Blog: My advice to my 4-5 year old self! blog by: Brandee Marie Darden! Date: Friday, 10.18.24! Blog Friday!!
🌸 Blog: My advice to my 4-5 year old self! Blog by: Brandee Marie Darden! Friday, 10.18.24! 🌷This blog is dedicated to anyone who wants to give their 4 or 5 year old self advice!! 
Intro to my blog episode!
Well, hello my wonderful Blogger Dreamers! It's your girl aka the Blogger Queen herself, Brandee here and welcome back to an all new weekly blog episode for today where I talk about whatever it comes to mind! How are y'all doing today? I hope and pray that everyone is doing okay and well! Whatever it is bothering y'all or dragging y'all down, y'all are never alone and I am always here for y'all, no matter what! Happy Friday or in other countries, Happy Saturday! Who is ready for an all new blog episode for today? I know that I am but 1st, let's do a little recap of Wednesday's blog episode! On Wednesday, I talked about describing my life! If I could describe my life, one of the words I would describe my life as loving! I am surrounded by people who love me for who I am and it is important to surround yourself with people who love you and support you because if you don't have that love around you, it is going to tear you down and hurt you! Be around people who love you!! If y'all haven't read this blog episode and would love to check it out, link right here: →Describing my life! Please, go give this blog episode a read! It is a mighty good one! I love y'all! Now, for today's blog episode, I will be talking about my advice to my 4-5 year old self! Blog by: Brandee Marie Darden! This blog is dedicated to anyone who wants to give their 4 or 5 year old self advice! In this blog episode, I will be talking about if I could give myself advice at 4-5 year old self, what advice would I give to my 4-5 year old self? Why would I give that advice to my 4-5 year old self? What two life lessons could of gave my 4-5 year old self? Why would I give my 4-5 year old self life lessons? Now, without any further disruptions, let's get this blog episode started! Shall we? We shall!
What was I like when I was 4 and 5 years old? Why was I like that at that age?
What was I like when I was 4 and 5 years old? At those ages, I was a shy little kid who wanted her dad all the time and when my dad would drop me off at school, I would start crying! I started crying because I didn't want him to leave!! Me and my dad is really close and he will always be my best friend! I love my dad with all my heart! I was just a shy little kid! In reality, I am still shy as an adult! I am not afraid to admit it! I will always be shy until you can get me out of my shell! Why was I like that at that age? The reason why I was like that at that age is because I was just a little shy and I would hide behind my dad when I was around people and to this day, I still a shy and quite person until I get to know you! I will always be a shy person, no matter what!!
My advice to my 4-5 year old self!
If I could give myself advice at 4-5 year old self, what advice would I give to my 4-5 year old self? The advice that I would give my 4-5 self is "people are going to love you for who you are". Ever since I could remember, I always had this loving personality that everyone loved and I know that everyone will always love me! I am not afraid to be who I am! I will be shy at 1st but once you get to know me, I am a open book who is ready to be read!! I always had this personality where I knew everyone would love me and I never knew everyone could love me as much as I loved them! I think growing up, I always had a loving personality and I will always love people with all of my heart which I am okay with that because I have a big heart!!
Why?
Why would I give that advice to my 4-5 year old self? The reason why I would give my 4-5 year old self that advice is because ever since I could remember, I was afraid that people wouldn't love me for who I am or I was afraid people wouldn't love me because I was too quite but they didn't care about that! They cared about my loving personality that I have and I am okay to have that loving personality to this day!! I will always love with all my heart and show people how much I love them because I wouldn't want people to feel alone and sad!! No one shouldn't have to feel alone and hurt!! I will always love with all my heart and I am okay with that!!
Life lessons that I would give my 4-5 year old self!
What two life lessons could of gave my 4-5 year old self? The 1st life lesson could of gave my 4-5 year old self is people will come in and out of your life!! Ever since I could remember, I have always watched people walked in and out of my life! I didn't know why they were doing it but to think of it now as an adult, it kind of hurts! I wish I didn't watch people walk in and out of my life!! The 2nd and final life lesson could of gave my 4-5 year old self is the right guy will come swooping in your life!! I had the wrong guys come into my life but I didn't know that I would have the right guy come swooping into my life until 2020 but didn't started dating until November 1st, 2022!! It is hard to find the right guy in your life who will care about you and love you for who you are but I am very blessed to be dating the right guy in my life who cares about my well being and is there for me, no matter what! I feel very blessed to have a good man in my life and my 4-5 year old self would be so happy!! She would be jumping up and down!!
Why?
Why would I give my 4-5 year old self life lessons? The reason why I would give my 4-5 year old the 1st life lesson is because throughout my entire life, I had to watch people walk in and out of my life which in honesty, it hurt me but now looking back, I can't help but think to myself "Maybe, God didn't want them in my life at a young age" which don't get me wrong, it kind of hurts but I wish I didn't have to go through that and watching people walk out of my life at a young age! That kind of hurts if you think about it! The 2nd and final reason why I would give my 4-5 year old the 2nd and final life lesson is because, throughout my life, I would not feel as blessed to be with the right guy and I was at a point where I wanted to give up on love until my boyfriend now came into my life! I didn't know how happy I would be until I met the love of my life and to think we are about to hit our 2 year anniversary very soon is a blessing within itself and I couldn't be anymore blessed than I already am! I love the man that I am with so much and I know that my 4-5 year old self would love him to!! I know she is happy!!
In closing/ Tip of the day!!
In closing of this blog, I remember being a 4 or 5 year old watching people walking in and out of my life which is hard for me but looking back, I was getting prepared for what it would be like when I am adult!! Watching people walking in and out of my life is hard for me because I was asked myself "what did I do"? Sometimes, I wonder what did I do for people to walk out of my life like that and I will answer in my head, "absolutely nothing. You didn't do anything to those people who walked out on you". I remember my dating life and how I would attract the wrong guys and I wanted to give up on dating for a while because I got cheated on twice and I didn't want to date anymore but the man that I am with convinced me other wise! I love the man that I am with!! Throughout my life, I always had this loving personality where I wouldn't be afraid to be who I am anymore! I knew people would love me but I didn't know how much they would love me until they got to know me and I am happy that people could love me for who I am!! Here is my tip of the day! My tip of the day is do something that your 4 or 5 year old self would be so proud of you doing! Do something that you love doing! I know that my 4 or 5 year old self is proud of the adult that I have become! I know she is seeing this me happy!! I love y'all!
Hello, my Blogger Dreamers! It's your Blogger Queen herself, Brandee here to remind everyone that y'all just reached the end of today's blog episode for today! If I could hug my 4 or 5 year old self, I would! I wish I could hug her and say "the right people will stay in your life and you will find the right guy who is going to love you for who you are" and I know that my 4 or 5 year old self is proud of the young lady that I am becoming! I have endured a lot of pain in my life but I grew from it and I am proud of myself to be at where I am today!! I feel like I have grown a lot and I am looking forward to see where the future holds!! For today's quote of the day, it goes something like this: "The only reason people take you for granted is because they assume you'll always be there. Prove them wrong". -Unknown. I couldn't agree with this quote more is because people only take you for granted is because they assume you will be there for them, no matter what! They assume they think "oh! They will always be here for me, no matter what" but when you need someone, no one is there for you!! Prove those people wrong that you are not going to be there for them when it not convenient! Prove those people wrong who are using you because you don't need those people in your life! I love y'all and I pray that everyone will have a good day or had a good day! Always remember "Dream Big! Don't give up on your dreams" and I will see y'all on my makeup and fashion blog page where I will be talking about my top 3 favorite dresses that I have worn, my top 3 favorite skirt and blouse combo, and my advice to anyone who want to get into makeup! Stay tuned for those blogs but until next time, stay safe and let's remind people how good Jesus and God is! I love y'all and this Blogger Queen is out! Peace! ☮✌❤😁
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Today's quote of the day! I couldn't agree with this quote more is because people think it is convenient for you to be there for them all the time but in reality, you can't drop what you are doing to be there for them if they can't be there for you! It works both ways! If I am there for you, please be there me as well because I want someone to help me through my tough times in life!!  People Who Love You, Motivate You, Encourage You, And Make You Feel Good About Yourself". -Unknown. I love this a lot because you want to surround yourself with positive energy and who will encourage you and want to make you feel good about yourself!! You want to be around people who will love you just the way you are!!  Into Your Life For A Moment, A Day, Or A LifeTime. It Matters Not The Time They Spent With You But How They Impacted Your Life In That Time". -Unknown. I love this so much because people will come into your life for a little while or they will be there for you for a day, but that's okay because there will be people who will leave an impact on you and that's important!!  your life comes after the mistake of your life". -Unknown. I love this quote so much because I didn't know that I would meet someone who would mean a lot to me until we started talking and now, I don't want to lose him because he makes me the happiest!! God blessed me with a good man in my life!! I love the man that I am with!! To end today's blog episode for the day, here is this week's song of the week! For this week song of the week, I chose "Shot Glass Of Tears" by Jungkook from BTS! I chose this song for the week is because we go through pain in our life and all we want to do is cry but that's okay because God will help us through everything and we need to trust him!! I love y'all and have a good weekend!! 💜💜💜 |
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