Blog: When people don't care. blog by: Brandee Marie Darden! Date: Friday, 8/30/24!!

                                        💔😿  Blog: When people don't care. blog by: Brandee Marie Darden! Date of blog: Friday, 8/30/24! Dedicating this blog to the people who struggled with someone not caring about them!! 💔😿 

Intro to my blog!! 

Well, hello my Blogger Dreamers! It's your girl aka the Blogger Queen herself, Brandee here and welcome back to an all new blog episode for today! How are y'all doing today? I hope and pray that everyone is doing okay and well! Whatever y'all are going through or whatever it is dragging y'all down, y'all are loved and y'all have people supporting you! Happy Friday or in other countries, Happy Saturday! Who is ready for an all new blog episode for today? I know that I am but here is a little recap of Wednesday's blog episode! On Wednesday, I talked about my poem "Shine your light on others". You always want to shine your light on others because you want to guide them in the right direction! You want to encourage that person and that, no mater what, they are doing an amazing job! People need to know that they are loved and they should never give up! If y'all want to know more about this blog and would love to check it out, I will leave the blog link right here: →Shine your light on others! Please, go check it out whenever y'all can! Please, thank you all so much!! For today's blog episode, I will be talking about when people don't care. In this blog episode, I will be talking about when I think about people not caring, what goes through my mind? Why dies that go through my mind? When people don't show me how much they don't care about me, how does that make me feel? Why does that make me feel a certain way? What is my advice to my Blogger Dreamers who feel like people don't care about them? Why would I give that advice to my Blogger Dreamers? I am dedicating this blog to the people who struggled with someone not caring about them! Now, without further ado, let's get our blogging thinking caps on and get this blog episode started! Shall we? We shall! 

When people do care, how does that make me feel? Why does that make me feel a certain way? 

When people do care, how does that make me feel? When people show me how much they care about me and how much they want to be there for me, it honestly makes me feel good and it makes me realize how much people do love me! I know that I have people who love you but I also have people who don't love me and that kills me so much to say! I feel like I should never say anything like that but it is the honest truth! It hurts me everyday but I just want to push through and act like it doesn't hurt but deep down, it does hurt! Why does that make me feel a certain way? The reason why it makes me feel a certain way is because God will send you people who do care about you and take the people out of your life who doesn't care about you and honestly, I am okay with not having a lot of friends! I am okay with not having a lot of family who don't care about me! I am okay with how my life is going because God has a plan for me and I am going to trust him with my plan of life!

When I think about people not caring....

When I think about people not caring, what goes through my mind? When I think about people not caring, there is a lot going through my mind at that very moment! When I think about people not caring, I think about how selfish they are! When they don't care, I think about how they put their feelings before others and it is sad to think how they can be selfish and cruel! It breaks my heart that people don't care about others and they rather be selfish than be nice and treat others with kindness! That is so mean!

Why?

Why does that go through my mind? The reason why that went through my mind is because there is a lot of people who are very selfish and I hate that we live in a world today where some people don't care about others and their feelings and it makes me sad! I was always taught to treat with people with respect but if that person isn't given me that same respect, I don't need to respect them at all! I can show my care to others but if you are not showing how much you care about me, then I am not going to care about you anymore! If you are not going to show me that you care about me, I am not going to deal with you being in my life anymore! I need people who are going to be there for me in the end, no matter what! I need people who are going to love me and help me through my hard times, not push me away and leave me in the dust! I don't need that! If you want to be a goner in my life, then so be it because I don't need someone who isn't going to care about me! I am not going to have that in my life anymore!

My feelings towards someone not caring about me! 

When people don't show me how much they don't care about me, how does that make me feel? When people don't show me how much they don't care about me, honestly, it breaks my heart into millions of pieces! No matter how much I put my care into others, a lot of people don't do the same for me and to be honest, it hurts me so much! I have this big heart for others and I would do anything to be there for others, but people don't want to be there for me and it kills me a lot! Having a big heart can hurt a lot because when you care about others so much and they go stabbing it, it hurts so much! It hurts to know that there are people who don't care about me but I'm okay with it!

Why?

Why does that make me feel a certain way? The reason why it makes me feel a certain way is because I feel like no matter what I do for others and how much I do for others, in a way, I feel like I am hurting myself which is incredibly sad! I feel like I shouldn't be hurting myself but in a way, I am and that kills me a lot! I shouldn't be focused on the people who don't care about me but instead, I should focus on the people who do care about me because they know what is in my best interest and they know how to be there for me when I need them the most and I am going to focus on that! God will take care of the people who don't care about me and God will take those people out of my life who don't care about me!

My advice!

What is my advice to my Blogger Dreamers who feel like people don't care about them? To my Blogger Dreamers who feel like people don't care about them, my advice is don't focus on the people who don't care about you! Instead, focus on the people who do care about you because those people are the most important people in your life! God put those people in your life for a reason and God can take those people out in your life! Don't let people not caring about you bother you! You will find people who do care about you! You just have to find the right people who will care about you and who will be there for you, no matter what! Focus on the right people in your life!

Why?

Why would I give that advice to my Blogger Dreamers? The reason why I would give that advice to my Blogger Dreamers is because when you focus on the people who don't care about you, you are going to continue to get hurt and it is going to bring you down, but if you focus on the people who love you and care about you, you are going to realize that you need those people more in your life than the people who don't care about you and always comparing you to others! Don't let anyone compare you to anyone else because you are your own person and God made you just the way you are! God made you the person that you are and God can put the right people in your life but he can put the wrong people in your life and take those people out of your life! Don't let people not caring about you stop you! You are going to find people who will care about you! Focus on that instead!

In closing/ Tip of the day! 

In closing, I have realized over time that I have people who do care about me and the people who don't care about me and to me, it breaks my heart! I shouldn't let that bother me, but in my head, it kind of does bother me because I have been there for people who I have shown my care over the years but yet, I have been betrayed by those people who never cared about me and it honestly hurts so much! I feel like those people don't care about me and they "faked" cared about me just like the "faked" love for me and that hurts so much but that's okay! Karma has its ways and Karma will come to bite those people in the butt! I have realized that I have people in my life who actually care about me and who will do anything to help me through everything and support me through everything! One of those people is my boyfriend! He has been there for me more than anyone that I know and I feel appreciative  towards him and I also feel appreciative towards his family who loves me just the way that I am and showing how much they care about me! To me, it means a lot to me and I feel blessed! Here is my tip of the day: my tip of the day is focus on those people who care about you because those people are important and they are going to love you in the end and be there for you! I love y'all!

Well, hello my Blogger Dreamers! It's your girl aka the Blogger Queen herself, Brandee here and y'all just reached the end of today's blog episode for today! I just want to thank everyone who takes their time out of their time to read my blogs! To me, it means a lot to me and y'all showing love towards my blogs also means a lot to me and I want to thank my Blogger Dreamers for reading my blogs! I pour every ounce of my heart into my blogs and I can't thank y'all enough for everyone who reads my blogs! Thank you! The moral of this blog is you are going to have people who do care about you but you are going to have people don't care about you and that's okay! I know it stings because as I am typing this, I am also going through the people not caring about me in my life and honestly, I am okay with that because they are missing on someone who has been there for them and who has cared about them since the beginning of life and it is sad how people can toss others to side like they are nothing! To me, that is sad!! Focus on people who do care about you! For today's Bible Verse of the day, it is taken from Psalms 145:14 and it says "The Lord upholdeth all and that fall, and raiseth up all those that be bowed down". I love this Bible Verse a lot because the Lord will help you through everything! The Lord will lift you up through the troubles that you might be facing! Let the Lord be there for you, no matter what!! I love y'all and I pray that everyone will have a good day or had a good day! Until next time, always "Dream Big! Don't give up on your dreams" and I will see y'all next week on my 2nd blog page where I will be analyzing the song "Smile on my face" by: EXO, blog by: Brandee Marie Darden, analyzing the word "justice", and celebrating me and my bf's friendship anniversary! Stay tuned for those blogs! I love y'all and this Blogger Queen is out! Peace! ☮✌💜😁

Today's Bible Verse of the day!! I absolutely love this Bible Verse of the day because while you are falling and everyone around you is watching you fall, the Lord is picking you up and helping you through your tough times! Let the Lord help you, no matter what!

"It's during the worst
storms of your life that you
will get to see the true colors 
of the people who say they
care for you".
-Unknown. This quote hits home so much because I had people tell me that "I will always be there for you" or "I will never leave you" or "I will never stop caring about you", but they have showed me time and time again and to me, it kills me that they leave me in pain and I am always picking up the pieces they left me!! It hurts!

"Sometimes having 
a big heart sucks, because
you expect everyone to 
care as much as you and 
they don't".
-Unknown. I can relate to this quote so much because I have this big heart and for me, when I have this big heart, I expect to love like I do or care like I do, but man was I wrong because they are letting their ego get in the way and that hurts me so much!! 

"Sometimes you
have to give up on people.
Not because you don't care,
but because they don't".
-Unknown. I couldn't agree with this quote more because you have to give up on people who don't care about you! Even though you don't want to, but you need to because those people are not good for you and you need to focus on people who do care about you!!

To end today's blog episode, here is this week's song of the week! For this week's song of the week, I chose "Respect" by BTS, Suga and RM! I chose this song is because we need to learn how to respect others! Respect is earn, not given! I understand what Min Yoongi did was wrong which is driving drunk but I will never lose respect for him because I love him as an artist and I will remain loving BTS and Min Yoongi as well! I love y'all and have a good weekend! 💙💙💙

Blog: Analyzing my poem "Shine your light on others", by: Brandee Marie Darden! Date of blog: Wednesday, 8/28/24!!

                                       🌟 Blog: Analyzing my poem "Shine your light on others", by: Brandee Marie Darden! Date of blog: Wednesday, 8/28/24!! Dedicating this blog to all the Blogger Dreamers who want to shine their light on others!! 🌠 

Intro to my blog! 

Well, hello my Blogger Dreamers! It's your girl aka the Blogger Queen herself, Brandee here and welcome back to all new weekly blog episode for today where I talk about anything from my poems or anything personal that comes to mind! How are y'all doing today? I hope and pray that everyone is doing okay and well! Whatever you are going through or whatever it is bringing y'all down, you are never alone and I am always here for y'all, no matter what! Happy Wednesday or in other countries, Happy Thursday!! Who is ready for an all new blog episode for today? I know that I am but here is a recap of Monday's blog episode! On Monday, I talked about my poem "The person that you are". I dedicated this blog to people who were struggling to be themselves! Never be afraid to be yourself because the person that you were meant to be is the best person that you can be! You are an amazing person and you are loved by so many people including myself! Don't be afraid to be who you are! If y'all haven't read this blog episode and would love to check it out, I will leave the link right here: →The person that you are. Please, go check it out whenever y'all can! Please! Thank you all so much! For today's blog episode, I will be analyzing my poem "Shine your light on others", by: Brandee Marie Darden! This blog is dedicated to all the Blogger Dreamers who want to shine their light on others! In this blog episode, I will be talking about when I think about shining your light on someone, what comes to mind? Why does it come to mind like that? What are 3 ways to shine light on someone? Why are those ways to shine light on someone? What advice would I give to someone who wants to brighten someone's life? Why would I give that advice to my Blogger Dreamers? Now, let's get our blogging thinking caps on and get this blog episode started! Shall we? We shall! 

Talking about my poem! What is the meaning of my poem? Why is there meaning behind my poem? 

On Friday, June 14th of this year, I wrote a poem called "Shine your light on others" by: Brandee Marie Darden and here is how it goes: "Shine your light on others" by: Brandee Marie Darden! 

"Shine your

light on others

because when you

shine your light

on others, you 

are showing them

that you can

brighten their

day and no 

matter what

they are facing

shine your light 

on others 

because your light

can brighten someone's 

day"! 

Written on: Friday, 

6-14-24! What is the meaning of my poem? The meaning of this poem is always shine your light on someone! Someone might be going through a tough time but you being there for them and you give them advice, it can shine a light in someone's life!! Someone can be on the brink of giving up but you stopping to pray for that person can shine a light on that person because there is someone who actually cares about them which means a lot to that person! Shine your light on someone who might need light into their life! Why is there meaning behind my poem? The reason why there is meaning behind my poem is because we need more people to shine light wherever they go! We need people who will help others without being an issue! We need people who will stop and pray for others around them because we need people like that! 

Shining your light on someone! 

When I think about shining your light on someone, what comes to mind? When I think about shining your light on someone, I think about leading and guiding someone out of the darkness! People can be in a darkness and sometimes, they need people to lead them out of that darkness! Sometimes, they are people can lead other people in darkness as well! We should never lead each other into darkness but instead, we should lead each other into light and brighten each other's life!! 

Why?

Why does it come to mind like that? The reason why it came to mind is because we need to lead others into the light, but there are people who can be a negative nelly or a debbie downer that they don't care about being a positive influence on someone else's life! They rather make that person's life dark than not have light at all! Sometimes, they only care about their feelings and that's it! I might be going through a bad day, but I am still going to shine in people's life when they might need light into their life! I am going to push how I feel aside and be there for people who need it! I feel people don't realize that when you bring others down, it hurting them and that's not good at all! Let's put light into people's life!! 

3 ways to shine light on someone! 

What are 3 ways to shine light on someone? The 1st way to shine light on someone is encouraging someone! When you encourage someone, you are shining light on their life and that's a good thing! The 2nd way to shine light on someone is just by being there for that person! When someone is having a bad day and they are on the brink of giving up, they want to quit but you came and be there for them! You are shining your light on that person and you are helping them by being there for them! The 3rd and final way to shine light on someone is making others happy! We all need people who will make us happy! When you meet someone who makes you happy, they are making you laugh and light is shining through your life! Everyone deserves to be happy and if that person is not shining that light of happiness in your life, you don't need them and I pray that you find someone who can make you happy!

Why?

Why are those ways to shine light on someone? The 1st reason why encouraging someone is the 1st way to shine light on someone is because we need someone who will encourage us! We need someone who can tell us that we are doing an amazing job or you need to do better! We need someone who will put the light in us to do better! The 2nd reason why just by being there for that person is the 2nd way to shine light on someone is because we need someone to be there for us through our hard days and to help us to get through those hard days! We people who will be lighting the way for us! The 3rd and final reason why making others happy is the 3rd and final way to shine light on someone is because when we find someone who truly makes us happy, the light shine through us and our smile has a shine to it and we need to find people who will make the light shine through and I pray that my Blogger Dreamers can find someone who make them shine! Everyone deserves to have someone who brings brightness into their life!! 

My advice! 

What advice would I give to someone who wants to brighten someone's life? To my Blogger Dreamers who want to brighten someone's life, here is my advice: my advice is leave what you are going through and show people that whatever they are going through, you can push through it! Shine your light on what you have been through and turn that into a life lesson and help others with that life lesson because once you turn your life into a lesson, you can take that lesson and tell it to people! Your life can shine light to others who can relate to it!! God has a purpose for your life! Use that purpose!! 

Why?

Why would I give that advice to my Blogger Dreamers? The reason why I would give that advice to my Blogger Dreamers is because God has a purpose for your life! If God wants to use your life, then he will use you to shine light on others! When people are going through a tough time, you want to encourage them and you want to help them through that hard time! You don't want to watch them be discouraged or be brought down! You don't want to be that person who dulls their light because if you are a person who dulls someone's light, you are a debbie downer and we don't need those type of people in our lives! That's not fair for that person! We need people who will brighten their day and make them happy, not a debbie downer! I know people who are like that and they are a negative influence and we don't need to be around those people! Let's find people who are a positive influence in your life! 

In closing/ Tip of the day!! 

In closing, we need to be around people are a positive influence and who will bring light into our life! We have people who brings light into our life but we also have people who will bring dullness or darkness into our life and honestly, we don't need those people who will bring you down in life! When someone brings you down, they are making you feel like you are not good enough and you are good enough! Don't listen to those people who are negative influence in your life and who make you lose your light! Find people who will bring brightness in your life! There are people who needs brightness in their life and be that person who brings that sunshine into a person's life! Here is my tip of the day! My tip of the day is forget the people who brings you down and dulls your light! Instead of focusing on that, focus on bringing light into someone's life because there are people who needs that light into their life and if you can be that for that person, be the light to that person because you don't know what that person is going through and you shining your light can make their day! I love y'all so much!

Well, hello my Blogger Dreamers! It's your girl aka the Blogger Queen herself, Brandee here and y'all just reached the end of today's blog episode for today! I pray that y'all enjoyed today's blog and I pray that y'all understand the meaning behind my poem and the moral of this blog! The moral of this blog is be a light to someone who needs that bright light in their life! We need people who are bright and we don't have that today! There are people who complains and tends to bring others down and that's not right for others to do! We need people who will bring the sunshine in your life and we need people who will understand you and for me, I am incredibly blessed to have people who are very understanding and who brings light into my life! We need more people like that! For today's Bible Verse of the day, it is taken from Matthew 5:6 and it says "Blessed are they which do hunger and thirst after righteousness: For they shall be filled". I absolutely love this Bible Verse a lot because when once got saved, you are hungry and thirsty for the righteousness and once you have God's word into you, you are filled with God's wisdom! God's word will do that to you and you can share God's wisdom with anyone you come in contact with! I pray that everyone will have a good day or had a good day! Happy Wednesday or in other countries, Happy Thursday! Always remember "Dream big! Don't give up on your dreams" and I will see y'all on Friday where I will be talking about when people don't care. Stay tuned! I love y'all and this Blogger Queen is out! Peace! ☮ ✌❤☺

Today's Bible Verse of the day! I absolutely love this Bible Verse a lot because once you are saved, you want that righteousness and the way you are going to get that righteousness is by reading God's word! God's word is fill with wisdom and it can guide you on the right path!!

My poem that I did about "Shine your light on others". I actually wrote this poem while I was GSA and when I writing this poem, I was thinking about how I might of shine in people's life and I am praying that I still am shining my light on someone's light because I want people to know how much I care about them and how much I love them!

"You may think your light is 
small, but it can make a big,
difference in other people's lives. 
Let your light shine".
-Unknown. I couldn't agree with this quote because your light can make a big difference no matter how big your light is! Your light can make a big difference in someone's life! You just don't know it until that person comes to you and says "You made a difference in my life". 

"Keep Shining 
Beautiful One
...
The World
Needs Your
Light".
-Unknown. I absolutely love this quote so much because we need to keep shining because this world or someone in this world might need your light! Show your light to the world! 

I love y'all so much and shine your light to the world and have a brightness of a day!! Stay safe and don't give up! Let God lead you on the right path! I love y'all! Happy Wednesday or in other countries, Happy Thursday!! ❤❤❤

Blog: Analyzing my poem "The person that you are" by: Brandee Marie Darden! Date: Monday, 8/26/24!

                                           Blog: Analyzing my poem "The person that you are" by: Brandee Marie Darden! Date: Monday, 8/26/24! This blog is dedicated to the ones who are struggling to be themselves! 

Intro to my blog!! 

Well, hello my Blogger Dreamers! It's your girl aka the Blogger Queen herself, Brandee here and welcome back to an all new weekly blog episode where on this blog page, I talk about anything whether it is about songs that I absolutely love or my poems or whatever come to mind! After giving myself a break for a week, I officially came back and I am so thrilled to be back where my heart belongs! I missed y'all so much! How are y'all doing today? I hope and pray that everyone is doing okay and well! If y'all are going through a tough time and need someone to talk to, just know that I am always here for y'all and I will never stop loving y'all because I care! I am here for y'all in the long run! Happy Monday or in other countries, Happy Tuesday! Before I went on my break, on my makeup and fashion blog page, on Monday, I talked about my top 3 favorite colors that me and my bf matched! The one color that sticks out in my head that I loved matching with my man is pink! When I think about that color, I think about how good it looks on him but also on me! To me, I love when he wears the color pink! On Wednesday, I talked about my top 3 favorite outfits by Jin since he came home! The one outfit that sticks out in my head is the all white and jacket ensembled with a rose gold shirt and black shoes! To me, it was giving me the Great Gatsby vibes which I absolutely love and if you haven't seen that movie, highly recommend it! I think that outfit looks phenomenal and I think he looks great! On Friday, I talked about my top 3 favorite outfits by my boyfriend! To me, when I see him wear the color pink or blue, to me- he looks amazing in those colors and to me, I just love when he wears pink but blue is definitely his color! He looks awesome in blue and he is just so handsome! If y'all haven't read these blogs and would love to check it out my blogs, I will leave my link in my blog right here: →Makeup and fashion blog page! Please, go give them a read! Please! Thank you all so much! Now, for this week's blogs, I will be talking about analyzing my two poems: "The person that you are and "Shine your light on others" and I will also be talking about when people don't care. Now, without further notice, let's get our blogging thinking caps on and get this blog episode started! Shall we? We shall! 

Talking about today's blog episode! Why did I choose to talk about today's blog episode? What is this week's song of the week? Why did I chose this week's song of the week?

For today's blog episode, I will be analyzing my poem "The person that you are" by: Brandee Marie Darden! In this blog episode, I will be talking about when I think about the title of my poem, what comes to mind? Why does it come to mind like that? How would I describe myself? Why would I describe myself like that? What kind of person was I suppose to be? Why am I suppose to be that kind of person? What are my encouraging words to anyone who is struggling to be the person who they want to be? Why would I give those encouraging words to my Blogger Dreamers? I am dedicating this blog to the ones who are struggling to be themselves! This is for y'all! Why did I choose to talk about today's blog episode? The reason why I choose to talk about this blog episode is because I think it is very important to be yourself and be the true authentic person that you are suppose to be! The person that you are was made by God! God made us in his own image and we need to be proud of who we are! What is this week's song of the week? For this week's song of the week, I chose "Respect" by: BTS! I feel like we don't respect a lot of people and we need to start respecting people! Respect is earned, not given and we need to earn respect! Why did I choose this week's song of the week? I chose this song because I feel like people have this mindset where it is right to disrespect people instead of respecting them and I think that's absolutely wrong! Let's respect others!

Talking about my poem! What is the meaning behind this poem? Why is there meaning behind this poem? 

On Wednesday, June 12th of this year, I wrote this poem called "The person that you are" and I wrote this poem when I was going to Gospel Singers of America or GSA for short and here is how my poem goes: "The person that you are" by: Brandee Marie Darden! 

"The person that

you are is going 

to do amazing 

things in the future. 

The person that 

you are is going to 

reach for the stars! 

The person that you

are is going to be

loved by so many 

people! People are going 

to love you and care 

about you! Find the

people who will accept 

you! Be the person 

that you are and

don't be afraid to 

be who you are"!

- Love, Brandee Marie

Darden!

Date of my poem: Wednesday,

6/12/24! What is the meaning behind this poem? The meaning behind this poem is the person that you were destined to be is going to do amazing things! The person that you are supposed to be is going to reach for the stars! The person that you are is going to find people who love and care about you! In today's world, there might be not a lot of people who don't care about you or love you, but trust me on this! God will put you in your life who will love you and care about you more than anything in this world! You just need to find the right people! Why is there meaning behind this poem? The reason why there is meaning behind this poem is because for years, I have struggled to be who I was meant to be! I struggled to find people who cared and loved me for who I was but I came to terms for who I am and who I will become in the future! God made me the person that I am today and I am proud of the person that I am today! I came along way and I am proud of myself! 

When I think about the title of my poem...

When I think about the title of my poem, what comes to mind? When I think about the title of my poem, I think about just being who you are! God made you the way you are and you have big dreams that you are reaching for! You are the person that you were meant to be and you should be proud of who you are! The person that you are is wonderful and you have people rooting for you! Don't be scared to be the person that you were meant to be!! 

Why?

Why does it come to mind like that? The reason it came to mind like that is because God would want you to be the person that you were meant to be! God would want you not to be afraid to be who you are! You are going to be chasing big dreams or even small dreams! You are going to do amazing things and you might not know it, you have people rooting for you and those people love you so much! Those people are so proud of you and they are going to continue to be proud of you, no matter what! Don't give up trying and keep pushing through!

Describe myself! 

How would I describe myself? The way that I can describe myself as a strong woman who has God on her side and who loves coffee! I am a woman who doesn't give up no matter how hard life might get or how life can be overwhelming at times! I am that type of a woman who helps others before herself! If I have big dreams, I go for it and don't stop until I feel happy! I keep trying in life! There is no point in giving up or even quitting! I have God on my side, no matter what! I love who I am because God made me the person that I am today! I am who I am because of God!

Why?

Why would I describe myself like that? The reason why I would describe myself like that is because no matter what God has thrown at me, I have God on my side! I absolutely love coffee! If it was up to me, I would drink it with every meal! Yes, call me weird but I love making my coffee having that desert taste which I love! I am that person who will put others before herself! I am not selfish and I would never be selfish because I care about others despite others not caring about me! There are times where I felt overwhelmed and I wanted to give up, but God told me "keep pushing through" which I did! I have been through every obstacle that you can think of but am I a quitter? My answer is no, because my dad didn't raised me like that and I will lean on God to help me get through days where they are hard!

The kind of person that I was suppose to be?

What kind of person was I suppose to be? The person that I was suppose to be is the person that God wanted me to be! God wanted me to be this kind person but he also wanted me to be a strong woman who chases her dreams, not people! I had people break me down time after time after time but did it stop me? No! God wanted me to push through and God wanted me to be the strong and independent woman who loves God and who is going to change the world one day whether it will be with actions or changes someone's life! If God wants me to be the person that I am suppose to be, I am going to be that person! I will gladly be that person! I am not going to be afraid to be that person either! I am not afraid to be this bright and bubbly person who loves coffee and God! I will gladly be the person that I am suppose to be!! 

Why?

Why am I suppose to be that kind of person? The reason why I was suppose to be the person that God wanted me to be is because he wouldn't want me to anyone else! God wouldn't want me the next top model or the next softball player for some college team but he would wanted me to be a strong and independent woman who loves to read her Bible and who loves with all her heart and soul! God would want me to be proud of the person that I am today! I know that I have family who is proud of me and I know that friends who care about me! I know that I will never give up or quit because that's not who I am and no matter hard my existence can be, I keep pushing through and I am proud of myself for how much pain I have endured! I have endured so much but did I quit? No, because I had people help me push through and I am proud of myself!

My encouraging words! 

What are my encouraging words to anyone who is struggling to be the person who they want to be? To my Blogger Dreamers who is struggling to be the person who they want to be, my encouraging words are don't be afraid to be the person that you are! People are going to be really mean but you are amazing and wonderfully made! God would want you to encourage others and help people who are going through the same struggles as you are! Let you help others! God will use you in a powerful and mighty way! God has his ways of using you! Let him use you!

Why?

Why would I give those encouraging words to my Blogger Dreamers? The reason why I would give those encouraging words to my Blogger Dreamers is because you might think you are not inspiring others with your life but trust me! You are and God sees it! I didn't know that I was inspiring others but I guess I am and if I am inspiring any of my Blogger Dreamers, I just want to say I am blessed that I can inspire y'all! I pray that I can continue to inspire others and share my stories with y'all! God will use you in anyway and he sees you struggles but trust me, you are going to get through it and you are made in his image! Don't be afraid to be the person that you are suppose to be because you are wonderful! For the longest time, I was scared to be who I was suppose to be but I am not anymore because God made me the person that I am and I am so glad that I am not afraid to be who I am anymore!!

In closing/ Tip of the day/ Questions of the day?

In closing, I have realized that over the years, I was afraid to be the person that God wanted me to be who I am but after I realized that I shouldn't be frightened anymore, I went to be who I am and I am proud to be who I am because I have faced every obstacle and jumped over every hurdle that I can think of off of my head and I wouldn't have done it without God! God has your back because through my obstacles in life, God helped me!! Here is my tip and questions of the day?! My tip of the day is don't scare to be who you are because God made you the person that you are! Don't let that person stop you to be the person you are suppose to be! You are awesome and you are loved by so many people! My questions of the day is how would you describe yourself? Why would you describe yourself like that? Sound off in the comments down below and let me know! I would love and respond to y'all's comments! Please! Thank you all so much! I love y'all!

Well, hello my Blogger Dreamers!! It's your girl aka the Blogger Queen herself, Brandee here to remind everyone that y'all just reached the end of today's blog episode for today! I pray that y'all enjoyed today's blog episode or I pray that you get the message that I was trying to cross! What a great way to come back strong and powerful! I was afraid to be myself for the longest time but I realized that I shouldn't be scared or even frightened and I am not afraid anymore! I am a powerful woman who has God on her side and no matter who or what overwhelms her, she is going to push through, no matter what! I am not going to give up and I know that I am loved! For today's Bible verse of the day, it is taken from Jeremiah 29:13 and it says "You will seek me And find me when you seek me with all your heart". I absolutely love this Bible verse a lot because when you believe in God with all your heart, you will seek to find him through struggles! You don't have to look no further because if you believe in God with all your heart, you know that he is with you! I love y'all and pray that y'all will have a good day or had a good day! Happy Monday or in other countries, Happy Tuesday! Until next time, "Dream Big! Don't give up on your dreams" and I will see y'all on Wednesday where I will talk about my other poem "Shine your light on others". Stay tuned and I love y'all! This Blogger Queen is out! Peace! ☮✌💜😀

Today's Bible verse of the day! I absolutely love this Bible verse of the day so much because if you believe in God within all your heart, you shouldn't have to find him much further and he will always be there for you, no matter what! 

My poem that I did about "The person that you are" on Wednesday, June 12th, 2024! I actually wrote this during my time at Gospel Singers of America or GSA! While I was GSA, I realized that I shouldn't be afraid to be who I am but instead, I started to be who I am more and more and I am proud of who I am! 

"Be Proud Of Who You 
Are, Not Ashamed Of
How Someone Else
Sees You".
-Unknown. I absolutely love this quote so much because you should be proud of who you are, not ashamed that you are! You are made by God and God didn't make a mistake in making you! Be proud of who you are, not ashamed! 

"Stop 
apologizing 
For Who
you are".
-Unknown. I couldn't agree with this quote more because you shouldn't have to apologize to yourself for who you are!! You are amazing and you are loved by so many! Don't forget that!! 

To end today's blog episode, here is this week's song of the week! I chose "Respect" by: BTS, Suga and RM! I chose this song by these two wonderful artists because we need to learn how to respect others with the decisions that they made or we need to respect the person that they are! I feel like there is more disrespect going on then respect and I pray that changes, one day! I love y'all and have a good day!! ❤❤❤

 

                                       Blog: Analyzing my poem "Finding someone who makes you happy" by: Brandee Marie Darden! Date: Friday, 8/2/24!  

Intro to my blog!

Hello, my Blogger Dreamers! It's your girl aka the Blogger Queen herself, Brandee here and welcome back to an all new blog episode for today! How are y'all doing today? I hope and pray that everyone is doing okay and well! Whatever the circumstances might be or whatever it is bringing y'all down, y'all are never alone and I'm always here for y'all, no matter what! Happy Friday or in other countries, Happy Saturday! Who is ready for an all new blog episode for today? I know I am but here is a recap from Wednesday's blog episode! On Wednesday, I analyzed my poem "When people don't understand". There is a lot of people who might not understand you and that's okay because you do you and you don't give up! There are people who do understand and that's great to have people who understand and for me, I feel blessed to have people who do understand me but I also wish there was people who would understand me! If y'all haven't read my blog from Wednesday and would love to check it out, I will leave the link right here: →When people don't understand. Please, go check it out whenever y'all can! Please! Thank you all so much! Now, for today's blog episode, I will be analyzing my poem "Finding someone who makes you happy" by: Brandee Marie Darden In this blog, I will be talking about when I think about finding someone who makes you happy, what comes to mind? Why does it come to mind? What is the importance of finding someone who makes you happy? Why is that the importance of finding someone who makes you happy? When I feel sad, who makes me happy? Why does that person make me happy the most? Without any further distractions or disruptions, let's get our blogging thinking caps on and get this blog episode started! Shall we? We shall! 

Talking about my poem! What is my poem all about? Why did I write my poem all about?

On Tuesday, April 2nd of this year, I wrote a poem called "Finding someone who makes you happy" and it goes something like this: "Finding someone who makes you happy" by: Brandee Marie Darden! 

"Finding someone who

makes you happy

is worth waiting 

for! Finding someone 

who will make you 

laugh is worth it 

because once you 

find that person, 

never let them go! 

I'm so blessed to 

find my person! 

Find someone who

will make you 

happy because your 

happiness is worth it! 

Find someone who 

will make you happy"! 

Love,

Brandee Marie Darden! 

Written on: Tuesday, 4/2/24! What is my poem all about? This poem is all about finding someone who makes you happy! Having that person who makes you happy is a blessing and I feel blessed to have a good man who truly makes me happy when I am sad! I am so blessed to have a good guy in my life who cares about me and makes sure to make me happy!! Why did I write my poem all about? The reason why I write my poem about finding someone who makes you happy is because it worth to have someone who makes you happy! It is worth finding someone who will make you happy because your happiness is worth it and find someone who makes you happy!

What?

When I think about finding someone who makes you happy, what comes to mind? When I think about about finding someone who makes you happy, the 1st thing that comes to mind is your happiness! Your happiness should come 1st and you should find someone who makes you happy, even through your hardest times! No matter what you are going through, always find someone who makes you happy! The 2nd thing that goes through my mind when finding someone who makes you happy is how much they care about you! If someone makes you happy, it shows them how much they care about you! It is hard to find someone who cares about you and still wants you to be happy! That person cares about your happiness! That's what matters the most! The 3rd and final thing that comes to mind when I think about finding someone who makes you happy is making you laugh! If a person makes you happy, they also want to make you laugh as well! Life shouldn't be serious all the time! When a person wants to see you happy, they also want to see you laugh and that is the most important thing!

Why?

Why does it come to mind like that? The 1st reason why it came to mind is because you want someone who makes you happy but also, who is there for you through your hardest times! If that person makes you happy and they care about you, they are the person that God sent! The 2nd reason why it came to mind is because it is hard to find someone who cares these days! When someone doesn't show you they don't care, it hurts but when someone who wants nothing but happiness for you, that person cares and that person loves you a lot! That person wants you to know how much they will always care about you, no matter what! The 3rd and final reason why it came to mind is because life shouldn't have to be serious all the time! When you are talking to a person and that person makes you laugh, they want you to make you laugh all the time and laughter is the best medicine in the world! Find someone who make you happy but also show you they are there for you through your hardest times, shows how much they care, and how much they can make you laugh! Your happiness matters!!

The importance! 

What is the importance of finding someone who makes you happy? I think the importance of finding someone who makes you happy is keeping that person who can make you happy! When you find someone who makes you happy, you want to keep that person forever! Having someone who can make you happy despite what you have been through or whatever you are going through is the most important thing in the world! When that person have seen you sad, depressed, and laughing so hard, that is the person who is going to stick by your side forever and that is the most important thing to have a person who will be there for you! That's important!

Why?

Why is that the importance of finding someone who makes you happy? I think the reason why that is the importance of finding someone who makes you happy is because God would want you to be happy! God would want you to have someone who makes you happy! It doesn't have to be a person! You can find happiness within yourself! You don't have to depend on a person to make you happy! There can be something that you did for yourself that made you happy and that is important! I have people in my life who can make me happy, but in order to make them happy, I have to be happy within myself and that is very important! When God wants you to be happy, he wants you to happy and cheerful!! He wants you to have joy within yourself and he wants you to spread cheerfulness wherever you go!! 

Sad/ happy?

When I feel sad, who makes me happy? There are a lot of people who can make me happy but the main person that I feel like who make me happy is my man aka my boyfriend! Despite the people who are in my life, no one can make me happy like my boyfriend! He has seen me through my ups and downs! It is hard to find someone who will respect me and be like "go have your me time". Most guys wouldn't want you have your "me time" but with my man, he will said "take all the time that you need" and I love that about him! There are times where I just feel sad, but when I do feel sad, I tend to look at our pictures and just think about the next time when we meet! When we meet again, I know that it will be a joyful day and a great day!! I can't wait to see him again!

Why?

Why does that person make me happy the most? I think the reason why my boyfriend makes me happy the most is because God knew who I needed in a person and for me, I feel like me and my boyfriend have a special bond and we pretty much tell each other everything! God knew what I have been through in my past relationships and I feel like God did a good job by sending me someone who will respect me and help me through life, despite what I have been through! It is hard to find someone who cares about you and wants to see you happy! I know there is a lot of people who want to see me happy but in my heart, God can make me happy and my boyfriend can make me happy! God knew I was searching for someone who I have been missing and I finally got the person who I needed in my life and I am so blessed to have a good person in my life like him!

In closing/ Encouragement of the day! 

In closing, finding someone who makes you happy, not only that is very important but it is also to know that if that person is willing to make you happy, you also need to make that person happy as well! For me to know that I can make my man happy is special to me! I always tried to make people happy and put a smile on each person's face that I have come contact with but I feel like to me, it is special to make your significant other happy and I am so blessed that I can make my man happy! That is my goal as a girlfriend is to make my man happy and I love when he is happy! Having people in your life who make you happy but also you can them happy is the best thing in the world! Here is my encouragement of the day! My encouragement of the day is wherever you go, spread cheer! Wherever you go, spread happiness because that person might need it and you helping spreading happiness, it can help the next person! Help a person who doesn't have someone to make them happy! I love y'all!

Well, hello my Blogger Dreamers! It's your girl aka the Blogger Queen herself, Brandee here and y'all just reached the end of today's blog episode for today! The moral of the blog is if God sent you someone who makes you happy, keep that person or people because those are the most important person or people in your life and for me, I know there are people out there who do make me happy but for me, the 1st person that came to mind is my boyfriend who I have been with a year and 9 months as of yesterday! I know I have people who do understand me and I know have people who love me but I have a boyfriend who is understanding and who loves me just the way I am which I am very blessed beyond measures! Finding someone who will be there for you through the tough times and good times, it is important and I feel blessed! For today's bible verses of the day, it comes from Psalm 135:1-2 and it says [1] "Praise Ye The Lord. Praise Ye The Name Of The Lord; Praise Him, O Ye Servants Of The Lord. [2] Ye That Stand In The House Of The Lord, In The Courts Of The House Of Our God". I absolutely love these bible verses a lot because when you praise the Lord's name, it doesn't have to be at church! It can also be in your car or when you pray! You can worship the Lord's name when you are singing worship songs! Wherever you go, worship the Lord!! Sing the songs to the sky! I love y'all from the bottom of my heart and happy Friday or in other countries, Happy Saturday! Stay tuned where I will be talking about analyzing the song "Make It Right" by: BTS, blog by: Brandee Marie Darden, the word "care", and what 3 things that make my man different? Stay tuned on my 2nd blog page! I love y'all and always remember "Dream big! Don't give up on your dreams" and I will see y'all on the next blog episode! This Blogger Queen is out! Peace! ☮✌💜☺

Today's bible verse of the day! No matter where you go, always praise the Lord whether it be through worship songs or scriptures or even at church! Worship the Lord wherever you go!

My poem that I wrote about "Finding someone who makes me happy". For me, I struggled finding someone who can make me happy and I struggled with making myself happy and I am so blessed that I can make myself happy because I also have a man who also makes me happy! Be patient with God! He will send you someone who will make you happy but until then, make yourself happy 1st!

"With the right person, 
you don't have to work
so hard to be happy.
It just happens".
-Unknown! I love this quote so much because when God sends you the right person, you don't have to work hard to be happy! It automatically happens! When you are with the right person, you feel giggly and happy! When you are with the wrong person, you are sad and depressed! Don't be with wrong person!

"The trick is that as
long as you know who you
are and what makes you 
happy it doesn't matter how 
others see you".
-Unknown! I love this so much because when you are with someone who makes you, it doesn't matter what others think about you! As long as you are happy and that person is happy, that's all that matters the most! Your happiness and that person's happiness matters the most!

To end today's blog episode, here is this week's song of the week! I chose "Love Like This" by: Lauren Daigle! When I listen to this song, I think to myself "Do I deserve God's love"? Sometimes, we don't deserve God's love but he loves us for who we are and he will never leave us like others left us!! Always love God 1st!