Talking about helping others! Couples edition! blog by: Brandee Marie Darden! Monday, 9/4/23!!
Talking about helping others! Couples edition! blog by: Brandee Marie Darden! Monday, 9/4/23!! 
Intro to my blog!!
Well, hello my Blogger Dreamers! It's your girl aka the Blogger Queen herself, Brandee here and welcome back to an all new weekly blog episode! Happy Monday or in other countries, Happy Tuesday! I hope everyone is doing okay and well! Whatever the circumstances might be, just know that you're not alone in whatever you are going through and I'm always here for you, no matter what!! I hope everyone had an amazing weekend and I hope y'all are ready to get this week started! Before I talk about this week's blogs, here is a little recap of last week's blog episodes! On Monday, I talked the words "blending in". I don't believe in blending in because then, you are acting like everyone else but if you stand out, it shows other people that being yourself is okay! Always be yourself, no matter what! On Wednesday, I talked about my main reasons why I want to inspire others? I have so many reasons on why I want to inspire others but the main reason why I want to inspire others is to connect to the reader in any way that I can! If someone can connect to my story, then I am doing my job correctly and I'm proud of myself for that! On Friday, I did a birthday tribute for Jeon Jungkook because Friday was his birthday here in America! I feel like me and Jungkook are so similar in so many ways! For example, he loves and cares about the people who he is around! I love that about him and I love how he cares about his bandmates and with me, I care about the people who care about me! If y'all haven't read these blogs and would love to, they are under "brandeelovestoblog21.blogspot.com". Please, go check them out whenever y'all can! Please! Thank you so much!! For this week's blog episodes, I will be talking about helping others, couples edition, me and Aaron's friendship anniversary, and analyzing my poem "You are loved". Now, let's get out blogging thinking on and get this blog episode started! Shall we? We shall!!
Talking about today's blog episode! Why did I choose to talk about this blog topic for today? What is this week's song of the week? Why did I choose this song of the week?
For today's blog episode, I chose to talk about helping others! Couples edition! In this blog episode, I will be talking about when it comes to helping your significant other out, what comes to mind? Why does those things come to mind? What are ways to help your significant other either encourage or believe in themselves? Why are those ways to encourage or believe for your significant other? What are ways that I encourage or help my boyfriend in believing in himself? Why are those ways to help or encourage my boyfriend? To my Blogger Dreamers who are in a relationship, what is my advice about encouraging one another? Why would I give that advice? Why would I choose to talk about this blog topic for today? The reason why I choose to talk about to talk about this topic is because I do believe in helping your partner in whatever they are going through and I do believe in supporting me and helping them out in anyway that you can!! What is this week's song of the week? For this week's song of the week, I chose "Jamais Vu" by BTS! I love this song so much and I love the softness of the song! Why did I choose this song of the week? I chose this song for the week because I love the softness of the song and with Jin and Jungkook being the vocalist and J-Hope being the rapper, I think it fits with the song which I love a lot!!
What is the significance of helping your partner? Why is there significance behind helping your partner?
What is the significance of helping your partner? The significance behind helping your partner with whatever they are going through or supporting them through anything and I think the significance behind that is to show them that you do support in whatever they do and that you will be there for them, no matter what! If you show them how much you care about them and how much you love them, it will show them that you do love them and vice versa!! Why is there significance behind helping your partner? The reason why there significance behind helping your partner is because when you show your partner how much you care about them or you show them that you will support them in any way, it shows them that "my partner does care and love me" and they can show you the same thing but if they don't show you the same thing, then they are not the right person for you!
What comes to mind when it comes to helping your partner out?
When it comes to helping your significant other out, what comes to mind? The 1st thing that comes to mind when it comes to helping your significant other out is if they need any encouragement! If your partner is being hard on themselves, remind them how good they are and remind them how good of a boyfriend, girlfriend, husband, or wife they are being because your encouragement can go along way! The 2nd thing that comes to mind when it comes to helping your partner out is just being there for them and listening to them! If they are having a hard time, just listen to them and be there for them! When us ladies are crying, we expect the men to comfort us and be there for us and vice versa! The 3rd and final thing that comes to mind when it comes to helping your partner out is cheer your partner on! Always cheer your partner on, no what it is; always cheer your partner on! When you cheer your partner on, it is showing them that you are cheering them on and you are showing them that you support them, no matter what!! Cheer your partner on!!
Why?
Why does those things come to mind? The reason why the 1st thing comes to mind is because when you are encouraging your partner, it shows them that they can do it and it shows them that they can be a good boyfriend or girlfriend or if you are married, husband or wife!! The reason why the 2nd thing comes to mind is because when you listen to your boyfriend or girlfriend and they tell what kind of day they had and men, if you see your lady crying, comfort her because we need comfort but ladies, if you see your man cry, comfort them as well because men can have bad days too and they can cry as well! When you listen to your partner, it helps them know that they are is someone who wants to listen to them and who is supporting me no matter what! Always communicate with your partner because communication can go along way and communication is key! The reason why the 3rd and final thing comes to mind is because when you are cheering on your partner, it shows them that they can do it and that no matter how hard it gets in life, just let your partner know that they can do it and they should never give up! Always cheer partner on, no matter what!!
Ways to help your significant other!
What are ways to help your significant other to either encourage or believe in themselves?? The 1st way to help your significant other to either encourage or believe in themselves is tell them affirmations to help them get through the day! When you or your partner go through your day and you are having a hard day, your significant other wrote you a note saying "you got this! I believe in you", it will help you get through the day! When I was going to Gospel Singers of America, my boyfriend will text me "You got this in the bag! I believe in you" and for me, it always encouraged me to get through the day! The 2nd thing that could help your partner to either encourage or believe in themselves when they fall, help them back up! When they are at the brinks of giving up and you are seeing them fall, help them back up! Remind them that they are doing such an amazing job and that you are supporting them no matter what! The 3rd and final way to help your other half to either encourage or believe in themselves is be there for each other, no matter what! In a relationship, the best way in my opinion to encourage or believe in one another is to be there for each other! I always believe to always support your partner through thick and thin! Always be there to encourage one another and always support your other half, no matter what!!
Why?
Why are those ways to encourage or believe for your significant other? The 1st reason why that is one of the ways to encourage or believe for your significant other is because your affirmations or even text messages can go along way and if you show them that you believe in them, then they can believe in themselves as well! The 2nd reason why that is one of the ways to encourage or believe for your significant other is because when you see your partner so close to giving up, but you remind them that "you got this! I believe in you", it will show them that they will keep going and don't give up no matter what!! The 3rd and final reason why that is one of the ways to encourage or believe for your significant other is because in my opinion, being there for your partner and showing them that you believe in them and supporting them through everything that they are doing is the best thing for them and you being there at their side telling them "you got this", it can go along way and it can show them that you are being the best boyfriend or girlfriend for your partner!!
Ways that I encourage or help my boyfriend in believing in himself!
What are ways that I encourage or help my boyfriend in believing in himself? The 1st way that I encourage or help my boyfriend in believing in himself is by telling him that he can do it! Whatever he does whether it is doing a special at his church or even his daily devotions, I always tell him "you can do it! I believe in you, no matter what". For me, when I say that to him, I want him to know that I believe in him, no matter what! The 2nd way that I encourage or help my boyfriend in believing in himself is I'm always here supporting you no matter what! I believe in that if you are in a relationship, you should always support your partner, no matter what and for me, I will always be here for my boyfriend and help him to encourage him and believe in him, no matter what! I want to help my boyfriend, no matter what! The 3rd and final way that I encourage or help my boyfriend in believing in himself is just listen to him! I want to hear his frustrations or whatever it is going on in his life, I want to help in anyway that I can that way I can encourage him or tell him that I believe in him! No matter what he is going through, I want him to know that I do support him and that I love him, no matter what!! My goal as a girlfriend is to make sure that my boyfriend is happy because I want to see my boyfriend happy!!
Why??
Why are those ways to help or encourage my boyfriend? The 1st reason why I want to help believing in him or encouraging him is because I want my boyfriend to know that he can do it and if it doesn't help people, then it's okay! He tried his best and that's all that matters to me! The 2nd reason why I want to help believing in him or encouraging him is because I believe in supporting my partner and I want to continue to support my boyfriend in whatever he does because if I show my support in whatever he does, then he will show support in whatever I do!! The 3rd and final reason why I want to help believing in him or encouraging him is because I think it is important to listen to your partner when they are frustrated with certain things or whatever they are going through and for me, I want to help my boyfriend in whatever he needs help with anything! I want my boyfriend to be happy and I want him to be happy! I don't want him to be unhappy because if he is unhappy, then I am unhappy and I need to fix it! I care about my boyfriend more than anything and I want him to know whatever he is going through, I want him to know that I am here for him, no matter what!!
My advice/ Why?
To my Blogger Dreamers who are in a relationship, what is my advice about encouraging one another? My advice to my Blogger Dreamers who are in a relationship and you want to encourage your partner, here is my advice: my advice is be there for your partner and support them, no matter what! When your life partner is going through something really hard and they are close to giving up, remind them that they are doing great and no matter what they do, they are a phenomenal job! They got this and don't quit! Just remind them those things and encourage them because your encouragement can go along way! Why would I give that advice? The reason why I would give that advice is because when you encourage your partner or even your friends or even someone on the street, your encouragement can go along way and it can show that person how much you care about them and it shows them that all you want is the best for them and that is important to them!!! Showing that person how much you care about them, it shows them that you believe in them and that's good!! Always tell your partner or even someone in your family that you will always believe in them and that they can do it!!
In closing/ tip of the day!!
In closing, show your life partner some support in whatever they do because if they don't feel that you are supporting them in whatever they like or even their career, it shows them in their eyes that you never supported them in the beginning and that is very sad! When it comes to relationships, I believe in supporting in one another and encouraging your partner whatever they do in life and for me and my boyfriend, we both encourage each other everyday and I feel like that will always be important to me! Here is my tip of the day! My tip of the day is always support your partner in whatever they do because if you show them that you support and they are willing to help you whatever you are going through, it shows you that they are important to you and they will always be important to you! Help encourage love one because your encouragement can go along way! I love y'all!!
Well, hello my Blogger Dreamers! It's your girl aka the Blogger Queen herself, Brandee here to remind everyone that y'all have reached the end of today's blog episode for the day! I hope everyone enjoyed today's blog episode and the moral of the story is always support your significant other, no matter what because showing your partner that you support them will mean a lot to them and it will show them that you love them and that you care about them! It is showing you that they are protecting you the best way that they can and it shows you that you are loved by them! For today's quote of the day, it goes like this: "It's harder to see your family suffer or be sad than to go through your own pain". -Choi Joon Woong! I love this quote a lot because when you see anyone in your family or even your friends or your partner, your heart is broken and you want them to be okay and not hurting! I rather see myself in pain and suffer than seeing the people who I care about hurting and suffering! I don't want them suffering or hurting! I hope everyone will have a good day or had a good day! Until next time "Dream Big! Don't give up on your dreams"! Have a happy Monday or in other countries, a happy Tuesday and this blogger queen is out! Peace! ☮✌💙
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Today's quote of the day! Such a good quote and it's true! I rather watch myself go through pain and suffer than watch the people who I love hurt and suffer!!  Relationship is when you can act like lovers and best friends at the same time". -The Wisdom Eye! I love this quote so much because when you love someone a lot and there are for you as a best friend and with, I feel like I have a lover and a best friend which is a blessing!!  choosing to love each other even those moments when you struggle to like each other". -Unknown! I love this quote a lot because when you are going through a lot, I feel like your partner should help you and be there for you for no matter what and support you no matter what!!  should be about helping each other deal with the stress the world brings. Not adding unnecessary stress to each others lives". -Unknown! I find this quote so relatable because with world on the your shoulders, that causes much stress as it is but when you and your partner arguing, then that adds more stress and y'all need to resolve that help each other get through whatever y'all are going through!! Don't stress each other out!! |
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