Blog: Showing action vs showing no action! Blog by: Brandee Marie Darden! Blog date: Wednesday, 7/10/24! 

Intro to my blog! 

Well, hello my Blogger Dreamers! It's your girl aka the Blogger Queen herself, Brandee here and welcome back to an all new weekly blog episode where I would talk about personal things from bullying, abandonment, and so much more! How are y'all doing today? I hope and pray that everyone is doing okay and well! Whatever y'all are facing or whatever it is bringing you down, just know that everything will be okay and please, don't give up! Don't quite and keep pushing through because tomorrow is a new day! Happy Wednesday or in other countries, Happy Thursday! Who is ready for an all new blog episode for today? I know that I am but first, a blog recap from Monday! On Monday, I analyzed a song called "Sinner's Prayer" by: Anne Wilson, blog by: Brandee Marie Darden! When I listen to that song, I feel like deep down in my heart, we should always talk to Jesus and God knows what we are going through! He and Jesus watch we go through everyday and we need to talk more to them on a daily basis because if you don't talk to them, how do they know if you need help or not? I pray that y'all can talk to Jesus and God more! I want to encourage my Blogger Dreamers to talk to Jesus and God today! They can help you! If y'all haven't read this blog and would love to check it out, I will leave the link right here: → Monday's blog! Please, go give it a read whenever y'all can! Please! Thank you all so much! For today's blog episode, I will be talking about showing action vs showing no action! In this blog episode, I will be talking about when someone says, "I'm am going to see you soon", but they don't come to see you, how does that make you feel or in this instance, make me feel? Why does it make me feel that way? When someone is telling me words but showing no action, how does that make me feel? Why does it make me feel that way? What is my advice for anyone who is dealing with someone who is telling you one thing, but not showing you action? Why would I give that advice to my Blogger Dreamers? Now, without any further ado, let's get this blog episode started! Shall we? We shall! 

The difference between showing action vs showing no action! Why is there a difference between the two? 

What is the difference between showing action vs showing no action? The difference between showing action vs showing no action is when a person shows you how much they care and they would do anything for you, they are showing you and putting the effort into the relationship whereas, people are telling you how they care but you but they are showing no action at all and don't care how they feel about you or not willing to put in the effort which is sad to hear because people like that are selfish and terrible people! Don't be around people who won't be there for you or put in any action to show how much they care about you! You don't need people in your life like that! Why is there a difference between the two? The reason why there is the difference between the two is because when you show action to someone, you are showing how much you are willing to do anything for them and you are willing to change your schedule around vs there are people who are not willing to do the same thing for you because those people are selfish and they don't care about you! If that person is not willing to change their schedule for you, then they are not worth having your life! God can take people out of your life! If people are not willing to show you action, don't be around them!

My feelings towards not seeing me! 

When someone says "I am going to see you soon", but they don't come see you, how does that make you feel or in this instance, make me feel? When someone says "I am going to see you soon" and that person doesn't make the time and effort to come and see me, honestly. that hurts me! If I want a certain person to come and see me but they don't make time to come and see me, I am hurt! If someone doesn't come and see you, it shows you that they never cared about you! People will make time to see you and if they don't want to come and see you, then they are worth seeing!

Why?

Why does it make me feel that way? The reason why it makes me feel that way is because when a person wants to come see you but they don't make an effort to come see you, they don't care about you! When someone doesn't make an effort to come see you, it hurts and I know that feeling! For me, when someone doesn't come and see me, it kind hurts because when I want see a certain somebody but they don't want to see me, it hurts but that's okay because karma will comeback to a certain somebody and that person will see what they have done to me!! 

Make me feel about telling me words, but not showing me no action!

When someone is telling me words, but showing no action, how does that make me feel? When someone is telling me words, but not showing any action, it kind of hurts! You are telling me that you do care about me or you are always there for me, no matter what but when you show me no action, I have sense of feeling that you never cared about me or you were never there for me which honestly hurts! When someone tells me words and showing me action, it does gave me an assurance that person does cares and there for me, no matter what and it makes me safe to know that that person does love me and care about me! Having that person love and care you makes you realize that you are safe with that person and that person is going to love you, no matter what! 

Why?

Why does it make me feel that way? The reason why it makes me feel hurt is because when you say "I care about you" or "I love you" but they don't show me action, that is a stabbed in the back because I sometimes wonder if that person really cares about me and if a person doesn't care or love me, I have other people who I can replace that person with! People can be replaced and I am not afraid to replace people who easily don't love or care about me! It won't bother me at all! That person can live their life and I can live my life! I have so much to live for and if that person doesn't support me, I don't need their support and it shows me they never supported me in the beginning which is incredibly sad! I don't need people like that! I don't have time for that! 

My advice!

What is my advice for anyone who is dealing with someone who is telling you one thing, but not showing you action? If you are dealing with someone who is telling you one thing, but not showing you action, here is my advice: if you are dealing with this or you know someone who is dealing with, my advice is let that person go! If someone is telling one thing, but not showing any action, let that person go! I don't want you go through that hurt! You are worth so much more than a person hurting you over and over again and I don't want you go through that hurt! You are worth having a person who cares about you and being there for you than having someone who doesn't care about you and who won't support you anymore! Don't let that person's actions bother you! You live your life and you let that person live their life! You are doing good for yourself and I am so proud of you!

Why?

Why would I give that advice to my Blogger Dreamers? The reason why I would give that advice to my Blogger Dreamers is because when people tell you words but they don't care about justifying the words with action, it hurts you and it gets the best of you but you need to learn to let them go and let them live their life while you live yours! You have so much to live for and you don't need people dragging you down and making you feel worthless because you don't deserve that at all! You deserve so much more and if there is people who are showing how much they love you through their actions, keep them because they are worth keeping and I will always show my love through actions and I will keep reminding people how much I care about I care about my Blogger Dreamers and I always will, no matter what!

In closing/ Reminder of the day! 

In closing, there is a moral behind this blog episode and the moral of this blog is if people don't show you action and all they care about is telling you words, then they are not worth being in your life! If people don't care about how you feel and they are not worth being their for you through your hard and good times, it shows you they never cared about you and they will never care about you! I know people who tells me they care about me and they are there for me but they never showed up for me which kills me so much but I just keep trucking along because I have a lot of other things to worry about instead of worrying about others who don't care about me! I will live my life to the fullest in honor of Christ whereas other people can go on their own path! I am focusing on myself and let God guide me in the right direction and I am okay with that! Here is your reminder for today! Your reminder of the day is focus on the people who do care about you because when you focus on those who do care about you, it worth it at the end because you have people who do care about you and is willing to show you action instead of just words! I love y'all!

Hello, my Blogger Dreamers! It's your girl aka your Blogger Queen herself, Brandee here reminding y'all that y'all just reached the end of today's blog episode for today! I pray that y'all understand where I am coming from because when people just tell you words and not showing you action, you are confused if they care about you or if they are going to show up for you which kills you because you don't know who will be there for you or not! I deal with that everyday because I honestly don't know who will be there for me but I do know this: I know that God and Jesus will never leave me because they have my back forever and always! They will never betray me! Don't let people tell you words and not show you action because if they don't care about you, they never cared about you in the beginning! For today's quote of the day, it is written by Wang Yibo and it goes something like this: "Once you have self-awareness, you won't be doing any reckless acts. Confidence can make yourself braver". I couldn't agree with this quote more because once you know that you have this self-awareness, you won't do anything reckless and when you have confidence in yourself, it makes you braver than you already are and you should be proud of yourself! Always be aware what you doing and what kind of mistakes you might make along the way because you need to own up to those mistakes! I love y'all and I pray that everyone will have a good Wednesday or in other countries, a good Thursday! Always remember "Dream Big! Don't give up on your dreams" and I will see y'all on Friday where I will be talking about the word "weak", so stay tuned! I love y'all and I will see y'all on Friday! Peace! ☮✌💜☺

Today's quote of the day by Wang Yibo! I couldn't agree more with this quote of the day is because when you do something and you know your self-awareness, you won't do anything reckless! When you have confidence, it makes you braver than you are and you should be proud! 

"Don't talk, 
just act.
Don't say, 
just show.
Don't promise,
just prove".
-Unknown! I agree with this because don't just talk, act as well! Act on the situation! Don't say anything, but show me that you are going to do what you are going to say! Don't promise me anything if you can't keep your promise but prove to me how much you care about me because if you prove to me, then I know!

"You are
what you do, 
not what you
say you'll do".
-Carl Jung. I love this quote because don't tell yourself that you will do it later because when it comes to later, you didn't do it but go ahead and do it now! Show yourself that you will do it! Don't wait until later!

"Words Are 
Meaningless
Without Intent
And Follow 
Through".
-Unknown. I agree with this quote because words are meaningless and if you don't have action behind those words, then those words are really meaningless!

"Action may not always bring 
happiness, but there is no 
happiness without action".
-William James. I love this quote because if you are not happy, change the situation in order to make yourself happy! In order to make you happy, show action! Don't leave yourself unhappiness! You don't deserve that! I love y'all and have a blessed day!