Brandee & Aaron: Friendship to relationship. Blog by: Brandee Marie Darden.

                                           💙  Brandee & Aaron: Friendship to relationship. Blog by: Brandee Marie Darden. Date of blog: Friday, December 16th, 2022!! 💙 

Intro to my blog!! 

Hello, my Blogger Dreamers! It's your girl aka the Blogger Queen herself, it's Brandee here and welcome back to an all new weekly blog episode! First and furthermore, how's my Blogger Dreamers doing today? I hope everyone is doing well and amazing! If not, that's okay! Everything will be okay! Give it to God and everything will be okay! Happy Friday or in other countries, Happy Saturday! Before I forget, next week will be my final week of blogging for 2022! Don't freak out! It's not my last blogs! I will be back in January but I will remind everyone before I end the blog for next week! Now, let's do a recap of Wednesday's blog! On Wednesday, I talked about my poem "Heart of Gold". I remember at times I will put everyone before me and making sure everyone was okay! I remember when people say "I love your heart of gold". When people put me down, I never lost my shine to my heart of gold and I am so glad that I never lost my shine! Before I talk about today's blog episode, Happy birthday to the best boyfriend aka my number one supporter, Aaron! Happy birthday, baby! I love you more anything in this world! You are the best boyfriend ever! Happy birthday! For today's blog episode, it is all about me and my boyfriend, Aaron: friendship to relationship! In this blog episode, I will be talking about if I could describe our friendship from the beginning, how would I describe our friendship in the beginning? Why would I describe our friendship like that? Over time with the friendship, when did I get feelings for Aaron? Why did I get feelings for him? If I have any advice for people who are in a long distance relationship, what is my advice? Why would I give out that advice? Now, without any further ado, let's get this blog episode started! Shall we? We shall!! 

What makes Aaron different from other guys that I have talked to? Why is he so different? 

In my past relationships, I have talked to guys who I thought they love me or I thought they were going to be there for me in the long run, but at the end, I got hurt! I think what makes Aaron from different guys is that is so nice and so sweet! He is the type of person who will be there for you no matter what and he has been there for me! In 2020, I was going through a rough breakup and I wasn't sure if I wanted to talk to anymore guys just because I have been hurt so many times, but for some reason, Aaron was different! Aaron was different from other guys that I have talked to and I am so blessed that we became friends and started talking! At first, I wasn't sure about talking to him but now, I am actually glad that we started talking!! He is an amazing guy and I am so glad that we are now boyfriend and girlfriend! Why is he so different? I think the reason why he is so different from other guys that I have talked to is because when I ask him "can I have my alone time", he would gladly back off and gladly back off which with most guys, they will be like "I want to talk to you" or something like that, but I am so glad that Aaron is so different! To the girls who let him go, thank you so much because you don't know what you are missing because Aaron is the greatest guy in the world and he is awesome! To the guys who let me go, thank you because of you letting me go, I have the greatest guy in the world!! 

Describe our friendship in the beginning! Why would I describe our  friendship like that?

If I could describe our friendship from the beginning, how would I describe our friendship in the beginning? On September 6th, 2020, Aaron slid into my dms and started talking and we are starting have this friendship, which I thought this friendship was starting out really good! I think I would describe our friendship in three words as nice, caring, and amazing! We even have this friendship to this day!!! When we started having this friendship, I thought to myself "this guy is so nice. I don't understand why many girls like him". He has this caring personality where he would care about everyone else and put his feelings last. He is so amazing! Words cannot describe our friendship like those three words right there!! Why would I describe our friendship like that? The reason why I describe our friendship as nice is because he gave me this vibe where he had a nice demeanor to him which I don't find in a lot of guys because some guys are jerks but he gave me a good vibe which I like a lot!! The second reason why I would describe our friendship as caring because he is the most caring person that I have ever met in my entire life! He is the most selfless person that I know! When I would have my bad days for example, he never left alone which I thought it was nice and caring of him! When I told him to "leave me alone or go away", he didn't leave me which most guys would but Aaron is different! The third and final reason why I would describe our friendship as amazing is because he is the most amazing guy ever! When I will ask me time for myself, he would back away and give me that time alone which I find amazing because most guys would be like "do you really need that time alone" but with him, he doesn't ask questions and I am so grateful for that!! 

My feelings for Aaron! Why did I get feelings for him?

Over time with the friendship, when did I get feelings for Aaron? I noticed my feelings I believe this year actually!! When we were talking pretty much everyday, I noticed how much he was there for me and how much he cared for me! As time went on, I realized that my feelings for him were so strong that I couldn't ignore it anymore and on November 1st of this year, he became my boyfriend and honestly, that was the best thing that ever happened this year! This year was horrible but Aaron changed it for the world and I couldn't be anymore happy to be with the best guy in the world!! He is truly amazing and the most caring person in the world which I love in a guy! When I think about qualities in a guy, I think for me it would be truthful, caring, and honesty! With Aaron, he was honest with his feelings for me and I loved that! Why did I get feelings for him? The reason why I got feelings for him is because I thought he was different from other guys! I knew he wouldn't hurt me or treat me wrong! In my heart, I knew he was meant for me but I think I was just blocking it because I have been hurt so many times and I was afraid to get hurt again but I am thankful for Aaron because he is very different and I am thankful to have him as my boyfriend! 

My advice! Why would I give out that advice?

If I have any advice for people who are in a long distance relationship, what is my advice? If I have any advice for the people who are in a long distance relationship, just know that you will see your significant other again! Just because times get hard, doesn't mean you have to give up! Yes, long distance is hard but at the end of the day, just know that your partner loves you so much and I know my boyfriend loves me so much and we have this connection to the point where we can trust each other and to me, trust and communication are key to an long lasting relationship! I have never felt this happy until I met my boyfriend and now, I can say he is my best friend, my boyfriend, and my universe! If you are in a long distance relationship, just know that distance isn't for long but y'all have each that's important!! Why would I give out that advice? I think me giving out that advice is important is because there is a fine line between trust and not trusting at all but with my boyfriend, I completely trust him and he is always there for me no matter what happens in life! If I have a bad day, he would do anything to make sure that I am happy! He is my biggest supporter ever besides my sister, Brandy! At times, he will tell me good luck on my blogs and I love that about him! Just remember to have a communication with your partner because I think that is very important and communication is key!!!

In conclusion/ Tip of the day!! 

In conclusion, Happy birthday to the best boyfriend ever! I have the best boyfriend in the world! We started out as best friends and to this day, we are best friends and I am so glad that he is my best friend and my boyfriend! We might be in a long distance relationship, but we make it work! We literally make it work and I am so glad that he has been there for me through my ups and my downs! He has seen me cry and he knew that I had mental breakdowns before! He is the most understanding person in the world and I appreciate him more than anything in this world! I think the song that describes our relationship the best is "The Astronaut" by Jin. There is lines and it goes "When I'm with you 

There is no one else 

I get heaven to myself 

When I'm with you 

There is no one else 

I feel this way I've never felt" and these lines are so accurate because when I am talking to my boyfriend, time stops and I am in a different universe. I am so happy to have my best friend and my boyfriend in my life! The best relationships start out as friends and I am so glad that me and my boyfriend can be best friends and my boyfriend!! My only tip of the day is be open with your significant other rather y'all in a long distance relationship or you have your partner close by! Just be open with each other and talk to each about you are feeling and stuff like that! Be open with one another!! 

Alright, my Blogger Dreamers!! It's your girl aka the Blogger Queen, Brandee here to remind y'all that y'all have reached the end of today's blog episode! I hope y'all enjoyed today's blog episode and learning about me and Aaron's friendship to relationship! I have always wanted to talk about something like this and I am so happy that I did! I was going through a hard breakup with my ex boyfriend at the time and looking back, I am so glad that my current boyfriend was there for me through the hardest time in my life! We would talk a little bit each day but now, we basically talk everyday and I am so glad we do! He is awesome and I wouldn't change nothing about him! For today's quote of the day, it goes like this: "Stop trying to calm the storm. Calm yourself, the storm will pass". -Timber Hawkeye. I love this quote a lot because you might be going through a lot and that's fine! You need to calm yourself down and make sure that you're fine! Always calm yourself down when you are having a bad day! I love y'all and Happy birthday to the best boyfriend in the world! Don't forget our slogan: "Dream big! Don't give up on your dreams". Happy Friday or in other countries, Happy Saturday! Please, stay safe and stay warm! I will see y'all on my second blog for the last blogs until 2023! I love y'all and this Blogger Queen is out! Peace!! ✌💙

Today's quote of the day! It is such an amazing quote and I love it a lot!! 

An edit that I did for me and my boyfriend! The best thing that has ever happened to me! I love you, baby!! 

"You are the love that came 
without warning; 
You had my heart before I 
could say no".
-Unknown. I love this quote because his love came without warning and he had my heart before I could say no and I am so glad he captured my heart!! 

"Distance means 
nothing when someone 
means everything". 
-Unknown. To me, distance means absolutely nothing because my boyfriend means everything to me! He is the best thing that he ever happened to me!

To end today's blog episode, for this week's song of the week: it is "The Astronaut" by Jin from BTS. Every time I listen to this song, I automatically think of my boyfriend because when I talk to him, I am in a different world and I am so glad that I found someone who makes me happy!!! 

Analyzing my poem "Heart of Gold" by: Brandee Darden!

                                          💛  Analyzing my poem "Heart of Gold" by: Brandee Darden. Date of blog: Wednesday, December 14th, 2022!! 💛 

Intro to my blog!! 

Hello, my Blogger Dreamers! Welcome back to an all new weekly blog episode! It's your girl aka the Blogger Queen herself, Brandee here! Happy Wednesday or in other countries, Happy Thursday!! How's my fandom doing today? I hope everyone is doing well and amazing!! If not, that's okay! Everything will be okay! Before I talk about today's blog episode, I am going to talk about Monday's blog episode! On Monday, I talked about my poem "When people show their true colors". This year, I had people who I thought I could trust but they showed who they really are and showed me why they are who they are which stinks because I thought I could trust them but I obviously can't. When people show who they really are, it is hard because they changed or you just don't know them anymore which is hard! Now for today's blog episode, I will be talking about my poem "Heart of Gold". In this blog episode, I will be talking about when I think about someone who has a heart of gold, what does it make me think of? Why does it made me think of that thing? What makes my heart made of gold? Why are these things make my heart out of gold? When I say "Having that heart of gold makes you different from other people", what do I mean by that? Why do I mean by that? If I have any advice about protecting your heart, what is my advice? Why would I give out that advice? Now, without any further ado, let's get started! Shall we? We shall!! 

Talking about my poem! What is the meaning behind my poem? Why is there meaning behind my poem? 

On Tuesday, October 11th of this year, I wrote a poem called "Heart of Gold" by me aka Brandee Darden. This poem is actually based on a true story! All of my life throughout school or through my friends or family, I was always told that I had a heart of gold which I kindly take that as a compliment! This is how my poem goes: "Heart of Gold" by Brandee Darden. "When someone tells 

you that you have a heart of 

gold, that means you care about 

a lot of people! You put others 

before you! You aren't selfish 

like other people! Having that heart 

of gold makes you different 

from other people! It shows that 

you care about a lot of people! 

That heart of gold though has 

been stabbed and torn but it 

hasn't lost its shine because 

you are a fighter and fighter 

never lose! Keep your Heart of 

Gold protected because it deserved 

to be protected"! 

-Love, 

Brandee Darden.

Poem written on Tuesday, October 11th, 2022. I love this poem so much! This heart of gold has been torn, ripped to shreds, stabbed, and betrayed but my heart of gold never lost its shine and I am so glad that it didn't lost its shine! What is the meaning behind this poem? The meaning behind this poem is when you have a heart of gold, you do whatever it takes to protect it and to make sure to keep that shine still bright! When you have been heart broken over and over again, you still want to make sure that the person that you love is okay and not hurt! You always want to keep the heart shinning and you always want to make sure that the person who love and care for loves you back! Why is there meaning behind my poem? The reason why there is meaning behind my poem is because I wrote this poem based on a true story! I have been heart broken so many times but did my heart lost its shine? No, it didn't because I kept going and I am happy that my heart hasn't lost its shine yet!! 

When someone who has a heart of gold! Why does it made me think of that thing?

When I think about someone who has a heart of gold, what does it make me think of? When I think about someone who has a heart of gold, I think about when they put their feelings last and help people with anything that they need or they support someone who needs their help! A person who isn't selfish and it is there for someone who needs their help! Why does it made me think of that thing? The reason why it made me think of that thing is because there is a lot of people in my head who aren't selfish and is there for me when I need someone those people in my opinion have a heart of gold! BTS, in my opinion has a heart of gold because of how much they care about their fans! BTS is the less selfish people that I can think of! They always tell their fans to stay warm and I love that! They care about their fans so much and I am proud to be an BTS ARMY! 

My heart of gold! Why are these things make my heart out of gold? 

What makes my heart made of gold? When it comes to me and my heart of gold, I think the three things that made my heart of gold is that the first thing is I am less selfish than other people! The second thing that makes my heart of gold is that I will be there for other people but when I need people, they aren't there for me which is fine! The third and final thing that makes my heart of gold is that I try to help people the best way that I can! The way I can elaborate on the third thing is I try to give out the best advice that I can. I try to help in anyway that I can and make sure that I can make other people happy! All I want is to help people in the best way that I can!! Why are these things make my heart out of gold? I think the reason why these things make my heart of gold is because I tend to always put people before me and make sure they are fine! I always want to check on people and make sure they aren't sad because I don't like when people are sad and it breaks my heart! I want people to be happy, not sad!! 

A line from my poem! Why do I mean by that? 

When I say "Having that heart of gold makes you different from other people", what do I mean by that? What I meant by that is you are a less selfish person vs there are a lot of people who are selfish and who are mean to other people! You are nice to people when they need help and you try to help them in the best way that you can! You aren't so quick to judge and other people can be so quick to judge! It's okay to be different and it is okay to be there for people who needs help! Why do I mean by that? The reason why I mean by that is because there is a lot of people who are very judgmental and very selfish, but there not a lot of people who aren't judgmental and selfish! I am not that type of person who doesn't judge so quickly! I will listen and then, give the  person some advice to my best of ability! I want the person to know how can I help them when they need help! I want people to know they are never alone including my friends and family! I want them to know that I am not that type of a person who doesn't judge other people!! I want them feel loved by me, not hate!

My advice! Why would I give out that advice? 

If I have any advice about protecting your heart, what is my advice? If I have any advice about protecting your heart, my advice is if you know that person is going to be toxic in your life and might stab you in the heart, cut them out of your life or guard your heart at all cost! Always have your guard up and be careful who you talk to or who you can trust because I am learning from experience that there are people out there who will stab you in the heart! Guard your heart at all cost and be careful who you hang out with as well! Why would I give out that advice? The reason why I would give out advice is because over time, I knew who were my real friends vs who were my fake friends! I also knew who were my real family vs fake family which is sad because you shouldn't have real family vs fake family and unfortunately, I do and it hurts me a lot more than anything! I love my family but unfortunately, I have fake family who don't love me and it hurts me to the core! I would do anything for my family but they wouldn't do anything for me or even talk to me and it hurts but my heart hasn't lost its shine and I am praying it doesn't loose its shine soon!! 

In conclusion/ Tip of the day/ Question of the day? 

In conclusion, never loose your shine to your heart of gold because that makes you who you are as person! You are going to have people who bring you down or call you things that will hurt you, but never let those things bring you down! I know people can be mean or judgmental, but don't listen to them! They aren't worth it! You have this heart of gold where it shines through and you glow! I have this heart of gold and people tend to hurt me at times, but it doesn't mean that I am going to loose that shine  to my heart of gold because they hurt me! I am going to let my brightness shine through and I am not going to give up! Here is my tip and question of the day!? My tip of the day is don't loose your shine regardless of you getting hurt! There is a shine through you and you must never lose it! That makes you who you are and please, don't loose it! My question of the day is what three things make your heart of gold? Why does those three things make your heart of gold? Comment down below and let me know! Please! Thank you so much! I love y'all! 

Alright, my Blogger Dreamers!! It's your blogger queen to remind y'all that y'all have reached the end of today's blog episode! I hope y'all enjoyed today's blog episode! Remember, your shine shines through your heart and please, whatever y'all do please don't loose that shine! That makes you who you are as a person! If any of my Blogger Dreamers is going through a hard time right now, just know you are NEVER ALONE IN THIS FIGHT!! I am here for you and I am in your corner and I won't give up on y'all! Now, for today's quote of the day, it goes something like this: "Be soft. Do not let the world make you hard. Do not let pain make you hate. Do not let the bitterness steal your sweetness". -Unknown. I love this quote so much because be soft to the people who are nice to you! Don't let the world change you into a cold person! Don't let your pain hate someone because someone left you pain doesn't that you have to hate on them! You are sweet and don't bitterness eat you up and steal your sweetness from you! You got this! I believe in y'all! I love my Blogger Dreamers so much! Please, don't forget our slogan: "Dream big! Don't give up on your dreams". I love y'all and I will see y'all on Friday where I will be talking about Brandee and Aaron: Friendship to Relationship! Happy Wednesday or in other countries, Happy Thursday! This Blogger Queen is out! Peace!! ✌💛

Today's quote of the day! I love this quote so much!!! Such a good quote!! 

My poem about "Heart of Gold". I love this poem so much! It is so hard to pick a favorite poem because all of my poems are so good but I think this like in my top 10 favorite poems! I love this poem so much!! 

"It's that 
heart of gold, 
and stardust soul 
that make you 
beautiful". 
-R. M. Broderick. I love this quote so much when you have a heart of gold and a little bit of stardust in your soul, it makes you shine through and it makes you who you are as a person!!! 

"When you have a heart of gold 
and pure intentions, 
you don't lose anyone they lose you".
- @Pammy_DS. I love this quote so much because the people who you thought you could trust but you can't. They lost you! You didn't lose them!! 

Analyzing my poem "When people show their true colors". By: Brandee Darden.

                                           Analyzing my poem "When people show their true colors". By: Brandee Darden. Blog date: Monday, December 12th, 2022!! 

Intro to my blog!!! 

Hello, my Blogger Dreamers!! Welcome back to an all new weekly blog episode! It's your girl aka the Blogger Queen herself, Brandee here! I am so happy to have y'all on a new blog episode for today! I hope everyone had an amazing weekend and I hope y'all stayed safe! Happy Monday or in other countries, Happy Tuesday! How's my fandom doing today? I hope everyone is doing well and amazing! If not, that's okay! Everything will be okay! Before I jump into this week's blog episodes, I will be doing a recap on last week's blogs! On Monday on my makeup and fashion blog page, I talked about outfits that I would wear for the winter! The outfits that I picked out for the winter are absolutely amazing and gorgeous!! I love each outfit because it has its own vibe and I love the outfits so much!! On Wednesday, I talked about the makeup looks to go with my three winter outfits! When I was picking out the makeup looks for my outfits, I wanted to pick out something that I would match each makeup look and I wanted to match or try to match the vibe of my outfit and stuff like that! On Friday, I talked about Jin's outfits for his song "The Astronaut". I love the outfit where he was giving me rockstar vibes which I love so much! He looked like a rockstar in the outfit which I love a lot! I love the other outfits a lot as well but the outfit that he wore was giving me rockstar vibes which I love so much!! Now, for this week's blogs, I will be talking about my poems "When people show their true colors" and "Heart of Gold" and a special blog on Friday about Brandee and Aaron: Friendship to Relationship. Stay tuned for those blog episodes! I am so excited! Now, without any further ado, let's get started! Shall we? We shall!! 

Talking about today's blog episode! Why did I choose to talk about today's blog episode? What is the song of the week? Why did I choose that song for the week? 

In today's blog episode, I will be analyzing my poem "When people show their true colors" by Brandee Darden aka me! I will be talking about what is this poem all about? Why did I write this poem about? When I think about someone like a friend or an ex boyfriend who shows their true colors, how does that make me feel? Why does it make me feel this type of way? What is the significance behind this poem? Why is it so significant? If someone isn't being a true friend and they are showing who they really are, what is my advice? Why would I give out that advice? Why did I choose to talk about today's blog episode? I decided to talk about today's blog episode because people who you thought that your  "friends" with but deep down inside, they are really not your friend because they are showing their true colors by not being there for you or they lied to you! People who show their true colors aren't the ones who you should trust! What is the song of the week? For this week's song of the week, I chose "The Astronaut" by Jin from BTS. I love this song so much and it is so beautiful! It was Jin's last song before he left to go into the military which makes me sad! Ugh! I love the meaning behind the song and I love the lyrics a lot! Why did I choose that song for the week? The reason why I chose this song for the week is because it holds a powerful message behind the song and the lyrics are so beautiful!! 

Talking about my poem "When people show their true colors". How would I define the words "true colors"? Why would I define "true colors" like that? 

On Tuesday, October 18th of this year, I wrote a poem called "When people show their true colors". It goes something like this: "When people show their true colors". By: Brandee Darden. 

"When people show their true 

colors to you, it shows 

that they weren't really your real 

friend in the first place! It shows 

they really didn't care about you 

in the first place! If those 

people don't care about you and 

they show you their true colors, 

it shows that they are a 

fake friend and they never cared 

to check up on you! Find friends 

who will check on you because 

those friends do care and they 

do love you"! ❤ 

Love, 

Brandee Darden. 

Date of the poem: Tuesday, 10/18/22. I love this poem so much People show me their true colors, they are showing how they aren't there for me and how ignorant they are which I don't need in my life! Those people who show their true colors, they never cared about you in the first place!! How would I define "true colors"? The way I would define "true colors" is if someone says something awful or mean, they are showing their true colors by the way they are acting! If someone call you awful names, they are showing who they really are and it is not the person you know! Why would I define "true colors" like that? The reason why I would define "true colors" like that is because when you see how a person really treats you and how they aren't "there for you", it shows you that you shouldn't trust people in the beginning and you never should trust someone who shows their true colors!! 

What is this poem all about? Why did I write this poem about? 

What is this poem all about? This poem is all about people or your friends showing who they really are! When people or for your example your friends, it's like a onion: They start to peal off a layer, one by one and they show you who they really are! Once the layer is off, you are seeing who the real person is and you are shocked because you were friends with this person and they are started to show their true colors which you are shocked about and you don't know how to feel about because you are shocked! People who showed their true colors, you really didn't know them in the first place which is sad! Why did I write this poem about? The reason why I wrote this poem about is because I know how it feels when someone who you thought you could trust but it is obvious that they can't trusted and it hurts you because you went through a lot with this person and they stabbed you in the back!! 

My feelings about someone showing their true colors! Why does it make me feel this type of way? 

When I think about someone like a friend or an ex boyfriend who shows their true colors, how does that make me feel? When a friend or an ex boyfriend shows their true colors, it hurts me a lot! When I told my ex boyfriend that I have a boyfriend, he shows me his true colors and he called some stuff that I was shocked about and it about hurt me but crying over what he said about me is not worth it! It just low of him saying some awful things to me and I hope one day, he regrets what he said to me because he is stupid! When people show their true colors towards you, it comes to show that they never cared about you and they will never care about you! It shows how they think about themselves and you don't need a person like that in your life!! Why does it make me this type of way? The reason why it hurts me is because when people say awful to me like my ex boyfriend, it killed me but I realized that when he showed his true colors, I wasn't going to be friends with him anymore! I am not going to deal with that toxicity in my life and that, I don't need it! People are stupid and they don't care about your feelings at all!

The significance of this poem! Why is is so significant? 

What is the significance behind this poem? The significance behind this poem is when people show who they really are, it shows that you shouldn't ever trust a person like that ever again and secondly, it shows that I hope I never run into my ex boyfriend because if I do, consequences will be paid for! Just saying! People are awful when they show who they really are and it shows that you don't need those type of people in your life if they aren't going to be there for or be supportive. This poem holds a lot of meaning to it and I have experience in my life where people have show me who they are and honestly, that hurt me because I thought I could trust them but obviously, it shows me how much I couldn't trust them and it hurt me but I realized, why crying over someone who is going to hurt me! I don't need that and I am glad that I blocked my ex boyfriend because he never deserved my friendship in the beginning!! Why is it so significant? The reason why this is poem is so significant is because when people don't watch what they say or they are mean to you, they are showing who they are and they are who they are as a person and it stinks for you because you thought you could trust this person but you can't because they hurt you and you had a lightbulb moment and you realized "I don't need this person in my life" and that is what happened to me! I am so glad that I had that lightbulb moment! 

My advice! Why would I give out that advice? 

If someone isn't being a true friend and they are are showing who they really are, what is my advice? If you get into an argument with your friend and your friend says something awful, my advice is you don't need someone who isn't going to be there for you and if they said something awful or mean, you don't need that in your life!! People who say that they are your true friend aren't really your true friend because layer by layer, they are showing who they really are! It's like family as well! Sometimes, family can show their true colors and you don't need that type of people in your life! If someone shows you their true colors, don't be friends with them anymore because you don't need anyone like that! Why would I give out that advice? The reason why I would give out that advice is because when someone shows you a layer of who they really are, it comes to show that you don't need them in your life! It comes to show that they weren't really there for you which is so sad but you need to do what's right for you and not let anyone bother you or bring you down! Find people who will be there for you and don't be there for people who aren't there for you!! 

In conclusion/ Tip of the day/ Question of the day??

In conclusion, when people show their true colors, they either wanted to show who they really are or they wanted to show their true colors because they felt like, I guess! It was like my ex boyfriend (who I will not mention because of certain reasons), when I told him that I moved on from him and that I have a boyfriend, he freaked out and called me some names which I will not mention! When he called me those names, I was telling myself "you don't need that type of a person in your life" which is so true! People are so mean and cruel these days to the point where you can't trust anyone and they don't care how they treat you or why they are showing their true colors to you! People are so mean and none of my Blogger Dreamers don't need that in your life!! Here is my tip and question of the day!? My tip of the day is be careful who your friends are and make sure they are always there for you no matter what! You don't need people who are going to show you true colors to you!! My question of the day is Has anyone show you their true colors? If so, how did they do that? Why did they do that? Comment down below and let me know how did they show their true colors?! I would love to read y'all's comments! Please! Thank you so much!!! I love y'all so much!! 

Alright, my Blogger Dreamers! Y'all have reached the end of today's blog episode for today! I hope everyone enjoyed today's blog episode! I know that I did! I love this poem so much and I have went through in my life where people have shown me their true colors which is so sad because I was there for a lot of people like my ex boyfriend and he decided to be a jerk to me and it comes to show that we weren't meant to be friends which I don't care! I am glad that he showed me his true colors!! For today's quote of the day, it goes like this: "Life is about balance. Be kind, but don't let people abuse you. Trust, but don't be deceived. Be content, but never stop improving yourself". -Zig Ziglar. I love this quote because life is a balance. Be kind to other people but the people aren't being kind to you, don't let them abuse you! Trust people but don't let them deceive you because you seem trustworthy! You can be content what you are doing in your life but never stop improving yourself! Whatever you are weak in, you can improve in that subject! Don't give up! I hope everyone will have a good week ahead! Happy Monday or in other countries, Happy Tuesday! Always remember our slogan: "Dream big! Don't give up on your dreams"!! I love y'all and please, stay safe and I will see y'all on my next blog where I will be talking about my poem "Heart of Gold". I love y'all and this blogger queen is out! Peace!! ✌💜

Today's quote of the day! I love this quote a lot!!! Such an amazing quote!! 

My poem that I wrote about "When people show their true colors" on Tuesday, October 18th of this year!! I love this poem a lot!! 

"People 
show their 
true colors, 
unintentionally. 
Pay attention".
-Unknown. I love this quote a lot because people will show their true colors and it might open your eyes a bit and you realized "I don't need that in my life" and you don't. 

"Sometimes you need 
to stop seeing the 
good in people and 
start seeing what 
they show."
-Earth Connection. I love this quote a lot because when you listen to what people are saying, you are going to believe them but when they show you who you are, that's when you realize, they are not who they are!! 

"When people 
show you who 
they are...
Believe them".
-Maya Angelou. I love this quote because when people show you who they really are, believe them! Always believe what they do or say!! 

This week's song of the week is "The Astronaut" by Jin of BTS. I love this song so much!!! Such an amazing song and I am going to miss Jin so much!!!

What was I like when I was a teenager? By: Brandee Darden.

                                             What was I like when I was a teenager? By: Brandee Darden. Blog episode date: Friday, November 11th, 2022!! 

Intro to my blog!! 

Hello,  my Blogger Dreamers! It's your girl aka the queen of blogging herself, it's Brandee here and welcome to an all new blog episode the week! Happy Friday or in other countries, Happy Saturday! I am so happy to have y'all on a new blog episode! How's my fandom doing today? I hope everyone is doing well and amazing! If not, that's okay! Everything will be okay! Take a deep breath and breathe!! Before I talk about today's blog episode and Wednesday's blog episode, I just want to say thank you to my fans around the world like Singapore, Ireland, the places in the United States like Louisiana, Mississippi, or anywhere else in the United States, thank you from the bottom of my heart for supporting me on my blogging journey! Without y'all, I don't know where I would be without y'all! I love y'all! On Wednesday, I talked about where did I get my whole name from? Before I was born, everyone in my family thought I was a boy but my big sister, Brandy wasn't on board about me being a boy! Instead, she thought I was a girl the whole time! She made a bet with my mom and she said "It's not a boy and you are naming her after me". Well, here I am 24 years later and I am the second Brandee in my family! Now, my middle name came from my sister, Tyna because her middle name is "Marie" and I think Brandee Marie fits perfect and I love it! I ended up getting my dad's last name and I love my last name a lot!! Now, for today's blog episode, I will be talking about what was I like when I was a teenager? In this blog episode, I will be talking about when I was a teenager, what was I like? Why was I like that when I was a teenager? If I could describe my attitude when I was a teenager, how would I describe my attitude? Why would I describe my attitude like that? If I could go back in time and talk to my teenage self, what would I say? Why would I say those things to my teenage self? If I have any advice to teenagers about anything, what would my advice be? Why would I give out that type of advice? Now, without further ado, let's get started! Shall we? We shall!! 

The word "teenager". What does the word "teenager" mean to me? Why does the word "teenager" mean to me like that? 

When I think about the word "teenager", I think of hormones are everywhere and teenage girls are close to getting their time of the month! Boys are falling in love with girls! Attitudes are everywhere! I remember when my attitude was bad when I was a teenager which I will talk about my attitude later in the blog but I just remember my attitude was bad. Teenage attitudes are bad! Teenagers also wanted to go out with their friends on the weekends and hangout with them! Not me! I wanted to stay home and focus on school! Why does the word "teenager" mean to me like that? The reason why the word "teenager" means to me like that because when you enter into middle school and high school as a teenager, teenage boys and girls hormones are high and girls are getting their time of the month which isn't a bad thing if you are a guy but for a girl, it is bad because you have bad cramps and your mood swings are everywhere and sometimes, you don't want to do anything because you feel like crap! For guys, y'all's voices are dropping and some of y'all are finding a girl that you might have a crush on and stuff like that! Teenagers are crazy at times! I remember my teenage years!!

Me as a teenager! Why was I like that when I was a teenager? 

When I was a teenager, what was I like? When I was a teenager, I was quite but once I got to know you, I didn't shut up! In school, I was nice to my teachers and my friends, but once I got home, if someone got me mad or upset, my attitude is bad and I would say mean things but I would apologize after I would said mean things! With my clothing style, I wore leggings and jeans! I never walked out the house with short shorts on because if I did, my dad would beat my behind and he would make me go back in the house and change!! I was good at times but my attitude would get me in trouble at times, whichever came first! Why was I like that when I was a teenager? The reason why I was like that when I was a teenager is because my attitude would get me in trouble or my mouth would get me in trouble or both would get me in trouble! Most of the time, I would be in my room and minding my own business but when someone starts bugging me, I will go off and my attitude would go off but again, I still have an attitude but I don't think it is bad to this day! I feel my clothing is still the same but I don't wear jeans as much as I used to! I still wear leggings to this day and I don't wear short shorts either!! 

My attitude! Why would I describe my attitude like that? 

If I could describe my attitude when I was a teenager, how would I describe my attitude? If I could describe my attitude when I was a teenager, I would describe my attitude as a light switch! You don't know if you were going to get a nice Brandee or a mean Brandee! My attitude was bad at home but at school, I was so nice to all of my teachers and my friends! I was also quite in school sometimes because if I didn't have any of my friends in class, then I wouldn't talk to anyone but for me, it wouldn't take long to make friends at all! When I was in a bad mood, don't ever mess with me because you never know what would come out of my mouth! My attitude was bad when I was a teenager but I think my attitude has changed since I became an adult! I try not to say mean things to anyone at all! Why would I describe my attitude like that? The reason why I would describe my attitude as a light switch because when I was a teenager, I would either wake up in a good mood or in a bad mood, depending what day it is or if someone said something rude to me, I would stay quite and when I am quite, you know what's up with me and I won't talk to anyone and I am still like that to this day!! 

Talk to my teenage self! Why would I say those things to my teenage self? 

If I could go back in time and talk to my teenage self, what would I say? If I could go back in time and talk to my teenage self, I would say "Go and hangout with friends. Don't be shy! Learn how to stand up for yourself! Don't be afraid to stand up for yourself". The first thing I would say is "Go and hangout with friends". When I was a teenager, I really didn't go and hangout with friends because I would stay home a lot and I am a home body and I was shy at times! The second thing that I would say "Don't be shy"! I was shy when I was teenager and I can still be shy to this day! At first, I am very shy but once I open up to people, I am good and I am not shy anymore!! The third thing I would say to my teenage self is "Learn how to stand up for yourself". When I was in middle and high school, I would get bullied and I wish I would learn how to stand up for myself but now, I know how to stand up for myself and stand my ground! The fourth and final thing that I would tell my teenage self is "Don't be afraid to stand up for my yourself". Sometimes, I would be afraid to stand up for myself and now, I am not afraid to stand my ground and I am not afraid to tell anyone off because I will tell people off now because I am not afraid to anymore! Why would I say those things to my teenage self? The reason why I would say those things to my teenage self is because I wish I could stand up for myself and be afraid but back then, I was afraid but not anymore! I wish I could of hangout with friends back then, but now, I don't think I would be able to hangout with friends because of my anxiety! Always learn how to stand up for yourself, no matter what!!!

My advice! Why would I give out that type of advice?? 

If I have any advice to teenagers about anything, what would my advice be? If have any advice to teenagers about anything, my advice is to enjoy your teenage years because in a blink of an eye, you are an adult and you have a job and a car! You wouldn't be able to hangout with your friends as much but enjoy your teenage years and make plenty of memories! Your teenage years is going to have plenty of ups and downs, but you are going to go through it! Keep chasing your dreams and never give up! You have your whole life in front of you! Don't make the wrong decisions in life! Make the right decisions or suffer the consequences! Don't suffer the consequences! Why would I give out that type of advice? The reason why I would give out that type of advice is because I want all the teenagers to make the right choices in life! Yes, teenagers will be teenagers but in life, you are going to go through things and in your mindset, you want to give up but don't give up because it's not worth it! I wish someone would gave me this type of an advice when I was a teenager but I am happy that I grew up well and I am happy to help any teenager who is willing to listen to my advice! 

In conclusion/ Tip of the day/ Question of the day? 

In conclusion, your teenage years can be a little challenging at times but it doesn't mean you have to give up! You are entering your middle school and high school years! Yes, middle school and high school is great but at the same time, it is going to be challenging! Don't fall behind in school because it will be hard to catch up in school! It's okay to be a teenager, but don't fall behind in school! Yes, you can hangout with your friends but always do your school work! Don't do drugs because drugs are bad for you! Peer pressure is big in teenage years but don't let anyone including your friends to peer pressure you because if you do, you are following them into what they are doing and you don't do that! Enjoy your teenage years! Did I enjoy my teenage years? Yeah, I did but I wish I could of did something different and learned how to stand up for myself when I was getting bullied in my middle school and high school years! Here is my tip and question of the day?! My tip of the day is enjoy your teen years! Please, don't make the wrong mistakes in life but if you do, you are going to have to suffer the consequences and you are going to have to live with those mistakes but at the end of the day, you are a human being and that's fine!  Adults ad teenagers make mistakes! We aren't perfect! Don't be perfect because we aren't prefect!! My question of the day is what were you like when you were a teenager? Why were you like that as a teenager? Sound off in the comments down below and let me know! Please! Thank you so much! I love y'all! Make the right decisions in life! I love y'all!

Hello, my Blogger Dreamers! It's your girl aka the Blogger Queen herself, Brandee here reminding everyone that y'all have reached the end of today's blog episode! I hope everyone enjoyed today's blog episode! Talking about my teenage years reminded the times where I would get up early for school and go about my day and come home, tired and telling my dad "I'm hungry! Can you make me a peanut butter and jelly sandwich? Please". Ah! Good times! I wish I could of stand up to my bullies but now as an adult, I can stand up for myself and I am very proud of myself for that! For today's quote of the day, it goes like this: "You are the best leader of your own life". -Jung Hoseok aka J-Hope, from BTS! I love this quote so much because this is your life! Don't let anyone control your life! You are the only one who can control your life! Don't make the wrong decisions in your life! You are the leader of your life and if you don't like anything that is going on in your life, change it! Be happy in your life! Cut the toxicity out of your life! I hope everyone will have an amazing weekend ahead! Make the right decisions and be happy! Don't forget our slogan: "Dream big! Don't give up on your dreams"!! I love y'all and Happy Friday or in other countries, Happy Saturday! See y'all on my makeup and fashion blog page! This blogger queen is out! Peace! ✌💜

Quote of the day!! Love this quote so much! Such an amazing quote and you are the best and only leader for your life! This is your life and you make your own rules! You are the only person who will break your rules!! 

Teenage me when I had a blonde hair! I will never have blonde hair ever again! I don't look good with this hair color!! 

"You're only a teenager. You're not yet 
married, so go with the flow, laugh tons, 
use manners, and try something new. 
Will you just kiss him already? Trust your 
feelings, spend your cash, introduce 
yourself, take a chance, study hard, seek 
happiness, and regret nothing. He isn't 
'your whole world', because you haven't 
even lived in this world long enough to 
say that, think about it, ten years is more 
than half your age. You're still a tiny tot. 
Don't laugh at other peoples dreams 
wish on 11:11, challenge yourself, take 
pictures and appreciate the memories. 
Have the time your life". I love this because there are some teenagers out there who wishes they were adults! Enjoy the time that you have in your teen years! Don't ever laugh at anyone's peoples dreams wish on 11:11 because if you make a wish at 11:11, your wish might come true! You never know! Appreciate the memories you have with your friends! Take pictures because pictures will last forever!!! 

Another teenage picture of me!! Now, this hair color looked really good on me! I liked this hair color on me!! 

To end today's blog episode, here is the song of the week which is "Too Good At Goodbyes" by Sam Smith! I love this song so much because I am to the point where I am telling people goodbye because I am tired of the toxicity in my life and people coming in and out of my life! I don't need someone who will be there for me one minute and then, the next minute not there for me! I AM DONE! To the people who left me, you're canceled! Peace! 

Where did I get my whole name from? Blog episode by: Brandee Marie Darden.

                                        💙Where did I get my whole name from? Blog episode by: Brandee Marie Darden. Date of blog episode: Wednesday, November 9th, 2022! 💙 

Intro to my blog! 

Hello, my Blogger Dreamers! Welcome back to an all new blog episode! It's your girl aka the Blogger Queen herself, it's Brandee Darden here! I am so happy to have my Blogger Dreamers back to an all new blog episode for today! Happy Wednesday or in other countries, Happy Thursday! How's my fandom doing today? I hope everyone is doing well and amazing! If not, that's okay! Everything will be okay! Stay strong because all of my Blogger Dreamers are strong! Don't ever give up! Before I talk about today's blog episode, I am going to talk about Monday's blog episode! On Monday, I talked about my poem "hurting". When I see someone hurting, I automatically have this instinct where I want to go to someone and tell them that "everything will be okay. You're strong! You got this". I hate when I see someone who I love hurting emotionally, mentally, or physically. It breaks my heart! If you see someone who is hurting, please go comfort them and tell them "everything will be okay". For today's blog episode, I will be talking about where did I get my whole name from? On today's blog episode, I will be talking about when I was born, everyone thought I was a boy except my older sister, Brandy! If I was a boy, what was my name going to be? In my opinion, why did my family pick that name? Where does Brandee Marie Darden come from? Why did my name come from there? What is the significance behind my name? Why is there significance behind my name? Now, without any further ado, let's get started! Shall we? We shall! 

When I think about a name, what does it symbolizes? Why does a name symbolize? 

When I think about a name; to me, a name can symbolize anything! A name can symbolize a family member or a sibling or siblings or a name can represent who you are as a person and who you are going to be in the future! To me, my two sisters, Brandy and Tyna are fighters and a couple of people who I know! I love my name because it symbolizes my older sisters which I would talk about more later in the blog! Your name should symbolize who you are as a person and your attitude as well! You can be named someone from your family like your dad, mom, sisters, brothers, or even your uncles or your aunts! A name should be valuable to you and should mean a lot to you! Why does a name symbolize? I think a name should symbolize something like either a family member or someone who is close to you is because when you love someone who you care about so much, you want to hold that person or people close to you so much and I love my name so much! I think it is a great name and I think it is so pretty! 

My name as a boy! In my own opinion, why did my family pick that name? 

When I was born, everyone thought I was a born except my older sister, Brandy! If I was a boy, what was my name going to be? Throughout my mom's pregnancy, everyone was really adamant about me being a boy! The only person who thought I wasn't a boy was older sister, Brandy! She made a bet with my mom and she said along the lines "It's girl and you are naming her after me". Sure enough, I am named after my sister but if I was a boy, my named would have been Gary Dean Darden JR which I would of been named of my dad! I would of been little Gary but here I am and I am little Brandy after my older sister! In my own opinion, why did my family pick that name? In my opinion, I think the reason why my family picked that name is because I would of been named after my dad and I think that name is great because it is my dad's name! I think my dad has a great name! It is nice! 

Where does Brandee Marie Darden come from? Why did my name come from there?

Where does Brandee Marie Darden come from? Well, my first name comes from my older sister, Brandy except, she spells it with an Y. She made a bet with my mom and I ended up being named after my sister but I actually love my name! Marie came from my older sister, Tyna! When I was born, she guessed how much I way which is 6 pounds and 9 ounces! My sister, Tyna helped me through school and I don't know what I would do without her if I couldn't pass school. My last name came from my dad! I have the Darden attitude in me because I can be stubborn and hardheaded but that doesn't mean I give up easily on life and what I want to do in the future!! I work hard towards my dreams and I don't give up until I achieve my dreams! With me and my dad, we both have heart of golds and we are so nice to the point where when you hurt us, we can trust you anymore and I believe that me and dad can be a lot of alike sometimes but I love my dad and I care about my dad and my two sisters! Why did my name come from there? The reason why my name came from my sister, Brandy, my sister, Tyna, and I got my dad's last name is because I think Brandee Marie fits really well and I love the middle name so much! Marie is such a beautiful name and I love how it fits with my name! I also have nieces who have the same middle name as me which I think it is nice! I think "Brandee Marie" fits and I think it has a nice ring to it which I love!!

The significance behind my name!! Why is there significance behind my name? 

What is the significance behind my name? The significance behind my name is I love my name a lot! My name is what makes me the person that I am today! I am person because I have my dad's attitude and my sisters are strong people and I love them dearly! All of my sisters are strong in there own way and I love how I got my name from older, Brandy who I wouldn't mind being named after and Tyna who I wouldn't mind having the same middle name as! I have that Darden attitude and I am so proud to be a Darden! A name can symbolize anything and my name symbolize my two sisters and my dad! My name is significant and the significance behind it is because everyone thought I was going to be a boy and they even decorated my nursery as baseball themed which I think it is cute because once I got old enough to play, I played baseball and then, I played softball!! I find it ironic that my older sister, Brandy was like "it's a girl and you are naming her after me" but I wouldn't have that name any other way! The significance behind my middle name "Marie" is I honestly love that name!! I love how well it fits with Brandee and it fits very well! I love it! The significance behind "Darden" is it is my dad's last name and I felt like I knew that I was going to be stubborn and hardheaded because I am just like my dad because we are too nice and sometimes, people take advantage of us which is not cool at all but I love my name and I am proud of my name! Why is there significance behind my name? The reason why there is significance behind my name is because my name means a lot to me! I don't care who misspells my name wrong but to me, my name is very special and I love it so much! I am proud to own that name!

In conclusion/ Question of the day?

In conclusion, I love my name a lot! I think Gary is a nice name for a guy but I don't think it would fit for a little girl! When I was a little baby, they put me in boy's clothing because at the time, my parents didn't have little girl clothing for me and when I was born, everyone thought I was a baby doll because I was so tiny! My name symbolizes my two sisters and my dad! I love my name more than anything in this world! Would I ever change it in the future? No, I would never change my name because I love my name a lot! I am so glad that I got my sister, Brandy's first name except spelled a little differently, my sister, Tyna's middle name, and my dad's last name! I am proud to have that name and I wouldn't trade it for the world! Here is my question of the day is Were any of my Blogger Dreamers name after anyone in their family? If so, whom were you named after? Why were you named after that person or persons? Comment down below and let me know! I would love to read everyone's comments! Please! Thank you so much! I love y'all!! 

Alright, my Blogger Dreamers! It's your blogger queen, Brandee here to remind everyone that y'all have reached the end of today's blog episode for the day! I hope y'all enjoyed today's blog episode because I sure did! I hope y'all learned where I got my name and how I got that name? I love my name a lot! My name symbolizes who I am as a person and I am happy to have the Darden's attitude in me! For today's quote of the day, it goes something like this: "Even when I fall and hurt myself I endlessly run toward my dream". -Forever Young, BTS. I love this quote because if you do fall and get hurt or someone pushes me down, that doesn't stop me from to continue to run and chase my dreams! I will continue to run until I can't run anymore! I hope everyone will have a good Wednesday or in other countries, a good Thursday! Please, stay safe and always remember our slogan: "Dream big! Don't give up on your dreams"!! See y'all on Friday where I get to talk about my teenage self and what was I like when was a teenager? This should be fun! LOL! I hope everyone stays hydrated and please, stay safe! I will see y'all on Friday and this Blogger Queen is out! Peace! ✌💙 

Today's quote of the day! I love this quote so much! Such an amazing quote!! 

Me and my older sister, Brandy! I can definitely tell that we are sisters! I love my sister so much!! 

Me and older sister, Tyna the one who I got my middle name from! I also love my sister as well! I will always love her no matter what!!

Me and my dad! My favorite picture of me and my dad! I think this picture is so funny and accurate of our relationship!! I love it so much!!