💜What are 3 important things in a relationship? By: Brandee Marie Darden!!! Date: Wednesday, 11/29/23!!  💛 

Intro to my blog!!! 

Well, hello my Blogger Dreamers! It's your girl aka the Blogger Queen herself, Brandee here and welcome back to an all new weekly blog episode for today! How are y'all doing today? I hope and pray that everyone is doing okay and well! Whatever the circumstances might be or whatever it is going on in everyone's life, just know that you are loved and I'm here supporting everyone because you are loved here and there is no judgement here!! Happy Wednesday or in other countries, Happy Thursday!! Before I get into today's blog episode, here is a recap of Monday's blog episode! Monday was my first day back since I took my break and I was happy to be back! For Monday's blog, I talked about what made me want to write a book? There is so many reasons why I wanted to write a book but one of those reasons why I wanted to write a book is because I wanted to share my life lessons and what I went through in my life! Another reason why I wanted to write a book and I didn't mention this in my blog but I had a friend who was like "you should write a book" and so, he inspired me to write a book!!! If y'all want to read that blog, please go check it out whenever y'all can! Please! The blog is called "What made me want to write a book" by Brandee Marie Darden! For today's blog episode, I will be talking about what are 3 important things in a relationship? In this blog, I will be talking about if I had to pick 3 important factors for a relationship, what would those 3 important factors for a relationship? Why would those 3 be important for a relationship? If I had to pick the most important one in my opinion, which one is the most important one? Why is that specific factor for a relationship the most important one in my opinion? If I have any advice for any of my Blogger Dreamers who are in a relationship, what would my advice be? Why would I give that advice to my Blogger Dreamers who are in a relationship? Now, without any further ado, let's get our blogging imagination brain on and get this blog episode started! Shall we? We shall!! 

What makes a relationship last long? Why does that thing make a relationship last long?

What makes a relationship last long? I think what makes a relationship last long is communicating with one another and having God in the center of a relationship!! With me, I believe in communicating with one another and having God in the center of your relationship! When you and your partner are having a fight, there is no communication there but when you put God in the middle, you praying to God about what is going on and if he can help you and your partner fix the issue! I do believe in my heart that God can fix relationships! I also do believe that communication is also key!! I don't believe going to bed angry! I believe that if you go to bed angry, you will not sleep good at night and that's not good at all! Why does that thing make a relationship last long? The reason why communicating with your partner and having God in the center of your relationship is because I believe that God can fix everything and if you are firm believer of prayer, always pray to God that he can help you in your relationship because God is a fixer and he can fix everything! Always communicate with your partner because if you don't communicate, it is not going to end well and I think having that communication is important!! 

3 important factors!!  

If I had to pick 3 important factors for a relationship, what would those 3 important factors for a relationship? If I had to pick the 3 important factors for a relationship, the 1st factor would be communication! I think it is important in a relationship to have communication! When there isn't any communication, you and your partner are bickering and fighting and that's not good at all! The 2nd factor is loyalty! I believe in staying loyal with your partner and loving your partner, no matter what! I don't believe in cheating on your partner and if you are not happy in a relationship, don't go and cheat on your partner!! That's just wrong!! The 3rd and final factor for a relationship is spending time and being supportive! I believe in spending time with your partner while being supportive towards one another's dreams! I do believe that you should have that one on one time with your partner and always spend time with them no matter what and I also believe that you should show support to your partner as well!!! 

Why?

Why would those 3 be important for a relationship? The 1st reason why I chose communication as an important factor for a relationship is because I feel like communication is key! When you and your significant other are having an argument, I believe y'all should talk about it in a calm way instead of a mean way and y'all should never fight about it! The 2nd reason why I chose loyalty as an important factor for a relationship is because I don't believe or condone cheating at all! I don't believe that if you can't stay loyal to your significant other, then why are you in a relationship? I believe that if you are not ready for an relationship, don't be in one if you are going to cheat on that person!! The 3rd and final reason why I chose spending time and being supportive is because I believe while spending time with your partner, you can also spend time with your partner as well! While your partner might be working on something, y'all can spend time in the same room! I believe in supporting one another while chasing your dreams as well! I don't think you should ever sit in a different room while your partner is working on something unless they told you "Can you please sit in a different room? Please". Always spend time with your partner and show them how supportive you can be!!! 

The most important factor!! 

If I had to pick the most important one in my opinion, which one is the most important one? In my opinion, if I had to pick the most important factor, the most important factor for a relationship would be communication! In my eyes, communication is the most important factor in a relationship! When I think about the word "communication", I think about talking about what is going on for the day or what you are doing throughout the day or what is going on, just stuff like that! I don't believe in leaving things unsolved and not talking about the problems! If I got into a fight with my boyfriend, you best believe that I would resolve our issues and we will talk about it! I don't believe you should never go to bed angry at your partner! I think y'all should communicate about what's going on and then, go to bed after that! Communication is so important and I think we should always communicate about our problems or they might go unsolved!! 

Why? 

Why is that specific factor for a relationship the most important one in my opinion? The reason why I chose communication as the most important one in my opinion is because when you are having a bad day and you see the house a mess, you and your partner get into an argument! Instead of talking calmly about it, y'all are arguing about it! Instead of arguing about it, let's have open communication about it and not argue about it! I believe that if there is an issue between you and your lover, y'all should communicate things and not leave things not solved! I believe that if y'all don't communicate, there will be bigger issues and it is going to take a while to solve the issues! If you and your partner have communication issues, please talk about it instead of you or your partner shutting down because if you or your lover is shutting down, then it is not going to end well and y'all's relationship isn't going to end well either! Just saying!! 

My advice! 

If I have any advice for any of my Blogger Dreamers who are in a relationship, what would my advice be? To my Blogger Dreamers who are in a relationship, my advice is if y'all don't communicate about y'all's problems or if y'all don't spend time with one another or if there is some loyalty issues, fix the problems that is going wrong in y'all's relationship! If y'all are having some communication issues, discuss what's going on within the relationship and then, fix it!! If y'all aren't spending time with one another, spend time with one another! Take a break from whatever it is you are doing and spend time with one another! Show your love that he or she is important and show that person how much you love them! If you are getting cheated on in the relationship, you might as well end the relationship right now! Staying in a relationship where there is constant cheating and breaking loyalty is not a healthy relationship at all! Find someone who is loyal and who loves you for who you are! Don't let someone cheat on you! You don't deserve that at all!! 

Why?

Why would I give that advice to my Blogger Dreamers who are in a relationship? The reason why I would give that advice to my Blogger Dreamers who are in a relationship is because I believe if you and your lover don't communicate about what's going on within the relationship, it is going to cause chaos and it won't be good at all! If you or your partner are spending too much time when it comes to work, y'all are working too hard and y'all need to spend time with one another! I don't believe in cheating and if your love isn't being loyal to you, then y'all need to go y'all's separate ways! You don't need someone who is going to cheat on you and break your heart! It's not worth going through that pain! Find someone who is loyal to you and who is going to spend time with you and who is open about the problems that y'all are facing! Don't go through problems alone because if you are going through problems alone, then you are facing a lot of trouble and that won't be good at all! Have open communication, spend time and support one another, and be loyal!!

In closing/ Question of the day?? 

In closing, don't get into a relationship where there is no communication with one another! If you jump into a relationship where there is no communication and y'all are constantly fighting, don't be in a relationship like that! It's not worth it! Don't be in a relationship where y'all are not spending time with one another or y'all are not supporting y'all's dreams! If y'all are not supporting y'all's dreams and ambitions, then y'all might as well go y'all's separate ways! Being in a relationship is about having open communication, being loyal to one another, and show how much y'all love each other and show support to one another! If your partner is not spending time with you or not supporting you, talk to them about it because if y'all don't communicate with one another, it is not going to end well and y'all are going to fight constantly! Time for question of the day! My question of the day is if y'all had to pick 3 important factors for a relationship, what would those 3 factors be? Why would you pick those 3 factors important for a relationship? Sound off in the comments down below and let me know! I would love to read and respond to everyone's comments! Please! Thank you so much! I love y'all! 

Well, hello my Blogger Dreamers! It's your girl aka the Blogger Queen herself, Brandee here to remind everyone that y'all just reached the end of today's blog episode for today! If y'all going to be in a relationship, please have communication with one another because I think having that communication is so important! Having someone to spend time with and being supportive towards your dreams is also important as well! If your partner isn't being loyal to you, then leave them! Don't believe in if you are in a relationship and you are not being loyal to one another, leave one another! Don't cheat one another! If y'all don't love each other, leave one another and be happy with someone else! Don't continue to drag the relationship that y'all are in because if you continue to do that, then it won't be good! For today's quote of the day, it goes something like this: "People say that all things happen for a reason. I believe that I think everything is fate". -Baekhyun (EXO). I love this quote a lot because yes, things do happen for a reason but I think fate brings it together and make it all happen! Fate can bring others closer and I believe that God can bring people or things into our lives!! I love y'all so much and until next time "Dream Big! Don't give up on your dreams". Have a happy Wednesday or in other countries, Happy Thursday! Please, stay safe and I will see y'all on the next blog where I will be talking about why we shouldn't look down on people? I love y'all and this Blogger Queen is out! Peace! ✌💙

Today's quote of the day! Such a good quote!! 

"Communication to a 
relationship is like 
oxygen to life...
without it, it dies".
-Tony Gaskins. I love this quote so much because without communication, the relationship dies and you don't want your relationship to die! Have communication with one another! Don't let the relationship die!! 

"Eventually, you will meet 
a person who is tired of games,
too, and their loyalty will 
meet yours".
-Unknown! I love this quote so much because you will eventually meet someone and they are going to be loyal just like you!! I don't understand people will cheat but one day, you will find someone who will be loyal just like you! Keep praying about it!! 

"Being supportive of each
other's goals and dreams
Encourage your partner to 
pursue their passions and be 
there to support them along
the way".
-Relationship Diary!! I find this quote very relatable because when you get into a relationship, you want a partner who will support you and encourage you every step of the way and for me, to have someone who can encourage me is the best thing in the world! Find someone who can encourage you and support you throughout your dreams because you can't find anyone like that!! 

                                           📙  Blog: What made me want to write a book? By: Brandee Marie Darden! Date: Monday, 11/27/23!! 📕 

Intro to my blog!! 

Well, hello my Blogger Dreamers! Guess who is back? That's right! This Blogger Queen is back and she is ready to share all new blogs with her Blogger Dreamers for the week! First of all, Happy Monday or in other countries, Happy Tuesday!! How are y'all doing today? I hope everyone is doing okay and well! Whatever the circumstances might be, just know that y'all are never alone and I am always here for y'all, no matter what!! Before I get into today's blog episode and talk about this week's blog episodes, here is a recap of the week's before blogs! On Monday, November 13th, I talked about the song "Painting in the rain" by Todrick Hall, blog by: Brandee Marie Darden! When I think about the lyrics and the song itself, I think about the struggles that I have faced and how I got through them! Don't let anything hold you back! On Wednesday, I did a birthday tribute to my dad! My dad is my best friend and the person who I can trust the most and I'm so blessed to have a dad like him!! On Friday, I talked about things that stood out to me in 2023!! There were so many things that stood out to me in 2023 but the one thing that stood out in my head was me and my boyfriend dating anniversary! We can't believe it that we made a year which is hard to believe but we got through it and I am so happy! If y'all haven't read these blogs but would love to check them out, you can read them under "brandeelovestoblog21.blogspot.com". For this week's blog episodes, I will be talking about what made me want to write a book, what are 3 important things in a relationship, and lastly, but not least, why we shouldn't look down on people? Now, without further ado, let's get our blogging thinking brain on, and get this blog episode started! Shall we? We shall!! 

Today's blog episode! Why did I pick this topic to talk about? What is this week's song of the week? Why did I pick this song as my song of the week?

For today's blog episode, I will be talking about what made me want to write a book? In this blog episode for today, I will be talking about if I could list my 3 reasons why I wanted to write a book, what would be my 3 reasons? Why did I pick those reasons as why I wanted to write a book? What is the meaning behind my book? Why is there meaning behind my book? What is the significance behind my book? Why is there significance behind my book? Why did I pick this topic to talk about? The reason why I chose to talk about this topic is because when I started working on this book process, I didn't know much it would mean to me until I started this process and to say that I am proud of my book is an understatement!! I am proud to see how far it has come and I can't wait to see how it will end! What is this week's song of the week? For this week's song of the week, I chose "We are bulletproof, part 2" by: BTS! I love this song so much and in the music video, I love how Jungkook did the hat turned and stuff like that!!! Why did I pick this song as my song of the week? The reason why I chose this song for the week is because I love the beat of the song and it is such a good song!!! 

How has this book process been? Why has it been a process? 

How has this book process been? This book process has been so much an amazing journey so far! To be able to share my thoughts and wisdom along the way has been a great way to let my readers learn about what is going on in my head and what I have been through in my life time! To know that I can share my advice and share what I have been through, it took me a lot of courage to share a lot of things!! Why has it been a process? The reason why it has been a process it is because talking about what I have been through or what my thought process has been has been a crazy journey! To sharing about my past or what I have been through in 2018 can be a little difficult to share but I always built the courage to share what I have been through and I am willing to share what I have been through with someone who went through the same thing!!! 

3 reasons why!! 

If I could list my 3 reasons why I wanted to write a book, what would be my 3 reasons? The 1st reason why I wanted to write a book is because I wanted to tell the readers what I went through and how I got through it! I want people to know how I got through it! I want them to know if she went through the same problem, I can get through it as well! The 2nd reason why I wanted to write a book is because I wanted to showcase my writing skills! For me, ever since I became a blogger, I wanted to show people my thoughts and my writing skills! I want people to know if I am thinking this type of way, then I need to think this type of a way as well! The 3rd and final reason why I wanted to write a book is because I wanted to let people know if I went through the same problems, you can get through them as well! I went through a lot in my past which I am not proud of but writing this book and talking about what I have been through in my life has been a wonderful journey! I am sharing what I have been through and I am proud of myself for getting through the stuff that I have went through! The stuff that I have been through has not been easy but I am so proud of myself!! 

Why? 

Why did I pick those 3 reasons as why I wanted to write a book? The 1st reason why I wanted to write a book is because I wanted to tell the readers what I went through and how I went through it and the reason why I picked that reason is because I have been through a lot! There are moments where I am proud of and there are moments that I am not mostly proud of but that's okay because I am a human being and I am happy to be where I am at today!! The 2nd reason why I wanted to write a book is because I wanted to showcase my writing skills and the reason why I picked that reason is because some people might not know my thought process and that's okay! People don't know what I am thinking and how I am thinking and I like to keep people on their toes and surprise people! The 3rd and final reason why I wanted to write a book is because I wanted to let people know if I went through the same problems, you can get through them as well and the reason why I pick the final reason is because people might relate to my problems and I am okay with that! I want people to know "If she went through it and can get over it, then I can get over it as well". I want people to know how I got through it because I don't want them to go through the same problems as me and then, not get over it! I don't like when people go through the same problems as me and then, not have a solution to their problems! If I can get through my problems, then I can help my readers with their problems as well!

The meaning behind my book!

What is the meaning behind my book? The meaning behind my book is I wanted to write a book about what I went through and how I got through it and there are things that I talk about that are sensitive as well! The meaning behind my book is there are parts that are sensitive and parts that are educational as well! When I was thinking about the meaning of my book, I want it to be sensitive but also educational! I wanted to talk about what I have been through in my life and try not to leave anything out! I want people to know what I have been through in my life and how I got through it! My life has meaning to me and my book means a lot to me! I want people to know that I always wasn't happy but instead, I was opposite of that and I want people to understand that I had one parent that was either in or out of my life! My book has meaning and the meaning behind this book is the meaning of sadness, angry, and learning in life!! 

Why?

Why is there meaning behind my book? The reason why there is meaning behind my book is because I want my readers to feel what I feel when I went through those emotions! I want people to relate what I have been through in my life! I am not proud of certain moments in my life like I trying to commit suicide in 2018! I am not proud of that but I am so glad that I didn't try and kill myself because I wouldn't be able to find God or believing that Jesus died on the cross for our sins! From what I have been through to where I am at today, I can honestly say that I have been through a lot but I am the woman that I am today because of those issues that I went through in my life! Yes, I made mistakes along the way but I can say that I am proud of myself and I get to write it and talk about it in my own book which I am so proud of! I am looking forward to sharing it with the world!! 

The significance!! 

What is the significance behind my book? The significance behind my book is I want people to know what I went through in my life and how I got through it! I want people to know if she got through it, she can get through it as well and I want the readers to know it doesn't matter what you are going through, please don't give up!! My book is all about life lessons and how I got through it! I didn't have a easy life growing up but I got through my hardships in my life and I am proud of myself! If I went through the same problems as any of my Blogger Dreamers, then you get through it as well!! 

Why?

Why is there significance behind my book? The reason why there is significance behind my book is because I want people to understand what I want through in my life and there are still problems that I am still dealing with to this day! I am still dealing with problems that I dealt with in my past! I am not proud of my past but I am glad that I can share what I have been through in my own book! I want to share my problems in my book and tell people what I have been through instead of keeping it inside of me! I rather talk about it than not talk about it all and I am so glad that I get to talk about it with courage and I am proud of us! I have grown as a woman and I am so glad that I have grown the person who I am today!! 

In closing/ Tip of the day! 

In closing, working on this book has been a process but it has been a good process! Seeing it growing chapter by chapter, book page by book page, to say that I am proud is an understatement! I am more than proud! I am pleased how my book is coming along and I am so overjoyed with joy to wake up on certain mornings to work on it! On top of that, I am coming up with ideas with a 2nd book which I am looking forward to be working on it hopefully soon! Working on this book has been an amazing journey and I am so happy to see where it could end! I am looking forward to see how it could end!!! I am so thrilled that I got to work on my book and I am looking forward to sharing it with the whole world soon! I can't wait to share it with my friends, my family, my boyfriend, and the people who mean a lot to me aka my Blogger Dreamers! I am looking forward to see how my book will turn out soon! Here is my tip of the day: My tip of the day is if you have a dream of writing your very own book, go for it! Don't let anyone tear you down because they might think "it is not going to sale". Don't listen to those people but instead, turn their hate into motivation because I know that you can do it and I believe in my Blogger Dreamers, no matter what!! I love y'all so much!! Go for your dream!!! 

Well, hello my Blogger Dreamers! It's your girl aka the Blogger Queen herself, Brandee here to remind everyone that y'all have just reached the end of today's blog episode for today! Man, it feels so good to be back on a new blog episode because I have missed y'all so much! Working on this book has been a wonderful journey and I am so proud of it! If you have a dream, go for it! Don't let anyone stop you because they think you aren't going to succeed! If they think that you are going to fail, show them that you won't! Don't let them win!! For today's quote of the the day, it goes something like this: "You've worked hard today. Get a good night's rest tonight, and let's work hard again tomorrow". -Huang Renjun. I love this quote a lot because when you worked hard the night before, you want to rest up and you should have a goodnight rest! Don't overwork yourself! Give you some rest! I hope everyone enjoyed today's blog episode and have a good Monday, or in other countries, happy Tuesday! Until next time, "Dream Big! Don't give up on your dreams" and I will see y'all on Wednesday where I will be talking about what are 3 important things in a relationship? Stay tuned! I love y'all and this Blogger Queen is out! Peace!! ☮✌💙

Today's quote of the day! Once you worked hard, always give yourself rest! Never overworked anymore than you already have!!! 

"Better to write
for yourself and 
have no public,
than to write for 
the public and 
have no self".
-Cyril Connolly. I love this quote a lot because I rather have no public than have no self at all! I rather have myself as writer and write to the ability than having the public telling me what to do with my writing!!! 

"I think new writers 
are too worried 
that it has all been 
said before. Sure it
has, but not by you".
-Asha Dornfest. I love this quote a lot because whatever you say in your book, that's up to you! Someone else might of say something different from you but you write whatever you want to write in your book! That's completely up to you!!! 

"Being a good writer is 
3% talent, 97% not being 
distracted by the 
Internet". 
-Anonymous. I find this quote very relatable is because for us writers, we need to focus on what we are working on instead of the internet distracting us or saying something wrong about us! Don't let the world distract you!! 

For this week's song for the week, I chose "We are bulletproof" by BTS. This song was the time that BTS debuted or close to them debuted! This song is very catchy and I love the beat to it! Such a good song!!! 

                                            💙 Blog: Analyzing my poem "Becoming stronger" by Brandee Marie Darden!!! Date: Friday, 11/3/23!!  💜 

Intro to my blog!! 

Well, hello my Blogger Dreamers!! It's your girl aka the Blogger Queen herself, Brandee here and welcome back to an all new weekly blog episode where I talk about various subjects about bullying or whatever comes to mind! First and foremost, how are y'all doing today? I hope everyone is staying warm as the weather changes and I hope everyone is doing well and amazing! Whatever it is bothering y'all, I'm here to listen to any of my Blogger Dreamers because I care about y'all and I love y'all so much! Happy Friday or in other countries, Happy Saturday!! Before I get into today's blog episode, here is a recap of Wednesday's blog episode! On Wednesday, I talked about me and Aaron's 1 year anniversary!! On Wednesday, me and my amazing boyfriend have been dating for a year and I honestly cannot believe that! He is so different from any other guy that I have dated and I am so blessed to have someone like him! If y'all haven't read that blog and would love to read it, it's called "Me and Aaron's 1 year dating anniversary". Please, go check it out whenever y'all can! Please! Thank you so much! For today's blog episode, I will be analyzing my poem "Become stronger" by Brandee Marie Darden! On this blog, I will be talking about what is the moral of this poem? Why is that the moral of this poem? When I was writing this poem, what was going through my mind? Why were those things going through my mind? When I have days where I feel weak, what 3 things make me stronger? Why do those 3 things make me stronger? What is my advice to my Blogger Dreamers who might feel weak? Why would I give that advice to my Blogger Dreamers? Now, let's jump into our blogging brains and get this blog episode started! Shall we? We shall!! 

Talking about my poem! When I feel sad, what helps me become strong? Why does that thing help me become strong? 

On Thursday, July 6th of this year, I wrote a poem called "Becoming stronger" and here is how it goes: "Becoming stronger" by: Brandee Marie Darden! 

"Becoming stronger 

each day shows 

people that you 

can get through 

it no matter 

what! People 

might think 

you are weak,

but you're 

stronger than

you think!

Don't give up

on your dreams 

because you

will accomplish 

those dreams 

one day! You're 

strong and don't 

give up"! 

-Love, Brandee Marie

Darden! 

Written on, Thursday, 7/6/23!! I love this poem so much! We have days where we are strong but we also have days where we are weak and that's hard because you put on a fake persona and acting like you are so strong but then, when you get home and you go to your bedroom, you start immediately crying and that's hard!! Never put on a fake persona because if you are going through something hard, please tell someone! I'm here to listen! When I feel sad, what helps me become strong? When I feel sad, the thing that helps become strong is talking to my boyfriend!! When I talk to him, I instantly feel the happiest that I can ever be! He helps me get through everything that I go through and I love how supportive he is! Why does that thing help me become strong? The reason why talking to my boyfriend helps me become stronger is because I know that he will be there for me and I know he will help through my hard days! He adds light to my dark world and I will always be forever thankful for that!!! 

The moral of my poem! 

What is the moral of this poem? The moral of this poem is we don't need people to bring us down every time we are trying to get stronger each and everyday! Some people don't realize what we go through on a daily basis and we have to become stronger each and every day which is hard for me sometimes! Everyday, I see other couples be together and I think to myself "Why can't that be me and my boyfriend"? It's hard to remain strong each day when I am feeling weak! It hurts me that I am trying to remain strong but sometimes, I feel weak! I am trying to remain strong but it's hard! It is truly hard!! 

Why? 

Why is that the moral of this poem? The reason why I chose we don't need people to bring us down every time we are trying to get stronger each and everyday as the moral of my poem is because when we are going through something tough and we are trying to get through it and people are constantly bringing us down, they are trying ruin our process and that's hard! When you finally got to the point where you are happy and you are strong and then, all of the sudden, people bring up your past and that's so hard because you did everything that you could to forget about your past and moving on from it and growing strong from it and that's hard! Don't let anyone use your past against you and let tear you down because you are much stronger than that! People don't realize how strong you are and everyone is strong in their own way!! Don't let anyone ruin your progress! You have come such a long way and I'm so proud of you! Keep going and becoming stronger because you are doing such a phenomenal job!!

What was going through my mind? 

When I was writing this poem, what was going through my mind? When I was writing this poem, the thing that was going through my mind was my past experiences in my life! I remember when I was going through a tough breakup and I remember I was finally getting over my ex boyfriend and one of my parents would bring him up and I struck a nerve in me! I am that type of a person who wants to move on from my past and not dwell on the past but when someone slaps me with my past, it's hard! I am becoming stronger of past and then, all of the sudden, you will bring up my past! Never bring up my past because if you do, you will regret it and you won't be proud of yourself! I have become stronger everyday and I am growing from my past mistakes! I feel like I have grown spiritually and I am so proud of myself!! 

Why?

Why were those things going through my mind? The reason why those things were going through my mind is because when I would be stronger and I am not sad and depressed, I would be so happy but when someone tries to throw my past in my face, I have to learn all over again to become strong and honestly, that's hard because when I got into a good place and learning how to move on, then I get flashbacks of what I have been through in my past and that's hard! When you are trying to move on from your past and people just brings it up, completely ignore it because you don't need to hear your past again and let it cause you pain! You are much stronger than that and don't listen to the negative people because they are negative people can't learn how to move on from their past and I know you can do it! I'm so proud of you! Keep doing you!!

3 things that make me stronger!! 

When I have days where I feel weak, what 3 things make me stronger? When I have days where I feel weak, the 1st thing that makes me strong is reading the word of God! When I read God's word after a long and stressful day of doing blog work or working on my book or dealing with people who have been complaining, I read God's word! When I read God's word, I feel much better and I can be okay without worrying about anything that is going in my mind! The 2nd thing that makes me strong is listening to music! When I feel stressed or just having a hard day, I'm that type of a girl who will put her sound proof headphones at times and just listen to music whether it is Christian music, soft Kpop slash pop playlist, or even the playlist that I made for me and my boyfriend! Whatever I am listening to, I instantly feel better! The 3rd and final thing that makes me stronger is just sitting in my prayer room and thinking about how beautiful it will be when it is all done! When I sit in my prayer room, I think about me going in there to pray in the morning or evening and I just think about when I am done decorating it, I think about how pretty it will be! I think about positive thoughts instead of negative thoughts!! I don't let anything stop me!! 

Why? 

Why do those thing make me stronger? The 1st thing that makes me strong is reading the word of God and the reason why it makes me strong God can move the mountains and when I read the bible, I feel comforted and I feel like I start my day on the right foot and end on the right foot as well! The Bible is such a relatable book where the things that happened, it is still happening to this day!! The 2nd thing that makes me strong is listening to music and the reason why it makes me strong is because when I am having a rough day and I am just at my breaking point, I just want to listen to music out loud or with headphones at times and I will feel better! For me, music is something that I go to and it helps me so much! I love listening to music when I am blogging or when I working on anything else and I'm happy!! The 3rd and final thing that makes me strong is sitting in my prayer room and thinking about how pretty it will be and the reason why it makes me strong is because when I think about me going in there, I think about how beautiful it will be and how special that room will be to me! People might think "it's just a prayer closet" but to me, it's more than that! It's a place where me and God can have a conversation and I can read my bible in peace which I am totally okay with that!! I am okay just going in there and reading my bible because I love reading my bible!!! 

My advice!! 

What is my advice to my Blogger Dreamers who might feel weak? My advice to my Blogger Dreamers who might feel weak is you are going to have a day where you don't feel strong and that's okay! Don't let something drag you down and make you feel weak because you are much stronger than that! You are loved by so many people and somedays, you might not feel loved but you are! Don't let your brain deceit you because you are amazing and don't y'all ever forget that! Here at the Blogger Dreamers, you are loved and I love you for who you are! Yes, we have days where we feel weak but we will get through what we are battling through and don't let others drag you down!!!

Why? 

Why would I give that advice to my Blogger Dreamers? The reason why I would give that advice to my Blogger Dreamers is because we have days where we feel weak because we had a bad day or you hear people who constantly complains about the littlest thing in life and you just want to feel strong but it's hard! Don't let people's complaining bring you down or you feeling stress make you feel weak because you will get through it and I believe in my Blogger Dreamers! Things are hard but you will get through it and never give up because I know you are feeling weak, but you will get strong and I believe in that with all of my heart and soul!! 

In closing/ Tip of the day!! 

In closing, when we are feeling weak, we don't feel as strong as we should be!! When something is bothering is whether it is life or someone constantly throws our past in our face, you are trying to grow from your past mistakes and you are learning from those mistakes but when people constantly tell you that "you are not good enough" or people are bringing you down, it makes you feel weak but don't let that bother you or make you weak because you are much stronger than you think! You will get through whatever you are going through and you will get through it because you will become strong! Please, don't give up and don't quit! Here is my tip of the day! My tip of the day is when you feel weak and you want to give up, don't give up because you are much stronger than that and people care about you so much! Don't quit!! You will become stronger each day and don't you ever forget that!! I love y'all so much and don't y'all ever forget that!! 

Well, hello my Blogger Dreamers!! It's your girl aka the Blogger Queen herself, Brandee here and y'all just made it to the end of today's blog episode for today! I hope everyone enjoyed today's blog episode for today! Don't let the little things of people complaining drain you because it's not worth it and y'all are much better than that! Whatever it is going on in your life, you will become strong and I believe in that! Don't give up! For today's quote of the day, it goes something like this: "I'm not trying to say who is right or wrong. It's just that this love isn't supporting me anymore". -Na Hee Do. I find this quote relatable because when that person says "oh! I'm right and your wrong", you feel like shutting down and it hurts! When you don't feel love or supported by your significant other, it completely hurts you and you want to move on from your life and that's totally fine!! I love y'all so much and I pray that everyone will have a good day or had a good day! Happy Friday or in other countries, Happy Saturday! Please, stay safe and until next time "Dream big! Don't give up on your dreams" and I will see y'all on my Makeup and fashion blog page where I will be talking about V's "Layover" photos, part 4, the outfits that I would wear for all, part 3, and makeup looks that I would do for fall, part 2! I love y'all and this Blogger Queen is out! Peace!! ✌💚

Today's quote of the day! Such an amazing quote and I love it a lot! If your significant other doesn't support you or love you, move on and don't look back!! 

My poem "Becoming stronger" that I wrote on Thursday, July 6th, 2023!! Never give up on your dreams and don't let anything bother your head and drag you down! 

"You gotta train your mind 
to be stronger 
than your emotions 
or else you'll lose yourself 
every time".
-Unknown. I love this quote so much because when you train your mind to become stronger, you will become stronger each day! Life is hard but you will become stronger! Don't give up!!

"This will pass... and when it does 
you'll be stronger than you ever 
thought you could be".
-Kristen Butler. I love this quote so much because whatever you are going through, it will pass, just believe in it that it will! Don't let it bother you!! 

Before I end today's blog episode, here is this week's song of the week! I chose "God Gave Me You" by Blake Shelton because this song reminded me my boyfriend a lot! God gave me the most amazing boyfriend and I couldn't be more blessed than I already am!! Have a good weekend!! 

                                           💙 Blog: Me and Aaron's 1 year dating anniversary!!! by: Brandee Marie Darden! Date: Wednesday, 11/1/23!!  💜 

Intro to my blog!! 

Well, hello my Blogger Dreamers! It's your girl aka the Blogger Queen herself, Brandee here and welcome back to an all new weekly blog episode where I talk about anything that comes to mind whether it is fashion or makeup or anything personal in my heart!!! Happy 1st of November or in other countries, Happy November 2nd!! I hope and pray that everyone had a happy and safe Halloween!! How are y'all doing today? I hope and pray that everyone is doing okay and well! Whatever the circumstances might be, just know that y'all are never alone and I'm here for y'all if y'all need anything!! Before I get into today's blog episode, let's do a recap of Monday's blog! On Monday, I analyzed the song "God Gave Me You" by Blake Shelton, blog by: Brandee Marie Darden! When I listen to this song and I think about the lyrics, I think about my boyfriend because he has seen me at my hard times and for him to stick by my side and never leaving me, I am so blessed to have an awesome boyfriend beside me! If y'all want to check out that blog from Monday, it is called Analyzing the song "God Gave Me You" by Blake Shelton, blog by: Brandee Marie Darden! Please, go check it out whenever y'all can! Please! Thank you so much! Today's blog is pretty special because for today's blog, I will be talking about me and Aaron's 1 year dating anniversary!! In this blog, I will be talking about how do I feel dating my best friend, my universe, and my world? Why do I feel a certain way about dating my best friend? What has been my favorite memory about us this far? Why do I have that memory as my favorite? If I have any advice to give to anyone who is dating or dating in a long distance relationship or who is single and waiting for someone, what is my advices? Why would I give those advices to my Blogger Dreamers? Now, let's get our blogging brains on and get this blog episode started! Shall we? We shall!

What makes my boyfriend different from other guys that I have dated? Why does that thing (s) make my boyfriend different from other guys that I have dated? 

What makes my boyfriend different from other guys that I have dated? What makes my boyfriend different from other guys that I have dated is he is very kind hearted! He has this kind heart that he will do anything for anyone to put a smile on anyone's face including mine! The 2nd thing that makes my boyfriend different from other guys that I have dated is the way he makes me so happy! He will make sure that I am happy and honestly, talking to him makes me the happiest person in the world! The 3rd and final thing that makes my boyfriend different from other guys that I have dated is he cares about others before he will care for himself! He cares about everyone that comes into his world! He is different from other guys and I love that about him! He cares about people and he will pray over others which I love that! He is pretty awesome if you ask me!!! Why does that thing (s) make my boyfriend different from other guys that I have dated? The 1st that makes my boyfriend different is he is very kind hearted and the reason why he is kind hearted is because he will be there for you and help you get through a hard time and I know for him, he has helped me through so much and I cannot thank him enough! The 2nd thing that makes him different from other guys I have dated is he makes me happy and the reason why he makes me happy is because he is that guy where he doesn't want anyone to be sad and he wants to make sure the people around him is happy and I love that a lot! The 3rd and final thing that makes him different from other guys that I have dated is he cares about people and prays over people and the reason why that makes him different is because he will do anything for people that come into his life and he has this positive energy about him and he is awesome! I'm glad that the girls who let him go so that I can have him!! 

My feelings towards dating my best friend, my universe, and my world!! 

How do I feel dating my best friend, my universe, and my world? I feel nothing but happiness when I am with my best friend, my universe, and my world!! When my bf asked me to be his girlfriend a year ago today, I said yes!! He makes me so happy! He supports me in anything that I do whether it is blogging or even working on my book! He truly makes me so happy and I never felt so happy before I met Aaron! He makes truly feel joyful! I can be myself when I am around him and I am content with that! He is truly my best friend, my universe, and my world and I don't know where I would be without him! I don't see my world without him in it!!! 

Why?

Why do I feel a certain way about dating my best friend? The reason why I feel happy about dating my best friend is because when we facetime, he does nothing but make me laugh! He reminds me about my worth and he is cares if I am okay or not! He cares my well-being which I love that about him! I also care about his well-being as well and I don't know if I would ever be this happy! I'm content with my life and I am content because I have someone who makes me very joyful and happy! I can't believe that today makes a year since he asked me to be his girlfriend and I'm very cheerful and I feel so much love when it comes from him! He makes me feel very loved and I love that about him!!! 

My favorite memory so far!! 

What has been my favorite memory about us this far? I think if I had to pick my favorite between me and my boyfriend since we started dating, I think it would had to be when we facetime! When we facetime, its like we are in another world! For us, its like everyone disappeared vs we are just by ourselves which I love that so much! When it just us, I feel happy and I couldn't feel more content with an amazing boyfriend who loves me for who I am! I love our facetime dates! On Friday's, we would stay up from 1 or 2 in the morning and I love that! I love to end my Friday's with my bf!!! To me, it soothes my soul!! He is awesome and I love that about him!! 

Why?

Why do I have that memory as my favorite? The reason why I chose our facetime dates as our favorite memory is because when we are facetiming, he does nothing but make me laugh! When we talk, it's like I can tell him about anything and I feel so safe! He makes me feel so safe and I never felt so safe with someone and I feel safe with my bf! He always remind me everything will be okay and our Friday nights are never dull because we always make each other laugh which I love! I mean I can name other memories but to me, our facetime dates just stick out in my mind and I am so blessed that God gave me the right man for my life! He truly makes me feel true happiness and when I am sad, he will do anything to make me laugh which I love that about him!

My advices!! 

If I have any advice to give to anyone who is dating or dating in a long distance relationship or who is single and waiting for someone, what is my advices? My advice for anyone who is dating is when you are dating someone, you want someone who makes you happy and who also makes you laugh and if your partner doesn't make you laugh or bring you happiness, leave them! My advice for someone who is in a long distance like me and my boyfriend for example, my advice is stay loyal and stay faithful in the relationship! I know the long distance can be hard and difficult at times, but you will get through it! Me and my boyfriend have been in a long distance relationship for a year now and yes, it has been hard times but we always manage to get through it, no matter what!! For anyone who is single and waiting for someone, my advice is find someone who truly makes you happy and who will support you in anything you! When you find someone who is very supportive, keep that person because having a supportive partner is the most amazing thing in the world! Trust me, I know because my boyfriend is very encouraging when it comes to me working on my blog or when I do tiktoks, he shows love and I love that about him! Find someone who motivates you! That's very important!! 

Why? 

Why would  I give those advices to my Blogger Dreamers? The reason why I would give the 1st advice to anyone who is dating is because when you are in a relationship, you want someone who can make you feel happy and help you get through the hard times, but if your significant other is not being supportive and they are not helping you to get through your hard time, you need to let them go because you don't need someone like that! The reason why I would give the 2nd advice to anyone who is dating in a long distance relationship is because I know that long distance relationships are very hard but you can get through it! I believe in y'all! Me and my boyfriend have been doing it for a year but we always manage to get through it and I am praying that one day, we will meet!! The reason why I would give the 3rd and final advice to anyone who is single and waiting for someone is because you want to find someone who is supportive and who cheers you on! You want to have someone who will help you through any problems in your life because once you start dating someone, your problems become their problems and their problems become your problems and I always believe in being there for one another and always supporting one another as well! Wait for someone will be supportive and cheer you on!! 

In closing/ Tip of the day/ Question of the day?  

In closing, just thinking how far me and my boyfriend have made it so far within our relationship has been wonderful so far! Being with someone who makes you happy and for me, he truly makes me so happy! Aaron came into my life on September 6th, 2020 when I was going through a bad breakup, he was there for me and I still can't thank him enough for being there for me! He was there for me when I felt like I had no one and to this day, he is still there for me and I'm blessed! He is a blessing from God and I love him for who he is! He doesn't have to change for me because he is already amazing as he is!! Here is my tip and question of the day?! My tip of the day is for my Blogger Dreamers who are in a relationship, long distance relationship, or single: My tip for my people who are in a relationship- listen up: If you are in a relationship, if he or she is not making you happy, talk about with them! Don't leave it unsolved! Talk about ways to make each other happy! To my Blogger Dreamers who are in a long distance relationship- me and my boyfriend know how y'all feel! We truly do but if we can get through a long distance relationship, y'all can to and never give up! Stay faithful! For my Blogger Dreamers who are single and y'all are waiting for someone, find someone who will stay faithful to you and who won't cheat on you because once they cheat on will always be a cheater, no matter what! They can apologize all they want but once a cheater, always a cheater! My question of the day is how is your significant other different from who you used to date? Why are they different from the person who you used to date? Sound off in the comments down below and let me know! I would love to read y'all's comments! Please! Thank you so much! I love y'all!

Well, hello my Blogger Dreamers!! It's your girl aka the Blogger Queen herself, Brandee here and y'all just reached the end of today's blog episode for today! I hope and pray that y'all enjoy today's blog episode! To me, it's hard to fathom that me and my boyfriend just made a year today! To me, it went by so fast in my eyes but I am so happy that I found someone who can make me so happy and someone who can motivate me and cheer me on! It's hard to find people like that but for me, I am blessed to find someone like that! Find someone who can do the same thing for you as well! For today's quote for the day, it goes like this: "You think and think and think only inside your own mind, and never let it out. No wonder your heart gets heavier and heavier". -Magician Lee Eul. I find this quote relatable because sometimes, you overthink things and your heart becomes so heavy! When you are in a relationship, you need to talk to your partner about it because if y'all don't talk about it, it is going to lead to problems and it can lead to complicating things and you don't need that in a relationship! I pray that my Blogger Dreamers will have or had a good day! Happy Wednesday or in other countries, Happy Thursday! Always remember, "Dream Big! Don't give up on your dreams" and I will see y'all on the next blog where I will be talking about my poem "Becoming stronger". I love y'all and this Blogger Queen is out! Peace!! ✌💙💜

Today's quote of the day! Such an amazing and relatable quote! I tend to overthink sometimes, but I communicate with my boyfriend because it is important to do that!! 

My edit that I did for my boyfriend! I love how this edit turned out! It is so cute and I love how all of these pictures have to deal with us going to church!! 

"Long Distance 
Relationship Is
One Of The Best 
Relationships. It's 
Really Sweet To 
See Two Patient 
Hearts That Are 
Willing To Wait". 
-Unknown! I love this quote so much because with me and my boyfriend, we are patient about meeting each other and I believe that if God has a plan for us to meet, he will give us the time and day of us meeting and I believe in that!! 

To my man,
Don't worry I will always be your girl... 💖 My man doesn't have to worry about me leaving him because I will always stay by his, no matter what! I care about him and I will always love him, no matter what!! 

When I listen to this song by Ryan Mack, I think about my boyfriend because I know that I want to be with him forever, ever, and always because he is my complete happiness!! I love him so much and I pray that he loves this blog episode for today!!