Blog: When people don't care. blog by: Brandee Marie Darden! Date: Friday, 8/30/24!!
💔😿 Blog: When people don't care. blog by: Brandee Marie Darden! Date of blog: Friday, 8/30/24! Dedicating this blog to the people who struggled with someone not caring about them!! 💔😿 
Intro to my blog!!
Well, hello my Blogger Dreamers! It's your girl aka the Blogger Queen herself, Brandee here and welcome back to an all new blog episode for today! How are y'all doing today? I hope and pray that everyone is doing okay and well! Whatever y'all are going through or whatever it is dragging y'all down, y'all are loved and y'all have people supporting you! Happy Friday or in other countries, Happy Saturday! Who is ready for an all new blog episode for today? I know that I am but here is a little recap of Wednesday's blog episode! On Wednesday, I talked about my poem "Shine your light on others". You always want to shine your light on others because you want to guide them in the right direction! You want to encourage that person and that, no mater what, they are doing an amazing job! People need to know that they are loved and they should never give up! If y'all want to know more about this blog and would love to check it out, I will leave the blog link right here: →Shine your light on others! Please, go check it out whenever y'all can! Please, thank you all so much!! For today's blog episode, I will be talking about when people don't care. In this blog episode, I will be talking about when I think about people not caring, what goes through my mind? Why dies that go through my mind? When people don't show me how much they don't care about me, how does that make me feel? Why does that make me feel a certain way? What is my advice to my Blogger Dreamers who feel like people don't care about them? Why would I give that advice to my Blogger Dreamers? I am dedicating this blog to the people who struggled with someone not caring about them! Now, without further ado, let's get our blogging thinking caps on and get this blog episode started! Shall we? We shall!
When people do care, how does that make me feel? Why does that make me feel a certain way?
When people do care, how does that make me feel? When people show me how much they care about me and how much they want to be there for me, it honestly makes me feel good and it makes me realize how much people do love me! I know that I have people who love you but I also have people who don't love me and that kills me so much to say! I feel like I should never say anything like that but it is the honest truth! It hurts me everyday but I just want to push through and act like it doesn't hurt but deep down, it does hurt! Why does that make me feel a certain way? The reason why it makes me feel a certain way is because God will send you people who do care about you and take the people out of your life who doesn't care about you and honestly, I am okay with not having a lot of friends! I am okay with not having a lot of family who don't care about me! I am okay with how my life is going because God has a plan for me and I am going to trust him with my plan of life!
When I think about people not caring....
When I think about people not caring, what goes through my mind? When I think about people not caring, there is a lot going through my mind at that very moment! When I think about people not caring, I think about how selfish they are! When they don't care, I think about how they put their feelings before others and it is sad to think how they can be selfish and cruel! It breaks my heart that people don't care about others and they rather be selfish than be nice and treat others with kindness! That is so mean!
Why?
Why does that go through my mind? The reason why that went through my mind is because there is a lot of people who are very selfish and I hate that we live in a world today where some people don't care about others and their feelings and it makes me sad! I was always taught to treat with people with respect but if that person isn't given me that same respect, I don't need to respect them at all! I can show my care to others but if you are not showing how much you care about me, then I am not going to care about you anymore! If you are not going to show me that you care about me, I am not going to deal with you being in my life anymore! I need people who are going to be there for me in the end, no matter what! I need people who are going to love me and help me through my hard times, not push me away and leave me in the dust! I don't need that! If you want to be a goner in my life, then so be it because I don't need someone who isn't going to care about me! I am not going to have that in my life anymore!
My feelings towards someone not caring about me!
When people don't show me how much they don't care about me, how does that make me feel? When people don't show me how much they don't care about me, honestly, it breaks my heart into millions of pieces! No matter how much I put my care into others, a lot of people don't do the same for me and to be honest, it hurts me so much! I have this big heart for others and I would do anything to be there for others, but people don't want to be there for me and it kills me a lot! Having a big heart can hurt a lot because when you care about others so much and they go stabbing it, it hurts so much! It hurts to know that there are people who don't care about me but I'm okay with it!
Why?
Why does that make me feel a certain way? The reason why it makes me feel a certain way is because I feel like no matter what I do for others and how much I do for others, in a way, I feel like I am hurting myself which is incredibly sad! I feel like I shouldn't be hurting myself but in a way, I am and that kills me a lot! I shouldn't be focused on the people who don't care about me but instead, I should focus on the people who do care about me because they know what is in my best interest and they know how to be there for me when I need them the most and I am going to focus on that! God will take care of the people who don't care about me and God will take those people out of my life who don't care about me!
My advice!
What is my advice to my Blogger Dreamers who feel like people don't care about them? To my Blogger Dreamers who feel like people don't care about them, my advice is don't focus on the people who don't care about you! Instead, focus on the people who do care about you because those people are the most important people in your life! God put those people in your life for a reason and God can take those people out in your life! Don't let people not caring about you bother you! You will find people who do care about you! You just have to find the right people who will care about you and who will be there for you, no matter what! Focus on the right people in your life!
Why?
Why would I give that advice to my Blogger Dreamers? The reason why I would give that advice to my Blogger Dreamers is because when you focus on the people who don't care about you, you are going to continue to get hurt and it is going to bring you down, but if you focus on the people who love you and care about you, you are going to realize that you need those people more in your life than the people who don't care about you and always comparing you to others! Don't let anyone compare you to anyone else because you are your own person and God made you just the way you are! God made you the person that you are and God can put the right people in your life but he can put the wrong people in your life and take those people out of your life! Don't let people not caring about you stop you! You are going to find people who will care about you! Focus on that instead!
In closing/ Tip of the day!
In closing, I have realized over time that I have people who do care about me and the people who don't care about me and to me, it breaks my heart! I shouldn't let that bother me, but in my head, it kind of does bother me because I have been there for people who I have shown my care over the years but yet, I have been betrayed by those people who never cared about me and it honestly hurts so much! I feel like those people don't care about me and they "faked" cared about me just like the "faked" love for me and that hurts so much but that's okay! Karma has its ways and Karma will come to bite those people in the butt! I have realized that I have people in my life who actually care about me and who will do anything to help me through everything and support me through everything! One of those people is my boyfriend! He has been there for me more than anyone that I know and I feel appreciative towards him and I also feel appreciative towards his family who loves me just the way that I am and showing how much they care about me! To me, it means a lot to me and I feel blessed! Here is my tip of the day: my tip of the day is focus on those people who care about you because those people are important and they are going to love you in the end and be there for you! I love y'all!
Well, hello my Blogger Dreamers! It's your girl aka the Blogger Queen herself, Brandee here and y'all just reached the end of today's blog episode for today! I just want to thank everyone who takes their time out of their time to read my blogs! To me, it means a lot to me and y'all showing love towards my blogs also means a lot to me and I want to thank my Blogger Dreamers for reading my blogs! I pour every ounce of my heart into my blogs and I can't thank y'all enough for everyone who reads my blogs! Thank you! The moral of this blog is you are going to have people who do care about you but you are going to have people don't care about you and that's okay! I know it stings because as I am typing this, I am also going through the people not caring about me in my life and honestly, I am okay with that because they are missing on someone who has been there for them and who has cared about them since the beginning of life and it is sad how people can toss others to side like they are nothing! To me, that is sad!! Focus on people who do care about you! For today's Bible Verse of the day, it is taken from Psalms 145:14 and it says "The Lord upholdeth all and that fall, and raiseth up all those that be bowed down". I love this Bible Verse a lot because the Lord will help you through everything! The Lord will lift you up through the troubles that you might be facing! Let the Lord be there for you, no matter what!! I love y'all and I pray that everyone will have a good day or had a good day! Until next time, always "Dream Big! Don't give up on your dreams" and I will see y'all next week on my 2nd blog page where I will be analyzing the song "Smile on my face" by: EXO, blog by: Brandee Marie Darden, analyzing the word "justice", and celebrating me and my bf's friendship anniversary! Stay tuned for those blogs! I love y'all and this Blogger Queen is out! Peace! ☮✌💜😁
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Today's Bible Verse of the day!! I absolutely love this Bible Verse of the day because while you are falling and everyone around you is watching you fall, the Lord is picking you up and helping you through your tough times! Let the Lord help you, no matter what! storms of your life that you will get to see the true colors of the people who say they care for you". -Unknown. This quote hits home so much because I had people tell me that "I will always be there for you" or "I will never leave you" or "I will never stop caring about you", but they have showed me time and time again and to me, it kills me that they leave me in pain and I am always picking up the pieces they left me!! It hurts!  a big heart sucks, because you expect everyone to care as much as you and they don't". -Unknown. I can relate to this quote so much because I have this big heart and for me, when I have this big heart, I expect to love like I do or care like I do, but man was I wrong because they are letting their ego get in the way and that hurts me so much!!  have to give up on people. Not because you don't care, but because they don't". -Unknown. I couldn't agree with this quote more because you have to give up on people who don't care about you! Even though you don't want to, but you need to because those people are not good for you and you need to focus on people who do care about you!! To end today's blog episode, here is this week's song of the week! For this week's song of the week, I chose "Respect" by BTS, Suga and RM! I chose this song is because we need to learn how to respect others! Respect is earn, not given! I understand what Min Yoongi did was wrong which is driving drunk but I will never lose respect for him because I love him as an artist and I will remain loving BTS and Min Yoongi as well! I love y'all and have a good weekend! 💙💙💙 |
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