💔  Blog topic: My trust issues! by: Brandee Marie Darden! Monday, 4/17/23!! 💔 

Intro to my blog!! 

Hello, my Blogger Dreamers! It's your girl aka the Blogger Queen herself, Brandee here and welcome back to an all new blog episode where I talk about anything that comes to my mind and I talk about new blogs on Monday's, Wednesday's, and Friday's! Happy Monday or in other countries, Happy Tuesday! How's my Blogger Dreamers doing today? I hope everyone is doing okay and well! Whatever the circumstance maybe, everything will be okay because I'm here for my Blogger Dreamers! Don't give up! Y'all got this!! I believe in y'all, no matter what! Before I get into this week's blogs and get into today's blog, let's do a recap of last week's blog episodes! On Monday, I talked about my makeup and fashion book! Ever since I could remember, I have always dreamed about doing a makeup and fashion book! The reason why I want to do a fashion and makeup book is because to give out makeup tips or even fashion tips to anyone who might need help! On Wednesday, I talked about what would I wear for spring time? Part 2! I love spring time and I honestly love the outfits that I picked out for part 2! I love the black ruffle skirt so much! I also love the pink dress so much! I love all the spring outfits so much! On Friday, I talked about makeup looks that I would wear with my spring outfits! part 2! With this blog episode, I absolutely love the makeup looks that I picked out because with each makeup look, it speaks for itself especially the third makeup look which goes with my third outfit! The third look that I am talking about is the yellow eyeshadow with a light pink eyeshadow, hot pink glitter, a light pink lipstick, and a pink highlighter! That makeup look was so gorgeous! Now, with this week's blog episodes, I will be talking about my trust issues, talking about how 2023 is treating me so far, and I will also be talking about the earth!! Now, let's get to imagining things and get this blog episode started! Shall we? We shall!

Today's blog episode! Why did I choose to talk about today's blog episode? What is this week's song of the week? Why did I choose this week's song of the week? 

In today's blog episode, I will talking about my trust issues!! In this blog, I will be talking about what is the meaning of my trust issues? Why is there meaning behind my trust issues? What may caused my trust issues? Why did those things or people cause my trust issues? How can I resolve my trust issues? Why is that thing going to resolve my trust issues? If I have any advice to give to my Blogger Dreamers who have trust issues, what would my advice be? Why would I give that advice? Why did I choose to talk about today's blog episode? The reason why I chose to talk about today's blog episode is because I feel like it is important to talk about trust and why trusting someone can be important and what it could do if someone breaks someone trust! Trust is so important and if you break my trust, good luck earning it back because it is going to take forever to earn it back! Just saying! What is this week's song of the week? For this song for the week, I chose "Wild Flower" by RM (with Youjeen). I love this song so much! This song holds a special place in my heart and I love how soft it is and I love the lyrics to it! Why did I choose this week's song of the week? The reason why I chose this song for the week is because I love the softness and I love how RM shows his rap skills! This song is so special and I love the meaning to it! Such a good song and I enjoy it so much!! Very proud of RM!! 

My opinion on what is important about trust? Why is trust important? 

What is important about trust? Trust is very important, whether it is in relationships, friendships, or families! Trust and being trustworthy is very important! When I think about having trust in someone, it shows you as a person that you trust that person but when that person breaks your trust, it shows them that you don't trust that person anymore and that you don't want to trust them anymore! I feel like trust is very important and if you don't have faith in someone, then it shows them that you have a hard time trusting them! Trusting someone is important and if you don't trust that person, then you are going to have a hard time to trust other people as well! Why is trust important? I think trust is very important is because you are showing people that you trust them but if they go behind your back and they did something to lost your trust, then you can't have faith in them anymore because I feel like trust is something very important and if you trust that person, but they did something to go behind your back, don't have faith in them anymore because they are going to continue to hurt you over and again!! Don't trust people so easily! God is the only person that you can trust! 

The meaning of my trust issues! Why is there meaning behind my trust issues? 

What is the meaning of my trust issues? The meaning behind my trust issues is I had people stabbed me in the back and making promises to me when they couldn't keep those promises! I had people say "I will always be there for you, no matter what" but instead, they went behind your back and did something that you will never forgive that person and for me, when someone breaks my trustworthy, it hurts me! When I think about myself that has trust issues, it hurts me because I want to trust people, but how can I when in the back behind my head, all I can think about is "If that person is going to hurt me"? I don't want to think like that but sometimes, I can't help but think like that because of my past! Why is there meaning behind my trust issues? The reason why there is meaning behind my trust issues is because when I have been stabbed in the back by people who I thought I could trust but it turns out, I couldn't really have confidence in them or believe in what they say, I tend to feel hurt by that person or multiple people because multiple people can hurt you or even one person can hurt you!!

The causes of my trust issues!!

 What may cause my trust issues? I think the main three things that caused my trust issues is the first one is when I would trust people with all my heart and soul! When I trust people, I trust them with all my heart and soul! When I have faith in someone and I believe in them, I can lean on them for support and I can expect them to support me, but when they either don't believe in me or what I am capable of, it breaks my heart because they broke my trust! The second thing that cause my trust issues is when someone says one thing but it's far from the truth and I can't believe in them! When one person tells me something but then, I hear it from a different source, it makes me question "who should I believe? The first person or the second person"? I hate when someone tells me one thing and then, telling me another thing! It makes me not want to trust other people or by what they say! The third and final thing that may caused my trust issues is when people make promises to me! If you are going to make a promise to me, then keep it but if you make a promise to me and then, you broke your promise to me, then I don't believe you anymore! Never make promises if you can't keep them because for me, I take promises very seriously and for me, if you make a promise me and then you go behind my back and you broke that promise, not only you broke that promise but you also broke my trust and good luck gaining my trust back!! 

Why did those things or people cause my trust issues? 

The first reason why I would trust people with all my heart and soul and the reason why those people would cause my trust issues is because when I love someone who I truly care about with all of my heart and soul, I would care about them and trust them with all of my heart and soul but they take my love as a joke, it hurts me so much and they have showed me that they never cared about me or my love and hurts so much!! The second reason why those things or people cause my trust issues and that thing is when someone says one thing but it is completely far from the truth and the reason why I have a hard time with believing what people say is because when someone say something completely different and then, they changed their story, it is hard to believe them! It is like they are playing your mind and that's hard because you are most likely getting manipulated and that's not good! When someone manipulates you and they play your mind, it hurts you so much and you don't believe in that person anymore! The third and final reason may caused my trust issues which is when people make promises to me and the reason why that might cause my trust issues is because let's face it: When people make promises, they end up breaking them and it breaks my heart! I hate the feeling when someone breaks a promise and kept that promise but they still hurt that person! If you can't make promises, don't make them because promises are a huge deal and if you make a promise to that person, then you better keep it! I'm just saying!!! 

Resolve my trust issues! Why is that thing going to resolve my trust issues? 

How can I resolve my trust issues? Well, the only way that I can resolve my trust issues is don't believe in anyone what people say! I have been listening to what people say all of my life and I need to stop being gullible and stop listening to what people are saying and not only that, if they think what they are telling me is the truth, I am not going to believe them because they might be lying through their teeth! I am also going to tell people that if you make promises to me, you better keep your promise because if you break it, I will never talk to you again and promises are not to be taking gently and they never will! I believe the only way that I can resolve my trust issues is that I believe in God first and believe in myself second and believe in some more people next! I have a few friends and family that I can trust and I am okay trusting those people! Why is that thing going to resolve my trust issues? The reason why it is going to resolve my trust issues is because I have been a gullible person since I could remember and I need to stop what people say and believe them because they might not be telling me the truth and I am pretty good at if people are telling me the truth or not! 

My advice! Why would I give that advice? 

If I have any advice to give to my Blogger Dreamers who have trust issues, what would my advice be? My advice to my Blogger Dreamers who might have trust issues, my only advice is if you continue to find people who are going to hurt you, find people who won't hurt you because if you find people who are going to continue to hurt you, then you are going to get hurt and I don't want my Blogger Dreamers to get hurt! Please, find people who won't hurt you and find people who you can trust!! Why would I give that advice? The reason why I would give that advice is because finding people who you can trust is so important and if you find those people who you can trust, keep those people because they are rare to find! Finding people who you can trust is so hard to find but once you find them, keep them because they are the most important people who will meet! Keep people who are trustworthy because that is very important!

In closing/ Tip of the day/ Question of the day?? 

In closing, having trust issues can be a little difficult because if you find someone that you think that you can trust, but in the back of your head, you think to yourself, "Can I really trust this person"? Don't let your trust issues get in the way because if you let them get in the way, it hurt you and any relationships with family, friends, your significant other, or anyone else! Don't let any person destroy your relationships because someone who you can't trust, just because you don't trust that person, that doesn't you can trust anyone else so, stop getting in your head and start believing in that person because if that person seems trustworthy, then it shows that you believe in that person! Here is my tip and question of the day?! My tip of the day is stop believing in the voices in your head and start to believe who is in front of you because if you believe in the person who is in front of you, then it shows that you can believe in them or not! Here is my question of the day? My question of the day is what three things may caused your trust issues? Why did those things cause your trust issues? Sound off in the comments down below and let me know! I would love to read everyone's comments! Please! Thank you so much! I love y'all!! 

Hello, my Blogger Dreamers! It's your girl aka the Blogger Queen herself, Brandee here to remind everyone that y'all have reached the end of today's blog episode! I hope everyone learned on why I have trust issues at times! It's not your fault or even my fault on why we have trust issues! In life, we go through people to see who are our true friends or not and that's aggravating! We don't know who we can trust or not and that's hard and I pray that one day, people can understand why we have a hard time trusting people! It's hard to trust people these days and I pray that one day that people who lost my trust realized how much they hurt me! For today's quote of the day, it goes something like this: "it's hard to turn the page when you know someone won't be in the next chapter but the story must go one". -Thomas Wilder. I love this quote so much because when you cut someone out of your life, it's hard to turn the next page without them but then, you realized that you will be fine without them and you need to move on without them because your story continues on! I love y'all and I pray that everyone will stay safe! Always remember: "Dream Big! Don't give up on your dreams"!! Until next time, don't get sick and keep pushing through because God has big plans! See y'all on Wednesday where I will be talking about how 2023 is treating me so far? I love y'all and Happy Monday or in other countries, Happy Tuesday and stay safe! This Blogger Queen is out! Peace! ✌💜

Today's quote of the day! In love with this quote so much! Such an amazing quote and your story must go on with or without those people!! You will be okay without certain people in your life!! 

"I got trust issues because 
people got lying issues".
-Unknown. I love this quote because people are always lying about the littlest things and it is so stupid how people can be lying all the time!! 

"Every time I
trust somebody, 
they show me 
why I shouldn't."
-Unknown. I love this quote so much because when people show you that they are lying about something and they are showing their true colors, it shows you that that you can trust them and it stinks for them because they lost a friend in you!! 

Pistanthrophobia
(Noun). fear of trusting people due to 
negative past experiences. 
-Quotes 'nd Notes. I love this quote so much because when someone has a hard time trusting other people, it's not because of you, it's because of past experiences! I have a hard time trusting a lot of people for a long time because my experiences but the only person who I didn't stop trusting is God because he is an almighty God who you can trust no matter what!! 

To end today's blog episode, for this week's song of the week, I chose "Wild Flower" by RM with Youjeen! I love this song so much and I love how soft it is! This song is so amazing and I love it so much! Such a powerful song!!