Analyzing my poem "Dear people who hurt me" by Brandee Marie Darden!
💔 Analyzing my poem "Dear people who hurt me" poem and blog episode by Brandee Marie Darden! Date of blog episode: Friday, September 16th, 2022! 💔 
Intro to my blog! 💜
Hello, my Blogger Dreamers and welcome back to a new blog episode! It's your girl aka the Blogger Queen, it's Brandee in the house! Happy Friday or in other countries, Happy Saturday! How is my Blogger Dreamers doing today? I hope everyone is doing well and amazing! If not, that's okay! Everything will be okay! Just take it a day at a time! Before I jump into today's blog episode, I will be talking about Wednesday's blog!! On Wednesday, I talked J-Hope's song, "Equal Sign". I love this song so much! It holds a powerful message behind the song and in the lyrics as well! J-Hope is a musical genius and he did so well on this song! I love how it talks about it doesn't cost nothing to be kind and everyone should be treated equally! For today's blog episode, I will be talking about analyzing my poem called "Dear people who hurt me". This poem goes out to the people who have hurt me in the past! In this blog episode, I will be talking about what is this poem about? Why would I write this poem about? When people hurt me, how does it make me feel? Why would it make feel this way? When I was writing this poem, what was going through my mind? Why were those things going through my mind? If I could give any advice about people hurting you or something that they did affect you, what is my advice? Why would I give that advice? What is the significance behind the advice? Why is it so significant? Now, without no further notice, let's get started with this blog episode! Shall we? We shall!!
Talking about my poem!! What are some of the lines that stick out to me? Why do those lines stick out to me?
On Tuesday, October 19th of last year, I wrote a poem called "Dear people who hurt me" by yours truly, Brandee Marie Darden! This poem does go out to the people who has hurt me in the past but for the sake of the people who has hurt me, I won't mentioned their name for privacy reasons!! The poem goes like this "Dear people who hurt me" by Brandee Marie Darden.
"Dear people who
"Dear people who
hurt me, I
trusted you
with all my
heart but you
went behind my
back and hurt
me! That's okay
but I am who
I am because y'all
hurt me! I am
strong and I
don't let you
hurting me affect
me anymore because
I grew up from
it! I'm not a
little kid! I'm a
grown up and
I don't let you
hurting me anymore!
I'm a strong
and an independent
woman! I don't let
nothing bother me
anymore! I move
on and forgot
about it"!!
-Love,
Brandee Darden. I love this poem so much! Something about this poem pulls on my heart strings so much! When someone hurt me, sometimes it hurts me but at the end of the day, I move on and be an adult about it! I am not going to let people hurt me! I am going to be an adult about it and move on! What are some of the lines that stick out to me? The lines that stood out to me is when I said "I trusted you with all my heart but you went behind my back and hurt me"! That stood out to me a lot! I had people who I thought I could trust but they went behind my back and now, I can't trust them! Another line from my poem that stood out to me is "I'm a strong and an independent woman! I don't let nothing bother me anymore! I move on and forgot about it"!!! I am a strong and an independent woman and I am going to be an adult about everything and move on from it because it made me a stronger woman! I am not going to let anything bother me anymore!! Why do those lines stick out to me? The reason why those lines stood out to me is because I had people who went behind my back and I lost trust in them and I am a strong and independent woman who is going to move on from whatever it is and live my life! I don't care what you put me through! Am I going to forget that you hurt me? NO but I am going to forgive you what you have done to me! Once you hurt me, I'm done with you!!
What is this poem about? Why would I write this poem about?
This poem is about people who hurt me whether it is family or friends! Oh! Believe me! I had family that hurt me before and it doesn't feel good at all! With me, I trust so easily that I thought I could easily trust that person very quickly!! When those people who hurt me, I lost trust from them and I have trust issues so that is hard for me! When you care about someone, it hurts you so much! It hurts you to the point where you want to cry! It doesn't feel good when you trust someone and then, they go behind your back and hurt you! It stinks! It doesn't feel good at all!! Why would I write this poem about? The reason why I wrote this poem about people who hurt me is because your friends or the people who is in your family can hurt you as well and that is your family but family can break your heart and it sucks! Believe me! I had someone who was family that I thought I could trust but unfortunately, I lost trust within them and now, I can't trust them! When people break your trust, it is going to be hard to gain it back! Trust is earned not given and for me, you have to work for your trust from me!!
My feelings! Why would it make me feel this way??
When people hurt me, how does it make me feel? When people hurt me, it hurts me to the core! When people say some mean things, it hurts me so much! It makes me not want to be their friend or even trust them! When people hurt you with their words, it makes you want to cry! It hurts when that person is your friend or even your family member! It hurts so much but you should never show that person what is bothering you because if you show that person what they said is hurting you, they are going to continue to hurt you and they are going to say mean and hateful things and you shouldn't have to put up with it!! Never put up with people who are mean and hateful!! Why would it make me feel this way? The reason why it hurts me to the core because when people hurt me, I feel defeated and hurt that I thought I could trust someone within my friends or even my family but sometimes, you can't trust no one and it hurts but you have to move on and forget about them!! They aren't worth your tears!!
What was going through my mind? Why were those things going through my mind?
When I was writing this poem, what was going through my mind? When I was writing this poem, the things that were going through my mind was how could someone hurt me so much and having so much trust within them? People can say or do mean and hateful things to you and they can say "I didn't mean what I say" but they are playing the victim but they aren't the victim because they hurt you and they are trying to make someone not believe you which is wrong!!! Why were those things going through my mind? The reason why how could someone hurt me so much having so much trust within them or when they try to play the victim is because people are freaking jerks! They are so mean to the point where you don't want to talk or look at them! People are so hateful and they will always be hateful no matter what!!! Be careful who you are around because if you aren't, then those people are going to bring you down and it is going to hurt you so much!! Don't let anyone hurt you!!
My advice!! Why would I give that advice?
If I could give any advice about people hurting you or something that they did affect you, what is my advice? If any of Blogger Dreamers have been hurt or someone said something or did something that affected you, my advice is cut that person or people out of your life! They don't deserve to be in your life! You deserve people who love you unconditionally and who cares about you so much!! Don't settle for less because if you settle for less, you are going to get hurt at the end of the day and if that person is going to bring you down every chance they get, it is going to tear you down and it is not a good feeling at all! Be careful who you are around!! Don't be around people who are negative!! Why would I give that advice? The reason why I would give that advice to my Blogger Dreamers is because if you let someone continue to hurt you or put you down, then they are affecting you really bad and they are constantly bringing you down which you don't need in your life! You don't need someone who is going to bring your mental health down!! That's not what you need!!
The significance behind the advice! Why is it so significant??
What is the significance behind the advice? Well, the significance behind the advice which I said cut that person or people out of your life and the significance behind that is when people are hateful towards you and they verbally, physically, or emotionally abuse you, it can take a toll on someone and that hurts a lot!! People can hurt you the way they act or or they can do something to you to the point where you are afraid of them! You don't need them and you don't need someone who is going to treat you like crap! Why is it so significant? The reason why my advice is so significant is because there is people out there who can treat you like crap like your family and friends which no one and I mean no one doesn't have to go through that!! No one deserves any kind of abuse whether it is verbal abuse, physical abuse, or emotional abuse you or even mental abuse! Cut the toxic people out of your life! You don't need it!!
In conclusion/ Tip of the day!!
In conclusion, there is awful people who will treat you like crap! I had plenty of people who didn't care about me or even stopped talking to me which hurt me so much!! I don't need those people who stopped talking to me because they aren't worth my time! I had people who treat me like crap but at the end of the day, I need to move on from that situation and live my life! I need to make the right decisions for my life! That''s it! My life doesn't consist on focusing on people who have hurt me in the past! I don't need that! I am moving on from the people who have hurt me and that's it!! Here is my tip of the day! My tip of the day is move on from the people who have or who are hurting you because those people aren't worth to be in your life! They aren't worth your tears! Move on and be happy within yourself! Always love yourself because you deserve to love yourself always!! Loving yourself is the best thing ever! Forget the haters and cut the toxic people who don't need you!
Alright, my Blogger Dreamers! It's your blogger queen, Brandee here and I just wanted to remind everyone that y'all have reached the end of today's blog! Don't let those people continue to hurt you over and over again! Ignore them and be there for yourself and love yourself! For today's quote of the day, it goes like this: "Stop comparing, I'm just me". -Fire, BTS! I love this quote so much because when someone compares you to someone else, it doesn't feel good! We are our own person and we need to be proud of who we are! No one shouldn't be compared to anyone and we just need to be ourselves because if we be who we are, then we are good! Don't be afraid to be who you are! I hope everyone enjoyed this blog episode for today! I hope everyone enjoys the weekend and remember the slogan: "Dream big! Don't give up on your dreams"!! I will see y'all on Monday on my 2nd blogging page where I will be talking about how to deal with rejection, the fear of abandonment, and the fear of rejection, so stay tuned for those blogs! I love y'all and this blogger queen is out! Peace!! 💜✌
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Quote of the day!! I love this quote so much!!   is getting hurt by the person you explained your pain to." -Unknown. I love this quote because when you explained the pain that you were going through and the person in front of you is basically causing you pain! That is the worst feeling in world and it sucks!!  are LIARS who think they are telling the truth". -Unknown! I love this quote because when people tell you lies after lies and you believe them but you are to the point where you don't believe them anymore! That's how I felt when people who I thought they were telling the truth but they aren't!! To end today's blog episode, let's end today's blog episode with the song of the week which is call "Equal Sign" by J-Hope. I love this song so much! It is one of my favorite songs and I love the lyric that goes like "It cost nothing to be nice". I love that a lot!! It doesn't cost nothing to be nice and you should always be nice to someone no matter what!! Be kind to one another! |
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