Blog: What were my roughest moments? By: Brandee Marie Darden! Date: Friday, Nov. 8th, 2024!!

                                   ❤️‍🩹   Blog: What were my 3 roughest moments? By: Brandee Marie Darden! Date: Friday, Nov. 8th, 2024!! This blog is dedicated to anyone who is having a rough time whether it is dealing with people who don't care about them or seeing people who are sad! ❤️‍🩹 

Intro to my blog! 

Well, hello my Blogger Dreamers! It's your girl aka the Blogger Queen herself, Brandee here and welcome back to an all new blog episode for today! How are y'all doing today? I hope and pray that everyone is doing okay and well! Whatever y'all are going through or whatever dragging y'all down, just know that y'all are loved and God loves you so much! I even love y'all!! Happy Friday or in other countries, Happy Saturday!! Who is ready for an all new blog episode for today? I know that I am but here is a recap of Wednesday's blog episode! On Wednesday, I talked my testimony about how I got saved? God changed my life for the better and I am so blessed that he did!! He has given me opportunities after opportunities and I'm so blessed!! He also gave me an amazing boyfriend who is also my prayer partner! I am so blessed!! If y'all haven't read this blog episode and would love to check it out, link right here: →My testimony on how I got saved? Please, go check it out whenever y'all can! Please! Thank you all so much! For today's blog episode, I will be talking about what were my 3 roughest moments? This blog episode is dedicated to anyone who is having a rough time whether it is dealing with people who don't care about them or seeing people who are sad! In this blog episode, I will be talking about if I could pick my 3 roughest moments, what would those be? Why were those moments my roughest moments? How did I get those moments? Why did I get through those moments? What is my advice to my Blogger Dreamers who are having a rough time? Why would I give that advice to my Blogger Dreamers who is having a rough time? Now, without further ado, let's get this blog episode started! Shall we? We shall! 

What are my good moments? Why are those my good moments? 

What are my good moments? If I could pick 3 good moments, the 1st moment would have to be when I facetime my boyfriend! When me and my boyfriend facetime, it is always a good moment! When we facetime, he always makes me laugh and I love every minute of it! The 2nd good moment is when I am blogging! When I am good momentum or feeling a good vibe, it is always a good moment to blog! I love blogging so much! The 3rd and final good moment would have to be when I go to church! I love going to God's house and being around people who love and care about me! I love seeing cheery faces and seeing the people who I love! I love having good moments at church! Why are those my good moments? The 1st reason why I picked facetiming my boyfriend a good moment is because he knows how to cheer me up when I am sad or make me more happy which I love so much!! The 2nd reason why I picked when I am blogging as a good moment because when I am in my zone and I feel comfortable, I enjoy every minute of blogging! Blogging makes me happy and if I can reach someone through my blogs, then I am doing a great job! The 3rd and final reason why I picked when I go to church as a good moment is because being around God's people is always a good moment! We can always make each other laugh and smile and that's important and I love being around God's people!!! 

My top 3 roughest moments! 

If I could pick my top 3 roughest moments, what would those be? If I could pick my 1st rough moment, it would have to dealing with a long distance relationship! For me, it doesn't get easier! It pains me not seeing my boyfriend everyday like I want to! There are times where I want to cry because I will see other couples together but for me and him, it is hard!! Everyday, I think about seeing him again and I will have these dreams of seeing each other again but when I wake up, it is hard!! The 2nd rough moment is seeing someone that I love sad! When I see someone that I love sad, it breaks my heart! It pains my heart and I love that person with all my heart! When I see someone that I care about sad, I want them to be happy and try to make sure that person happy!! The 3rd and final rough moment is feeling like I am alone!! For me, I get in my head where I feel like I am alone and it hard for me to remind myself that I am not alone and I have people there for me, no matter what! No matter how many times I remind myself that, I still feel like I am alone and it hard for me at times!! 

Why? 

Why were those moments my roughest moments? The 1st reason why I would pick dealing with a long distance relationship is because everyday, I wake up wondering if I will see my man again! Don't get me wrong, I love my man with all heart and soul! Sometimes, it is hard to know when I will see him again and every time I think about him, I feel sad! Every time I see the color blue, I miss him and think about him! It is hard but we always make it work!! The 2nd reason why I would pick seeing someone that I love sad because when I see someone sad, my heart breaks! I just want to go and hug them to show how much I love them and how much I care about them! It is important to show people how much you love and care about them because it will show that person that there are more people who care and love them as much the next person does!! The 3rd and final reason why I would pick feeling like I am alone is because I get into my head a lot where I need to deal with my own problems by myself but I need to realize that I have God on my side and that I don't deal with my own battles by myself! I also have people rooting for me and I am loved by so many people!! 

How? 

How did I get those moments? The 1st way I got through dealing with long distance relationship is just one day at a time! When you are in a long distance relationship, always talk to your partner everyday and reassure them that you love them! For me, when I get a text from my man, I get happy and no matter how sad I am, he makes me happy and that is important for a relationship! If your partner doesn't make you happy, then move on from them! I know for me it is hard to deal with a long distance relationship but me and my boyfriend get through it the best way that we can and we are trying to get through it the best way that we can and for us, we have God in the middle of our relationship and that is important to us! The 2nd way I got through seeing someone sad is I try to cheer that person up! I am that person when I see someone sad, I just want them to be happy and not something bother them! I want them to know how much they are loved and how much someone cares for them!! I rather see a person smiling than someone crying! If I see a person crying, I am going to start crying and if I start crying, there is no way I would stop crying! I want a person happy, not sad! The 3rd and final way I got through feeling like I am alone is I remind myself that God is on my side and no one can't tell me other wise! I also have people who love and care about me more than anything! I know that I can beat those thoughts! No one should ever feel alone and I know that I have a God who is there for me when I am alone! 

Why?

Why did I get through those moments? The 1st reason why I got through with dealing with long distance relationship is because we are taking a day at a time and on God's timing for us meeting again, it will be a good day for us! I know things aren't easy, but we talk through our problems and we don't leave anything unresolved! With God in the middle of our relationship, we can get through anything and our love is strong that we can't give up on our love!! The 2nd reason why I got through with seeing someone sad is because if I am with a person who is sad, I try my best to cheer them up and I want them to know that I love and care about them! I never want them to ever feel sad and not someone not caring about them and not feeling loved because I know that how it feels! I care about with people with all my heart and I pray people can see how much I love and care about them!! The 3rd and final reason why I got through feeling like I am alone is because even though the devil wants me to think I am alone but I don't let the devil beat me down! I know that God is there to help me through everything and I have people who is there for me and who will always love me, no matter what! I am blessed to have people who love and care about me, no matter what!! 

My advice! 

What is my advice to my Blogger Dreamers who are having a rough time? To my Blogger Dreamers who are having a rough time, my advice is take it a day at a time! I know that things are not easy right now, but everything will be okay! Don't give up! God is on your side and he will help through everything that you are going through! God cares about you and he loves you so much! You have people who care about you as well! Don't throw a towel in and give up! Keep pushing through! You got this! I believe in y'all, no matter what!! 

Why? 

Why would I give that advice to my Blogger Dreamers who is having a rough time? The reason why I would give that advice to my Blogger Dreamers who is having a rough time is because when you are having a rough time, you want to give up but you can't because you have people rooting for you!! You have people who love you more than anything in this world!! God is with you at all times! Let God help you through everything and let him guide you!! You will get through it! I believe in my Blogger Dreamers!! 

In closing/ Tip of the day! 

In closing, we are going to have days that are rougher than others! We want to give up and call it quits but we have to push through the hard times!!! Dealing with a long distance relationship is hard! For me, I want to see my man everyday but I can't and that is hard for me not to see him everyday, but with God in the middle of our relationship, we are going to get through it, no matter what! We don't give up and we keep pushing through!! I never want to see someone who is unhappy and miserable because if see someone who is unhappy and miserable, then I am unhappy and miserable! I want to see people being joyful and happy!! When I think am alone, I feel unhappy and I want someone with me but I know that God is with me and I know that he loves me so much!! I know that I am not alone and I will fight through the loneliness!! Here is my tip of the day! My tip of the day is you are going to go through a rough day but you are going to get through it, no matter what! Don't give up! You are loved!! I love y'all!! 

Well, hello my Blogger Dreamers!! It's your girl aka the Blogger Queen herself, Brandee here to remind everyone that y'all just reached the end of today's blog episode for today! The moral of my blog is we go through rough times and sometimes, we want to give up but we can't because we have people who are rooting for us! There people who love us and there are people who are praying for us! We need to keep pushing through, no matter what! We need to keep trying and no matter how many rough days we go through, we keep trying and keep getting up!! Keep trying and pushing forward! For today's Bible Verse of the day, it is taken from 2 Corinthians 5:7 and it says "For we walk by faith, not by sight". I absolutely love this Bible Verse a lot because we need to have faith our Lord and our Savior! We need to walk in faith by reading the God's word and be doers of the word!! If you are not doing the word, you are just reading  God's word! Let's walk in faith and do God's word!! I love y'all and I pray y'all have a good Friday or in other countries, a good Saturday!! I will see y'all on my makeup and fashion blog page where I will be talking about what outfits would I wear for winter? part 3, what kind of makeup looks would I wear for winter, and my favorite outfits from this year so far, part 2!! Stay tuned! I love y'all and let's show how amazing God's love is and how cool Jesus is! I love y'all and this Blogger Queen is out! See ya on the flip side!  🩷💜

Today's Bible Verse of the day! I absolutely love this Bible Verse of the day because we need to have faith in our Lord and Savior and we need to have faith in God's word and be doers of the word! Let's have faith in our God!! 

"The scariest thing 
about distance is you
don't know if they'll 
miss you or forget 
about you". 
-Unknown. I love this quote a lot because you don't know if that person misses you or they are going to forget about you! If they forget about you, they never cared about you in the beginning! If they are missing you, that means they cared about you in the beginning and they will care about you no matter what!! 

"Behind every 
sweet smile,
there is a 
bitter sadness
that no one 
can ever see
and feel". 
-Unknown. I agree with this quote a lot because every single person will hide behind a smile but they might be going through something rough and all you can do is be there for someone who will love you and bring you happiness!! 

"My point is,
I feel like there's
no place for me". 
(Quotes 'nd Notes). This quote hits hard for me because there have been times where I feel like there is never a place for me and I just feel like I am the black sheep, but God knows that I am not a black sheep to him and he has a place for me!

To end today's blog episode for today, I am ending it with this week's song of the week which is "Last Page Of The Bible" by Matthew West, ft Anne Wilson! I love how upbeat this song is and it is such an amazing song! Highly recommend listening to it! I love y'all!! 🩵🩵🩵

Blog: My testimony about how I got saved? blog by: Brandee Marie Darden!! Date: Wednesday, 11/6/24!!

                                          🙏 Blog: My testimony about how I got saved? blog by: Brandee Marie Darden!!! Date: Wednesday, 11/6/24! This blog is talking about my salvation and my testimony. I wanted to share my testimony to anyone who might be dealing with the same thing. 🙏 

Intro to my blog! 

Well, hello my wonderful Blogger Dreamers! It's your girl aka the Blogger Queen herself, Brandee here and welcome back to have y'all back to an all new weekly blog episode for today! How are y'all doing today? I hope and pray that everyone is doing okay and well! Whatever y'all are going through or whatever y'all might be dealing with, just know that y'all are loved and I love y'all with every ounce of my heart! Happy Wednesday or in other countries, Happy Thursday! Who is ready for an all new blog episode for today? I know that I am but 1st, here is a blog recap of Monday's blog episode! On Monday, I talked about what 3 lessons did I learn from this year? The one lesson that I did learn this year was people accepting me for who I am! When I got saved last year, I started loosing friends left and right but I realized if people aren't going to accept me for who I am, then I am going to live my life and they can live their life! If people can't accept me for who I am, than that's their problem, not mine! I will pray over my food and listen to worship music because it heals my soul! If y'all haven't read this blog and would love to read this blog, I will leave my link right here: →3 lessons that I learned this year! Please, go check out my new blog episode whenever y'all can! Please! Thank you all so much! For today's blog episode, I will be talking about my testimony about how I got saved? This blog is talking about my salvation and my testimony! I wanted to share my testimony to anyone who might be dealing with the same thing. In this blog episode, I will be talking about how did I know that God was burdened my heart? Why did I know that God has burdened my heart? How has my life changed since I got save? Why did my life changed since I got saved? If I have advice about anyone who feels burdened, what is my advice? Why would I give that advice who is dealing with a burdened? Now, without any further ado, let's get this blog episode, shall we? We shall! 

My testimony on how I got saved? Why did I get saved? 

My testimony on how I got saved? In this part of my blog, I will be talking about my testimony on how I got saved? Throughout my entire life, I had to watch one of my parents walk out in my life but then, in my life! For me, it was mentally hard to watch a parent walk in and out of my life!! My teen years, I had to go back and fourth a lot which was extremely hard! 2018, I wanted to die because I couldn't handle life anymore! In 2019, I met a guy who I thought was my forever and I was happy for a little while and at that same year, my bonus mom came into my life!! I finally have a mom figure in my life! In 2020, covid hit and then, on May 2nd of that year, my ex boyfriend broke up with me and he cheated on me! I didn't want to get out of bed and that was hard for me!! That same year, I met my boyfriend now but we were friends at the time, I got to know him and he was really nice! The next year, my dad and my bonus mom got married and I felt happy that I have a mom figure in my life! I also started blogging in that same year! I thought I was happy! In 2022, me and my boyfriend became official on November 1st of that year! While my bonus mom was in my life, I would go to church services with her but throughout, I didn't grow up going to church! I might of gone to vacation Bible school once in a while but I didn't grow up going to church but once my bonus mom came into my life, I started to go to church and I would go to evening church services but on March 12th, 2023, I went to morning service and Sunday school and on that night, after the preaching was over, they did an invitation song, I was trying to sing a song but I couldn't sing because I was crying! Once was church was over, we talked to our pastor and then, I went home and started praying and I continued to pray! On Wednesday, March 15th, 2023, I professed my faith and on Sunday, March 26th, 2023, I got baptized! I never felt so much peace in my life! I felt so proud where I am at today!! Why did I get saved? I got saved because I didn't see my life going no where and I just felt an empty space in my heart! I believed in God in my head and that Jesus died in my head as well but I didn't believe in my heart until that night and I feel peace with that! I am proud of where I am today and I can't wait to see where God will lead me next!! 

God burdened my heart? 

How did I know that God was burdened my heart? The way I knew that God had burdened my heart is I was always trying to please people and the night that I got saved, I had enough of pleasing people and I had enough being there for ungrateful people and I had hold off enough, so I decided to give it to God and to know that Jesus died for me and my sins!! I had enough of being there for people who aren't grateful for what I have done for them and I knew God burdened my heart for a reason but I couldn't figured out why but I did and I am glad that he did!!! 

Why? 

Why did I know that God was burdened my heart? The reason why I knew that God had burdened my heart is because throughout my life, I never went to church! I might of went a few Sunday services and even, vacation bible school but other than that, I never went to church throughout my life!! Once my bonus mom came into my life, I started to go to church with her and my dad in the evenings and one evening last year, I asked my bonus mom if I could go to Sunday morning church with her and she said yes!! I knew that I was lost and I knew that God would burdened my heart at some point but that Sunday evening, he burdened my heart and every night, I would pray every day and Wednesday, March 15th, I professed my faith in Jesus and knowing that can save me! I knew God would burdened my heart and I am glad that he did because I wouldn't feel at peace today! I feel happy and I knew God would be there for me, no matter what!

My life changed! 

How has my life changed since I got saved? The way I would say that my life has changed since I got saved is I have gotten confident within myself! Before, I would be this shy young lady, but now I am confident and I love that about me!! I am not afraid to be confident within myself! I joined my choir at my church which has been so amazing! I love singing with my choir! We are like a big family which I love that so much!! I started writing sermon notes and sharing with people like my boyfriend and one of my sisters! I love writing down our sermon notes and sharing them with someone because someone might need it! God has blessed me in so many ways and I can't thank God for getting me the funk that I have been throughout my life! I feel so blessed to be where I am at today! God has lead me the way and I am looking forward to see how God will continue to bless me even more!! 

Why?

Why did my life changed since I got saved? The reason why my life changed since I got saved is because I feel like I needed to change my life for the better and I needed to do what is right for me, so I let God changed my life and now, I am confident in what I am doing and I love singing with my choir!! I love writing down the sermons from Sunday morning, Sunday evening, and Wednesday evening!! I feel so blessed to see where I am at today! I feel like I have grown a lot and I am looking forward to seeing what God has in store for me in the reminder of the year and the year 2025! I am also looking forward to seeing what God has in store for me and my boyfriend within this year and the year 2025!! I am excited where the reminder of the year will take me!!

My advice! 

If I have any advice about anyone who feels burdened, what is my advice? If you have burdened that is weighing down you, pray to God! God will take care of your burdened! To him, you will never be a burdened and he will take care of you along the way! Let God take care of you and he cares about you more than anything! He sees your tears and he sees you struggling! Let God take care of you and be there for you through every need that you are facing! God sees that you are trying and he believes in you! Let him believe in you!

Why? 

Why would I give that advice who is dealing with a burdened? The reason why I would give that advice is because when you call out to God, he sees everything that you are struggling with whether it is physical health or even mental health! God cares about me you so much and he would do anything for you to help you get through what you are going through! God cares about you and cares what you are going through! He loves so much and he wants what is best for you!! Trust in God because he knows what is best for you!!

In closing/ Tip of the day! 

In closing, God changed my life for the better and I am so blessed that he did! If he can change my life, he can surly change your life as well! God knows what you have been through! God knows your tears and God knows what you are going through in your life! We go through seasons of life and sometimes, we go through a good season or we go through a tough season where we just want to give up but we can't because God is there to guide us in every direction in our way!! He might put you in a situation where it is hard but you can figure it out! I know that God has put me in a situation where things are tough, but I never gave up and y'all know why? Because God would want me to keep going and I am glad that he let me kept going! Here is my tip of the day! My tip of the day is if you are in a waiting season, let God lead you in the right direction because he is going to guide you in the right direction! God cares and loves you and wants what is best for you! Let him help you in life! I love y'all so much!! 

Well, hello my Blogger Dreamers! It's your girl aka the Blogger Queen herself, Brandee here to remind everyone that y'all just reached the end of today's blog episode!  Today's blog is special to me because I finally got to share about my testimony and everyone's testimony is different! God can work in everyone's life differently but for me, God has blessed me in many different ways! For me, God has blessed me with different opportunities in life which are going to Gospel Singers of  America two years in a row, singing with my choir, and so many more that I can name!! God blessed me with a good man who is also my praying partner which I love so much! I feel blessed for what God has done for me and I am looking forward to see what God is going to do for me! For today's Bible Verse of the day, it is taken from 1 John 3:18 and it says "My little children, let us not love in word or in tongue, but in deed and in truth". I love this Bible Verse a lot because not only we need to love the word of God, but we need to speak it in truth and share it with the people around us! If we share God's word, people can be saved and we need to share God's word every where we go! It is important for kids to go to church because they could learn a lot! I love y'all and I pray everyone will have a good day or had a good day! Happy Wednesday or in other countries, Happy Thursday! Until next time, "Dream Big! Don't give up on your dreams" and let's share how amazing God's love is and how cool Jesus is today! I love y'all and I will see y'all on the next blog episode where I will be talking about what were my 3 roughest moments? Stay tuned! I love y'all! Peace! ☮️💜

Today's Bible Verse of the day!! I love this Bible Verse a lot because as children of God, not only we need to love the word of God, we need to speak the truth of God and share the word with people around us! 

This picture was taking in October of 2022!! Even though I am smiling, I am not happy! Smiles can hide a lot of things but I wasn't saved quite yet!! 

"God Will Be Your 
Shield. He Will 
Protect You From
Harm. In Him, You 
Are Always Safe". 
-Unknown! I love this quote so much because when we are in danger, God is there to protect us and keep us safe from anything that can and will harm us! Let God take care of you! 

This me today because I am happy where I am at today! I am happy where I am at today because God has blessed me in different ways that I can imagine! I am blessed to be where I am at today!! 

To end today's blog episode, I decided to added this song by: Ben Fuller and the song is called "Testimony". I have hope in Jesus and I also have hope in God as well! This song holds a special place in my heart and I will forever have hope in Jesus and God as well!! I will forever believe in them! I love y'all and have a blessed day!! 

Blog: What 3 lessons did I learn from this year? blog by: Brandee Marie Darden!! Date: Monday, 11/4/24!!

                                          ❤ Blog: What 3 lessons did I learn from this year? blog by: Brandee Marie Darden!! Date: Monday, 11/4/24!! This blog is dedicated to anyone who has grown a lot this year and realized that they don't need the wrong people in their life!! ❤ 

Intro to my blog! 

Well, hello my Blogger Dreamers! It's your girl aka the Blogger Queen herself, Brandee here and welcome back to an all new weekly blog episode for today! How are y'all doing today? I hope and pray that everyone is doing okay and well! Whatever y'all are going through or whatever got you in the dumps, just know that everything will be okay because God will take care of it and he will never let you down!! You are loved by so many people and I love you with every ounce of my heart! Always remember that! Happy Monday or in other countries, Happy Tuesday! Before I get into today's blog episode and also talk about this week's blog episodes, here is a blog recap from last week! Last week on my 2nd blog page, on Monday, I talked about the song "Life with you" by: Kelsey Hart, blog by: Brandee Marie Darden which was also the song of the week! When I think about this song, I think about my boyfriend because his presence has completed my life and without him, I don't know where I would be without him! We complete each other and I love that a lot! On Wednesday, I talked about my poem "Storm before the calm". Before it gets calm, the chaos comes and it begins to storm but that's okay, because God is going to take care of it and he is going to help you through it, no matter what! God will put you through these storms and he will help you through it! Trust in God! On Friday, I celebrated me and my boyfriend's two year anniversary! To think that we celebrated two years dating each other is unbelievable but I am so incredibly happy! He makes me so happy and so loved! I feel like God put him in my life for a reason and I am so glad that he did! If y'all haven't read these blogs and would love to check them out, link right here: → 2nd blog page! 🩷🩵💜 Please, go check them out whenever y'all can! Please! Thank you all so much!! On this week's blog page, I will be talking about what 3 lessons did I learn from this year, my testimony about how I got save, and what were my 3 roughest moments? Stay tuned for an all new blogs for this week and without any further ado, let's get our blogging thinking caps on and get this blog episode started! Shall we? We shall! 

Talking about today's blog episode! Why did I choose to talk about today's blog episode for today? What is this week's song of the week? Why did I choose this song for the week? 

For today's blog episode, I chose to talk about what 3 lessons did I learn from this year? This blog is dedicated to anyone who has grown a lot this year and realized that they don't need the wrong people in their life! In this blog episode, I will be talking about if I could pick 3 lessons that I learn from this year, what would those lessons be? Why would I pick those lessons from this year? Out of those lessons, which one did I learn the most? Why would I pick that lesson from this year that I learned the most? What is the significance behind each lesson? Why are those lessons significant? Why did I choose to talk about today's blog episode for today? The reason why I choose this blog episode is because I feel like this year has taught me this year and I am so happy that it taught me a lot and I love that I saw people's true colors this year as well!! What is this week's song of the week? The song that I choose for the week is "Last Page Of The Bible" by: Matthew West, ft. Anne Wilson! This song is so good and every time I listen to this song, I think about Revelation! Why did I choose this song for the week? The reason why I choose this song of the week is because every time I listen to this song, I think about the book of Revelation because it is the last chapter in the Bible and I love this song a lot!! 

My growth from this year! Why did I grown this year? 

How much did I grown from this year? I feel like I have grown a lot this year! I feel like I have been reading more this year than I have ever done and I feel like I have become confident within myself! I feel like I have grown a lot from this year than I did last year!! To see my growth from this year to last year is unbelievable and I can't wait to see the growth in the upcoming year!! Why did I grown this year? The reason why I grown this year is because I feel like it is important to grow if it is spiritually or mentally! I am starting to let people go and that is important for my mental health! I don't need to hold onto people who is going to bring me down and not make me feel like I am not good enough! I don't need that in my life and I am willing to let go of everyone who hasn't make time for me!! I don't need that in my life!

3 lessons that I learn from this year! 

If I could pick 3 lessons that I learn from this year, what would those lessons be? The 1st lesson that I learned from this year is know who is really there for me! I realized who is there for me and who isn't and that opened my eyes a lot this year!! I am starting to really realize that I have people who care for me and who doesn't and I don't care who doesn't care for me! All I care about who actually cares for me and that's important! The 2nd lesson that I learned from this year is my true friends! I am starting to realize who are my true friends! I am starting to think to myself who are my true friends and I am so blessed to have true friends who are in my corner and who is there for me!! The 3rd and final lesson that I learned that I learned from this year is people accepting me for who I am! Having people accepting me for who I am can either break me or I can handle it! If people can't accept me for me, then that's their problem and it might hurt me but that's reality! I think ever since I got saved, people started to get away from me which hurts but I started to realize that if people can't accept me for who I am, that's people's problem, not mine!! 

Why?

Why would I pick those lessons from this year? The reason why I picked the 1st lesson is because I am starting to realize who is in my corner and who isn't and that is my reality! The ones who reach out to me are the people who I care about me but the ones who don't bother reaching out to me, they never cared about me which hurts but that's my reality!! I have accepted for a long time who is really there for me and who isn't!! The 2nd reason why that I learned that lesson from this year is because true friends are the people who are there for you and be there for you, no matter what! True friends are the people who love you for who you are! I am so blessed to have true friends who are in my corner and who love me for who I am!! One of my true friends is my boyfriend!! I feel blessed to have a good boyfriend and best friend!! The 3rd and final reason why I picked the 3rd lesson is because when I got saved, I had people stop reaching out to me and stop being there for me and to be honest with y'all, it hurt me so much but I think God had a reason for those people to stop being there for me and I am going to respect God and let him lead the way!! If people can't accept me for who I am, then that's their fault, not mine!! I have accepted people who accept me for who I am and who doesn't!! 

The lesson that I learned this year the most!! 

Out of those lessons, which one did I lean the most? Out of those lessons, the lesson that I learned the most is my true friends! I started to realize that my circle is starting to get smaller and I am starting to really realize that I only have a few true friends but in honesty, I am totally okay with that! I rather have a small group friends than having fake friends who don't care about me at all! I know who is my true friends and who isn't! I know who is there for me and who isn't!! I know who cares about me and who isn't! I am okay with that! I am not afraid to admit that I am okay with having a few friends! I rather have a few friends than having a lot of fake friends who say they "care" about me but don't show up for me!! 

Why?

Why would I pick that lesson from this year that I learned the most? The reason why I would pick that lesson from this year that I learned the most, this year, I feel like I had to block people left and right because they didn't care about my mental health or they didn't care at all! I had to do what is right for me! I had people stop talking and caring about me! The only reason why they wanted to talk to me is because I was always there for them and it hurts to know that the only time they need is when they need something not to check on me which hurts but people are fake and that's fine! I don't need people to be my friend and then, turns around to be fake to me! No! I need true friends who love me and care about me! I don't need a friend who is going to stop caring about me and loving me and then, turns around and say "I need you"! No! I don't need that!! 

The significance!! 

What is the significance behind each lesson? The significance behind the 1st lesson is throughout my life, I had people tell me that they were always there for me no matter what but this year, I had people leave me when I need them the most but the ones who have stayed by my side and hasn't given up on me, I am truly blessed for!! I am blessed to know who is there for me and who isn't!! The significance behind the 2nd lesson is I am okay with having a few true friends than having fake friends who is going to be there for me and who isn't there for me! I am okay with having a few true friends! That doesn't bother me and I am okay with that! The significance behind the 3rd lesson is I had people show me true colors when it comes to accepting me and that hurts! If people can't accept me for who I am, that's their problem! I don't have a problem being who I am because the person who I am, I love things about me that I didn't love about me before and I am okay with that!! If you can't accept people for who they are, I think that's a problem! Don't judge others because that's wrong!! Don't judge me because I am proud of where I am at today!!

Why? 

Why are those lessons significant? The 1st reason why the 1st lesson is so significant is because this year, I started to realize who is actually there for me and who isn't which is incredibly sad but it's the truth! I know that I have people who truly care about me and I appreciate those people who have been there for me and I can't thank God enough for sending me the right people in my life!! The 2nd reason why the 2nd lesson is so significant is because is having a few true friends is better than having fake friends who don't care about you but care about having you in their life! I am okay with having a few true friends than not having a lot! If people don't want to care about me, than that's fine! I don't care!! I don't care if I 1 or even 5 true friends! I don't care! That doesn't bother me!! The 3rd and final reason why the 3rd lesson is so significant is because I am starting to see who truly accepts me for who I am and who doesn't and I am okay with that! I am okay if people don't care about who I am or not and I am going to live my life and they can live their life! I am going to live my life in a Godly manner and whatever what God wants me to do and God doesn't want me to do those things, I won't do it!! I am going to live my life the way God wants me to!! 

In closing/ Questions of the day?  

In closing, this year was an eye opener for me! I learned a lot this year! I learned a lot this year and one of those things was people accepting me for who I am! I had people leave me because they couldn't accept the fact that I read my Bible and I pray over my food at times! I had people not accepting me but I am totally okay with that! I am that girly who wants to get into some pajamas and read her Bible than go out to a party or to a club and drink alcohol! People might think I am weird because I rather go to church than anything! I look forward to Sunday morning, Sunday evening, and Wednesday evening to go to church! I am okay with being different from 26 year old people who are around my age! I am okay with being different! I am okay with having a few true friends!! I am okay with the lessons that I learned from this year! I am not scared of being who I am or accepting the fact people accept me for who I am or who doesn't! That doesn't bother me! I love me and my boyfriend loves me as well and so does his family!! If you have an opinion about me, back off bucko because if it's an opinion, I only want to hear it from God! Here is my question of the day: my questions of the day is What 3 lessons did y'all learn from this year? Why did y'all learn those lessons from this year? Sound off in the comments down below and let me know! I would love to read and respond y'all's comments! Please! Thank you all so much!! 

Well, hello my wonderful Blogger Dreamers! It's your girl aka the Blogger Queen herself, Brandee here to remind everyone that y'all just reached the end of today's blog episode for today! The moral of this blog episode is this year was an eye opener and it opened my eyes a lot this year! I started to realize who is there for me, who are my true friends, and people accepting me for who I am! I am okay with people accepting me for who I am or not! I don't care! I am proud of who I am and I love who I am! I am not afraid to be who I am!! I love who I am and I am not afraid to tell the whole world that I am not scared to be me! I am not scared to be me and y'all shouldn't either!! For today's Bible Verse of the day, it is taken from Psalms 126:5 and it says "Those who sow in tears Shall reap in joy". I love this Bible Verse of the day a lot because when you do something for the Lord, you should rejoice! When you do something for the Lord, you should cry for joy! Praise the Lord's name!! I love y'all and have a good Monday or in other countries, a good Tuesday! Until next time "Dream Big! Don't give up on your dreams"! I will see y'all on Wednesday where I will be talking about my testimony about how I got saved? Stay tuned and let's show how God's love is so amazing and show how cool Jesus is today! I love y'all and this Blogger Queen is out! Peace!! ☮️✌️🩷😊

Today's Bible Verse of the day! I absolutely love this Bible Verse so much because when you do something for the Lord, you should rejoice and have joy in what you love doing for the Lord! What you are doing for the Lord should bring you joy and happiness!

"I love being around
positive people.
You're not judged
there's no drama, 
everyone just wants to 
relax and have a 
nice time". 
-Unknown! I love this quote so much because it feels good to be around people who are positive and they don't care about your drama or you are not judged by them which is the best feeling in the world! You get to have a nice time to relax!! 

"One Of The Most
Beautiful Qualities Of 
True Friendship Is
To Understand And 
Be Understood". 
-Lucius Annaeus Seneca. I couldn't agree with this quote more because a true friendship is to understand and be understood and that is important!! You need someone to understand you but you need to understand them and that's important!! 

"You have
to accept 
people for
who they are
not for who
you want
them to be". 
-Unknown! I love this quote so much because you need to accept people for who they are! You don't have to accept their life style but just accept them for who they are!!

To end today's blog episode for the day, here is this week's song of the week! I chose "Last Page Of The Bible" by: Matthew West, ft Anne Wilson! This is such an amazing song and it holds a lot of meaning to me!! Such a good song!! I love y'all!