My bullying story, why people bully me, how I overcame it, and where I am today!!

      Hey everyone!! It's your girl, Brandee back again!! I hope everyone had an amazing weekend and stay safe. I know I had an amazing weekend. For today's topic, I am going to talk about my bullying story and how I overcame it. To me, bullying is not okay. It is not nice to pick on people and bullying people. Being bullied is the worst thing ever. Being bullied face to face, online, or behind is the worst things ever. I have been bullied behind my back and bullied online. That is the worst thing ever. People would bully me because I was over weight and that hurt me so much. It brought my self esteem down and my self confidence. 

Why people bully me? 

People are so cruel when it comes to anything especially when it comes to bullying. When people were bullying me, it hurt me to the core. When I was in school, people would bully me behind my back. They were calling me and family fat and stuff like that. Stuff like that hurt me so much that I would come home crying everyday. The reason why people bully me is because I was overweight and someone call me the b word.  People can hurt other people with words and words can hurt other people. Words can leave such a mark on people that the person who is bullying the person doesn't see that it is hurt them. They don't know the impact that words can hurt and they can leave a scare on them. Getting bullied or made fun of hurts a lot. My self esteem and self confidence was boosted down because I was being judged for being overweight hurt me a lot, but at the end of the day I know that I am beautiful and there is no shame of being who I am as a person.

How I overcame it?

The way I overcame me of being bullied is when I was a junior in high school, I started to cry in my dad's car. The reason why I started to cry in my dad's car is because that day someone call me the b word and honestly, I was hurt. When I started to cry, I told my dad what was wrong and my mom and my dad went to the principal's office and after dealing with the hurt for so long, it finally stop. I was so happy when the nagging finally stopped. The way I overcame it is by being who I am and not having to deal with anger that I had to deal with. Going to school and getting hurt was the worst thing ever and the way I got over it was by just being who I am as a person and not being afraid of who I was anymore. You will you get strong when you don't have to worry about the hurt anymore. When you don't have to feel hurt anymore, that is the best feeling ever. Overcoming the anger that I had to deal with made me realize people can be so judgmental a lot and they can say mean things when maybe they might be insecure about themselves or anything like that. You never know what that person is going through and never judge a book by it's cover.

Where I am today?

Where I am today is crazy!! I am a blogger and I am a lot stronger than I was before. Before I would take everyone's crap and now, I don't take anyone's crap anymore. I went through a lot and I got through it. I am a lot stronger and I am better than I was before. The person that I was before was a weak person but this new person is strong and confident. I will always be that person who went through a lot in her past but the forgetting the past is the best thing to do for yourself because if you forget the past, then you are good. Forgetting what hurt you the most will make you powerful!! I am happy about the person that I am today!!! I am a strong, independent woman who doesn't need a man to make her happy. I have a family and friends who love me for who I am. I have a dad and step mom who are very caring and loving. I am so blessed on how far I have come. I can't wait to see where the future takes me. Who knows, I might be the next author or I could have my own makeup products. Only time would tell!!!

In conclusion!

In conclusion, I may gotten hurt in the past but it makes me the person who I am today! The person that I am today is the best person ever!! This tough woman who I am today doesn't give up easily. This awesome woman never gives up trying and she always fights for what she believes in. Fighting for what I believe in doesn't make me weak, it makes me stronger and I will never give up because 'giving up' isn't in my vocabulary at all. I am who I am and I am never going to change for anyone because why bother? Like, seriously! Never change for anyone because it is not worth changing for anyone and be your own person.

Tip of the day!!!

Here is my tip of the day: Never change for anyone!! Make your own beauty rules. Follow your own rules. Be bold, be loud, and be you! Being who are is the best thing ever!! Never be afraid to be your own person. Never be to afraid to take risks!! Be fearless and never give up! No matter how hard life can get, there is people out there for you who love you and care about you so much. Never feel like you are alone because you're not. I love you for who you are as a person! Stay true to who you are!! 

I love y'all and stay true to who you are!! Never give up and fight for what you believe in and don't let those people bother you because they are not worth your time! I hope y'all enjoy this blog and don't forget to love yourself. See you at my next blog! Brandee is out! Peace! 

"Don't compare yourself to others"- Yoongi. 
I love this quote because never ever compare yourself to other people you are different from other people and you are special!! 

Seeing this picture makes me happy because I am actually confident and I love being who I am!!! 

"The words you say make bruises that NEVER fade away".
-M. Yoongi. I love this quote because words can make bruises that would never fade and they will remember it forever!!