Blog: What are chapters 4-6 of my book about? Blog by: Brandee Marie Darden! Date of blog: Friday, May 17th, 2024! 

Intro to my blog! 

Well, hello my Blogger Dreamers! It's your girl aka the Blogger Queen herself, Brandee here and welcome back to an all new weekly blog episode where I do blogs 3 times a week along with new tiktoks as well! Happy Friday or in other countries, Happy Saturday! How are y'all doing today? I hope and pray that everyone is doing okay and well! Whatever it is going on or bothering y'all, you are amazing and you are loved! Don't give up because life is hard! Keep pushing through! Before I get into today's blog episode, here is a blog recap from Wednesday! On Wednesday, I talked celebrating 3 years of blogging! To think on Wednesday I celebrated my 3rd blogging anniversary is unbelievable to me! I pray that I can continue to blog and I praying that my Blogger Dreamers who have been supporting will stay around and continue to support me the way I support y'all because I will continue to support y'all, no matter what! I want to thank my Blogger Dreamers for the support that y'all have been giving me! That has been keeping me going and I can't thank y'all enough for supporting me! If y'all have a dream, go for it! Don't stop until you got that dream that you have always wanted! I love y'all from the bottom of my heart! If y'all haven't read it and would love to check it out, please go check it out whenever y'all can! Thank you all so much! For today's blog episode, I will be talking about what are chapters 4-6 of my book about? In this blog episode, I will be talking about if I could describe what each chapter is about, how would I describe each chapter? Why would I describe each chapter like that? If I could take away from what came from each chapter, what can I take away? Why can I take away from each chapter? What is the lesson from each chapter? Why is that the lesson of each chapter? Now, let's get our blogging thinking caps on and get this blog episode started! Shall we started? Let's get started! #newblogcomingyourway! 

What lessons do I want the readers to take away from my book? Why do I want the readers to take away from my book?

What lessons do I want the readers to take away from my book? The lessons that I want my readers to take away from my book is the 1st lesson that I want them to take away from my book is people can be toxic! There are people out there in this world who are toxic and you should never be around those people! The 2nd lesson that I want my readers to take away from my book is people are not going to understand you! People are not going to learn about you and understand you if they don't want to which is awful but it is the truth! The 3rd and final lesson that I want my readers to take away from my book is if you have children, lead them on the right! If you are a parent, you want what is best for your child and you want to lead them on the right path! They are going to make the wrong mistakes in life but they need to learn and that's okay! I get corrected on my mistakes from my dad and my bonus mom! Let your children learn from those mistakes! Why did I want the readers to take away from my book? The 1st reason why I want my readers to take away from my book is because people can be toxic! Don't let those people influence your decisions on your life! Don't make toxic decisions for your life! The 2nd reason why I want my readers to take from my book is because there are not a lot people who are not going to understand you but that's okay because the right people will take the day to understand and that's important! The 3rd and final reason why I want my readers to take from my book is because children have their own mind and if you don't teach them and guide them into the right direction, they will go on the wrong path! I am blessed to have a dad who still guides me on the right path and a bonus mom who takes me to church! I am nothing without God and Jesus! They changed my life!

Description of each chapter! 

If I could describe what each chapter is about, how would I describe each chapter? The 1st way that I could describe chapter 4 is about who are the positive people in my life? Throughout my life, I had struggle to find people who are a positive influence on my life but when I came across BTS and my boyfriend, for me, that changed! BTS is a Kpop band who I love so much and I will continue to love as long as I live! The 2nd way that I could describe chapter 5 is about my love life and friendships throughout the years! I really hadn't had the best of luck when it came to love or having the best of friends! When it came to my love life, I feel like guys didn't want to be with me long or I didn't want to be with a guy long but when my boyfriend came into the picture, he changed my perspective on love and he made me realize that all guys are different! When it comes to friends, I feel like I have found real friends who actually care about me and I feel very blessed to have good friends! The 3rd and final way that I could describe chapter 6 is toxic friends! Throughout my life, I had people who I thought who were my friends but I was wrong! They were either using me or leaving me which hurt me the most! For me, it felt like I got stabbed in the heart and people didn't care if they hurt me or left me which also hurt a lot! People who you thought your friends are not your friends because they are absolutely toxic and you don't need that in your life! 

Why?

Why would I describe each chapter like that? The 1st reason why I would describe chapter 4 like that is because it is hard to find people who can be an positive influence on you like that but I am very blessed that BTS has taught me to always love myself for who I am and having a supportive boyfriend who always supports me and always be there for me, no matter what! It is important to have those people who has a positive influence on you, not a negative influence because if you have people who are a negative influence on you, they are going to take you down the wrong path which is not good at all! The 2nd reason why I would describe chapter 5 like that is because I didn't have any luck on dating but when it came to my boyfriend now, I feel very blessed and the friends that I have now, I am also very blessed because I might not have a lot of friends, but I am very blessed to have friends who care about me more than anything in this world! Find people who are caring and find a guy or a girl who cares about you and loves you for you! The 3rd and final reason why I would describe chapter 6 like that is because I had toxic friends throughout my life and I really didn't realize it until I noticed how some of them where acting which hurts me a lot and unfortunately, I still dealing with toxic friends because if you are not going to be there for me, I want you to be there for me but unfortunately, I don't have many people who aren't there for me which hurts me the most! I am just blessed to have a few people who are there for me and will continue to be there for me, no matter what! 

Take away from each chapter!  

If I could take away from what came from each chapter, what can I take away? If I can take away something from chapter 4, it will be keep those people who are such a positive influence on you! I don't need any negative people to be an influence on my life! The 2nd thing that I could take away from chapter 5 is be blessed to have a good love life with the boyfriend that I have now! For me, I have never felt happy until I entered this relationship that I am in now! My boyfriend makes me so happy and I am okay to have a few friends because I don't need a lot! I am okay to have my boyfriend and a few more people who really do care about me! The 3rd and final thing that I can take away from chapter 6 is don't let toxic people come into your life and then, they leave! Toxic people are not good for your life because they don't care about your feelings which is crazy to think but honestly, if those people don't care about your feelings, then you don't need those people! They are too toxic for you and they will never care about your feelings!! 

Why?

Why can I take away from each chapter? The reason why I can take away from chapter 4 is because you need people who are positive influence on you! There are people who can direct you to a different direction and that's what you don't need in life! You need people who are positive and who can be there for you when you need them the most! Don't fall into a trap where people might seem to be positive but they are not and you don't need that in your life! The 2nd reason why I can take away from chapter 5 is because having a good relationship is better than having a relationship where you love your partner but your partner doesn't love you back or you have been cheated on! That's has happened to me before and honestly, that hurts more than anything and having friends who say they are for me but they haven't been there for me! For me, I had to pick up the pieces for myself because I was going through a lot by myself and every time I fall, I will pick myself up! No one didn't see how hurt I was except a few friends and my boyfriend! People don't care and they will never care! I am to have a good boyfriend and a few friends who care about me! I am okay with that! The 3rd and final reason why I can take away from chapter 6 is because toxic people are going to be toxic, no matter what! Nothing can't convince the other person because if you try to convince the other person that they hurt you or vice versa, they are not going to care if they hurt you! That's how people are because they don't care and they will never care! I am just saying! 

Lesson from each chapter! 

What is the lesson from each chapter? The lesson behind chapter 4 is find people who are a positive influence on your life! When you enter in this world, you will discover who are negative and who are positive and I found out that people can be a negative nelly real quick! People who complain and whine about certain things, those are negative people! People who have a smile and don't complain and whine, those are positive people! Find people who can bring brightness into your world! I know that I did and I am happy about that! The lesson behind chapter 5 is find people who you can be in a good relationship and have a good friendship! Have a good relationship with the person that you love! Having a good relationship with the person that you love is better than not having a good relationship with the person that you love because if that person doesn't love you, leave them! If you don't have a good friend, leave them because you don't need them at all! The 3rd and final lesson behind chapter 6 is toxic people are going to hurt your mental health! People are going to hurt you and you don't need that at all! Find people who is going to be there for you when you need that person the most! 

Why?

Why is that the lesson of each chapter? The 1st reason why that is the lesson of chapter 4 is because you need to be around people who are a positive influence on your life and your mental health as well! People don't realize that when you are around negative people, it can bring you down but when you are around positive people, it can be happy and that's what you need in your life! Find people are positive, not negative! Positive mindset over negative mindset! The 2nd reason why that is the lesson of chapter 5 is because when you find a good relationship, you are happy and you feel like you are on cloud 9! When you find the right person for you, you don't want to let go that person and that is the same when it comes to friendships as well! When you found a good friend or friends for your life, you don't want to let them go because they are for you and there are for you for the right reasons! Let go of the friendships and relationships that you had years ago and focus on what you have in front of you! Always find a good friendship and a good relationship because it is worth the wait! I know that my boyfriend was worth the wait! The 3rd and final reason why that is the lesson chapter 6 is because toxic people can destroy your mental health! People don't care how you are feeling because those people who are toxic and when you are around toxic people, they will drain you which is not good for your mental health at all! Find people who won't drain you at all! Find people who understands you and who will be there for you, no matter what!

In closing/ Tip of the day!! 

In closing, each chapter tells a different lesson and you can take away from each chapter! While I was typing each chapter, I was thinking to myself "I want my book to be full of lessons" and I feel like that is how my book is! I want people to understand where I am coming from and I want people to know how I am today! If I didn't have the positive influence in my life, I would probably be a hot mess! If I didn't learn from the friendships and the relationships throughout the years, I don't know if I would be with the man that I am with today! I don't know if I would have the friends that I have today! If I wasn't around positive people, I would probably be drained and wouldn't be able to function! Toxic people can drain you so much! Don't be around people who will complain and whine a lot! If you are around those people, ignore them because they are not worth listening to everyday of your life! Here is my tip of the day! My tip of the day is find people who can be a positive influence on you, find a good relationship and friendship, and don't surround yourself toxic people because you deserve to be around positive influence on you and you deserve a good relationship and a good friendship but you don't deserve to be around people who are toxic! That can hurt your mental health and I don't want my Blogger Dreamers around that! I love y'all!

Well, hello my Blogger Dreamers! It's your girl aka the Blogger Queen herself, Brandee here to remind everyone that y'all have reached the end of today's blog episode for today! I want my book to inspire others and understand where I am coming from! Throughout my life, I wanted positive influence in my life because I was tired of people who are always negative and when I found the people who weren't negative, I was happy! BTS has helped me to learn how to love myself for who I am and for who I was! Because of BTS, I love who I am! I am in a good relationship because my boyfriend showed me real love! I have a few good friends and I am good with that! I am okay not surrounding myself with toxic people! I am okay living my life surrounded by people who are positive! That is good for my mental health! I don't need people who are negative because they are going to bring me down and I don't need that in my life! For today's quote of the day, it goes something like this: "unless you open up and share your feelings, no one can understand what you are going through". KTH(Kim Taehyung). I couldn't agree with this quote more because if you don't open up and tell people how you are feeling, people are not going to help you and they wouldn't understand how you are feeling! Tell people how you are feeling and let them help you! I pray that everyone will have a good Friday or in other countries, a good Saturday! Stay tuned where I will be on my makeup and fashion blog page where I will be talking about how would I describe my outfit that I wore for my birthday, what outfits would I wear for summer, part 2, and makeup looks that I would do for summer, part 3! Stay tuned and I will see y'all on my makeup and fashion blog page! Always remember "Dream big! Don't give up on your dreams" and I will see y'all on my next blog episode! I love y'all! Peace! ☮✌💜

Today's quote of the day! I couldn't agree with this quote is because if you can't tell people what is going on, how you are suppose to open up to other people? Open up to people and tell them what is going on! Don't let things build up! 

Chapter 4 about who are the positive people in my life? I have people who are negative but I also have people who are positive and the people who comes to mind is BTS and my boyfriend! They have influenced me so much and I can't thank them enough for the positive influence that they have in my life!

Chapter 5 is about my love life and friendships throughout the years! In my love life, I got cheated on and guys stopped loving me or I stopped loving them and the relationship that I am in now, I am happy and he makes me the happiest woman in the world! He pays attention to how I am feeling or to what I like which I love about my man! The friendships that I used to have are non existent because the people who I used to be friends with, they forgot about me which is okay because I have good friends who I am friends with today! 

Chapter 6 is about toxic friends! Don't have toxic friends around you because you definitely don't need that! If God takes out those people out of your life, chances are those people aren't meant to be friends with you and you need to find better friends! Just saying! I love y'all!

To end today's blog episode, here is this week's song of the week! For this week's song of the week, I chose "Eye Of The Storm" by Ryan Stevenson featuring Gabe Real and the reason why I chose that song for the song of the week is no matter how many storms that I have been through, God has helped me through each storm and I can't thank God enough for protecting me from the storms in my life!