💙   Blog: The word "positivity" blog by: Brandee Marie Darden!! Date: Friday, 1/26/24!! 💟 

Intro to my blog!! 

Well, hello my Blogger Dreamers! It's your girl aka the Blogger Queen herself, Brandee here and welcome back to an all new weekly blog episode where I talk about anything that comes to mind rather it is about abandonment issues or even trust issues! First and further more, how are my Blogger Dreamers doing today? I hope everyone is doing okay and well! Whatever the circumstances might be or whatever it is bothering y'all, just know that y'all are loved and everyone who is apart of the Blogger Dreamers is amazing! Happy Friday or in other countries, Happy Saturday! Before I get into today's blog episode, here is a blog recap where I talked about the word "quitting". When I think about the word "quitting", I think about giving up or throwing in the towel because things are getting too hard! You should never quit or give up on something that you love! I almost gave up on my life and blogging before! I don't quit because life is hard! Keep trying! If y'all haven't read Wednesday's blog but would love to, the blog is called 'Talking about the word "quitting" '. For today's blog episode, I will be talking about the word "positivity". In this blog episode, I will be talking about when I think about the word "positivity" or "positive", what comes to mind? Why does it come to mind like that? What are some positive affirmations to get through the hard times in life? Why are those good positive affirmations to get through the hard times in life? What is my advice to my Blogger Dreamers who are feeling negative about themselves? Why would I give that advice to my Blogger Dreamers? Now, without any further ado, let's get our thinking blogging minds on and get this blog episode started! Shall we? We shall! 

What are some positive mindsets to get through the day? Why would I choose those as a positive mindsets to get through the day?  

What are some positive mindsets to get through the day? If I had to choose 3 positive mindsets to get through the day, the 1st one will be "I am good enough". We need to have that positive mindset where we are good enough! Don't let anyone tear you down! The 2nd positive mindset to get through the day is "I am loved". When I think about  that positive mindset, I know that I have people who love me and who care about me! There are people who care about you and love you as well! Don't y'all ever forget that! The 3rd and final positive mindset to get through the day is "I will conquer the day". We will conquer each day! We will never give up! Never give up! Why would I choose those a positive mindsets to get through the day? The reason why I chose the 1st positive mindset is because everyone is good enough! No questions asked! Never doubt yourself! The 2nd reason why I chose the 2nd positive mindset is because you are loved! I know that my Blogger Dreamers are loved over here and I will love everyone with every ounce of my being! Always remember that! The 3rd and final reason why I chose the 3rd positive mindset is because we need to conquer each day by being ourselves! We don't need to let people tell us who we can or cannot be! Don't let anyone stop you from being who you are! I love y'all! 

What comes to mind? 

When I think about the word "positivity" or "positive", what comes to mind? When I think about the word "positivity" or "positive", I think about someone who has the aura of them who wants to spread positive vibes or share anything that I can help anyone! To me. helping someone means a lot to me! I rather help a person out and spread some cheer, than seeing someone who is sad! I am a positive person and I rather be in a positive mindset than a negative mindset! If I end up having a negative mindset., it is going to take me somewhere where I don't want it to go! I am a positive person and if that person sees me being positive, then I am doing something right! Always be positive! 

Why? 

Why does it come to mind like that? The reason why it came to mind like that it is because when I see a person sad or depressed, I want to make them happy! Despite what I am going through in life, I want to remain positive and to never give up! If I quit, what's the point to remain positive but I rather remain positive and push anything aside than to be a negative person! Someone might need a person in their life who is positive and If I can be a person who remains positive and have positive vibes, then I am doing good and I am happy to share my positivity! I rather share my positivity with someone who needs it than someone who is a negative person! I don't like when people are a negative person because if they are going to be a negative person, I will not tolerate it in my life! I rather be around someone who has a positive aura to them!!! 

Positive affirmations to get through hard times in life! 

What are some positive affirmations to get through hard times in life? The 1st positive affirmation to get through hard times in life is "When life gets tough, I will keep pushing through". For me, I will keep pushing through and never give up! I will not quit until I did my best! I will keep pushing through, no matter what! The 2nd positive affirmation to get through hard times in life is "People can push me down, but I am a fighter". People can push you 8 or 10 times, you will still get up! If people try to push me down, I am going to continue to get back up until I can't fight anymore! I am not a quitter! I am a fighter! The 3rd and final positive affirmation to get through hard times in life is "When people tell me that I am not good enough, I will tell them I am good enough". When someone tells you that "you're not good enough", you tell them "I am good enough and I won't listen to you". Don't listen to someone who thinks you are not good enough! You are an amazing person and don't y'all ever forget that! Don't let the haters bring you hate in your life because everyone is amazing and I pray that these positive affirmations can help someone get through hard times in life! Please, don't hate on one another! Instead, help one another out!

Why?

Why are those good positive affirmations to get through the hard times in life? The reason why I chose the 1st positive affirmation to get through life is because I want people to remind themselves everyday to keep pushing through! I know things can get tough but you need to remind yourself that you need to keep going! There are people who will need you and you need to remind yourself to keep pushing through! The 2nd reason why I chose the 2nd positive affirmation to get through life is because no matter how many times people knock me down or push me down, I will continue to get back up and fighting my way until I can't anymore! I will fight with every ounce of my being until I can't anymore! Don't bring me down because I am going to get back up every single time! Just saying! The 3rd and final reason why I chose the 3rd positive affirmation to get through life is because everyone is good enough! Don't let anyone tell you that you are never good enough because everyone is good enough in my eyes! Don't let those people bring you down with your words!! I love y'all! 

My advice! 

What is my advice to my Blogger Dreamers who are feeling negative about themselves? My advice to anyone who is feeling negative about themselves is don't let anyone or anything influence your mind! You are good enough and if others can't see how good you are, that's their problem, not your problem! Don't let anyone you are not an amazing person because you are an amazing person! You are loved by so many people and even this Blogger Queen loves you! You are loved and I love y'all from the bottom of my heart! Don't be so hard on y'all's selves! None of my Blogger Dreamers don't deserve that and you will always be amazing in my eyes! Stay true to who you are and never give up trying! 

Why?

Why would I give that advice to my Blogger Dreamers? The reason why I would give that advice to my Blogger Dreamers is because you should never let something or someone bring you down! You should never be so hard on yourself! No one doesn't deserve to be hard themselves! Everyone is amazing in their own way! Be good to yourself and stay true to who you are because if you are staying true to who you are, then that's what matters the most! Life is difficult and there are people can complain and be negative over certain things, but ignore those things because you don't deserve to be around people who are negative and who complain a lot! Ignore those people! They aren't worth listen to!! Be who you are and be proud of who you are because you are an amazing person and don't y'all ever forget that! 

In conclusion/ Challenge of the day! 

In conclusion, no matter how hard life can get, we should always remain positive, no matter what! Life can throw you some curve balls and people can be rude a lot of the times, but if you share positive things with people around you, you will be a positive influence to someone! Don't be a negative influence to someone because if you are being a negative to someone, you are leading them into the wrong path in life and they don't need someone who is negative! Always be a positive person to someone that needs it! Here is my challenge of the day! My challenge of the day is let's be a positive influence in someone's life and let's spread positivity because if you spread positivity wherever you go, you can help someone who might be going through a hard time! Spread positivity wherever you go! It can help a person!! I love y'all! 

Well, hello my Blogger Dreamers! It's your girl aka the Blogger Queen herself, Brandee here and y'all just reached the end of today's blog episode for today! I hope everyone enjoyed today's blog episode! The moral of the blog is be a positive person to someone who might need a positive role model in their life! Be someone who can be a positive influence to someone who needs it! Don't be a negative person who constantly brings people down and be that person who complains a lot because I know those people and I try to cover my ears to block those types of people! For today's quote of the day, it goes something like this: "A lot of times when we aren't happy, it's because we compare ourselves to others. We should work on being a better version of ourselves and eventually we will be closer to happiness". - Huang Renjun! I find this quote so relatable because we should never compare ourselves to others! We are our own person and we need to work on being happy with ourselves! I love y'all from the bottom of my heart and until next time, "Dream Big! Don't give up on your dreams" and I will see y'all on the next blog episode where I will be on my 2nd blog page and I will be talking about analyzing the song "By Your Side" by Tenth Avenue, blog by: Brandee Marie Darden, my top 3 favorite bible verses, and my top 3 favorite Christian songs, female edition! I love y'all and I am looking forward to be sharing my blogs with y'all next week! Happy Friday or in other countries, Happy Saturday! I love y'all and have a good weekend ahead! This Blogger Queen is out! Peace! ☮✌💙

Today's quote of the day! Never compare yourself to others because you will be unhappy and you need to become a better version of yourself! Don't compare yourself! I love y'all! 

"Look for something 
positive in each day, even 
if some days you have to 
look a little harder". 
-Unknown! I love this quote so much because you are going to have days where they are harder than others, but you need to look for something in each day! 

"Sometimes you
need to step outside, 
get some air,
and remind yourself 
of who you are 
and where you 
want to be".
-Unknown! I love this quote a lot because sometimes, you need to take a breather and remind yourself to think positive thoughts! You need to remind yourself that everything will be okay! 

"A positive attitude
causes a chain
reaction of positive
thoughts, events, 
and outcomes. It 
is a catalyst and it 
sparks extraordinary 
results". 
-Unknown. I find this quote relatable because when you have a positive attitude, it can lead you into so many things! Having a positive attitude is much better than having a negative attitude!! 

For this week's song of the week, I chose "Hold On" by Katy Nichole! I absolutely love this song so much and I love how it reminds to always holds on to faith because through difficult times, faith can go along away and you need to hold on to that faith!!