Friday, December 19, 2025

Blog: What is the holidays all about? blog by: Brandee Marie Darden! Date of blog: Friday, 12.19.25!!

                                        ❄️Blog: What is the holidays all about? Blog by: Brandee Marie Darden! Date of blog: Friday, 12.19.25!! This blog episode is dedicated to anyone who is struggling this holiday season! This blog episode is for y'all! ❄️ 

Intro to my blog!! 

Well, hello my Blogger Dreamers! It's your girl aka the Blogger Queen herself, Brandee here and welcome back to an all new blog episode for the day! How are y'all doing today? I hope and pray that everyone is doing okay and well! Whatever y'all are going through, I'm here for y'all always! Before I do a blog recap or talk about today's blog episode, I want to remind everyone that I will be taking a two week break for Christmas and News Years! I just want to let everyone know but I will be coming back! I will not leave y'all hanging!! I love y'all! On Wednesday's blog episode, I talked about my poem "Don't". When I say "Don't let people come your life and then leave you high and dry", what comes to mind? When I think about that sentence, I think what comes to mind is people are going to leave you and never come back!! People are going to leave you hanging and not care about what you do!! Want to know more about this blog episode? Well, please go check it out right here: →My poem "Don't". ←Link right here!! For today's blog episode, I will be talking about What is the holidays all about? This blog episode is dedicated to anyone who is struggling this holiday season! This blog episode is for y'all! In this blog episode, I will be talking about what is the true meaning of the holidays? Why is that the true meaning of the holidays? What does the holidays mean to me? Why does the holidays mean to me like that? What is my advice to my Blogger Dreamers who are struggling this holiday season? Why is that my advice? Without further ado, let's get this blog episode started! Shall we? We shall! 

What do I always look forward to the holiday season? Why do I look forward to the holiday season? 

What do I always look forward to the holiday season? What I look forward to the holiday season is spending time with family! To me, when I spend time with family, my heart is so warm and fuzzy inside! My family means so much to me! Being around people who mean so much to me makes me the happiest person in the world! Why do I look forward to the holiday season? The reason why I look forward to spending time with family during the holiday season is because that is what the holiday season should be about! It shouldn't be about the Christmas gifts or what we don't have but the family we do have! That is what that counts!! 

The true meaning of the holidays! 

What is the true meaning of the holidays? The true meaning of the holidays is about spending time with the people that you absolutely love!! It's not about what you have under the Christmas tree or what you have around you! It's truly about the people who you have around you! When you spend time with the people that you love, it should bring you a ton of smiles and make your heart flutter! When you don't have those people around you during the holiday season, it can be difficult at times! The holidays can be hard on people at times!! 

Why?

Why is that the true meaning of the holidays? The reason why the true meaning of the holidays is about spending time with the people that you absolutely love is because it is not about what is underneath the Christmas tree or what you don't have, it is about who is around you! Having friends or even family is the most important people in the world! It is okay to have things but nothing can't replace family or friends than people who actually love and care about you!! Having those people who love you during the holiday season is the most important thing in the world! There are people out there who don't have friends or family during the holiday season and my heart breaks for them so much!! If you don't have friends or family during the holiday season, I'm here!! 

mean to me?

What does the holidays mean to me? If I could describe what the holidays mean to me, I would describe it as loving and heartfelt! For me, I love the holidays! I love being around people who truly mean a lot to me! When I am around people who love me for me and who has been there for me all year round, it truly means a lot to me! It showed me that those people will be there for me always and to me, as time goes by each year, I always appreciate the things that I do have! I will always appreciate the things that I have! I'm blessed to have the things that I have and I am blessed to be around people who love me during the holiday season! 

Why?

Why does the holidays mean to me like that? The reason why the holidays mean to me as loving and heartfelt is because as time has gone by, you start to appreciate the things that you do have and you appreciate the people who are around because once those people are gone, all you have left is their memory and that can be difficult at times but always remember that those people are always looking down on you and for me, I will always remember those people who have passed on and be with the Lord! I will always remember that whatever I don't get on my Christmas wish list, there is always next year and appreciate the things that I have!! You always want to appreciate the things that you do have because that's important! There are people who don't have a lot of food! We need to learn to be appreciative!! 

My advice! 

What is my advice to my Blogger Dreamers who are struggling this holiday season? To my Blogger Dreamers who are struggling this holiday season, my advice is everything will be okay! Take it a day at a time! I know things aren't easy at the moment, but just know that everything will be okay! Everything happens for a reason and everything will be okay! Give it to God! He hears everything! He knows everything and he knows every tear!! I know dealing with a loved one who has gone before us or financial things isn't easy, but everything will be alright! Take it one step at a time!! 

Why?

Why is that my advice? The reason why I would give that advice to my Blogger Dreamers is because I know losing a loved one or money is tight this year isn't the easiest thing to deal with especially during the holiday season, but if you give it to God and let God take care of it, he will! Trust that God will take care of it! Be around people who love you and who don't expect a lot from you because those are the people who are willing to stick around for a long time!! During the holiday season can be tough but God has this! Remember that!! 

In closing/ Tip of the day!! 

In closing, the holidays isn't about what is underneath the Christmas tree or who isn't around but the holidays is about being around people who love you for you and who will be there for you at the end! It is about what you do have, not what you don't have! There are spoil brats who get whatever they want because their parents cave in and beg for it! A lot of people aren't thankful for what they have and they want the next best thing whether it is a new iPhone or the most expensive laptop! The gifts aren't important! Look around what is the most important thing to you! That should be the people that you love, not the things that you have! Here is my tip of the day: My tip of the day is be thankful for what you have because those things will be gone in a flash or those people can be gone as well! Be thankful! I love y'all and enjoy the holidays! 

Well, my Blogger Dreamers- y'all have reached the end of today's blog episode for the day! The moral of this blog episode is the holidays is not about what you have, it is about the people who you adore so much! I know that I am surrounded by people who do love and care about me! I know that I am appreciative for what I have! I will always be thankful for what I have because I know that nothing can't replace my dad or my bonus mom or people who care about me the most! I don't care about the materialistic things in life! I care about the people who love me! I care about if they are happy or not! I want the ones love me and care about me to be happy! That is what I want this holiday season! If anyone that is not happy, then I am not happy! For today's Bible Verse of the day, it is taken from 2 Samuel 22:33 and it says "God is my strength and power: and he maketh my way perfect". God will make a way for you! If you believe that God is your strength and power, he will make a way for you! Believe in that!! I love y'all and enjoy the holidays! See y'all next year on Monday, January 5th, 2026 where on my 2nd blog page, I will be talking about What am I looking forward to 2026, how do I want to grow in 2026, and analyzing my poem "Healing now". Stay tuned and just know that I love you and that Jesus loves you as well!! Always remember to "Dream Big! Don't give up on your dreams" and always share God's love and share how cool Jesus is today and let's remember to love like Jesus, not just today but everyday! I love y'all and blogger queen is out! Time to relax and enjoy the holidays! I love y'all! ❄️🤍❄️🤍❄️🤍❄️🤍❄️🤍❄️🤍❄️🤍❄️🤍❄️🤍❄️🤍

Today's Bible Verse of the day from 2 Samuel 22:33!! God will always make a way!! Let him lead you on the right path! He will give you the strength and power! Just believe in God!! 


"Holidays are not always 
festive. Some people's 
hardest days happen when 
everyone else is smiling". 
-Unknown. The holidays should be festive but there are people who are hiding behind fake smiles because they are dealing with that and that they are struggling with a lot!! Help those people this holiday season!! 


"The older I get, the more 
I understand that I don't 
need other people's permission 
to celebrate the holidays
in a way that makes me 
and my family happy. 
I choose joy". 
-Zina Harrington. When you have your own kids and family, you choose how to celebrate the holidays and if that makes your family happy, then you should be happy about it! Make your family happy and choose joy!! 


"Slow down, 
soak it in, 
and let the 
magic of the 
season remind you 
how far you've come". 
-unknown. Let the season of the holidays remind you what the true meaning of the holidays are! The holidays aren't about what you have, but watching your family come together for the holidays, that is the true meaning of the holidays!! 


To end today's blog episode for the day, here is this week's song of the week which is "Carry me" by: Anne Wilson! You wonder sometimes you are there carrying others on your back but you wonder, who is carrying you on your back and God is carrying you! God is there to protect you! I love y'all and so does Jesus and have a good holiday season and see y'all next year with all new blog episodes! Stay tuned!! 🩵🩵🩵🩵🩵🩵



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