Blog: Analyzing my poem "Battling through hard times" by: Brandee Marie Darden!! Friday, 8/11/23!!
Blog: Analyzing my poem "Battling through hard times" by: Brandee Marie Darden!! Date of blog: Friday, 8/11/23!! 
Intro to my blog!!
Well, hello my Blogger Dreamers! It's your girl aka the Blogger Queen herself, Brandee here and welcome back to an all new weekly blog episode! Happy Friday or in other countries, Happy Saturday! I am so glad to have y'all back on a new weekly blog episode! How are y'all doing today? I hope and pray that everyone is doing okay and well! Whatever the circumstances might be, just know that y'all are not alone and that I'm always here for y'all if y'all need anything! Before I get into today's blog episode, let's do a recap of Wednesday's blog episode! On Wednesday, I talked about what my past taught me? Your past is a life lesson! It will throw you a bunch of curve balls and all you can do is try and get through them! What my past taught me was past relationships! Not every relationship that I have been in will never be the same! Each relationship will be different! If y'all haven't read that blog episode and would love to go and check it out, the blog episode is called "What did my past taught me"? Now, for today's blog episode, I will be analyzing my poem "Battling through hard times". In this blog episode, I will be talking about when I writing this poem, what was going through my head? Why was those things going through my mind? What 3 things cause me to battle with myself? Why did those 3 things cause me to battle with myself? If I have any advice about battling through hard times, what is my advice? Why would I give that advice to my Blogger Dreamers? Now, let's get on our thinking caps and get this blog episode started! Shall we? We shall!!
Talking about my poem! How can I relate this poem to my life? Why can I relate to this poem in my life?
On Tuesday, June 27th of this year, I wrote a poem called "Battling through hard times" and here how it goes: "Battling through hard times" by Brandee Marie Darden!
"Battling through hard times
can be a difficult
challenge at times!
You expect people
to be there for you
but it's hard because
you feel like you have
no one but one or two
people but that's okay!
When you have one or
two people there for you,
that's important! If you
battling through hard
times by yourself, I
have your back! You
are loved! Don't give
up"!
-Love,
Brandee Marie Darden!
Date that it was written on: Tuesday, 6-27-23! How can I relate this poem to my life? I can relate to this poem to my life by going through battles by myself at times! There has been times where I was there for someone but then, I didn't have anyone but one or two people at my side but I was okay with that because I wasn't going to waste my time on people who didn't care about me! Why can I relate to this poem in my life? The reason why I can relate to this poem in my life because when someone needed me, I would push my feelings aside and help someone else but when it was my turn, I felt like I didn't have no one and that was hard for me! I would cry into my pillow and pray that someone would help me but God has helped me and I'm blessed that God has helped me through my battles!!
What is this poem about? Why did I write this poem about?
What is this poem about? This poem is all about battling through hard times! When you go through hard times, it is to say "I quit! I'm done"!! In reality, you can't give up or quit because if you do, you are basically quitting on yourself and you can't do that! You're not alone! I'm here for my Blogger Dreamers if they need anything!! Why did I write this poem about? The reason why I wrote my poem about battling through hard times is because when you battle through hard times, you are trying to get through the hard times and those hard times can be a challenge at times but I believe in my Blogger Dreamers with all my heart and soul!!
The thoughts going through my head!!
When I was writing this poem, what was going through my head? When I was writing this poem, the thoughts that were going through my head were really flashbacks when I was going through a difficult time in my life and there have been times where I wanted to give up on life itself but I didn't! I have went through most of my life battling through my own battles by myself and to me, that's difficult because I feel like I had people there for me but in my head, I feel like I had no one beside me and that was hard for me! I feel like no one should never battle through hard times by themselves and sometimes, you really don't know what is going on until that someone tells you what is going on and sometimes, I cry at night because I feel like I have no one but I do but at the same time, I don't and to me, my emotions will play with me and I wish my emotions never played with me!!
Why?
Why was those things going through my mind? The reason why those things were going through my mind is because I remember feeling like I have no one but at the same time, I did have people by my side and I had challenges where life was testing me but I had some people by my side and I am blessed to have those people by my side! When you are going through something difficult and challenging, just remember you have people beside you and that they are never going to give up on you!! You don't have to go through anything alone because God is beside you and there are people who you love you so much and care about you so much!! Don't quit!
3 things cause me to battle with myself!
What 3 things cause me to battle with myself? The 1st thing that cause me to battle with myself is my thoughts! I would have these thoughts about myself and that's hard for me! When you have these negative thoughts about yourself, it can be hard at times because you feel like you are trying to get rid of these "negative thoughts" about yourself but it is hard! The 2nd thing that I battle with myself is feeling like I am never good enough! Every day, I feel like I am never good enough and for me, that's hard! I feel like in my heart, I'm good enough but in my head, I'm never good enough! The 3rd and final thing that I battle with myself is thinking that I need to please others! In the back of my head, I feel like I need to please others but I don't need to please others!! I feel like I need to please God and myself! That's it! I don't need to please other people because they aren't worth pleasing and I need to make myself happy!!! I don't need to worry about others happiness but my own happiness!!
Why?
Why did those 3 things cause me to battle with myself? The 1st thing that cause me to battle myself and that is the thoughts and the reason why that thing cause me to battle myself is because when you have negative thoughts about yourself, it can drain you so much and it can cause your mental health to go down and that can be really hard at times! Don't let those negative thoughts to bring you down! The 2nd thing that cause me to battle myself and that is the feeling like I am never good enough and the reason why that thing cause me to battle myself is because there times where I feel like I am not doing a good job or I feel like I am not good enough friend or sister or even a girlfriend and I know that I am but in the back of my mind, I'm not and that's hard on me! I want to be "good enough" for people but I need to be good enough for myself and not for anyone else! The 3rd thing that cause me to battle myself and that is thinking that I need to please others and the reason why that thing cause me to battle myself is because in the back of my mind, I feel like I need to please others by doing a good job or I need to show them how hard I am working through my blogs or even my book! I feel like I don't need to please others because I am only pleasing them by making them happy, not making myself happy! I only to please God and myself, that's it! I don't need to show people how hard I am working on my blogs or my book! If people can't see how hard I am working through my blogs, that's their loss! Not mine because I already know how hard I am working!! It shows through my passion and my feelings!!
My advice! Why?
If I have any advice about battling through hard times, what is my advice? To my Blogger Dreamers who are battling through hard times right now, my advice for you is please, don't give up! I know that things seem hard right now, but believe me, you got this! I believe in you! People might not see how hard you are working or they are not seeing how hard you are trying, but I see it! I see you trying your hardest! Don't give up because you got this! I love you for who you are and I am supporting you, no matter what! I will continue to support you, no matter what! You are doing amazing and I'm so proud of you! Keep doing what you love to do! Don't quit! Why would I give that advice to my Blogger Dreamers? The reason why I would give that advice is because my Blogger Dreamers deserves to be validated and they deserve to have someone say "I'm proud of you". I wish I had people say to me "I'm proud of you"! I have certain friends and my boyfriend tell me they are proud of me but I don't hear from my family tell me how proud of me and it breaks my heart because I am working my butt off and I feel like my family isn't proud of me and to me, that's hard!!
In closing/ Tip of the day!!
In closing, I can see how hard you are struggling and I know you are battling through hard times, but I believe in my Blogger Dreamers, no matter what! I know that you are trying to please others but don't do that! Please, show yourself that you can do it and show yourself that you are trying to get through life by staying strong for yourself! I know that life isn't easy, but you can defeat life and I know that you are loved by so many others! I might not even met some of my Blogger Dreamers in person yet, but I know that you are having a tough time and that's okay because I'm here for you no matter what! I love you and I care about you so much! My tip of the day is please, don't give up because I'm here for my Blogger Dreamers, no matter what! Always keep trying, no matter what! I love y'all so much! Keep pushing through!
Hello, my Blogger Dreamers! Before I end this blog, I just want to remind everyone that there won't be new blogs next week! I will be giving myself a break but don't worry! On August 21st, I will be coming back with new blogs so stay tuned for that! I hope everyone enjoyed today's blog episode and the moral of this blog is don't give up! I know that you are battling through things that are hard but just know that you are loved and I care about each of my Blogger Dreamers so much! You can do it! I believe in my Blogger Dreamers, no matter what! For today's quote of the day, it goes like this: "Honestly I miss you, but I'll erase you 'cause it hurts less than to blame you". -Spring Day, BTS! I find this quote very relatable because you want to miss that person but you want to erase them from your memory! You don't want to blame them for something that they have done but they hurt you! Erase people who aren't there for you! I love y'all so much and until next time, "Dream Big! Don't give up on your dreams"! Have a happy Friday or in other countries, have a happy Saturday and I will see y'all on August 21st on my makeup and fashion blog page! I love y'all so much and this Blogger Queen is out! Peace! ☮✌💜
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Today's quote of the day! These are lyrics to the song "Spring Day" by BTS! You want to erase people from your life and from your mind because they hurt you and they don't mean anything to you anymore!!   the fire inside me burned brighter than the fire around me". -Joshua Graham! I love this quote so much because once you have the fire inside of you to keep going to keep fighting, it shows others that you don't give up and you will keep pushing through no matter what!  all I learned was how to be STRONG alone". -Unknown. I love this quote so much because when you thought you could trust people to stay by your side and they left you, it shows you that you could be strong on your own and you didn't give up!! To end today's blog episode, here is this week's song of the week! For this week's song of the week, I chose "This I believe(The Creed)" by Hillsong Worship! I love this song so much and it is one of my favorite Christian Worship song ever! It is so beautiful and I love it so much! Such a good song! |
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