The feeling of betrayal! By: Brandee Darden. Date of blog: Monday, 2/27/23
💔 The feeling betrayal! By: Brandee Darden. Date of blog: Monday, 2/27/23. 💔🗡 
Intro to my blog!!
Well, hello, my Blogger Dreamers! It's I, Brandee Marie Darden here aka the Blogger Queen herself here and welcome back to an all new weekly blog episode! Happy Monday or in other countries, Happy Tuesday!! How's my Blogger Dreamers doing today? I hope everyone is doing okay and well! If not, that's okay because I'm here for you no matter what! I hope everyone had an amazing weekend and if not, that's okay because it's a brand new week and on a brand new week, we start fresh! Now, before I talk about this week's blogs, here is a little recap of last week's blogs!! Last week on my Makeup and Fashion Blog page, on Monday, I talked about my outfit and makeup for a BlackPink concert in the future! I loved the makeup and outfit that I picked out! The makeup that I chose is a hot pink eyeshadow with a black glitter which I think it is so perfect and so gorgeous!! I also love the outfit because the outfit is a light pink velvet shirt with a black skirt and black combat boots along with the jewelry and the hair accessory! I think overall, the outfit and the makeup will look so good! On Wednesday, I talked about my favorite makeup looks that I have done for my tiktok videos! I love the makeup looks that I have done so far! I think they are so gorgeous and so beautiful especially the makeup look that I did on Valentines Day! On Friday, I talked about my top 3 favorite makeup brands! I have tried some makeup brands but my top 3 favorite makeup brands are wet n wild, elf, and Maybelline New York! I love their makeup products!! Now, for this week's blogs, I will be talking about the feeling of betrayal, toxic relationships vs real relationships, and my poem "Don't cry over others". Now, let's embark on this adventure to where our imagination will take us and let's get started on a new blog episode! Shall we? We shall!!
Talking about today's blog episode! Why did I chose to talk about this blog episode? What is this week's song of the week? Why did I chose this song as the song of the week?
On today's blog episode, I will be talking about the feeling of betrayal! In this blog, I will be talking about when I think about the feeling of betrayal or feeling betrayed, how does that make me feel? Why does it make me feel a certain way? What are ways to feel betrayed? Why are those ways to feel betrayed? If I have any advice about feeling betrayed, what is my advice? Why would I give that advice to my Blogger Dreamers? Why did I chose to talk about this blog episode? The reason why I chose to talk about this blog episode is because I know what it feels like to betrayed and I know what is like to trust someone and then, they broke that trust! When you thought you could trust someone but you obviously can't because they did something that they broke your trust and they betrayed you!!! What is this week's song of the week? The song of the week is "Lilac" by IU. I love this song so much! It is such an amazing song and I love the beat of the song!! Why did I chose this song as the song of the week? The reason why I chose this song of the week is because it is very upbeat and a very fun song!! I love the music video to it as well! It is such an amazing song as well!!
The meaning behind betrayal! Why is there meaning behind betrayal?
The meaning behind betrayal is when someone takes a knife or a dagger (not literally) and does something that makes you loose trust and respect in that person! When someone does something to not trust them and not respect them anymore, it hurts you! When someone goes behind your back and then, they betrayed by doing something that there not supposed to but they did it anyway and they did that out of hate or maybe get back at you which is not right at all! Betrayal is not a good feeling to feel at all because you honestly thought you could trust someone but obviously, you can't trust someone because they have showed you that they are not a "trustful" person at all and they can't respect you either!! Why is there meaning behind betrayal? The reason why there is meaning behind betrayal is because betrayal has a negative connation to it and I hate when someone betrays another person because I know what is like to be betrayed! That feeling of betrayal is not the greatest feeling in the world! It hurts your heart and person who is doing the betrayal doesn't even care because all they care about is hurting someone else!! That's my opinion!!
My feelings about how I feel about betrayal or feeling betrayed? Why does that make me feel a certain way?
When I think about the feeling of betrayal or feeling betrayed, how does that make me feel? When I think about the feeling of betrayal or feeling betrayed, it makes feel like I got slapped in the face! When you put your time and being there for that someone or people who you actually care about and then, they did someone that made you loose trust for them to the point they can't be a trustworthy in your life, it felt like you got slapped in the face! People are so hard to trust these days! You don't know if you can trust them or not! When you are friends with someone and then, they did something whether it is a friend sleeping with an ex of yours, that is betrayal right there! Why does that make me feel a certain way? The reason why it makes me feel a certain way is because when you thought your friend is a trustworthy person who you thought you could trust but you can't trust them anymore and that breaks your heart! You can't trust people these days!!
Ways to feel betrayed!!
What are ways to feel betrayed? There are plenty of ways to feel betrayed but to name some of them, number one is when a quote on quote of yours slept with an ex of yours or even slept with your boyfriend or girlfriend, that screams betrayal all over it! Like, I think in girl code or whatever, sleeping with an ex boyfriend or girlfriend is wrong! When your friend slept with your boyfriend or guys, your guy friend slept with your girlfriend, you felt betrayed and it broke your heart! Another way you can feel betrayed is someone borrowing your stuff but they never gave it back and they broke it! I am saying that because people can borrow your stuff but they think in their mind that they don't have to give it back and then, they broke it! That also screams betrayal right there! The third and final thing that can be classified as betrayal is when a friend of yours spreads rumors that aren't even true! That hurts so much! When your friend goes behind your back and starts spreading rumors that aren't even true, it hurts that the person who you were friends with turns out that they aren't even your friend and true friends don't even do that anymore!!
Why are those ways to feel betrayed?
The reason why those are ways to feel betrayed is because when you sleep with someone either it is an ex of your friend's or even a boyfriend or a girlfriend of your friend's, that is a slap at your friend's face! Like, you had the courage behind your friend's back and decide to sleep with your ex boyfriend or sleep with someone who you are with! That is disrespectful! The second thing that can be ways to feel betrayed is if someone borrowed something of yours, let say a car but they never gave it back and something bad happened to your car, that is a way to feel betrayed and the reason why I say that is because if you let someone borrow that car but they never bother taking care of it, that is a sign of betrayal and that hurts! The third and final reason why I think when a friend of yours spreads rumors about you that aren't even true is classified as betrayal is because when someone that you call a "friend" and they decide to spread rumors about you and those rumors aren't even true, it makes you not want to trust that person again or be there friend ever again!!!
My advice! Why would I give that advice to my Blogger Dreamers?
If I have any advice about feeling betrayed, what is my advice? To my Blogger Dreamers who got betrayed, here is my advice to you: My advice is stop being there for people who hurt you or who betrayed you because when someone betrays you, they are going to continue to do it over and over again and you honestly don't need that in your life! I had people who betrayed because they stopped being there for me which hurts a lot! Don't be there for someone who betrayed you or who stopped talking to you because you don't need to stop being there for that person who isn't there for you!! Why would I give that advice to my Blogger Dreamers? The reason why I would give that advice to my Blogger Dreamers is because when betrays you, they are going to continue to do that again and honestly, you don't need that because it can hurt your mental health! Don't trust people ever!!
In closing/ Tip of the day/ Question of the day?
In closing, just know that feeling betrayed is never okay! When someone goes behind your back and does something like spreading rumors about you, it hurts you so much because you thought you could be a good friend to that person but that person can't be a good friend to you because everyone deserves good friends and to have someone support them no matter what! When someone isn't there for you and they hurt you, it hurts to know that someone you used to call a friend is no longer a friend in your eyes because of what they did to you! When someone betrays you, they don't care about your feelings because when they hurt you, they only are hurting you and it doesn't bother them! Here is my tip and question of the day?! My tip of the day is don't be there for anyone who betrays you because you don't need that in your life! You need someone who will be there for you and who will support you no matter what! My question of the day is in your opinion, what are ways to feel betrayed? Why in your opinion are ways to feel betrayed? Please, sound off in the comments down below and let me know! I would love to read y'all's comments! Please! I love y'all!!
Hello, my Blogger Dreamers! It's I, the Blogger Queen herself, Brandee here to remind everyone that y'all have reached the end of today's blog episode for the day! I hope everyone enjoyed or learned that being betrayed is not okay! You should never feel that being betrayed is okay because its not okay! When people hurt you, it can change you for the better and being betrayed hurts people but just know you don't have to deal with it because you don't deserve that! For today's bible verse of the day, it goes like this: "Your God Is With You Wherever You Go". -Joshua 1:9. I love this bible verse so much because wherever you go, God is with you! God is there to protect you at all costs and make sure that your okay! God loves you so much and he would do anything to protect you! I love y'all and until next time, don't forget our slogan: "Dream Big! Don't give up on your dreams". Stay healthy and drink plenty of water!! Happy Monday or in other countries, Happy Tuesday and have a good day or I hope y'all had a good day! See y'all on Wednesday where I will be talking about toxic relationships vs real relationships! I love y'all and this Blogger Queen is out! Peace! ✌💜
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Today's bible verse of the day! I love this bible verse a lot! Such a good bible verse! I love it!!  hurt is betrayal because it means someone was willing to hurt you just to make themselves feel better". -Unknown. I love this because when one person is willing to risk their friendship just to hurt you, that hurts you because you trusted them with your whole heart which stinks because when you trusted that person, you made sure that they were okay and stuff but no because they didn't care!  loyalty is demonstrated. Betrayal of any one of those is to lose all three". -Quotes and Thoughts. I like this quote a lot is because trust is earned because if I can trust you, then I trust you with all of my heart! If I respect you, I have given my respect! I show you that I am loyal to you but if you aren't trustworthy to me or respect me or loyal to me, then you have betrayed me and you lost my trust, respect, and loyalty and good luck gaining it back because you aren't!  About Betrayal Is That It Never Comes From Your Enemies". -Unknown. The betrayal can come from friends or even your family which is so sad because your family shouldn't betrayed you but they should always be there for you no matter what! In reality, they aren't there for you and your friends aren't there for you either which is sad but that's reality!! This week's song of the week is "Lilac" by IU! IU is a soloist and she has done acting in the past as well! I love this song so much! It is very upbeat which I love and I love her as a singer!! Such an amazing song!! |
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