Blog:Miscommunication vs communication! Blog by: Brandee Marie Darden! Date: Monday, 3/11/24!! 

Intro to my blog! 

Well, hello my Blogger Dreamers! It's your girl aka the Blogger Queen herself, Brandee here and welcome back to an all new weekly blog episode where I talk about anything that is on my mind whether it be about bullying or abandonment issues! Happy Monday or other countries, Happy Tuesday! How are y'all doing today? I hope and pray that everyone is doing okay and well! Whatever the circumstances might be or whatever it is going on in y'all's life, just know that y'all are never alone and y'all are loved over here at the Blogger Dreamers! Before I get into today's blog episode along with this week's blog episodes, here is a recap of last week's blog episodes! Last week on my 2nd blog page, on Monday, I talked about meeting my boyfriend for the 1st time! I hate to be biased, but that blog might be my favorite and I will tell y'all why? The reason why it might be my favorite is because we met for the 1st time and that was a big accomplishment in our relationship! We have talked about us meeting for a long time ever since we go together and I am so happy that we did! That memory will ever be remember as the best day ever! On Wednesday, I talked about the word "courage". When I think about the word "courage", I think about someone taking risks! In life, we need to take risks and for me, I had to build a lot of courage to meet my boyfriend for the 1st time and man, I was so nervous! I am just glad that I met him though! On Friday, I talked about women's empowerment day! Friday was women's day and I look at women very strong and who are fighters! There is a lot of women who have influenced me in my life but the one women who have influenced my life is Lauren Daigle! Her music has inspired me so much and I just love her music a lot! If y'all haven't read these blog episodes and would love to check them out, you can read them at "brandeelovestoblog21.blogspot.com". Now, for this week's blog episodes, I will be talking about miscommunication vs communication, the word "bravery", and what makes me encouraging? Now, without any further distractions, let's get this blog episode started! Shall we? We shall! 

Talking about today's blog episode! Why did I choose to talk about today's blog episode? What is this week's song of the week? Why did I choose this song as my song of the week? 

For today's blog episode, I will be talking about miscommunication vs communication! In this blog episode, I will be talking about when I think about the difference between miscommunication and communication, what is the difference? Why is there the difference between the two? How can miscommunication lead to an argument? Why can miscommunication lead to an argument? If I have any advice to give to my Blogger Dreamers about miscommunication and learning how to communicate with one another, what is my advice? Why would I give that advice? Why did I choose to talk about today's blog episode? The reason why I would talk about this type of a blog is because I feel like people don't talk about the problems that comes from miscommunication and it sad that a lot of arguing can come from having miscommunication issues! I think some relationships might end because of miscommunication issues! Always discuss things with your partner or anyone around you! What is this week's song of the week? This week, I chose "Somebody" by Jungkook, from BTS! I love this song so much! When I listen to this song, I think about the beat of this song and I think about how good this song is! Why did I choose this song as my song of the week? The reason why I chose this song for the week is because I love the beat of the song and I think this song holds a powerful message behind it! Jungkook did a good job on this song!

When people don't communicate with me, how does that make me feel? Why does it make me feel a certain way? 

When people don't communicate with me, how does that make me feel? When people don't communicate with me, it honestly makes me feel hurt and a slap in the face! When people don't talk to me or communicate with me on what is going on, it hurts me! I am that type of a person if you don't talk to me, then why am I in your life! If you don't communicate with me, then why bother me? I am that type of a girl who talks about her problems and makes sure that the problems are resolved! I am not that type of a girl who leaves things unsolved! I can't do that! That would bug me and I would hate that! Always discuss things with me that way we can communicate about things!! Why does it make me feel a certain way? The reason why it makes me feel a certain way is because when people don't talk to me on what's going on or what the game plan for something, it bugs me! I am thinking to myself "please, communicate with me"! When someone communicates with me, I feel better and I feel happy knowing that someone talked to me about their problems and I just pray people can communicate with me!

The difference between miscommunication and communication! 

When I think about the difference between miscommunication and communication, what is the difference? The difference between miscommunication and communication is with miscommunication, it can lead to arguments and disagreements and that's not good at all whereas, with communication, when you tell that person what is going on, it makes that person feel so much better! Me and my boyfriend communicate with each other every time there is a problem and we talk about our problems! When you have a problem with one other, don't have a miscommunication problem! Talk out the problem instead! When you are in a relationship or your around friends or family, you want to talk about things and when you talk to someone about something, sometimes it can lead to an argument and they are going to tell you, "you should of told me sooner" or something along those lines! People sometimes don't really communicate and that's bother me so much! Always talk to people how you! That's very important! 

Why? 

Why is there the difference between the two? The reason there is difference between the two is because one leads to arguments and potentially fighting vs the other is about talking about what is happening in life and what is going on! For, I don't understand why people wouldn't want to discuss what is happening in their life or what is wrong and why they are feeling a certain way! For me, I am that type of a person who wants to discuss what is bothering me and why it is bothering me! I don't like to leave things bottled up and bothering me! When me and my boyfriend argue at times, it kind of hurts because that is the one person who I don't like arguing with! I understand that arguing is part of a relationship but at times, it hurts me when I watch me and my boyfriend argue! It kills me so much because I love him so much! If something is bothering you, communicate it with someone! Don't leave it unsolved and let it bother you until it still bothering you! Always communicate or talk about what things are bothering you! It is better to talk it out then not talk it out at all!

How?   

How can miscommunication lead to an argument? The way miscommunication lead to an argument is when you didn't discuss what is the plan or what is going on in someone's life! When people found out about someone in the family has a health issue or what kind of plans someone has, you felt left out and no one didn't communicate with you and telling you what is going on! That can lead into an argument and honestly, that would not end well at all! When there is going on, you want to be included and feel included, but there are people in this world who make you excluded and trust me, I know how that feels because I feel like with certain people in my family and to be honest, it hurts me so much! Always discuss things that won't lead into an argument! Instead of arguing, let's communicate on what's going on or what's bothering one another! Let's not lead to an argument! 

Why?

Why can miscommunication lead to an argument? I think the whole reason why miscommunication can lead to an argument is because when people don't tell you what is going on and you found out through a family member or through social media, it bothers you so much! I don't like when you found out things on social media! To me, that's harsh and it is mean not tell anyone what is going on! You're basically leaving that person out of the loop and it is wrong for you to leave anyone out of the loop! Don't let any type of miscommunication cause any fighting because once it causes drama, good luck fixing it! Fighting because there was a miscommunication issue, that is crazy! Instead of making it a big ruckus, let's talk about it and not fight about it! Let's talk about what's going on instead of leaving it unsolved! Tell people what's going on instead of posting it on social media! Don't leave it unsolved! 

My advice! 

If I have any advice to give to my Blogger Dreamers about miscommunication and learning how to communicate with one another, what is my advice? My advice about miscommunication is don't leave things that aren't to meant to be unsolved! Leaving things unsolved can lead to a big ruckus and can also lead to fighting and disagreements! Talk about it! My advice on learning how to communicate with one another is telling someone what is going on and telling them how you are feeling is better than finding out on social media! When you learn how to communicate, you will feel so much better and it will be a better environment for everyone to be in! Don't be in a environment where everyone doesn't communicate their problems and everything is unsolved! Don't go somewhere where you are not happy! If someone around is toxic, you don't have to be around that person or people! Be around people who will talk about what is going on in their life! Don't be around people who won't communicate with you! 

Why? 

Why would I give that advice? The reason why I would give the 1st advice is because when you leave things unanswered or not bothering with it, it can lead to a lot of arguments and a lot of mistakes, those mistakes can fixed! You don't have to leave everything unsolved and y'all can communicate about what is going on! When you found out what is going on, it can be fixed! The 2nd and final reason why I would give that 2nd advice is because learning how to communicate with one another is extremely important! If you don't learn how to communicate with one another, then it will lead to fighting and arguing a lot! Being around people who are toxic is not good for you at all and you don't need that in y'all's lives! Focus on people who will communicate with you and be there for you!

In closing/ Challenge of the day! 

In closing, I don't like when people don't talk to me about something and we aren't fixing the problem within itself! When you don't listen to someone and they are telling you what is going on, they are telling you their concerns and telling you how they are feeling and communicating about their problems but instead, you are ignoring what they are completely saying and you don't care what they are feeling! Communicating about stuff is better than leaving things miscommunicated and not solved! People don't understand that when you leave things miscommunicated, it can get ugly and that's not good at all! Don't leave things miscommunicated because things can get terrible and that won't be good at all! Here is my challenge of the day! My challenge of the day is communicate with people who you usually don't communicate with or communicate with people about your problems! When you know you found the people who will understand what you are going through, they can communicate with you! I love y'all!! 

Well, hello my Blogger Dreamers! It's your girl aka the Blogger Queen herself, Brandee here and y'all just reached the end of today's blog episode for today! I hope and pray that everyone enjoyed today's blog episode! I hope everyone understands that communicating about your problems is very important and that you should never leave nothing bottled inside! Always communicate on what's going on because if you don't communicate with someone, it is not going to be a pretty site! Always communicate with one another! For today's bible verse of the day, it goes something like this: in Psalm 119:24, it says "Your testimonies are my delight: they are my counselors". I absolutely love this bible verse of the day because God's word is testimonies and they can help you through anything that you are going through or every sermon that you go on Sunday's and Wednesday's, it is also a testimony of God's as well! I love y'all and I hope y'all will have a good day or had a good day! Happy  Monday or in other countries, Happy Tuesday! Always remember "Dream Big! Don't give up on your dreams" and I will see y'all on the next blog episode where I will be talking about the word "bravery". I love y'all and this Blogger Queen is out! Peace! ☮✌💛

Today's bible verse of the day! Use God's words to apply it to your everyday life because God's words will help you through every struggle that you are facing!! 

"Miscommunication 
leads to misunderstanding, 
which rarely lead to 
anything good". 
-Charles F. Glassman. I couldn't agree with this quote anymore because when there is a misunderstanding, it can lead into a lot of trouble which is not good at all! Don't cause any misunderstandings!! 

"The quality of your 
life is the quality of 
your communication". 
-Tony Robbins! I love this quote a lot because when in your life, you need to learn how to communicate with the people who care about you! Communication is key! 

"Bad 
Communication
End A Lot 
Of Good Things". 
-Unknown! I love this quote because you can start with bad communication but once you start having that communication, it can end on a good things!! Sometimes, you can start on a bad note but you can end on a good note! 

"People
who can't 
communicate
Think 
everything is 
an argument". 
-Unknown. I love this quote because people think everything has to be an argument but it doesn't have to be! You can talk calmly when it comes to communicating! 

To end today's blog episode, here is this week's song of the week! I love the beat of this song and I think Jungkook did an amazing job on this song!! 

Oh! Before I forget, I am taking a break next week to focus on blog planning and write new poems! I am just letting my Blogger Dreamers know! I love y'all!