❤ Blog: What are 3 goals for September? Blog by: Brandee Marie Darden! Date of blog: Monday, 9-1-25!! This blog episode is dedicated to anyone who wants to focus on themselves or focus on their happiness! This blog is for y'all! ❤ 
Intro to my blog!!
Well, hello my Blogger Dreamers! It's your girl aka the Blogger Queen herself Brandee here and welcome back to an all new weekly blog episode for the day! How are y'all doing today? Are y'all doing okay today? Whatever got y'all down in the dumps or whatever got you down, just know that God will pick you back up and be there for you through your tough times in your life along with your good days as well! Happy Monday or in other countries, Happy Tuesday! Happy September everyone! Holy smokes! We are in September already?? Wow! That was fast! I blinked and boom! It is September already but I am looking forward to this month because this month is new blogs and new tiktoks coming your way and I am so excited!! Plus, this month is fall month which is so exciting! Any of my Blogger Dreamers love fall? Comment down below if y'all are fall people? Who is ready for an all new blog episode for today? I know that I am but 1st, let's do a blog recap from last week! On Monday, I talked about what are 3 goals for me and my fiancé as a married couple? As me and my fiancé will enter into a new era of life as a married couple, I think one of the goals that I want to accomplish would have to be always communicating! I believe in communicating with your spouse or even your parents but when you are in a relationship, I believe in communicating because y'all don't communicate, things will bubble up and things will not turn out good! On Wednesday, I analyzed my poem "A loving husband". If I could describe what a husband should do for their wife, I would describe it as helping their wife out around the house or even listen to them when things are tough! We need our husbands to listen to us when we are struggling! Men, if you don't listen to your wife, you might be missing something!! Don't miss something!! On Friday, I analyzed my poem "A loving wife". If I could describe myself as a wife, the way I could describe myself as a wife is a loving and caring wife who wants to take care of her husband!! I believe that husbands should be taking care of as well!! If you are not taking care of your husband, the next woman will and you don't want that!! Want to know more about these blogs? Well, you are in luck because you can check them out right here: →2nd blog page!!←Link right here!! Now, with this week's blog episodes, I will be talking about what are 3 goals for September, my poem "Starting new", and how does it feel that me and my fiancé's friendship anniversary being on Saturday?? Now, without any further disruptions or distractions, let's get this blog episode started!! Shall we? We shall!!
Talking about today's blog episode! Why did I choose this blog episode to talk about? What is this week's song of week? Why did I choose this song for the week?
For today's blog episode, I will be talking about What are 3 goals for September? This blog episode is dedicated to anyone who wants to focus on themselves or focus on their happiness!! This blog episode is for y'all! In this blog episode, I will be talking about if I could pick 3 goals for September, what would those goals for September be? Why would I pick those goals for September? Out of those goals, which one would I want to accomplish the most? Why would I pick that goal to accomplish the most? Why did I choose this blog episode to talk about? The reason why I would pick this blog episode to talk about is because it is important to set you some goals and setting goals are hard to set but you are not going to accomplish them over night!! What is this week's song of the week? The song that I choose for the week is "Change your name" by: Brett Young! When I listen to this song, I think about how my last name will be different as my dad's last name! When I get married, I will have the same last name as my fiancé and I am looking forward to having his last name! Why did I choose this song for the week? The reason why I choose this song for the week is because I am looking forward to being my fiancé's wife and I can't wait to see what the future holds for us!!
What is the importance of setting goals for yourself? Why is that the importance of setting goals for yourself?
What is the importance of setting goals for yourself? I think the importance of setting yourself goals to remind yourself that you have a goal or certain goals that you want to accomplish and it might not be easy but you can do it!! You have to have faith in yourself that you will accomplish your goals and you will! Just have faith! Why is that the importance of setting goals for yourself? The reason why that is the importance of setting goals for yourself is because it might be hard at first but when you set yourself goals for yourself, you need to remind yourself "I can't do this overnight but I can do it" and y'all can do it! Just believe in yourself and keep going!!
3 goals for September!!
If I could pick 3 goals for September, what would those goals for September be? As September is starting, with my 1st goal that I would pick, it would have to be focusing on my mental health!! Here lately, I feel like I have been neglecting my mental and I think it is time to put my focus on my mental health again!! I feel like I have been putting my mental health on the back burner and I want to put my mental health 1st again!! The 2nd goal for September would be focusing on God!! Instead of focusing on the people who don't care about me, I want to focus on God!! I want to give God my main attention to dive in the word of God and focus on what God wants me to do with my life! I want God to lead me on the right path of life and I want God to be the center of my life!! The 3rd and final goal that I would pick for September, it would be focusing on my happiness! Here lately, it is what everyone wants from Brandee and how to make others happy! Instead of making others happy, I want to make myself happy for once! I want to make me happy!! I am tired of making others happy!! I need to learn how to make myself happy!!
Why?
Why would I pick those goals for September? The 1st reason why I would pick the 1st goal as focusing on my mental health is because here lately, I have been losing focus on my mental health and focusing on everyone around me! I have been putting myself last and this month, I want to put myself 1st and make sure that I am mentally okay because I am not okay, then I need to give myself time to myself!! The 2nd reason why I would pick the 2nd goal as focusing on God is because I want God to be the center of my life! Instead of me focusing on what everyone thinks about me or what I am doing, I want to focus on what God is doing for my life and what he thinks about me! People can think about me all they want to about me! I really don't care what others think about me!! I want to focus on God and that's it!! The 3rd and final reason why I would pick the 3rd goal as focusing on my happiness is because here lately, I also have been neglecting my happiness and I need to stop making others happy when I need to make myself happy! Instead of doing what others think I should do, I should focus on what makes me happy! I shouldn't care what others think about me and I need to step away from that and make me happy!!
Accomplish the most?
Out of those goals, which one would I want to accomplish the most? Out of the 3 goals that I mentioned, I think the main goal that I want to accomplish the most is focusing on my mental health! I want to focus on my mental health the most! I feel like I have abandoned my mental health a lot and I am attending to people who don't care about me or they are using me for something and then, they are leaving me! Instead of being there for those people, I need to channel that and put my mental health 1st! I know the focusing on God and focusing on my happiness are both good but I feel like the mental health is important for me to do and I need to learn not to put myself on the back burner! I need to help myself and make sure that I am okay!!
Why?
Why would I pick that goal to accomplish the most? The reason why I would pick focusing on my mental health to accomplish the most is because I feel like my mental health is getting abandoned and I am not focusing on it as much as I needed to and to me, that's hard because I am constantly focusing on others needs and I am not focusing what I need and how I need it! People are always using me and never checking up on me when I need people the most! It is time to put mental health 1st and focus on me!! I need to learn how to be selfish for once and learn how to put my phone away and focus on me because I am constantly losing myself!!
In closing/ Questions of the day?
In closing, since it is a new month, I want to set back and learn how to put myself 1st instead of thinking about what everyone wants from me! I need to think about what does Brandee want? What does Brandee need? Not about what everyone wants or needs! I think it is okay to be selfish every once in a while and I am okay with being selfish!! I want my mental health to be okay instead of me not being okay! I always want my attention on God because God is the most important person in my life!! I want my happiness to be okay as well because I want to enjoy the things that bring me happiness, not what others think should bring me happiness! I am always putting myself last! I need to learn to focus on making me happy and focus on what I need!! I am tired of being used by people who want to us me as a clutch! I am not a clutch anymore! I am a human being who struggles with mental health and it is time to focus on my mental health! Here is today's questions of the day: My 1st question of the day is What are y'all's 3 goals for September? My 2nd question is Why would y'all pick those 3 goals for the month of September? I would love to read and respond to everyone's responses! Please, sound off in the comments down below! Please! Thank you all so much!!
Well, hello my Blogger Dreamers! It's your girl aka the Blogger Queen herself, Brandee here to remind everyone that y'all reached the end of today's blog episode for the day!! I feel like here lately, I have been focusing on everyone else and not if I am okay with life? There are days where I feel like I am struggling and drowning because I am always here for others, but who is there for me when I need someone? I feel like I don't have anyone and I need to learn how to say "no" or tell people that I need to focus on me for an hour because that's what I need!! I need to learn how to focus on me for an hour and talk myself off the ledge because I feel like I can calm myself better and I need to get myself out of things better!! For today's quote of the day, it is by Lauren Fortenberry and it goes something like this: "And she held onto God through it all. His love was unchanging. His grace was unending. And His peace was the promise her heart needed to endure". - Lauren Fortenberry. When I went through tough times, I held unto God through it all!! His love didn't change for me! His grace was unending and he gave me the peace that I needed the most!! God kept his promises and I know that he will be there for me, no matter what! I hope and pray that today could be a good day or y'all had a good day! Please, stay safe and stay tuned for an all new blog episode for Wednesday where I will be talking about my poem "Starting new". Always remember to "Dream Big! Don't give up on your dreams" and let's share how amazing God's love is and how cool Jesus is today! Let's also love like Jesus today! I love y'all! ❤❤❤☺☺☺
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Today's quote of the day!! God held me through my tough times in life! When I had no one, God was there through it all! His love about me didn't change or his grace was unending!! His peace gave me a promise that I can endure forever!! God is an amazing God and I love our God!!  health is a priority. Take care of yourself first". -Unknown. You need to take care of your mental health 1st because it is a priority and if you don't take care of your mental health, you will ended up declining and that's not good for you at all!  On God". -Unknown. Always keep your focus on God because he is bigger and better plans for your future and you need to trust what he is doing for your life!! Trust in God!  own happiness, focus on your own life, focus on your own vision". -Unknown. Focus on your own happiness because you need to learn how to make yourself happy! You are in control of your own life and your own visions!! Focus on what counts the most! To end today's blog episode, here is this week's song of the week! For this week's song of the week, I chose "Change your name" by: Brett Young! When I listen to this song, I think about how me and my fiancé will be getting married and I will have the same last name as him and I am looking forward to having the same last name as him!! I love y'all and have a wonderful day or had a wonderful day and I will see y'all on Wednesday!! ☺☺☺ |
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