Blog: Believing in helping others! By: Brandee Marie Darden! Date of blog: Monday, 8/7/23!! 

 

Intro to my blog! 

Well, my Blogger Dreamers! We meet again on a new weekly blog episode! Happy New blog episode kind of a day! Happy Monday or in other countries, Happy Tuesday! How are y'all doing today? I hope everyone is doing okay and well! Whatever the circumstances might be, just know that y'all are never alone and y'all are loved by so many people including myself!! I am so happy to have y'all on a new blog episode! Before I get into this week's blog episodes, let's do a recap of last blog episodes!! On Monday, I talked about my favorite outfits overall! Picking my favorite outfits overall was challenging but I love the outfits that I picked out so much! Each outfit told a story and I love them so much! On Wednesday, I talked about my favorite outfit and makeup combo! With each makeup look with the outfit, I thought they were phenomenal and absolutely gorgeous! The makeup looks looked gorgeous and I love how the makeup look with the blue dress gave off old Hollywood vibes! I absolutely love it so much! On Friday, I talked about J-Hope's hair throughout the years! His hair has changed a lot! I remember when I first I got into BTS, I was thinking to myself "How can someone dye their hair so much" but they do what they have to do! His military haircut made me sad but he still look cute! If y'all haven't read these blogs and would love to check them out, you can read them on my makeup and fashion page which is "ilovemakeup17.blogspot.com". Now, for this week's blog episodes, I will be talking about believing in helping others, what did my past taught me, and analyzing my poem "Battling through hard times". Now, let's get our thinking brains on and get into our blog imagination and get this blog episode started! Shall we? We shall! 

Today's blog episode! Why did I choose to talk about today's blog episode? What is this week's song of the week? Why did I choose this week's song of the week? 

For today's blog episode, I will be talking about believing in helping others! In this blog, I will be talking about when it comes to helping others, how do I help others? Why do I help others like that? What is the significance of helping others? Why is there significance behind helping others? What is my advice about helping others? Why would I give that advice to my Blogger Dreamers? Why did I choose to talk about today's blog episode? The reason why I choose to talk about today's blog episode is because I believe we should always help others, no matter what! When you help others, it makes you realize that when you help that person, it brings a smile on their face and they thank you for helping you!! What is this week's song of the week? For this week's song of the week, I chose "This I Believe (The Creed)" by Hillsong Worship! I love this song so much! This song speaks to my soul every time I listen to it! It has a special meaning to it and I love listening to it when I am getting ready for church! Why did I choose this week's song of the week? The reason why I choose this song for the week is because I love this song so much and when I listen to it, I believe that God is always with me, no matter what!! 

What is the importance of helping people? Why is it important to help others? 

What is the importance of helping people? I think the importance of helping people is if that person or multiple people help you, it shows how much people do care about you and knows what is best for you! They want to make sure that you're doing okay and helping you through your hardest problems!! When people help you, they care about you! Why is it important to help others? The reason why it is important to help others is because when you see someone in need, you want to help them and pray with them! You want to be there for that person or people because they were there for you when they need you the most! Find people who you are there for you and you are there for them because that's what counts in life and you need people who will care about you and you care about them!! I can name a few people who are apart of my life who are there for me and I'm there for them!! It works both ways! It's not I'm always here for you but you are not there for me but instead, you are walking in and out of my life and I am going to deal with those type of people!

How do I help others? 

When it comes to helping others, how do I help others? There can be so many ways to help others but the way I help others is the 1st first way that I help others is when someone comes to me for advice, I try to help them the best way that I can by giving them the best advice that I can! When people come to me for advice, I try to help them the best way that I can! The 2nd way I help others is by being there for them! When people need my support, I will be there for them and support them the best way that I can! The 3rd and final way I help others is by praying for that person! If someone asks me to pray for them, I will pray for them because I don't want them to struggle and I want them to know that God cares about them and God loves them a lot! 

Why? 

Why do I help others like that? The 1st thing that I do when it comes to helping others is when someone comes to me for advice and the reason why I help others like that is because if someone comes to me for advice on anything, whether it will be fashion or makeup or anything like that, I want to help them the best way that I can and I want to give them best advice that I can! I think it is important to help people and give them the best advice that you can! The 2nd thing that I do when it comes to helping others is by being there for them and the reason why I help others like that is because if they don't have people supporting them, I will help them the best way that I can and be there for them by cheering them on because I feel like people need like that in their life and I want to help them the best way that I can! The 3rd and final way that I help others is by praying for that person and the reason why I help others like that is because I want them to know that I am here praying for them! Even though I don't know what they are struggling with, God knows and I will continue to pray for that person, no matter what because God loves you and cares about you so much! He sees you crying into your pillow! God will be there for you! I will always pray for my Blogger Dreamers, no matter what! 

The significance! 

What is the significance of helping others? I think the significance of helping others is that you want to make sure that they are okay and if they are struggling, you want to help them the best way that you can! I think for me, I want to make sure to be that person who they can lean on for support and they can be the same for me! It doesn't work one way! When you are there for that person, they are for you as well and I think helping others the best way for others to see if you are there for them, they are there for you as well! I always believed in my whole heart, that if that person is there for you through you good times but also ugly times, they won't give up on you! If a person is only there for you through your good times, then they are not a true person to hang around with and they never cared about you in the first place and you need someone who is there for you through the happiest times and the ugliest times, not the good times!! 

Why? 

Why is there significance behind helping others? The reason why there is significance behind helping others is because when people are there for you through your good days and bad days and they are there for you through your good days and bad days as well, it shows that they are good a person to be around and they will help you through anything! I don't believe in you should be there for them through their good days! I believe in being there for that person through the good and the ugly because if you are there for them, then they will do the same for you as well! I will have days where they are good and some where bad and I had people who will be there for me, no matter what! Always help others the way you want to be helped!! 

My advice! 

What is my advice about helping others? My advice about helping others is if that person is not helping you through your bad times but helping you through your good times, then you don't need that person in your life! When you help others, you help them through good times and bad times! People don't realize what you have done for them can go along way! When you are there for others, there are others as well who will drop anything to make sure that you are doing okay! Always be there for other people the way they are there for you because it will show them how much you love them and care about them!! Be there for one another, not you always being there for them and not receiving nothing from them! 

Why? 

Why would I give that advice to my Blogger Dreamers? The reason why I would give that advice to my Blogger Dreamers is because when you are there for others, you expect them to be there for you! Am I right? Right but when they are not there for you, it's hard because you would do anything to be there for them and to support them, no matter what! When you have people supporting you, it feels good to have that support system, no matter and I think it is very important to have those people who are there for you and you are there for them as well! For example, me and my boyfriend are constantly there for one another because I think in a relationship, I think we should always be there for our significant other and supporting them, no matter what! It is also the same for friends as well! If your friend is there for you, then you are there for them but if you are there for them but not for you, then that's not what a friend is! Don't be that person who is constantly supporting one other! Find people who will be there for you, no matter what!! 

In closing/ Tip of the day! 

In closing, I always believing in helping others no matter what!! What I don't believe in is when you are there for that person, but they are not there for you and that within itself is hard because when you are there for that person, you expect them to be your cheerleader and there for you but instead, they are not being a good friend or a significant other! When you help others, you want others to help you as well and I think that is very important because when you help them, you want someone to help you as well and for me, I am very blessed to have people who is constantly there for me when I need them the most and one of those people is my boyfriend! He makes me happy and I am so blessed that he will do anything to make sure that I'm okay and I always do the same thing as well! Here is my tip of the day! My tip of the day is find friends who will be there for you and help you through your good times and bad times because you want to share the good times and you want someone to help you through your bad times! Find people who truly care about you because that's important in life!! I love y'all!! 

Well, hello my Blogger Dreamers! Before I end this blog episode, I want to tell everyone that next week, I will be taking a little break but don't worry! I will be back on August 21st on my Makeup and Fashion blog page! So, stay tuned for that! I hope everyone enjoyed today's blog episode for today! Always help people the way you want to be helped because if you help that person, they will help you as well! I want my Blogger Dreamers to know I will be here for you, no matter what! You are loved here and I will pray for you, no matter what!! For today's quote of the day, it goes like this: "Don't measure me by your standards alone. I love being myself, I'm nobody else. I'm different". -ITZY! I love this quote so much because when you are expected to lower your standards someone who thinks your not "beautiful", that's just dumb! Be proud of who you are because you are an amazing person and there is only one you and love being yourself because you are amazing!! Don't forget it!! I love y'all from the bottom of my heart and until next time, "Dream Big! Don't give up on your dreams" and I hope everyone will have a good Monday or in other countries, a good Tuesday and I will see y'all on my Blog episode! I love y'all! Peace! ☮✌💜

Today's quote of the day! Such an amazing quote and you should never lower your standards for someone else! Always be proud of who you are because everyone is different and that's okay to be different!

"Helping Others
Is The Secret
Sauce To A Happy 
Life".
-Todd Stocker! I love this quote so much because when you help people and others help you, it shows how much y'all care about one other! Don't find people who want help you because that's not what you need in life!! 

"One of the most 
important things
you can do on this 
earth is to let
people know they 
are not alone"!
-Unknown! I can find this quote so relatable is because when you let people know that they are never alone, they are not alone in this world and you are there for them, no matter what! Always let people know that you are there for them no matter what!! 

"Sometimes we go through what we 
go through, to help others go 
through what we went through".
-Kathe Wunnenberg! I love this quote so much because what you have been through, you don't want that person to go through either and you want to help them the best way that you can!! 

For this week's song of the week, I choose "This I believe (The Creed)" by Hillsong Worship! I love this song so much! Every time I listen to this song, I think about the time where I got saved and gave my life to God and believed that Jesus died on the cross in Calvary! This song is such an amazing song and I love it!