The word "lonely" by Brandee Darden!
The word "lonely" by Brandee Darden! Date of blog: Wednesday, February 8th, 2023! 
Intro to my blog!!
Hello, my Blogger Dreamers! It's I, Brandee the blogger queen here and welcome back to an all new weekly blog episode! Happy Wednesday or in other countries, Happy Thursday! First and foremost, how's my Blogger Dreamers doing today? I hope everyone is doing okay and well! If not, that's okay because I'm here for you no matter what! Before I get into today's blog episode, I am going to do a recap of Monday's blog episode! On Monday, I talked about what is love, requested by a Blogger Dreamer of mine! To me, love is a feeling where you will feel by your family, friends, or your boyfriend or girlfriend, or even a husband and a wife! Love doesn't mean you have to buy them gifts, but love just simply means being there for one another and supporting each other through thick and thin! My only advice if you are in love with someone, pray about it and make sure that person is the right one for you!! Now, for today's blog episode, I will be talking about the word "lonely". In this blog, I will be talking about when I think about the word "lonely" or the feeling of loneliness, what comes to mind? Why does it come to my mind like that? Do I like being alone or no? Why or why not do I like being alone at times? Do I think the word "lonely" has a positive connotation or a negative connotation to it? Why does it have one or the other? If I have any advice to give to my Blogger Dreamers about feeling lonely, what is my advice? Why would I give out that advice? Now, let's get ready to embark on this journey and get started! Shall we? We shall!!!
How would I define the word "lonely"? Why would I define the word "lonely" like that?
How would I define the word "lonely"? If I can define the word "lonely", I would define the word "lonely" as someone is alone in this world or wants to be alone! When you feel alone in this world, you feel like you have no one supporting you or being there for you through a difficult time! When you are going through a difficult time, you feel like you have no one but you feel like you do but in your head, you feel like you don't! Here is a scenario: You are going through depression but no one isn't there for you or supporting you because you are going through a depression state by yourself and that is the hardest thing to ever go through! No one should ever go through depression by themselves!! Ever! Why would I define the word "lonely" like that? The reason why I would define the word "lonely" like that is because feeling lonely can be hard on a person and it feels like you are not loved but sometimes, you need to love yourself for who you are! That is the most important thing in the world!!
The word "lonely" or the feeling of loneliness! Why does it come to my mind like that?
When I think about the word "lonely" or the feeling of loneliness, what comes to mind? When I think about the word "lonely" or the feeling of loneliness, I think about there is a lot of people in this world, but in your head, you feel like you are alone and no one isn't there for you! I know what it is like to feel alone! Sometimes, I feel so alone to the point where I don't know who to trust anymore! My brain likes to mess with me and tells me "you're lonely! No one isn't there for you" which is hard to understand for me because I have people who support me but in my own mind, I feel lonely or sometimes, I want to be alone because I am either feeling overwhelmed or mad and that I need to calm down! It's hard to feel lonely at times! Why does it come to my mind like that? The reason why it came to my mind like that is because sometimes, when the world is hard on us to look a certain way or like a certain someone, it is hard to feel alone at times! Sometimes, we want to be alone because of along day at work!! It's okay to have alone time! That's cool!!
Being alone or no? Why or why not do I like being alone at times?
Do I like being alone or no? To answer that question, no I don't being alone but yes, I like having alone time! I don't being alone but I love having alone time! Let me explain! When I am around people a lot of people, there is times where I feel okay but then, there are times where I want to be by myself and have me time but a lot of people don't know what is alone time for me! Sometimes, I just want a break from people but certain people in my life don't get that and that's okay!! Why or why not do I like being alone at times? I like being alone at times but I also don't like being at times because at times, I love talking to my friends or family but if you put your drama on me, then I am done! I don't mind listening to you or try to help you, but there is a fine line between me helping you and then, you putting your drama on me! There is so much that I can handle as a human being to the point where I want to be left alone, no questions asked but do I get that time alone? No, because I have people blowing up my phone at times and it is so annoying but I don't care because when I am away from my phone, I have my time to myself or when I am blogging as well but sometimes, when I am blogging, I still get notifications at times and it is so annoying!!
Positive or negative connotation to it? Why does it have one or the other?
Do I think the word "lonely" has a positive connotation or a negative connotation to it? In my opinion, I think it has a negative connotation to it but if you use "alone time", then it has a positive connotation to it! When you think about the word "lonely", you think to yourself, "I feel so alone! No one isn't there for me" but when I think about the words "alone time", you automatically think "Oh! I can have this time to myself and I can enjoy it with no disruptions". It depends on how you look at it and how you think about it! Why does it have one or the other? The reason why it has the negative connotation to it is because sometimes, you do feel alone in this world and it can be hard on you sometimes! When people avoid you and your feelings, you feel alone at times and it can be hard! When you go to school, you go to each lunch with your friends but you don't see none of your friends at the table you usually sit at but now, you have to sit by yourself because your friends aren't at school and you feel alone! That is so hard because you want to sit with your friends but they are not school which sucks because you are alone! Being alone is hard!
My advice! Why would I give out that advice?
If I have any advice to give to my Blogger Dreamers about feeling lonely, what is my advice? My advice that I would give to my Blogger Dreamers is it's okay to feel lonely at times! If someone isn't there for you through your hardest times, I'm here! It's okay! I'm always here for my Blogger Dreamers, no matter what! You don't have to feel alone anymore because I'm here! I know what it feels like to feel alone at times! Believe me, it stinks! It almost feels like you are the outcast and no one doesn't know if you are exists or not, which hurts because you feel like you are alone which no one should ever have to feel!! Why would I give out that advice? The reason why I would give out that advice is because no one should ever have to feel like they are alone and non existent to someone because they are alone! No one should ever have to feel alone or lonely because it is a hard feeling to suppress or to ever go through! If you are alone, I'm here for you!!
In closing/ tip of the day/ Question of the day?
In closing, it's okay to have alone time at times but you should never have to feel alone because that feeling of being alone is the hardest thing to ever have to go through! When you are feeling alone, just know that I'm here for my Blogger Dreamers, no matter what! I will always be here for my fandom because I care about my fandom! When you feel alone, it can hurt at times because you think to yourself "do people see me? Do they know what I'm feeling at the moment", and the answer is yes! I know what you are feeling and the feeling that you are feeling is loneliness! I know it hurts to feel like you are a ghost to someone but you're not a ghost to me! Here is the tip and question of the day? My tip of the day is it is okay to have alone time because you deserve that but you definitely don't deserve to feel alone!! My question of the day is What do y'all like to do on y'all's alone time? Why do you like to do those things on your alone time? Sound off in the comments down below and let me know what y'all like to do on y'all's time alone and why y'all do like those things? I would love to read y'all's comments!! Please! Thank you all so much! I love y'all!
Hello, my Blogger Dreamers! It's I, Brandee here to remind my Blogger Dreamers that y'all have reached the end of today's blog episode for today! I hope my Blogger Dreamers know that I will support them and always be here for them no matter what! Y'all never have to feel alone!! For today's quote of the day, it goes like this: "Just Because It Took You Longer Than Others, Doesn't Mean You Failed. Remember That". -Unknown. I love this quote a lot because there are somethings that might take you longer than other people but that doesn't you failed! You tried and that's all that matters! I hope everyone will have or had a good day today! I hope everyone will have a Happy Wednesday or in other countries, a Happy Thursday! Don't forget our slogan: "Dream Big! Don't give up on your dreams"! On Friday, I will be talking about the meaning behind these tiktoks! Until next time, this Blogger Queen is out! Peace! ✌💚
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Today's quote of the day!! Love this quote so much! Such an amazing quote!!  you're siting in your room alone your thoughts wander you're not crying but you just feel sad and empty replaying moments from your life and wondering where did it all go wrong". -K.D. I love this a lot because I would be laying in bed and I would have dreams, such as last night where I had a dream about me, my two sisters, Brandy and Tyna, and my mom and we all went on a trip and I started to cry because I miss them so much! I feel empty and sad.  How Lonely You Are Until It's The End Of The Day And You Got A Bunch Of Things To Talk About And No One To Talk To". -Unknown. I love this quote so much because when you had a long day from work or even school and you want to talk to someone about it but you can't because there is no on who would listen to you and they aren't going to care but I will!  I know a lot of people and a lot of people know me but my circle is small and I'm usually by myself". -Unknown. I like this quote a lot because I don't have a lot of people in my circle but sometimes, I'm my own friend because sometimes, I feel alone. |
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