📙  Blog: What made me want to write a book? By: Brandee Marie Darden! Date: Monday, 11/27/23!! 📕 

Intro to my blog!! 

Well, hello my Blogger Dreamers! Guess who is back? That's right! This Blogger Queen is back and she is ready to share all new blogs with her Blogger Dreamers for the week! First of all, Happy Monday or in other countries, Happy Tuesday!! How are y'all doing today? I hope everyone is doing okay and well! Whatever the circumstances might be, just know that y'all are never alone and I am always here for y'all, no matter what!! Before I get into today's blog episode and talk about this week's blog episodes, here is a recap of the week's before blogs! On Monday, November 13th, I talked about the song "Painting in the rain" by Todrick Hall, blog by: Brandee Marie Darden! When I think about the lyrics and the song itself, I think about the struggles that I have faced and how I got through them! Don't let anything hold you back! On Wednesday, I did a birthday tribute to my dad! My dad is my best friend and the person who I can trust the most and I'm so blessed to have a dad like him!! On Friday, I talked about things that stood out to me in 2023!! There were so many things that stood out to me in 2023 but the one thing that stood out in my head was me and my boyfriend dating anniversary! We can't believe it that we made a year which is hard to believe but we got through it and I am so happy! If y'all haven't read these blogs but would love to check them out, you can read them under "brandeelovestoblog21.blogspot.com". For this week's blog episodes, I will be talking about what made me want to write a book, what are 3 important things in a relationship, and lastly, but not least, why we shouldn't look down on people? Now, without further ado, let's get our blogging thinking brain on, and get this blog episode started! Shall we? We shall!! 

Today's blog episode! Why did I pick this topic to talk about? What is this week's song of the week? Why did I pick this song as my song of the week?

For today's blog episode, I will be talking about what made me want to write a book? In this blog episode for today, I will be talking about if I could list my 3 reasons why I wanted to write a book, what would be my 3 reasons? Why did I pick those reasons as why I wanted to write a book? What is the meaning behind my book? Why is there meaning behind my book? What is the significance behind my book? Why is there significance behind my book? Why did I pick this topic to talk about? The reason why I chose to talk about this topic is because when I started working on this book process, I didn't know much it would mean to me until I started this process and to say that I am proud of my book is an understatement!! I am proud to see how far it has come and I can't wait to see how it will end! What is this week's song of the week? For this week's song of the week, I chose "We are bulletproof, part 2" by: BTS! I love this song so much and in the music video, I love how Jungkook did the hat turned and stuff like that!!! Why did I pick this song as my song of the week? The reason why I chose this song for the week is because I love the beat of the song and it is such a good song!!! 

How has this book process been? Why has it been a process? 

How has this book process been? This book process has been so much an amazing journey so far! To be able to share my thoughts and wisdom along the way has been a great way to let my readers learn about what is going on in my head and what I have been through in my life time! To know that I can share my advice and share what I have been through, it took me a lot of courage to share a lot of things!! Why has it been a process? The reason why it has been a process it is because talking about what I have been through or what my thought process has been has been a crazy journey! To sharing about my past or what I have been through in 2018 can be a little difficult to share but I always built the courage to share what I have been through and I am willing to share what I have been through with someone who went through the same thing!!! 

3 reasons why!! 

If I could list my 3 reasons why I wanted to write a book, what would be my 3 reasons? The 1st reason why I wanted to write a book is because I wanted to tell the readers what I went through and how I got through it! I want people to know how I got through it! I want them to know if she went through the same problem, I can get through it as well! The 2nd reason why I wanted to write a book is because I wanted to showcase my writing skills! For me, ever since I became a blogger, I wanted to show people my thoughts and my writing skills! I want people to know if I am thinking this type of way, then I need to think this type of a way as well! The 3rd and final reason why I wanted to write a book is because I wanted to let people know if I went through the same problems, you can get through them as well! I went through a lot in my past which I am not proud of but writing this book and talking about what I have been through in my life has been a wonderful journey! I am sharing what I have been through and I am proud of myself for getting through the stuff that I have went through! The stuff that I have been through has not been easy but I am so proud of myself!! 

Why? 

Why did I pick those 3 reasons as why I wanted to write a book? The 1st reason why I wanted to write a book is because I wanted to tell the readers what I went through and how I went through it and the reason why I picked that reason is because I have been through a lot! There are moments where I am proud of and there are moments that I am not mostly proud of but that's okay because I am a human being and I am happy to be where I am at today!! The 2nd reason why I wanted to write a book is because I wanted to showcase my writing skills and the reason why I picked that reason is because some people might not know my thought process and that's okay! People don't know what I am thinking and how I am thinking and I like to keep people on their toes and surprise people! The 3rd and final reason why I wanted to write a book is because I wanted to let people know if I went through the same problems, you can get through them as well and the reason why I pick the final reason is because people might relate to my problems and I am okay with that! I want people to know "If she went through it and can get over it, then I can get over it as well". I want people to know how I got through it because I don't want them to go through the same problems as me and then, not get over it! I don't like when people go through the same problems as me and then, not have a solution to their problems! If I can get through my problems, then I can help my readers with their problems as well!

The meaning behind my book!

What is the meaning behind my book? The meaning behind my book is I wanted to write a book about what I went through and how I got through it and there are things that I talk about that are sensitive as well! The meaning behind my book is there are parts that are sensitive and parts that are educational as well! When I was thinking about the meaning of my book, I want it to be sensitive but also educational! I wanted to talk about what I have been through in my life and try not to leave anything out! I want people to know what I have been through in my life and how I got through it! My life has meaning to me and my book means a lot to me! I want people to know that I always wasn't happy but instead, I was opposite of that and I want people to understand that I had one parent that was either in or out of my life! My book has meaning and the meaning behind this book is the meaning of sadness, angry, and learning in life!! 

Why?

Why is there meaning behind my book? The reason why there is meaning behind my book is because I want my readers to feel what I feel when I went through those emotions! I want people to relate what I have been through in my life! I am not proud of certain moments in my life like I trying to commit suicide in 2018! I am not proud of that but I am so glad that I didn't try and kill myself because I wouldn't be able to find God or believing that Jesus died on the cross for our sins! From what I have been through to where I am at today, I can honestly say that I have been through a lot but I am the woman that I am today because of those issues that I went through in my life! Yes, I made mistakes along the way but I can say that I am proud of myself and I get to write it and talk about it in my own book which I am so proud of! I am looking forward to sharing it with the world!! 

The significance!! 

What is the significance behind my book? The significance behind my book is I want people to know what I went through in my life and how I got through it! I want people to know if she got through it, she can get through it as well and I want the readers to know it doesn't matter what you are going through, please don't give up!! My book is all about life lessons and how I got through it! I didn't have a easy life growing up but I got through my hardships in my life and I am proud of myself! If I went through the same problems as any of my Blogger Dreamers, then you get through it as well!! 

Why?

Why is there significance behind my book? The reason why there is significance behind my book is because I want people to understand what I want through in my life and there are still problems that I am still dealing with to this day! I am still dealing with problems that I dealt with in my past! I am not proud of my past but I am glad that I can share what I have been through in my own book! I want to share my problems in my book and tell people what I have been through instead of keeping it inside of me! I rather talk about it than not talk about it all and I am so glad that I get to talk about it with courage and I am proud of us! I have grown as a woman and I am so glad that I have grown the person who I am today!! 

In closing/ Tip of the day! 

In closing, working on this book has been a process but it has been a good process! Seeing it growing chapter by chapter, book page by book page, to say that I am proud is an understatement! I am more than proud! I am pleased how my book is coming along and I am so overjoyed with joy to wake up on certain mornings to work on it! On top of that, I am coming up with ideas with a 2nd book which I am looking forward to be working on it hopefully soon! Working on this book has been an amazing journey and I am so happy to see where it could end! I am looking forward to see how it could end!!! I am so thrilled that I got to work on my book and I am looking forward to sharing it with the whole world soon! I can't wait to share it with my friends, my family, my boyfriend, and the people who mean a lot to me aka my Blogger Dreamers! I am looking forward to see how my book will turn out soon! Here is my tip of the day: My tip of the day is if you have a dream of writing your very own book, go for it! Don't let anyone tear you down because they might think "it is not going to sale". Don't listen to those people but instead, turn their hate into motivation because I know that you can do it and I believe in my Blogger Dreamers, no matter what!! I love y'all so much!! Go for your dream!!! 

Well, hello my Blogger Dreamers! It's your girl aka the Blogger Queen herself, Brandee here to remind everyone that y'all have just reached the end of today's blog episode for today! Man, it feels so good to be back on a new blog episode because I have missed y'all so much! Working on this book has been a wonderful journey and I am so proud of it! If you have a dream, go for it! Don't let anyone stop you because they think you aren't going to succeed! If they think that you are going to fail, show them that you won't! Don't let them win!! For today's quote of the the day, it goes something like this: "You've worked hard today. Get a good night's rest tonight, and let's work hard again tomorrow". -Huang Renjun. I love this quote a lot because when you worked hard the night before, you want to rest up and you should have a goodnight rest! Don't overwork yourself! Give you some rest! I hope everyone enjoyed today's blog episode and have a good Monday, or in other countries, happy Tuesday! Until next time, "Dream Big! Don't give up on your dreams" and I will see y'all on Wednesday where I will be talking about what are 3 important things in a relationship? Stay tuned! I love y'all and this Blogger Queen is out! Peace!! ☮✌💙

Today's quote of the day! Once you worked hard, always give yourself rest! Never overworked anymore than you already have!!! 

"Better to write
for yourself and 
have no public,
than to write for 
the public and 
have no self".
-Cyril Connolly. I love this quote a lot because I rather have no public than have no self at all! I rather have myself as writer and write to the ability than having the public telling me what to do with my writing!!! 

"I think new writers 
are too worried 
that it has all been 
said before. Sure it
has, but not by you".
-Asha Dornfest. I love this quote a lot because whatever you say in your book, that's up to you! Someone else might of say something different from you but you write whatever you want to write in your book! That's completely up to you!!! 

"Being a good writer is 
3% talent, 97% not being 
distracted by the 
Internet". 
-Anonymous. I find this quote very relatable is because for us writers, we need to focus on what we are working on instead of the internet distracting us or saying something wrong about us! Don't let the world distract you!! 

For this week's song for the week, I chose "We are bulletproof" by BTS. This song was the time that BTS debuted or close to them debuted! This song is very catchy and I love the beat to it! Such a good song!!!