Friday, March 15, 2024

Blog: What makes me encouraging? Blog by: Brandee Marie Darden! Date of blog: Friday, 3/15/24!!

                                        Blog: What makes me encouraging? Blog by: Brandee Marie Darden! Date of blog: Friday, 3/15/24!! 

Intro to my blog! 

Well, hello my Blogger Dreamers! It's your girl aka the Blogger Queen herself, Brandee here and welcome back to an all new weekly blogging episode where I talk about anything that is on my heart whether it is bullying or abandonment or anything that is personal to me! How are y'all doing today? I hope and pray that everyone is doing okay and well! Whatever the circumstances might be or whatever it is going on in your life, just know that I care about y'all more than anything in this world! I want what is best for my Blogger Dreamers and just know that I am always here for y'all, no matter what! Before I get into today's blog episode or do a blog recap, I just to remind everyone that I am taking a small break but don't worry, I am coming back not next Monday, but the Monday after! I love y'all! Now, on Wednesday, I talked about the word "bravery". I think one of the things that make me brave or have bravery is I always put a smile on my face despite what I am going through! I always try to hide whatever I am going through because I don't want to worry people! If y'all haven't read this blog episode but would love to check out, the blog is called 'Talking about the word "bravery". Now, for today's blog episode, I will be talking about what makes me encouraging? In this blog, I will be talking about if I pick out 3 things that makes me encouraging, what would those 3 things be? Why would I pick those 3 things as me being encouraging? If I had to pick what makes me the most encouraging, what would that be? Why does that thing makes me the most encouraging? If I could give encouraging words to my Blogger Dreamers, what would those encouraging words be? Why would I give those encouraging words to my Blogger Dreamers? Now, let's get our thinking caps on and this blog episode started! Shall we? We shall! 

When I think about the word "encouraging", what comes to mind? Why does it come to mind like that? 

When I think about word "encouraging", what comes to mind? When I think about the word "encouraging", I think about people encouraging others with uplifting words! I think about someone who wants to encourage others instead of being a critic to that person! We already have enough critics in this world and we don't need anymore! We need to uplift one another and be there for one another instead of tearing each other down! We need to support one another! Let's encourage one another! Why does it come to mind like that? The reason why it comes to mind like that is because I feel like we don't encourage one another! I feel like we don't uplift one another which is sad to me! I feel like we are constantly beating each other down and we don't need to do that! We need to be a positive influence in someone's life! I have a lot of people who are like that and I am so blessed to have people who are a positive influence in my life! Find people who can be an influence in your life! 

3 things that make me encouraging! 

If I pick out 3 things that makes me encouraging, what would those 3 things be? There are so many things that makes me encouraging, but I think what makes me encouraging is my positive attitude! When it comes to encouraging others, I always have a positive attitude about it! I want people to know that I have a positive attitude and I want to encourage others by sharing my positive attitude! The 2nd thing that makes me encouraging is I always have a positive mindset when it comes to encouraging others! When it comes to encouraging others, I always have a positive mindset! When I want to encourage others, I want to give everyone a positive mindset and i want to give them positive words to think about instead of negative words! Negative words can be negative while positive words can be uplifting and encouraging! I feel like lifting up others is a right thing to do! We have critics already! The 3rd and final thing that makes me encouraging is when I am going through a tough time, I always lifting others up! Despite what I have been through or I am going through, I am always lifting others up! I feel like people need to see how strong I am and that I will never give up! Encouraging others to me makes me happy! I want people to know that everything will be alright and that you should always push through, no matter what! 

Why? 

Why would I pick those 3 things as me being encouraging? The 1st reason why I would pick is my positive attitude and I think the reason why it makes me encouraging is because when things tough, I always have this positive attitude and I don't let anything or anyone stop me! I don't even let the negative thoughts stop me either! I always want to encourage others because to me, it is important! The 2nd reason why I would pick my positive mindset and I think the reason why it makes me encouraging is because when it comes to encouraging others, I want to have that positive mindset and I want them to know that they are never alone and no matter what they are going through, they are loved and I am always by their side, no matter what! The 3rd and final reason why I would pick is when I am going through a tough time, I always lifting others up and I think the reason why it makes me encouraging is because whatever I am going through, I turn that into a life lesson and I also turn it into a encouraging lesson as well! I want people to know whatever I am going through, I am always here to encourage others! I will always encourage others before I worry about others! I will always to make sure to send positive words towards my Blogger Dreamers because I feel like we should always encourage others despite what we are going through in life! 

Makes me the most encouraging! 

If I had to pick what makes me the most encouraging, what would that be? I think if I had to pick what makes me the most encouraging, I think it would have to be despite me going through a hard time, I always want to uplift others! No matter what I am facing in life, I am always here to encourage and uplift others! I could feel depressed but I am here to encourage others! I feel like I should always encourage others not to give up or quit! If I can push through, y'all can to!! I don't care what I am going through! If any of my Blogger Dreamers need encouraging, I will gladly give y'all some encouragement! Everyone deserves to have that encouragement and I want people to know that I am always here to encourage anyone, if y'all need anything! 

Why? 

Why does that thing makes me the most encouraging? I think the reason why I picked despite me through a hard time, I always want to uplift others as the most encouraging is because I can be crying because something happened, but I am always going to push through and give others encouragement! I feel like whatever you are going through, we should always give others encouragement! We should be there for one another and uplift each others! We should always help out others and be there for one another, no matter what! I want my Blogger Dreamers to know whatever I am going through, I will get through it and I will help y'all by encouraging y'all! We need to inspire one another and be there for each other! Let's help one another!

Encouraging words!  

If I could give encouraging words to my Blogger Dreamers, what would those encouraging words be? If I could give encouraging words to my Blogger Dreamers, those encouraging words would be let's lift each other up! Don't bring each other down! We have enough critics in this world! We don't need to be harsh on one another! Let's bring each other up, instead of each other down! Let's help one another and don't watch another person struggling! I don't believe in watching a person struggle! Let's be that person's shoulder to cry on! Let's encourage one another and uplift each other! I love y'all! 

Why? 

Why would I give those encouraging words to my Blogger Dreamers? The reason why I would give those encouraging words to my Blogger Dreamers is because we don't need anymore critics in this world! There are so many in this world today that we don't need anymore! We need to uplift and be there for one another! Why bring each other down, when we can lift each other up? We don't need people to drag each other through the mud! We need to help each other and be there on another! Let's encourage others because we need a lot of encouragement from other people! Let's help people, not downgrade people!! 

In closing/ Tip of the day!  

In closing, we need to encourage one another! I feel like these days, we don't encourage a lot people because we are either downgrading them or telling them how to live a life which is wrong! We should never tell people how to live or how to raise their kids but instead of telling them what to do, we need to be an encouragement! We don't need to bring others down! For me, I don't understand why people would want to bring others down? To me, it is heart wrenching and sadden! I want to be an encouragement to others because I want them to know that they are never alone and they have people by their side, no matter what! I feel like we should be an encouragement to others and help them along the way, no drag them down! Here is my tip of the day! My tip of the day is let's be an encouragement to one another! Let's lift others up instead of others down! Let's help others along the way! Let's be there for one another and support people, no matter what! I love y'all!

Well, hello my Blogger Dreamers! It's your girl aka the Blogger Queen herself, Brandee here to remind everyone that y'all have reached the end of today's blog episode for today! I hope and pray that everyone enjoyed today's blog episode because I know that I did! In this world today, we do nothing but drag each other down when we could be encouraging others around us! Telling them not to give up because they are doing a good job! We need to remind people that we are here for one another and we will encourage you in anyway that we can! I'm very blessed to have people in my life who encourage me in anyway that they can and I am blessed! One of those people is my boyfriend! He encourages me in anyway that he can which I am so blessed for! For today's bible verse of the day, in Isaiah 41:10, it says "Fear not, for I am with you; be not dismayed, for I am your God; I will strengthen you, I will help you, I will uphold you with my righteous right hand". I love today's bible verse of the day is because don't have any fear because God is always with you! God is always with you because he will strengthen you and always help you in every need! Don't let something get you worked up because you have God by your side, no matter what! I love y'all so much! I pray that everyone will have a great day or had a great day! Happy Friday or in other countries, Happy Saturday! Always remember: "Dream Big! Don't give up on dreams" and I will see y'all on Monday, March 25th where I will be talking about my outfit that I wore when I met my boyfriend! Stay tuned for that and I wanted to remind everyone that I am taking a break, but don't worry! I will be back soon!! I love y'all and I will see y'all soon! This Blogger Queen is out! Peace! ☮✌💙💜

 
Today's bible verse of the day! I love today's bible verse of the day because God will strengthen me and help guide me through life! God will be there for me, no matter what! God will strengthen me through my good times and bad times! God is an amazing God!! 


"Encouragement 
to others is 
something 
everyone can
give". 
-Joel Osteen. I love this quote a lot because everyone can give encouragement to others! We need to encourage others by just uplifting them!! Uplift others and be there for one another! 




"We rise 
by lifting 
others". 
-Robert Ingersoll. I love this quote a lot because we rise by lifting others and we need to always lift others up, no matter what!! Find a person who will lift you up!! Those are good people to have around! 


"Be an 
encourager, 
the world 
has enough 
critics 
already". 
-Unknown! I love this quote because we need more encouragers than critics because we have enough critics in this world and we need people who will encourage others by uplifting them and being there for them! Always be an encourager!! I love y'all! 



To end today's blog episode, here is this week's song of the week! I chose "Somebody" by Jungkook of BTS! I love the beat of this song and it holds a message behind the song! Such a good song and I love it! I love y'all and have a good weekend ahead! 
 



Wednesday, March 13, 2024

Blog: Talking about the word "Bravery". Blog by: Brandee Marie Darden! Date: Wed. 3/13/24!!

                                           Blog: Talking about the word "Bravery". Blog by: Brandee Marie Darden! Date: Wed. 3/13/24! 

Intro to my blog! 

Well, hello my Blogger Dreamers! It's your girl aka the Blogger Queen herself, Brandee here and welcome back to an all new weekly blog episode where I talk about anything that's either on my mind or whatever I feel like talking about! Happy Wednesday or in other countries, Happy Thursday! How are y'all doing today? I hope everyone is doing okay and well! Whatever you are going through or whatever it is bothering y'all, just know that y'all are never alone and I care about y'all always! Before I get into today's blog episode, here is a blog recap of Monday's blog! On Monday's blog episode, I talked about Miscommunication vs communication! When you have miscommunication with someone, for me, I get upset and angry because with me, I would like to know what's going on or what the plans are but if you don't communicate with me, then how am I suppose to know what's going on? Always communicate with the people who you are talking to! If y'all haven't read this blog but would love to read it, please go check it out whenever y'all can! Please! Thank you all so much! For today's blog episode, I will be talking about the word "Bravery". In this blog, I will be talking about when I think about the word "bravery", what comes to mind? Why does it come to mind like that? What makes a person brave? Why does those things make a person brave? What makes me brave? Why does those things make me brave? If I have any advice about being brave, would my advice be? Why would I give that advice to my Blogger Dreamers? Now, without any further ado, let's get this blog episode started and get our blogging thinking caps on! Shall we? We shall! 

The term "bravery". What does the word "bravery" mean to me? Why does the word "bravery" mean to me like that? 

What does the word "bravery" mean to me? The word "bravery" mean to me is when someone is battling with mental health or cancer and they are showing bravery because they don't want to worry other people! For me, I wake up everyday and I put a smile on my face because I don't want people to worry about me! I don't want people to worry about me because it's not their job to worry about me! I always try to push through and show people how strong I am! Everyone is brave and I believe that if you can push through, you can conquer the world! Why does the word "bravery" mean to me like that? The reason why the word "bravery" mean to me like that is because sometimes, dealing with mental health problems or even cancer can be hard at times and for me, it is hard be "okay" because everyone is going to question you but at the end of the day, I always tried and push through it! I always try to never give up which is so hard to do at times! Always be brave, no matter what! 

What comes to mind? 

When I think about the word "bravery", what comes to mind?  When I think about the word "bravery", I think about someone who wakes up everyday and puts a smile on their face! When people are smiling, they are showing people around them how brave they are! Sometimes when you act brave, people can sense that you are probably faking and that's okay! When someone asks you if you are doing okay and you are acting all strong and brave for people who you care about! Don't act all brave! If people are concerned about you, tell them the truth! Don't ever pretend that everything is okay because what if it is not? Don't pretend to be brave! Everything will be okay! 

Why?

Why does it come to mind like that? I think the reason why when I think about the word "bravery" like that is because sometimes, when people are struggling, they hide behind a mask and sometimes, they don't won't to worry others because when other people worry about other people, they tend to ask a ton of questions and sometimes, it seems overbearing! It hard to act like you are brave when you are dealing things on your own! When you are trying to be brave, you are staying strong for the people around you and that's hard to do at times! Don't give up and quit because you are doing amazing and you are trying and that's all that matters! Don't let people worry about you! Instead, tell them what's going on? It is better to tell the people who care about you what's going on than keeping it inside! Don't give up and always keep pushing through, no matter what! 

Makes a person brave?

What makes a person brave? Well, there is a lot of things that make a person brave! For example, they get up every morning with a smile on their face and trying to push through life! When you are going through a tough time in life, you just want to give up and quit but no! You can't because you need to push through and not give up! The 2nd thing that make a person brave is they are not afraid to take risks at all! Sometimes when people do dangerous things, they are not afraid to do things that don't scare them and they are being so brave! Taking risks are scary but you got to do what you got to do! The 3rd and final thing makes a person brave is whatever that person is going through, they are willing to do anything to make a person happy! When a person is down and sad, but they don't care how sad and down they are because they are willing to push through and help the next person! That is bravery! Always help people who need help because that person might need you through their difficult times!

Why? 

Why does those things make a person brave? The 1st reason why that person gets up every morning with a smile on their face and trying to push through life is an example of that person being brave is because life throws us challenge after challenge but we need to realize that we need to push through and be brave for us! We can get through anything that God puts in our way! The 2nd reason why that person is not afraid to take risks at all makes a person brave is because in life, we should never be afraid to take risks and should always stand tall! We should never be afraid to do whatever we want to do! Life is all about taking risks and being brave! We should never be afraid to take risks at all! The 3rd and final reason why whatever that person is going through, they are willing to push their feelings a side and help someone makes them brave is because when you are going through a tough time, you are willing to be down and sad but when you see someone else sad, you are willing to help that person and be brave for them! Showing that person they can be brave is good because you are showing them that life isn't worth giving up or being sad! We need to learn how to be happy and not be a Debbie downer!! Let's show people how to be brave!! 

Makes me brave? 

What makes me brave? I think what makes me brave is I wake up everyday with a smile on my face despite what I am going through deep within! When I am struggling with some stuff, I tend to hide behind a fake smile and be brave for the people around me! If I show them how brave that I am, they can be brave as well! The 2nd thing that makes me brave is I am not afraid to stand up for the people that I love! I am not afraid to deal with people who are mean to me because I can stand up for myself! I am not afraid to tell people off! I am not afraid to be mean back! I will do whatever I can to stand tall and be brave! The 3rd and final thing that makes me brave is I am not afraid to make bold statements! Y'all are probably wondering, "Brandee, what do mean by that"? Well, my Blogger Dreamers, what I am mean by that is I am not afraid to dress how I want to and be brave about it! People might think wearing a dress with tennis shoe might be weird but I don't think it is! I love a good tennis shoe with a dress or a nice shirt and a skirt! I am all about bravery and I will stand brave for who I am, no matter what!

Why? 

Why does those things make me brave? The 1st reason why when I wake everyday with a smile on my face despite what I am going through deep within makes me brave is because a smile can hide everything and for me, I can hide whatever I am going through and I want to stay brave for the ones who are struggling with anything in their life! For me, I rather be brave and then, I cry later! The 2nd reason why I am not afraid to stand up for the people that I love makes me brave is because when I see someone that I love deeply going through something or being bullied, I am willing to do anything to stand up for that person! I will protect the people that I love because that is the person that I am! I will be brave for that person and make sure to protect them from danger!!! The 3rd and final reason why I am not afraid to make bold statements makes me brave is because I am not afraid to dress how I want to dress! I am not afraid to be who I am when it comes to wearing whatever I want to wear! If people want to judge me, they can go ahead because I am going to do whatever I want to do because God made me who I am! God made me the person that I am today! I am okay with being brave because that's who I am and I am okay with that! 

My advice! 

If I have any advice about being brave, what would my advice be? If I have any advice for my Blogger Dreamers about being brave, my advice is no matter what you are going through or no matter how hard life can get, be brave! I understand life can be hard at times, but you can get through it! Just be brave! Don't be afraid to show bravery! Don't be afraid to show courage either! Be proud of who you are because the person that you are is amazing and don't forget that! Stand tall and be brave!! 

Why? 

Why would I give that advice to my Blogger Dreamers? The reason why I would give that advice to my Blogger Dreamers is because when you show people how brave you are and that no matter how hard life can be at times, we need to stand tall and be brave because God can throw us at any situation and we need to stand brave! We need to people that we are brave and that we won't give up, no matter what! Show people how brave you are because you are brave! Don't let people question your bravery!! 

In closing/ Question of the day? 

In closing, the moral of today's blog is we need to show people how brave we are or that we have bravery and that we are also courageous as well! We should never be afraid to take risks or stand up for one another! Don't let anyone questioned your bravery because if they are questioning your bravery, they think you are not strong enough and that you are strong enough! Don't let anyone drag you down because everyone is different and you will get through whatever you are going through! Everyone is strong! Don't give up! Here is my question of the day: My question of the day is what 3 things makes my Blogger Dreamers brave? Why does those 3 things make my Blogger Dreamers brave? Sound off in the comments down below and let me know! I would love to read and respond to everyone's comments! Please! Thank you all so much! I love y'all! 

Well, hello my Blogger Dreamers! It's your girl aka the Blogger Queen herself, Brandee here and y'all just reached the end of today's blog episode for today! In life, we need to show how brave that we are because if we show people how weak we are, we are showing them that they can defeat us and we should never let people see how defeated we are! We need to show our bravery and how strong that we are! We can't give up because life is hard! We need to be brave and show that if I can be brave, y'all can be brave as well! Show your bravery!! For today's bible verse of the day, it goes something like this: in 1 Corinthians 13:13, it says "And not these three remain: faith, hope, and love. But the greatest of these is love". I absolutely love this bible verse a lot because God's love can go on for days! God's love can love us forever! God will forever love us, no matter what! God cares about us and he will do anything to love us and protect us, no matter what! I love y'all with all my heart and soul! I pray that everyone will have a good Wednesday or in other countries, a good Thursday! Always remember: "Dream Big! Don't ever give up on your dreams" and I will see y'all on the next blog episode where I will be talking about what makes me encouraging? Stay tuned! I love y'all and I will see y'all on the next blog episode! This Blogger Queen is out! Peace! ☮✌💖💟

Today' s bible verse of the day! God's love is so powerful that he will always love us, no matter what!! Let God love you because he will never abandoned you!! God cares about us so much!! 


Daily reminder: 
"There is always 
light. If only we're 
brave enough to 
see it. If only we're 
brave enough to 
be it".
-Amanda Gorman. I love this quote a lot because because there is always light at the end of the tunnel! If you see that light at the end of that tunnel, you are brave enough to get through whatever you are going through!! 


"Even if go for it 
and it doesn't work out, 
you still win. You had the 
guts to head straight into 
something that scared you. 
That type of bravery will
take you places". 
-Unknown! I love this quote so much because whatever you try to do, at least you tried to do it! Even if you didn't do well, at least the bravery will take places beyond the horizon!! 


"Bravery is 
the audacity
to be unhindered 
by failures, 
and to walk 
with freedom, 
strength, and hope,
in the face of 
things unknown".
-Morgan Harper Nichols. I absolutely love this quote so much you don't know what you are going to walk into until you face it yourself! Once you face it, you need to tackle it the way you know how to tackle it! Be brave! 

Be brave today, my Blogger Dreamers! Don't be afraid to tackle any situation that comes your way! I love y'all! 💙💙



Monday, March 11, 2024

Blog: Miscommunication vs communication! Blog by: Brandee Marie Darden! Date: Monday, 3/11/24!!

                          Blog:Miscommunication vs communication! Blog by: Brandee Marie Darden! Date: Monday, 3/11/24!! 

Intro to my blog! 

Well, hello my Blogger Dreamers! It's your girl aka the Blogger Queen herself, Brandee here and welcome back to an all new weekly blog episode where I talk about anything that is on my mind whether it be about bullying or abandonment issues! Happy Monday or other countries, Happy Tuesday! How are y'all doing today? I hope and pray that everyone is doing okay and well! Whatever the circumstances might be or whatever it is going on in y'all's life, just know that y'all are never alone and y'all are loved over here at the Blogger Dreamers! Before I get into today's blog episode along with this week's blog episodes, here is a recap of last week's blog episodes! Last week on my 2nd blog page, on Monday, I talked about meeting my boyfriend for the 1st time! I hate to be biased, but that blog might be my favorite and I will tell y'all why? The reason why it might be my favorite is because we met for the 1st time and that was a big accomplishment in our relationship! We have talked about us meeting for a long time ever since we go together and I am so happy that we did! That memory will ever be remember as the best day ever! On Wednesday, I talked about the word "courage". When I think about the word "courage", I think about someone taking risks! In life, we need to take risks and for me, I had to build a lot of courage to meet my boyfriend for the 1st time and man, I was so nervous! I am just glad that I met him though! On Friday, I talked about women's empowerment day! Friday was women's day and I look at women very strong and who are fighters! There is a lot of women who have influenced me in my life but the one women who have influenced my life is Lauren Daigle! Her music has inspired me so much and I just love her music a lot! If y'all haven't read these blog episodes and would love to check them out, you can read them at "brandeelovestoblog21.blogspot.com". Now, for this week's blog episodes, I will be talking about miscommunication vs communication, the word "bravery", and what makes me encouraging? Now, without any further distractions, let's get this blog episode started! Shall we? We shall! 

Talking about today's blog episode! Why did I choose to talk about today's blog episode? What is this week's song of the week? Why did I choose this song as my song of the week? 

For today's blog episode, I will be talking about miscommunication vs communication! In this blog episode, I will be talking about when I think about the difference between miscommunication and communication, what is the difference? Why is there the difference between the two? How can miscommunication lead to an argument? Why can miscommunication lead to an argument? If I have any advice to give to my Blogger Dreamers about miscommunication and learning how to communicate with one another, what is my advice? Why would I give that advice? Why did I choose to talk about today's blog episode? The reason why I would talk about this type of a blog is because I feel like people don't talk about the problems that comes from miscommunication and it sad that a lot of arguing can come from having miscommunication issues! I think some relationships might end because of miscommunication issues! Always discuss things with your partner or anyone around you! What is this week's song of the week? This week, I chose "Somebody" by Jungkook, from BTS! I love this song so much! When I listen to this song, I think about the beat of this song and I think about how good this song is! Why did I choose this song as my song of the week? The reason why I chose this song for the week is because I love the beat of the song and I think this song holds a powerful message behind it! Jungkook did a good job on this song!

When people don't communicate with me, how does that make me feel? Why does it make me feel a certain way? 

When people don't communicate with me, how does that make me feel? When people don't communicate with me, it honestly makes me feel hurt and a slap in the face! When people don't talk to me or communicate with me on what is going on, it hurts me! I am that type of a person if you don't talk to me, then why am I in your life! If you don't communicate with me, then why bother me? I am that type of a girl who talks about her problems and makes sure that the problems are resolved! I am not that type of a girl who leaves things unsolved! I can't do that! That would bug me and I would hate that! Always discuss things with me that way we can communicate about things!! Why does it make me feel a certain way? The reason why it makes me feel a certain way is because when people don't talk to me on what's going on or what the game plan for something, it bugs me! I am thinking to myself "please, communicate with me"! When someone communicates with me, I feel better and I feel happy knowing that someone talked to me about their problems and I just pray people can communicate with me!


The difference between miscommunication and communication! 

When I think about the difference between miscommunication and communication, what is the difference? The difference between miscommunication and communication is with miscommunication, it can lead to arguments and disagreements and that's not good at all whereas, with communication, when you tell that person what is going on, it makes that person feel so much better! Me and my boyfriend communicate with each other every time there is a problem and we talk about our problems! When you have a problem with one other, don't have a miscommunication problem! Talk out the problem instead! When you are in a relationship or your around friends or family, you want to talk about things and when you talk to someone about something, sometimes it can lead to an argument and they are going to tell you, "you should of told me sooner" or something along those lines! People sometimes don't really communicate and that's bother me so much! Always talk to people how you! That's very important! 

Why? 

Why is there the difference between the two? The reason there is difference between the two is because one leads to arguments and potentially fighting vs the other is about talking about what is happening in life and what is going on! For, I don't understand why people wouldn't want to discuss what is happening in their life or what is wrong and why they are feeling a certain way! For me, I am that type of a person who wants to discuss what is bothering me and why it is bothering me! I don't like to leave things bottled up and bothering me! When me and my boyfriend argue at times, it kind of hurts because that is the one person who I don't like arguing with! I understand that arguing is part of a relationship but at times, it hurts me when I watch me and my boyfriend argue! It kills me so much because I love him so much! If something is bothering you, communicate it with someone! Don't leave it unsolved and let it bother you until it still bothering you! Always communicate or talk about what things are bothering you! It is better to talk it out then not talk it out at all!

How?   

How can miscommunication lead to an argument? The way miscommunication lead to an argument is when you didn't discuss what is the plan or what is going on in someone's life! When people found out about someone in the family has a health issue or what kind of plans someone has, you felt left out and no one didn't communicate with you and telling you what is going on! That can lead into an argument and honestly, that would not end well at all! When there is going on, you want to be included and feel included, but there are people in this world who make you excluded and trust me, I know how that feels because I feel like with certain people in my family and to be honest, it hurts me so much! Always discuss things that won't lead into an argument! Instead of arguing, let's communicate on what's going on or what's bothering one another! Let's not lead to an argument! 

Why?

Why can miscommunication lead to an argument? I think the whole reason why miscommunication can lead to an argument is because when people don't tell you what is going on and you found out through a family member or through social media, it bothers you so much! I don't like when you found out things on social media! To me, that's harsh and it is mean not tell anyone what is going on! You're basically leaving that person out of the loop and it is wrong for you to leave anyone out of the loop! Don't let any type of miscommunication cause any fighting because once it causes drama, good luck fixing it! Fighting because there was a miscommunication issue, that is crazy! Instead of making it a big ruckus, let's talk about it and not fight about it! Let's talk about what's going on instead of leaving it unsolved! Tell people what's going on instead of posting it on social media! Don't leave it unsolved! 

My advice! 

If I have any advice to give to my Blogger Dreamers about miscommunication and learning how to communicate with one another, what is my advice? My advice about miscommunication is don't leave things that aren't to meant to be unsolved! Leaving things unsolved can lead to a big ruckus and can also lead to fighting and disagreements! Talk about it! My advice on learning how to communicate with one another is telling someone what is going on and telling them how you are feeling is better than finding out on social media! When you learn how to communicate, you will feel so much better and it will be a better environment for everyone to be in! Don't be in a environment where everyone doesn't communicate their problems and everything is unsolved! Don't go somewhere where you are not happy! If someone around is toxic, you don't have to be around that person or people! Be around people who will talk about what is going on in their life! Don't be around people who won't communicate with you! 

Why? 

Why would I give that advice? The reason why I would give the 1st advice is because when you leave things unanswered or not bothering with it, it can lead to a lot of arguments and a lot of mistakes, those mistakes can fixed! You don't have to leave everything unsolved and y'all can communicate about what is going on! When you found out what is going on, it can be fixed! The 2nd and final reason why I would give that 2nd advice is because learning how to communicate with one another is extremely important! If you don't learn how to communicate with one another, then it will lead to fighting and arguing a lot! Being around people who are toxic is not good for you at all and you don't need that in y'all's lives! Focus on people who will communicate with you and be there for you!

In closing/ Challenge of the day! 

In closing, I don't like when people don't talk to me about something and we aren't fixing the problem within itself! When you don't listen to someone and they are telling you what is going on, they are telling you their concerns and telling you how they are feeling and communicating about their problems but instead, you are ignoring what they are completely saying and you don't care what they are feeling! Communicating about stuff is better than leaving things miscommunicated and not solved! People don't understand that when you leave things miscommunicated, it can get ugly and that's not good at all! Don't leave things miscommunicated because things can get terrible and that won't be good at all! Here is my challenge of the day! My challenge of the day is communicate with people who you usually don't communicate with or communicate with people about your problems! When you know you found the people who will understand what you are going through, they can communicate with you! I love y'all!! 

Well, hello my Blogger Dreamers! It's your girl aka the Blogger Queen herself, Brandee here and y'all just reached the end of today's blog episode for today! I hope and pray that everyone enjoyed today's blog episode! I hope everyone understands that communicating about your problems is very important and that you should never leave nothing bottled inside! Always communicate on what's going on because if you don't communicate with someone, it is not going to be a pretty site! Always communicate with one another! For today's bible verse of the day, it goes something like this: in Psalm 119:24, it says "Your testimonies are my delight: they are my counselors". I absolutely love this bible verse of the day because God's word is testimonies and they can help you through anything that you are going through or every sermon that you go on Sunday's and Wednesday's, it is also a testimony of God's as well! I love y'all and I hope y'all will have a good day or had a good day! Happy  Monday or in other countries, Happy Tuesday! Always remember "Dream Big! Don't give up on your dreams" and I will see y'all on the next blog episode where I will be talking about the word "bravery". I love y'all and this Blogger Queen is out! Peace! ☮✌💛

Today's bible verse of the day! Use God's words to apply it to your everyday life because God's words will help you through every struggle that you are facing!! 


"Miscommunication 
leads to misunderstanding, 
which rarely lead to 
anything good". 
-Charles F. Glassman. I couldn't agree with this quote anymore because when there is a misunderstanding, it can lead into a lot of trouble which is not good at all! Don't cause any misunderstandings!! 


"The quality of your 
life is the quality of 
your communication". 
-Tony Robbins! I love this quote a lot because when in your life, you need to learn how to communicate with the people who care about you! Communication is key! 


"Bad 
Communication
End A Lot 
Of Good Things". 
-Unknown! I love this quote because you can start with bad communication but once you start having that communication, it can end on a good things!! Sometimes, you can start on a bad note but you can end on a good note! 


"People
who can't 
communicate
Think 
everything is 
an argument". 
-Unknown. I love this quote because people think everything has to be an argument but it doesn't have to be! You can talk calmly when it comes to communicating! 


To end today's blog episode, here is this week's song of the week! I love the beat of this song and I think Jungkook did an amazing job on this song!! 

Oh! Before I forget, I am taking a break next week to focus on blog planning and write new poems! I am just letting my Blogger Dreamers know! I love y'all! 

 
 

Blog: Analyzing my poem "I'm strong without you" by: Brandee Marie Darden! Date of blog: Friday, 11/14/25!!

                                        Blog: Analyzing my poem "I'm strong without you" by: Brandee Marie Darden! Date of blo...