Analyzing my poem "Lie". by: Brandee Darden!

                                        💔  Analyzing my poem "Lie" by: Brandee Darden! Date of blog: Friday, March 31st, 2023! 💔

Intro to my blog!! 

Hello, my Blogger Dreamers! It's I, the Queen of Blogging here, Brandee and welcome back to an all new weekly blog episode where I blog on Monday, Wednesday, and Friday and I do tiktoks on Sunday, Tuesday, and Thursday! Happy Friday or in other countries, Happy Saturday! First and foremost, how are my Blogger Dreamers doing today? I hope everyone is doing well and amazing! If not, I am here for y'all need anything! Life is hard! Believe me, I know but my Blogger Dreamers got this! I believe in my Blogger Dreamers! Let's end on a high note and let's walk into April with our head held high and be strong! Before I talk about today's blog episode, let's do a recap of Wednesday's blog episode which was me against the world! When I think about me against the world, I think about your world falling apart and you are just having a bad day and you know, you are going to have a bad day and that's fine! Me as a blogger, I tend to fall apart and wanting to quit but I can't do that because I have millions of my fans who are counting on my and I can't quit! If you are struggling with anything like the voices in your head, here is my advice- don't listen to the voices in your head because you are much better than that! I love y'all with all my heart and don't give up! For today's blog episode, I will be talking about analyzing my poem "Lie" by: Brandee Darden. In this blog episode, I will be talking about what is this poem all about? Why did I write this about? When I think about the word "Lie", comes to mind? Why does it come to mind? When people like to me, what does it do to me? Why does it bother me when someone lies to me? If I have any advice to give to my Blogger Dreamers about lying, what would my advice be? Why would I give my Blogger Dreamers that advice about lying? Now, let's explore on this new blogging journey and get started! Shall we? We shall!! 

Talking about my poem! When I think about liars, who does come to mind? Why do those people come to mind? 

On Wednesday, October 27th of last year, I wrote a poem called "Lie" by me aka Brandee Darden! It goes something like this: "Lie" by: Brandee D. 

"Lie 

That is 

What People 

Do to you 

When they 

want to 

so-called 

"protect" you 

But instead

they go 

behind your 

Back and 

Hurt you! 

When that

person that 

you trusted 

Hurt you! 

When that 

person that 

You trusted 

Hurt you 

So Bad and 

Now you 

Don't trust 

them because 

they hurt you 

And Lie to 

You! Forget 

them! Move on

and Forget 

the Lies that 

they told you" ! 

-Brandee Darden. This poem has volume and this poem speaks to me and to my heart and let me tell you why? The reason why it has volume and speaks to me and my heart is because I have been lied to before and that hurts so much so therefore, don't trust people who lie to you because when you trust someone who lies to you, they are going to hurt you over again and it hurts! When I think about liars, who comes to mind? When I think about liars, I think about serial killers but mainly Ted Bundy! When Ted Bundy was in the court room or in front of the police, he would lie about the killings or even what happened! He escaped from prison but he was later found! Why would someone lie instead of telling the truth? Like, come on! Don't be like Ted Bundy or don't kill anyone! Why do those people come to mind? The reason why it came to mind because I remember watching a movie about Ted Bundy and he kept denying it over and over again and saying that "he didn't do it" or whatnot and even though I wasn't born back then, I honestly think he did it! Don't lie about something that you didn't do because you obviously did it! 

What is this poem about? Why did I write this about? 

  What is this poem about? This poem is all about people who have lied to you! When people lie to you, they are going to continue to do it over and again because they are showing you that if they are going to continue to lie to you, they are showing you that you can't trust them and you can't trust people these days! When people lie to your face, they are showing you "why bother that person if they can't be there for you" therefore, they aren't worth your time or energy! For crying out loud, they aren't even worth your tears! Let me tell you why they aren't worth your tears? Because people are jerks and they don't care how bad they hurt you which is sad! Don't cry over someone!! Why did I write this about? The reason why I wrote about my poem about all about people who have lied to you is because when people lie to you over and over again, it is a slap in the face and they are showing you that they don't care about you and they will never care about you and that you aren't worth your time which is so sad because when you have been there for someone through your hardest times, you expect them to be there for you but in reality, they aren't there for you and it hurts you so much! Don't be friends with someone who is going to lie to you because if you do, they are going to hurt you over and over again and you don't need that!!

The word "Lie". Why does it come to mind? 

When I think about the word "Lie", what comes to mind? When I think about the word "Lie", I think about someone in your life tells you one story but then, they change their story again! They will tell you one thing but then, here it from someone else and it is ridiculous that people will change their stories over and over again! For example, Ted Bundy would lie about the killings that he didn't do! Jeffery Dahmer would tell the truth about what he did but what he did was gruesome and disgusting but what Ted Bundy did was horrible as well but he would lie about it which is wrong! Why would you lie about a crime that you didn't do but you obviously did it? The word "Lie" is wrong and disrespectful! I always believe in telling the truth and I want my Blogger Dreamers to always tell the truth no matter what! Why does it come to mind? The reason why it comes to mind is because people would often change their stories over and over again and you are always going to believe them no matter what! It is like the news for example, you will read one source but then you read from another source and you don't know which one to believe because you don't want know which one is telling the truth or not! The word "Lie" can destroy a lot of people and lying to someone can hurt a lot of people! 

When people lie to me! Why does it bother me when someone lies to me? 

When people lie to me, what does it do to me? When people lie to me or tell me something completely different, it hurts me a lot! It feels like someone that I thought I could quote on quote "trust" but in reality, I can't trust that person because they can't tell me the honest truth! In relationships and friendships, trust is a big thing for me! If I can't trust my partner or my friend, then what is the point in being with you or being friends with you? When people don't tell me the truth, it feels like a dagger in my heart! I rather people tell me the truth than a lie because I like a truthful person, not a person who lies to me! I rather people say here is what I did verses telling me a complete lie that isn't true! Why does it bother me when someone lies to me? The reason why it bothers me when someone lies to me is because it hurts! Lying to someone hurts so much! People don't realize when you lie to someone, you don't to either cry or be angry towards them and when someone lies to you, it just comes to show that they never told you the truth in the beginning which is completely sad and unacceptable! You should never tolerate someone who lies to you over and over again! Don't trust people who lie to you because they are going to continue to do it again and you don't need that in your life! 

My advice! Why would I give my Blogger Dreamers that advice about lying?  

If I have any advice to give to my Blogger Dreamers about lying, what would my advice be? My advice about lying is don't lie to someone, always tell the truth no matter what! Telling the truth is much better than lying! When you tell a lie, it shows that person who is much younger than you like a little kid that lying is good which is not! When you are a positive influence on a little kid's life, it shows them that lying is wrong and it shows kids that you should always tell the truth no matter! Don't teach a kid that lying is right because it is not right at all! Don't teach a kid how to lie! Never teach a kid bad things like lying because lying takes you nowhere whatsoever! Teach kids the right thing, not the wrong thing! Why would I give my Blogger Dreamers that advice about lying? The reason why I would I give my Blogger Dreamers that advice about lying is because I have great nieces and nephews and if they see me doing something that be wrong, I have to fix it because I don't them to know that I am doing something wrong like lying and lying is wrong so I want to know what's right from wrong! Teaching little kids at a young age what's right from wrong is better because if show them that lying is wrong. they are going to know that it is wrong to lie! As adults, we should already know that lying is wrong and that we need to show other people lying is disrespectful and we need to show that no matter what, we should tell the truth no matter what!

In closing/ Tip of the day!! 

In closing, lying is worse! Lying is worse because if someone is telling you a lie, it hurts you! People lie all the time and there is a show called "Catfish" and on that show, people lie about what they look like and what is there age is and where they are from and when I watched that show before, I was thinking to myself, "Why would you put yourself through that if you are going to get hurt"? Lying is wrong and we need to tell the truth no matter what! Don't ever lie to someone because you think it is "protecting" them but it is not because you are going to hurt them more and! Never tell a lie to someone because it is not worth lying to someone! Here is my tip of the day! My tip of the day is always tell the truth no matter what! If you tell someone the truth, then they might believe you but if tell someone a lie, they are not going to believe in you so no matter what. always tell the truth no matter! The truth is much better than telling a lie! Telling a truth is better because people will believe in you no matter what! I love y'all and always tell the truth!

Hello, my Blogger Dreamers! It's the Blogger Queen, Brandee here to remind everyone that y'all have reached the end of today's blog episode! I hope and pray that y'all learn that lying is horrible and that you should never lie about anything because lying would get you nowhere! Lying is bad and telling the truth is good! Always tell the truth no matter what! Telling the truth is better than telling a lie! Here is today's bible verse: "The Lord stood with me and gave me strength..." 2 Timothy 4:17. I love this bible verse so much because the Lord will always stand by side and will give me strength no matter what! If you believe in God that he will be there for you no matter what, he will give you strength! Don't give up! I love y'all and I will see y'all next week where I will be talking about my poem "Inspiration", analyzing the song "Head above water" by Avril Lavigne, and what do I like about blogging? Stay tuned for new blogs! Until next time, "Dream big! Don't give up on your dreams" and I will see y'all on my second blog page! I love y'all and this Blogger Queen is out! Peace! ✌💜

Today's bible verse of the day! I love this bible verse so much! It is such a good bible verse and I love it a lot!! 

My poem that I did about "Lie" that I wrote on Wednesday, October 27th, 2022! I know what is like to be lied to and when someone is lying to you, it hurts you and it is like a slap in the face! Not a good feeling at all!! 

"Be cautious of lies, big and 
small, seriously and in jest, for if a 
man tells a small lie, he will have 
the audacity to tell a big lie."
-Imam Ali (AS). I love this quote because if you tell a little lie or a big lie, you have the audacity to tell a big lie and humiliate yourself! Don't do that because it is embarrassing and always tell the truth no matter what!! 

"A liar's biggest 
punishment in this 
world is that even 
his truth is rejected". 
-Imam Ali (AS). I love this quote so much because if you tell a lie, people are going to reject you and not believe you because you told a lie and you should never tell a lie no matter what! Always tell the truth no matter what!! 

To end today's blog episode, here is this week's song of the week! I chose this song "Warrior" by Avril Lavigne because everyone is a warrior! Everyone gets up everyday and fighting for their life! Don't give up! Also, just a heads up! This song has a curse word in it, so curse word warning ahead! I love y'all and have a good weekend ahead!


 

Me against the world! by: Brandee Darden!!

                                       Blog title: Me against the world! by: Brandee Darden. Date of blog: Wednesday, 3/29/23!! 

Intro to my blog! 

Hello, my Blogger Dreamers! It's I, Brandee here, the queen of blogging herself and welcome back to an all new blog episode! Happy Wednesday or in other countries, Happy Thursday! First and foremost, how's my Blogger Dreamers doing today? I hope everyone is doing well and amazing! If not, that's okay because I'm here for y'all if y'all need anything! Before I get into today's blog episode, let's do a recap of Monday's blog episode! On Monday, I analyze the song "Warrior" by: Avril Lavigne, blog by: Brandee Darden. In this blog, I talked about when I think about the word "warrior", I think about someone who is fighting through something in their life or they might be fighting through cancer or even a mental health problems or some people might be fighting through physical health! They are a warrior because they are fighting through life and it might be hard, but we got this! I believe in my Blogger Dreamers! For today's blog episode, I will be talking about me against the world! In this blog episode, I will be talking about when I think about the world against me, how does that make me feel? Why do I feel that certain way when sometimes the world is against me? How do I fight against the voices in my head? Why do I fight against the world or the voices in my head? If I have any advice about fighting against the people in your life or the voices in your head, what would my advice be? Why would I give out that advice? Now, let's get started on this blog journey and let the creative mind get to work! Shall we? We shall! 

When people are against me! Why do I feel a certain way when someone is against me? 

When people are against me, how does that make me feel? When people are against me and they always take someone else's side, it hurts me so much! When I didn't do anything to that person and I help them get through life but then they stab me in the back, it hurts so much! It shows me that they never cared about me and they will never care about me! When people show me that I can't trust them, it hurts but at the end of the day, I will be okay because God is my best friend and he will never go behind my back! Why do I feel a certain way when someone is against me? The reason why I feel a certain way when someone is against me is because when you have been thrown under the bus by someone or when someone doesn't care about you, it comes to show they never cared about you in the first place but one day, they are going to realize how much those people hurt you and for me, I know how people can be sometimes so I know to be careful with people who don't care about me but I know that God will never hurt me because he is trustworthy!! 

My feelings against the world against me! Why do I feel that certain way when sometimes the world is against me?

When I think about the world against me, how does that make me feel? When I have the odds against me or the world is crashing all around me, it makes me feel undefeated and not able to safe anyone including myself! When I feel like the world is against me, it hurts me so much to the point where I want to cry! In life, people are too mean and rude and sometimes, people will throw you under the bus like they are happy to! Don't let people throw you under the bus because they aren't worth the tears! Why do I feel that certain way when sometimes the world is against me? The reason why I feel that certain way when sometimes the world is against me is because the world can get the best of us! The world can tell us that we are not "good enough" or someone "doesn't like us" because we aren't their type or we aren't pretty enough but that's okay because we shouldn't have to worry about what others think about us and don't let the world dictate whether we are pretty or handsome because we look good either way! Don't let the weight of the world come crashing down on you because it's not worth it!!

Fight against the voices in my head! 

How do I fight against the voices in my head? There are several ways that I fight off the voices in my head! The first thing that I do to fight off the voices in my head is I tell myself that I am good enough and that nothing can beat me down! Second thing that helps me fight through the voices in my head is I love to listen to music! I love listening to music! When I listen to music, it comforts me a lot and when I listen to music, it takes me to a different world which I love a lot! The third and final thing that helps me fight through the voices in my head is writing down my thoughts and feelings about certain things! When I am feeling down or have something going on in my head, I write down what I am feeling! For me, when I write down what I am feeling, it helps me so much and I feel much better after that! For me, writing is therapeutic  and I love it more than anything so when I write down my feelings in a poem or in my journal or when I am working on a new blog episode, I am pouring my feelings into anything that I am doing!!

Why do I fight against one world or the voices in my head? 

Why do I fight against one world or the voices in my head? The reasons why I tell myself that I am good enough is because in my head, my voices tell me that I am "never good enough" when I know that I am! I know that I am good enough and I know that I will always be good enough! The second reason why I listen to music to fight off my voices in my head is because when I listen to music, it is comforting and when I listen to soft Kpop music, it takes me to another world that I wasn't expecting to take me! Soft Kpop music or soft pop music is such good for me that it helps clear my head! The third and final reason why writing helps me a lot because when I work on a new blog or I write down my feelings(I barely do that anymore but I need to do it) or write down a new poem, it feels good to write down something and pour my feelings into something that brings me so much joy! Writing down how I am feeling or why I am feeling that way is important to me and writing down how I am feeling is better than keeping in but I haven't been able to do that but I might start doing that again very soon! 

My advice! 

If I have any advice about fighting against the people in your life or the voices in your head, what would my advice be? If I have any advice about fighting against the people in your life, my advice is if you are fighting against the people in your life, don't continue to fight with them anymore! It's not worth it! If they are constantly bringing you down and making you feel worthless, you don't need that type of a person in your life! You deserve someone who loves you for being in their life, not someone who constantly brings you down! Here is my advice for my Blogger Dreamers who might be fighting the voices in their head: My advice is if you are fighting the voices in your head and they are telling you that "your not good enough" or "people hate you", don't listen to those voices in your head because you are good enough and people don't hate you! Never listen to those voices in your head because you are an amazing person and don't y'all ever forget that! To the reader who is reading this, you are loved here at the Blogger Dreamers and don't you ever forget that! 

Why would I give out that advice? 

The reason why I would give out that advice is because I feel like if people are constantly bringing you down and making you feel like it is them against you or you against the world, they want to make you feel like you don't belong in this world or they want to constantly bring you down and that's not okay! You deserve to around people who love you for the way you are and you shouldn't have to like you don't belong in this earth because everyone does! Never listen to the voices in your head because if you do, the voices are constantly going to bring you down and they are going to constantly hurt you and you don't deserve that either! Never listen to those voices in your head because you are good enough and you are loved! No one hates you and if someone hates you, then they are wrong because you are an amazing person and don't you ever forget that!! 

In closing/ tip of the day! 

In closing, when you are against the world, it feels like everyone is bringing you down and it hurts you so much! When people put their troubles on you, it is hard for you because it is not your troubles but it is your friends or families troubles and you shouldn't have to deal with it but instead, you are there for that person when they need someone the most! There is a quote by BTS, V and it goes like this: "You're too young to let the world break you" and I love this quote so much because he is right! You should never let the world break you or even one person break you! When the world breaks you, people in this world is going to take you down and bring you with them! The voices in your head is going to take you down as well and that's hard! The world shouldn't bring you down and your voices in your shouldn't bring you down either!! Here is my tip of the day: Don't let the voices in your head bring you down and never let the people break you either! God is there to help you and comfort you when you him the most! I love y'all!

Hello, my Blogger Dreamers! It's your girl aka the Blogger Queen herself, Brandee here to remind everyone that y'all just reached the end of today's blog episode! I hope everyone enjoyed today's blog episode because I did! Never let the world break you down or don't let the people bring you down because you are worth so much more! People can be rude sometimes but you don't need to listen to those people or listen to the voices in your head! It's not worth it! Here is my bible verse of the day: "He who believes in Me shall never thirst". -John 6:35. I love this bible verse a lot because if you believe in God and that Jesus died for our sins, then you will never be thirsty for knowledge of the bible. God will always comfort you no matter what! I love y'all and I hope everyone will have a happy Wednesday or in other countries, Happy Thursday! Please, stay safe and remember "Dream big! Don't give up on your dreams". I will see y'all on Friday where I will be talking about my poem "Lie". Stay tuned for a new blog episode! I love y'all and this Blogger Queen is out! Peace! ✌💛

Today's bible verse! I love this bible verse so much!! Such a good bible verse!

"I don't care if the whole world is 
against you or teasing you or 
saying you are not gonna make it. 
Believe in yourself, no matter what".
-Michael Jackson. I love this quote so much because the world can be against you or they can be teasing you or they might say "you might not make it" but that's okay because you should always believe in yourself no matter what! Don't give up!! 

"When I am with you
I feel invincible
But when you are not around 
it feels like it's 
me against the world".
-Valorem. I love this quote so much because when you have someone to protect you at all cost, it feels like you are safe and protected but when you are by yourself, it feels like the world is against you and it is hard to fight people off when people are dragging you down!! Don't let people drag you down!!

"You cannot win the war
against the world
If you can't win the war 
Against Your Own Mind". 
-Will Smith. I love this quote so much because you can't fight your own war, if you are fighting one in your mind! Don't let the one in your own mind beat you down because its not worth it!! 

Analyzing the song "Warrior" by Avril Lavigne, blog by: Brandee Darden!

                                           Analyzing the song "Warrior" by Avril Lavigne, blog by: Brandee Darden! Date of blog: Monday, 3/27/23! 

Intro to my blog!! 

Hello, my Blogger Dreamers! It's the queen of blogging, Brandee here and welcome back to an all new weekly blog episode! Happy Monday or in other countries, Happy Tuesday! I am so happy to have y'all on a new blog episode! How's my Blogger Dreamers doing today? I hope everyone is doing well and amazing! If not, that's alright because it is a fresh start to a brand new week which means new blog episodes! Before I get into this week's blog episodes, I am going to recap of last week's blog episodes! On Monday, I talked about my favorite outfits by Jackson Wang! Jackson Wang has some good fashion taste and the one outfit that stood out to me was the outfit that he wore in the music video "Pretty Please" which is a white shirt with blue jeans and white shoes! He did wear amazing outfits but in my head, that was great! On Wednesday, I talked about how has my makeup changed? Part 2! Ever since I got into makeup, I have changed my routine! I had done eyeliner and then, took it out! Now, I fill in my eyebrows and I love filling them in! On Friday, I talked about how has my fashion changed? part 2: Skirt edition! I love wearing skirts now! I think skirts are amazing and so cute! I have gained so much confidence because of wearing skirts and I am so proud of myself! For this week's blog episodes, I will be talking about analyzing the song "Warrior" by Avril Lavigne blog by: Brandee Darden, me against the world, and analyzing my poem "Lie" by: Brandee Darden. Now, let's get this adventure started! Shall we? We shall! #newblogadventureontherising

Talking about today's blog episode for the day! Why did I chose to talk about today's blog episode? What is this week's song of the week? Why did I chose this song for the song of the week? 

For today's blog episode, I will be talking about analyzing the song "Warrior" by Avril Lavigne, blog by: Brandee Darden. In this blog, I will be talking about when I think about the word "Warrior", what comes to mind? Why does it come to my mind? Who do I call warriors? Why do I call those people warriors in my life? What makes a person a warrior in my opinion? Why does that thing or things make a person a warrior? If I can tell that person "thank you for being a warrior", what else would I tell them? Why would I tell those people "thank you for being a warrior"? Why did I chose to talk about today's blog episode? The reason why I chose to talk about this blog episode is because there is a lot of people in my life who are warriors and warriors don't give up and some people that I know doesn't give up so easily! What is this week's song of the week? For the song of the week is "Warrior" by Avril Lavigne! I love this song so much! It is such a good song and it has a soft tune to it which I love so much! I love how much meaning it has! Avril Lavigne did so well on this song and I would listen to it over and over again because it is that good! Why did I chose this song for the song of the week? I chose this song for the week is because this song is so personal to me and I love it so much! It reminds me of the people who are in life who keeps fighting for their life and who might battling through stuff!! Everyone is a warrior! Never forget that!

When I listen to this song, what comes to mind? Why does this song come to my mind? 

When I listen to the song "Warrior" by Avril Lavigne, what comes to mind? Every time I listen to this song, I think about the people might be going through a hard time or have some kind of a health issue, I think about how they are fighting through it and how it makes them a warrior! In the chorus, it goes like this 'Cause I'm a warrior, I fight for my life 

Like a soldier all through the night

And I won't give up, I will survive, I'm a warrior 

And I'm stronger, that's why I'm alive

I will conquer, time after time 

I will never falter, I will survive, I'm a warrior". I love these lyrics so much because they have meaning to them and when I listen to this song, I think about the lyrics and how powerful they are because when I listen to this song, I think about how powerful these lyrics are! Why does this song come to my mind? The reason why it comes to my mind it is because this song is so beautiful and so powerful to the point where when you think about a certain someone or everyone in your life, you think to yourself "they are warriors! They can get through everything" and that is how I feel about certain people in my life!

The word "warrior"! Why does it come to my mind like that? 

When I think about the word "warrior", what comes to mind? When I think about the word "warrior", I think about people who have been fighting cancer or mental health issues or just fighting through life in general! Everyone is a warrior in my eyes! Everyone has struggles that they might be going through and because they are fighting through those issues, they are warrior! There are people who might be going through a rough time in their life, but that's what makes them a warrior because they are fighting through their life and I am praying for the people who are fighting through life doesn't give up! Being a warrior is awarding because once you keep fighting through life, you fought through it and you did it!! Why does it come to my mind like that? The reason why it came to my mind because everyone is a warrior in my opinion! No matter what they have gone through, everyone is a warrior! I have been fighting through life and I am a warrior! I know in my family, I know some warriors!! Everyone is a warrior!! 

The people who I call warriors! Why do I call those people warriors in my life? 

Who do I call warriors? The people who I call warriors in my life are the people who might struggled with mental health issues or people who might be fighting cancer or had cancer or people who might have gone through a lot in their life! That's who I call warriors! The people who might be fighting cancer are warriors in my eyes! They might have to take treatments or they might lost their hair, that makes them a warrior because they are fighting through life! People who are fighting through mental health issues are warriors because they are struggling to get through each day but they are warriors because they are trying! People who might be through struggling with their physical health are warriors is because they are trying to get up and to me, that's all that matters! Why do I call those people warriors? I call these people warriors because going through chemo or feeling depressed or even struggling to get up every single day because they are in pain is a challenge within itself but that is what makes someone a warrior because they are trying to fight through the pain or whatever they are going through! I applaud for them because they are warriors and they are trying to fight through the pain!! 

A person a warrior! Why does that thing or things make a person a warrior? 

What makes a person a warrior in my opinion? What makes a person a warrior in my opinion is when a person wakes up feeling depressed and they don't want to wake up because they are struggling but they are a warrior by just waking up! What makes a person who is battling with cancer is they are fighting through life and they don't want to give up! What makes a person who is in physical health is they are trying to fight through the pain! What makes people who are struggling in life a warrior is they are fighting through life and they are putting their life on the line to help other people which I love when other people help other people! People are warriors for a reason because they get up every morning and get through each day! Why does that thing or things make a person a warrior? The reason why those things make a person a warrior is because they are trying to fight through whatever they are going through and getting up everyday which I love! There might be days where they want to give up but they don't because they are fighting through life and not only they are a warrior but they are also a fighter because they are fighting to get through life!!

Tell a person thank for being a warrior! Why would I tell those people "thank you for being a warrior"? 

If I can tell that person "thank you for being a warrior", what else would I tell them? If I can tell that person "thank you for being a warrior", I would also tell them "thank you for not giving up or quitting". Sometimes, life is so hard and hard to live sometimes but to the people who hasn't give up on their live and who is fighting through it, thank you for not giving up because there has been times where I wanted to give up but I haven't give up yet because I have God by my side and if you pray every night and everyday, God will hear you because God hears everything! God will help you get through everything! Why would I tell those people "thank you for being a warrior"? The reason why I would tell those people "thank you for being a warrior" and telling them "thank you for getting through life" is because life is so hard at times but if you have God by your side, he will help you get through everything! Life is so hard but you can get through everything because you have people who will support you and help you get through everything and if you have don't have no one, I'm here for my Blogger Dreamers if y'all need anything because I love y'all so much!! 

In closing/ Tip of the day!! 

In closing, everyone that I might talk to on a daily basis or who I might see are warriors! My dad, my mom, my stepmom, my sisters, my brothers, and other people who are in my life are warriors! They go through stuff that I might not know about but they are warriors because they are so strong and they are fighting through it everyday! Sometimes, I wake up everyday not knowing what is ahead of me but I do know that we serve an awesome God and that he will help us get through everything if we believe in him! I'm a warrior because I fight through everything that comes in my way because nothing gets in my way and I will never give up! Here is my tip of the day! My tip of the day is keep fighting no matter what! Life is hard but trust me, you got this! You are not in this fight alone because I have my Blogger Dreamers backs no matter what! I will support you through life and through anything if y'all need anything! God will never let you fail! He will be here for y'all as well! Don't give up! I love y'all! 

Hello, my Blogger Dreamers! It's your girl aka the Blogger Queen herself, Brandee here to remind everyone that y'all have reached the end of today's blog episode! I hope everyone enjoyed today's blog episode for today because I know that I did! Everyone is a warrior in my eyes! Everyone has different battles that we might go through in life but we are all human and we cry but we don't give up! Always keep fighting no matter what! I love my Blogger Dreamers so much! Life is so hard, but that doesn't mean that you have to give up! Never give up! For today's bible verse of the day, it goes like this: "If you believe, you will get Anything you Ask For In prayer". -Matthew 21:22. I love this bible verse so much because I believe in the power of prayer and if you believe that whatever you pray for will be answered, then believe in it because it will happen! I love y'all so much and I hope everyone will have a great Monday or in other countries, a great Tuesday! Stay safe and remember: "Dream Big! Don't give up on your dreams". I will see y'all on Wednesday where I will be talking about me against the world! I love y'all and stay fabulous! This Blogger Queen is out! Peace! ✌💜

Today's bible verse of the day! Love this bible verse so much!! 

"I survived because 
the fire inside of me 
burned brighter than 
the fire around me".
-Joshua Graham. I love this quote so much because we all have a fire inside of that makes us keep fighting and making us a warrior!

"Courage 
above all 
things, is the 
first quality of 
a warrior".
-Carl Von Clausewitz. I love this quote a lot because you need to have a lot of courage within yourself and if you believe that you have courage, then always believe in yourself no matter what!

"Strength doesn't 
come from what 
you can do. 
It comes from 
overcoming the 
things you once 
thought you 
couldn't".
-Rikki
Rogers. I love this quote so much because you can overcome anything if you believe that you can! Life is so hard but everyone can get through anything that God throws at you! Believe in that!

To end today's blog episode, here is this week's song of the week! I chose this song "Warrior" by Avril Lavigne! I love this song so much and this song holds a special meaning in my life! Heads up! There is a curse word in this song! Just letting y'all know! 

Analyzing my poem "Don't cry over others" by: Brandee Darden. Friday, 3/3/23

                                                Analyzing my poem "Don't cry over others" by: Brandee Darden! Date of blog: Friday, March 3rd, 2023!! 

Intro to my blog!! 

Hello, my Blogger Dreamers!! It's I, the Blogger Queen herself, Brandee here and welcome back to an all new weekly blog episode! Happy Friday or in other countries, Happy Saturday! I want to ask my Blogger Dreamers a question and that is: How is my Blogger Dreamers doing today? I hope everyone is doing okay and well! If you are not doing okay okay and well, just know that is a bump in the road! You are going to have bad days and good days but at the end of the day, you are going to get through it because my Blogger Dreamers are strong! Never give up! I believe in my Blogger Dreamers!! Before I talk about today's blog episode, I am going to do a recap of Wednesday's blog episode and that is toxic relationships vs real relationships! When I think about toxic relationships, I think about within couples, they are constantly fighting and constantly cheating on each other which is not good to be in because if you are constantly cheating on one another, then if you get into another relationship, you are going to expect the same thing which is not good at all! The second and final thing that I think about being in a toxic relationship when it comes to couples is no communication whatsoever! If y'all have no communication then how y'all going to understand each other! Toxic relationships doesn't happen in couples but it also happens in families and friendships as well! If you are around family or friends who are not good for you, then you don't need to be around those people! When I think about real relationships, I think about having communication within one another and being there for one another when y'all need each other the most!! Communication is key!! Now, for today's blog episode, I will be analyzing my poem "Don't cry over others". In this blog episode, I will be talking about when I was wring this poem, what was going through my mind? Why was that thing going through my mind when I was writing my poem? When I think about people not caring about me or showing me that I don't mean a lot to them, how does that make me feel? Why does it make me feel a certain way? If I have any advice to give to my Blogger Dreamers about crying over someone who doesn't care about them or you don't mean a lot to someone, what is my advice? Why would I give that advice to my Blogger Dreamers? Now, let's go on an adventure and get this blog episode started! Shall we? We shall!!! 

Talking about my poem? What is the meaning behind my poem? Why is there meaning behind my poem? 

On Tuesday, November 22nd of last year, I wrote a poem called "Don't cry over others". This is how I started my poem: "Don't cry over others" by: Brandee Marie Darden. 

"Don't cry 

over others 

because they 

hurt you! 

Don't cry 

over others 

because they 

don't mean 

a lot to 

you anymore! 

Show people 

how strong 

you are! 

Show the 

FAKE people 

who don't 

care about 

you because 

you are 

worth it"! 

-Love, Brandee Marie Darden! 

Date of poem: Tuesday, November 22nd, 2022!! What is the meaning behind this poem? The meaning behind this poem is never cry for others who don't care about you! The people who don't care about you showed you that they never cared about you in the first place and it shows that they never supported you in the beginning!! Why is there meaning behind my poem? The reason why there is meaning behind this poem is because if you show those people who never cared about you that you are crying, it is going to show them that they won and you gave into crying and begging for their attention! Never force people to give their attention to you because if they didn't pay attention to you the first time, they won't do it again so don't cry over them!! 

What was going through my mind? Why was that thing going through my mind when I was writing this poem? 

When I was writing this poem, what was going through my mind? When I was writing this poem, there was a lot of things going through my mind! The thought process when I was writing this poem was "how can I make this poem relatable"? I remembered when I cared about people who didn't care about me that I would cry and always checking on them if they need anything but when I realized that they never cared about me, I realized it was my time to move on from those people and live my life to the best of my best ability! When I was writing this poem, it made thought about the people who didn't care about me and who said "I'm always here for you no matter what" but it turned out, they aren't because they never cared about me and they will never care about me and honestly, I am fine with that! I'm okay with people who stopped checking on me because I don't need those people! Why was that thing going through my mind when I was writing this poem? The reason why that thing was going through my mind when I was writing this poem is because people don't realize that if you are not there for them, they are going to move on from you and show you how independent that are! I don't care if you are my friend or family or even my ex boyfriend, I am going to walk away from you and tell you that "I don't need you anymore" because in reality, I don't need you!

My feelings towards people who don't care about me or showing me that I don't mean a lot to them! Why does it make me feel a certain way?  

When I was think about people not caring about me or showing me that I don't mean a lot to them, how does it make me feel? Everyone has different feelings when it comes to people not caring about you or showing you that you don't mean a lot to them but for me, when people stop caring about me or showing me that I don't have apart in their life, it hurts me a lot! It shows me that people that I thought they cared about me, I wasted my tears on them! I wasted my tears on people who I cared about but they never cared about me which is totally hurtful for me! When you support a person and be there for them through the hardest things in life but then, you remembered to yourself "I was there for that person, but they were never there for me" which is so true! I was there for people when they needed me but when it was my turn, they forgot about my feelings but I moved on from that and I will learn to grow each day and showing people who don't care or showing me that I don't mean a lot to them, it shows how strong I am as a person! Why does it make me feel a certain way? The reason why it makes me feel a certain way is because when people show you that you aren't apart of their life or you don't have the right to be in their life, honestly, that hurts you as a human being and for me, it hurts me as well because you been there for that person and they are going to kick you to the curb like that, that is not a good feeling within itself at all! Don't deal with a person who doesn't care about you because it shows them that they can hurt but at the same time, don't show them how weak you are but show them how strong you can be because my Blogger Dreamers are strong and I know that!

My advice! Why would I give that advice to my Blogger Dreamers? 

If I have any advice to give to my Blogger Dreamers about crying over someone who doesn't care about them or you don't mean a lot to someone, what is my advice? My advice to y'all is stop crying over people who never cared about you or wasn't there for you through your hardest moments! When those people left you and stopped being there for you, you might of cried because you were there for them but deep down inside, you realized that you don't need those people anymore and my advice to my Blogger Dreamers is don't cry over people who don't care about you! Don't cry over people who wasn't there for you through your hardest times because at the end of the day, the only people who will be there for you is the people who cares about and what is best for you and your well-being!! Why would I give that advice to my Blogger Dreamers? The reason why I would give that advice to my Blogger Dreamers is because people are going to leave you at times and sometimes, you might cry over them and leaving you but you realized that you don't need them since you are not needed in their life! Don't cry over someone who left you because you don't need them and they showed that you don't need them!! You are strong! You are amazing! You are loved by others who cares about you and I care about my Blogger Dreamers no matter what!! 

In closing/ Tip of the day!!

In closing, when people show their true colors and they show you that you don't mean nothing to them, you learned that you need to move on from them! When someone shows you that you mean nothing to them or you are not wanted in their life, it shows that you can leave from their life and go be your own person! When you don't need those people who are being fake to you, you show them that you can do it and that you will get over them whether it be an ex boyfriend, ex girlfriend, or even family members or ex friends! You don't need to cry over others because you didn't deserve them! You deserve people who will make you happy and support you no matter what!! Don't cry over others because they don't need your tears! They are the least important people in your life! Don't cry over them because they are not worth it! Here is my tip of the day! My tip of the day is don't cry over others or don't let yourself be used to as a door mat because that's not what you are! When people show you that you are the least important person in their life, it's time to move on from them and show them that you can conquer the world! People aren't worth your time or tears! Don't cry over those people!! 

Hello, my Blogger Dreamers! It's I, Brandee here aka the Blogger Queen herself to remind everyone that y'all have reached the end of today's blog episode for today! I hope everyone learned that when you don't mean a lot to them, you need to move on from them and that you need to realize that those tears that you running down aren't meant for anyone! If people don't see how much you are hurting and why you are hurting, then that's their lost, not you because you deserve so much more than that! People are so rude and so mean that they don't care about your feelings or how you feel! Show them that you can be strong and move on from them! For today's bible verse of the day, it goes like this: "The battle is Not Yours, But God's". -2 Chronicles 20:15. I love this bible verse so much because whatever you are battling with, God will help you! If you pray to him about it, he will get through it! God will heal you because he is the ultimate physician! Believe in God!! I hope everyone will have a good Friday or in other countries, a good Saturday! Until next time, "Dream Big! Don't give up on your dreams"! I hope everyone will have a good weekend and I will see y'all on my second blog page where I will be talking about analyzing the song "rescue" by: Lauren Daigle, blog by: Brandee Darden, my insecurities part 2, and how life can be a challenge? Stay tuned for all new blogs coming soon and I will see y'all next week! I love y'all and this Blogger Queen is out! Peace!! ✌💜

Today's bible verse of the day! I love this bible verse so much! Such an amazing bible verse and give God your problems because he will help you if you believe in him!! Always believe in him no matter what! 

My poem about "Don't cry over others" that I written on Tuesday, November 22nd, 2022! Love this poem so much!! Such a good poem!! 

"I don't cry over people, 
I cry over the way I get treated 
because I don't deserve that". 
-Unknown author. I love this quote so much because you don't deserve to cry over people but when people hurt you, you want to cry because they hurt you and you don't deserve to cry at all because of them hurting you!! 

"Never cry for that person who doesn't 
know the value of your tears".
-Unknown! I love this quote because if people that hurt you see you crying, they think it is for weakness and honestly, when people don't know what is the reason why you are crying, it is because they don't know much they have hurt you and they don't know the value of the hurt they caused you!! 

To end today's blog episode, here is this week's song of the week! I chose "Lilac" by IU! I love this song so much and it is very upbeat song! I love it a lot and it is a good listen!! 





 

Toxic relationships vs Real relationships!! By: Brandee Darden!

                                   💔💜   Toxic relationships vs Real relationships!! By: Brandee Darden. Date of blog: Wednesday, March 1st, 2023!! 💔💜 

Intro to my blog!! 

Hello, hello, and hello, my Blogger Dreamers!!! It's your girl aka the Blogger Queen herself, Brandee here and welcome back to an all new weekly blog episode!! Happy Wednesday or in other countries, Happy Thursday! I want to ask my Blogger Dreamers a question and that question is: How is my Blogger Dreamers doing today? I hope everyone is doing okay and well! If not, that's okay because this Blogger Queen is here for you, no matter what! At the Blogger Dreamers, you are loved and I support and accept you for who you are!! Before I get into today's blog episode, I am going to do a recap of Monday's blog! On Monday, I talked about the feeling of betrayal!! Betrayal can be a hurtful and horrible thing to ever go through in life! Someone can make promise after promise and they will continue to betray you because that is how people are or people will say "I'm here for you no matter what" but they will be abandon you because that's how people are! No one and I mean no one should ever should ever feel betrayed by someone who keeps making promises after promises or felt abandoned by someone because that is hurtful and heartbreaking! In today's blog episode, I will be talking about toxic relationships vs real relationships!! in this blog, I will be talking about what is the difference between a toxic relationship vs a real relationship? Why is there a difference between the two? How does a toxic relationship make it toxic? Why does it make it so toxic? What makes a real relationship a real relationship? Why does those things make a real relationship? If I have any advice for my Blogger Dreamers who are either in a toxic relationship or a real relationship, what is my advice? Why would I give that advice? Now, let's get into exploring and get ready to know what the difference between toxic relationships vs real relationships!! Shall we? We shall!! 

Talking about toxic relationships and real relationships within family, friends, and romantic relationships?

When I think about toxic relationships within family, I think of constant fighting with one another and the fighting doesn't stop! I understand that some families can be dysfunctional at times but at the same time, if you are not going to stop fighting with one another or be there for one another, then don't be around each other! Another thing about a toxic relationship with family, you can't come in and out of someone's life! That's toxic for someone and that is hard for someone!!! When I think about a real relationship with family, I think about supporting one another and being there and checking up on each other! I love how some of my family doesn't do that but that's okay because the real family who does, thank you because I love you!! When I think about toxic relationships with friends, I think about them not being there for you or they stop talking to you for no reason at all! When I think about a real relationship with your friends, I think about supporting one another and cheering each other on for moral support!! When I think about being in a toxic relationship with your partner, I think about fighting or not communicating with one another or cheating behind each others backs and keep on going back to one another! That's toxic right there!! When I think about a real relationship with your partner, I think about when y'all are fighting or done arguing, y'all talk about it or y'all communicate y'all's problems! With any relationship, communication is key! Being around people who are toxic is not good for your mental health!! They can bring you down and that's not right for you to go through that all!! 

Why can there be toxic and real relationships within family, friends, or romantic relationships? 

Why can there be toxic and real relationships within family, friends, or romantic relationships? The reason why there can be toxic and real relationships is because within family or family, it depends who you hang around with! When you hang around family, with some of them, you can get a good vibe with but some of the others, they might have a bad vibe and you don't want to hang around people who have a bad vibe! Now, if you are in a romantic relationship and then, you and your partner argue non stop or cheat on one another, y'all might as well get out of that relationship because it's not good for either you but if y'all communicate y'all's problems, then that is a real relationship!! Don't stick around people who are toxic because if you do, they are going to drain you like there is no tomorrow and you don't need that around you! You need to be with people who love you and care about you because if you hang around people who are too toxic for you, they are NOT going to care and you don't need that!! 

The difference between a toxic relationship vs a real relationship!! Why is there a difference between the two?

What is the difference between a toxic relationship vs a real relationship? The difference between a toxic relationship vs a real relationship is with a toxic relationship, you have people coming in and out of your life and maybe your boyfriend or girlfriend is constantly cheating on you and no one should have to deal with that! Toxic relationships with family or even friends or a boyfriend or girlfriend aren't good for you especially your mental health! With a real relationship, people like your friends or your family is always there for you no matter what! They support you in anything you do and they help you out with anything that you need help with! Now, when it comes to real relationships with your partner, y'all are going to have arguments but that doesn't mean that y'all have to constantly yell each other but instead, y'all can talk about it and communicate with one another! With a real relationship, people are there for one another, not in and out of each others lives!! Why is there a difference between the two? The reason why there is the difference between the two is because when people come in and out of your life, they are toxic for your mental health and well-being! When people constantly are yelling at one another and they stop being there for you, it hurts you because you have been there for that person but that person doesn't care about you anymore and it stinks! Now with real relationships, you have people supporting you left and right and not only that, when y'all get into a yelling match and then, I might talk about it because the both of y'all think communication is the best for y'all! When you are in a real relationship, communication is key and don't be around toxic people because that's not good for you at all!

How does a toxic relationship make it toxic? Why does it make it so toxic? 

How does a toxic relationship make it toxic? I think what makes a toxic relationship a toxic relationship is with your friends and family, they either with you in your life or they want to leave your side which I'm sorry but, if you are going to be in my life, I expect you to stay by me until the end but I am not going to deal with a toxic family or friend going in and out of my life because that's not what I need! When it comes to romantic relationships, when your boyfriend or girlfriend has cheated on you so many times but y'all keep going back to other and keep arguing and going behind each other's backs or you are not doing anything and your girlfriend or boyfriend keeps on cheating on you and you are dealing with which you shouldn't because that's toxic! When you are supporting your significant other but they aren't supporting you, that's also toxic! It's like your significant doesn't support you but you support them and not only that, it toxic and one sided love which is not right for you to go through at all! Why does it make it so toxic? I think the reason why it makes it so toxic is because when you expect to someone from your friends or family to support you and be there for you or when you are in a committed relationship and you get zero support from your partner, it just shows that they don't care about you and you honestly don't need people who will suck you dry! Toxic people will suck you dry and that's awful!! 

What makes a real relationship a real relationship? Why does those things make a real relationship? 

What makes a real relationship a real relationship? I think what makes a real relationship a real relationship is in friendships or in family, y'all are always there for each other no matter what and in life, y'all support one another! Y'all care for each other no matter what and if y'all get into one argument, y'all makeup and y'all communicate through y'all's problems no matter what! In a romantic relationship, when either a boyfriend or a girlfriend have a problems, as you either the boyfriend or the girlfriend, you are suppose to be there for one another no matter what! Y'all support each other and y'all make sure y'all are both okay!! What I have learned through this relationship that I am in with my boyfriend is that we are always there for each other no matter what! We help each other through thick and thin and I realized that he will always be there for me no matter what! There is real relationships out there! You just have to wait and be patient because patience is key!!! Why does those things make a real relationship? I think the reason why those things make a real relationship is because when y'all support each other whether it is friends or family or even your boyfriend or girlfriend, it shows how much y'all care about one another and it shows that they are important to you! Being in a real relationship with your friends or family or even a boyfriend or girlfriend, it comes to show how much y'all would do anything to support one another no matter what and I prefer real relationships over toxic relationships any day of the week!! 

My advice! Why would I give that advice? 

If I have any advice for my Blogger Dreamers who are either in a toxic relationship or a real relationship, what is my advice? To my Blogger Dreamers who are in a toxic relationship whether it is with your friends, family, or even a boyfriend or girlfriend, get out of that relationship and cut those people out of your life because you honestly don't need that your life! Your mental health is so important and you need to find people who care about you and love you for who you are not because you might have money or they want to be there for you one minute and then, the next minute, not be there for you! To my Blogger Dreamers who are in a real romantic relationship or even a real friendship or if you are real family, keep those friends and family and also, stay in that real relationship because if your boyfriend or  girlfriend is treating you right, then you deserve to be in a good and real relationship! You deserve to be happy! Why would I give that advice? The reason why I would give this advice is because every of my Blogger Dreamers deserve to be happy, not sad! My Blogger Dreamers doesn't need someone to suck them dry anymore because no one doesn't need that! Everyone deserves happiness and that's it!! 

In conclusion/ tip of the day!! 

In conclusion, I do believe that toxic relationships can be in friendships and in family as well! It doesn't have to be in romantic relationships because when you are around people who are toxic in your life, they are sucking you dry and they are constantly bringing you down which is not right for anybody whatsoever! Real relationships are so rare to find whether it is in romantic relationships, friendships, or family! I am very blessed enough to find real friends and to have real family who love me for who I am and to be there for me when I need them the most! I have been through romantic relationships where I either didn't get enough attention or my ex boyfriend was playing his video games when he was video chatting with me but with my boyfriend now, he treats me so well and he loves for who I am and I am happy in this relationship!! I am happy to cut off people who don't care about me and who are toxic to me! Here is my tip of the day!! My tip of the day is cut the people who don't care about you and focus on the real relationships because those are important and you don't need people who don't care about you or who don't love you because I love you and don't forget that, my Blogger Dreamers!! 

Hello, my Blogger Dreamers! It's I, Brandee here to remind my Blogger Dreamers that y'all have reached the end of today's blog episode! I hope y'all enjoyed today's blog episode because I know that I did! When you surround yourself with toxic people, it brings you down so much and none of my Blogger Dreamers need that! Don't be around people who don't care about you but instead, be around people who do care about you and want what is best for you!! For today's bible verse of the day, it goes like this: "Go to God First not last". -Matthew 6:33. I love this bible verse a lot because you should go to God first because he is the ultimate healer and he will always be there for you to support you through anything! God will help you through anything!! I hope everyone will have a good day or had a good day! Happy the first day of March or the second day of March! I hope everyone will stay safe and until next time, "Dream Big! Don't give up on your dreams"! I will see y'all on Friday where I will be talking about my poem "Don't cry over others". I love y'all and this Blogger Queen is out! Peace! ✌💜

Today's bible verse of the day! I love this bible verse so much! Such an amazing bible verse!!! 

"We end up in toxic 
relationships because we don't 
stand up for ourselves early on 
when red flags occur. We let
them slide because we fear 
losing a companion. How long do 
you let disrespect & neglect go? 
At some point you have to 
develop healthy barriers for 
how you're going to be treated".
-Sylvester McNutt 3rd. I love this quote a lot because when you realized that you are in a toxic relationship and you realized that you need to set healthy boundaries for yourself because you don't need to tolerate the disrespect anymore! No one needs that anymore!!

"Never Leave 
A True Relationship 
For a Few Faults. 
Nobody Is Perfect, 
Nobody Is Correct
In The End Affection
Is Always Greater 
Than Perfection".
-Unknown! I love this quote a lot because in any relationship, we may have our ups and downs, but at the end of the day, we have a few faults and none of us aren't perfect!!! We should always be there for one another no matter what!! 

"Love should not make you feel 
like walking on eggshells".
-Emma XU. I love this quote a lot because when you are in a toxic relationship, you are scared to be around that person because you don't know if that person is going to hurt you or not and that's scary!!

A real relationship, 
Has fights. Has trust. Has faith. 
Has tears. Has hurt. Has sweet 
smiles. Has genuine laughter. Has 
weird, stupid, unnecessary arguments.
Has patience. Has communication. 
Has secrets. Has jealousy And 
more important it has love". 
-Unknown Author.  I love this quote because every real relationship goes through these things and I feel if you are in a toxic relationship, there is no communication at all and there should be communication because communication is key and if have all of these things, no matter what, y'all love each other no matter what!!