Blog: Analyzing my poem "Growing up" by: Brandee Marie Darden! Date of blog: Monday, 4/8/24!

                                        Blog: Analyzing my poem "Growing up" by: Brandee Marie Darden! Date of blog: Monday, 4/8/24! 

Intro to my blog! 

Well, hello my Blogger Dreamers! It's your girl aka the Blogger Queen herself, Brandee here and welcome back to an all new weekly blog episode for today! How are y'all doing today? I hope and pray that everyone is doing okay and well! Whatever it is bothering y'all or whatever it is going on in y'all's life, just know that y'all are never alone and I am always here for y'all, no matter what! Happy Monday or in other countries, happy Tuesday! Before I get into today's blog episode or this week's blog episode, here is a recap of last week's blog episodes! On my 2nd blog page, on Monday, I talked about what am I looking forward to this month? April just started and the 1st thing that I am looking forward to is new blogging episodes! I am so excited to see what kind of blogs will be coming out and I just can't wait for new blogging episodes! On Wednesday, I talked about what are my top 3 favorite moments from this year so far? The one moment that takes the icing on the cake is me meeting my boyfriend for the 1st time! Meeting him was absolutely worth it and I would relive that moment over and over again because that day was special! On Friday, I talked about what would I tell my younger self from when I was little? If I could tell myself when I was a baby, I could tell her "You are going to grow up into this amazing young lady who will inspire others and the people who you come in contact with are going to love you to death! You are also going to have a man who will love you just the way you are". I know that my baby self would be so proud! If y'all haven't read these blogs and would love to check them out, you can check them out at "brandeelovestoblog21.blogspot.com". Please, go check them out whenever y'all can! Please! Thank you all so much! For this week's blog episodes, I will be talking about two of my poems, which are "growing up" and "standing tall" and on Wednesday, I will be talking about 3 things that make me strong! Stay tuned for an all new blog episodes coming y'all's way! Now, without any further ado, let's get this blog episode started! Shall we? We shall! 

Talking about today's blog episode! Why did I choose to talk about today's blog episode? What is this week's song of the week? Why did I choose this song for the week? 

For today's blog episode, I will be analyzing my poem "Growing up" by: Brandee Marie Darden! In this blog episode for today, I will be talking about when I think about growing up, what comes to mind? Why does it come to mind like that? Growing up, what kind of mistakes did I make? Why did I make those types of mistakes? How did I learn from those mistakes? Why did I learn from those mistakes? To my Blogger Dreamers who might be struggling with growing up, what is my advice? Why would I give that advice to my Blogger Dreamers? Why did I choose to talk about today's blog episode? The reason why I choose to talk about today's blog episode is because life is all about growing up! You learn and you make mistakes along the way! We are going to learn somehow and the way we learn is by making mistakes! What is this week's song of the week? For this week's song of the week, I choose "Better Days" by SuperM! When I listen to this song, I think about no matter what kind of a day that I am having, there is a better day coming! There will be a day that it will be great and we don't need to give up! Why did I choose this song for the week? The reason why I choose this week's song of the week is because no matter what kind of a day that you might be having, you are going to have a better day ahead! No matter what God throws at you, don't give up because you are having a bad day! There are better days coming! Just believe in that! 

Talking about my poem! What is the meaning behind my poem? Why is there meaning behind my poem? 

On Saturday, March 9th of this year, I wrote a poem called "Growing up" and here is how it goes: "Growing up" by: Brandee Marie Darden. 
"Growing up, I seen 
people who are mean 
but I learned that people 
can be mean at times! 
Growing up, I learned 
that I might have an 
attitude and I need to
fix it real quick! Growing 
up is all about 
learning and fixing 
mistakes! Don't go 
on the wrong path
in life! Growing up
is all about learning 
and fixing things!
Fix things while you 
can"! 
Love, Brandee Marie Darden! 
Written on Saturday, 
March 9th, 2024! What is the meaning behind my poem? The meaning behind my poem is don't go on the wrong path and make mistakes because once you the mistakes, you need to learn how to fix those mistakes! In life, it's all about learning what you did from right or wrong and learning how to fix the mistakes that you made! Growing up is all about learning and as you grow up, you learn and for me, I have been learning from my rights and wrongs! I know what I have done and I am still learning about life! Why is there meaning behind this poem? The reason why there is meaning behind this poem is because in life, I know what I have done that's right for my life and what's wrong for my life and what I have done wrong in my life, I learned from! Always learn from the mistakes in life!

The words growing up! 

When I think about growing up, what come to mind? When I think about the words growing up, I think making decisions for yourself and making the right decisions for yourself that could lead to the right direction in life or the wrong decisions in life! Growing up is all about learning from right from wrong! When you make decisions for yourself, your parents are no longer making the decisions for you! Once you start make the decisions for yourself, you started to realize that you are growing up and you are learning those mistakes along the way! That's what growing up is all about! You learn and you grow! Everyday, I am growing from each mistake! You grow along the way and you make sure not to make the same mistake over and over again! 

Why?

Why does it come to mind like that? The reason why it came to mind like that is because in life, once you get to a certain age, you realize that you make decisions for yourself but when you make those decisions for yourself, you need to see if they are wrong decisions or right decisions and that's all about growing up! Growing up is about learning and what's right for yourself and your future and you need to see what people are right for your future because the wrong people can determine your mind and you don't need those type of people in your life! You need people along who will make the right decisions in life and is not afraid to tell what you are doing wrong in life because God will take the wrong people out of your life and he will put the right people in your life!

The mistakes that I made! 

Growing up, what kind of mistakes did I make? The 1st mistake that I make growing up is trusting the wrong people! In life, I thought I was trusting the "right" people in my life but I was wrong because they will leave and it made me sad! The 2nd mistake that I make growing up is choosing the wrong friends in my life! I realize that I am choosing the wrong friends for me and I learn that real quick last year when I had to block 3 to 4 people who I thought were my "friends" but I learned really quick which I am so glad that I did! The 3rd and final mistake that I make growing up is accepting what that person was doing to me! When a person has walked out in my life but walks in my back into my life, I thought that was okay but I also learned that it wasn't okay and it was wrong! Watching that person walking in and out of my life was hard to me and I shouldn't be okay with that! Never be okay with someone walking in and out of your life because that is wrong for your mental health! Don't let someone hurt your mental health! 

Why? 

Why did I make those types of mistakes? The 1st reason why I make the 1st mistake is because I thought trusting those people wouldn't hurt me in the long run but man, I was wrong big time! I never want to trust those people ever again after they hurt me! Don't trust people who will hurt you over and over again! The 2nd reason why I make the 2nd mistake is because I thought in my head I was choosing the right friends for myself but as time went on, those people who I thought were my friends were really not my friends and they showed their true colors real quick and one by one, I started to block them which I am so glad that I did! The 3rd and final reason why I make the 3rd mistake is because I thought in my mind, watching those people walking in and out of my life was okay but I realized now that "no, that's not okay and that will never okay" because watching those walk out and walk in your life can hurt your mental health and I know that for me, it did! Never accept people walking in and out for your life because you don't need that in your life! 

How? 

How did I learn from those mistakes? My 1st mistake that I made in life which is trusting the wrong people in life and the way that I learn from that is stop trusting the wrong people and started to trust the right people! There is a lot of people who I don't trust and very select people who I do trust and I am okay with having a few select people who I can trust because I know those people will never hurt me! My 2nd mistake that I made in life which is choosing the wrong friends in my life and the way that I learn from that is when I had this friend who called me and my boyfriend stupid! It is okay to call me stupid because I think your wrong for calling me stupid but when you call my man stupid, then we are playing ball and I am not going to deal with someone calling the person who I love stupid! That's wrong and disrespectful! I learn that person show their true colors really quickly and I had to block them which I am so glad that I did! Never accept someone who will call you and your significant other "stupid" because stupid is not a nice word! My 3rd mistake that I made in life which is accepting what that person was doing to me and the way I learn from that mistake is accepting that people are going to walk in and out of my life and I will let them go! I came to accept that people are going to walk in and out of my life but the ones who are real with me are going to stay with me and I am okay with that! Don't let people walk in and out of your life because if they can't stay in your life, they weren't meant to be in your life! Don't let them beg to be in your life ever again! Don't accept them back in your life!

Why? 

Why did I learn from those mistakes? The 1st reason why I learn from the 1st mistake is because I know that not to trust the wrong people in my life and only trust people who will be there for me through my good times and bad times! The 2nd reason why I learn from the 2nd mistake is because when someone shows you their true colors, you are done with them and you don't need that person in your life! Don't accept that person who is going to be there for you one minute and then, call you and your significant other stupid because calling others stupid is wrong! Be careful with your words! The 3rd and final reason why I learn from the 3rd mistake is because I am not going to beg people to stay in my life and that's what happened! I had people who will walk in and out in my life and accepted that but I also accepted that what they are doing to me was okay but it was not okay! I am not going to tolerate people who are not going to be there for me and not for me the next minute! I will not tolerate that and I am going to move on with my life without people who I don't need in my life and I will be okay with that!

My advice! 

To my Blogger Dreamers who might be struggling with growing up, what is my advice? If you are struggling with growing up, here is my advice: My advice is with growing up, there is decisions that you will be making along the way that might or might not be acceptable and if it is not acceptable, you are going to learn the consequences real quick! People are going to influence you in a positive way or in a negative way! Don't let people influence you in a negative way because you don't need someone who are negative on you in any type of way! Don't let the decisions that you make have a negative impact on you! Make the right decisions for you and what is to come in your life! You have a bright future ahead! Remember that!  

Why?  

Why would I give that advice to my Blogger Dreamers? The reason why I would give that advice to my Blogger Dreamers is because as the adult that I am, I still have negative influence around me but I need to focus on what is good for me and my mental health! Don't let those people influence you in a negative way because if they do, they are going to lead you on the wrong path of life and it going bring you down! Don't go on the wrong path because God has better things for you in your life! You might not know it yet, but God knows and just believe in him!! Believe what God can do for your life! 

In closing/ Tip of the day! 

In closing, growing up is all about making mistakes along the way and you need to fix them before it gets too late! Don't give an attitude to someone who is trying to help you succeed in life! There is people along with way who will help you succeed but you have people who will be negative at times but you don't need to listen to those people because they are going to bring you down and you don't need that when you are on the right path of life! Don't let people influence your decisions in your life! Make the right decisions in your life because once you make the wrong decisions in life, you are going to have consequences based on those wrong decisions! Here is my tip of the day! My tip of the day is make the right decisions based on how you are feeling! Don't make the wrong decisions based on the people around you! That is your decision, no one else's! Do what is best for you and no one else! I love y'all so much! 

Well, hello my Blogger Dreamers! It's your girl aka the Blogger Queen herself, Brandee here and y'all just reached the end of today's blog episode for today! Growing up is all about making the right decisions for yourself and if they are right for your future or not! People don't realize that the decisions that you make for yourself can affect the people around you whether it is in a positive way or negative way! Don't let it affect that person in the negative way because the people who looks up to you, it can lead the to the wrong direction in life and don't let that happen to you! For today's bible verse of the day, it goes like this: In Psalms 19:14, it says "May these words of my mouth and this meditation of my heart be pleasing in your sight, Lord, my Rock and my Redeemer". I love this bible verse a lot because when you want do something for the Lord, you want to please him in a way that you know how to please him! Whatever God puts on your heart, let him lead you because he is your rock and your redeemer! Lean on him for guidance! I love y'all and I pray that everyone will or had a good day! Happy Monday or in other countries, Happy Tuesday! I will see y'all on Wednesday where I will be talking about 3 things that make strong! Stay tuned! I love y'all and this Blogger Queen is out! Peace! ☮✌💚

Today's bible verse of the day! I love this bible verse a lot because God is my Redeemer and my rock and I lean on him when I am trouble! Do what is pleasing to God because he is the only person who can tell you what is pleasing to him and that's it! 


My poem that I did about "growing up" that I wrote on Saturday, March 9th, of this year! This poem means a lot to me and I pray that people can take it to heart because growing up is about learning from your mistakes!! Learn from your mistakes! 


"Sometimes you have to 
grow up before you
appreciate how you 
grew up". 
- Daniel Black. I love this quote a lot because you need to grow up because once you grew up, you will appreciate a lot more and be more thankful for what you have! 


"Seasons change, 
people grow
together and 
apart, life moves 
on. You will be 
okay, embrace it".
- Alexandra Elle. I love this quote a lot because seasons change and people grow up and they move on from each other! Everything will be okay! Just embrace it! 


To end this blog episode, here is this week's song of the week! I chose "Better Days" by SuperM because I know that when I am having a bad day, I know that better days are coming! You are not having a bad life! It just a bad day and better days are coming! 


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