Blog: What I learned over the years? Blog by: Brandee Marie Darden! Date of blog: Wednesday, May 1st, 2024!

                                         Blog: What I learned over the years? Blog by: Brandee Marie Darden! Date of blog: Wednesday, May 1st, 2024! 

Intro to my blog! 

Well, hello my Blogger Dreamers! It's your girl aka the Blogger Queen herself, Brandee here and welcome back to an all new blog episode for today! It's my birthday! Yay! Happy birthday to me! How are y'all doing today? I hope and pray that everyone is doing okay and well! Whatever the circumstances might be or whatever it is weighing you down, just know that you are loved and you have people who love you and care about you! I even care about you! Don't y'all ever forget that! Happy Wednesday or in other countries, Happy Thursday! Before I get into today's blog episode, here is a recap of Monday's blog episode! On Monday, I analyzed the song "Good Times Go By Too Fast" by Dylan Scott, blog by: Brandee Marie Darden! When I listen to that song, I think about how you will have these good memories with people and then, you blink and it is over! Time is a thief and time can be stolen within an instant! Enjoy those moments with those people! If y'all haven't read this blog and would love to check it out, please go check it out whenever y'all can! Please! Thank you so much! For today's blog episode, I will be talking about what I learned over the years? In this blog episode, I will be talking about if I could pick 3 things that I have learned over the years, what 3 things have I learned? Why did I learn those 3 things over the years? Out of those 3 things that I have learn over the years, which one do I apply to my life? Why do I apply that thing to my life to this day? If I have any advice to give to my Blogger Dreamers about life, what is my advice? Why would I give that advice to my Blogger Dreamers? Now, let's get our blogging thinking caps on and get this blog episode started! Shall we? We shall! 

How much have I grown over the years? Why did I grow over the years? 

How much have I grown over the years? I feel like I have grown a lot and I am very proud of myself for becoming mature and learning how to stand up for myself! Learning how to stand up for yourself can be a little challenging but for me, I am learning! I need to learn how to stand up for myself to prove to people that I am not weak and that if someone is being mean to me, I can stand up for myself, not someone standing up for me! I am proud of how far I have come! I can't wait to see what God has in store for me! Why did I grow over the years? The reason why I grow over the years is because I was tired of people walking all over me and always tearing me down and I wanted to stand up for myself because I felt like it is important and I am so glad that I did! I am proud of the woman that I am today! I can't wait to see what it is in store for me!

3 things that I have learned over the years! 

If I could pick 3 things that I have learned over the years, what 3 things have I learned? If I could pick the 1st thing that I have learned over the years, the 1st thing that I learned is true friendships! True friendships are hard to come by these days and I am so blessed to have true friends who support me and love me for who I am! The 2nd thing that I learned at over the years is people leaving you or in my case, leaving me! I had to learn how to accept people leaving me which is the hardest thing for me to ever go through but I accepted it! I know fake people will leave me but true people will stay by my side and I am blessed to have real people in my life who had stayed by my side throughout my life! The 3rd and final thing that I learned over the years is real relationship! I remember being in what I thought I was a real relationship but turns out, I didn't feel like the man didn't love me or he would cheat on me! I had two guys cheat on me but I had to let them go which I am so glad that I did! These lessons taught me a lot and I am so blessed to be where I am at today! 

Why?

Why did I learn those 3 things over the years? The reason why I learned over the years is true friendships is because having a true friend is who is there for you and supporting you is hard to come by these days but I am very blessed to have true friends who care and love me for who I am! The 2nd reason why I learned over the years is people leaving me is because throughout my life existence, I had to watch people walk in and out of my life and I had to learn accept that but that's okay because the true people stood by my side and I'm blessed that they did! The 3rd and final reason why I learned over the years is real relationships is because having someone who won't cheat on you and finding someone who loves you for the real you is hard to come by these days! Guys don't care about not having a good girl but instead, they care about having a bad girl! I am blessed to be in a good relationship where my man loves me for who I am and always supporting me, no matter what! He makes me happy and that matters to me! 

Apply to my life? 

Out of those 3 things that I have learn over the years, which one do I apply to my life? The one lesson that I apply to my life to this day is people leaving me! I have ingrained that in my head that I am going to have people who are going to leave me but I am okay with that because I know who are the real people in my life! People can walk in and out of my life no matter what but I have come to the realization that I have people that are true to me and they will never leave unless the good Lord takes them! I am very blessed for the people who have stayed by my side over the years and love me for who I am! Having people who love me for who I am is a true blessing within itself and I am so blessed to have good people in my life! 

Why? 

Why do I apply that thing to my life to this day? The reason why I apply people leaving me is because I had people leave left and right throughout my life existence and I have grown up to realize that if God didn't want them to be in life, then so be it! God can take people out of your life and put people in your life but what matters is don't accept people who are going to constantly leave you because you don't need that in your life! People who already left you have cause you damage! Don't accept those people and don't let those people come back into your life because you don't need that in your life! Don't let people hurt you over and again because they are running over you and they are hurting you! Find people who love you and accept you for who you are! Don't find people who won't love you and accept you because those are the people who you don't need in your life!

My advice on life! 

If I have any advice to give to my Blogger Dreamers about life, what is my advice? The advice that I would give to my Blogger Dreamers about life is live life to the fullest! Don't worry about the littlest things in life! Focus on what matters in your life and live your life! Your life matters and do stuff that makes you happy! Don't worry about what others think of you! Let God be the judge of you! You do what makes you happy and live your life! You live your life how you want to! Don't listen to what other people say about your life! Live your life and enjoy life as well! It is your life, not anyone else's life! 

Why? 

Why would I give that advice to my Blogger Dreamers? The reason why I would give that advice to my Blogger Dreamers is because you should never have to worry about what others think of you or what you are doing with your life! You live how you want to! You shouldn't have to listen to what others think about you! People can be mean and obnoxious and very judgemental! We live in a world of people who are judgemental and the only one who can judge us is God! Don't let anyone tear you down because you are much better than that and you are loved here at the Blogger Dreamers! I love each and one of my supporters a lot and I would do anything for y'all! Don't give up and don't get discouraged! I love y'all from the bottom of my heart! 

In closing/ Tip of the day/ Question of the day?

In closing, over the past 26 years of my life, I have learned, grew, and worked hard throughout my life time! I have cried at night wondering if I have people who love me but it turns out, I really do! I had to please people throughout my life but I don't need to do that anymore because the only person who I need to please is God and myself! I am going to continue to work hard and not give up! True friendships are hard to find but once you find that true friendship, keep them because you will never find that true friendship ever again! I had people leave me left and right but I am better off without them in my life! I am happy in the relationship that I am in now! The man who I am with makes me truly happy and I couldn't ask for a better person in my life! I am so blessed to see another day of life! I have grown and I don't know where I would be without the people who have been in my life! I am so blessed! Here is my tip and question of the day?! My tip of the day is live your life how you want to! Do something that makes you happy, not anyone else happy! Live your life to the fullest and don't worry about anything else in your life! My question of the day is what 3 lessons have y'all learned over the years? Why did y'all learn those 3 lessons over the years? Sound off in the comments down below and let me know! I would love to read everyone's comments! Please! Thank you all so much! I love y'all! 

Well, hello my Blogger Dreamers! It's your girl aka the Blogger Queen herself, Brandee here and y'all just reached the end of today's blog episode for today! I hope and pray that y'all enjoyed today's blog episode for today! I know that I did! I am so blessed to see another year and I am glad that I have true friends who love me and support me! I am so glad that God took the people out of my life who left me! I am so glad that God gave me a good relationship with my boyfriend who makes me happy! I love my life and I live my life to glorify God and to please him and myself, not anyone else! I am so blessed to see myself grow! I love who I am and I will always love myself for who I am! Don't let anyone tell you how you should live your life because this is your life, not anyone else's life! For today's quote of the day, it goes like this: "Life should not only be lived, it should be celebrated". -Osho. I totally agree with this quote a lot because we should not only live life, but also celebrate life as well because life should be celebrated, not just lived! I am so blessed to celebrate my life today! I love y'all and I pray that everyone will have or had a good day! Until next time, "Dream Big! Don't give up on your dreams" and I will see y'all on the next blog where I will be analyzing my poem "Looking back"! I love y'all and this birthday blogging queen is out! Happy Wednesday or in other countries, Happy Thursday! Peace! ☮✌💖

Today's quote of the day! I couldn't agree with this quote of the day because life should be celebrated along with your life accomplishments and what you have been through! Celebrate your life and thank God for your life! 


"True friends
aren't the ones 
who make your 
problems
disappear. They
are the ones who
won't disappear 
when you're 
facing problems".
-Unknown. I love this quote so much because true friends won't leave you when you are going through rough times! Fake friends will leave you when you are going through something rough but true friends won't! 


"Things end. People
leave. And you know 
what? Life goes on".
-Elizabeth Scott. I love this quote so much because things will end with the people who leave you and you know, life goes on, no matter what! Live your life and don't worry about those people who leave you! You don't need them! 


"If Someone Wants To 
Be With You, Nothing 
Will Stop Them From 
Doing So. Love Doesn't 
Create Excuses".
-Unknown! I agree with this quote because if someone wants to be with you, they will do anything to be with you! Love doesn't create excuses! Making up excuses creates problems! Be with the person that you want to be with! 

I hope and pray that everyone will have a good day or had a good day! Happy birthday to me!! I love y'all! 



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