Friday, September 5, 2025

Blog: How does it make me feel that me and my fiancé's friendship anniversary being on Saturday? Blog by: Brandee Marie Darden! Date: Friday, 9/5/25!!

                                      ❤Blog: How does it make me feel that me and my fiancé's friendship anniversary being on Saturday? Blog by: Brandee Marie Darden! Date: Friday, 9/5/25!! This blog episode is dedicated to anyone who has been friends with anyone for 5 years or more! This blog is for y'all!❤  

Intro to my blog!

Well, hello my wonderful Blogger Dreamers! It's your girl aka the Blogger Queen herself, Brandee here and welcome back to an all new weekly blog episode where I talk about anything that comes to mind whether it is about my poems or anything that comes to mind, I talk about it! How are y'all doing today? I hope and pray that everyone is doing okay and well! Whatever y'all are going through, just know that y'all are loved and I love y'all from the bottom of my heart! Happy Friday or in other countries, Happy Saturday!! Before I jump into today's blog episode or do a little blog recap of my blog from Wednesday, I want to thank everyone who have been supporting me through everything! From showing my blogs a lot of love to my tiktok videos as well! Everyone's support means so much to me and I can't thank you all enough!! I love y'all from the bottom of my heart!! On Wednesday, I talked about my poem "Starting new". If I could describe starting new, I would describe it as a fresh start with a new job or a new marriage!! When you start new with a new job or a new marriage, it can be a little nerve wracking but you have to remind yourself that you can do it and that you are going to do a great job with the new job and you and your partner are going to have your ups and downs, but that's okay because everything will be alright!! Want to know more about this blog episode? Link right here: →Starting new! Please, go check it out whenever y'all can! Please! Thank you all so much!! For today's blog episode, I will be talking about How does it make me feel that me and my fiancé's friendship anniversary being on Saturday? This blog episode is dedicated to anyone who has been friends with anyone for 5 years or more! This blog is for y'all! In this blog episode, I will be talking about how does it make me feel that it is me and my fiancé's 5 year friendship anniversary? Why does it make me feel a certain way? What changed within these 5 years? Why did those things changed within these 5 years? Without any disruptions, let's get this blog episode started! Shall we? We shall! 

How could I describe me and my fiancé's friendship within the past 5 years? Why did I describe it the way I describe it? 

How could I describe me and my fiancé's friendship within the past 5 years? If I could describe our friendship within these past 5 years, it has been amazing with a lot of laughter and joy!! To know that our relationship started out as a friendship means a lot to me! Before jumping into a relationship, you should start out as friends and then, see where things go and I am so blessed that we did that!! He has brought me so much joy in my life and he loves me for who I am and I am so glad that he does!! Why did I describe it the way I describe it? The reason why I describe it the way I describe it is because I believe in my heart that he has brought me so much joy and laughter! Without him, I don't know if I would ever be this happy! He truly makes me so happy!! I love him more than words can describe and I will always love our friendship!! 

My feelings! 

How does it make me feel that is me and my fiancé's 5 year friendship anniversary?  The feeling that I have that Saturday is me and my fiancé's 5 year friendship anniversary is joy and laughter!! We have had a lot of joy and laughter over the past 5 years of being friends!! I am very blessed to have an amazing best friend like my fiancé! I can tell him everything and he wouldn't be so quick  to judge me! I can tell him everything and he will listen to me! He will put his feelings aside and be there for me when I need him the most and I will be forever grateful for him!! He will listen to he when no one else will listen to me and I love that about him!! 

Why? 

Why does it make me feel a certain way? The reason why I feel joy and laughter over the past 5 years is because we laugh over the silliest things! We could be laughing at something completely dumb and cracking up laughing! Our friendship makes sense to us! It might not make sense to others, but it definitely makes sense to us!! He has been there for me when I wanted to give up on life!! There has been times where life was hard but he never left me and I appreciate him not leaving me!! He has been there for me more than I can ever imagine and I am truly happy!! I am happy to have him as my best friend and the love of my life!! 


What changed? 

What changed within these 5 years? I think what changed within these 5 years of our friendship is we got into a relationship and then, we met in person for the 1st time! This year, I went to stay with him and his sister for 9 days which was fun!! On my birthday weekend, he proposed to me and now, I will become Mrs. Jeansonne!! I am truly excited about becoming and being a wife!! Not just any wife but his wife!! I feel like our friendship as changed so much but I still enjoy our friendship a lot! In the back of my head, I never thought we would become more than friends! I thought we will always stay friends but in 2022 of November 1st, we became official and then, in 2023, I was saved and baptize and then, in 2024, on February 25, I went to go and meet him for the 1st time and then, this year, I met his sister in person and stayed with her and my fiancé!! A few months after that, I went to go see him and he proposed to me!! I still look at him as my best friend! We will always be best friends, no matter what!! 

Why? 

Why did those things changed within these 5 years? I think the reason why those things changed is because we wanted to meet each other for the 1st time and I'm glad that we did!! I think us meeting for the 1st time and on top of that, this year, I got to stay for 9 days and being proposed to was amazing in eyes and I am looking forward to being his wife!! Do I think I will be a good wife? Only time will tell and I am praying that I will be a good wife! I want to be a good and caring wife!! In my head, I know that I will!! I just have to trust myself that I will be a good wife!! 

In closing/ Tip of the day!! 

In closing, I am so happy that I found a best friend who is not just my best friend, he is the love of my life and he is the reason why my life has so much meaning! Everyone wants to jump into a relationship so quickly but for me, I am happy that instead of us doing  that, we got to know each  other and then, created a friendship based! I feel like it is so important to have a friendship based relationship first because what if it is not going anywhere and y'all want to remain friends and that we can laugh together and be happy!! I do think it is important to have a good friendship with one another! Here is my tip of the day! My tip of the day is Always build a good foundation of friendship because it is very important to have a good friend and a good lover in your life!! I love y'all and have a good day!! 

Well, hello my Blogger Dreamers! It's your girl aka the Blogger Queen herself, Brandee here and y'all just reached the end of today's blog episode for the day!! Having that foundation that me and my fiancé build on through out the years has been really amazing! We have been through a lot but no matter what life throws at us, we got through it, no matter what! People can push us down or the world can push him down or the world can push me down, but at the end of the day, we will get back up and we will not stop until we are satisfied!!! People are cruel, but we will not stop until we are happy! Once we are happy, we are happy!! We are the ones who are in this friendship and we are the ones who are getting married to one another!!! God has us!! For today's quote of the day, it is by Lauren Fortenberry and it says "And she stopped searching out there in there in the world. For the love and the light. For the beauty and the belonging. That only came from God's heart". -Lauren Fortenberry! When I started to love God, I stopped looking for a place to belong! I stopped searching what I was missing from the world!! I started to love God and trusting what his word says!! I trusted his light and what came from his heart!! I trust God! I don't trust the world!! Stay tuned for next week's blog episodes where on my 2nd blog page, I will be talking about "When the world is against me", my poem, another poem of mine called "God vs the world", and a third and final poem called "Staying alive". Stay tuned for next week's blog episodes but for now, I love y'all and so does Jesus and don't forget to dream big! Don't give up on your dreams! Let's show the whole world how amazing God's love is and how cool Jesus is today! Let's love like Jesus today and I will see y'all next week!! I love y'all and this Blogger Queen is out! Peace! ❤❤❤❤

Today's quote of the day! Once I trusted in God, I stopped looking for people's love in the world and started to trust God's love and the light from God!! I stopped finding a place to belong in this world and trust where I need to be with God!! I only trust in God's heart!! 


"True friends 
are the ones who 
lift you up, when 
no one else has 
noticed you've 
fallen". 
-Unknown. When I felt the world was against me, my fiancé was there for me to pick me up when I fallen! When I had no one, he was one of the people there for me!! 


"True Friends 
Are Never Apart. 
Maybe In Distance
But Never 
In Heart". 
    -Unknown. We are apart right now, but in our hearts, we are always together, no matter what!! I trust what God is doing for us and I know that one day, we will forever be together again!! 


"Friendship
is not about who 
you've known 
the longest; 
it's about who 
came and never 
left your side"
-Unknown. When I had no one, my fiancé was there for me and picking up all the pieces that people who left me!! While he was picking up the pieces that people left me, he was there for me and willing to listen to me!! That is how much he cared about me!! 


This week's song of the week to end today's blog episode!! I chose "Change Your Name" by: Brett Young because when I listen to this song, I think about how I am going to have the same last name as my fiancé and I am looking forward to be spending the rest of my life with my man!! I love y'all and so does Jesus and let's have a good day!! I love y'all!! ❤❤❤



 

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