dreamers are much better than that! For today's blog episode, I will be talking about believing in true love? Family edition!!! In this blog episode, I will be talking about when it comes to believing in true love, do I believe to wait not between a girl or a guy, but also in family? Why or why not? Do I think waiting for your family to give you true love is worth the wait? Why or why not? What is the importance of having true love and acceptance from your family? Why is it important to have that true love and acceptance from your family? What is the moral of this blog? Why is it the moral of this blog? Now, let's get ready for an adventure of a new blog episode? Shall we? We shall!!
What does family mean to me? Why does family mean to me?
What does family mean to me? Family means to me! Not only real family, but friends who are like family to me! I love my friends who are like family to me but I also love my real family! Sometimes, there are certain people in my family who gets on my nerves but I also love them so much! Family is everything to me! I care about my family and I would do anything for my family! I would protect my family to the best of my ability and make sure I am there for them no matter what! If you need a shoulder to cry on, I'm here! My Blogger Dreamers, we are like family! I don't care what anyone's says! We are family and we will treat each other like family! Whether we are blood related or related by marriage or even we are friends, I am going to treat you like family and I will ACCEPT you for who you are! I love you for who you are!! Family is family in my eyes!! Why does family mean to me? The reason why family mean to me is because I am a big family and I care about family so to me, if my family doesn't accept you for who you are, then I can't have you hurting and it will hurt me to see someone who I care about doesn't accept someone who I care about! In the Blogger Dreamers, we take care of each other and we support one another! If I see someone hurting, I would do anything to make sure that you are okay and safe! That's what matters to me!!
True love between family? Why or why not?
When it comes to believing in true love, do I believe to wait not between a girl and a guy but also in family? Honestly, to answer this question, it depends who in your family. Sometimes, there are people in your family who are hard to love at times whether it is your dad or mom or anyone in your family!! Sometimes, if you think that you are going to get love from a family member, your best bet is to give up on the love of that family member! Sometimes, you have family who are just hard to love and that's not your fault! Sometimes, it is hard to love a certain family because of their attitude or sometimes, they are negative about certain things!!! Why or why not? I honestly think you should wait but not really because sometimes, family can be hard to love at times! Also, family can be there for you one minute and then, the next minute, they are not there for you! Sometimes, family can enter into your life and then, they can leave your life! Sometimes, it is hard to trust certain family members in your family! I know that I have in my family! For me, I can't trust a certain person in my family because they have hurt me too many times and it's hard to love them but do I expect to get love from them? Probably not but I'm fine with that! In my opinion, I think you shouldn't have to wait to get love from a certain family or force to get that love from them! That's my opinion on that!!
Worth the wait?? Why or why not?
Do I think waiting for your family to give you true love is worth the wait? Well, I don't think it is worth the wait if you can't trust a certain family member but if they decide to come in your life and be there for you 100%, then I think it is worth the wait! If you are tired of waiting for someone in your family to love you and give you real love that you definitely deserve, there is plenty of people who love you in your family! Don't dwell on someone who isn't willing to give you that love that you deserve! If none of your family members isn't worth to give you that love that you want, move on from those family members and find a family member who is willing to give that love that you deserve because to the Blogger Dreamer who is reading this, you are loved by me and this fandom is family! You are safe here and I love you for who you are! If none of your family members aren't willing to give you that love, it's not worth the wait! It's not worth you crying over someone in your family who isn't willing to love you!! Why or why not? The reason why it is not worth the wait is because you are wasting your time on someone or some people who isn't there for you when you are at your lowest! Family is suppose to love you and be there for you no matter what and love you for you, but sometimes, it's not worth the wait for that family member to give you love! You don't deserve the tears that family member gave you! Don't wait on someone in your family who doesn't love you because you don't deserve that at all! No one does! Don't force a family member to love you because if they aren't willing to love you, then you don't need them in your life!!
Importance of true love and acceptance from your family!! Why is it important to have that true love and acceptance from your family?
What is the importance of having true love and acceptance from your family? In my opinion, I think true love and acceptance from your family is extremely important!! If your family can't accept what you like or what you love, that's their own fault! Not your fault! You can't help who you love or what you enjoy doing! If your family can't love you for you, then cut them out of your life! You don't need that in your life! If your family expects you to become a doctor or a nurse or whatever they want you to become but you don't want to become any of that but they can't accept you because that's not in their vision of your future, then that's on your parents! If they can't accept what you have as a job, that's their fault! You shouldn't have to fight for someone's acceptance or love because it's not worth fighting for! If any of your family members thinking that you are willing to fight for their love and acceptance, haha! They are wrong! You shouldn't have to fight for someone's love or acceptance! I have tried to fight for someone's love and acceptance in my family and I gave up that love and fight a long time ago!! You shouldn't force someone who you love in your family to fight for your love or acceptance! If they can't accept you, that's on them! Not on you! If you want to become a YouTuber but your family doesn't accept that, that's on them! Not you!! Why is it important to have that true love and acceptance from your family? I think having that true love and acceptance from your family is important because sometimes when you love something or a job that you enjoy doing but your family can't accept it, that's their problem because you love what you do and they can't see that! If you love the same gender as you but your family can't accept that, that's their fault! I don't see a problem with someone loving the same gender as you but your family does! If your family can't love you or accept you, then cut them out of your life because you don't need that!!!
The moral of this blog! Why is it the moral of this blog?
What is the moral of this blog? The moral or the story of this blog is if you don't want to waste your time or tears of waiting for your family to give you real love or acceptance in your life, then don't bother your family who is being fake! Instead, your real family is waiting for you and they love you for who you are! You shouldn't have to debate on who should be in your life or not! If your family doesn't see that your hurting because you don't feel the love or the acceptance that you deeply deserve, that's on them, not on you! You shouldn't have to wait for your family to accept you! They should love and accepted you from the beginning! My Blogger Dreamers doesn't deserve to have fake family who doesn't love them or doesn't accept them! There are parents who doesn't accept their children because they might be gay or even transgender which is so sad!! If you are a parent, you should always accept and love your child no matter what! Your family should try to love you for who you are and try to accept you for who you are because this is who you are and you are happy to be who you are!! Why is it the moral of this blog? The reason why the moral or the story of this blog is if you don't want to waste your time or tears of waiting for your family to give you real love or acceptance in your life, then don't bother your family who is being fake is because if your family NOT giving you what you deserve, then you don't need them in your life! If people can't accept you for you, that's their problem, not yours! If your family can't love or accept you because you're gay or if you are apart of the lgbtqia, then that's their fault! You don't need acceptance from a lot of people!! You be who you are and be proud of who you are!!
In conclusion/ Tip of the day!!
In conclusion, if your family doesn't accept you for who you are because you are different from everyone else in your family or if you are different from your friends, then it's their problem that they can't accept you! It's okay to be different from everyone from people who you may know! It's okay to be different because that makes you unique! But, what's not okay is your family not loving you or not accepting you! If they can't accept you or love you for who you are, you don't need them in your life! You don't need fake family in your life! Somewhere in your family, there is people who love you and accept you for who you are! It's okay to be different and like the different things that you like! I know most of my siblings don't like writing or reading but I love both of those! Here is my tip of the day! My tip of the day is if you don't have people in your family who don't love you or they don't accept you for who you are, cut them out of your life! You don't need the toxicity in your life and you definitely don't need the tears! Cut someone from your family who is toxic and who don't love you for who you are! Don't waste your time on them! I love y'all!
Hello, my Blogger Dreamers! It's your girl aka the Blogger Queen herself, Brandee here to remind y'all that y'all have reached the end of today's blog episode for the day! This blog topic was requested from a friend of mine! She requested this topic and I am happy to talk about this topic! There is a lot of people who don't give there family real love or accepting one another which is really sad because I feel like you should accept people in your family for who you are and love them for who you are! It is sad that there people who are either gay or even transgender and sometimes, people who are trans get misgendered a lot! Never misgender someone! For today's bible verse of the day, it goes something like this: "God Has Perfect Timing". -Habakkuk 2:3. I love this bible verse a lot because God always perfect timing for anything! If you believe in him and if you believe that everything will work out, then believe in God because he will help you!!! I hope everyone will have a great day or had a great day! Happy Wednesday or in other countries, Happy Thursday! Don't forget our slogan: "Dream big! Don't give up on your dreams"! I love y'all and this blogger queen is out! Peace! ✌💜
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Today's bible verse of the day!! I love this bible verse a lot!! Such a good bible verse!!  important thing. It's everything". -Unknown. I love this quote a lot because family is everything to me and I want people in my family to accept me for who I am and love me for who I am!!  where life begins and love never ends". -Unknown. I love this quote because in life, you need your through your hardest times and you need their love as well but sometimes, family can't be there for one another and that is sad but your real family will always be here for you no matter what!!  to be our safe haven. Very often, it's the place where we find the deepest heartache". -Iyanla Vanzlant. I love this quote a lot because family is supposed to make us feel safe and not hurt us but sometimes, family can hurt us and it is sad when your family can give you the deepest heartache and that's sad!! |
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