Insecurities and how I overcame them.

 Hey Everyone!! Brandee here. How's everyone doing? I hope everyone is doing well and taking well care of yourself. Today, I will be talking about insecurities and how I overcame them. This is one of the hardest things that I am talking about because I have insecurities and it is so hard for me talking about because I feel like someone is going to judge me or I am going to get negative thoughts in my head but I know that I can overcome them and I get through them. My insecurities are not looking good in outfits, wearing open toe shoes, and always down on myself.

My 1st insecurity is not looking good in outfits.

My first insecurity is not looking good in outfits. The reason why that is my first insecurity is because I feel like I am not going to look good in it or people are going to say something about it. Some people say oh! Plus size girls shouldn't wear that or they don't look good in it. The way I overcame it is I tell myself that I look really good in that outfit and that you are so pretty today. Now, I feel super confident when I wear a really outfit. I love wearing a cute outfit that shows my shoulders or show my legs without being afraid. I am so proud of how far I have come. I am literally proud of myself. 

My 2nd insecurity is wearing open toe shoes!! 

My 2nd insecurity is wearing open toe shoes. I don't like open toe shoes and I never have because I hated my toes more than anything and I don't like my feet. On May 8th, I wore open toe shoes for the first time since 2017 and at first, I was so worried that people would say something about either my feet or my toes, but they didn't say anything at all. I am so proud of myself for overcoming that fear and now, I can wear open toe shoes without any problems at all. I am so proud of myself.

My 3rd and final insecurity is always looking down on myself. 

My 3rd and final insecurity is always looking down on myself or telling myself that I am not good enough for anything or for anyone. I always have a hard time looking down on myself and telling myself that I am never good enough or I will never be good enough for another boyfriend. The way I overcame my insecurity is by telling myself that I am good enough and never beat yourself up because I know that I am the most amazing person ever and that I need to quit beating myself up and beating myself down because it is not worth beating myself up and I know that I am worthy of love and I love myself because I am an amazing person and I will always love myself forever and always, a big thanks to BTS for teaching me how to love myself.

In Conclusion! 

In conclusion, I have overcome these insecurities just by believing in myself and knowing that I am already beautiful. I have come out of my shell and started wearing things that I couldn't imagine wearing ever. I never though I would wear a tank top out in public but now, I do because I'm not afraid anymore. I am proud to be who I am and never be someone else just because that's not the real me. The real me is super confident and she believes in herself a 1,00000000000%.

Tip of the day!

Here is a tip of the day! The tip of the day always believe in yourself. Always believe that you are super confident and that you are beautiful in your own skin. Always believe that no matter what you are going through or what insecurity or insecurities that you are fighting, just know that you are an amazing person inside and out. Always believe that there is a person here for you no matter what. Always love yourself and always believe in yourself. I hope everyone is doing amazing and just know that I love you for who you are. Never change for anyone and be proud of who you are! Always follow your dreams because if you follow your dreams, you will come along way. 

I love you and I will see you on my next blog! I love y'all! Peace!!

Me feeling super confident in my open shoulder dress!!

Me feeling super confident on Christmas 2019!!

Me on my birthday this year!!!

I love this outfit so much!!!

Me and my two amazing sisters on my big sister, Brandy's wedding day and the day that I overcame insecurity of mine by wearing opened toe shoes. May 8th, 2021.

Me looking cute on my dad and stepmom's wedding!! March 27th, 2021.