💔  Blog: How I feel about feeling abandoned? By: Brandee Marie Darden! Date: Friday, 10/13/23!! 💔 

 

Intro to my blog!! 

Well, hello my Blogger Dreamers! It's your girl aka the Blogger Queen herself, Brandee here and welcome back to an all new weekly blog episode for today! How are y'all doing today? I hope everyone is doing okay and well! Whatever the circumstances might be, just know that y'all are never alone and I'm always here for y'all, no matter what! Happy Friday or in other countries, Happy Saturday! Who is ready for an all new blog episode for today? I know that I am! But before I get into a new blog episode for today, I will be talking about my blog from Wednesday which is what is the meaning behind my slogan? As some of y'all know, I have slogan which is "dream big! Don't give up on your dreams" and the meaning behind this slogan is always dream big, no matter what and never give up on your dreams because if you dream big and you don't give up on your dreams, your dreams will go way far and you might not complete your dreams with months but I know you can do it! Don't give up! Don't quit!! If y'all haven't read this blog and would love to check it out, the blog is called "What is the meaning behind my slogan"? Please, go check it out whenever y'all can! Please! Thank you so much! For today's blog episode, I will be talking about how I feel about feeling abandoned? In this blog episode, I will be talking about when I think about feeling abandoned, what comes to mind? Why does it come to mind like that? When I see someone being abandoned, how does it make me feel? Why does it make me feel a certain way? If I could give my words of wisdom about feeling abandoned, what would my words of wisdom be? Why would I give those words as my words of wisdom? Now, let's jump into our blogging imagination and get this blog episode started! Shall we? We shall!! 

Talking about the word "abandonment". When I think about the word "abandonment", what comes to mind? Why does it come to mind like that? 

When I think about the word "abandonment", what comes to mind? When I think about the word "abandonment", I think about a mother or a father or even both abandoning their kid or their children! The word "abandonment" gives me the chills because it gives me a negative vibe to it and it makes me sad how people can abandoned someone they love or anything like that! No one should ever feel abandoned because in their mind, they think it is their fault but in reality, it is the person's fault for abandoned the other person! Never abandoned the other person, especially when that person has done a lot for you! Why does it come to mind like that? The reason why it came to mind like that is because sometimes, parents can abandon their children and that's not right at all! No one should ever feel abandoned because I know what that feels like and it hurts me to think someone can abandoned someone like that! Don't abandoned someone like that because you don't know what they are going through!! 

Feeling abandoned??

When I think about feeling abandoned, what comes to mind? When I think about feeling abandoned, I think about when times I feel like one of my parents left me and then, came back to my life! I felt like that one parent doesn't love me but that's fine! I have plenty of people who do love me!! When I think about feeling abandoned, I think about seeing a lost pet roaming around looking for it's owner! Feeling abandoned is horrible! No one should never feel abandoned and if you do, I am so sorry! Just know that I'm always here for y'all, no matter what!! 

Why? 

Why does it come to mind like that? The reason why it came to mind like that is because no one should ever have to feel abandoned like that! No one should ever have to feel like they are alone! No one should ever have to feel like they have one parent that loves them and the other parent doesn't love them! No one should ever have to feel that way because feeling that way is a horrible way and I honestly know what that feels like! Having that one parent who is in and out of your life is terrible! No kid should ever have to go through that! No kid should ever have to go through in their mind if one of their parents doesn't love them or not! That's a feeling that a kid should ever have to go through! No one should ever have to feel that way!! You're not alone!! I'm here for y'all if y'all need anything!! You are loved here at the Blogger Dreamers!! 

When I see someone being abandoned... 

When I see someone being abandoned, how does it make me feel? When I see someone being abandoned or they might tell me that they have abandonment issues, that breaks my heart! I have been there before and it is a feeling that I don't want anyone to ever go through that feeling at all!! Feeling abandoned is one of the worst feelings in the world to feel! In your head, you feel like you are alone and that no one isn't there for you when you need someone! I know what is like to feel abandoned and not having one of my parents who is constantly in and out of your life, that can be a difficult thing to go through! I went through that pretty much all through my life and it was a horrible thing that I had to go through! No one should ever have to feel abandoned!! 

Why? 

Why does it make me feel a certain way? The reason why it makes me feel a certain way is because I have a soft heart and when people say "I have abandonment issues" or "I have been abandoned", it breaks my heart! I have abandonment issues and that's hard for me to say sometimes because when I get to know someone, in the back of my mind, I think to myself "they are going to leave me". I don't like getting to close to people because I am afraid of people leaving me and they will abandoned me and I don't like that feeling at all! I don't feeling abandoned by people who I thought I could trust but obviously, I couldn't because they are either there for me one minute and then, the next minute, they left me and I can't handle when people leave me! It hurts me sometimes!!! 

My words of wisdom!! 

If I could give my words of wisdom about feeling abandoned, what would my words of wisdom be? If I have any words of wisdom about feeling abandoned, my words of wisdom be you're not alone! You're loved by so many people including myself! People will leave you without any explanation or they will stop talking to you without any reasoning, but just know that the only person you can depend on is yourself and that's it! You're the only person you can trust within your own heart! If you think you can't trust that person, don't trust them at all! Trust yourself and that's it!! 

Why? 

Why would I give those words as my words of wisdom? The reason why I would give those words of wisdom to my Blogger Dreamers is because in life, we can't trust the people around us because we don't know what they are capable of and we don't know if we can trust them or not! When we get close to people, you think to yourself "they are not going to leave us" but all of the sudden, they left us! We should never trust people and we should never get close to anyone because they might leave us! Don't listen to someone who will say "I'm here for you" because chances are, they might leave you and you should never trust people like that! Just know that you are loved and you should never have to feel abandoned because that's the worst feeling in the world! Don't feel alone because I'm here for y'all!

In closing/ tip of the day!! 

In closing, feeling abandoned or having abandonment issues is not your fault! The person who caused you to feel like you are abandoned or having abandonment issues, that person who should be blamed! No one should ever have to feel like they are abandoned because you are amazing! Having abandonment issues is not your fault! That person should never told you that they are always there for you, no matter what and then, all of sudden, they left you! Never trust people who say stuff like that when they say that, it makes you have hope and then, all of the sudden, they stopped contacting you and people don't realize that when they tell someone these things, you do want to believe them but at the same time, you don't want to trust them because they have say that multiple times and then, they stopped being there for you! Having abandonment issues is the worst feeling in the world but just know that y'all are never alone and I'm always here for y'all, no matter what! Here is my tip of the day! My tip of the day is don't trust people who aren't going to be there for you at your lowest points! Don't let people make you feel lonely or make you feel abandoned! I love y'all so much! 

Hello, my Blogger Dreamers! It's your girl aka the Blogger Queen herself, Brandee her to remind y'all that y'all have reached the end of today's blog episode! The moral of this blog episode is no one should ever feel abandoned or have abandonment issues because I know what that feels like! Just know that y'all are never alone and I'm always here for my Blogger Dreamers, if y'all need anything! Y'all are loved and I care about y'all so much!! Don't let people's words bother you and bring you down because you are much better than that!! For today's bible verse of the day, in John 14:8, it says "If God is all you have, you have all you need". I love this bible verse so much because God is the reason why I get up in the mornings! God is the reason why I believe in him that everything will be okay! I trust God and I will always trust God, no matter what! I pray that my Blogger Dreamers will have a good weekend! Please, stay safe and always remember "Dream Big! Don't ever give up your dreams" and I will see y'all on the next blog episode! Next week, I will be on my makeup and fashion page where I will be talking about V's "Layover" photos and his outfits!! Stay tuned for that! See y'all next week! This Blogger Queen is out! Peace!! ☮✌💙

Today's bible verse of the day! I love this bible verse so much! It is such a good bible verse and God is the person who I can talk to when I have problems!! 

"Abandonment trauma 
will lead you
to sabotage your relationships
as a way to affirm your fears".
-Unknown. I find this quote relatable because when you have that abandonment trauma in the back of your mind, you think about how it can bother the relationship and you should never let that that type of trauma bother you or your relationship at all!! 

"Being abandoned or 
given up is the most
devastating emotion we 
can cause in another 
human being".
-Gary Daivd Currie. This quote is so relatable because when someone abandons you or gives up on you, it hurts you so much and it hurts you to the point where you want to cry! Don't waste your tears on someone who doesn't care about you!! 

"People don't abandon 
people they love.
People abandon people 
they were using".
-Unknown. This quote makes me sad because when you love someone, you shouldn't abandon them but when you use them but you don't need them anymore, that's when you should abandon them and to me, that's sad! You should never abandon people!! That's sad!

To end today's blog episode, here is this week's song of the week! For this week's song of the week, I chose "I can only imagine" by MercyMe! I love this song so much and I can only imagine when I am gone, how happy the people that I know who passed on will be happy to see me?