Blog: What 3 lessons did I learn from this year? blog by: Brandee Marie Darden!! Date: Monday, 11/4/24!!

                                          ❤ Blog: What 3 lessons did I learn from this year? blog by: Brandee Marie Darden!! Date: Monday, 11/4/24!! This blog is dedicated to anyone who has grown a lot this year and realized that they don't need the wrong people in their life!! ❤ 

Intro to my blog! 

Well, hello my Blogger Dreamers! It's your girl aka the Blogger Queen herself, Brandee here and welcome back to an all new weekly blog episode for today! How are y'all doing today? I hope and pray that everyone is doing okay and well! Whatever y'all are going through or whatever got you in the dumps, just know that everything will be okay because God will take care of it and he will never let you down!! You are loved by so many people and I love you with every ounce of my heart! Always remember that! Happy Monday or in other countries, Happy Tuesday! Before I get into today's blog episode and also talk about this week's blog episodes, here is a blog recap from last week! Last week on my 2nd blog page, on Monday, I talked about the song "Life with you" by: Kelsey Hart, blog by: Brandee Marie Darden which was also the song of the week! When I think about this song, I think about my boyfriend because his presence has completed my life and without him, I don't know where I would be without him! We complete each other and I love that a lot! On Wednesday, I talked about my poem "Storm before the calm". Before it gets calm, the chaos comes and it begins to storm but that's okay, because God is going to take care of it and he is going to help you through it, no matter what! God will put you through these storms and he will help you through it! Trust in God! On Friday, I celebrated me and my boyfriend's two year anniversary! To think that we celebrated two years dating each other is unbelievable but I am so incredibly happy! He makes me so happy and so loved! I feel like God put him in my life for a reason and I am so glad that he did! If y'all haven't read these blogs and would love to check them out, link right here: → 2nd blog page! 🩷🩵💜 Please, go check them out whenever y'all can! Please! Thank you all so much!! On this week's blog page, I will be talking about what 3 lessons did I learn from this year, my testimony about how I got save, and what were my 3 roughest moments? Stay tuned for an all new blogs for this week and without any further ado, let's get our blogging thinking caps on and get this blog episode started! Shall we? We shall! 

Talking about today's blog episode! Why did I choose to talk about today's blog episode for today? What is this week's song of the week? Why did I choose this song for the week? 

For today's blog episode, I chose to talk about what 3 lessons did I learn from this year? This blog is dedicated to anyone who has grown a lot this year and realized that they don't need the wrong people in their life! In this blog episode, I will be talking about if I could pick 3 lessons that I learn from this year, what would those lessons be? Why would I pick those lessons from this year? Out of those lessons, which one did I learn the most? Why would I pick that lesson from this year that I learned the most? What is the significance behind each lesson? Why are those lessons significant? Why did I choose to talk about today's blog episode for today? The reason why I choose this blog episode is because I feel like this year has taught me this year and I am so happy that it taught me a lot and I love that I saw people's true colors this year as well!! What is this week's song of the week? The song that I choose for the week is "Last Page Of The Bible" by: Matthew West, ft. Anne Wilson! This song is so good and every time I listen to this song, I think about Revelation! Why did I choose this song for the week? The reason why I choose this song of the week is because every time I listen to this song, I think about the book of Revelation because it is the last chapter in the Bible and I love this song a lot!! 

My growth from this year! Why did I grown this year? 

How much did I grown from this year? I feel like I have grown a lot this year! I feel like I have been reading more this year than I have ever done and I feel like I have become confident within myself! I feel like I have grown a lot from this year than I did last year!! To see my growth from this year to last year is unbelievable and I can't wait to see the growth in the upcoming year!! Why did I grown this year? The reason why I grown this year is because I feel like it is important to grow if it is spiritually or mentally! I am starting to let people go and that is important for my mental health! I don't need to hold onto people who is going to bring me down and not make me feel like I am not good enough! I don't need that in my life and I am willing to let go of everyone who hasn't make time for me!! I don't need that in my life!

3 lessons that I learn from this year! 

If I could pick 3 lessons that I learn from this year, what would those lessons be? The 1st lesson that I learned from this year is know who is really there for me! I realized who is there for me and who isn't and that opened my eyes a lot this year!! I am starting to really realize that I have people who care for me and who doesn't and I don't care who doesn't care for me! All I care about who actually cares for me and that's important! The 2nd lesson that I learned from this year is my true friends! I am starting to realize who are my true friends! I am starting to think to myself who are my true friends and I am so blessed to have true friends who are in my corner and who is there for me!! The 3rd and final lesson that I learned that I learned from this year is people accepting me for who I am! Having people accepting me for who I am can either break me or I can handle it! If people can't accept me for me, then that's their problem and it might hurt me but that's reality! I think ever since I got saved, people started to get away from me which hurts but I started to realize that if people can't accept me for who I am, that's people's problem, not mine!! 

Why?

Why would I pick those lessons from this year? The reason why I picked the 1st lesson is because I am starting to realize who is in my corner and who isn't and that is my reality! The ones who reach out to me are the people who I care about me but the ones who don't bother reaching out to me, they never cared about me which hurts but that's my reality!! I have accepted for a long time who is really there for me and who isn't!! The 2nd reason why that I learned that lesson from this year is because true friends are the people who are there for you and be there for you, no matter what! True friends are the people who love you for who you are! I am so blessed to have true friends who are in my corner and who love me for who I am!! One of my true friends is my boyfriend!! I feel blessed to have a good boyfriend and best friend!! The 3rd and final reason why I picked the 3rd lesson is because when I got saved, I had people stop reaching out to me and stop being there for me and to be honest with y'all, it hurt me so much but I think God had a reason for those people to stop being there for me and I am going to respect God and let him lead the way!! If people can't accept me for who I am, then that's their fault, not mine!! I have accepted people who accept me for who I am and who doesn't!! 

The lesson that I learned this year the most!! 

Out of those lessons, which one did I lean the most? Out of those lessons, the lesson that I learned the most is my true friends! I started to realize that my circle is starting to get smaller and I am starting to really realize that I only have a few true friends but in honesty, I am totally okay with that! I rather have a small group friends than having fake friends who don't care about me at all! I know who is my true friends and who isn't! I know who is there for me and who isn't!! I know who cares about me and who isn't! I am okay with that! I am not afraid to admit that I am okay with having a few friends! I rather have a few friends than having a lot of fake friends who say they "care" about me but don't show up for me!! 

Why?

Why would I pick that lesson from this year that I learned the most? The reason why I would pick that lesson from this year that I learned the most, this year, I feel like I had to block people left and right because they didn't care about my mental health or they didn't care at all! I had to do what is right for me! I had people stop talking and caring about me! The only reason why they wanted to talk to me is because I was always there for them and it hurts to know that the only time they need is when they need something not to check on me which hurts but people are fake and that's fine! I don't need people to be my friend and then, turns around to be fake to me! No! I need true friends who love me and care about me! I don't need a friend who is going to stop caring about me and loving me and then, turns around and say "I need you"! No! I don't need that!! 

The significance!! 

What is the significance behind each lesson? The significance behind the 1st lesson is throughout my life, I had people tell me that they were always there for me no matter what but this year, I had people leave me when I need them the most but the ones who have stayed by my side and hasn't given up on me, I am truly blessed for!! I am blessed to know who is there for me and who isn't!! The significance behind the 2nd lesson is I am okay with having a few true friends than having fake friends who is going to be there for me and who isn't there for me! I am okay with having a few true friends! That doesn't bother me and I am okay with that! The significance behind the 3rd lesson is I had people show me true colors when it comes to accepting me and that hurts! If people can't accept me for who I am, that's their problem! I don't have a problem being who I am because the person who I am, I love things about me that I didn't love about me before and I am okay with that!! If you can't accept people for who they are, I think that's a problem! Don't judge others because that's wrong!! Don't judge me because I am proud of where I am at today!!

Why? 

Why are those lessons significant? The 1st reason why the 1st lesson is so significant is because this year, I started to realize who is actually there for me and who isn't which is incredibly sad but it's the truth! I know that I have people who truly care about me and I appreciate those people who have been there for me and I can't thank God enough for sending me the right people in my life!! The 2nd reason why the 2nd lesson is so significant is because is having a few true friends is better than having fake friends who don't care about you but care about having you in their life! I am okay with having a few true friends than not having a lot! If people don't want to care about me, than that's fine! I don't care!! I don't care if I 1 or even 5 true friends! I don't care! That doesn't bother me!! The 3rd and final reason why the 3rd lesson is so significant is because I am starting to see who truly accepts me for who I am and who doesn't and I am okay with that! I am okay if people don't care about who I am or not and I am going to live my life and they can live their life! I am going to live my life in a Godly manner and whatever what God wants me to do and God doesn't want me to do those things, I won't do it!! I am going to live my life the way God wants me to!! 

In closing/ Questions of the day?  

In closing, this year was an eye opener for me! I learned a lot this year! I learned a lot this year and one of those things was people accepting me for who I am! I had people leave me because they couldn't accept the fact that I read my Bible and I pray over my food at times! I had people not accepting me but I am totally okay with that! I am that girly who wants to get into some pajamas and read her Bible than go out to a party or to a club and drink alcohol! People might think I am weird because I rather go to church than anything! I look forward to Sunday morning, Sunday evening, and Wednesday evening to go to church! I am okay with being different from 26 year old people who are around my age! I am okay with being different! I am okay with having a few true friends!! I am okay with the lessons that I learned from this year! I am not scared of being who I am or accepting the fact people accept me for who I am or who doesn't! That doesn't bother me! I love me and my boyfriend loves me as well and so does his family!! If you have an opinion about me, back off bucko because if it's an opinion, I only want to hear it from God! Here is my question of the day: my questions of the day is What 3 lessons did y'all learn from this year? Why did y'all learn those lessons from this year? Sound off in the comments down below and let me know! I would love to read and respond y'all's comments! Please! Thank you all so much!! 

Well, hello my wonderful Blogger Dreamers! It's your girl aka the Blogger Queen herself, Brandee here to remind everyone that y'all just reached the end of today's blog episode for today! The moral of this blog episode is this year was an eye opener and it opened my eyes a lot this year! I started to realize who is there for me, who are my true friends, and people accepting me for who I am! I am okay with people accepting me for who I am or not! I don't care! I am proud of who I am and I love who I am! I am not afraid to be who I am!! I love who I am and I am not afraid to tell the whole world that I am not scared to be me! I am not scared to be me and y'all shouldn't either!! For today's Bible Verse of the day, it is taken from Psalms 126:5 and it says "Those who sow in tears Shall reap in joy". I love this Bible Verse of the day a lot because when you do something for the Lord, you should rejoice! When you do something for the Lord, you should cry for joy! Praise the Lord's name!! I love y'all and have a good Monday or in other countries, a good Tuesday! Until next time "Dream Big! Don't give up on your dreams"! I will see y'all on Wednesday where I will be talking about my testimony about how I got saved? Stay tuned and let's show how God's love is so amazing and show how cool Jesus is today! I love y'all and this Blogger Queen is out! Peace!! ☮️✌️🩷😊

Today's Bible Verse of the day! I absolutely love this Bible Verse so much because when you do something for the Lord, you should rejoice and have joy in what you love doing for the Lord! What you are doing for the Lord should bring you joy and happiness!

"I love being around
positive people.
You're not judged
there's no drama, 
everyone just wants to 
relax and have a 
nice time". 
-Unknown! I love this quote so much because it feels good to be around people who are positive and they don't care about your drama or you are not judged by them which is the best feeling in the world! You get to have a nice time to relax!! 

"One Of The Most
Beautiful Qualities Of 
True Friendship Is
To Understand And 
Be Understood". 
-Lucius Annaeus Seneca. I couldn't agree with this quote more because a true friendship is to understand and be understood and that is important!! You need someone to understand you but you need to understand them and that's important!! 

"You have
to accept 
people for
who they are
not for who
you want
them to be". 
-Unknown! I love this quote so much because you need to accept people for who they are! You don't have to accept their life style but just accept them for who they are!!

To end today's blog episode for the day, here is this week's song of the week! I chose "Last Page Of The Bible" by: Matthew West, ft Anne Wilson! This is such an amazing song and it holds a lot of meaning to me!! Such a good song!! I love y'all!