Analyzing my poem "Don't cry over others" by: Brandee Darden. Friday, 3/3/23
Analyzing my poem "Don't cry over others" by: Brandee Darden! Date of blog: Friday, March 3rd, 2023!! 
Intro to my blog!!
Hello, my Blogger Dreamers!! It's I, the Blogger Queen herself, Brandee here and welcome back to an all new weekly blog episode! Happy Friday or in other countries, Happy Saturday! I want to ask my Blogger Dreamers a question and that is: How is my Blogger Dreamers doing today? I hope everyone is doing okay and well! If you are not doing okay okay and well, just know that is a bump in the road! You are going to have bad days and good days but at the end of the day, you are going to get through it because my Blogger Dreamers are strong! Never give up! I believe in my Blogger Dreamers!! Before I talk about today's blog episode, I am going to do a recap of Wednesday's blog episode and that is toxic relationships vs real relationships! When I think about toxic relationships, I think about within couples, they are constantly fighting and constantly cheating on each other which is not good to be in because if you are constantly cheating on one another, then if you get into another relationship, you are going to expect the same thing which is not good at all! The second and final thing that I think about being in a toxic relationship when it comes to couples is no communication whatsoever! If y'all have no communication then how y'all going to understand each other! Toxic relationships doesn't happen in couples but it also happens in families and friendships as well! If you are around family or friends who are not good for you, then you don't need to be around those people! When I think about real relationships, I think about having communication within one another and being there for one another when y'all need each other the most!! Communication is key!! Now, for today's blog episode, I will be analyzing my poem "Don't cry over others". In this blog episode, I will be talking about when I was wring this poem, what was going through my mind? Why was that thing going through my mind when I was writing my poem? When I think about people not caring about me or showing me that I don't mean a lot to them, how does that make me feel? Why does it make me feel a certain way? If I have any advice to give to my Blogger Dreamers about crying over someone who doesn't care about them or you don't mean a lot to someone, what is my advice? Why would I give that advice to my Blogger Dreamers? Now, let's go on an adventure and get this blog episode started! Shall we? We shall!!!
Talking about my poem? What is the meaning behind my poem? Why is there meaning behind my poem?
On Tuesday, November 22nd of last year, I wrote a poem called "Don't cry over others". This is how I started my poem: "Don't cry over others" by: Brandee Marie Darden.
"Don't cry
over others
because they
hurt you!
Don't cry
over others
because they
don't mean
a lot to
you anymore!
Show people
how strong
you are!
Show the
FAKE people
who don't
care about
you because
you are
worth it"!
-Love, Brandee Marie Darden!
Date of poem: Tuesday, November 22nd, 2022!! What is the meaning behind this poem? The meaning behind this poem is never cry for others who don't care about you! The people who don't care about you showed you that they never cared about you in the first place and it shows that they never supported you in the beginning!! Why is there meaning behind my poem? The reason why there is meaning behind this poem is because if you show those people who never cared about you that you are crying, it is going to show them that they won and you gave into crying and begging for their attention! Never force people to give their attention to you because if they didn't pay attention to you the first time, they won't do it again so don't cry over them!!
What was going through my mind? Why was that thing going through my mind when I was writing this poem?
When I was writing this poem, what was going through my mind? When I was writing this poem, there was a lot of things going through my mind! The thought process when I was writing this poem was "how can I make this poem relatable"? I remembered when I cared about people who didn't care about me that I would cry and always checking on them if they need anything but when I realized that they never cared about me, I realized it was my time to move on from those people and live my life to the best of my best ability! When I was writing this poem, it made thought about the people who didn't care about me and who said "I'm always here for you no matter what" but it turned out, they aren't because they never cared about me and they will never care about me and honestly, I am fine with that! I'm okay with people who stopped checking on me because I don't need those people! Why was that thing going through my mind when I was writing this poem? The reason why that thing was going through my mind when I was writing this poem is because people don't realize that if you are not there for them, they are going to move on from you and show you how independent that are! I don't care if you are my friend or family or even my ex boyfriend, I am going to walk away from you and tell you that "I don't need you anymore" because in reality, I don't need you!
My feelings towards people who don't care about me or showing me that I don't mean a lot to them! Why does it make me feel a certain way?
When I was think about people not caring about me or showing me that I don't mean a lot to them, how does it make me feel? Everyone has different feelings when it comes to people not caring about you or showing you that you don't mean a lot to them but for me, when people stop caring about me or showing me that I don't have apart in their life, it hurts me a lot! It shows me that people that I thought they cared about me, I wasted my tears on them! I wasted my tears on people who I cared about but they never cared about me which is totally hurtful for me! When you support a person and be there for them through the hardest things in life but then, you remembered to yourself "I was there for that person, but they were never there for me" which is so true! I was there for people when they needed me but when it was my turn, they forgot about my feelings but I moved on from that and I will learn to grow each day and showing people who don't care or showing me that I don't mean a lot to them, it shows how strong I am as a person! Why does it make me feel a certain way? The reason why it makes me feel a certain way is because when people show you that you aren't apart of their life or you don't have the right to be in their life, honestly, that hurts you as a human being and for me, it hurts me as well because you been there for that person and they are going to kick you to the curb like that, that is not a good feeling within itself at all! Don't deal with a person who doesn't care about you because it shows them that they can hurt but at the same time, don't show them how weak you are but show them how strong you can be because my Blogger Dreamers are strong and I know that!
My advice! Why would I give that advice to my Blogger Dreamers?
If I have any advice to give to my Blogger Dreamers about crying over someone who doesn't care about them or you don't mean a lot to someone, what is my advice? My advice to y'all is stop crying over people who never cared about you or wasn't there for you through your hardest moments! When those people left you and stopped being there for you, you might of cried because you were there for them but deep down inside, you realized that you don't need those people anymore and my advice to my Blogger Dreamers is don't cry over people who don't care about you! Don't cry over people who wasn't there for you through your hardest times because at the end of the day, the only people who will be there for you is the people who cares about and what is best for you and your well-being!! Why would I give that advice to my Blogger Dreamers? The reason why I would give that advice to my Blogger Dreamers is because people are going to leave you at times and sometimes, you might cry over them and leaving you but you realized that you don't need them since you are not needed in their life! Don't cry over someone who left you because you don't need them and they showed that you don't need them!! You are strong! You are amazing! You are loved by others who cares about you and I care about my Blogger Dreamers no matter what!!
In closing/ Tip of the day!!
In closing, when people show their true colors and they show you that you don't mean nothing to them, you learned that you need to move on from them! When someone shows you that you mean nothing to them or you are not wanted in their life, it shows that you can leave from their life and go be your own person! When you don't need those people who are being fake to you, you show them that you can do it and that you will get over them whether it be an ex boyfriend, ex girlfriend, or even family members or ex friends! You don't need to cry over others because you didn't deserve them! You deserve people who will make you happy and support you no matter what!! Don't cry over others because they don't need your tears! They are the least important people in your life! Don't cry over them because they are not worth it! Here is my tip of the day! My tip of the day is don't cry over others or don't let yourself be used to as a door mat because that's not what you are! When people show you that you are the least important person in their life, it's time to move on from them and show them that you can conquer the world! People aren't worth your time or tears! Don't cry over those people!!
Hello, my Blogger Dreamers! It's I, Brandee here aka the Blogger Queen herself to remind everyone that y'all have reached the end of today's blog episode for today! I hope everyone learned that when you don't mean a lot to them, you need to move on from them and that you need to realize that those tears that you running down aren't meant for anyone! If people don't see how much you are hurting and why you are hurting, then that's their lost, not you because you deserve so much more than that! People are so rude and so mean that they don't care about your feelings or how you feel! Show them that you can be strong and move on from them! For today's bible verse of the day, it goes like this: "The battle is Not Yours, But God's". -2 Chronicles 20:15. I love this bible verse so much because whatever you are battling with, God will help you! If you pray to him about it, he will get through it! God will heal you because he is the ultimate physician! Believe in God!! I hope everyone will have a good Friday or in other countries, a good Saturday! Until next time, "Dream Big! Don't give up on your dreams"! I hope everyone will have a good weekend and I will see y'all on my second blog page where I will be talking about analyzing the song "rescue" by: Lauren Daigle, blog by: Brandee Darden, my insecurities part 2, and how life can be a challenge? Stay tuned for all new blogs coming soon and I will see y'all next week! I love y'all and this Blogger Queen is out! Peace!! ✌💜
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Today's bible verse of the day! I love this bible verse so much! Such an amazing bible verse and give God your problems because he will help you if you believe in him!! Always believe in him no matter what!   I cry over the way I get treated because I don't deserve that". -Unknown author. I love this quote so much because you don't deserve to cry over people but when people hurt you, you want to cry because they hurt you and you don't deserve to cry at all because of them hurting you!!  know the value of your tears". -Unknown! I love this quote because if people that hurt you see you crying, they think it is for weakness and honestly, when people don't know what is the reason why you are crying, it is because they don't know much they have hurt you and they don't know the value of the hurt they caused you!! To end today's blog episode, here is this week's song of the week! I chose "Lilac" by IU! I love this song so much and it is very upbeat song! I love it a lot and it is a good listen!! |
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