Friday, August 11, 2023

Blog: Analyzing my poem "Battling through hard times" by: Brandee Marie Darden!! Friday, 8/11/23!!

                                                 Blog: Analyzing my poem "Battling through hard times" by: Brandee Marie Darden!! Date of blog: Friday, 8/11/23!! 

Intro to my blog!! 

Well, hello my Blogger Dreamers! It's your girl aka the Blogger Queen herself, Brandee here and welcome back to an all new weekly blog episode! Happy Friday or in other countries, Happy Saturday! I am so glad to have y'all back on a new weekly blog episode! How are y'all doing today? I hope and pray that everyone is doing okay and well! Whatever the circumstances might be, just know that y'all are not alone and that I'm always here for y'all if y'all need anything! Before I get into today's blog episode, let's do a recap of Wednesday's blog episode! On Wednesday, I talked about what my past taught me? Your past is a life lesson! It will throw you a bunch of curve balls and all you can do is try and get through them! What my past taught me was past relationships! Not every relationship that I have been in will never be the same! Each relationship will be different! If y'all haven't read that blog episode and would love to go and check it out, the blog episode is called "What did my past taught me"? Now, for today's blog episode, I will be analyzing my poem "Battling through hard times". In this blog episode, I will be talking about when I writing this poem, what was going through my head? Why was those things going through my mind? What 3 things cause me to battle with myself? Why did those 3 things cause me to battle with myself? If I have any advice about battling through hard times, what is my advice? Why would I give that advice to my Blogger Dreamers? Now, let's get on our thinking caps and get this blog episode started! Shall we? We shall!! 

Talking about my poem! How can I relate this poem to my life? Why can I relate to this poem in my life? 

On Tuesday, June 27th of this year, I wrote a poem called "Battling through hard times" and here how it goes: "Battling through hard times" by Brandee Marie Darden! 
"Battling through hard times 
can be a difficult 
challenge at times! 
You expect people 
to be there for you 
but it's hard because 
you feel like you have
no one but one or two 
people but that's okay!
When you have one or 
two people there for you, 
that's important! If you 
battling through hard 
times by yourself, I
have your back! You 
are loved! Don't give
up"!
-Love, 
Brandee Marie Darden!
Date that it was written on: Tuesday, 6-27-23! How can I relate this poem to my life? I can relate to this poem to my life by going through battles by myself at times! There has been times where I was there for someone but then, I didn't have anyone but one or two people at my side but I was okay with that because I wasn't going to waste my time on people who didn't care about me! Why can I relate to this poem in my life? The reason why I can relate to this poem in my life because when someone needed me, I would push my feelings aside and help someone else but when it was my turn, I felt like I didn't have no one and that was hard for me! I would cry into my pillow and pray that someone would help me but God has helped me and I'm blessed that God has helped me through my battles!! 


What is this poem about? Why did I write this poem about? 

What is this poem about? This poem is all about battling through hard times! When you go through hard times, it is to say "I quit! I'm done"!! In reality, you can't give up or quit because if you do, you are basically quitting on yourself and you can't do that! You're not alone! I'm here for my Blogger Dreamers if they need anything!! Why did I write this poem about? The reason why I wrote my poem about battling through hard times is because when you battle through hard times, you are trying to get through the hard times and those hard times can be a challenge at times but I believe in my Blogger Dreamers with all my heart and soul!! 

The thoughts going through my head!! 

When I was writing this poem, what was going through my head? When I was writing this poem, the thoughts that were going through my head were really flashbacks when I was going through a difficult time in my life and there have been times where I wanted to give up on life itself but I didn't! I have went through most of my life battling through my own battles by myself and to me, that's difficult because I feel like I had people there for me but in my head, I feel like I had no one beside me and that was hard for me! I feel like no one should never battle through hard times by themselves and sometimes, you really don't know what is going on until that someone tells you what is going on and sometimes, I cry at night because I feel like I have no one but I do but at the same time, I don't and to me, my emotions will play with me and I wish my emotions never played with me!! 

Why? 

Why was those things going through my mind? The reason why those things were going through my mind is because I remember feeling like I have no one but at the same time, I did have people by my side and I had challenges where life was testing me but I had some people by my side and I am blessed to have those people by my side! When you are going through something difficult and challenging, just remember you have people beside you and that they are never going to give up on you!! You don't have to go through anything alone because God is beside you and there are people who you love you so much and care about you so much!! Don't quit!

3 things cause me to battle with myself! 

What 3 things cause me to battle with myself? The 1st thing that cause me to battle with myself is my thoughts! I would have these thoughts about myself and that's hard for me! When you have these negative thoughts about yourself, it can be hard at times because you feel like you are trying to get rid of these "negative thoughts" about yourself but it is hard! The 2nd thing that I battle with myself is feeling like I am never good enough! Every day, I feel like I am never good enough and for me, that's hard! I feel like in my heart, I'm good enough but in my head, I'm never good enough! The 3rd and final thing that I battle with myself is thinking that I need to please others! In the back of my head, I feel like I need to please others but I don't need to please others!! I feel like I need to please God and myself! That's it! I don't need to please other people because they aren't worth pleasing and I need to make myself happy!!! I don't need to worry about others happiness but my own happiness!! 

Why?

Why did those 3 things cause me to battle with myself? The 1st thing that cause me to battle myself and that is the thoughts and the reason why that thing cause me to battle myself is because when you have negative thoughts about yourself, it can drain you so much and it can cause your mental health to go down and that can be really hard at times! Don't let those negative thoughts to bring you down! The 2nd thing that cause me to battle myself and that is the feeling like I am never good enough and the reason why that thing cause me to battle myself is because there times where I feel like I am not doing a good job or I feel like I am not good enough friend or sister or even a girlfriend and I know that I am but in the back of my mind, I'm not and that's hard on me! I want to be "good enough" for people but I need to be good enough for myself and not for anyone else! The 3rd thing that cause me to battle myself and that is thinking that I need to please others and the reason why that thing cause me to battle myself is because in the back of my mind, I feel like I need to please others by doing a good job or I need to show them how hard I am working through my blogs or even my book! I feel like I don't need to please others because I am only pleasing them by making them happy, not making myself happy! I only to please God and myself, that's it! I don't need to show people how hard I am working on my blogs or my book! If people can't see how hard I am working through my blogs, that's their loss! Not mine because I already know how hard I am working!! It shows through my passion and my feelings!! 

My advice! Why? 

If I have any advice about battling through hard times, what is my advice? To my Blogger Dreamers who are battling through hard times right now, my advice for you is please, don't give up! I know that things seem hard right now, but believe me, you got this! I believe in you! People might not see how hard you are working or they are not seeing how hard you are trying, but I see it! I see you trying your hardest! Don't give up because you got this! I love you for who you are and I am supporting you, no matter what! I will continue to support you, no matter what! You are doing amazing and I'm so proud of you! Keep doing what you love to do! Don't quit! Why would I give that advice to my Blogger Dreamers? The reason why I would give that advice is because my Blogger Dreamers deserves to be validated and they deserve to have someone say "I'm proud of you". I wish I had people say to me "I'm proud of you"! I have certain friends and my boyfriend tell me they are proud of me but I don't hear from my family tell me how proud of me and it breaks my heart because I am working my butt off and I feel like my family isn't proud of me and to me, that's hard!! 


In closing/ Tip of the day!!
 

In closing, I can see how hard you are struggling and I know you are battling through hard times, but I believe in my Blogger Dreamers, no matter what! I know that you are trying to please others but don't do that! Please, show yourself that you can do it and show yourself that you are trying to get through life by staying strong for yourself! I know that life isn't easy, but you can defeat life and I know that you are loved by so many others! I might not even met some of my Blogger Dreamers in person yet, but I know that you are having a tough time and that's okay because I'm here for you no matter what! I love you and I care about you so much! My tip of the day is please, don't give up because I'm here for my Blogger Dreamers, no matter what! Always keep trying, no matter what! I love y'all so much! Keep pushing through!

Hello, my Blogger Dreamers! Before I end this blog, I just want to remind everyone that there won't be new blogs next week! I will be giving myself a break but don't worry! On August 21st, I will be coming back with new blogs so stay tuned for that! I hope everyone enjoyed today's blog episode and the moral of this blog is don't give up! I know that you are battling through things that are hard but just know that you are loved and I care about each of my Blogger Dreamers so much! You can do it! I believe in my Blogger Dreamers, no matter what! For today's quote of the day, it goes like this: "Honestly I miss you, but I'll erase you 'cause it hurts less than to blame you". -Spring Day, BTS! I find this quote very relatable because you want to miss that person but you want to erase them from your memory! You don't want to blame them for something that they have done but they hurt you! Erase people who aren't there for you! I love y'all so much and until next time, "Dream Big! Don't give up on your dreams"! Have a happy Friday or in other countries, have a happy Saturday and I will see y'all on August 21st on my makeup and fashion blog page! I love y'all so much and this Blogger Queen is out! Peace! ☮✌💜

Today's quote of the day! These are lyrics to the song "Spring Day" by BTS! You want to erase people from your life and from your mind because they hurt you and they don't mean anything to you anymore!! 


My poem that I did on Tuesday, June 27th of this year! If you are battling through hard times, you are doing amazing and I am so proud of you!!


"I survived because
the fire inside me burned
brighter than the fire
around me".
-Joshua Graham! I love this quote so much because once you have the fire inside of you to keep going to keep fighting, it shows others that you don't give up and you will keep pushing through no matter what! 


"And in the end 
all I learned was how
to be STRONG alone".
-Unknown. I love this quote so much because when you thought you could trust people to stay by your side and they left you, it shows you that you could be strong on your own and you didn't give up!! 


To end today's blog episode, here is this week's song of the week! For this week's song of the week, I chose "This I believe(The Creed)" by Hillsong Worship! I love this song so much and it is one of my favorite Christian Worship song ever! It is so beautiful and I love it so much! Such a good song! 



Wednesday, August 9, 2023

What did my past taught me? by: Brandee Marie Darden!! Date: Wednesday, 8/9/23!!

                                             Blog topic: What did my past taught me? by: Brandee Marie Darden! Date: Wednesday, 8/9/23!! 

Intro to my blog!! 

Well, hello my Blogger Dreamers! It's your girl aka the Blogger Queen herself, Brandee here and welcome back to an all new weekly blog episode! How are y'all doing today? I hope everyone is doing okay and well! Whatever the circumstances might be, just know that y'all are loved and I'm here for y'all if y'all need anything! Happy Wednesday or in other countries, Happy Thursday!! Before I get into today's blog episode, here is a recap of Monday's blog! On Monday, I talked about believing in helping others! I am a strong believer in helping others but if you don't help me or be there for me when I need you the most, then I am not going to help you! If I help you and I was there for you when you need someone the most but when it was my turn for help and you weren't there for me, then I am not going to help you because you didn't help me at all! If y'all would love to check out this blog episode, please go check it out whenever y'all can! It's called "Believing in helping others" by: Brandee Marie Darden!! For today's blog episode, I will be talking about what did my past taught me? In this blog, I will be talking about if I could pick 3 things that taught me in my past, what 3 things taught me in my past? Why did those 3 things taught me in my past? What are the significance behind those 3 things? Why are those 3 things so significant to my past? If I have any advice to give to my Blogger Dreamers about moving on from the past, what is my advice? Why would I give that advice to my Blogger Dreamers? Now, let's get our blogging thinking cap and get this blog episode started! Shall we? We shall!! 

How would I describe my past? Why would I describe my past like that? 

How would I describe my past? I would describe my past as a ton of life lessons from past friendships, relationships, people loving me for who I am, and people who won't leave me! I had people leave me left and right! When I saw people walk in and out of my life, it's hard for me because I expect them to stay in my life and support me, no matter what but they don't care about supporting me or being there for me which is hard for me! Sometimes, you aren't going to have people who aren't going to love you for who you are and that's fine! I have people in my life who don't love at times because I love Kpop or they don't love me because I'm different from others and that's fine! I have came to accept that or people don't love me because I can't keep a conversation going but that's okay! Why would I describe my past like that? The reason why I would describe my past like that is because my life has been nothing but a learning experience and I have learned that people are going to come to my life or they are going to leave me when I need them the most and that's hard for me to accept at times but I have to learn to accept that! It is hard to watch someone who you thought you could trust but you obviously can't trust them which is hard!! Don't trust people easily!! 

3 things that taught me in my past!! 

If I could pick 3 things that taught me in my past, what 3 things taught me in my past? The 1st thing that taught me in my past was past relationships! Every relationship that I have been in has been different! With the relationship that I am in now, I am happy and I am loved! In my other relationships, I was never happy! I was happy at times but I feel like I am more happy than I have ever been!! The 2nd thing that taught me in my past was true people won't leave you! I realized throughout my entire life, people are going to leave you but the true people are going to stick by your side and I'm so blessed to have true people in my life who actually do care about me and believe in me when I didn't believe in myself! I had people leave me from left and right but the true people stood by my side and I'm blessed to have people who are very true to me and who do care about me! The 3rd and final thing that my past taught me was people loving you for who you are! I had some people in my family tease me for liking Kpop and it made me upset! When people tease you for what you like, don't let bother you! I had it bother me and I shouldn't have! You are going to have people in your life who will tease you for what you like or who you like, but that doesn't mean you have to accept it! You should love yourself for who you are because there is one you and that's it! If whatever you like makes you happy, continue to do it!! 

Why? 

Why did those things taught me in my past? The 1st thing that taught me in my past was past relationships and the reason why that was the first thing that taught me in my past is because when I was in my last relationship, I was never happy! I had happy moments but I was never happy because my ex-boyfriend never gave me the attention that I deserve but now, I am so happy in this relationship! My boyfriend makes me so happy and I'm so blessed to have someone who can make me happy! The 2nd thing that taught me in my past was true people won't leave you and the reason why that was the second thing that taught me in my past is because I had people walk in and out of my life and I had people stop talking to me and that hurt me for a while but I realized that there are true people who care about me and they are there whenever I need them the most and to me, that means a lot because when you have people who care about you, it makes you realize how much they mean to you and how much they care about you! The 3rd and final thing that taught me in my past was people loving you for who you are and the reason why that was the third and final thing that taught me in my past is because I had people who would tease me about liking Kpop or I struggled with loving myself because I didn't give myself the respect that I deserve! Not only I had people teasing me with liking Kpop and I felt like they didn't love that part of me but also, I was struggling loving myself and to me, that was hard to deal with because I feel like you should always love yourself but sometimes, people struggle with that and that's hard! 


The significance! 

What are the significance behind those 3 things? The significance behind the past relationships is I struggled to find someone who can make me happy but when I found happiness with my current boyfriend, I never thought I would be with someone who would make me so happy and basically laugh so hard! My past relationships taught me a lot and not only just my relationships, but also my friendships as well! I realized who are my real friends and who aren't my real friends! The significance behind true people won't leave you is there are people who won't leave you and will stay by your side until your last breath and I have a few of those people who have stayed by my side and I'm very blessed to have people who will be there for me and who would stay by my side, no matter what! I struggled with people entering and walking out of my life but I realized there are people who will be there for you and who won't be there for you and I realized that I'm better off without those people who don't need me in their life!!! The significance behind the people loving you for who you are is I struggled with loving myself for who I am and I had some people in my life who struggled with loving the Kpop side of me and that was hard for me and for me struggling that I couldn't love myself, that was hard on me but now, I do love myself for who I am and I'm happy that I can love myself for who I am!! 


Why so significant? 

Why are those 3 things so significant to my past? The reason why all of those things are so significant to my past is because I have struggled with relationships and friendships, I struggled with people not staying by my side, and I also had struggled with loving myself and I had people couldn't love the Kpop side of me which was hard! Each thing taught me a lesson and I am willing to turn those things into my life lessons because each thing you learning in your life is a life lesson and each of those things are a life lesson and I am okay with learning all over again! I'm happy with the people who have by my side! I'm happy with the relationship that I am  in and I am happy that I love myself and that I love Kpop music because that is who I am as a person and I don't care what anyone thinks of me!! This is who I am and God made me who I am and if you can't love me for who I am, then I don't need you in my life because if you can't accept me for who I am, then I don't need you anymore in my life! I don't need people who can't accept me for who I am!!

My advice! 

If I have any advice to give to my Blogger Dreamers about moving on from the past, what is my advice? To my Blogger Dreamers that are struggling to move on from the past, here is my advice to you: my advice is don't let the past put you down! Don't let the things in your past put you down because if you let those things put you down, it is going to make you sad and depressed and you don't need that in your life! You need to focus on one thing and that is the present! Always focus on the present because you might miss something and that won't be good! Don't dwell in the past and focus on the present!! 

Why? 

Why would I give that advice to my Blogger Dreamers? The reason why I would give that advice to my Blogger Dreamers is because when we dwell on the past, it can be struggle sometimes! When we think about what happened in the past, it makes us sad and it is not fair for any us to dwell on the past! If we focus on the past, we won't focus on what is in front of us and I think it is so important to focus on what is in front of us then worry about the past! I rather focus on what's going on in the past than worry about what happen in my past because I am not worry about my past me! The past me is gone and the present me is new and ready to conquer on the world! I have much better things to focus on than worry about other things!! That's just me!! 

In closing/ Tip of the day!! 

In closing, what my past taught me where my life lessons and I will gladly use those things as my life things than dwell on them! I am happy that I'm in a good relationship with an amazing guy who can make me laugh and smile!! I am happy to have people who loves me for who I am and will stay by my side, no matter what! I am very happy to love myself for who I am because I know that loving yourself isn't easy but the one thing that I know is God made me who I am and I am going to learn how to love myself no matter what! Turn your past into life lessons because it will make you stronger and you can grow from those life lessons! Here is my tip of the day! My tip of the day is don't let your past drag you down! Focus on what's good for you and don't worry about your past because your past is in the past and you need to focus on the present! I love y'all so much!! ❤


Well, hello my Blogger Dreamers!! It's your girl aka the Blogger Queen herself, Brandee here to remind everyone that y'all have reached the end of today's blog episode for today! I hope everyone enjoyed today's blog episode! Don't dwell on the past because it's not worth it! You have much more things to focus on in the present than what happened in the past! Don't let the past bother you because the present here and you should focus on the present! For today's quote of the day, it goes like this: "Of course, it would be nice to win. But, people don't always win, you know. That doesn't mean they didn't work hard". -Yun Hyeon-Jong. I love this quote so much because yes, people do work hard and they would love to win but at the end of the day, they worked hard and that's all that matters! Once you worked hard, it will pay off! I hope everyone will have a happy Wednesday or in other countries, a happy Thursday and until next time "Dream Big! Don't give up on your dreams" and I will see y'all on my next blog episode! I love y'all! Peace! ☮✌❤

Today's quote of the day! Such an amazing quote and a true quote at that!! 


"Stop cheating
on your future
with your past.
It's over".
-Unknown. I love this quote so much because don't worry about your past relationships and friendships! Focus on what you have in front of you and focus on the relationship that you are in because it can be gone within a spilt second!! 


"Notice the people
who make an effort
to stay in your".
-Unknown! I love this quote so much when you notice that people are making an effort to stay in your life, it shows you that they care about you and they will always care about you, no matter what! Focus on who is there for you!! 


"Take care
of the people you love,
but take even better care
of the people
that love you". 
-Unknown! I love this quote so much because when you love someone, you want to take care of them and when they care about you, you want to show them the same love that they are giving you! Take care of the ones who love you because your love can go along way!! 











 

Monday, August 7, 2023

Blog: Believing in helping others! By: Brandee Marie Darden! Date of blog: Monday, 8/7/23!!

                                              Blog: Believing in helping others! By: Brandee Marie Darden! Date of blog: Monday, 8/7/23!! 

 

Intro to my blog! 

Well, my Blogger Dreamers! We meet again on a new weekly blog episode! Happy New blog episode kind of a day! Happy Monday or in other countries, Happy Tuesday! How are y'all doing today? I hope everyone is doing okay and well! Whatever the circumstances might be, just know that y'all are never alone and y'all are loved by so many people including myself!! I am so happy to have y'all on a new blog episode! Before I get into this week's blog episodes, let's do a recap of last blog episodes!! On Monday, I talked about my favorite outfits overall! Picking my favorite outfits overall was challenging but I love the outfits that I picked out so much! Each outfit told a story and I love them so much! On Wednesday, I talked about my favorite outfit and makeup combo! With each makeup look with the outfit, I thought they were phenomenal and absolutely gorgeous! The makeup looks looked gorgeous and I love how the makeup look with the blue dress gave off old Hollywood vibes! I absolutely love it so much! On Friday, I talked about J-Hope's hair throughout the years! His hair has changed a lot! I remember when I first I got into BTS, I was thinking to myself "How can someone dye their hair so much" but they do what they have to do! His military haircut made me sad but he still look cute! If y'all haven't read these blogs and would love to check them out, you can read them on my makeup and fashion page which is "ilovemakeup17.blogspot.com". Now, for this week's blog episodes, I will be talking about believing in helping others, what did my past taught me, and analyzing my poem "Battling through hard times". Now, let's get our thinking brains on and get into our blog imagination and get this blog episode started! Shall we? We shall! 

Today's blog episode! Why did I choose to talk about today's blog episode? What is this week's song of the week? Why did I choose this week's song of the week? 

For today's blog episode, I will be talking about believing in helping others! In this blog, I will be talking about when it comes to helping others, how do I help others? Why do I help others like that? What is the significance of helping others? Why is there significance behind helping others? What is my advice about helping others? Why would I give that advice to my Blogger Dreamers? Why did I choose to talk about today's blog episode? The reason why I choose to talk about today's blog episode is because I believe we should always help others, no matter what! When you help others, it makes you realize that when you help that person, it brings a smile on their face and they thank you for helping you!! What is this week's song of the week? For this week's song of the week, I chose "This I Believe (The Creed)" by Hillsong Worship! I love this song so much! This song speaks to my soul every time I listen to it! It has a special meaning to it and I love listening to it when I am getting ready for church! Why did I choose this week's song of the week? The reason why I choose this song for the week is because I love this song so much and when I listen to it, I believe that God is always with me, no matter what!! 

What is the importance of helping people? Why is it important to help others? 

What is the importance of helping people? I think the importance of helping people is if that person or multiple people help you, it shows how much people do care about you and knows what is best for you! They want to make sure that you're doing okay and helping you through your hardest problems!! When people help you, they care about you! Why is it important to help others? The reason why it is important to help others is because when you see someone in need, you want to help them and pray with them! You want to be there for that person or people because they were there for you when they need you the most! Find people who you are there for you and you are there for them because that's what counts in life and you need people who will care about you and you care about them!! I can name a few people who are apart of my life who are there for me and I'm there for them!! It works both ways! It's not I'm always here for you but you are not there for me but instead, you are walking in and out of my life and I am going to deal with those type of people!

How do I help others? 

When it comes to helping others, how do I help others? There can be so many ways to help others but the way I help others is the 1st first way that I help others is when someone comes to me for advice, I try to help them the best way that I can by giving them the best advice that I can! When people come to me for advice, I try to help them the best way that I can! The 2nd way I help others is by being there for them! When people need my support, I will be there for them and support them the best way that I can! The 3rd and final way I help others is by praying for that person! If someone asks me to pray for them, I will pray for them because I don't want them to struggle and I want them to know that God cares about them and God loves them a lot! 


Why? 

Why do I help others like that? The 1st thing that I do when it comes to helping others is when someone comes to me for advice and the reason why I help others like that is because if someone comes to me for advice on anything, whether it will be fashion or makeup or anything like that, I want to help them the best way that I can and I want to give them best advice that I can! I think it is important to help people and give them the best advice that you can! The 2nd thing that I do when it comes to helping others is by being there for them and the reason why I help others like that is because if they don't have people supporting them, I will help them the best way that I can and be there for them by cheering them on because I feel like people need like that in their life and I want to help them the best way that I can! The 3rd and final way that I help others is by praying for that person and the reason why I help others like that is because I want them to know that I am here praying for them! Even though I don't know what they are struggling with, God knows and I will continue to pray for that person, no matter what because God loves you and cares about you so much! He sees you crying into your pillow! God will be there for you! I will always pray for my Blogger Dreamers, no matter what! 

The significance! 

What is the significance of helping others? I think the significance of helping others is that you want to make sure that they are okay and if they are struggling, you want to help them the best way that you can! I think for me, I want to make sure to be that person who they can lean on for support and they can be the same for me! It doesn't work one way! When you are there for that person, they are for you as well and I think helping others the best way for others to see if you are there for them, they are there for you as well! I always believed in my whole heart, that if that person is there for you through you good times but also ugly times, they won't give up on you! If a person is only there for you through your good times, then they are not a true person to hang around with and they never cared about you in the first place and you need someone who is there for you through the happiest times and the ugliest times, not the good times!! 

Why? 

Why is there significance behind helping others? The reason why there is significance behind helping others is because when people are there for you through your good days and bad days and they are there for you through your good days and bad days as well, it shows that they are good a person to be around and they will help you through anything! I don't believe in you should be there for them through their good days! I believe in being there for that person through the good and the ugly because if you are there for them, then they will do the same for you as well! I will have days where they are good and some where bad and I had people who will be there for me, no matter what! Always help others the way you want to be helped!! 

My advice! 

What is my advice about helping others? My advice about helping others is if that person is not helping you through your bad times but helping you through your good times, then you don't need that person in your life! When you help others, you help them through good times and bad times! People don't realize what you have done for them can go along way! When you are there for others, there are others as well who will drop anything to make sure that you are doing okay! Always be there for other people the way they are there for you because it will show them how much you love them and care about them!! Be there for one another, not you always being there for them and not receiving nothing from them! 


Why? 

Why would I give that advice to my Blogger Dreamers? The reason why I would give that advice to my Blogger Dreamers is because when you are there for others, you expect them to be there for you! Am I right? Right but when they are not there for you, it's hard because you would do anything to be there for them and to support them, no matter what! When you have people supporting you, it feels good to have that support system, no matter and I think it is very important to have those people who are there for you and you are there for them as well! For example, me and my boyfriend are constantly there for one another because I think in a relationship, I think we should always be there for our significant other and supporting them, no matter what! It is also the same for friends as well! If your friend is there for you, then you are there for them but if you are there for them but not for you, then that's not what a friend is! Don't be that person who is constantly supporting one other! Find people who will be there for you, no matter what!! 


In closing/ Tip of the day! 

In closing, I always believing in helping others no matter what!! What I don't believe in is when you are there for that person, but they are not there for you and that within itself is hard because when you are there for that person, you expect them to be your cheerleader and there for you but instead, they are not being a good friend or a significant other! When you help others, you want others to help you as well and I think that is very important because when you help them, you want someone to help you as well and for me, I am very blessed to have people who is constantly there for me when I need them the most and one of those people is my boyfriend! He makes me happy and I am so blessed that he will do anything to make sure that I'm okay and I always do the same thing as well! Here is my tip of the day! My tip of the day is find friends who will be there for you and help you through your good times and bad times because you want to share the good times and you want someone to help you through your bad times! Find people who truly care about you because that's important in life!! I love y'all!! 

Well, hello my Blogger Dreamers! Before I end this blog episode, I want to tell everyone that next week, I will be taking a little break but don't worry! I will be back on August 21st on my Makeup and Fashion blog page! So, stay tuned for that! I hope everyone enjoyed today's blog episode for today! Always help people the way you want to be helped because if you help that person, they will help you as well! I want my Blogger Dreamers to know I will be here for you, no matter what! You are loved here and I will pray for you, no matter what!! For today's quote of the day, it goes like this: "Don't measure me by your standards alone. I love being myself, I'm nobody else. I'm different". -ITZY! I love this quote so much because when you are expected to lower your standards someone who thinks your not "beautiful", that's just dumb! Be proud of who you are because you are an amazing person and there is only one you and love being yourself because you are amazing!! Don't forget it!! I love y'all from the bottom of my heart and until next time, "Dream Big! Don't give up on your dreams" and I hope everyone will have a good Monday or in other countries, a good Tuesday and I will see y'all on my Blog episode! I love y'all! Peace! ☮✌💜

Today's quote of the day! Such an amazing quote and you should never lower your standards for someone else! Always be proud of who you are because everyone is different and that's okay to be different!


"Helping Others
Is The Secret
Sauce To A Happy 
Life".
-Todd Stocker! I love this quote so much because when you help people and others help you, it shows how much y'all care about one other! Don't find people who want help you because that's not what you need in life!! 


"One of the most 
important things
you can do on this 
earth is to let
people know they 
are not alone"!
-Unknown! I can find this quote so relatable is because when you let people know that they are never alone, they are not alone in this world and you are there for them, no matter what! Always let people know that you are there for them no matter what!! 




"Sometimes we go through what we 
go through, to help others go 
through what we went through".
-Kathe Wunnenberg! I love this quote so much because what you have been through, you don't want that person to go through either and you want to help them the best way that you can!! 



For this week's song of the week, I choose "This I believe (The Creed)" by Hillsong Worship! I love this song so much! Every time I listen to this song, I think about the time where I got saved and gave my life to God and believed that Jesus died on the cross in Calvary! This song is such an amazing song and I love it! 



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