Difference between "goodbye" and "talk/see you later"! By: Brandee Darden!

                                Difference between "goodbye" and talk/ see you later! By: Brandee Darden. Wednesday, April 6th, 2022! 

Intro to my blog episode! 

Hello, my Blogger Dreamers! It's your girl aka your blogger queen in the house, Ms. Brandee Darden is here! How's everyone doing today? I hope everyone is doing well and amazing! If not, that's okay! Everything will be okay! Stay strong! You got this! Whatever you are going through, just know that you are a fighter and you are amazing! On Monday's blog episode, I talked about the three changes that I would make and those changes are bullying, educating people about mental health, and people judging other people! Everyone is different and that doesn't mean you have the right to judge or bully other people! It's not right! When it comes to mental health, people should take that serious because I think whatever mental health you have, people should educate themselves about! I think taking care yourself and educating people who have mental health is very important! When people are struggling with mental health, you should help them and tell them that everything will be okay and it will be okay! On today's blog episode, I will be talking about the difference between "Goodbye" and "talk/see you later"! I will be talking about in my opinion, what is the difference between "goodbye" and "talk/see you later"? When I text my friends or family "talk to you later" or I tell my family "see you later", why do I say that instead of "bye"? What is the significance behind my opinion and me telling my friends or family "talk to you later" or "see you later"? Why is it so significant? Let's get started! Shall we? We shall! 

Talking about why do I get bugged when someone tells me "goodbye" instead of "see or talk to you later"? What is my main reason for that?

When someone tells me "goodbye", I get bugged about it!! I don't like when someone tells me "bye". I feel like they are trying to push me away or they don't want to talk to me and that hurts me! I like when a friend or a family member says "I will talk to you later" or "I will see you later". I feel at ease and honestly, you never know when that last day could be when you see or talk to your friends or family! You have to enjoy each moment when you talk to your friends or family! What is my main reason for that? My main reason on why I get bugged when someone tells me "goodbye" instead of "see or talk to you later" is because to me in head, "goodbye" means bye forever and I don't like that! When someone tells me that, I have to remind them sometimes that goodbye is forever but talk to later means I will talk to you the next day or something like that! I want people to know that goodbye is forever and talk to you later or see you later is permanent! You will see or talk to that person again! 

In my opinion, what is the difference between goodbye and talk/ see you later? 

In my opinion, what is the difference between goodbye and talk/ see you later? The difference between goodbye and talk/ see you later is when you tell someone goodbye, it means forever and you don't want to push that person away but when you tell that person "Oh! I will talk or see you later", you I will talk to that person later on during the day or you will see that person another time. Goodbye doesn't have to be forever because you don't know when their last day could be until that last day comes! Always tell your family and friends that you will talk to them later or you will see them later because goodbye is forever and talking or seeing them later is permanent! Never tell someone goodbye because it might feel like to them that you are pushing them away or you never want to talk to them again! Never push that person way because you never know when that person's last day could be on earth and you want them to know that you are there for them no matter what and whatever happens in life, they are loved by you! Tell people that if that you are busy, that you will talk to them later and that you will talk to them whenever you can!

When I text my friends or family "talk to you later" or I tell my family "see you later", why do I say that instead of "bye"?

The reason why I said "talk to you later" or "see you later" instead of "bye" is because when I think of the word "bye", I get a negative vibe from it! I get some negative vibes from it because when you tell that person "bye", you never know when you can see or talk to that person again but if you tell them "I will talk to you later" or "I will see you later", I feel much better because I know in my heart that I will most likely see or talk to that person again! I never want to push people away because there is a lot of people who mean a lot to me! I will like to name a few people like my friends who became family, my mom, my sisters, and pretty much the people who have been around me all of my life and people who love me for who I am and who have supported me through everything! I don't like that word "bye". I like "see or talk to you later" because you will know when you will be able to talk or see that person or people again! It is never a "goodbye". It is a see you later or talk to you later! 

What is the significance behind my opinion and me telling my friends or family "talk to you later" or "see you later"? Why is it so significant?

The significance behind my opinion is when you tell that person "goodbye", it feels so negative because you don't know when they could pass away! You don't know when their last day could be until it hits you like a ton of bricks and that is so hard! I don't like the word "goodbye". When my friends text me especially my international friends that they are going to bed, sometimes they will say "bye" and I will get all cringed up because it hurts me and I have to remind my international friends that "goodbye" is forever and "talk to you later" is permanent. The significance of me telling my friends or family "talk to you later" or "see you later" is when I tell my family or friends those things, I feel at ease and I feel much better! I rather tell a family member "I will see you later" than "goodbye" forever! When I meet my international friends for the first time and I will have to leave, I will tell my friends that "goodbye" is forever and "see you later" is permanent and just know that I am always in your heart no matter what! Why is it so significant? The reason why it is so significant is because you never know when that person could pass away until it hits you so hard! You need to always tell the people who love you and care about you so much that you will see them again or you will talk to them again! It is never a goodbye! It is a see you later! 

In conclusion/ Tip of the day! 

In conclusion, when you tell someone goodbye whether it be a boyfriend or girlfriend or a family member or even a best friend, just know that you are telling them goodbye forever. Never tell them goodbye because goodbye is forever and you don't know when their last day could be! When you do a phone call with someone or you see that person face to face and y'all are about to leave, when you are on a phone call with that person, tell them "talk to you later". When you see that person face to face whether it is a friend or even a family member and y'all leave, tell them "I will see you later. Drive safe." Tell them that you love them as well because your family and friends deserve your love and that you should love your family, friends, or even your husband or wife or boyfriend or girlfriend with all your heart and that you will see them later! Here is my tip of the day! My tip of the day is never tell people who love goodbye because it has a negative connotation to it and I don't like telling my friends or family goodbye because it is never a goodbye. It is more like a see you later! It is always a see you later and that you love that person with all your heart! Always tell your family and friends that you love them and that you will talk to them later! 

Alright, my Blogger Dreamers! Y'all have reached the end of today's blog episode for today! Please, never tell your family or friends goodbye because you will never know when you will be able to talk or see them again! Never tell the people that you love "goodbye" because you never know when you can see them again until it is too late! Always tell the people who love "See or talk to you later" instead of "bye or goodbye" because it is much better and more fitting! The bible verse of the day is "Do all things without murmurings and disputings". Philippians 2:14. I love this bible verse a lot because don't fight or get angry at each other without any yelling or screaming! Talk about it without any arguments or fighting!  Always remember the slogan: Dream big! Don't give up on your dreams! I hope my Blogger Dreamers have a good Wednesday or a good Thursday, wherever they are in this world! See y'all on Friday! I love y'all so much! Please stay safe! Peace! 💙✌

"There are no 
goodbyes for us. 
Wherever you are,
you will always be 
in my heart".
-Mahatma Gandhi. I love this quote because when you tell your family or friends goodbye, it is never a goodbye! Wherever you are in this world, just know that you are each others hearts forever and always!! 

"It's not goodbye
It's see you later".
-unknown. I love this because it is never a goodbye. It is more like a see you later type deal because you will see that person again if you believe in that. It is a see you later not a goodbye!! It is never a goodbye! 

"Never say goodbye
because saying goodbye
means going away 
and going away 
means forgetting."
-Peter Pan. I love this quote because if you tell someone "goodbye", you will end up forgetting about that person and that is going to hurt that person because if a person cares about you and loves you, then you are hurting that person and that is not good!