What did my past taught me? by: Brandee Marie Darden!! Date: Wednesday, 8/9/23!!

                                             Blog topic: What did my past taught me? by: Brandee Marie Darden! Date: Wednesday, 8/9/23!! 

Intro to my blog!! 

Well, hello my Blogger Dreamers! It's your girl aka the Blogger Queen herself, Brandee here and welcome back to an all new weekly blog episode! How are y'all doing today? I hope everyone is doing okay and well! Whatever the circumstances might be, just know that y'all are loved and I'm here for y'all if y'all need anything! Happy Wednesday or in other countries, Happy Thursday!! Before I get into today's blog episode, here is a recap of Monday's blog! On Monday, I talked about believing in helping others! I am a strong believer in helping others but if you don't help me or be there for me when I need you the most, then I am not going to help you! If I help you and I was there for you when you need someone the most but when it was my turn for help and you weren't there for me, then I am not going to help you because you didn't help me at all! If y'all would love to check out this blog episode, please go check it out whenever y'all can! It's called "Believing in helping others" by: Brandee Marie Darden!! For today's blog episode, I will be talking about what did my past taught me? In this blog, I will be talking about if I could pick 3 things that taught me in my past, what 3 things taught me in my past? Why did those 3 things taught me in my past? What are the significance behind those 3 things? Why are those 3 things so significant to my past? If I have any advice to give to my Blogger Dreamers about moving on from the past, what is my advice? Why would I give that advice to my Blogger Dreamers? Now, let's get our blogging thinking cap and get this blog episode started! Shall we? We shall!! 

How would I describe my past? Why would I describe my past like that? 

How would I describe my past? I would describe my past as a ton of life lessons from past friendships, relationships, people loving me for who I am, and people who won't leave me! I had people leave me left and right! When I saw people walk in and out of my life, it's hard for me because I expect them to stay in my life and support me, no matter what but they don't care about supporting me or being there for me which is hard for me! Sometimes, you aren't going to have people who aren't going to love you for who you are and that's fine! I have people in my life who don't love at times because I love Kpop or they don't love me because I'm different from others and that's fine! I have came to accept that or people don't love me because I can't keep a conversation going but that's okay! Why would I describe my past like that? The reason why I would describe my past like that is because my life has been nothing but a learning experience and I have learned that people are going to come to my life or they are going to leave me when I need them the most and that's hard for me to accept at times but I have to learn to accept that! It is hard to watch someone who you thought you could trust but you obviously can't trust them which is hard!! Don't trust people easily!! 

3 things that taught me in my past!! 

If I could pick 3 things that taught me in my past, what 3 things taught me in my past? The 1st thing that taught me in my past was past relationships! Every relationship that I have been in has been different! With the relationship that I am in now, I am happy and I am loved! In my other relationships, I was never happy! I was happy at times but I feel like I am more happy than I have ever been!! The 2nd thing that taught me in my past was true people won't leave you! I realized throughout my entire life, people are going to leave you but the true people are going to stick by your side and I'm so blessed to have true people in my life who actually do care about me and believe in me when I didn't believe in myself! I had people leave me from left and right but the true people stood by my side and I'm blessed to have people who are very true to me and who do care about me! The 3rd and final thing that my past taught me was people loving you for who you are! I had some people in my family tease me for liking Kpop and it made me upset! When people tease you for what you like, don't let bother you! I had it bother me and I shouldn't have! You are going to have people in your life who will tease you for what you like or who you like, but that doesn't mean you have to accept it! You should love yourself for who you are because there is one you and that's it! If whatever you like makes you happy, continue to do it!! 

Why? 

Why did those things taught me in my past? The 1st thing that taught me in my past was past relationships and the reason why that was the first thing that taught me in my past is because when I was in my last relationship, I was never happy! I had happy moments but I was never happy because my ex-boyfriend never gave me the attention that I deserve but now, I am so happy in this relationship! My boyfriend makes me so happy and I'm so blessed to have someone who can make me happy! The 2nd thing that taught me in my past was true people won't leave you and the reason why that was the second thing that taught me in my past is because I had people walk in and out of my life and I had people stop talking to me and that hurt me for a while but I realized that there are true people who care about me and they are there whenever I need them the most and to me, that means a lot because when you have people who care about you, it makes you realize how much they mean to you and how much they care about you! The 3rd and final thing that taught me in my past was people loving you for who you are and the reason why that was the third and final thing that taught me in my past is because I had people who would tease me about liking Kpop or I struggled with loving myself because I didn't give myself the respect that I deserve! Not only I had people teasing me with liking Kpop and I felt like they didn't love that part of me but also, I was struggling loving myself and to me, that was hard to deal with because I feel like you should always love yourself but sometimes, people struggle with that and that's hard! 

The significance! 

What are the significance behind those 3 things? The significance behind the past relationships is I struggled to find someone who can make me happy but when I found happiness with my current boyfriend, I never thought I would be with someone who would make me so happy and basically laugh so hard! My past relationships taught me a lot and not only just my relationships, but also my friendships as well! I realized who are my real friends and who aren't my real friends! The significance behind true people won't leave you is there are people who won't leave you and will stay by your side until your last breath and I have a few of those people who have stayed by my side and I'm very blessed to have people who will be there for me and who would stay by my side, no matter what! I struggled with people entering and walking out of my life but I realized there are people who will be there for you and who won't be there for you and I realized that I'm better off without those people who don't need me in their life!!! The significance behind the people loving you for who you are is I struggled with loving myself for who I am and I had some people in my life who struggled with loving the Kpop side of me and that was hard for me and for me struggling that I couldn't love myself, that was hard on me but now, I do love myself for who I am and I'm happy that I can love myself for who I am!! 

Why so significant? 

Why are those 3 things so significant to my past? The reason why all of those things are so significant to my past is because I have struggled with relationships and friendships, I struggled with people not staying by my side, and I also had struggled with loving myself and I had people couldn't love the Kpop side of me which was hard! Each thing taught me a lesson and I am willing to turn those things into my life lessons because each thing you learning in your life is a life lesson and each of those things are a life lesson and I am okay with learning all over again! I'm happy with the people who have by my side! I'm happy with the relationship that I am  in and I am happy that I love myself and that I love Kpop music because that is who I am as a person and I don't care what anyone thinks of me!! This is who I am and God made me who I am and if you can't love me for who I am, then I don't need you in my life because if you can't accept me for who I am, then I don't need you anymore in my life! I don't need people who can't accept me for who I am!!

My advice! 

If I have any advice to give to my Blogger Dreamers about moving on from the past, what is my advice? To my Blogger Dreamers that are struggling to move on from the past, here is my advice to you: my advice is don't let the past put you down! Don't let the things in your past put you down because if you let those things put you down, it is going to make you sad and depressed and you don't need that in your life! You need to focus on one thing and that is the present! Always focus on the present because you might miss something and that won't be good! Don't dwell in the past and focus on the present!! 

Why? 

Why would I give that advice to my Blogger Dreamers? The reason why I would give that advice to my Blogger Dreamers is because when we dwell on the past, it can be struggle sometimes! When we think about what happened in the past, it makes us sad and it is not fair for any us to dwell on the past! If we focus on the past, we won't focus on what is in front of us and I think it is so important to focus on what is in front of us then worry about the past! I rather focus on what's going on in the past than worry about what happen in my past because I am not worry about my past me! The past me is gone and the present me is new and ready to conquer on the world! I have much better things to focus on than worry about other things!! That's just me!! 

In closing/ Tip of the day!! 

In closing, what my past taught me where my life lessons and I will gladly use those things as my life things than dwell on them! I am happy that I'm in a good relationship with an amazing guy who can make me laugh and smile!! I am happy to have people who loves me for who I am and will stay by my side, no matter what! I am very happy to love myself for who I am because I know that loving yourself isn't easy but the one thing that I know is God made me who I am and I am going to learn how to love myself no matter what! Turn your past into life lessons because it will make you stronger and you can grow from those life lessons! Here is my tip of the day! My tip of the day is don't let your past drag you down! Focus on what's good for you and don't worry about your past because your past is in the past and you need to focus on the present! I love y'all so much!! ❤

Well, hello my Blogger Dreamers!! It's your girl aka the Blogger Queen herself, Brandee here to remind everyone that y'all have reached the end of today's blog episode for today! I hope everyone enjoyed today's blog episode! Don't dwell on the past because it's not worth it! You have much more things to focus on in the present than what happened in the past! Don't let the past bother you because the present here and you should focus on the present! For today's quote of the day, it goes like this: "Of course, it would be nice to win. But, people don't always win, you know. That doesn't mean they didn't work hard". -Yun Hyeon-Jong. I love this quote so much because yes, people do work hard and they would love to win but at the end of the day, they worked hard and that's all that matters! Once you worked hard, it will pay off! I hope everyone will have a happy Wednesday or in other countries, a happy Thursday and until next time "Dream Big! Don't give up on your dreams" and I will see y'all on my next blog episode! I love y'all! Peace! ☮✌❤

Today's quote of the day! Such an amazing quote and a true quote at that!! 

"Stop cheating
on your future
with your past.
It's over".
-Unknown. I love this quote so much because don't worry about your past relationships and friendships! Focus on what you have in front of you and focus on the relationship that you are in because it can be gone within a spilt second!! 

"Notice the people
who make an effort
to stay in your".
-Unknown! I love this quote so much when you notice that people are making an effort to stay in your life, it shows you that they care about you and they will always care about you, no matter what! Focus on who is there for you!! 

"Take care
of the people you love,
but take even better care
of the people
that love you". 
-Unknown! I love this quote so much because when you love someone, you want to take care of them and when they care about you, you want to show them the same love that they are giving you! Take care of the ones who love you because your love can go along way!!