Brandee & Aaron: Friendship to relationship. Blog by: Brandee Marie Darden.
💙 Brandee & Aaron: Friendship to relationship. Blog by: Brandee Marie Darden. Date of blog: Friday, December 16th, 2022!! 💙 
Intro to my blog!!
Hello, my Blogger Dreamers! It's your girl aka the Blogger Queen herself, it's Brandee here and welcome back to an all new weekly blog episode! First and furthermore, how's my Blogger Dreamers doing today? I hope everyone is doing well and amazing! If not, that's okay! Everything will be okay! Give it to God and everything will be okay! Happy Friday or in other countries, Happy Saturday! Before I forget, next week will be my final week of blogging for 2022! Don't freak out! It's not my last blogs! I will be back in January but I will remind everyone before I end the blog for next week! Now, let's do a recap of Wednesday's blog! On Wednesday, I talked about my poem "Heart of Gold". I remember at times I will put everyone before me and making sure everyone was okay! I remember when people say "I love your heart of gold". When people put me down, I never lost my shine to my heart of gold and I am so glad that I never lost my shine! Before I talk about today's blog episode, Happy birthday to the best boyfriend aka my number one supporter, Aaron! Happy birthday, baby! I love you more anything in this world! You are the best boyfriend ever! Happy birthday! For today's blog episode, it is all about me and my boyfriend, Aaron: friendship to relationship! In this blog episode, I will be talking about if I could describe our friendship from the beginning, how would I describe our friendship in the beginning? Why would I describe our friendship like that? Over time with the friendship, when did I get feelings for Aaron? Why did I get feelings for him? If I have any advice for people who are in a long distance relationship, what is my advice? Why would I give out that advice? Now, without any further ado, let's get this blog episode started! Shall we? We shall!!
What makes Aaron different from other guys that I have talked to? Why is he so different?
In my past relationships, I have talked to guys who I thought they love me or I thought they were going to be there for me in the long run, but at the end, I got hurt! I think what makes Aaron from different guys is that is so nice and so sweet! He is the type of person who will be there for you no matter what and he has been there for me! In 2020, I was going through a rough breakup and I wasn't sure if I wanted to talk to anymore guys just because I have been hurt so many times, but for some reason, Aaron was different! Aaron was different from other guys that I have talked to and I am so blessed that we became friends and started talking! At first, I wasn't sure about talking to him but now, I am actually glad that we started talking!! He is an amazing guy and I am so glad that we are now boyfriend and girlfriend! Why is he so different? I think the reason why he is so different from other guys that I have talked to is because when I ask him "can I have my alone time", he would gladly back off and gladly back off which with most guys, they will be like "I want to talk to you" or something like that, but I am so glad that Aaron is so different! To the girls who let him go, thank you so much because you don't know what you are missing because Aaron is the greatest guy in the world and he is awesome! To the guys who let me go, thank you because of you letting me go, I have the greatest guy in the world!!
Describe our friendship in the beginning! Why would I describe our friendship like that?
If I could describe our friendship from the beginning, how would I describe our friendship in the beginning? On September 6th, 2020, Aaron slid into my dms and started talking and we are starting have this friendship, which I thought this friendship was starting out really good! I think I would describe our friendship in three words as nice, caring, and amazing! We even have this friendship to this day!!! When we started having this friendship, I thought to myself "this guy is so nice. I don't understand why many girls like him". He has this caring personality where he would care about everyone else and put his feelings last. He is so amazing! Words cannot describe our friendship like those three words right there!! Why would I describe our friendship like that? The reason why I describe our friendship as nice is because he gave me this vibe where he had a nice demeanor to him which I don't find in a lot of guys because some guys are jerks but he gave me a good vibe which I like a lot!! The second reason why I would describe our friendship as caring because he is the most caring person that I have ever met in my entire life! He is the most selfless person that I know! When I would have my bad days for example, he never left alone which I thought it was nice and caring of him! When I told him to "leave me alone or go away", he didn't leave me which most guys would but Aaron is different! The third and final reason why I would describe our friendship as amazing is because he is the most amazing guy ever! When I will ask me time for myself, he would back away and give me that time alone which I find amazing because most guys would be like "do you really need that time alone" but with him, he doesn't ask questions and I am so grateful for that!!
My feelings for Aaron! Why did I get feelings for him?
Over time with the friendship, when did I get feelings for Aaron? I noticed my feelings I believe this year actually!! When we were talking pretty much everyday, I noticed how much he was there for me and how much he cared for me! As time went on, I realized that my feelings for him were so strong that I couldn't ignore it anymore and on November 1st of this year, he became my boyfriend and honestly, that was the best thing that ever happened this year! This year was horrible but Aaron changed it for the world and I couldn't be anymore happy to be with the best guy in the world!! He is truly amazing and the most caring person in the world which I love in a guy! When I think about qualities in a guy, I think for me it would be truthful, caring, and honesty! With Aaron, he was honest with his feelings for me and I loved that! Why did I get feelings for him? The reason why I got feelings for him is because I thought he was different from other guys! I knew he wouldn't hurt me or treat me wrong! In my heart, I knew he was meant for me but I think I was just blocking it because I have been hurt so many times and I was afraid to get hurt again but I am thankful for Aaron because he is very different and I am thankful to have him as my boyfriend!
My advice! Why would I give out that advice?
If I have any advice for people who are in a long distance relationship, what is my advice? If I have any advice for the people who are in a long distance relationship, just know that you will see your significant other again! Just because times get hard, doesn't mean you have to give up! Yes, long distance is hard but at the end of the day, just know that your partner loves you so much and I know my boyfriend loves me so much and we have this connection to the point where we can trust each other and to me, trust and communication are key to an long lasting relationship! I have never felt this happy until I met my boyfriend and now, I can say he is my best friend, my boyfriend, and my universe! If you are in a long distance relationship, just know that distance isn't for long but y'all have each that's important!! Why would I give out that advice? I think me giving out that advice is important is because there is a fine line between trust and not trusting at all but with my boyfriend, I completely trust him and he is always there for me no matter what happens in life! If I have a bad day, he would do anything to make sure that I am happy! He is my biggest supporter ever besides my sister, Brandy! At times, he will tell me good luck on my blogs and I love that about him! Just remember to have a communication with your partner because I think that is very important and communication is key!!!
In conclusion/ Tip of the day!!
In conclusion, Happy birthday to the best boyfriend ever! I have the best boyfriend in the world! We started out as best friends and to this day, we are best friends and I am so glad that he is my best friend and my boyfriend! We might be in a long distance relationship, but we make it work! We literally make it work and I am so glad that he has been there for me through my ups and my downs! He has seen me cry and he knew that I had mental breakdowns before! He is the most understanding person in the world and I appreciate him more than anything in this world! I think the song that describes our relationship the best is "The Astronaut" by Jin. There is lines and it goes "When I'm with you
There is no one else
I get heaven to myself
When I'm with you
There is no one else
I feel this way I've never felt" and these lines are so accurate because when I am talking to my boyfriend, time stops and I am in a different universe. I am so happy to have my best friend and my boyfriend in my life! The best relationships start out as friends and I am so glad that me and my boyfriend can be best friends and my boyfriend!! My only tip of the day is be open with your significant other rather y'all in a long distance relationship or you have your partner close by! Just be open with each other and talk to each about you are feeling and stuff like that! Be open with one another!!
Alright, my Blogger Dreamers!! It's your girl aka the Blogger Queen, Brandee here to remind y'all that y'all have reached the end of today's blog episode! I hope y'all enjoyed today's blog episode and learning about me and Aaron's friendship to relationship! I have always wanted to talk about something like this and I am so happy that I did! I was going through a hard breakup with my ex boyfriend at the time and looking back, I am so glad that my current boyfriend was there for me through the hardest time in my life! We would talk a little bit each day but now, we basically talk everyday and I am so glad we do! He is awesome and I wouldn't change nothing about him! For today's quote of the day, it goes like this: "Stop trying to calm the storm. Calm yourself, the storm will pass". -Timber Hawkeye. I love this quote a lot because you might be going through a lot and that's fine! You need to calm yourself down and make sure that you're fine! Always calm yourself down when you are having a bad day! I love y'all and Happy birthday to the best boyfriend in the world! Don't forget our slogan: "Dream big! Don't give up on your dreams". Happy Friday or in other countries, Happy Saturday! Please, stay safe and stay warm! I will see y'all on my second blog for the last blogs until 2023! I love y'all and this Blogger Queen is out! Peace!! ✌💙
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Today's quote of the day! It is such an amazing quote and I love it a lot!! .png)  without warning; You had my heart before I could say no". -Unknown. I love this quote because his love came without warning and he had my heart before I could say no and I am so glad he captured my heart!!  nothing when someone means everything". -Unknown. To me, distance means absolutely nothing because my boyfriend means everything to me! He is the best thing that he ever happened to me! To end today's blog episode, for this week's song of the week: it is "The Astronaut" by Jin from BTS. Every time I listen to this song, I automatically think of my boyfriend because when I talk to him, I am in a different world and I am so glad that I found someone who makes me happy!!! |
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