The feeling of betrayal! By: Brandee Darden. Date of blog: Monday, 2/27/23

                                         💔  The feeling betrayal! By: Brandee Darden. Date of blog: Monday, 2/27/23. 💔🗡 

Intro to my blog!!

Well, hello, my Blogger Dreamers! It's I, Brandee Marie Darden here aka the Blogger Queen herself here and welcome back to an all new weekly blog episode! Happy Monday or in other countries, Happy Tuesday!! How's my Blogger Dreamers doing today? I hope everyone is doing okay and well! If not, that's okay because I'm here for you no matter what! I hope everyone had an amazing weekend and if not, that's okay because it's a brand new week and on a brand new week, we start fresh! Now, before I talk about this week's blogs, here is a little recap of last week's blogs!! Last week on my Makeup and Fashion Blog page, on Monday, I talked about my outfit and makeup for a BlackPink concert in the future! I loved the makeup and outfit that I picked out! The makeup that I chose is a hot pink eyeshadow with a black glitter which I think it is so perfect and so gorgeous!! I also love the outfit because the outfit is a light pink velvet shirt with a black skirt and black combat boots along with the jewelry and the hair accessory! I think overall, the outfit and the makeup will look so good! On Wednesday, I talked about my favorite makeup looks that I have done for my tiktok videos! I love the makeup looks that I have done so far! I think they are so gorgeous and so beautiful especially the makeup look that I did on Valentines Day! On Friday, I talked about my top 3 favorite makeup brands! I have tried some makeup brands but my top 3 favorite makeup brands are wet n wild, elf, and Maybelline New York! I love their makeup products!! Now, for this week's blogs, I will be talking about the feeling of betrayal, toxic relationships vs real relationships, and my poem "Don't cry over others". Now, let's embark on this adventure to where our imagination will take us and let's get started on a new blog episode! Shall we? We shall!! 

Talking about today's blog episode! Why did I chose to talk about this blog episode? What is this week's song of the week? Why did I chose this song as the song of the week? 

On today's blog episode, I will be talking about the feeling of betrayal! In this blog, I will be talking about when I think about the feeling of betrayal or feeling betrayed, how does that make me feel? Why does it make me feel a certain way? What are ways to feel betrayed? Why are those ways to feel betrayed? If I have any advice about feeling betrayed, what is my advice? Why would I give that advice to my Blogger Dreamers? Why did I chose to talk about this blog episode? The reason why I chose to talk about this blog episode is because I know what it feels like to betrayed and I know what is like to trust someone and then, they broke that trust! When you thought you could trust someone but you obviously can't because they did something that they broke your trust and they betrayed you!!! What is this week's song of the week? The song of the week is "Lilac" by IU. I love this song so much! It is such an amazing song and I love the beat of the song!! Why did I chose this song as the song of the week? The reason why I chose this song of the week is because it is very upbeat and a very fun song!! I love the music video to it as well! It is such an amazing song as well!! 

The meaning behind betrayal! Why is there meaning behind betrayal? 

The meaning behind betrayal is when someone takes a knife or a dagger (not literally)  and does something that makes you loose trust and respect in that person! When someone does something to not trust them and not respect them anymore, it hurts you! When someone goes behind your back and then, they betrayed by doing something that there not supposed to but they did it anyway and they did that out of hate or maybe get back at you which is not right at all! Betrayal is not a good feeling to feel at all because you honestly thought you could trust someone but obviously, you can't trust someone because they have showed you that they are not a "trustful" person at all and they can't respect you either!! Why is there meaning behind betrayal? The reason why there is meaning behind betrayal is because betrayal has a negative connation to it and I hate when someone betrays another person because I know what is like to be betrayed! That feeling of betrayal is not the greatest feeling in the world! It hurts your heart and person who is doing the betrayal doesn't even care because all they care about is hurting someone else!! That's my opinion!!

My feelings about how I feel about betrayal or feeling betrayed? Why does that make me feel a certain way?

When I think about the feeling of betrayal or feeling betrayed, how does that make me feel? When I think about the feeling of betrayal or feeling betrayed, it makes feel like I got slapped in the face! When you put your time and being there for that someone or people who you actually care about and then, they did someone that made you loose trust for them to the point they can't be a trustworthy in your life, it felt like you got slapped in the face! People are so hard to trust these days! You don't know if you can trust them or not! When you are friends with someone and then, they did something whether it is a friend sleeping with an ex of yours, that is betrayal right there! Why does that make me feel a certain way? The reason why it makes me feel a certain way is because when you thought your friend is a trustworthy person who you thought you could trust but you can't trust them anymore and that breaks your heart! You can't trust people these days!! 

Ways to feel betrayed!!

What are ways to feel betrayed? There are plenty of ways to feel betrayed but to name some of them, number one is when a quote on quote of yours slept with an ex of yours or even slept with your boyfriend or girlfriend, that screams betrayal all over it! Like, I think in girl code or whatever, sleeping with an ex boyfriend or girlfriend is wrong! When your friend slept with your boyfriend or guys, your guy friend slept with your girlfriend, you felt betrayed and it broke your heart! Another way you can feel betrayed is someone borrowing your stuff but they never gave it back and they broke it! I am saying that because people can borrow your stuff but they think in their mind that they don't have to give it back and then, they broke it! That also screams betrayal right there! The third and final thing that can be classified as betrayal is when a friend of yours spreads rumors that aren't even true! That hurts so much! When your friend goes behind your back and starts spreading rumors that aren't even true, it hurts that the person who you were friends with turns out that they aren't even your friend and true friends don't even do that anymore!! 

Why are those ways to feel betrayed? 

The reason why those are ways to feel betrayed is because when you sleep with someone either  it is an ex of your friend's or even a boyfriend or a girlfriend of your friend's, that is a slap at your friend's face! Like, you had the courage behind your friend's back and decide to sleep with your ex boyfriend or sleep with someone who you are with! That is disrespectful! The second thing that can be ways to feel betrayed is if someone borrowed something of yours, let say a car but they never gave it back and something bad happened to your car, that is a way to feel betrayed and the reason why I say that is because if you let someone borrow that car but they never bother taking care of it, that is a sign of betrayal and that hurts! The third and final reason why I think when a friend of yours spreads rumors about you that aren't even true is classified as betrayal is because when someone that you call a "friend" and they decide to spread rumors about you and those rumors aren't even true, it makes you not want to trust that person again or be there friend ever again!!!

My advice! Why would I give that advice to my Blogger Dreamers? 

If I have any advice about feeling betrayed, what is my advice? To my Blogger Dreamers who got betrayed, here is my advice to you: My advice is stop being there for people who hurt you or who betrayed you because when someone betrays you, they are going to continue to do it over and over again and you honestly don't need that in your life! I had people who betrayed because they stopped being there for me which hurts a lot! Don't be there for someone who betrayed you or who stopped talking to you because you don't need to stop being there for that person who isn't there for you!! Why would I give that advice to my Blogger Dreamers? The reason why I would give that advice to my Blogger Dreamers is because when betrays you, they are going to continue to do that again and honestly, you don't need that because it can hurt your mental health! Don't trust people ever!! 

In closing/ Tip of the day/ Question of the day? 

In closing, just know that feeling betrayed is never okay! When someone goes behind your back and does something like spreading rumors about you, it hurts you so much because you thought you could be a good friend to that person but that person can't be a good friend to you because everyone deserves good friends and to have someone support them no matter what! When someone isn't there for you and they hurt you, it hurts to know that someone you used to call a friend is no longer a friend in your eyes because of what they did to you! When someone betrays you, they don't care about your feelings because when they hurt you, they only are hurting you and it doesn't bother them! Here is my tip and question of the day?! My tip of the day is don't be there for anyone who betrays you because you don't need that in your life! You need someone who will be there for you and who will support you no matter what! My question of the day is in your opinion, what are ways to feel betrayed? Why in your opinion are ways to feel betrayed? Please, sound off in the comments down below and let me know! I would love to read y'all's comments! Please! I love y'all!! 

Hello, my Blogger Dreamers! It's I, the Blogger Queen herself, Brandee here to remind everyone that y'all have reached the end of today's blog episode for the day! I hope everyone enjoyed or learned that being betrayed is not okay! You should never feel that being betrayed is okay because its not okay! When people hurt you, it can change you for the better and being betrayed hurts people but just know you don't have to deal with it because you don't deserve that! For today's bible verse of the day, it goes like this: "Your God Is With You Wherever You Go". -Joshua 1:9. I love this bible verse so much because wherever you go, God is with you! God is there to protect you at all costs and make sure that your okay! God loves you so much and he would do anything to protect you! I love y'all and until next time, don't forget our slogan: "Dream Big! Don't give up on your dreams". Stay healthy and drink plenty of water!! Happy Monday or in other countries, Happy Tuesday and have a good day or I hope y'all had a good day! See y'all on Wednesday where I will be talking about toxic relationships vs real relationships! I love y'all and this Blogger Queen is out! Peace! ✌💜

Today's bible verse of the day! I love this bible verse a lot! Such a good bible verse! I love it!! 

"The worst kind of 
hurt is betrayal 
because it means 
someone was willing 
to hurt you just to 
make themselves 
feel better".
-Unknown. I love this because when one person is willing to risk their friendship just to hurt you, that hurts you because you trusted them with your whole heart which stinks because when you trusted that person, you made sure that they were okay and stuff but no because they didn't care!

"Trust is earned, respect is given, and 
loyalty is demonstrated. Betrayal of 
any one of those is to lose all three".
-Quotes and Thoughts. I like this quote a lot is because trust is earned because if I can trust you, then I trust you with all of my heart! If I respect you, I have given my respect! I show you that I am loyal to you but if you aren't trustworthy to me or respect me or loyal to me, then you have betrayed me and you lost my trust, respect, and loyalty and good luck gaining it back because you aren't!

"The Saddest Thing 
About Betrayal Is That 
It Never Comes From 
Your Enemies".
-Unknown. The betrayal can come from friends or even your family which is so sad because your family shouldn't betrayed you but they should always be there for you no matter what! In reality, they aren't there for you and your friends aren't there for you either which is sad but that's reality!! 

This week's song of the week is "Lilac" by IU! IU is a soloist and she has done acting in the past as well! I love this song so much! It is very upbeat which I love and I love her as a singer!! Such an amazing song!! 

                                            The meaning behind these tiktoks! By: Brandee Darden. Date of blog: Friday, 2/10/23. 

Intro to my blog! 

Hello, my Blogger Dreamers! It's your girl aka the Blogger Queen herself, Brandee here and welcome back to an all new weekly blog episode! Happy Friday or in other countries, Happy Saturday! I want to ask my Blogger Dreamers a question and that question is: How are y'all doing today? I hope everyone is doing fine and well! If not, that's okay because I'm here for y'all if y'all need anything! I am willing to support y'all and help y'all through anything!! Before I jump into today's blog episode, I am going to do a recap of Wednesday's blog episode! On Wednesday, I talked about the word "lonely". When I think about the word "lonely", I think about feeling alone in this world and people not understanding how you feel or what is going on in your brain! Having alone time is perfectly fine but having someone not supporting you or cheering you on, it hurts so much!! No one should never have to feel alone in this world and if my Blogger Dreamers does feel alone in this world, I'm here for y'all because I care about y'all so much and I want what's best for my fandom! For today's blog post, I will be talking about the meaning behind these tiktoks, by: Brandee Darden. In this blog episode, I will be talking about what is the meaning behind the tiktoks that I have done so far? Why is there there meaning behind the tiktoks that I have done so far? What got me started doing tiktoks? Why did that thing got me started doing tiktoks? If I have any advice to give about doing tiktoks or start a YouTube channel, what is my advice? Why would I give out that advice? Now, without any further ado, let's embark on this journey and get this blog episode started! Shall we? We shall!! 

What were my first three tiktoks? Why did I decide to talk about those topics tiktoks? 

What were my first three tiktoks? The first tiktok that I did was bullying! I wanted to talk about bullying as my first tiktok video! I remember when I first got bullied and honestly, it hurt so much! People don't talk about bullying and if they do, people don't take it seriously as they should! The second topic that I talked about is abandonment! When I think about abandonment, I think about a mom or a dad abandoning their kid or kids or even your friends abandoning you which hurts to the core! I have been abandoned before and it hurts so much! It doesn't feel good at all!! The third and final tiktok that I talked about or that I talked about was hate! Hate is a strong word that people say to other people and telling them "I hate you" or stuff like that! I don't like that word a lot! To me, it has a negative connotation to it and I don't like it a lot! Why did I decide to talk about those topics for tiktoks? The reason why I chose those three to talk about in a tiktok is because I feel like no one talks about bullying or abandonment or even hate! There is so much hate going around that for me, I want to spread positive vibes and not tear everyone down! When you tear someone down, you are making yourself feel good and you are putting your ego before anything else and when someone tears you down, they are making themselves feel good while making you feel bad about yourself and don't let anyone do that! You are much better than that!! 

The meaning behind the tiktoks that I have done so far!

What is the meaning behind the tiktoks that I have done so far? The meaning behind my first tiktok is bullying is not right! It hurts to tear down other people and bring their self-esteem down which is not right for anyone to do at all! When you bring people down, you are making yourself feel better and them worse! Don't do that! Bullying is wrong! The meaning behind my second tiktok is when you abandoned your kids or even your friends at a crucial time, it hurts them because it makes them feel worse about themselves which never feels good! I have felt worse about myself before because that feeling abandonment hurts so much! I hate the feeling of being abandonment because it's the worst thing ever! I have attachment issues! Once I get attached to someone and I want to be best friends with, I never want to let them go but once they stopped talking to me and they are not there for me or they have abandoned me, my attachment issues comes in and I start to panic because I felt like they are going to abandoned me and it hurts me so much!! The third and final meaning behind my third tiktok that I have done so far is hate is such a strong word and not only that, there is so much hate in this world! There is hate on different races such as Asians and Blacks and even on people who are gay, lesbians, and even transgender people! People don't have the right to judge other people's lifestyle or how they live! Don't hate on other people because your miserable! Let other people live their life!! 

Why is there meaning behind the tiktoks that I have done so far? 

Why is there meaning behind the tiktoks that I have done so far? The reason why there is meaning behind the first tiktok that I have done is because when someone bullies other people or another person, that person who bullies another person or a group of people who bully one person is wrong for bullying another person and bringing down that person! Bullies are so cruel and so mean that sometimes, the person who is getting bullied might even commit suicide which is heart breaking because no one should never have to go through that!!! The second reason why my second tiktok has meaning behind it is because NO ONE and I mean NO ONE should ever feel abandoned because feeling abandoned is so hurtful and it hurts another person! It hurts the person who feels abandoned! The person who is leaving the kids or even the friend doesn't care if that person or the kids are hurting! No one should ever feel abandoned because that is the worst feeling in the world!! The third and final reason why there is meaning behind the third tiktok is because no matter where you go, there is going to be hate! You are going to have haters who are going to hate on you for no reason! When people hate on you, they are either jealous of you which no one should ever feel jealous when it comes to you! It's wrong and when other people hate on other people because of their lifestyles or their life choices, it is wrong and when you don't know that person, don't judge them! Don't judge someone before you get to know them!! 

What got me started doing tiktoks? Why did that thing got me started doing tiktoks? 

What got me started doing tiktoks? I think what got me started doing talking tiktoks is I feel like people don't talk about certain subjects such as bullying or abandonment or hate that goes on in this world! I don't think people don't take bullying so seriously and it is sad because people are so cruel and not only that, people who have been a victim of bullying have or tried to commit suicide which is so sad to talk about or think about! Bullying can hurt other people!! There is so much hate going on around the world that people don't realize that hate can affect people because your judging on how they are living and if you can't accept the fact that someone is happy, then why continue to judge them and be mean to them? Abandonment issues are real! I have abandonment issues and I have been abandoned before which hurts so much! No kid should ever ask "Where is mommy or daddy"? You should never have to worry about if your friends are for you because a true friend is always there for you no matter what but unfortunately, I don't know who are my real friends because I have been dropped or abandoned by my so called "friends" which hurts so much but I'm thankful for my real friends who have been there for me!! Why did that thing got me started doing tiktoks? The reason why that thing got me started doing tiktoks is because I feel like I have to speak my truth about certain subjects or talk about certain subjects because I feel some people don't understand how serious bullying can be or how sad abandonment can be or even hate around the world! All of that can hurt a person in another way which is sad!! 

My advice! Why would I give out that advice? 

If I have any advice to give about doing tiktoks or start a YouTube channel, what is my advice? My advice that I would give about doing tiktoks or start a YouTube channel is write down what you want to do or write down what you want to talk about! Writing down what you want to do or even talk about helps a lot because when I plan for my tiktoks, it helps me keep up what I have already talked about and make sure that I don't repeat the same thing again! If you want good lighting, get a ring light because a ring light can save your life! I love having a ring light a lot! Why would I give out that advice? The reason why I would give out that advice is because it will help in the long run if you know what you want to talk about it and with the lighting, having a ring light is my life savior! I love having a ring light! You can have any lighting because some ring lights can be a little expensive or you can make your own ring light! 

In closing/ Tip of the day!! 

In closing, I am so proud of myself for talking about certain subjects and trying not to cry in a lot of videos because a lot of my tiktoks such as my bullying, abandonment, and hate are all based on a true story! I have been bullied before which hurts so much!! I have been abandoned before and it hurts a lot! Thinking to yourself from time to time or thinking "Why people are abandoning me? Did I do something wrong"? The answer is no! You didn't do anything wrong! The people who did abandon you, they are showing who they are as a person and they are showing that they don't care about you anymore! People who have hate on you, they are jealous because they can't stand that you have the nice stuff or you are really nice to other people or they are miserable in their life that they want to make you miserable and your life miserable! Don't let anyone do that because it's not worth it!! Here is my tip of the day: If you want to start a YouTube channel or a tiktok page, be yourself! Don't worry about anyone else! Just be who you are and be proud of who you are! If people don't like your videos, that's okay because your videos will be amazing and I know that you will do amazing on your videos! I have faith in my Blogger Dreamers!! I will always have faith in my Blogger Dreamers! Don't be scared of starting your own tiktok or even your own YouTube Channel!! 

Hello, my Blogger Dreamers! It's I, Brandee here and I just want to remind everyone that y'all have reached the end of today's blog episode for the day! I hope everyone enjoyed today's blog episode for the day!! I know that I did! When I talk about my tiktoks, it brings me so much joy and it makes me so proud of myself!! I am so proud of myself for talking about certain subjects and getting through them! I feel amazing when I talk about it and I don't have to worry about it anymore! For today's quote of the day, it goes like this: "Start writing, no matter what. The water does not flow until the faucet is turned on". -Louis L' Amour. I love this quote so much because when I start writing or typing my blogs, the writing doesn't stop and I keep going! When you turn on the faucet, the water will keep going until you turned off the faucet and it's like with your emotions! For me, when I want to write, I want to keep pouring my emotions into my writing until I can't anymore and I love writing! Writing is my comfort zone! I hope everyone will have or had a great day! Happy Friday or in other countries, Happy Saturday! Until next time, "Dream Big! Don't give up on your dreams". I will see y'all on my 2nd blog page where I will be talking about analyzing the song "Save me" by Sorn, talking about my love for writing, and what makes my writing unique? Stay tuned for all new blogs and I will see y'all next week! Until then, this Blogger Queen is out! Peace! ✌💙

Today's quote of the day!!! Love this quote so much! Such an amazing quote!! 

"You know why kids 
bully? Because adults 
bully. But no one wants 
to have that 
conversation". 
-Unknown. I love this quote because kids would watch adults do whatever they do and bullying can be one of them! Don't let your kids bully other people! 

My tiktok about bullying!! I can't stand when someone bullies other people! It makes me sick to my stomach! 

"After so many people walk 
in and out of the door you 
learn to lock it".
-Unknown. I love this quote a lot because I learned once abandoned me, I learned how to lock my door and leave the people who have abandoned me!! 

My tiktok about "abandonment". I didn't like it when I went through it! It hurts me so much and I feel like other people should ever have to go through it!! 

"People hate 
when they can't get 
under your skin. 
I'm at peace 
and you're in pieces. 
Stay blessed..." 
-Unknown. I love this quote a lot because when someone tries to hate on you but they can't get under your skin because you don't let it bother you and they hate that!! 

My tiktok about hate! Hate is such a strong word and people don't realize that it can destroy another person and it hurts them so much! What people don't realize is that what if you say something hateful to that person and then, they are gone? Be careful with your words and your actions!! 

For this week's song of the week, I chose "Psycho" by Red Velvet. I love this song so much and it is really a good song! Love it!! 

The word "lonely" by Brandee Darden!

                                          The word "lonely" by Brandee Darden! Date of blog: Wednesday, February 8th, 2023! 

Intro to my blog!! 

Hello, my Blogger Dreamers! It's I, Brandee the blogger queen here and welcome back to an all new weekly blog episode! Happy Wednesday or in other countries, Happy Thursday! First and foremost, how's my Blogger Dreamers doing today? I hope everyone is doing okay and well! If not, that's okay because I'm here for you no matter what! Before I get into today's blog episode, I am going to do a recap of Monday's blog episode! On Monday, I talked about what is love, requested by a Blogger Dreamer of mine! To me, love is a feeling where you will feel by your family, friends, or your boyfriend or girlfriend, or even a husband and a wife! Love doesn't mean you have to buy them gifts, but love just simply means being there for one another and supporting each other through thick and thin! My only advice if you are in love with someone, pray about it and make sure that person is the right one for you!! Now, for today's blog episode, I will be talking about the word "lonely". In this blog, I will be talking about when I think about the word "lonely" or the feeling of loneliness, what comes to mind? Why does it come to my mind like that? Do I like being alone or no? Why or why not do I like being alone at times? Do I think the word "lonely" has a positive connotation or a negative connotation to it? Why does it have one or the other? If I have any advice to give to my Blogger Dreamers about feeling lonely, what is my advice? Why would I give out that advice? Now, let's get ready to embark on this journey and get started! Shall we? We shall!!! 

How would I define the word "lonely"? Why would I define the word "lonely" like that?

How would I define the word "lonely"? If I can define the word "lonely", I would define the word "lonely" as someone is alone in this world or wants to be alone! When you feel alone in this world, you feel like you have no one supporting you or being there for you through a difficult time! When you are going through a difficult time, you feel like you have no one but you feel like you do but in your head, you feel like you don't! Here is a scenario: You are going through depression but no one isn't there for you or supporting you because you are going through a depression state by yourself and that is the hardest thing to ever go through! No one should ever go through depression by themselves!! Ever! Why would I define the word "lonely" like that? The reason why I would define the word "lonely" like that is because feeling lonely can be hard on a person and it feels like you are not loved but sometimes, you need to love yourself for who you are! That is the most important thing in the world!! 

The word "lonely" or the feeling of loneliness! Why does it come to my mind like that?

When I think about the word "lonely" or the feeling of loneliness, what comes to mind? When I think about the word "lonely" or the feeling of loneliness, I think about there is a lot of people in this world, but in your head, you feel like you are alone and no one isn't there for you! I know what it is like to feel alone! Sometimes, I feel so alone to the point where I don't know who to trust anymore! My brain likes to mess with me and tells me "you're lonely! No one isn't there for you" which is hard to understand for me because I have people who support me but in my own mind, I feel lonely or sometimes, I want to be alone because I am either feeling overwhelmed or mad and that I need to calm down! It's hard to feel lonely at times! Why does it come to my mind like that? The reason why it came to my mind like that is because sometimes, when the world is hard on us to look a certain way or like a certain someone, it is hard to feel alone at times! Sometimes, we want to be alone because of along day at work!! It's okay to have alone time! That's cool!! 

Being alone or no? Why or why not do I like being alone at times? 

Do I like being alone or no? To answer that question, no I don't being alone but yes, I like having alone time! I don't being alone but I love having alone time! Let me explain! When I am around people a lot of people, there is times where I feel okay but then, there are times where I want to be by myself and have me time but a lot of people don't know what is alone time for me! Sometimes, I just want a break from people but certain people in my life don't get that and that's okay!! Why or why not do I like being alone at times? I like being alone at times but I also don't like being at times because at times, I love talking to my friends or family but if you put your drama on me, then I am done! I don't mind listening to you or try to help you, but there is a fine line between me helping you and then, you putting your drama on me! There is so much that I can handle as a human being to the point where I want to be left alone, no questions asked but do I get that time alone? No, because I have people blowing up my phone at times and it is so annoying but I don't care because when I am away from my phone, I have my time to myself or when I am blogging as well but sometimes, when I am blogging, I still get notifications at times and it is so annoying!! 

Positive or negative connotation to it? Why does it have one or the other?  

Do I think the word "lonely" has a positive connotation or a negative connotation to it? In my opinion, I think it has a negative connotation to it but if you use "alone time", then it has a positive connotation to it! When you think about the word "lonely", you think to yourself, "I feel so alone! No one isn't there for me" but when I think about the words "alone time", you automatically think "Oh! I can have this time to myself and I can enjoy it with no disruptions". It depends on how you look at it and how you think about it! Why does it have one or the other? The reason why it has the negative connotation to it is because sometimes, you do feel alone in this world and it can be hard on you sometimes! When people avoid you and your feelings, you feel alone at times and it can be hard! When you go to school, you go to each lunch with your friends but you don't see none of your friends at the table you usually sit at but now, you have to sit by yourself because your friends aren't at school and you feel alone! That is so hard because you want to sit with your friends but they are not school which sucks because you are alone! Being alone is hard! 

My advice! Why would I give out that advice? 

If I have any advice to give to my Blogger Dreamers about feeling lonely, what is my advice? My advice that I would give to my Blogger Dreamers is it's okay to feel lonely at times! If someone isn't there for you through your hardest times, I'm here! It's okay! I'm always here for my Blogger Dreamers, no matter what! You don't have to feel alone anymore because I'm here! I know what it feels like to feel alone at times! Believe me, it stinks! It almost feels like you are the outcast and no one doesn't know if you are exists or not, which hurts because you feel like you are alone which no one should ever have to feel!! Why would I give out that advice? The reason why I would give out that advice is because no one should ever have to feel like they are alone and non existent to someone because they are alone! No one should ever have to feel alone or lonely because it is a hard feeling to suppress or to ever go through! If you are alone, I'm here for you!! 

In closing/ tip of the day/ Question of the day? 

In closing, it's okay to have alone time at times but you should never have to feel alone because that feeling of being alone is the hardest thing to ever have to go through! When you are feeling alone, just know that I'm here for my Blogger Dreamers, no matter what! I will always be here for my fandom because I care about my fandom! When you feel alone, it can hurt at times because you think to yourself "do people see me? Do they know what I'm feeling at the moment", and the answer is yes! I know what you are feeling and the feeling that you are feeling is loneliness! I know it hurts to feel like you are a ghost to someone but you're not a ghost to me! Here is the tip and question of the day? My tip of the day is it is okay to have alone time because you deserve that but you definitely don't deserve to feel alone!! My question of the day is What do y'all like to do on y'all's alone time? Why do you like to do those things on your alone time? Sound off in the comments down below and let me know what y'all like to do on y'all's time alone and why y'all do like those things? I would love to read y'all's comments!! Please! Thank you all so much! I love y'all! 

Hello, my Blogger Dreamers! It's I, Brandee here to remind my Blogger Dreamers that y'all have reached the end of today's blog episode for today! I hope my Blogger Dreamers know that I will support them and always be here for them no matter what! Y'all never have to feel alone!! For today's quote of the day, it goes like this: "Just Because It Took You Longer Than Others, Doesn't Mean You Failed. Remember That". -Unknown. I love this quote a lot because there are somethings that might take you longer than other people but that doesn't you failed! You tried and that's all that matters! I hope everyone will have or had a good day today! I hope everyone will have a Happy Wednesday or in other countries, a Happy Thursday! Don't forget our slogan: "Dream Big! Don't give up on your dreams"! On Friday, I will be talking about the meaning behind these tiktoks! Until next time, this Blogger Queen is out! Peace! ✌💚

Today's quote of the day!! Love this quote so much! Such an amazing quote!! 

"do you ever get that feeling when 
you're siting in your room
alone
your thoughts wander
you're not crying 
but you just feel sad and empty
replaying moments from your life 
and wondering 
where did it all go wrong".
-K.D. I love this a lot because I would be laying in bed and I would have dreams, such as last night where I had a dream about me, my two sisters, Brandy and Tyna, and my mom and we all went on a trip and I started to cry because I miss them so much! I feel empty and sad. 

"You Never Realize 
How Lonely You Are 
Until It's The End Of 
The Day And You Got 
A Bunch Of Things 
To Talk About And 
No One To Talk To". 
-Unknown. I love this quote so much because when you had a long day from work or even school and you want to talk to someone about it but you can't because there is no on who would listen to you and they aren't going to care but I will! 

"I'm a popular loner. 
I know a lot of people 
and a lot of people know me
but my circle is small 
and I'm usually by myself".
-Unknown. I like this quote a lot because I don't have a lot of people in my circle but sometimes, I'm my own friend because sometimes, I feel alone. 

What is love? by: Brandee Darden. Date of blog: Monday, 2/6/23.

                                                 What is love?  By: Brandee Darden. Date of blog: Monday, February 6th, 2023!! 

Intro to my blog!! 

Hello, my Blogger Dreamers! It's I, Brandee Darden aka the Blogger Queen herself here and welcome back to an all new weekly blog episode! Happy Monday or in other countries, Happy Tuesday! How's my Blogger Dreamers doing today? I hope everyone is doing fine and well! If not, that's okay because I'm here for you no matter what!! I hope everyone had an amazing weekend and if y'all didn't, that's okay because it is a new brand new week! Let's start fresh and forget what happened! I'm thankful to wake up each day knowing that I'm loved and I have supporters who support me no matter what! Now, before I get into this week's blog episodes, let's do a recap of last week's blogs! On my Makeup and fashion blog page, I talked about Jin's hair throughout the years, BTS Map of the soul: 7- 1&2 concept outfits, and BTS "Map of the soul: 7" 3&4 concept outfits!! On Monday, I talked about Jin's hair throughout the years! Throughout the years that Jin has been in BTS, his hair has changed a lot! It has been pink, purple, and all sorts of other colors and hair styles! When he went into the military, he had to cut his hair which high key, it made me sad but at the end, he looked so good and so handsome!! On Wednesday, I talked about BTS Map of the soul: 7- 1&2 concept outfits! These outfits were giving me dark angel meets white angel type of a vibe and I live for it! Like, they looked so good and so handsome!! On Friday, I talked about BTS "Map of the soul: 7" 3&4 concept outfits! Now, I loved these outfits so much! I love how they each look so good! I love the leather jackets so much!!! I loved it all! Now, for this week's blogs, I will be talking about what is love (requested by a Blogger Dreamer), The word "lonely", and the meaning behind these tiktoks! Now, who is ready to embark on this journey into new blogs? I know that I am! Now, let's get started! Shall we? We shall!! 

Talking about today's blog episode! Why did I chose to talk about this kind of a blog episode? What is this week's song of the week? Why did I choose this week's song of the week? 

Now, for today's blog post, I had a blogger dreamer of mine request this type of a blog topic and for today's blog episode, I will be talking about What is love? by Brandee Darden. In this blog episode, I will be talking about if I can describe what love means to me, how would I describe love? Why would I describe what love means to me like that? What does love feel like to me? Why does love feel like that to me? If I can describe love in three words, what would those three words be? Why would I describe love in those three words? If I have any advice about being in love, what would my advice be? Why would I give that advice to my Blogger Dreamers? Why did I chose to talk about this kind of a blog episode? I chose to talk about this blog episode is because I wonder what is love or how would I describe love? Love can be good or sometimes can be bad, it depends how you look at it! What is this week's song of the week? For this week's song of the week, I chose "Psycho" by Red Velvet! This song is such an amazing song and I love it so much! Sometimes, love can make you feel psycho!! Why did I choose this week's song of the week? I chose this song of the week is because I love the upbeat of it and I love the music video to it as well!! 

What is love? Why did I define love like that? 

What is love? The way I would define love is love can make you do crazy things! Love is when someone like your partner or even your family shows you love and shows you support through either your career or even when you go to school and you got a good grade or even a promotion at work! Love can be define so many ways but the one thing that I know about love it can make you do crazy things! When your partner or your family shows you love, it is because they care about you and friends can do that as well! Love is love and to me, everyone deserves love!! Why did I define love like that? The reason why I define love like that is because people give love differently! Some people show it or some people don't show it at all but that's fine because people have different ways to show it and that's okay! Love can be shown in many ways and whatever it is comfortable to them, you just have to deal with!! 

How would I describe love? Why would I describe what love means to me like that? 

If I can describe what love means to me, how would I describe love? If I can describe what love means to me, I would describe love as showing affection and being there for one another! When I think about love, I think about people supporting one another! I love when someone supports another person because it shows that they care and they love one another no matter what! Love to me is when you are cheering me on and showing me that you care about me no matter what! That is how I think of love! I don't count as buying gifts for your family or friends or even partner as "love". Showing love and affection towards someone that you love is what I describe what love means to me!! Yes, buying gifts are okay but what is even better is homemade gifts! That's my opinion!!! 

The feeling of love! Why does love feel like that to me? 

What does love feel like to me? Love feels like someone actually cares about you and knows what's best for you! Love is someone showing you what real love actually feels like, not people showing you fake love! When people show you fake love, they don't care about you or when you show yourself fake love, you don't care about yourself and that's not right for you to go through at all! Love is feeling of someone showing that they do care for you and they want what's in your best interest! They are not being mean and being "overprotective" over you, but they are showing that they care about you and they love you so much! There is people out there who cares about you and who love you so much! I know that I love and care about my boyfriend, my family, and my friends even though, there is some friends and family who don't care about me which it hurts but I still show my love towards them because they need it!! Why does love feel like to me? The reason why love feel like that to me because when I offer my love to someone, I love my whole heart but when someone breaks my heart, it crushes me so much but I try to not let that stop me! I show that I care about other people and I make sure that person is okay and doing well because I love and care about that person so much!!! For me, I show my love with notes, paragraphs, or me just being me and showing that I do care!! That's makes me so loveable!! 

Love in three words! Why would I describe love in those three words? 

If I can describe love in three words, what would those three words be? If I can describe love in three words, the first word would be hurtful! Yes! Love can be hurtful at times! When you love someone and that person doesn't love you back, it hurts! It truly hurts! The second word that I would describe love is joyful! There is apart of love that can be joyful at times! You making memories with your love is a joyful memory and it is a memory that you don't want to forget about it! The memories that y'all make is something that you don't want to forget about! The third and final word that I would describe love is teachable! Yes, love is a teachable moment! It shows who loves you and who doesn't love you! It shows that if someone loves you, they care about but they don't love you, then you don't need them in your life! Why would I describe love in those three words? The first word that I describe love is hurtful and the reason why I describe it like that is because love can hurt a lot! When you are in a one sided love, it hurts a lot and no one should ever have to go through that! The second word I describe love is joyful and the reason why I describe love like that is because there are moments of love can be joyful at times! When you create memories with your family, friends, or boyfriend/ girlfriend, those are wonderful memories! When do something that you love with someone, it is a joyful memory! The third and final word that I would describe love is teachable! The reason why the final word that I describe love is teachable because love is a teachable moment! If that person doesn't love you or care about you, then it is a teachable moment and it shows that they never loved or cared about you!! Love is a teachable moment and trust me, I had some teachable moments in love! 

My advice!! Why would I give that advice to my Blogger Dreamers? 

If I have any advice about being in love, what would my advice be? My advice to my Blogger Dreamers who might be in love is make sure that person is the right person for you! Make sure they want to be with you for the right reasons and make sure you get to know them a lot better! Once you get to know that person better, maybe there might be a connection between you and that person! It took me a long time to find the right person but I'm thankful for God for sending me the right person in my life! Why would I give that advice to my Blogger Dreamers? The reason why I give that advice to my Blogger Dreamers is because if you wait for the right person and you know in your heart that person is right for you, then that person is the right person for you! If that person loves you for who are and cares about you, then they are the right person for you! Make sure you pray about it and maybe write down some pro's and con's about it, maybe it will help you! There is plenty of people who will like you for who you are and who would love you for who you are!! 

In closing/ Tip of the day/ Question of the day? 

In closing, love can be joyful, but also hurtful and teachable! The reason why love taught me teachable moments is because it showed me that the guys who I was with before wasn't worth being with! Two of them taught me they cheaters will always be cheaters! You are going to fall out love with someone or someone will fall out of love with you but there is always the right person for you no matter what! There is a person who loves you and there is someone waiting for you no matter what! Love can be crazy at times and it doesn't matter who you show love to! Some people will take your love and some people won't take your love and that's okay because there are plenty of people who love you and care about you! Here is my tip and question of the day? My tip of the day is if someone in your friend group or your family doesn't love you, then find someone who does love you because there are plenty of people who love and care about you so much!! My question of the day is what is love to you? Why would you describe love like that to you? Sound off in the comments down below and let me know what is love to you and why would you describe love like that to you? I would love to read y'all's comments! Please! Thank you all so much!!

Alright, my Blogger Dreamers! It's I, the Blogger Queen herself, Brandee here to remind everyone that y'all have reached the end of today's blog episode! I hope everyone enjoyed today's blog! Love can make us do crazy things! I believe in that saying in my whole heart! For today's quote of the day, it goes like this: "Follow your dreams, believe in yourself and don't give up". -Rachel Corrie- I love this quote so much because if you follow your dreams and always believe in yourself and don't give up, you are going to go far in life and I believe in that no matter what!! Never give up on your dreams or yourself! My Blogger Dreamers, you're going to go far in life! I love y'all and please, stay safe! Happy Monday or in other countries, Happy Tuesday! Remember our slogan: "Dream Big! Don't give up on your dreams". I will see y'all on my next blog where I will be talking about the word "lonely"! Until next time, this Blogger Queen is out! Peace! ✌💜

For this week's song of the week, I chose "Psycho" by Red Velvet! I love this song so much and sometimes, love can make you feel like a psycho but this song is very upbeat and I love it a lot! Such an amazing song!! 

Today's quote of the day! I love this quote so much!! 

"Love doesn't mean you 
will always agree, see 
eye to eye, or never 
have an argument. It 
means despite the bad 
days you still can't see 
yourself without that 
person". -Unknown. I love this quote because every couple or family or friend goes through arguments! There might be times where we don't argue or see eye to eye, but that doesn't mean that person isn't right or wrong!! 

"Love is 
friendship set 
on fire". 
-Jeremy Taylor. I love this quote a lot because someone that you might know your friend but then, you feel like some connection between y'all! Love can set friendship set on fire which can be good or bad! 

"Love is not something 
you go out and look
for. Love finds you, 
and when it does, 
ready or not, it'll be 
the best thing to ever 
happen to you". 
-Unknown. I love this quote a lot because love can find you but once it finds you, it can be the thing that can ever happen to you!!