The meaning behind these tiktoks! By: Brandee Darden. Date of blog: Friday, 2/10/23. 

Intro to my blog! 

Hello, my Blogger Dreamers! It's your girl aka the Blogger Queen herself, Brandee here and welcome back to an all new weekly blog episode! Happy Friday or in other countries, Happy Saturday! I want to ask my Blogger Dreamers a question and that question is: How are y'all doing today? I hope everyone is doing fine and well! If not, that's okay because I'm here for y'all if y'all need anything! I am willing to support y'all and help y'all through anything!! Before I jump into today's blog episode, I am going to do a recap of Wednesday's blog episode! On Wednesday, I talked about the word "lonely". When I think about the word "lonely", I think about feeling alone in this world and people not understanding how you feel or what is going on in your brain! Having alone time is perfectly fine but having someone not supporting you or cheering you on, it hurts so much!! No one should never have to feel alone in this world and if my Blogger Dreamers does feel alone in this world, I'm here for y'all because I care about y'all so much and I want what's best for my fandom! For today's blog post, I will be talking about the meaning behind these tiktoks, by: Brandee Darden. In this blog episode, I will be talking about what is the meaning behind the tiktoks that I have done so far? Why is there there meaning behind the tiktoks that I have done so far? What got me started doing tiktoks? Why did that thing got me started doing tiktoks? If I have any advice to give about doing tiktoks or start a YouTube channel, what is my advice? Why would I give out that advice? Now, without any further ado, let's embark on this journey and get this blog episode started! Shall we? We shall!! 

What were my first three tiktoks? Why did I decide to talk about those topics tiktoks? 

What were my first three tiktoks? The first tiktok that I did was bullying! I wanted to talk about bullying as my first tiktok video! I remember when I first got bullied and honestly, it hurt so much! People don't talk about bullying and if they do, people don't take it seriously as they should! The second topic that I talked about is abandonment! When I think about abandonment, I think about a mom or a dad abandoning their kid or kids or even your friends abandoning you which hurts to the core! I have been abandoned before and it hurts so much! It doesn't feel good at all!! The third and final tiktok that I talked about or that I talked about was hate! Hate is a strong word that people say to other people and telling them "I hate you" or stuff like that! I don't like that word a lot! To me, it has a negative connotation to it and I don't like it a lot! Why did I decide to talk about those topics for tiktoks? The reason why I chose those three to talk about in a tiktok is because I feel like no one talks about bullying or abandonment or even hate! There is so much hate going around that for me, I want to spread positive vibes and not tear everyone down! When you tear someone down, you are making yourself feel good and you are putting your ego before anything else and when someone tears you down, they are making themselves feel good while making you feel bad about yourself and don't let anyone do that! You are much better than that!! 

The meaning behind the tiktoks that I have done so far!

What is the meaning behind the tiktoks that I have done so far? The meaning behind my first tiktok is bullying is not right! It hurts to tear down other people and bring their self-esteem down which is not right for anyone to do at all! When you bring people down, you are making yourself feel better and them worse! Don't do that! Bullying is wrong! The meaning behind my second tiktok is when you abandoned your kids or even your friends at a crucial time, it hurts them because it makes them feel worse about themselves which never feels good! I have felt worse about myself before because that feeling abandonment hurts so much! I hate the feeling of being abandonment because it's the worst thing ever! I have attachment issues! Once I get attached to someone and I want to be best friends with, I never want to let them go but once they stopped talking to me and they are not there for me or they have abandoned me, my attachment issues comes in and I start to panic because I felt like they are going to abandoned me and it hurts me so much!! The third and final meaning behind my third tiktok that I have done so far is hate is such a strong word and not only that, there is so much hate in this world! There is hate on different races such as Asians and Blacks and even on people who are gay, lesbians, and even transgender people! People don't have the right to judge other people's lifestyle or how they live! Don't hate on other people because your miserable! Let other people live their life!! 

Why is there meaning behind the tiktoks that I have done so far? 

Why is there meaning behind the tiktoks that I have done so far? The reason why there is meaning behind the first tiktok that I have done is because when someone bullies other people or another person, that person who bullies another person or a group of people who bully one person is wrong for bullying another person and bringing down that person! Bullies are so cruel and so mean that sometimes, the person who is getting bullied might even commit suicide which is heart breaking because no one should never have to go through that!!! The second reason why my second tiktok has meaning behind it is because NO ONE and I mean NO ONE should ever feel abandoned because feeling abandoned is so hurtful and it hurts another person! It hurts the person who feels abandoned! The person who is leaving the kids or even the friend doesn't care if that person or the kids are hurting! No one should ever feel abandoned because that is the worst feeling in the world!! The third and final reason why there is meaning behind the third tiktok is because no matter where you go, there is going to be hate! You are going to have haters who are going to hate on you for no reason! When people hate on you, they are either jealous of you which no one should ever feel jealous when it comes to you! It's wrong and when other people hate on other people because of their lifestyles or their life choices, it is wrong and when you don't know that person, don't judge them! Don't judge someone before you get to know them!! 

What got me started doing tiktoks? Why did that thing got me started doing tiktoks? 

What got me started doing tiktoks? I think what got me started doing talking tiktoks is I feel like people don't talk about certain subjects such as bullying or abandonment or hate that goes on in this world! I don't think people don't take bullying so seriously and it is sad because people are so cruel and not only that, people who have been a victim of bullying have or tried to commit suicide which is so sad to talk about or think about! Bullying can hurt other people!! There is so much hate going on around the world that people don't realize that hate can affect people because your judging on how they are living and if you can't accept the fact that someone is happy, then why continue to judge them and be mean to them? Abandonment issues are real! I have abandonment issues and I have been abandoned before which hurts so much! No kid should ever ask "Where is mommy or daddy"? You should never have to worry about if your friends are for you because a true friend is always there for you no matter what but unfortunately, I don't know who are my real friends because I have been dropped or abandoned by my so called "friends" which hurts so much but I'm thankful for my real friends who have been there for me!! Why did that thing got me started doing tiktoks? The reason why that thing got me started doing tiktoks is because I feel like I have to speak my truth about certain subjects or talk about certain subjects because I feel some people don't understand how serious bullying can be or how sad abandonment can be or even hate around the world! All of that can hurt a person in another way which is sad!! 

My advice! Why would I give out that advice? 

If I have any advice to give about doing tiktoks or start a YouTube channel, what is my advice? My advice that I would give about doing tiktoks or start a YouTube channel is write down what you want to do or write down what you want to talk about! Writing down what you want to do or even talk about helps a lot because when I plan for my tiktoks, it helps me keep up what I have already talked about and make sure that I don't repeat the same thing again! If you want good lighting, get a ring light because a ring light can save your life! I love having a ring light a lot! Why would I give out that advice? The reason why I would give out that advice is because it will help in the long run if you know what you want to talk about it and with the lighting, having a ring light is my life savior! I love having a ring light! You can have any lighting because some ring lights can be a little expensive or you can make your own ring light! 

In closing/ Tip of the day!! 

In closing, I am so proud of myself for talking about certain subjects and trying not to cry in a lot of videos because a lot of my tiktoks such as my bullying, abandonment, and hate are all based on a true story! I have been bullied before which hurts so much!! I have been abandoned before and it hurts a lot! Thinking to yourself from time to time or thinking "Why people are abandoning me? Did I do something wrong"? The answer is no! You didn't do anything wrong! The people who did abandon you, they are showing who they are as a person and they are showing that they don't care about you anymore! People who have hate on you, they are jealous because they can't stand that you have the nice stuff or you are really nice to other people or they are miserable in their life that they want to make you miserable and your life miserable! Don't let anyone do that because it's not worth it!! Here is my tip of the day: If you want to start a YouTube channel or a tiktok page, be yourself! Don't worry about anyone else! Just be who you are and be proud of who you are! If people don't like your videos, that's okay because your videos will be amazing and I know that you will do amazing on your videos! I have faith in my Blogger Dreamers!! I will always have faith in my Blogger Dreamers! Don't be scared of starting your own tiktok or even your own YouTube Channel!! 

Hello, my Blogger Dreamers! It's I, Brandee here and I just want to remind everyone that y'all have reached the end of today's blog episode for the day! I hope everyone enjoyed today's blog episode for the day!! I know that I did! When I talk about my tiktoks, it brings me so much joy and it makes me so proud of myself!! I am so proud of myself for talking about certain subjects and getting through them! I feel amazing when I talk about it and I don't have to worry about it anymore! For today's quote of the day, it goes like this: "Start writing, no matter what. The water does not flow until the faucet is turned on". -Louis L' Amour. I love this quote so much because when I start writing or typing my blogs, the writing doesn't stop and I keep going! When you turn on the faucet, the water will keep going until you turned off the faucet and it's like with your emotions! For me, when I want to write, I want to keep pouring my emotions into my writing until I can't anymore and I love writing! Writing is my comfort zone! I hope everyone will have or had a great day! Happy Friday or in other countries, Happy Saturday! Until next time, "Dream Big! Don't give up on your dreams". I will see y'all on my 2nd blog page where I will be talking about analyzing the song "Save me" by Sorn, talking about my love for writing, and what makes my writing unique? Stay tuned for all new blogs and I will see y'all next week! Until then, this Blogger Queen is out! Peace! ✌💙

Today's quote of the day!!! Love this quote so much! Such an amazing quote!! 

"You know why kids 
bully? Because adults 
bully. But no one wants 
to have that 
conversation". 
-Unknown. I love this quote because kids would watch adults do whatever they do and bullying can be one of them! Don't let your kids bully other people! 

My tiktok about bullying!! I can't stand when someone bullies other people! It makes me sick to my stomach! 

"After so many people walk 
in and out of the door you 
learn to lock it".
-Unknown. I love this quote a lot because I learned once abandoned me, I learned how to lock my door and leave the people who have abandoned me!! 

My tiktok about "abandonment". I didn't like it when I went through it! It hurts me so much and I feel like other people should ever have to go through it!! 

"People hate 
when they can't get 
under your skin. 
I'm at peace 
and you're in pieces. 
Stay blessed..." 
-Unknown. I love this quote a lot because when someone tries to hate on you but they can't get under your skin because you don't let it bother you and they hate that!! 

My tiktok about hate! Hate is such a strong word and people don't realize that it can destroy another person and it hurts them so much! What people don't realize is that what if you say something hateful to that person and then, they are gone? Be careful with your words and your actions!! 

For this week's song of the week, I chose "Psycho" by Red Velvet. I love this song so much and it is really a good song! Love it!!