Updating everyone and telling everyone what's going, why I haven't been blogging, and how am I doing mentally and physically??

     Hey everyone! It's your girl, Brandee Marie Darden back at the blogging desk. I hope everyone is doing well. I am doing okay. Just taking it a day at a time. When life gets rough, just remember that you are tougher and that you will get through it. Never give up!! Today, I am going to talk about some updates and telling everyone what's going on and how am I doing mentally and physically. So, y'all maybe wondering where have I been lately. 

Where have I been and what's going on?

Y'all maybe wondering, where the heck have I been? Well, last Monday I lost my uncle. My uncle passed away on June 21st, 2021. My world came crumbling down. I loved him so much. He was an amazing uncle, brother, dad, and a lot of great things to everyone in my family. For two days, I just cried and cried and cried. I didn't want to do anything and just lay in bed and cry. It sucked so bad. Loosing a loved one is so hard. It broke my heart when my dad started crying. From the moment that I found out that my uncle passed away, I hug my dad everyday. It is so hard to loose a love one. I will always remember my uncle and never forget him. He will always remember him in my heart forever and always. What's going on with me? Well, I am staying my strongest for my dad because I don't want him to see me sad. Honestly, it breaks my heart when my dad sees me sad or anyone in my family. I know that I am going to be okay and that I will be powerful. I know myself than anyone else. If I can get through anything, I know that I can.

Why I haven't been blogging?

Well, the reason why I haven't been blogging is because I have been taking a break from doing it. My reason why I haven't been typing is because when my uncle went to be with Jesus, my mind was clear and I couldn't think properly. My mind was blank and all I can think about is my uncle and my family. My heart at the time was killing me and hurting me that all I can think about was crying and not record my journal and not writing down ideas. It bugged me that I felt down on myself and my heart was breaking that I honestly didn't want to do anything at all. I will be back to start doing blogging again after my dentist appointment soon. I will be back before I know it and y'all know it. 

How am I doing mentally and physically?

Y'all maybe asking or thinking how am I doing? Well, to answer the question, mentally I am doing okay. Physically, I am just getting through this hard time. Yes, life can be hard at times but at the end of day, I will get through it whatever comes at my way. I don't give up easily and I keep fighting until I can't fight anymore. This death might have been hard on me, but life goes on and I know it's okay to be sad but I know that my uncle wouldn't want me sad and I know he would want me to be happy, so from this point forward, I will be happy and honestly, I need to be happy. I will be happy for my family and my friends. Yes, death is a hard and sad thing, but I know the people who went to heaven would want us to be happy not sad. 

In conclusion!

In conclusion, yes I went through a hard time last week and I am going through a hard time right now but at the end of the day, I have to be strong for everyone around me because I don't want them to see me weak. I will be okay and I will be powerful. There is no such thing as "I can't do it" in my vocabulary because that isn't who I am as a person. Being who I am is a tough and independent woman who can get through anything that gets in her way. If I can remember one thing that my dad that taught me, my dad taught to never give up and to never use the word "can't". My dad taught me to never give up on anything like for example, my dreams. I will never give up on my dreams and I will keep fighting for what I believe in as well. Another thing my dad taught me was never use the word "can't". I don't believe in the word can't because it feels like you are putting that into your brain and telling yourself that you can't do it but in reality, you can do it and that you have to believe in yourself no matter what. Always believe in what you do because you can come a long way! Believe me. I thought I couldn't do it but I did it and I believed in myself. 

Tip of the day!! 

Here is a tip of the day! If you are going through something rough and you feel like your world is crumbling and you want to give up, don't give up. Never ever give up and always keeping fighting for what you believe in. Always check on your friends and family because you don't know what they are going through and they might not be okay. Check on the people who you love because you never know when their last day is. Tell your family, friends, mom, dad, aunts, uncles, nieces, nephews, sisters, brothers, and other people who you love. Always love people around you and give them a hug because you never know when their last day is until it's too late. Once your too late, your too late so go love your love ones and tell them that you love them and hug them. 

Alright, your girl is out!!! I love y'all and everyone be careful. I hope everyone enjoy today's blog and I will see y'all when I come back officially. I love y'all and stay you! Never give up on your dreams and never change for anyone!!! Love y'all!! Peace!!!

"Self Love 
Isn't Selfish,
It's Important."
-Jeon Jungkook.
I love this quote because there would be times where you want you time and that's okay. If you are going through a hard time and you don't want to talk to someone, that's okay. You need to be selfish every once in a while. It doesn't hurt to give yourself self love. It is important to give yourself self love. You absolutely deserve it.  

"You're too young to let the world
break you"
-Kim Taehyung. I love this quote because something might go wrong in your life and you feel like giving up but you're too young to let the world break you. People can say mean things about you but you shouldn't let those things break you down. Never let those words break you.