Toxic relationships vs Real relationships!! By: Brandee Darden!
💔💜 Toxic relationships vs Real relationships!! By: Brandee Darden. Date of blog: Wednesday, March 1st, 2023!! 💔💜 
Intro to my blog!!
Hello, hello, and hello, my Blogger Dreamers!!! It's your girl aka the Blogger Queen herself, Brandee here and welcome back to an all new weekly blog episode!! Happy Wednesday or in other countries, Happy Thursday! I want to ask my Blogger Dreamers a question and that question is: How is my Blogger Dreamers doing today? I hope everyone is doing okay and well! If not, that's okay because this Blogger Queen is here for you, no matter what! At the Blogger Dreamers, you are loved and I support and accept you for who you are!! Before I get into today's blog episode, I am going to do a recap of Monday's blog! On Monday, I talked about the feeling of betrayal!! Betrayal can be a hurtful and horrible thing to ever go through in life! Someone can make promise after promise and they will continue to betray you because that is how people are or people will say "I'm here for you no matter what" but they will be abandon you because that's how people are! No one and I mean no one should ever should ever feel betrayed by someone who keeps making promises after promises or felt abandoned by someone because that is hurtful and heartbreaking! In today's blog episode, I will be talking about toxic relationships vs real relationships!! in this blog, I will be talking about what is the difference between a toxic relationship vs a real relationship? Why is there a difference between the two? How does a toxic relationship make it toxic? Why does it make it so toxic? What makes a real relationship a real relationship? Why does those things make a real relationship? If I have any advice for my Blogger Dreamers who are either in a toxic relationship or a real relationship, what is my advice? Why would I give that advice? Now, let's get into exploring and get ready to know what the difference between toxic relationships vs real relationships!! Shall we? We shall!!
Talking about toxic relationships and real relationships within family, friends, and romantic relationships?
When I think about toxic relationships within family, I think of constant fighting with one another and the fighting doesn't stop! I understand that some families can be dysfunctional at times but at the same time, if you are not going to stop fighting with one another or be there for one another, then don't be around each other! Another thing about a toxic relationship with family, you can't come in and out of someone's life! That's toxic for someone and that is hard for someone!!! When I think about a real relationship with family, I think about supporting one another and being there and checking up on each other! I love how some of my family doesn't do that but that's okay because the real family who does, thank you because I love you!! When I think about toxic relationships with friends, I think about them not being there for you or they stop talking to you for no reason at all! When I think about a real relationship with your friends, I think about supporting one another and cheering each other on for moral support!! When I think about being in a toxic relationship with your partner, I think about fighting or not communicating with one another or cheating behind each others backs and keep on going back to one another! That's toxic right there!! When I think about a real relationship with your partner, I think about when y'all are fighting or done arguing, y'all talk about it or y'all communicate y'all's problems! With any relationship, communication is key! Being around people who are toxic is not good for your mental health!! They can bring you down and that's not right for you to go through that all!!
Why can there be toxic and real relationships within family, friends, or romantic relationships?
Why can there be toxic and real relationships within family, friends, or romantic relationships? The reason why there can be toxic and real relationships is because within family or family, it depends who you hang around with! When you hang around family, with some of them, you can get a good vibe with but some of the others, they might have a bad vibe and you don't want to hang around people who have a bad vibe! Now, if you are in a romantic relationship and then, you and your partner argue non stop or cheat on one another, y'all might as well get out of that relationship because it's not good for either you but if y'all communicate y'all's problems, then that is a real relationship!! Don't stick around people who are toxic because if you do, they are going to drain you like there is no tomorrow and you don't need that around you! You need to be with people who love you and care about you because if you hang around people who are too toxic for you, they are NOT going to care and you don't need that!!
The difference between a toxic relationship vs a real relationship!! Why is there a difference between the two?
What is the difference between a toxic relationship vs a real relationship? The difference between a toxic relationship vs a real relationship is with a toxic relationship, you have people coming in and out of your life and maybe your boyfriend or girlfriend is constantly cheating on you and no one should have to deal with that! Toxic relationships with family or even friends or a boyfriend or girlfriend aren't good for you especially your mental health! With a real relationship, people like your friends or your family is always there for you no matter what! They support you in anything you do and they help you out with anything that you need help with! Now, when it comes to real relationships with your partner, y'all are going to have arguments but that doesn't mean that y'all have to constantly yell each other but instead, y'all can talk about it and communicate with one another! With a real relationship, people are there for one another, not in and out of each others lives!! Why is there a difference between the two? The reason why there is the difference between the two is because when people come in and out of your life, they are toxic for your mental health and well-being! When people constantly are yelling at one another and they stop being there for you, it hurts you because you have been there for that person but that person doesn't care about you anymore and it stinks! Now with real relationships, you have people supporting you left and right and not only that, when y'all get into a yelling match and then, I might talk about it because the both of y'all think communication is the best for y'all! When you are in a real relationship, communication is key and don't be around toxic people because that's not good for you at all!
How does a toxic relationship make it toxic? Why does it make it so toxic?
How does a toxic relationship make it toxic? I think what makes a toxic relationship a toxic relationship is with your friends and family, they either with you in your life or they want to leave your side which I'm sorry but, if you are going to be in my life, I expect you to stay by me until the end but I am not going to deal with a toxic family or friend going in and out of my life because that's not what I need! When it comes to romantic relationships, when your boyfriend or girlfriend has cheated on you so many times but y'all keep going back to other and keep arguing and going behind each other's backs or you are not doing anything and your girlfriend or boyfriend keeps on cheating on you and you are dealing with which you shouldn't because that's toxic! When you are supporting your significant other but they aren't supporting you, that's also toxic! It's like your significant doesn't support you but you support them and not only that, it toxic and one sided love which is not right for you to go through at all! Why does it make it so toxic? I think the reason why it makes it so toxic is because when you expect to someone from your friends or family to support you and be there for you or when you are in a committed relationship and you get zero support from your partner, it just shows that they don't care about you and you honestly don't need people who will suck you dry! Toxic people will suck you dry and that's awful!!
What makes a real relationship a real relationship? Why does those things make a real relationship?
What makes a real relationship a real relationship? I think what makes a real relationship a real relationship is in friendships or in family, y'all are always there for each other no matter what and in life, y'all support one another! Y'all care for each other no matter what and if y'all get into one argument, y'all makeup and y'all communicate through y'all's problems no matter what! In a romantic relationship, when either a boyfriend or a girlfriend have a problems, as you either the boyfriend or the girlfriend, you are suppose to be there for one another no matter what! Y'all support each other and y'all make sure y'all are both okay!! What I have learned through this relationship that I am in with my boyfriend is that we are always there for each other no matter what! We help each other through thick and thin and I realized that he will always be there for me no matter what! There is real relationships out there! You just have to wait and be patient because patience is key!!! Why does those things make a real relationship? I think the reason why those things make a real relationship is because when y'all support each other whether it is friends or family or even your boyfriend or girlfriend, it shows how much y'all care about one another and it shows that they are important to you! Being in a real relationship with your friends or family or even a boyfriend or girlfriend, it comes to show how much y'all would do anything to support one another no matter what and I prefer real relationships over toxic relationships any day of the week!!
My advice! Why would I give that advice?
If I have any advice for my Blogger Dreamers who are either in a toxic relationship or a real relationship, what is my advice? To my Blogger Dreamers who are in a toxic relationship whether it is with your friends, family, or even a boyfriend or girlfriend, get out of that relationship and cut those people out of your life because you honestly don't need that your life! Your mental health is so important and you need to find people who care about you and love you for who you are not because you might have money or they want to be there for you one minute and then, the next minute, not be there for you! To my Blogger Dreamers who are in a real romantic relationship or even a real friendship or if you are real family, keep those friends and family and also, stay in that real relationship because if your boyfriend or girlfriend is treating you right, then you deserve to be in a good and real relationship! You deserve to be happy! Why would I give that advice? The reason why I would give this advice is because every of my Blogger Dreamers deserve to be happy, not sad! My Blogger Dreamers doesn't need someone to suck them dry anymore because no one doesn't need that! Everyone deserves happiness and that's it!!
In conclusion/ tip of the day!!
In conclusion, I do believe that toxic relationships can be in friendships and in family as well! It doesn't have to be in romantic relationships because when you are around people who are toxic in your life, they are sucking you dry and they are constantly bringing you down which is not right for anybody whatsoever! Real relationships are so rare to find whether it is in romantic relationships, friendships, or family! I am very blessed enough to find real friends and to have real family who love me for who I am and to be there for me when I need them the most! I have been through romantic relationships where I either didn't get enough attention or my ex boyfriend was playing his video games when he was video chatting with me but with my boyfriend now, he treats me so well and he loves for who I am and I am happy in this relationship!! I am happy to cut off people who don't care about me and who are toxic to me! Here is my tip of the day!! My tip of the day is cut the people who don't care about you and focus on the real relationships because those are important and you don't need people who don't care about you or who don't love you because I love you and don't forget that, my Blogger Dreamers!!
Hello, my Blogger Dreamers! It's I, Brandee here to remind my Blogger Dreamers that y'all have reached the end of today's blog episode! I hope y'all enjoyed today's blog episode because I know that I did! When you surround yourself with toxic people, it brings you down so much and none of my Blogger Dreamers need that! Don't be around people who don't care about you but instead, be around people who do care about you and want what is best for you!! For today's bible verse of the day, it goes like this: "Go to God First not last". -Matthew 6:33. I love this bible verse a lot because you should go to God first because he is the ultimate healer and he will always be there for you to support you through anything! God will help you through anything!! I hope everyone will have a good day or had a good day! Happy the first day of March or the second day of March! I hope everyone will stay safe and until next time, "Dream Big! Don't give up on your dreams"! I will see y'all on Friday where I will be talking about my poem "Don't cry over others". I love y'all and this Blogger Queen is out! Peace! ✌💜
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Today's bible verse of the day! I love this bible verse so much! Such an amazing bible verse!!!  relationships because we don't stand up for ourselves early on when red flags occur. We let them slide because we fear losing a companion. How long do you let disrespect & neglect go? At some point you have to develop healthy barriers for how you're going to be treated". -Sylvester McNutt 3rd. I love this quote a lot because when you realized that you are in a toxic relationship and you realized that you need to set healthy boundaries for yourself because you don't need to tolerate the disrespect anymore! No one needs that anymore!!  A True Relationship For a Few Faults. Nobody Is Perfect, Nobody Is Correct In The End Affection Is Always Greater Than Perfection". -Unknown! I love this quote a lot because in any relationship, we may have our ups and downs, but at the end of the day, we have a few faults and none of us aren't perfect!!! We should always be there for one another no matter what!!  like walking on eggshells". -Emma XU. I love this quote a lot because when you are in a toxic relationship, you are scared to be around that person because you don't know if that person is going to hurt you or not and that's scary!!  Has fights. Has trust. Has faith. Has tears. Has hurt. Has sweet smiles. Has genuine laughter. Has weird, stupid, unnecessary arguments. Has patience. Has communication. Has secrets. Has jealousy And more important it has love". -Unknown Author. I love this quote because every real relationship goes through these things and I feel if you are in a toxic relationship, there is no communication at all and there should be communication because communication is key and if have all of these things, no matter what, y'all love each other no matter what!! |
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