Change 3 things! By: Brandee Darden

                                  Change 3 things! By: Brandee Darden! Monday, April 4th, 2022! 

Intro to my blog!! 

Hello, my Blogger Dreamers! It's your girl, Brandee here back with another blog episode! How was your weekend? I hope everyone had an amazing weekend! If not, that's okay because it will get better! Believe in that! It is a brand new week which means new blog episodes and a new song of the week! Before I talk about new blogs for the week, I want to talk about the blogs from last week! Last week, I talked about my favorite Thai actors and Thai shows! I also talked about my two poems, "People who judge me" and "The word hurt". Picking out my favorite Thai actors is so hard because I only watched two shows but I am planning on watching more in the future! Anyways, getting off topic here! Picking actors who I like in each Thai show was really hard but the one who stood out to me in "Love by Chance" was Saint. He is a very good actor in my eyes and I love him so much! He seems so sweet and I am praying that one day, I can meet him! The next actor that stood out to me or who was my favorite in the Thai show "Tharn&Type" is Mew Suppasit! This guy is so handsome and so dreamy! When he smiles, he melts my heart every time I see him smiling! I love his smile so much! I would want to date someone who would smile at me like that or sing to me! Just saying! The next blog episode that I talked about was my poem "People Who Judge You". When I was talked about that poem, it made think of a time where I have been judged because I liked different things such as Kpop music. Kpop music is in my veins and it is not going away anytime soon! The third and final blog episode that I talked about was my poem "The Word Hurt". There has been multiple times where I have been hurt by words or by people talking behind my back! To be honest with you, that hurts more than anything in this world! Words can hurt a person or physical abuse can hurt a person as well! Be careful with your words and your actions because it can hurt a person! On this week's blog episodes, I will be talking about change 3 things, difference between "goodbye" and "talk/ see you later", and my poem, "Suicide". Stay tuned for these three blogs! Now, who is ready for a new blog episode because I am! Let's get started! Shall we? We shall! 

Talking about this week blog episode! What was the reason why I choose this topic? What is the song of the week? How much this song means to me? 

On this week's blog, I would be talking about change 3 things! Yes! I will be talking about if I could change 3 things, what would I change? Why would I change those things? When I was thinking about the three things that I wanted to change, what was going through my mind? Why was that going through my mind? What is the significance behind those changes? Why are those changes so significant? What was the reason why I choose this topic? The reason why I choose this topic is because when I think about things that I want to change, there is so many things that needs to change such as people educating themselves about mental health, stop bullying, and so much more! The bullying needs to stop because it can cause depression and it can cause a bullying victim to commit suicide and that is really sad to think about because bullying is horrible thing and it is not right for anyone to go through especially if it is kid! No kid, adult, or even a teenager should ever have to be bullied! It is so sad that no one isn't stopping other people from bullying! What is the song of the week? The song that I chose for the week is "Star" by Jessi! She is a female Kpop idol that I like and to me, she is a very great singer and rapper! I think she is so phenomenal and it is so hard to find female artists who can rap and sing so good and in my opinion, I love her rapping and singing but I also love Lisa and Jennie from BlackPink! I know Lisa can rap and Jennie can rap and sing as well! How much this song means to me? This song means a lot to me! I love how it has a soft beat to it and I love it a lot! It is so good!! 

If I could change 3 things, what would I change? Why would I change those things? 

If I could change 3 things, what would I change? The first thing that I would change is bullying! When I think of bullying, I think of people saying harsh words or people talking bad about you behind your back or even online! Bullying can lead to depression or even commit suicide which is awful to say because a lot of people get bullied and no one stands up for anyone which is awful! The second thing that I would change is educating people about mental health! I feel like people should take in consideration into other people's mental health and how they are feeling because you never know how they are feeling until you ask them! You don't tell people to "get over it". That is so wrong! I had someone tell me that and it hurt to the core! I never thought someone who I trusted would say that to me! The third and final thing that I would change is judging other people! Judging other people is so wrong! Just because they like different things or they are transitioning to male to female or female to male, doesn't have the right for you to judge or just because someone is gay or a lesbian or bisexual. Let them be whoever they want to be and move on from it! You have no right to judge anyone! Before you judge anyone, look at yourself in the mirror and judge yourself! Just saying! Why would I change those things? The reason why I would change these things because these are issues that people don't take serious as they should such as bullying and mental health! There are kids, teenagers, and even adults who get bullied and bullying can lead to depression, which is sad! People need to realize these factors and need to see the signs! I wish people would take mental health as a serious matter as well because when people are juggling with their life such as work or taking care of their kids or even going to school and preparing for exams, not only they are doing that but also, they might be dealing with mental health issues such as depression, bipolar, PTSD, anxiety, or even ADHD. If people are going through something, ask them if they are okay! The reason why I would change judging other people is because I think judging other people is so wrong! I think we live in world where everyone can be judgemental and I think they don't see what they are doing wrong and they don't care what they are doing wrong! 

When I was thinking about the three things that I wanted to change, what was going through my mind? Why was that going through my mind?

When I was thinking about the three things that I wanted to change, what was going through my mind? What was going through my mind was I was thinking about the daily things that we through each day and why sometimes we go through these things! We go through things and we act everything is okay but in reality, we are not okay because we are either feeling anxious about something which means anxiety can be coming or people think we are happy all the time but we are sad and that means we are depressed. I am not a doctor but I know these things because I know people who have these things! I haven't been diagnosed with it either but I think I have these things as well! Sometimes, I feel anxious when people send me a lot of messages or add me in group chats or if there is a lot of people at a store, I feel anxious. Being bullied doesn't feel good at all! I have been bullied behind my back and online! It hurts you to the core! People needs to realize how much affect bullying can have on a person and it can hurt people! I wish people took bullying seriously! When people judge other because they like different things or they are gay, lesbian, transgender, bisexual, or even pansexual, they judge because they are different or someone uses they or them pronouns and it makes me upset! If don't agree with someone's life style or you don't agree with what they like, go on with your life and please, move on because life goes on and you don't have to judge other people because they are different! Thank you, next! Why was that going through my mind? The reason why those things were going through my mind is because people don't know them impact that judging other people or mental health or even bullying can hurt a person! When someone judges another person, it can hurt them so much that they might take it serious! Words can hurt a person! Be careful what you say to another person because that person could take it serious and it can take a toll on a person! 

What is the significance behind those changes? Why are those changes so significant?

The significance behind those changes is I want people to understand why bullying is so important to understand? The reason why bullying is so important is because bullying can hurt a person! When you say something mean about them or even say something about their family, something can go off in their head and they could start crying or start standing up for themselves. I wish I could of stand up for myself when I was getting bullied instead being afraid! Another thing that I was people could understand is educating themselves on mental health and how mental health can take a toll on a person? Mental health can hurt a person! If a person is anxious, they are nervous about something or they might not want to go to a store because there is a lot of people in the store and that can be nerve wracking at times! A depressed person can act like everything is okay but deep down inside, they are hurting because they aren't happy! Sometimes, a depressed person doesn't want to do anything but soon or later, they will eventually get done! Living with mental health is not easy and never tell a person "to get over it" just because you don't want to here it from them or you don't want to know how they are feeling which is sad! When people judge other people because they are different or they might have a disability doesn't mean you have the right to judge other people or be mean to them! Don't judge a book by its cover because you don't know what that person is going or how they are feeling!! The significance behind those changes is that if you ask a person how they are doing or who bullied them or who judged them, you give that person hug and be their friend! Be there for one another! Why are those changes are so significant? The reason why those changes are so significant is because if you can ask someone if they are okay or if you asked them who bullied them, you stand up for that person and you can help them through a hard time! One person can make a change if you just believe! 

In conclusion/ Tip of the day/ Question of the day?

In conclusion, people needs to realize that everyone is different! Everyone goes through different things but it doesn't mean you have the right to judge them or bully them because if you are mean to them, it can take a mental toll on them and insecurities can hurt a person and a bunch of insecurities can enter into that person's mind! If you could make these changes in this world, this place can be good. If someone would educate everyone else on mental health and how mental health can be very hard on a person, maybe other people can understand where mental health comes from and maybe it can help a person understand a lot more! Here is my tip and question of the day? My tip of day is if you see a person getting bullied or getting judged, please go stand up for them and help them out! Please! If you see a person who is struggling with mental health like anxiety and if you see them struggling with it and they are still feeling anxious, help them calm down and give them a hug! Tell them that everything will be alright and don't give up! My question of the day is if you could change three things in this world, what would they be? Why would you choose those three things? It can be anything from global warning or recycle more or even we need to clean the planet more! Sound off in the comments down below and tell me what you would change in this world! Please! Thank you so much! I love y'all so much! 

Alright, my Blogger Dreamers! Y'all have reached the end of today's blog episode! Remember, always ask people if they are okay or if they need a hug because a hug can go along way!! Here is my bible verse for the day: "In the multitude of my thoughts within me thy comforts delight my soul". Psalm 94:19. I love this bible verse if you find something that makes you happy whether it be music or drawing or anything like that, it can comfort your soul and make you happy! I hope y'all enjoyed today's blog episode! Happy Monday or in other countries, Happy Tuesday! Please, stay safe! Remember the slogan: Dream Big! Don't give up on your dreams! Keep fighting for your dreams and don't give up! I love y'all and stay safe! Your blogger queen is out! See y'all on Wednesday! Peace! 💜✌

"Judging 
is for the weak.
Understanding
is for the strong".
-Unknown. I like this quote because if you are judging another person, it is because you are insecure about yourself so the only way you can judge is by judging other people and that makes you weak! When you understand someone, it shows that you are an understanding person and that you understand what that person went through or how they are feeling! 

"When your mental health isn't in 
the best state, give yourself a 
break. Don't feel guilty for things 
you can't do. Normal things like 
eating, sleeping, and socialising 
may be difficult, it's okay to 
struggle. Rest, recover, be kind to 
yourself and know the bad times 
are temporary." 
-Unknown! I love this because if you are not mentally doing well, give yourself a break! Everyone deserves a break! Give yourself a break! You deserve it!  

"Stop Bullying! 
No one heals himself by 
wounding another."
-St. Ambrose. I love this quote because we have to stand up for one another and help each other out not let that person suffer! 

The song of the week is "Star" by Jessi! I love this song because everyone is a star and everyone shines brightly in their own way! Don't forget that! 💫💫