Blog: My advice to my 4-5 year old self! blog by: Brandee Marie Darden! Date: Friday, 10.18.24! Blog Friday!!

                                      🌸  Blog: My advice to my 4-5 year old self! Blog by: Brandee Marie Darden! Friday, 10.18.24! 🌷This blog is dedicated to anyone who wants to give their 4 or 5 year old self advice!! 

Intro to my blog episode! 

Well, hello my wonderful Blogger Dreamers! It's your girl aka the Blogger Queen herself, Brandee here and welcome back to an all new weekly blog episode for today where I talk about whatever it comes to mind! How are y'all doing today? I hope and pray that everyone is doing okay and well! Whatever it is bothering y'all or dragging y'all down, y'all are never alone and I am always here for y'all, no matter what! Happy Friday or in other countries, Happy Saturday! Who is ready for an all new blog episode for today? I know that I am but 1st, let's do a little recap of Wednesday's blog episode! On Wednesday, I talked about describing my life! If I could describe my life, one of the words I would describe my life as loving! I am surrounded by people who love me for who I am and it is important to surround yourself with people who love you and support you because if you don't have that love around you, it is going to tear you down and hurt you! Be around people who love you!! If y'all haven't read this blog episode and would love to check it out, link right here: →Describing my life! Please, go give this blog episode a read! It is a mighty good one! I love y'all! Now, for today's blog episode, I will be talking about my advice to my 4-5 year old self! Blog by: Brandee Marie Darden! This blog is dedicated to anyone who wants to give their 4 or 5 year old self advice! In this blog episode, I will be talking about if I could give myself advice at 4-5 year old self, what advice would I give to my 4-5 year old self? Why would I give that advice to my 4-5 year old self? What two life lessons could of gave my 4-5 year old self? Why would I give my 4-5 year old self life lessons? Now, without any further disruptions, let's get this blog episode started! Shall we? We shall! 

What was I like when I was 4 and 5 years old? Why was I like that at that age? 

What was I like when I was 4 and 5 years old? At those ages, I was a shy little kid who wanted her dad all the time and when my dad would drop me off at school, I would start crying! I started crying because I didn't want him to leave!! Me and my dad is really close and he will always be my best friend! I love my dad with all my heart! I was just a shy little kid! In reality, I am still shy as an adult! I am not afraid to admit it!  I will always be shy until you can get me out of my shell! Why was I like that at that age? The reason why I was like that at that age is because I was just a little shy and I would hide behind my dad when I was around people and to this day, I still a shy and quite person until I get to know you! I will always be a shy person, no matter what!! 

My advice to my 4-5 year old self! 

If I could give myself advice at 4-5 year old self, what advice would I give to my 4-5 year old self? The advice that I would give my 4-5 self is "people are going to love you for who you are". Ever since I could remember, I always had this loving personality that everyone loved and I know that everyone will always love me! I am not afraid to be who I am! I will be shy at 1st but once you get to know me, I am a open book who is ready to be read!! I always had this personality where I knew everyone would love me and I never knew everyone could love me as much as I loved them! I think growing up, I always had a loving personality and I will always love people with all of my heart which I am okay with that because I have a big heart!! 

Why? 

Why would I give that advice to my 4-5 year old self? The reason why I would give my 4-5 year old self that advice is because ever since I could remember, I was afraid that people wouldn't love me for who I am or I was afraid people wouldn't love me because I was too quite but they didn't care about that! They cared about my loving personality that I have and I am okay to have that loving personality to this day!! I will always love with all my heart and show people how much I love them because I wouldn't want people to feel alone and sad!! No one shouldn't have to feel alone and hurt!! I will always love with all my heart and I am okay with that!! 

Life lessons that I would give my 4-5 year old self! 

What two life lessons could of gave my 4-5 year old self? The 1st life lesson could of gave my 4-5 year old self is people will come in and out of your life!! Ever since I could remember, I have always watched people walked in and out of my life! I didn't know why they were doing it but to think of it now as an adult, it kind of hurts! I wish I didn't watch people walk in and out of my life!! The 2nd and final life lesson could of gave my 4-5 year old self is the right guy will come swooping in your life!! I had the wrong guys come into my life but I didn't know that I would have the right guy come swooping into my life until 2020 but didn't started dating until November 1st, 2022!! It is hard to find the right guy in your life who will care about you and love you for who you are but I am very blessed to be dating the right guy in my life who cares about my well being and is there for me, no matter what! I feel very blessed to have a good man in my life and my 4-5 year old self would be so happy!! She would be jumping up and down!! 

Why?

Why would I give my 4-5 year old self life lessons? The reason why I would give my 4-5 year old the 1st life lesson is because throughout my entire life, I had to watch people walk in and out of my life which in honesty, it hurt me but now looking back, I can't help but think to myself "Maybe, God didn't want them in my life at a young age" which don't get me wrong, it kind of hurts but I wish I didn't have to go through that and watching people walk out of my life at a young age! That kind of hurts if you think about it! The 2nd and final reason why I would give my 4-5 year old the 2nd and final life lesson is because, throughout my life, I would not feel as blessed to be with the right guy and I was at a point where I wanted to give up on love until my boyfriend now came into my life! I didn't know how happy I would be until I met the love of my life and to think we are about to hit our 2 year anniversary very soon is a blessing within itself and I couldn't be anymore blessed than I already am! I love the man that I am with so much and I know that my 4-5 year old self would love him to!! I know she is happy!!

In closing/ Tip of the day!! 

In closing of this blog, I remember being a 4 or 5 year old watching people walking in and out of my life which is hard for me but looking back, I was getting prepared for what it would be like when I am adult!! Watching people walking in and out of my life is hard for me because I was asked myself "what did I do"? Sometimes, I wonder what did I do for people to walk out of my life like that and I will answer in my head, "absolutely nothing. You didn't do anything to those people who walked out on you". I remember my dating life and how I would attract the wrong guys and I wanted to give up on dating for a while because I got cheated on twice and I didn't want to date anymore but the man that I am with convinced me other wise! I love the man that I am with!! Throughout my life, I always had this loving personality where I wouldn't be afraid to be who I am anymore! I knew people would love me but I didn't know how much they would love me until they got to know me and I am happy that people could love me for who I am!! Here is my tip of the day! My tip of the day is do something that your 4 or 5 year old self would be so proud of you doing! Do something that you love doing! I know that my 4 or 5 year old self is proud of the adult that I have become! I know she is seeing this me happy!! I love y'all! 

Hello, my Blogger Dreamers!  It's your Blogger Queen herself, Brandee here to remind everyone that y'all just reached the end of today's blog episode for today! If I could hug my 4 or 5 year old self, I would! I wish I could hug her and say "the right people will stay in your life and you will find the right guy who is going to love you for who you are" and I know that my 4 or 5 year old self is proud of the young lady that I am becoming! I have endured a lot of pain in my life but I grew from it and I am proud of myself to be at where I am today!! I feel like I have grown a lot and I am looking forward to see where the future holds!! For today's quote of the day, it goes something like this: "The only reason people take you for granted is because they assume you'll always be there. Prove them wrong". -Unknown. I couldn't agree with this quote more is because people only take you for granted is because they assume you will be there for them, no matter what! They assume they think "oh! They will always be here for me, no matter what" but when you need someone, no one is there for you!! Prove those people wrong that you are not going to be there for them when it not convenient! Prove those people wrong who are using you because you don't need those people in your life! I love y'all and I pray that everyone will have a good day or had a good day! Always remember "Dream Big! Don't give up on your dreams" and I will see y'all on my makeup and fashion blog page where I will be talking about my top 3 favorite dresses that I have worn, my top 3 favorite skirt and blouse combo, and my advice to anyone who want to get into makeup! Stay tuned for those blogs but until next time, stay safe and let's remind people how good Jesus and God is! I love y'all and this Blogger Queen is out! Peace! ☮✌❤😁

Today's quote of the day! I couldn't agree with this quote more is because people think it is convenient for you to be there for them all the time but in reality, you can't drop what you are doing to be there for them if they can't be there for you! It works both ways! If I am there for you, please be there me as well because I want someone to help me through my tough times in life!! 

"Surround Yourself With
People Who Love You, 
Motivate You, Encourage 
You, And Make You Feel 
Good About Yourself". 
-Unknown. I love this a lot because you want to surround yourself with positive energy and who will encourage you and want to make you feel good about yourself!! You want to be around people who will love you just the way you are!! 

"Sometimes People Come 
Into Your Life For A 
Moment, A Day, Or A 
LifeTime. It Matters Not The 
Time They Spent With You
But How They Impacted 
Your Life In That Time". 
-Unknown. I love this so much because people will come into your life for a little while or they will be there for you for a day, but that's okay because there will be people who will leave an impact on you and that's important!!

"Sometimes the love of 
your life comes after
the mistake of your 
life". 
-Unknown. I love this quote so much because I didn't know that I would meet someone who would mean a lot to me until we started talking and now, I don't want to lose him because he makes me the happiest!! God blessed me with a good man in my life!! I love the man that I am with!!

To end today's blog episode for the day, here is this week's song of the week! For this week song of the week, I chose "Shot Glass Of Tears" by Jungkook from BTS! I chose this song for the week is because we go through pain in our life and all we want to do is cry but that's okay because God will help us through everything and we need to trust him!! I love y'all and have a good weekend!! 💜💜💜

Blog: Describing my life! By: Brandee Marie Darden! Date of blog: 10. 16. 24!! Blog Wednesday!

                                        🌻 Blog: Describing my life! By: Brandee Marie Darden! Date of blog: 10.16.24. Blog Wednesday! This blog is for anyone who really doesn't know my life and wants to get to know about my life!! 🌸 

Intro to my blog!!! 

Well, hello my Blogger Dreamers! It's your girl aka the Blogger Queen herself, Brandee here and welcome back to an all new weekly blog episode where I talking about anything that comes to my mind whatever it might be whether it is about my poems or even songs that hold dear to my heart!! Happy Blog Wednesday or in other countries, Happy Thursday!! How are y'all doing today? I hope and pray that everyone is doing okay and well! Whatever the circumstances might be or whatever y'all are going through, I pray that y'all know that I am always here for y'all, no matter what! Y'all are loved and I love y'all so much!! Who is ready for an all new blog episode for today? I know that I am but here is a recap from Monday's blog episode! On Monday, I analyzed my poem "Stop and Breathe". When I think about the title of this poem, I think about we need to stop and breathe because life can get too busy and hectic that we don't realize we don't have time to slow down what we are doing and take a breather because we are always busy! Take a breather and breathe! If y'all haven't read this blog episode and would love to check it out, I will leave the link right here: →Stop and breathe! Please, go check it out whenever y'all can! Please! Thank you all so much! For today's blog episode, I would be talking about describing my life! By: Brandee Marie Darden! This blog is for anyone who really doesn't know my life and wants to get to know about my life!! In this blog episode, I will be talking about if I could describe my life in 3 words, what would those words be? Why would I describe my life like that? Out of those 3 words, which one describes my life the most? Why would I pick that word to describe my life the most? What is the significance behind the word? Why is it the significance behind the word? Now, without further ado, let's get this blog episode started and share good vibes with my Blogger Dreamers! Shall we? We shall! 

What do I love about my life? Why do I love that about my life? 

What do I love about my life? What I love about my life is I get to get up each morning and read God's word  and then, do my blogs and tiktoks to spread good vibes for the people who are struggling!! I also love having coffee in the mornings as well!! I love starting my morning just by reading God's word! There is so much to read and unfold that you don't know where to start first! What I also love about my life is I have loving people who might be in my life for a really long time or not so long time! When I am around my loving my boyfriend, I feel loved! He shows me what love feels like which I love so much!! I love my life and I don't like complaining about what I don't have! I am happy what I have in my life!! My life is not perfect by all means but I am blessed for what I have and I am happy to get up each morning and do what I love doing! It brings me happiness and I love that so much!! Why do I love about my life? The reason why I love that about my life is because God has blessed me with so much in my life! He has blessed with a gift of inspiring others and loving others just the way they are! I am so blessed to have an awesome boyfriend who loves me just the way I am who also his family loves me to death as well!! God has blessed me with so much and I couldn't feel more blessed than I already am!! I feel blessed to get up each morning and reading God's word and fill my heart with goodness of God!! My life is such a blessing and people in my life are a blessing as well! 

3 words that describe my life! 

If I could describe my life in 3 words, what would those words be? If I could describe my life in 3 words, the 1st word would be joy! I have some joyful times in my life! When I am talking about to my boyfriend, it brings me a lot of joy!! When I am around people who are positive, it brings me joy! The 2nd word that I can describe my life is busy! I have moments where I am very busy but I always make time with people who make time for me! If you make time for me, then I will make time for you! It works both ways!! The 3rd and final word that I could describe my life would be loving! I am surrounded by people who love and care about me everyday and it feels nice to know that I am surrounded by people who love and care about me! I know that God and Jesus love and care about me a lot! When I think those people who love and care about me, I think about the people who support me on the daily basis and to know that I have those people, it surly means a lot to me!! I love each person who loves and cares about me so much!! 

Why?

Why would I describe my life like that? The 1st reason why I would describe my life as joy is because when I have a phone call or even a facetime date with the love of my life, I feel joy or joyful because I get to facetime him 3 times a week and I love every minute of it! When I am around people who bring me positive vibes in my life, they bring me joy!! To me, I have joy in my life because God wanted me to have joy in my life!! The 2nd reason why I would describe my life as busy is because there will be days where I am busy!! For example, Sundays are my busiest day of the week because on Sundays, I go and worship our Lord and Savior! Before I go to church, I get up and read my Bible at 5 and then, take me a nap and then, get up at 7 and make my bed and do my tiktok and then, post it and make me a cup of coffee and at 8:12, post my Bible Verse of the day or Quote of the day, depending what week it is and then, at 9:00, get ready for church and then, I am at church for Sunday school and Worship service! I come home and have my lunch and work on my Sunday sermon and then at 2, I will post my blog post along with my song of the week! Then, I will get ready for worship service again and head off to church and stay after church for choir practice and come home, write down our Sunday sermon and post it! Sundays are my busiest days but it is totally worth it because I am in the house of my Lord and I love praising his name! I also love sharing my Sunday sermons with the people that I love! The 3rd and final reason why I would describe my life as loving is because I am surrounded by people who love and care about me so much! You don't meet a lot people who aren't loving and supportive and I am very blessed to have a lot of people who are like that! God gave me the right people who are like that in my life! For example, ever since I met my boyfriend, he has been loving towards me and I never felt so appreciative than I do when it comes to my boyfriend and not only just my boyfriend, but also his family!! They are so kind and so loving! They love so much and I love them as well! I feel loved by them so much!!

Describes my life the most?  

Out of those 3 words, which one describes my life the most? If I could pick the word that describes my life the most, I would have to say loving! When I go to church, I am surrounded by people who love me to death! I have an amazing dad and bonus who love me so much and would do anything for me!! I have a loving boyfriend who loves me along with his family!! I feel so loved and I never felt as loved as I do now!! I never met people who care about me as much as my church family or even my boyfriend's family!! I feel so much love and care by those people in my life!! I love being around people who care and love me!! It is rare to find people who are caring and loving towards you! Sometimes, people are self-centered and they only care about themselves but the right people will come into your life and they will support and love you through thick and thin!! I feel blessed to wake up everyday with the right people in my life!! 

Why?

Why would I pick that word to describe my life the most? The reason why I would pick loving as describing my life the most is because I am surrounded by people who love and care about me so much! I have a loving boyfriend! I have his family who is loving! I have the most wonderful Blogger Dreamers who have been supporting me through thick and thin! It is hard to find people who will support you through a lot and I feel appreciative when it comes to people who take the time to read my blogs and enjoy them! I feel blessed to feel loved by the presence of God!! God's love is everlasting and I feel blessed to be loved by God because God's love will go on! When you have no one to love you back, you have God to love you and that's the biggest blessing that you can get!! I love being around people who love as much as I do!! I feel blessed! 

The significance! 

What is the significance behind the word? The significance behind the word "loving" as it describes my life is on Sundays, when I go to church, I feel loved immediately! I hug people who love me and support me through everything! I feel so much in my church that I never thought I would find people who would love me and support me as much as my church family does! Every time I do a new blog episode or even a tiktok video, my boyfriend would tell me "good luck on your blog or tiktok video", I never felt so much in my life! His family gives me the same love like he does which I appreciate so much! It is hard to come by so much love these days! Sometimes, people want to complain and not love one another but when I am around who don't complain and not love one another, I feel loved and I love that!!

Why?

Why is it the significance behind that word? The reason why there is significance behind the word "loving" is because God wants us to be around people who are loving and for me, when I around people who are loving and caring, I feel that same love that I replicate to others as well and I never felt that before! When I give love to people, I pray that I get it back and I do and it makes me feel appreciative about that!! I have an loving boyfriend who loves me along with his family and my family!! It is very rare to find people who will love you through thick and thin but I have people who do and I love them so much! When I love, I put so much love into someone or everyone that I come in contact with and I love showing my love because everyone deserves love and I pray that the people who I come in contact with feels that same love that I give them! Share love, not hate!

In closing/ Questions of the day? 

In closing, I have moments where I feel joyful and I love having those moments because it makes me blessed for what I have in my life! When I see people having a smile on their face, it brings me joy to my life! My goal in life is to see people with a smile on their life and if I make anyone smile, please let me know! I would love to know! I might have days where I am so busy and tired, but I will never be too busy for the people who I absolutely love! When you make time for those people who love you, just know that they care about you and you are a priority to them!! When people get too busy for you and they don't care about you, you are not a priority to them! Find people who isn't too busy for you!! I love showing love to anyone who needs the love that they absolute deserve because when tell someone that you love them and you show that love, it means a lot to them! When I love, I love and I mean it as well!! Here is my questions of the day: my questions of the day is if y'all could describe y'all's life in 3 words, what would those words be? Why would you describe your life in those words? Sound off in the comments down below and let me know!! I would love to read and respond to those comments! Please! Thank you all so much! I love y'all! 

Well, hello my Blogger Dreamers! I just wanted to let y'all know that y'all just reached the end of today's blog episode for today! I pray that y'all caught a glimpse of my life and got to know why I am the way I am!! I am always going to show people love even though they might hurt me, but I am going to show people who need love!! I am not going to be too busy for anyone who needs someone who needs someone!!! I am going to be joyful when I deserve to be joyful!!! There is no point of me being sad because God wants me to be joyful because I have a lot to be joyful for!! I am going to show joy to people who need joy in their life! Everyone deserves to joy in their life! Show people that having joy in your life is good!! Spread joy wherever you go!! For today's quote of the day, it goes something like this: "Making A Big Life Change Is Pretty Scary. But You Know What's Even Scarier? Regret? -Toby Mac! I couldn't agree with this quote more because when you make life changes in your life, you have to be careful what kind of life choices you need to make and you don't want to regret things you don't to regret because once you make those choices, you are stuck with those choices and there is no going back! I love y'all so much and I pray that everyone will have a good Wednesday or in other countries, a good Thursday! Always remember "Dream Big! Don't give up on your dreams" and I will see y'all on the next blog where I will be giving my 4-5 year old advice! Stay tuned! I love y'all! This Blogger Queen is out! Peace! ☮✌❤☺

Today's quote of the day! I absolutely love this quote so much because once you make those life choices in your life, you are going to take responsibility for those changes and if you don't do those changes, you are going to regret it for the rest of your life! Be careful what you do in life!! 

"When you do things from 
your soul, you feel a river
moving in you, a joy".
-Rumi. I love this quote so much because when you do something that brings so much joy in your life, you continue to do it and show people that you love something, continue to do it!! 

"Busy is a choice.
Stress is a choice.
Joy is a choice.
Choose well". 
-Anne Voskamp. I love this quote so much because you can being busy is your choice or being stress or having joy in your life is a choice, but you need to make that choice for yourself and you need to make the right choice for yourself!! 

"God Always Allows Us To Feel 
The Frailty Of Human Love So We'll 
Appreciate The Strength Of His". 
-C.S. Lewis. I couldn't agree with this quote more because God never wants us to feel less loved and he wants to have this love from one another! Always share the love around you!! 

I love y'all from the bottom of my heart and I pray that everyone will stay safe and have a wonderful day!! Please, stay safe!! I love y'all!! ❤❤❤

Blog: Analyzing my poem "Stop and Breathe" by: Brandee Marie Darden!! Date of blog: Monday, 10.14.24. Happy Blog Monday!

                                         Blog: Analyzing my poem "Stop and Breathe" by: Brandee Marie Darden!!! Date of blog: Monday, 10.14.24. Happy Blog Monday! This blog is dedicated to anyone who needs a reminder to stop and breathe because life is too overwhelming at times and we need to stop and breathe for a moment! 💙💙💙 

Intro to my blog!! 

Well, hello my Blogger Dreamers! It's your girl aka the Blogger Queen herself, Brandee here and welcome back to an all new weekly blog episode for today! How are my wonderful Blogger Dreamers doing today? I hope and pray that everyone is doing okay and well! Whatever y'all might be going through or whoever is dragging y'all down or if someone isn't making you feel loved, just know that you are loved and I love and care about y'all more than anything and I want my Blogger Dreamers to know how much I care about y'all! I love y'all! Happy Blog Monday or in other countries, Happy Tuesday! Who is ready for an all new blog episode for today? I know that I am but 1st, blog recap! On my 2nd blog page- on Monday, I talked about the song "How'm I Doing" by: Eric Nam, blog by: Brandee Marie Darden which was last week's song of the week! When I think about this song, I think the days I go through whether it be good or bad and with those bad days, I know that God will carry me through and he will carry you through as well! On Wednesday, I talked about my happy color! If anyone knows me, I love the color pink! I chose pink as my happy color because when I think about the color pink, I get joyful and happy! My room is pink which I absolutely love! On Friday, I talked about what are 3 things do I regret? One of the things that I regret is trusting the wrong people! Throughout my entire life, I have trusted the wrong people and they hurt me over and over and over again and I need to stop letting people hurt me! If y'all haven't read these blogs and would love to check them out, I will leave the link right here: →2nd blog page! Please, go check them out whenever y'all can! Please! Thank you all so much! I love y'all! On this weeks blog episodes, I will be analyzing my poem "Stop and Breathe" by: Brandee Marie Darden, describing my life in 3 words, and my advice to my 4-5 year old self!! Stay tuned for those blogs and without further ado, let's get our thinking caps on and get this blog episode started! Shall we? We shall! 

Talking about today's blog episode! Why did I choose to talk about today's blog episode for today? What is this week's song of the week? Why did I choose this song of the week? 

For today's blog episode of today, I will be analyzing my poem "Stop and Breathe" by: Brandee Marie Darden. This blog episode is dedicated to anyone who needs a reminder to stop and breathe because life is too overwhelming at times and we need to stop and breathe for a moment! In this blog episode, I will be talking about when I think about the title of my poem, what comes to mind? Why does it come to mind like that? What is the moral of this poem? Why is that the moral of my poem? What is the significance of this poem? Why is it so significant? Why did I choose to talk about today's blog episode for today? I choose to talk about today's blog episode for today because we need to take a moment, stop and breathe! I feel like we are constantly moving or on the go and we don't take a moment to thank God for our daily life! We need to be thankful for what we have because it can be taking away in a spilt second!! What is this week's song of the week? For this week's song of the week, I chose "Shot Glass of Tears" by: Jungkook! When I think about this song, I think about the times where I questioned myself "am I going to feel again"? or "am I going to heal again" and my answer is yes! It is okay to cry and it is okay to go through what you are going through! When you cry, you are letting your tears out and that's okay!! Why did I choose this song of the week? I choose this song for the week because whatever you are going through, you are going to heal! Let your tears flow and just cry!! 

Talking about my poem! What is this poem all about? Why did I write this poem all about? 

On Thursday, September 12th of this year, I wrote a poem called "Stop and Breathe" and here is how it goes: "Stop and Breathe" by: Brandee Marie Darden! 

"Stop and breathe 

because life needs 

to slow down.

Stop and breathe 

because you need 

to rest! Stop and 

breathe because

you are doing

so much for 

everyone around

you! Stop and

breathe because 

you need to do 

stuff for you! 

Focus on yourself

and focus on 

what's ahead"! 

Love, 

Brandee Marie

Darden! 

Written on: Thursday, 9-12-24! What is this poem all about? This poem is all about stopping and breathing for a moment! We need to slow down and focus on what's ahead! We tend to focus on what's going on around us and we tend to get busy and focusing on that! We need to stop and breathe for a moment! We tend to focus on others when we should focus on ourselves from time to time and let God guide us! Why did I write this poem all about? The reason why I wrote this poem all about is because we need to step back and focus on ourselves for a little while instead of focusing on people who don't care about us! We need to stop being so busy and focus on the good!! 

The title of the poem! 

When I think about the title of my poem, what comes to mind? When I think about the title of my poem, what comes to mind is we need to stop and breathe to focus on the good! We are so busy in our lives that we don't have time to focus on what's going on around us! We tend to focus on what's keeping us busy a lot of the times and we need to focus on what's not keeping us busy!! We need to focus on things that makes us happy!! Find things that keeps you interested and find hobbies that you enjoy doing!! Don't let the little things keep you busy from not doing the things that you love doing!! 

Why?

Why does it come to mind like that? The reason why it came to mind like that because we tend to focus on our jobs or even our families that we don't get to enjoy the little things in our life!! We don't get to enjoy being around kids without being exhausted! We don't get to enjoy the little things while having work on our minds!! We are so caught up in the moment within our jobs that we don't have time to stop and breathe! We need to focus on what we love and do whatever makes us happy, not focus on our jobs or even whatever it is bothering us and focus on what is going on in our lives because your kids need you and they need your support! They need you in helping them in with their homework!! They need love from you!! Give them that they deserve!! We need to stop and breathe!!

Moral of this poem? 

The moral of this poem is we need to stop and breathe for a moment!! We don't realize that we get too busy or caught up in what we are doing! We don't realize that we get too busy in our life that we can't enjoy the things that we love doing! We tend to focus on our job or whatever it is troubling us! The children can see what is bothering their parent and they can see when they have going on in their life! They can if the parent is busy for them or not! I remember when I had one of my parents not working, I had my parent busy working or that other parent didn't want to spend time with me! I had one parent spending time with me or doing fun things with me! My dad always made sure that he would spend time with me and made sure that we got to do whatever I wanted to do!! My dad was the fun parent!! I feel like we don't have to time to breathe because we get caught up in our jobs slash careers that we don't get to reach out to love ones in our lives! Tomorrow is never promised and we need to spend time with the people who we love!! 

Why?

Why is that the moral of my poem? The reason why that is the moral of my poem is because we never have the time to call people that we love or text the people that we love! The parents are too busy with their jobs that they don't have time to help the children with their homework! Life can get the best of us that we don't know how to handle it at times!! Life can busy at times that we are so drained and so tired that we don't want to talk to others at times! We need to focus on what we have in our lives because it can be taking away at times!! We need to pivot our attention to what is important in our lives and give that thing or people our attention! For me, I try to focus on the people who care about me more than give my attention to the people who don't care about me at all! Let's give our attention what's important to us!! 

The significance! 

What is the significance of this poem? The significance of my poem is we tend to not put a lot of attention on us but instead, we put a lot more of attention on what it is important which is like jobs or people who don't care about us and to me, sometimes when we give our job attention, people are around us might think you might be too busy for them which is never the case but sometimes, we get too wrapped in that we put more focus on that our job than the people around us! We get so tired too the point that we just want to go to bed and do it all over again and that shouldn't be the case!! I feel like people tend to focus on what's important than focusing on other things that it could bring them joy!! Sometimes, we don't have time to breathe or even stop that our minds keep us going and sometimes, the job that we have keeps us going! We need to learn to stop and breathe because life is hectic and we need to have time to do whatever we want to do!!

Why?

Why is it so significant? The reason why it is so significant is because we never want to stop and breathe! Sometimes, couples tend to fall out of love because either the man is too busy for the woman and the kids or the woman is too busy for the man and the kids and the kids would have to see that which is sad for the kids!! Through out my life, I remember having one parent consistent in my life while the other parent wasn't there for me at all! I remember having my dad there for me and that was hard for me but I wouldn't have at in any other way!! People tend to focus on their job instead of focusing on what is in front of them! We need to make time for ourselves and not help others because we are always helping others and putting them 1st!! Let's focus on ourselves for a little while! 

In closing/ Advice for the day! 

In closing, I think sometimes we tend to not stopping and not breathing that we focus on other things that we put more focus on other things or even our job than ourselves! Our health is very important and we need to focus on what is going good for us!!! I realize that I don't need to be on my phone a lot and that I need to put my focus on God and I tend to start my mornings by reading the word of God because reading the word of God means a lot to me!! There is people who tend to not read God's word and their life is just too busy to read the word of God or too busy to hangout with family or friends or too busy to reach out to other people! People don't realize if you are not going to reach out to them, then they don't mean a lot to you! Here is my advice for the day! My advice for the day is stop and breathe because time is too short to let the little things pass you by! We don't need to let the little things pass you by or you will miss it!! You won't have time to blink because before you know it, your kids are grown up and getting married or getting a promotion at work or having a baby!! Life is too hectic not to enjoy the little things in our life! Stop and breathe because our life gets too busy and we need to focus on the little things that matter to us! I love y'all from the bottom of my heart!! 

Well, hello my Blogger Dreamers! It's your girl aka the Blogger Queen herself, Brandee here to remind everyone that y'all just reached the end of today's blog episode for today! I pray that y'all enjoyed today's new blog episode for today because I know that I did! When I was writing this poem, I was thinking about how my day on Sundays can be so hectic to the point that I am too busy but I am try to make time for others in my life! When I text to see how people doing, I get a few responses through out the week! Life is too short with letting things get passed by!! We need to focus on what is so important and be there for the people that need us the most!! We need to love those people and focus on them!! Here is today's quote of the day: "Being broken is a blessing in the hands of God, because He will mold you and rebuild you to be stronger than you were before". -unknown! I couldn't agree with this quote more because when you are broken, God will rebuild and mold you in front of people who broke you! I had people broke me that as time passed, God molded me and rebuild me in front of the people who broke me in the first place! God can do that! I love y'all and I pray that everyone will have a good Monday or in other countries, a good Tuesday! Until next time, "Dream Big! Don't give up on your dreams" and I will see y'all on my next blog episode where I will be talking about describing my life in 3 words!! I love y'all and this blogger queen is out! Peace! ✌☮💜☺

Today's quote of the day! I couldn't agree with this quote so much because God will mold you and build you up in front of the people who broke you down! God will help you grow spiritually and lead you in the right direction!! Let God help you!

My poem that I wrote on Thursday, September 12th, 2024! When I was writing my poem, so many thoughts was going through my mind!! I think about how I can get so busy that I tend to forget to stop and breathe and I need to stop and breathe!! 

"Stop, slow down, 
And Breathe". 
-Panache Desai. I couldn't agree with this quote more because we need to stop, slow down, and breathe because life gets way too hectic and it needs to slow down! We need to slow down in life and focus on the positive things!! 

"Stop stressing. Take a deep 
breath. Everything will be 
okay. You can do this".
-Unknown. I love this so much because you need to stop whatever it is stressing you out and take a deep breath and breathe! God is telling you that you can do this and you will get through it!! 

To end today's blog episode, here is this week's song of the week! We question ourselves if we are going to be okay or if we going to heal from whatever we are going through and we are going to be okay because if we cry, it will make us feel better! Don't hold your tears in and let them flow! I love y'all and have a good day!! 💙💙💙