Blog: The importance of self worth! By: Brandee Marie Darden! Date of blog: Friday, 6/7/24! 

Intro to my blog! 

Well, hello my Blogger Dreamers! It's your girl aka the Blogger Queen herself, Brandee here and welcome back to an all new weekly blog episode for today! How are my Blogger Dreamers doing today? I hope and pray that everyone is doing okay and well! Whatever it is bothering y'all or whatever it is dragging y'all down, just know that you are loved by so many people and there are people who love you! Happy Friday or in other countries, Happy Saturday! Before I get into today's blog episode and do a recap of Wednesday's blog, I just want to remind everyone that today's blog episode will be the last blog for two weeks! I will be at GSA or Gospel Singers Of America for two weeks but mark your calendars, I will be coming back on Monday, June 24th! Stay tuned for new blogs towards the end of this month and in July as well! Now, on Wednesday, I talked about Knowing your self worth. Knowing your self worth is very important because if you don't know your self worth, how are other people going to know about your self worth? You are worthy of self love and you don't need to be around people who will tell you that you are not worthy of love because everyone is worthy of self worth! Always remember that! If y'all haven't read that blog and would love to check it out, please go check it out whenever y'all can! Please! Thank you all so much! Now, for today's blog episode, I will be talking about the importance of self worth! In the this blog, I will be talking about what is the importance of self worth? Why is that the importance of self worth? When I think about the times of where I felt unworthy, how does that make me feel? Why does that make me feel a certain way? What is my advice to any of my Blogger Dreamers who think that not worthy but they are? Why would I give that advice to my Blogger Dreamers? Now, without any further ado, let's get our blogging thinking caps on and get this blog episode started! Shall we? We shall!! 

When I think about the word "unworthy", what comes to mind? Why does it come to mind?

When I think about the word "unworthy", what comes to mind? When I think about the word "unworthy", I think about someone who tells other people that they are unworthy of someone loving them or they just feel worthless! No one is never unworthy or worthless! Every of my Blogger Dreamers is worthy of love and everyone deserves to be loved! I don't care if you tell yourself that "I'm worthless"! No one is not worthless! You know who is worthless? People who are worthless is the people who tear others down and say awful things! Those are people who are worthless! Don't be around those people! Why does it come to mind? The reason why it came to mind is because I feel like there are a lot of people who question the worth and that honestly makes me sad because I never want my Blogger Dreamers to ever feel worthless because they aren't! No one is never worthless! Don't y'all ever say that about y'all selves!! I love y'all from the bottom of my heart!

Importance of self worth! 

What is the importance of self worth? I think the importance of self worth is knowing how worthy you are! In my eyes, no one is not worthless! No one will never be worthless! Everyone is amazing in my eyes and don't let anyone tell you differently! Everyone is worthy of love and everyone is worthy! Having that self worth is very important and you should always have that self worth within yourself! Never have people question your self worth! Always feel worthy!

Why?

Why is that the importance of self worth? The reason why that is the importance of self worth is because everyone is worthy of having love within themselves! Everyone deserves to love someone and make them feel worthy of being loved! No one doesn't deserve to not be loved and then, that person leaves them! To my eyes, that is wrong and hurtful! It makes that person question their self worth and never question their self worth because if you do, then you are questioning them if they are "worthy of self worth" and that is sad! Don't let anyone question your self worth because if someone questions your self, they are questioning you if you are worthy or not and that's wrong! Don't listen to people who are questioning your self worth because that is wrong and you should never be questioned! You deserve to have that self worth and you deserve to be loved by someone who will make you feel worthy! Every girl and man deserves that!

My feelings towards me feeling unworthy! 

When I think about the times of where I felt unworthy, how does that make me feel? When I think about where I felt unworthy, it makes me feel sad! I had times where I just felt unworthy because I felt like no one cared about my feelings or no one cared about if they tear me down! I just felt unworthy and it hurt me a lot! I sometimes questioned my worth because sometimes I don't deserve the self worth in myself! I always questioned my self worth because of my past relationships and my past friendships as well which hurts me! I feel like I should never questioned my self worth and feeling unworthy, but I can't help but feel that certain way! I want to fix that! I never want to feel that every again! 

Why?

Why does that make me feel a certain way? The reason why it makes me feel a certain way is because I have questioned myself a lot of times where I am worthy and unworthy and to be honest, that hurts me because in my past relationships and my friendships, I questioned if I was worthy of being that person's friend or that guy's girlfriend but the friendships that I have currently, I don't have to question my worth and the guy who I am with, I don't have to question if I am worthy to his because I know that he loves me and we will have always that special bond, no matter what! I always question my self worth and I will never do that ever again! 

My advice! 

What is my advice to any of my Blogger Dreamers who think that are not worthy but they are? To my Blogger Dreamers who think that they are not worthy but they are, my advice is you are worthy of having someone who loves you a lot! You are worthy to have someone who will support you through thick and thin! You deserve people who is worthy to have in your life! You don't need people who makes you feel unworthy and make you worthless! You don't need people who will tear you down! You don't deserve that at all! Having people who will make you feel worthy is much better than having someone who is always tearing you down and making you feel unworthy! No one should ever have to go through a friendship or relationship where you are questioning your worth or not! Don't let people question your worth! No one deserves that at all!! 

Why?

Why would I give that advice to my Blogger Dreamers? The reason why I would give that advice to my Blogger Dreamers is because you need people in your life who will never question your worth and other people will question your worth while other people will never question your worth! You will have people that your friends with or that your in a relationship with will question your worth! Don't let people question your worth because your worth is your worth and you deserve to be loved and cared for! There people who will question your worth but I will never questioned people's worth because I see how much worth is in people I come in contact with and I don't questioned people's worth because that's wrong! Never question people's worth!

In closing/ Tip of the day!  

In closing, questioning other people's worth is wrong because you are doubting that person and you are tearing them down! Never be around people who will tear you down and questioning your worth because if you are around those people who will tear you down, they are going to continue to question your worth and that's not right for you to go through at all! Find people who doesn't question your worth! Those are the best people to be around! I feel blessed to have a small circle of friends and a boyfriend who don't question my worth! It makes me feel happy to have people who actually cares about me and I feel happy! Here is my tip of the day! My tip of the day is when you question your self worth, you are putting yourself down! Never question your own self worth because you deserve that love from yourself and you deserve to love the person that you are because the person that you are is amazing and never forget that! I love y'all!

Well, hello my Blogger Dreamers! It's your girl aka the Blogger Queen herself, Brandee here and y'all just reached the end of today's blog episode for today! I hope everyone enjoyed today's blog for today! The moral of this blog episode is that you should never questioned your self worth because you are worthy of love and having people who will support is important! Don't feel like you are not worthy to have support or you are not worthy to feel love because everyone deserves to have that worth and you are worthy to have that love! Don't ever question your own worth because you don't deserve that at all! You are loved and I love y'all with every once of my heart! For today's bible verse of the day. in Psalm 16:8, it says "I keep my eyes always on the Lord. With him at my right hand, I will not be shaken". I love this bible verse a lot because with the Lord at your side, he will never leave you and he will walk with you in your life! The Lord will always be there for you, no matter what! He will always care about you and he is there for until the very end! Until next time, "Dream Big! Don't give up on your dreams" and I will see y'all on Monday, June 24th where I will talk about analyzing the song "3:16" by: Anne Wilson, blog by: Brandee Marie Darden, my advice on making new friends, and how would I describe my passion for singing? So, stay tuned for those blogs! I love y'all and pray that everyone will have a good day or had a good day! Happy Friday or in other countries, Happy Saturday! This Blogger Queen is out! Peace! ☮☺✌💛

Today's bible verse of the day! I love this bible verse a lot because always keep your eyes on the Lord because he will always be there for you, no matter what! No matter how hard life can get, he always there for you, no matter what! 

"Until you value yourself, 
you won't value your time.
Until you value your 
time, you will not do
anything with it".
-M. Scott Peck. I couldn't agree with this quote more because if you can't value the time or yourself, how are you going to show how worthy you are? You can't value your time or yourself if you are going to continue to bring yourself down! Quit telling yourself "I'm not worthy" because you are!

"Your value 
doesn't decrease 
based on
someone's
inability to see 
your worth".
-Zig Ziglar. I love this quote so much because you don't need someone to see how worthy you are! If you believe that you are worthy, that's what matters the most!

"Your self-worth 
is determined by 
you. You don't 
have to depend 
on someone to tell
you who you are".
-Beyonce. I love this quote so much because you need to determined your own self worth! Never let people question your own self worth because you don't need their opinion!! Never let someone question your self worth! I love y'all!

To end today's blog episode, here is this week's song of the week! I chose "Take It To The Cross" by Katy Nichole and the reason why I chose that song because when you have a burden that you are dealing with, take it to the cross! Let God handle it and he will help you through it! I hope everyone will have a good weekend and please, take care of yourself! Don't get sick! I will see y'all when I get back! I love y'all!